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Drink this every morning and Evening: 250g 40% curd, Scoop of peanut butter, Scoop Protein powder, Scoops of oats, 100-300ml whole milk for consistency. Just chugg it. Got me over my weight plateau and I started to gain weight again. Try to keep ur regular eating. Even if you feel not hungry. I think one shake has ~750 calories.
/r/askTRP08/04/19 06:11 PM
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To be more specific. At some point you will be able to not get interfered by the opinion of others. I got to that point by practicing the mindset over and over again. My mantra is: Everyone should make their own opinion the most important thing for themselves.(Including you) Everyone elses opinion is less important. Because Noone will ever give more fucks about your own opinion than yourself. That's why you have to held it high. However, at the same time. Everyone should know that their own opin…
/r/askTRP18/03/19 05:09 PM
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I was able to build a similar mindset which I was able to maintain for around 4 weeks and I made my first cold approach of my life at the mid of the day. It wasn't even goin bad. (She blushes, got a big smile, said shes sorry but got a boyfriend but wishes me a great at day. Ithink I made her day at that moment.) However around the same time I got rejected at a club, suddenly ghosted by the girl I was dating, a rejection at job and bad feedback about my performance at my hobby. These altogether …
/r/seduction18/03/19 02:30 PM
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My mistake has been all my life: I started with a question and/or asked too much. Dont do that. Start my telling something about urself. My fucked up mind told my all my life that would be selfish, ignorant and egoistic. FUCK THAT! It's bullshit. Tell sth you did. Just say where u were on vacation last time. What did you enjoy most last week. See what happens.
/r/seduction11/03/19 02:37 PM
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Don't try to change who you are too much. Not every girl likes an overenthusiastic clown. If you wanna be more fun that's cool but stay authentic. Don't be ashamed to say what you genuinely think. Express your opinion. If you like her dress. Say it. If you Wann do xy, say it. If you don't like xy say it. Don't be ashamed about anything at all. Head up and stay true to yourself. If you can keep that up you are able to pull her into your reality. That's what is called frame. For example: is it wei…
/r/seduction11/03/19 02:17 PM
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This. Was not a shit test. A smile is sufficient. If you got a witty response blow it.
/r/askTRP11/03/19 02:08 PM
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I think this is what ppl mean if they tell you you might overanalyze things..
/r/askTRP11/03/19 02:01 PM
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I do t understand the following: You say yeah call her out on her shit. On the other hand I see many posts where guys getting roasted here for doing exactly that and that they should just ignore and next her. So what's the right thing to do now?
/r/TheRedPill11/03/19 10:35 AM
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She did reschedule. She never plain blocked. But you are right that she drip fed me hope. However it was never a target date but more sth alike "I have not time today, but what are you doing on Thursday" or so. I guess I am naive here. I don't understand the frame breaking thing. I am okay with woman beeing woman and they tend to flake once or twice. As long as they reschedule. However I don't accept a third time. So I tell her what I want and that I'm fed up. I would be totally okay with her ju…
/r/askTRP27/02/19 11:54 AM
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And don't miss to escalate when chance is given!
/r/askTRP27/02/19 09:56 AM
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Just next it man. There will be another one soon.
/r/askTRP27/02/19 09:21 AM
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I bet you eat far too less. If you are average-skinny you need to eat in humanly much. Put on 5kg body weight and keep lifting. You will get stronger. Then you stay on that strength and loose the fat. Rinse and repeat.
/r/askTRP22/02/19 06:44 PM
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Thanks for your feedback. End of the story is she didn't answer. Gonna move on. You mean the stuff from Marshall McLuhan?
/r/askTRP16/02/19 04:18 PM
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Thanks for your feedback. End of the story is she didn't answer. Gonna move on.
/r/askTRP16/02/19 04:13 PM
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So you mean I should not set up a new plan and wait for her to propose time/date? Because I have been literally been setting up this crap a dozen times. And I kinda think she should offer sth if she wanna see me at this point.
/r/askTRP14/02/19 12:55 PM
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So you mean I should set up a new plan for her? Because I have been literally been setting up this crap a dozen times. And I kinda think she should offer sth if she wanna see me at this point.
/r/askTRP14/02/19 12:54 PM
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The good thing is, its self regulating. If you get soft in an ltr and stop improving yourself you will most likely get dropped.
/r/askTRP13/02/19 11:44 AM
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This. Stop focusing on her impression. It does not matter. Your expression and how you react is much more important.
/r/askTRP13/02/19 11:42 AM
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Because Im not allowed to post the link. google "this_is_how_you_should_escalate_most_do_it_wrong/" Youll find a reddit trp article with that name.
/r/askTRP05/02/19 02:46 PM
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How did it go?
/r/seduction31/01/19 05:54 PM
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Very well worded. Some of the most succesful dudes I know are also the kindest and selfless people I know. They are trustworthy, careing open and will help you through the deepest shit. To their bros as wells as their girls. (In a different way though) However there is this super important factor of beeing 100% non needy and behaving this way because of genuine kindness. They don't want anything back in return. They don't regret and they let nothing damage them if shit goes south. They don't wan…
/r/askTRP31/01/19 09:30 AM
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U can try. Maybe say u are busy now Thursday but Friday is still open. I mean u are not waiting for her forever right?
/r/seduction31/01/19 01:19 AM
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No
/r/askTRP30/01/19 06:04 PM
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As long as u need her back u will not get her. When you are able to say u don't need her but u want her. Then you have a chance. So in order to even have a chance you need to cut the cord first. Get her out of your head. Meet other woman.
/r/seduction30/01/19 05:35 PM
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This is the best advice. It will be brutal the first 5 times. It will be hard 10 times and uneasy after 25 times. But its getting better. Works with job interviews, rejections, dates, gym, sex, presentations etc. etc...
/r/askTRP30/01/19 05:31 PM
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Mmmh. Looks not good. She might never confirm the time. Or txt you last second or after the date to reschedule. Text her tmrw as u planned. But don't delay or reschedule. If she declines or flakes again I say she's out for now. Then she either comes back hard or not at all. Both better for u.
/r/seduction30/01/19 04:31 PM
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Keep it low. Be passionate but don't chase. you give her the feeling that she can have you anytime. This makes you boring. Be impulsive. Tell her you wanna see her and you find her attractive. But never chase. She has one single chance. If she flakes again and suggests another date tell her sth like. "I Don't think your priorities have space for us right now."* If you have any chance this will hit her like a truck. you go silent for one or two weeks and if she texts you, you got her. If not you …
/r/seduction30/01/19 03:46 PM
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Yes. And don't overthink.
/r/seduction30/01/19 07:19 AM
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This question is stupid dude. U know the answer but your ego is so down that u need validation. Stop thinking about her, make cool stuff for urself. Ignore her and she might txt u because she's gonna hamster. If you'd be confident u would not text her to small talk. If you write her jokes and funny things to keep her at bay that's kinda needy and she knows it. Don't be her entertainment bitch. Now man the fuck up and start dating another girl. Don't chase.
/r/seduction30/01/19 07:13 AM
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How many of these conversations where opened by you? Also sounds like you are way to invested and too passive. Do Less blabla, less small talk. More 'I wanna see you at this date this Tim here.' 'Are you in? ' But hard to tell from only reading. For now: Just don't text her. Wait what she does. Might take a week or two. If she texts be straight. No blabla. Just logistics and u wanna meet her. If not next her cause u fucked up. I think you appeared too needy so she ghosted. Then your follow up wi…
/r/seduction29/01/19 10:44 PM
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"All of this coulda been avoided if we followed my plans for a honeymoon: A steak dinner, a glass of Lagavulin whiskey, then vigorous love making for two hours and we’re both asleep by eight thirty.” - Ron Swanson
/r/askTRP29/01/19 04:04 PM
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That's right. But be sure to still be bolt and say what you want. If you write: I like you. I wanna meet you. It can be bolt, direct and attractive and still low effort and uninvested. Just make sure it's not needy in the context. If you freak out because she doesn't reply instantly and text again you lost. Many miss that point and stay super distant. That's wrong.
/r/seduction29/01/19 02:17 PM
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Chill. Don't get angry. If you wanna meet her, agree. Have a plan B because she might flake again and again. That can be mind numbing. However, it doesnt mean shes not interested. I had situations where I texted a girl on and off for 3 months and suddenly we met and things went crazy. Sometimes they want to but are in a bad situation. Keep it low effort, or quit it. your decision. Date other girls in the meantime. Just do NOT get invested and put any high hopes into it.
/r/seduction29/01/19 09:31 AM
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Holding frame is not sth. you should need to turn on or off. You are your frame. Your goal should be to build your frame around your life. If your frame sucks, then probably does your life. You can try to express a frame which is better than you really are but thats just fake and will break. You are not a fucking actor. That said many people will set their frame lower/weaker than they really are.
/r/askTRP28/01/19 08:49 AM
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Once told a guy: Be careful not to learn rp as a set of steps and rules to get sex though. It's great and all but stay open minded. There's more to seduction than simply rp. There are many people that use rp to hate on woman and use it as an excuse to act like abusive dicks instead of acting as men. Imo try to use rp as a framework to build your own frame and mindset. Rp can help you become another person. If this person is a better versions of you or a prick is on you to define. Manson has know…
/r/askTRP28/01/19 08:42 AM
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Especially since trp is quarantined now, asktrp has become more toxic and bitter.
/r/askTRP20/01/19 07:56 AM
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This. Be careful not to learn rp as a set of steps and rules to get sex though. It's great and all but stay open minded. There's more to seduction than simply rp. There are many people that use rp to hate on woman and use it as an excuse to act like abusive dicks instead of acting as men. Imo try to use rp as a framework to build your own frame and mindset. Rp can help you become another person. If this person is a better versions of you or a prick is on you to define. Manson has knowledge of ma…
/r/askTRP19/01/19 07:52 PM
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Good luck. And move your arms at least a bit. Most guys dip around up and down like potato sacks. And one tiny last tip: If you made out with her successfully but won't take her home, give her your number instead of taking hers. Gives u a much better position to see her again because you keep power. If she's not gonna text you you would not have a chance anyway. If she texts you it's almost fail safe.
/r/askTRP19/01/19 07:27 PM
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This dude dances. Learn some basic clubbing dance steps. Touch her hip, lead her around. Maybe whisper in hear ear you want to dance with her. Turn her, get behind her and gently touch her hips from behind, hold her hands, turn her back around look her in the eyes and smile. Mirror her moves, show your moves. After a while when it's getting cozy you push her back 2m and smile. Then Lock her eyes start moving towards her, mirror her moves, make some sidesteps, circle her like a predator. When you…
/r/askTRP19/01/19 05:55 PM
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Same boat here. Try to never only ask her a question. Because you are only another one of a hundred faceless dudes then. Push some personal info out first. You have an exciting live. Let her know about some stuff that happened to you recently, and add a question. Give her something to like or hate. Makes life easier for you. Dont write hey. Instead write 'hey just came back from xy where y was absolutely stunning and reminded me of you bbla bla. How's your day goin? Or so Keep it tight. If she b…
/r/seduction19/01/19 10:45 AM
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This. Chill dude u are fine. She wants to know how you can cope with rejection. If you get confused and anxious if live gives you shit or if you smile it off and try again. Totally normal and she likes you.
/r/seduction19/01/19 07:21 AM
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Never let yourself sink into the comfort of a relationship and stop working and improving yourself. Pick up your habits, hobbies, etc. Be busy 3-5 evenings a week doing personal stuff without her. Don't make her feel like you get distant to her. I think shes getting bored and disrespectful in your releationship because well you might have lost your passion for own things in the cozyness.
/r/seduction18/01/19 12:56 PM
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HB is subjective. Just saying
/r/askTRP18/01/19 12:49 PM
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This. Also beard if possible.
/r/seduction18/01/19 12:45 PM
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Can second the first part. Seems like you are unsure about your own SMV. You get insecure because you think your girl might be higher value than you. Girls have it easy to find out their SMV because they get constant feedback. Guys need to approach girls to find out their smv. So I suggest you to go out and start approaching and flirting with woman. Simply for practice and with no mad intend. If you still feel like you are not good enough for her and are scared for her to jump you might be right…
/r/askTRP18/01/19 12:43 PM
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That would sound like you are butt hurt.
/r/askTRP18/01/19 12:25 PM
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You handled it well. You have the upper hand now if she's submissive. Make your intentions clear so she knows where she fucked up. Don't be a dick, don't be butt hurt. But also make clear what you expect from her. Did you date her before? Was it clear that it was a date? If she's not sure that you want to date her she will play it down to not be a date so she does not lose her face if she's wrong.
/r/askTRP18/01/19 12:24 PM
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Have you considered that she might be missing comfort? If you make her feel like your goal is sex only she might reject you even if she likes you. If your goal is sex only then you should consider nexting. Have you ever told her why you wanna have sex with her? Because if all you say is you got blue balls I dont think thats a good argument. Doesn't sound like real red flags to me. Also how is she rejecting? Maybe you read her rejection wrong? Often it just means not now or not in this context.
/r/askTRP18/01/19 09:59 AM
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Vin diesel, Jason statham, dwayne Johnson, Bruce Willis that one super famous porn dude,.... Yeah they are jacked and successful. But nothing but yourself holds you back to become too. Get buffed. Should be already enough.
/r/ExRedPill17/01/19 11:45 AM
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Did you read Models? Can highly suggest. Rp has problems to tell you how to tell a girl that you genuinely like her, adore her without beeing needy. In rp theory these often are weak which is bullshit and showing vulnerability is forbidden. In reality vulnerability can show real power by the way you face it. Express genuinely what you think and feel. But also have solutions and a path to solve it by yourself. You are the captain. If you struggle with an upcoming storm and a broken rudder, tell h…
/r/ExRedPill17/01/19 11:41 AM
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Actually thats a good question. The honest answer is I had been living in a box for the last years struggling with panic attacks and depression. I feel like I missed out a lot and im inexperienced and anxious about sex. My goal with this date is to get more comfortable around woman and learn to fuck again. My performance anxiety is super bad and im kinda afraid to bring anyone home. I want to get out of my comfort zone as much as possible, get experience, fight my sex anxiety and simply practice…
/r/askTRP14/01/19 01:46 PM
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I did. I'm just trying to bring it into context.
/r/askTRP14/01/19 10:18 AM
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So let's say i went monk mode for 8 months. Adepted to many of these points. I start spinning my first plate. An older super hot girl I am after for years but she never noticed me before. Now we fuck. However suddenly, after not having had sex for 6 years I have developed an insane performance anxiety. I loose my erection and my sex drive the moment she starts going wild. I'm really good at everything else. I get her super horny. I can make her cum multiple times before we even fully start but t…
/r/TheRedPill19/07/18 06:52 PM
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Most ppl asking the question seem to need bulk. In my experience, you are lifting correctly and regularly and keep a healthy diet it is extremely difficult to get fat.
/r/askTRP28/05/18 06:53 AM
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Maybe unpopular opinion but sometimes a bit of humanity is not wrong. Lets assume she really is feeling insecure about it and might be scared she is judged and just wants to latch out on an emotional level. Without having proper knowledge about the whole situation: You could also just tell her its fine and you had fun and if she had fun too its all good. You don't have to be her emotional cusion but you are not a stone either. Also don't feel forced to communicate suddenly more with her. Just be…
/r/askTRP16/05/18 11:10 AM
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Can recommend "Models" and "The subtle Art of not giving a fuck" from Manson and maybe No more Mr. Niceguy as follow up. Worked for me. I made the mistake to always live by expectations and not be couragious enough to say and do what I want. There is a fine middle between beeing egoism and making compromisses to please others. I was tilted way to much to the latter. And I hated myself because I projected the stuff I hated onto others instead of on myself. I changed that. I started to stand up fo…
/r/askTRP09/05/18 10:47 AM
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This. Business manager here but it's the same. Also Don't go tryhard. It won't raise your performance on the long run. Learn to say no. Be stoic.
/r/askTRP11/04/18 05:24 AM
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Metaquestion: This whole trp-concept is awesome and im quite new but I don't understand why so many people are so negative about woman around here? men who can clearly help them advance in the social hierarchy and pass down the best genes. => This is true. Yes. Afaik TRP helps me to see and understand how this works. But why are woman whores then? Its how they are programmed. That's it. I mean I understand that it sucks if you are the guy getting left behind but I don't understand why the rant i…
/r/askTRP04/04/18 08:57 AM
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Mixer hlped me. Just do your daily meals as always. Add a selfmade shake every morning and evening. Use fat milk/soy milk/ water as basis put in oats, peanut butter, banana, nuts, whatever fatty/healthy food you got. (Some ppl put in tuna and cooked chicken) Gulp it down. Boom gains.
/r/askTRP04/04/18 08:50 AM
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There is no recipe. It depends.i suggest you to read models by Mark Manson. That's what I started with and what helped me the most. It explains the rules. but you have to play every game for yourself.
/r/seduction24/03/18 06:18 PM
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I'd say it's not about what you say. It is about what you communicate. Usually, you want to communicate that you are attracted to her and that you have no shame to admit this fact to yourself and her. What is the best way to communicate that facts depends on dozens of factors. Depending on what type of person she or you are and where and when you are this can mean to tell her "you are beautiful and i want to get to know you better" or "I wanna fuck your brain out right now". Both sentences can c…
/r/seduction23/03/18 02:12 PM
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You should work on the mindset then. Because the argument is irrelevant. Might be , might not be. Does'nt matter. If shes attracted, your approach to her will be special. If shes not attracted she will show you and your approach might not work out. It does not matter if she has a lot of guy friends already who are making her day and me saying something. What matters is if you are attractive enough to her to stick out of her random orbiter dudes. Changing a mindset takes time. Its like building h…
/r/seduction23/03/18 09:43 AM
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This is so smooth.... In worst case she will instantly know what you are up to and you can fine tune with humor. Even a rejection would leave a big playground open. In best case.... shes gonna be at your doorstep after 30mins wearing short black.
/r/askTRP21/03/18 12:32 PM
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Btw my drink to go in the club is Whisky+Coke. (JackyCoke, CaptainCoke, whatever) Not because of the taste but because hard alc+caffeine+sugar keeps me pumpin and in good mood. Stay away from beer. That stuff makes you tired.
/r/askTRP20/03/18 01:15 PM
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Yes, the drink :D
/r/askTRP20/03/18 01:09 PM
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This. I think its supporting because your sex drive is your strongest (but not only one) energy source to perform trp actions.
/r/askTRP20/03/18 12:54 PM
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I feel the same whenever i am tired or getting sober. What helps me: Take a good nap before partying. If I really wanna go hard i run around over the day and just sleep from 5-8pm for 1-3hours. I usually need 1-3hrs to get on tour again afterwards but thats fine. Keeps me going until next morning. Steady alcohol input until 1am. Slowing down and maybe/sometimes stopping at 4am. Throwing in Redbulls and Coke from 1am-6am. ...and don't do drugs bro. You don't need them.
/r/askTRP20/03/18 12:15 PM
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+1 to the bra opening. Theres a one handed fling-trick which is easy to learn. Its like opening their bra with a finger snap of one hand behind their back. Its generally a cool move. Also, try to find someone you feel comfortable with, a girl with passion and patience. (Easier said than done I know) Don't let yourself down if you feel like the sex is like a fun sports for the girl. There are suchalikes and suchalikes.
/r/seduction19/03/18 03:53 PM
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This. I was in a very similar situation. Had no sex or a long time. Then boom super horny girl and she wanted to get fucked her brain out. She jumped me like a fucking jumpin ball and..... I lost my erection. I was not ready for her tempo and felt totally overwhelmed until my brain stress blocked out. Most humiliating moment in my whole life. (And I already made her come a couple of times right before that happened). Can highly recommend to check out a couple of tutorials about fingerin on pronh…
/r/seduction19/03/18 03:41 PM
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