So I met a girl in a club and swapped numbers. We dated twice. She was quite flaky but it worked out. However dates went good. With cudlling, kissing on second date.

She seems to be submissive, defensive and a bit shy. But i might be wrong with that.

I try to setup a third date for two weeks now. She was on vacation for one week of these. We already had time set where she wanted to come to my place before her vacation. However she verified the time one hour before the date but cancelled half an hour later due to her friends car broke and they need to get it fixed ASAP for the vacation next day and bla.

(this was super weird, however she called me to cancel this time. Something she never did before)

She wanted to reschedule for after the vacation on phone but I told her I don't know when I'm free next week and we gonna text. I didnt text her after that anymore.

5 days forward she starts texting and asks me about my weekend. We blabla. (she has been reinitiating conversation after 4-5 days.)

I ask her to meet me in the evening but she says she has no time and asks what my plans are for the weekend.

I told her sth alike I'll be doing xy.

How the fuck should I proceed now? Should I wait for her to pick it up and provide a time where she is free? Or shall I just ask her out for dancing on Saturday?

I'm getting really tired of her shit. But i don't have other girls to date. I'm working on that.

I'm having a hard time keeping her out of my head. She's not a 10 but a good 8 with a great body. I am thinking about just tell her straight forward that I like her but I'm not gonna go on meh dates with her. So if she's on maybe it's fine and we leave it be. However this is would most likely eliminate the chance to ever plate her.

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  • Yes I read the sidebar and try to apply it. Feel free to tell me where I failed.

  • I think the best response would be to keep low the effort, let her offer logistics before offering a new plan and approach more girls. So I shouldn't text plan offers but wait for her to tell me sth like "hi I'm free there, u wanna do stuff". Might never happen but whatever.