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zxcvb7809/r/askTRP26/02/19 04:04 AM
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You will kick yourself if you ignore your experience for the belief that people are faithful. It isn't just women. I am not red pill (anymore) but I too have had several experiences that really emphasize how crappy people can be at times.
/r/ExRedPill24/02/20 12:22 PM
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I always find these types of studies interesting because the men must be cheating with someone. Unless they are all cheating with other men or the same group of women it seems like women might be better at cheating and not admitting it.
/r/ExRedPill20/02/20 04:15 PM
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Idealism or Realism chose. Idealism She is going to a night club to have drinks with her lady friends and when they are done she is going to probably get food and come home or crash at her lady friends house. If you tell her she can't you are insecure. If you tell her you can you trust her and are a caring and loving partner. Realism She is only going to be this attractive for a little longer. She currently has an LTR so she has a security blanket. Going to ladies night provides her a chance to …
/r/askTRP12/01/20 06:28 AM
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Let it go man, if it was six months ago you are way good.
/r/askTRP12/01/20 06:01 AM
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Not to be an asshole but I am in Asia and this is not true not in my experience.
/r/askTRP12/01/20 06:00 AM
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What is worse, saying yeah I did it my bad or Saying nah that wasn't me, and she shows proof? You said you were trying to grow a pair, if that is still the case, just accept it. It is so unimportant in the grand scheme of things you shouldn't even care.
/r/askTRP12/01/20 05:55 AM
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You have to take responsibility for what you did. I don't mean going and telling people. Hell, I wouldn't have told her anything. I would have just blocked her or deleted the account. Since you did tell her all that information you just have to consider the possibility that this might blow up in your face. It is what it is man, nothing is that serious. I am fairly certain nothing will come of it. But in the future I would recommend only making decisions whose outcomes you can accept, to mitigate…
/r/askTRP12/01/20 05:45 AM
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I have read it. It is one of my favorite books that I have read. I found it very interesting to see things from another perspective. I started reading it on a flight and could not put it down until I finished.
/r/ExRedPill11/01/20 02:12 AM
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This is what I came here to say.
/r/askTRP10/01/20 11:28 PM
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Yes. Only text for logistics.
/r/ExRedPill07/01/20 10:36 AM
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Person A and person B. A: Single, free spirited, free thinking, best shape of their life, no obligations etc. B: Not single, has kids, can't make rash decisions without severe consequence, not in best shape of life and a plethora of obligations. Person A is sexually attractive, people want to have sex with this person. Person B is re-productively attractive, people want to raise kids with this person. The issues isn't betaization and shit tests, the issue is we as a society have gotten to a poin…
/r/ExRedPill01/01/20 10:18 AM
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Ever hear the saying "She isn't yours, it's just your turn?"
/r/askTRP30/09/19 07:36 PM
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Hey acknowledgment is the first step. I would say the second step is dividing the list in two. One side is what you can control, the second side is what you can't. After you do that it is pretty straight forward what you need to do. Control what you can man, if it is out of your hands it is out of your hands. But you should not let things out of your control have any impact on who you decide to be. Sure you might be short as fuck but you should be the most well dressed, financially well off, swo…
/r/askTRP27/09/19 06:54 PM
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Tell her you don't believe in monogamy anymore and unless she is okay with that you don't want to waste her time.
/r/askTRP18/09/19 01:00 AM
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Make him feel crazy for overreacting. Run the we are just friends gas lighting on his ass. Game her up, blow her back out and then catch and release as normal. Then let him marry her after knowing her for 12 months what a fucking idiot.
/r/askTRP18/09/19 12:52 AM
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Nah man, Mc.Donalds hires bottom feeders all the time. No shame in the game.
/r/askTRP18/09/19 12:28 AM
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She ain't pregnant. I have had this happen one too many times to fall for this shit lol. If she were pregnant she would pee on as many tests as you wanted her too. Since she isn't she is keeping it hidden so it is your word vs hers. And I would even say be careful because she might be trying to get pregnant by someone else in attempt to fool you into staying. Or women actually sell urine that is from pregnant women to fool people. The most ridiculous thing I have experienced was a fake ultrasoun…
/r/askTRP10/09/19 10:24 PM
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You are afraid of loosing her, don't be. Just really sit down and think it through. You have to internalize it man. I think you should hit the gym instead of worrying whether or not some other dude is going to steal your plate. Do you think that other dude gives a fuck what she is doing when she isn't sucking him off like a black hole?
/r/askTRP10/09/19 02:17 AM
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This is interesting. I can't tell if it is next level stuff or if you are just adding a step for missing a step somewhere else? What I mean is you are using the period tracker surely to not get women pregnant and also to be able to tell when they are horniest and possibly going to PMS to save yourself some hassle? But are you doing all of that because you are not using condoms? Or perhaps you aren't high enough value to where if you told her to get an abortion or you are out, that she would?
/r/askTRP10/09/19 02:12 AM
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Why would you not want as many checks and balances in place with something as expensive ( time, money and opportunity wise,) as a pregnancy? With the only form of birth control being the pill, one slip up and you are done. Trust me, I know it sucks but you will kick yourself so hard if everything you want out of life is out of reach by just a hair because of a choice you made 10 years ago that you are still paying for.
/r/askTRP10/09/19 01:59 AM
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Need a hell of a lot more information. But tell him to shut up and get a lawyer.
/r/askTRP07/09/19 06:10 AM
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Eat the butt.
/r/askTRP06/09/19 08:07 PM
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Shrinking potential beta bucks pool?
/r/askTRP05/09/19 07:10 PM
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I think you need to hit the gym more. I know people in these communities say men are the prize and maybe it is a valueless saying but it is true. For a woman to be attractive she has to not be ugly and not be fat. That is not hard compared to what it takes to be an attractive dude.
/r/askTRP04/09/19 06:44 PM
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Wear a condom. Women in this age are looking to have last minute babies.
/r/askTRP04/09/19 02:14 AM
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Pursuing my objectives relentlessly has brought me the most happiness in my experience.
/r/askTRP04/09/19 02:07 AM
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Eat an additional meal every day (protien). And keep the cardio to 2 days.
/r/askTRP04/09/19 02:04 AM
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Lesbian to the wrong person.
/r/askTRP04/09/19 02:02 AM
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Increase your caloric intake?
/r/askTRP04/09/19 01:56 AM
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It is not so much happiness as it is an " ah ha," moment. I applied what I learned and it worked as advertised and my entire mind set changed.
/r/askTRP04/09/19 01:46 AM
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Reality is stranger than fiction, that is for sure.
/r/askTRP26/08/19 03:07 AM
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I am not sure why you care what she thinks, let alone what she says. She is a plate, plates are disposable.
/r/askTRP21/08/19 06:55 PM
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Have enough plates to where one is not more valuable than the principle of the game, playa.
/r/askTRP30/07/19 08:35 AM
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Tell her she can come back but she is gonna have to suck a whooooleee lotttt of dick.
/r/askTRP29/07/19 07:10 AM
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The best advise I can give you is to be high value. You aren't bragging if someone asks you what do you do for a living and you are a lawyer. You are bragging if they don't ask and you tell them anyways.
/r/askTRP29/07/19 06:07 AM
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Yup.
/r/askTRP28/07/19 06:31 PM
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You should have enough going on in your life that you don't care what they think. A person who values their time and has faith in whatever their objective is doesn't have time to care if people think they are nice or not? Seems like you are pretending like you are someone of value and people see that you aren't.
/r/askTRP28/07/19 01:19 AM
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You don't really have the backing to be a conceited ass hole stocking fruit at a grocery store. I get the "I scored 190 on an online IQ test," vibe from your post. You have the mentality of someone who made it to the top but you haven't even left the shire dude. Do you even have shoes on? wtf?
/r/askTRP28/07/19 01:14 AM
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I just give neutral advice.
/r/askTRP27/07/19 09:05 PM
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Exactly. I wish it weren't the case but people actually believe some retarded ass shit. And that is fine ya know? Believe what you want but just keep it in your head lol. There is no reason the government should be wasting time talking about gay rights and parades. The government should be figuring out how to prevent WW3, Cure of Ebola, Aids/HIV, whether or not there are aliens, how to get out of the solar system let alone off earth. Instead we are mutilating men and women so they can feel like …
/r/askTRP27/07/19 06:41 PM
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I think women chase validation. So if he is showing her that he is so attracted that he is sucking on her boobs before they are even to a place where they can screw she no longer needs his validation. You are right that he should show some interest but I think him showing too much prevalidated her.
/r/askTRP27/07/19 06:12 PM
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As ridiculous as it sounds, I think democracy is the reason for the decline. I think most people are not that smart. So with a democracy and 350 million ish people in the country, stupid opinions are represented disproportionately to opinions on things that are actually deserved of representation at the national level. For example LBGTQ. We read and hear all about it. It is very insignificant and effects a minuscule portion of the population. Yet I guarantee you can find it in the news everyday.…
/r/askTRP27/07/19 06:10 PM
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This is exactly what I was thinking. OP is trying to hard and it probably comes off as desperate. He should not show physical attraction or attention until he is at a place to complete the deed. Otherwise he is validating and she has no reason to bang him. Also if his SMV was higher she wouldn't be playing these games.
/r/askTRP27/07/19 05:49 PM
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It is disrespectful as hell, the real question is will you tolerate it?
/r/askTRP27/07/19 05:45 PM
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I agree that super attractive women have life so easy that they develop no character but for your 5, 6,7 and 8 s this is not the case. Are you sure? Online dating seems to create a disparity between actual SMV and perceived SMV. With that and social media these women are sought after in a rat race type of way. A 5 gets hundreds of likes etc on her profiles, do you think this doesn't impact her ego or what she thinks her options are? It's not that they CAN'T get a good looking guy; it's just that…
/r/askTRP27/07/19 05:41 PM
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Explenation: A shit test to me is when a woman tries to get you to show your insecurity. IE jealousy, weakness, emotional nonsense or desperation etc. Example 1) Lady friend: There are these guys at work that I find attractive I think I am going to hang out with them. Me : Oh that's nice! Analysis: She wanted me to ask her to be my girlfriend or get me to show jealousy. I showed neither and didn't even act supersized. She is still a plate. Result: Pass Example 2) Lady friend: I don't want to hav…
/r/askTRP27/07/19 05:30 PM
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I think your turn is over sir.
/r/askTRP27/07/19 05:09 PM
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Keep her as a contact, you could get more juice from that orange.
/r/askTRP27/07/19 05:05 PM
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Fat ugly women have to be fun. So they are easier to deal with then attractive soulless idiots. Attractive soulless women are fun to fuck but to do anything else is almost unbearable. Some people get tired of that shit and would rather have like ten ones as opposed to 10 tens.
/r/askTRP27/07/19 04:54 PM
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Money hungry ?
/r/askTRP27/07/19 02:26 PM
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She was prodding you for insecurity.
/r/askTRP23/07/19 08:31 AM
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Women being bi is not a red flag until they base their identity around it. Women who sleep with women and men no big deal. But an LBGT feminist freak is nothing but a head ache and or false rape charge waiting to happen.
/r/askTRP22/07/19 07:14 PM
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Women claiming false rape, buying fake positive pregnancy tests, creating false ultra sounds, using biased family courts to get child support (that is required to be paid but, how it is spent goes unchecked,) women claiming my body my choice (making the man liable if she chooses to keep yet, having no say in whether or not she can/can't abort and subsequently facing financial ruin for 18 years,) is the truth. It doesn't sell as well as the white picket fence does.
/r/askTRP13/07/19 02:06 AM
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At some point you have to take responsibility for yourself and your actions. That includes the actions of people on your team. Your team is anyone you associate with on a regular basis that isn't family IMO. I tolerate family because I think it is important to have some kind of a safety net and for kids and all that. Since your wife is not performing at a level that you think she needs to perform at, you need to do something about it. You can't control her but, you can control her impact on the …
/r/askTRP13/07/19 01:57 AM
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Yeah may buddy did the same. He tried and tried and tried to get her to take care of herself and make a better life for them. She ended up leaving him on some crazy ass feminist career woman bull shit. He was heart broken, but he is doing better than he ever would have if he had stayed with her.
/r/askTRP13/07/19 01:46 AM
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Remember Nancy and John Red Skin on king of the hill? Same concept applies. This dude who thinks it is normal to go to the beach at night to de-stress, with a female friend, after brushing her teeth, taking a shower and putting on perfume, is the equivalent of Dale. How much more obvious could it be.
/r/askTRP12/07/19 04:37 PM
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I am 6'1 and black and I get the same responses and they take pictures of/with me as well.
/r/askTRP11/07/19 03:42 PM
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If you already had the date set up and this is a change, no deal on principle, it is your frame not hers. If you are initially setting it up and she says that, she is trying to feed her cousin as well, no deal she sees you as a meal ticket. I actually can't think of any scenario where this would be a go.
/r/askTRP11/07/19 01:19 AM
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False sexual assault, rape, battery or attempting to baby trap, threatening to harm herself, me, others, mental instability and disrespect. What I mean by disrespect is showing up at my place because they feel like it, talking to me any kind of way because they think they can and cheating if we agreed to an LTR. I am sure there is more but this is all I can think of. Half of the population is women and there are always women willing to play ball, so why give any time of the day to ones who aren'…
/r/askTRP11/07/19 01:17 AM
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Nah man, the only true part about that might have been that she went to the beach. She got dicked down for sure.
/r/askTRP11/07/19 01:04 AM
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Banging women from the work place isn't a good idea.
/r/askTRP11/07/19 01:03 AM
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She is definitely getting dicked down.
/r/askTRP10/07/19 10:27 PM
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They spend their lives walking on egg shells so that they might be able to bang a woman. It would be the greatest glory of their life to stick there dirty dick into her pure and holy vagina. She who can do no wrong, and has ascended from above. He must trade her everything or be willing to for access to the vagina. He must pull the chair out, pick her up/drop her off, buy her food, go where she wants when she wants, be willing to not have sex for as long as she deems and he must apologize when s…
/r/askTRP07/07/19 11:53 AM
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According to society yes, in reality probably not.
/r/askTRP07/07/19 11:45 AM
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Telling her she can't won't work, showing her she can't probably will. Since she did it, now you can and when she gets mad point out that she did it.
/r/askTRP07/07/19 09:53 AM
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I see it is as it is what it is. It really pissed me off before how biased family courts are and how there are a crap ton of people who think it is okay as is (woman and men.) The way I see it now it is all public information so I don't feel bad for people that end up going through the ringer. I think the idea of no fault divorce is a joke. In one hand society gets together to watch two people agree to be together forever and in the other hand no fault divorce is a thing.. The government does wh…
/r/askTRP07/07/19 09:46 AM
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I was going home from the strip or something one day and got my uber drivers number. We were talking about making rice or something so she gave me her number. Before I left the car I should have invited her up. Neither of us gave damn about making rice lol lesson learned.
/r/askTRP06/07/19 05:11 PM
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Yeah to my mind the logical thing to do would be to cheat as well, but if he is cheating as well why is he with her? So multiple questions are raised and multiple scenarios are at play. Is she dating her BF because he is beta and she knows her desirability will fade and she wants something to show for her time? Additionally, is she banging around behind his back to ensure the best reproductive option? Also what are the chances that she can override her biological drive? Would she lie about it if…
/r/askTRP03/07/19 05:07 PM
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Women that are 40 are retarded if they are not settled down by that age. These women are the ones that are on red pill dudes back burners as a worst case scenario. Say it is Saturday night and you had no luck at all during the week or on the weekend. Then after you went out you still have no luck. You come home and can't get anyone to come over, that is where she comes into play in your life. In her life she thinks she can do better. She never got off the cock roller coaster. She thinks because …
/r/askTRP03/07/19 04:56 PM
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Are you retarded? The difference between an Incel and a person who reads into red pill information is what they do with the information. If I were Incel this information would mean I should just give up on women all together since they only want to settle when they aren't worth settling for. If I were a red pilled dude this information would mean that when women turn 30 and are looking to finally settle down, I know why they are settling down. It would mean that I would more than likely review d…
/r/askTRP03/07/19 04:52 PM
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Because women want to bang everything that moves until they reach about 30, plus or minus 3 years. That is when the smart women realize they can not out bang the 18 year old women. The smart women settle at this point, the really smart women settle well before this point. The average woman is strung along to the point of no return.
/r/askTRP02/07/19 05:04 PM
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Why do you even care? When plates leave my place the only thing I care about is the " I made it home safe and can't wait to see you again," text. I couldn't care less if she was sucking everything she could get her lips around when she isn't here.
/r/askTRP01/07/19 06:22 AM
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Why didn't you say something when she smiled? Now you are coming back way later through an app to be like " hey I know I didn't do anything at the time when I had a perfect opportunity to but.." I would just remember how much this hurts and think of it any time you decided not to act moving forward honestly.
/r/askTRP01/07/19 06:18 AM
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I met a chick on tinder. Planned a date at a restaurant. Didn't pull her chair out, pay for her food, compliment her, buy her flowers, didn't hug her good bye, didn't try to kiss her, nothing. I said we should hang out again sometime at the end. Every time after that she just came to my place and we fucked. If she would have left after I didn't pay for her food I still would have ate mine I don't give a fuck about her. With dates or women at a bar/club etc, rationally they are nothing to you. Th…
/r/askTRP01/07/19 06:15 AM
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I think she didn't talk to you about it because you are probably the only voice of reason in her life. She knew you weren't going to tell her what she wanted to hear. Whereas everyone else told her she can do whatever she wants and supported her with that insane decision. All you can do is what you have been doing, be a father. If she needs advice or someone to talk to be there for her. I would not support that decision financially as I don't believe in mutilation even if the rest of society doe…
/r/askTRP01/07/19 01:24 AM
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You should have done nothing but hang out with her. Then whenever you got to a place where you could screw, escalate or attempt to.Pre-escalation is a thing.
/r/askTRP30/06/19 02:56 PM
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Try making her figure out whether or not you even find her attractive. You did it perfectly in blowing her off the first time. But then when you hung out you showed entirely too much interest. She knew where you stood so she had no need to screw you anymore.
/r/askTRP30/06/19 01:35 PM
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I would say what I am doing and invite her to join me. If she shows up she is interested as fuck. If she doesn't you probably honestly aren't missing much but pity star fish, you paid for my food sex.
/r/askTRP30/06/19 01:30 PM
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She used a basic ass trick on you. She said I am busy this weekend but not next weekend. Once you accepted that she knew all she needed to know. That you ain't got shit going on. And then she confirmed it by bailing again, getting you to offer to take her to Cali, phone calls/face time and text conversations. All that says I don't have other options. Why else would you be doing so much just to get this one woman?
/r/askTRP30/06/19 01:25 PM
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To keep them around for child rearing.
/r/askTRP30/06/19 01:19 PM
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So the men that women often chase after are guys that don't seem to give a fuck about them. Why might this be? Because the value of a woman is determined based on her beauty for the most part. So most men are beta as fuck, and put her on a pedestal right, well when this one guy comes along and doesn't put her on a pedestal it challenges her beauty and consequently her value as a woman. So what does she have to do naturally? She has to get his validation so she can know she has value as a woman. …
/r/askTRP30/06/19 01:13 PM
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OBJECTIVE. Is there something you are so passionate about that you wake up before your alarm at whatever time and you aren't tired? Is there an occupation/hobby that you would feel not only gainfully employed but also feel no need to retire from? Is there something you would do for free and additionally for money if it so bore profit? This is what solidifies who you are. Separate yourself from both the inkling and notion that you are good as is, that we are all equal and that we all deserve equa…
/r/askTRP30/06/19 01:06 PM
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Yeah that makes sense, the dude she sees for sex would not sit around cuddling and shit.
/r/askTRP29/06/19 09:21 PM
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Do gods work my man. I would get an audio recorder though or cameras just in case she gets caught and tries to claim rape. Also I have been in this situation before, and know that her beta husband may get irrational as fuck if things do go south. This is the crazy shit though that no one ever wants to admit to when it comes to relationships and marriages. This is the loop hole called "love," that just gets exploited and even questioning where she is going, her beta husband is a controlling ass h…
/r/askTRP29/06/19 09:20 PM
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I usually only hang out with the same woman once a week at most because if you hang out with them too much they do shit like this. I also don't really reply to their texts or calls and don't justify why because again they do shit like this. So I am curious if the reason she is acting like this is because you hung out with her too much? I would definitely distance and know that she might fall off. I would say that there is a high chance that she comes back but since you played cuddle buddy twice …
/r/askTRP29/06/19 09:10 PM
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After she failed to have sex with you the first time, after you already had sex and you gave her a second chance, you effectively said " this behavior is tolerable." When it obviously wasn't. What do you do? you double down. Why I am not sure. The first time was a gamble ( with the period etc.) The second time was on you 100%. You reinforced negative behavior. Regardless of her excuse you should have done something to show it was not acceptable, that you have other options and if she is not will…
/r/askTRP29/06/19 08:57 PM
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I think it was and you failed. Instead being "too busy," you had time to sit around cuddling with her. So in her mind you probably don't have any other options. When I am in a situation like this I am " too busy," for about a month and when I have time again it is on my terms. If she never contacts me again IDGAF if she does she knows what we are doing when she gets to my place.
/r/askTRP29/06/19 08:00 PM
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Yeah but it is easier if she isn't your girlfriend and doesn't have that idea in her head. Otherwise you are jumping through all kinds of loops to not get caught banging other women, explaining why their are hairs in the car and in the apartment etc. I have downgraded a gf to a plate though and kept her in rotation but she has to have really high interest for that to work. I would not expect a woman to stay if you downgrade her honestly.
/r/askTRP29/06/19 06:09 PM
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Because they are struggling so much harder and single child-free people are not. I am making like $60K a year right now but I don't need this job as much as the people with kids. I have the option to do a career change, or move cities, states, countries, travel and explore my youth to the depths and heights. While there are people married with kids making $20K a year each. Whatever they can save combined won't compare to what I can save and still do whatever I want for decades. They just misplay…
/r/askTRP29/06/19 05:42 PM
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No and it doesn't and I agree. But do you know what how useful potential energy is if it isn't used?
/r/askTRP26/06/19 04:09 PM
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You can keep banging her but unless she is one of your only plates know that she is strait up trying to baby trap you. And I wouldn't confront her about it unless you were going to fire her. She thinks she is smart for trying to play games with you. Just collect the intel but don't share with her that you know.
/r/askTRP26/06/19 04:32 AM
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Why would you spend a week mastering instruments, reading War n Peace all day and manipulating people when your base needs aren't covered and you are in and out of prison? Anyone can say they are smart but words really don't mean much its the message they convey that does and in your responses it seems like you think you sound smart to us on here on the internet but anyone who is 18+ knows you are selling a story and its not even a good one. Good luck.
/r/askTRP26/06/19 04:27 AM
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So I have had women do this and I have had women tell me that they are pregnant and even go as far as to show me an ultra sound. First I stay calm and don't express any upset or off behavior around them. This is to maintain frame. Second I comfort them and asses whether or not they are trying to keep or abort if pregnant. ( usually I try to get a grasp of this before I bang them.) In instances like this she would probably keep and since she was so quick to inform you it seems like she might be d…
/r/askTRP26/06/19 02:47 AM
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This
/r/askTRP26/06/19 12:45 AM
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I like watching his interviews because of how he keeps the interviewer on topic despite them trying to change and reword to give the response he wants. I think some of his videos are out of his realm of expertise but for the most part he provides pretty sounds advice. I really appreciated how he became known in the first place with not tolerating knee bending to trannies though.
/r/askTRP26/06/19 12:32 AM
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Yeah it is a learning thing you have to figure out what works for you. For me this works very effectively.
/r/askTRP26/06/19 12:28 AM
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Most people find a job, a place to live and a means of transportation. After they ensure the base needs are met, they proceed to work on building more complex things college, retirement, companies etc. Your claiming you have a high IQ but you are too good to take an entry level job (with a criminal record and no skills..?)
/r/askTRP26/06/19 12:22 AM
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I think there are 2 issues with it though. One that she was in that situation and tolerated that non sense makes me question her mental stability. And two that she told you about it makes me think she is pegging you as a super beta white knight coming to save her from herself. I could be wrong but in my experience that is how that plays out. Best of luck.
/r/askTRP26/06/19 12:12 AM
1

When were back at my place? I am interested in her I just don't want her to know how interested I am. I want her to have to figure it out. If I am kissing on her and holding her hand and everything else she knows how interested I am. But, to my mind what is the point of doing all of that on the date if I can't fuck her on the date? You know what I mean? If I am at a bar and she is super interested and I know I am going to fuck her then that is different but most first dates aren't like that. The…
/r/askTRP26/06/19 12:10 AM
8

A better idea get full custody of the kid that way she owes you child support. I am sure she will not just agree too it but if she has been in rehab and all that repeatedly you might have a case, more so depending on what it was for. Did you really think someone would just take on your failed project?
/r/askTRP25/06/19 11:36 PM
2

She just came out of an abusive relationship I think that alone would make her a plate only.
/r/askTRP25/06/19 11:28 PM
3

I see what you are saying. He agreed with this chick so that they would have common ground in an attempt to hopefully escalate into something more. His common ground was that you were acting weird. That is pretty weak game haha. I would just go with it and not explain myself fuck em.
/r/askTRP25/06/19 11:24 PM
3

Exactly, if you agreed to be her boyfriend to smash and then ended it you would probably be getting read your rights and shit lol.
/r/askTRP25/06/19 11:19 PM
6

You don't have to kiss them at the end of a date or cold approach. In fact, I try not to do any of that unless I am in a place to make a slam dunk.
/r/askTRP25/06/19 11:16 PM
8

That men and women have different biological imperatives. Women want the best option available at the time. This time is determined by their biological clock. They want an alpha while they are at their sexual peak. And they want a beta to decline with. After they have kids they want to try and seek out an alpha again. Male reproductive strategy is to impregnate as many women as possible. Men can always get a woman pregnant but, women can only get pregnant every 9 months.
/r/askTRP25/06/19 03:22 PM
1

It would correct itself if all men were in the top 20%. The chance of that happening or what you are suggesting happening is about equally probable in my opinion.
/r/askTRP25/06/19 04:26 AM
7

It seems to me the only reason a person would not talk about whatever they want to talk about around women is because they are afraid to say the wrong thing and lose out on their "chance" to bang them. This is completely IMO the wrong perspective to be coming from. It screams I do not get a lot or enough sex and I am going to walk on egg shells so maybe I can get lucky. I get it if that is just how you are and how you were raised but it seems pretty blue pill. It is kind of like the people who d…
/r/askTRP25/06/19 04:14 AM
1

People like that are wasting their own time. If you try to help them or keep them around they will not only continue to waste their own time but they will waste yours as well. If you don't waste your time, who are they to waste it? And also if they do not value their own time, how can they value yours? I am more upset at myself for time I wasted trying to help people who refuse to help themselves than I have ever been for wasting money or any other resource. I think it is because of the opportun…
/r/askTRP25/06/19 04:08 AM
19

She will fuck your brains out. Everything would seem normal. Until, she gossips with people at the work place about it. She will realize that she might lose her job over it. Then she goes to HR saying you drugged her or something. You will get moved or put on paid leave while they investigate it. After they conclude what they conclude you will get let go and she will keep working there or perhaps get moved to another department and start over.
/r/askTRP23/06/19 08:04 PM
7

I did think that women were on some kind of pedestal when I was 16. Then a chain of events continually reduced the height of the pedestal. - Best friend "the one," decided she wanted me years after I quit waiting for her. - Meeting up with women and banging them first date. - Banging married women and women with boyfriends. They never mention it until the deed is done. And if they did mention before hand they fuck like he doesn't exist and then return home to him like it didn't happen. All of th…
/r/askTRP23/06/19 07:58 AM
1

I am guessing you are trying to display high value on social media in an attempt to show potential plates that you are worth their time? I don't think it is possible. A person who is high value doesn't have time to show it on social media. So it is kind of like trying to eat your own tail.
/r/askTRP23/06/19 07:31 AM
0

Are you a betting man?
/r/askTRP22/06/19 06:21 AM
0

They should all be legalized. Buying anything is not inherently wrong. Buying it and driving under the influence or robbing a bank or killing people is wrong. It’s not the governments place to play dad though.
/r/askTRP16/06/19 07:16 PM
2

I don't think you are wrong on technicality. You said she is a potential LTR plate so you have no obligation to her. So why do you care if a plate (who mind you has a bf) tries to reach out to a potential LTR? Unless you have oneitis?
/r/askTRP06/06/19 03:53 AM
1

I hate weddings. I went to one a few weeks ago and that is how I remembered I hate them. I would just drink a little to take the edge off for sure then socialize to keep/maintain peace.
/r/askTRP06/06/19 03:51 AM
6

Tell her you are open to a relationship if the right person comes along but you are keeping your options open for now.
/r/askTRP06/06/19 03:49 AM
2

I kind of let them see it. They come over to my place and it is strait up a bachelor pad. I have money to spend, if I think I can pick up a chick when we are out I try. Most of my peers are married and assume I am gay or something is wrong to where I am not date/marriage material. Then they are hit like D day when they get to know me. Everything is thought out and planned. I am not married for reasons that are obvious (to me and most of you but not to beta providers ?) I don't say because of fem…
/r/askTRP06/06/19 03:47 AM
1

I am curious why she would say that through text instead of in person when you were hanging out. I think she is still DTF and she is using plausible deniability.
/r/askTRP06/06/19 03:31 AM
1

It really is man. I went from treading water at the same point in life for years like ground hogs day to lifting, running and taking classes and getting promotions. Women looking at me differently, people talking to me more respectfully, waking up before my alarm clock went off. Just filled to brim with life and things to do and options. Nothing is more engaging and satisfying.
/r/askTRP06/06/19 03:28 AM
9

Dude online dating is a cesspool. I have had my success with it in the past and I have done enough of it to probably write a few thesis statements but I don't have time to waste like that. You nailed it in your post though, if you must use online dating the best I can come up with is the shot gun method. Just realize these chicks are getting hundreds of messages from guys daily. I think 2011-2016 was the best time for online dating then it became filled with fake profiles, web scam models, adver…
/r/askTRP06/06/19 03:25 AM
1

I have been at my current job for 8 years. The whole time I have been hanging out with people who like to drink and smoke and waste their money. Drinking became my vice. Dopamine from drinking. I got some things accomplished. I have been promoted quite a few times despite drinking eating up so much of my time. I am over weight but I have put on a significant amount of muscle in those 8 years as well. The time where I put on the muscle and finished my associates degree was when I gave up my vices…
/r/askTRP06/06/19 03:04 AM
6

Take her to a shitty fast food place. Don’t pay for her meal and if possible have her pay for yours. Then tell her you have a lot going on but you had a good time. Tell her you would like to get together some time soon and give her a hug and then roll out. After about a week hit up her up with a Place and a time to meet up. ( preferably your place.) need I say more
/r/askTRP27/05/19 10:03 PM
1

Where’s the update???
/r/askTRP27/05/19 09:56 PM
3

Evaluate the shit out of the situation. Like really sit down and think. We spend so much time on everything in life and some how forget to take time on our selves. So we end up feeling all jacked up and have no idea why. I would start with where I am and work back. I would ask myself what is wrong? How long have I felt this way? What am I studying for and am I interested? What is the end goal? What more do I want from life and what can I do to get it? If I am not working towards obtaining it, wh…
/r/askTRP26/05/19 09:09 AM
2

I would move. Your land lady sounds like an idiot.
/r/askTRP26/05/19 07:42 AM
1

TSA pre check is doing new thing. It is Friend Zone pre check, would you like to enroll?
/r/askTRP19/05/19 07:56 AM
1

I wouldn't hit her up again until she hits me up. If she flakes don't be a little bitch about it though.
/r/askTRP19/05/19 07:54 AM
1

"I am a busy man."
/r/askTRP19/05/19 07:53 AM
1

If you are getting into a relationship because playing the field is not a viable option for you, you are a beta for sure. There are people who could play the field and have no issue leaving or their significant other leaving them. They like them but they would start spinning plates immediately if things weren't working out. These people are alphas.
/r/askTRP19/05/19 07:51 AM
1

I don't fight (anymore) unless my life is in danger. Whether man or woman I would do what I had to do to ensure my survival and or the survival of the people I care about. In this instance I would not attack a probably drunk woman. I would brush it off or if I did respond it would be though legal or other formal means.
/r/askTRP19/05/19 07:46 AM
2

We make money with time at first since we have more time than money. Once you have extra money, use the money to make money and keep your time.
/r/askTRP19/05/19 07:43 AM
1

Other people said it. You were played. I would definitely let this go and let this be a lesson learned the hard way. You are correct in that she is not that bright. Which leads me to my next point. You are also lucky she did not claim rape, domestic assault or something on those lines. LET THIS GO. She could come at you with some bull shit other wise.
/r/askTRP19/05/19 07:35 AM
6

Ironically, the only person I don't have is my mom. I think your issue lies not with what you have lost, but a lack of appreciation for what you do have. Learning to accept yourself is paramount. It is key to happiness and over all life success. This is easy to type but it took me years to figure out. From 0 until 25 I did not know who I was. It was all trial and error and at the tail end of 25 I became who I am. I accept the good and bad aspects of myself. And I acknowledge that I am good enoug…
/r/askTRP19/05/19 07:32 AM
1

They can always afford to move into an apartment complex called poverty.
/r/askTRP17/05/19 06:32 PM
5

Hey I heard you are giving out free food? In all seriousness though she is using you for free food. And I think she pegged you as a beta provider. Why didn't you attempt to bring her back on date 1 or 2? If you go on a date 5 have it at your place. If she doesn't come I was right.
/r/askTRP17/05/19 03:14 AM
1

No I would have done it differently though to prevent her possibly saying some shit like you hit her or something ya know? Women can be crazy when they don't get what they want.
/r/askTRP17/05/19 03:08 AM
6

Honestly, I can be a petty mother fucker. I don't think noise complaints are something police handle, I think that is the apartment complexes job. Of course, unless it is like gun shots or domestic violence. If you are a legal immigrant, once you get your ID I would fuck my lady friend louder. And let the lesbian fools next door call the police, its probably the most action they will get.
/r/askTRP16/05/19 02:01 AM
1

I need enough money to be able to quit working, due being born poor, naked and ignorant. I call it buying my freedom. After that I still won't get married and have kids. That would be the worst decision I could make in my life. I could deal with a DUI and I could deal with excessive debt. I can't deal with losing years of time and effort because she isn't happy anymore (no fault divorce) and she gets the kids (common precedent in US.)
/r/askTRP16/05/19 01:44 AM
3

KILL JOY!
/r/askTRP15/05/19 04:47 PM
2

I think you should keep fucking her like nothing changed in addition to finding more plates on your own time. Take a screen shot of her tinder profile though so later on if you are ever confronted about it you can say that you thought the relationship ended when you found her tinder profile.
/r/askTRP15/05/19 04:23 PM
6

I think after you dropped her off you drove into the friend zone.
/r/askTRP15/05/19 04:25 AM
-1

Advice is an under statement, you need help man. Why are you two having a kid right now when you aren't financially stable? Why didn't you guys use contraceptive? Why isn't she getting an abortion? Are you really going to settle for the quality of life that you have now for the next 18 years minus a new piece of furniture when your tax return comes in? This is madness. I think you should convince her to get an abortion (If possible). Tell her that right now isn't the best time and you want to ha…
/r/askTRP15/05/19 04:18 AM
1

So would not waiting 30 minutes. Saying I am high value is different than acting high value.
/r/askTRP15/05/19 03:51 AM
4

High value people don't have to confront I don't think. Confrontation is similar to the complaint process with employer-employee communications, or Government-governed communications. If an employee fucks up the employer can just fire them. Key word can. If a company fucks up the employee can file a complaint and or a law suit. Regardless, the company does not need any one employee. But most employees need their company. A person who is or considers them self high value sees most or all people i…
/r/askTRP14/05/19 05:48 PM
1

I have a day job which funds my primary expenses, retirement and possible pension. I have stocks which is my side hustle ATM not super fast pay but definitely slowly growing. I am looking to buying houses to rent out indefinitely once I save enough to be able to cover rent if someone leaves or is evicted and down payment. And the last thing which is my primary objective is finishing this pre law degree.
/r/askTRP14/05/19 05:21 PM
2

It depends why you go there everyday. Are you going there to be paid in appreciation and recognition or are you going there to get a pay check so you can spend it all and have to work indefinitely or perhaps to get money to invest to quit working. If you are spending everything as you go and you have no plans or ambitions outside of what the companies objectives are then it makes sense why this would upset you so much. The company owns you and you feel underappreciated. If this is your dream job…
/r/askTRP14/05/19 05:17 PM
8

Proceed as normal and escalate. Also provide update. This happened to me not long ago and all I did was the same as usual and still painted the sugar walls.
/r/askTRP14/05/19 05:12 PM
6

Fat dudes have less options than in shape dudes so they make better providers so women are attracted to them for that. Dudes that are in shape are the ones that get the women in their heat. It is a much safer bet for a woman to date/marry a fat man, and bang an attractive one on the side. It is actually exceptionally logical. It is the same as finding an entry level job when you have no skills, to fund the education you need to get skills to get a higher paying job.
/r/askTRP14/05/19 05:10 PM
4

Her value isn't as high as she and her friends thought it was. You kind of rejected the shit out of her. She was probably like I bet I can go up and get that dudes jacket. She tries and fails and life is like "damn bitch you ugly."
/r/askTRP14/05/19 02:59 AM
1

I am not sure. Do you think trying the same thing over and over and getting the same results will work?
/r/askTRP14/05/19 01:47 AM
3

Silence from her, she didn't respond to you. If she wanted to she would have, she didn't so her actions suggest she doesn't want to. If you are going to continue to communicate with her then you might as well lead with the free stuff you are going to give her.
/r/askTRP14/05/19 01:35 AM
1

I would allow her to come back to the company just at a lower position than she had previously.
/r/askTRP14/05/19 01:09 AM
1

She doesn't drink anything? Not even water? That is what I would say. I wouldn't even invite her out again because it seems like she isn't interested.
/r/askTRP14/05/19 01:04 AM
1

It is passive sexual strategy. It is a weak way of trying to take out the competition preemptively.
/r/askTRP13/05/19 04:15 PM
0

You have to not care to have the higher ground lol. Whoever cares less has the power sir.
/r/askTRP11/05/19 03:55 PM
1

I am down for a chat any time bro. What is up!
/r/askTRP11/05/19 03:54 PM
6

Good Leadership is a +1 -The people work because they want to accomplish the objective. No Leadership is +0 -The people do the work because they are paid to do it. Bad Leadership is +0 -The people do the work because they are paid to do it. Or People are instilled with ethics and morals from their up bringing. - Some people do their best and have higher competency so they achieve more. - Others are alright in both categories and achieve a some. - Then there are the rest that are fodder for the m…
/r/askTRP11/05/19 05:33 AM
2

If you are willing to loose the friend sure go for it. He will more than likely side with his crazy ass GF. I told a good friend of mine (blue pill) that his GF was trying to fuck me. Literally showed him the text messages and he didn't believe it. He had to find out on his own. I think the same applies in this situation. However, I would engage in arguments with her every chance I could to make her do mental loops with her lack of logic.
/r/askTRP11/05/19 04:28 AM
3

HEAD SHOT!
/r/askTRP11/05/19 04:03 AM
1

I think you are right. I think women try to see if a person is actually who they are selling themselves as. I met a chick who was an ultra feminist. I am ultra rational and only appeal to reason. So it didn't last long because I wouldn't concede a single point that wasn't valid (with feminism there aren't many.) And she ended up having a break down and crying and etc then I dropper her off. But I railed her out multiple times prior to that.
/r/askTRP11/05/19 04:02 AM
1

It provided years of insight into the nature of women. I was learning slowly. This shit just sped it up by like 10 years.
/r/askTRP11/05/19 03:58 AM
2

I met a girl at a casino while I was drunk and brought her back to my house and fucked her 2 times while in a relationship with someone else, no remorse. I have had 3 girlfriends at the same time and just blocked them on different days of the week depending on which one was coming over on a certain day, no remorse but difficulty level 7.5 lol. While there was a chick in a city near by that I would fuck on the weekends when I was going on a "road trip" with my friends. When I was in England I jus…
/r/askTRP11/05/19 03:41 AM
2

Internally acknowledge when you are trying to get people to like you, then disregard that mental notification. Do it enough and it becomes automatic.
/r/askTRP08/05/19 04:35 PM
2

Life is interesting in that we, as manifestations of the moment, think some of what we experience is our own. A word from the wise, it is never ours it is only our turn. To walk, to breath to feel her warm embrace, it is all the same. You enjoy this pleasure only in this moment. Even if you could feel the same pleasure again I can almost promise you it wouldn't be the same the second time around.
/r/askTRP07/05/19 06:22 PM
1

I am having difficulty answering this because I don't know what you mean by love. Quite frankly, I don't know what anyone means by love. When I consider the male biological imperative, the best way to ensure gene survival is to have as much sex as you can with as many different women that you can. When I consider female biological imperative it is to have sex with the best possible option every time they are in their window of fertility. I don't see how a broad term such as love can be shaped an…
/r/askTRP05/05/19 05:34 PM
3

Last year this time I went on a trip to Hawaii with some friends of mine. One of my friends had a gf who used her own money to come down for the trip to be with him. While there she was being an emotional wreck. He broke up with her on the trip. And she wants to leave early but apparently does not have the money to go back. Also they moved in together recently. He has a job, not so much her. When talking to him I advise that he not get her pregnant because she seems like a nut case. Fast forward…
/r/askTRP05/05/19 04:50 PM
3

Chest day.
/r/askTRP05/05/19 06:58 AM
4

Tell her you are going doing such and such tonight and she can join you if she wants. If she is an attention whore she will flake (you lose nothing,) If she actually meant what she said she will show up. Either way as a dude who values his time and his existence you don't care.
/r/askTRP04/05/19 11:38 PM
1

Develop social skills by throwing yourself out there.
/r/askTRP04/05/19 05:20 PM
5

He is jealous and has very little ammunition. He thinks bringing you down helps him somehow.
/r/askTRP04/05/19 04:54 PM
1

I am not a jealous person. I do not like being lied to or having my time wasted. That said, if I were in a situation where my gf was working with her ex for over half the day every day and on a regular basis, I would be strait up cheating on her or I would end it. I was born at night but, I wasn't born last night.
/r/askTRP01/05/19 04:25 PM
2

It is hard because it happens automatically but just think of this when people tell you something good or bad. It is worth a grain of salt really. If they say something good, then they didn't see your mistakes. If they say something bad then they didn't see your really bad mistakes lol.
/r/askTRP30/04/19 02:54 AM
2

The small town thing is definitely something to take into consideration. However, you are also protected by the plausible deniability. You didn't ask her out, you got her number to invite her if you are doing something she would be interested in.
/r/askTRP30/04/19 02:43 AM
2

Remember if compliments make you happy, insults make you sad. You are giving the control of your emotions ( a part of you) to other people. You should be the authority over what makes you feel good and other wise, not some random person or any one person. Compliments and insults are the same.
/r/askTRP29/04/19 05:52 PM
6

It depends but I find the direct approach has a higher level of success than the indirect. It gives off a vibe like " if this doesn't work out it doesn't matter because I have other options." Also in doing it this way as I wrote, you aren't asking for her number you are saying " you are more than welcome to join me, ill invite you if you are interested but, I need your number to do that. " As opposed to "can I have your number so I can ask you out sometime?" So it is indirect but direct at the s…
/r/askTRP29/04/19 05:47 PM
3

Arrogance is different from confidence. Confidence is knowing what you are talking about from getting it wrong 999 times before. You are damn correct to be confident if you know all the ways to fail at doing something. And you know all they ways to do it correctly. Arrogance is not knowing what the fuck you are talking about and acting like you do.
/r/askTRP29/04/19 05:37 PM
5

How about: You (to the one you find the most attractive and is showing indications of interest): Hey Her: Hey You: How are you? Her: good how are you ? You: Good, what are you doing after this? Her: (Something irrelevant to you) You: We should do something sometime. Her: Like what (interest peaked) You: Not sure ill decide and text you, what's your number? Her : gives you her number. Very simple.
/r/askTRP29/04/19 05:17 PM
2

This is a really good comment.
/r/askTRP29/04/19 05:09 PM
1

This is what I was going to say. I see it as fishing for a compliment.
/r/askTRP28/04/19 03:39 PM
1

20%: Excellence is a habit. Proper diet and exercise as a routine, pursuing education and managing finances and pursing whatever it is they are passionate about. Have confidence because they do the leg work on a daily basis. Sleeps with women (as many as they want) with little to no investment in the woman or the relationship because she wants what he has. 80%: Indirectly chooses mediocrity. Exercises sometimes, pursues education sometimes and manages finances to some extent. May have a passion …
/r/askTRP28/04/19 03:38 PM
2

Eat chicken wings while making constant eye contact with anyone who you feel is a threat.
/r/askTRP27/04/19 07:30 PM
5

Realize that everyone are NPCs. Unless they are your friends/family they mean nothing to you or what you want out of life. Of course be respectful and kind to people because you know were humans. But, why do you give a damn about anything they think?
/r/askTRP27/04/19 07:19 PM
3

More like potential plate turned into a code 5 friend zone situation almost instantly.
/r/askTRP27/04/19 07:18 PM
1

It doesn't sound like you have other options. If you did message her saying something like that you would confirm that for her.
/r/askTRP27/04/19 07:13 PM
1

Just talk about guns around him. How your interested in them, how you like to clean them and how you need to go shooting cause its been a while.
/r/askTRP27/04/19 06:51 PM
1

I was 24 when I came to the conclusion. I had a gf she was normal at first. After a while she starts trying to pick fights about dumb things. I was half way on the way to being red pilled. The sex stopped/slowed down. I pretty much gave up on things months before I ended it. As a 1/2 blue pill dude I wanted to make sure I did everything right. One day I had had enough. Enough of the lies, enough of the lack of sex enough of her complaining about everything and picking dumb fights. So after work …
/r/askTRP27/04/19 06:38 PM
2

I approach girls that seem interested.
/r/askTRP27/04/19 06:20 PM
3

At a bar in Florida there was this girl a few seats down from me looking pretty good. We made eye contact about 2-3 times so I signaled her to come over and went from there. I put my arm around her and started chatting her up. At a casino in Vegas. Same kind of thing. This chick is walking around looking like she is looking for a slot machine to play and we make eye contact repeatedly. At another casino same thing at the black jack tables. Signaled the chick to come over after I knew she was int…
/r/askTRP27/04/19 05:11 AM
1

You made yourself sound thirsty and without other options. Try not to do that moving forward? I would not apologize personally, why do you owe her anything,(explanations included?) . Asked her out through text? ? I would set a date and a time and if she shows good if she doesn't good. She isn't a plate already so she doesn't get much consideration. I have my plates in order based on seniority and good conduct of course. She is a recruit. But as HR you are making some mistakes man. You can't talk…
/r/askTRP27/04/19 05:00 AM
3

No response. If she isn't enthusiastic about our communications what is the point? I mean are we going for table scraps ? I value my time too much to send out hundreds of messages trying to cater each one to get a response from a prospective fuck who, more than likely won't give me the time of day any ways. Or quite frankly any dude on their the time of day unless he is mr meal ticket, or baby daddy 2.0.
/r/askTRP27/04/19 04:50 AM
1

The alpha mind set is that failure is unacceptable. To an alpha the only existence that exists is the one where they exceed all expectations.
/r/askTRP26/04/19 05:33 PM
27

All women (in my experience ) are the same. There was a point, when I was younger, when I felt how you proclaim to feel. At my age now I realize, women do what they want. Betas tolerate it. Alphas don't.
/r/askTRP26/04/19 05:27 PM
17

1) Get in text or writing that you never beat, sexually assaulted or raped her. 2) Whether or not she knew where I lived I would file a police report. 3) I would ghost her and move out of the city/town/state as soon as I could. 4) Once police report was filed I would get a restraining order. (1 to show you felt unsafe, 2 because you are showing her mental instability and 3 to cover your back side.)
/r/askTRP26/04/19 05:18 PM
1

Your dealing in absolutes I think you might want to do some soul searching or something man. This is like saying some thing is either left or right and there is no in between. I think the top 20% of the men get to chose whatever woman they want in almost any situation. While the rest of the men either go home and beat off or wait until the lions eat to see if anything is left. There are levels to this shit though of course. I think having a sub to talk about this stuff doesn't make everyone in i…
/r/askTRP26/04/19 03:40 AM
2

I think it depends what you want. If you want her to come over on Sundays so you have a base line average fuck then make it an experience. Dick size doesn't compare as much to a good time. If every time she hangs out with you she has a good ass time and you make her orgasm however you have to she will come back like a dog. Where as if you are rocking a 4 inch dick and you are using the sex alone as your selling point, good luck. If you want to marry her just know she will need all the (sugar) wa…
/r/askTRP26/04/19 03:22 AM
3

I think the issue is you decided to settle for this 31 year old chick who probably knows more about cream pies than Little Debbie.
/r/askTRP26/04/19 03:14 AM
1

Good job displaying high value in my opinion. If you waited for her to think about it you would show that you had no other options. By saying later, you were like I have option bye felicia.
/r/askTRP26/04/19 03:06 AM
4

Absolutely. Everyone wants to bang a young beautiful woman. Everyone wants to listen, everyone wants to sell them things etc. As they get older no one cares but they haven't realized that yet and won't until they are a single mom or worse. It is ironic really. When I was younger I was open to being in a relationship and all of that. The women the same age as me were more interested in not being in a relationship. So fast forward 8-9 years now these woman are coming back around like a boomerang. …
/r/askTRP26/04/19 02:50 AM
1

Yes.
/r/askTRP23/04/19 03:55 PM
1

I will take 10, 1's over one, 10.
/r/askTRP19/04/19 06:46 PM
2

If she reschedules she might as well be the party leader #eat the butt.
/r/askTRP18/04/19 07:08 PM
1

You have all the time you wish to have sir. Just make sure next time, you eat the butt.
/r/askTRP18/04/19 07:07 PM
1

Eat the butt.
/r/askTRP18/04/19 07:04 PM
3

She is probably getting railed out so hard that her name will be on the train tracks on the 2020 monopoly set.
/r/askTRP17/04/19 05:56 PM
0

So when you meet a chick you pursue 100%. After you bang her you slowly with drawl your pursuit. Not ah we fucked I ain't doing shit no more. More like form you 100%/her 0% to you 90%/her 10%. Whenever it gets to you 0%/her 100% then you are in the green.
/r/askTRP17/04/19 05:51 PM
1

She was looking for someone to bang when she was ovulating. Someone who she saw as more of an alpha than you for whatever reason. After she satiated that desire she goes back into comfort mode (beta.) I read about this recently. You don't own her, it is just your turn sir.
/r/askTRP17/04/19 05:48 PM
2

Socially correct me: Play it off and don't think about it too much because reasons. Not socially correct me: Get her number covertly and bang the ever living shit out of her and never mention it to anyone ever. Because people don't like to know the truth about fuck'n.
/r/askTRP16/04/19 05:19 PM
7

Love is 3/4s up her vagina. Lust is hitting her cervix.
/r/askTRP14/04/19 06:55 PM
1

Have sex with her through text message. Jk I do my recon on my own. Otherwise it is weird as fuck like I wasn't able to do it on my own so I used your friend to help me out. If a girl hits me up fair game.
/r/askTRP14/04/19 06:35 PM
4

I can't believe you didn't bang her. She invited you over, she asked you to sleep in her bed, she wanted to drink and smoke, you made out, you cuddled, she even put music on and you didn't bang her because in so many words you felt like she is special..wow. I am not sure if that is recoverable.
/r/askTRP14/04/19 06:09 PM
3

I am the same way. I love it as well. Since I know I will not be lifting at all the next day I feel like I have to make the lifting time count the days that I am.
/r/askTRP14/04/19 12:26 AM
5

Friends dog was aggressive, fell down climbing tree, tripped while running, cat attacked you (most honest lol,) rollerblading accident..Or just tell her your not up to hang out, or tell her she can't meet your needs as well as 2+ women can.
/r/askTRP13/04/19 11:54 PM
1

Passive aggressive, the way I see it, would be more along the lines of making indirect comments and never bringing it up strait forward. Ignoring someone or distancing yourself from them is punishment in behavior. Instead of telling them you fucked up, they kind of just figure it out when you don't have time for them anymore. It really is super effective. Usually after that when I do hang out with someone if I give them another chance they don't try the bullshit again. It is absolutely beautiful…
/r/askTRP13/04/19 11:27 PM
2

Yeah you are never getting that money back man. Just remember this bull shit moving forward. I borrowed my little sister money a few months ago and she just paid me back. If she hadn't I wouldn't lend her another dime for the rest of her life.
/r/askTRP13/04/19 11:24 PM
1

Seems like you need to do some field work then report back. What you are saying is a mix between white night and the notebook.
/r/askTRP11/04/19 06:09 PM
2

I think you have it backwards big dog. A blue pill dude doesn't cheat and walks away because that is the "right thing to do." A red pill dude realizes women are community property. He never owned her it was only his turn. He thinks she may have cheated. A blue pill move is caring at all what she does when she isn't around him. A red pill dude already assumed that if she can cheat (IE given the chance,) she will. A blue pill dude drives himself crazy trying to investigate whether or not she cheat…
/r/askTRP11/04/19 05:49 PM
1

It is probably frowned upon but I would cheat behind her back and not care if she cheated or not.
/r/askTRP11/04/19 05:26 PM
1

Really low.
/r/askTRP11/04/19 03:55 PM
4

I think that is good enough. It was probably the situation not you.
/r/askTRP11/04/19 03:50 PM
2

I had a GF that did something similar and I confronted her that is how I learned that. I was pretty pissed that she did it but whatever I guess that is acceptable behavior for women in relationships these days.
/r/askTRP11/04/19 03:48 PM
2

I would be more concerned with the post meet up text message. Did you get one saying she had a good time and etc? Just to cover your ass in the event of a false rape claim?
/r/askTRP11/04/19 03:46 PM
3

The reason I say not to tell her is because if you do you are going down a rabbit hole of what ifs. Additionally, you come off as jealous, needy and controlling. But if you must insist on telling her do it in action. Or lie and say you slept next to another chick but you weren't under the blanket and didn't have sex. See how it makes her feel.
/r/askTRP11/04/19 03:43 PM
2

That is outrageous. You see something wrong with this because you wouldn't do this. I see it the same way you do. Whether or not she intended or intends to cheat she put herself into a situation where she could have. Why would she do this?
/r/askTRP11/04/19 03:28 PM
2

How did you find out? Definitely demote to plate whether or not you tell her is up to you. I mean whether or not you end the LTR. I wouldn't confront her about the sleeping in a bed with another man. I would just bang the brakes off her until she left for whatever reason. But if you don't have other plates go get some asap.
/r/askTRP11/04/19 03:22 PM
3

Show genuine interest in your plates. It is really simple it isn't really about being emotional. I don't think you will be able to keep very many plates if you act like a woman, as much as they say that shit.
/r/askTRP11/04/19 03:18 PM
4

I send enough messages to determine whether or not and when she is available to hang out. Before she leaves I tell her to message me when she gets home. When she does I say hey I had a great time and we should hang out again soon. That is it. I usually say hi, how are you? Then I say what are you up to?/we should do something? When date and time is set I say cool see you then. Why do I want to sit there and have full conversation through any medium I can't physically escalate and have no chance …
/r/askTRP11/04/19 03:13 PM
3

I think whether or not it is salvageable is not within your control. You are doing your part she isn't doing hers. A better question, how much longer are you willing to tolerate her mistreatment of you? Are you not worth more, if not in her opinion (obviously) why not in your own? And how much will you regret time spent dealing with unnecessary complication when you are only going to live one time for sure?
/r/askTRP11/04/19 03:06 PM
2

Until you realize that isn't dried tooth paste on her mouth when she shows up.
/r/askTRP01/04/19 11:03 AM
4

If by negative emotions, you mean you are inconsistent with seeing and or communicating with her. It is because she doesn't know where she stands with you. She doesn't know whether or not you even like her. Women need validation it seems to me, probably because they are valued on looks and fertility. On the flip side if you were seeing her all the time she knows where you stand. She wonders if she can do better.
/r/askTRP30/03/19 09:02 PM
1

With 7.5 billion people on the planet someone is having sex lol.
/r/askTRP30/03/19 08:59 PM
1

Sucks to go though this dude. It sounds like when you two got together you isolated yourself from all plates and potential plates (as you are depressed from loosing one.) Moving forward remember this pain and try not to do this again? She clearly had other options and took one of them. In her mind at least.
/r/askTRP30/03/19 08:38 PM
-2

I hate when people apologize. And I hate apologizing too I also hate making mistakes and I try not to make the same mistake twice. When people apologize to me I either tell them "it is all good, just don't do it again." If they do it again I don't say anything. Kids don't know any better usually so I give them a little more leeway. The reason I view it this way is people are accountable for their actions. Whether they think so or not, they are. Adults get little to no leeway with me. I mean ever…
/r/askTRP29/03/19 04:00 AM
22

Lets do the beta test. If you were her boyfriend would you be pissed off if your gf gave her number to some random dude at the bar she just met,saying we can hang out? If yes then yes she wants to fuck, if no then yes she wants to fuck.
/r/askTRP29/03/19 03:55 AM
7

If throwing in the towel means not paying or taking the risk of paying child support for 18 years per kid at a percentage of your income. When that is factored in with what is paid for taxes you are looking at living off half of your income or less. How will you save for retirement? What will happen to the quality of your life? Is genetic reproduction really so important that you reduce the quality of your life to being poor when there are 7.5 + billion people on the planet?
/r/askTRP29/03/19 03:51 AM
2

I think it is because not giving a fuck about things that don't matter is probably closely linked to 1) over all life happiness and 2) mental fortitude. Both qualities that are preferential in offspring and attractive to women. The reason I say not giving a fuck about things that don't matter is because a person that is confident as hell or is overly cocky, is either unaware of all that they don't know or they have assessed the information and determined that it is not within their control so it…
/r/askTRP28/03/19 08:15 PM
3

I think of it like buying cars. You don't buy a Bugatti not unless you are rich. You test drive a Bugatti. When you go to buy a car it is a Nissan, Ford, Toyota, KIA etc. A dude that is an alpha is a Bugatti. She can't have you but every chance she has to test drive you she is going to. ​
/r/askTRP28/03/19 08:06 PM
1

It is a lose lose. If she doesn't carpool you are controlling, manipulative, insecure etc. If she does you failed a shit test. This is why it is key to have not said anything. The way I see it, it is the beginning of the end either way. I would dick her down as much as I can until you can't anymore. Logically yes it is disrespectful as fuck for her to do something you aren't comfortable with when you two are in a relationship. The logic test is like this, if roles were reversed would you have do…
/r/askTRP27/03/19 06:24 AM
1

She probably won't fuck and she has already wasted too much of your time. I think if you hang out with her it should be at your place and on a week night or something so no harm no foul. Weekends are the prime days for obvious reasons and you don't want to waste them on someone who you are almost certain not to fuck. So either just ignore her or if she is your only option then hang out with her but on a week day or late Sunday or something, no more dates though. Invite her over later in the even…
/r/askTRP27/03/19 06:20 AM
1

-So if a chick won't fuck me or come over I don't care. Hopefully I have another chick that is already lined up and will come over if not I am fine being alone. - If I meet up with a chick and we don't fuck, I will not meet up with her again unless it is at my place (assuming it is a new chick.) If it is a chick that I have banged regularly and she is just full of excuses one day, I will not hang out with her for a month. When I am available again how I was before she will get the message. Works…
/r/askTRP27/03/19 06:16 AM
2

I can't control other people and what they do. I don't trust other people either. With very few exceptions. I tend to lean towards the "if a person knew they could take over the world and not get caught or fail, would they" mentality. So you can either not give a fuck and bang her brains out as long as it is your turn, or you can be jealous and insecure and all of that. I would recommend playing the field to the maximum extend possible even while you have a gf. You slipped up though for sure in …
/r/askTRP27/03/19 06:00 AM
7

Displayed low value, mistake number 1. - She canceled the day before to buy a car? More like she had a better option and took it and you were okay with that. So obviously your time isn't that valuable to you or to her. Validated, mistake number 2. - You fingered her and made out with her in a place that you couldn't bang her so she knew you were attracted to her. There was no question about it. So she no longer needed your validation. There was no longer a reason for her to fuck you. Failed shit…
/r/askTRP27/03/19 05:49 AM
1

I would tell her I would be at place X at Y time, if she wants to join me that would be great, if not we can meet up another time.
/r/askTRP27/03/19 05:12 AM
3

I would go no question about that. If she is upset she can be upset.
/r/askTRP27/03/19 05:08 AM
1

Same I know a girl who told me the same thing that I have all the power. I have been seeing her on and off for about 3 years and from the get go it was only for sex.
/r/askTRP27/03/19 04:45 AM
2

I don't think I have seen the term used ever so I may be coining it but she should be a long term plate. And you should also keep banging her for now. You could probably bang her for the rest of her life regardless of whether or not she is seeing anyone else. You have taken her soul lol.
/r/askTRP27/03/19 04:36 AM
2

You could let her be a childish fool alone, or you could be a childish fool with her. To be the grown up do nothing, maybe you have a small dick maybe you don't who cares. To come down to her level say well eveyones is small in a hallway.
/r/askTRP27/03/19 04:33 AM
1

You are rationalizing irrational.
/r/askTRP27/03/19 04:29 AM
2

I don't value women on their competence, I value them on their beauty and fertility. Am I an asshole, sure. So is nature.
/r/MensRights27/03/19 04:29 AM
6

She knew the whole time, didn't disclose it to him and tried to perpetuate the a lie after the birth. The title should read woman gives birth to twins before having to admit she cheated on her soon to be ex husband.
/r/MensRights27/03/19 04:08 AM
4

A girl asked me if I thought she was fat. I asked her if she wanted my honest opinion, she said yeah. I said yeah. She blew up on me for telling her the truth. Fast forward 8 months and she is in the hospital for heart issues and thanks me for saying something.
/r/MGTOW26/03/19 08:33 PM
2

Know that they are miserable fucks who don't have enough back bone to go after what they want in life let alone say when something bothers them. They aren't willing to be responsible for the outcome but they want to criticize decisions made by people who do take responsibility. So in doing things that make sense and picking up women you are making these "friends" jealous. The stupid part is that you aren't doing anything they can't do. They just don't want to put in the work but they want the re…
/r/askTRP26/03/19 04:34 AM
1

You need to develop a spine. Also realize there is no compromise. People without options compromise. She should compromise and you do what you want. I had a chick like this for a while and I just don't have time for it anymore. I would rather sit at home alone then sit here with her or be anywhere with her quite frankly. I mean seriously who wants to hang out with a masculine ass woman? Everything is an argument if you don't just roll over and lay on your stomach eventually.
/r/askTRP26/03/19 04:23 AM
1

Yeah I don't use social media except for texting and calling people I actually care about. Also, being on social media, people tend to try to pry into your life for no reason at all.
/r/askTRP26/03/19 04:09 AM
0

Stay on good terms with her until you leave town. When you leave town leave suddenly with no warning, change your number, block her on everything or create new accounts and never ever look back. Fuck her with a condom from now on if you haven't been already.
/r/askTRP26/03/19 04:07 AM
1

That is kind of weird but maybe you can make it work. Why not go to your place instead? Also I am curious why she doesn't have a car ?
/r/askTRP26/03/19 03:52 AM
1

Hopefully you sent some kind of a confirmation text like "hope you made it home safe and I can't wait to see you again/tonight was fun we should get together again sometime." Just to protect you against false rape/sexual assault charges. I would ghost her for a few weeks though. And if it happens again for a few more weeks maybe a month. Just so the message is getting across that if she isn't giving it up you don't have time for it.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 07:09 AM
1

Ask him if he cares if you check her temp.
/r/askTRP18/03/19 07:25 AM
1

She wants to eat the butt.
/r/askTRP18/03/19 07:18 AM
1

Tell them whatever they want to hear. There is no convincing an idiot.
/r/askTRP18/03/19 06:58 AM
1

I think the objective is to make rational decisions based off observations to improve the quality of your life. Ultimately, to live the highest quality life you can being as it seems we only live once. The boasting, bragging and validation is what people who need to sell themselves do. When a person has their shit together they don't need to do that. Their life does that for them. It is just people don't see when you you were running everyday at 4 in the morning. People don't see when you were l…
/r/askTRP18/03/19 06:53 AM
1

It seems like you over played a hand and began back peddling. Just own it man. You want to take a shower with her. Back peddling is like raising your shoulders so the extra neck skin can be easily grabbed by the parent lion so they can bring the cub back to the den. Nothing is more pathetic haha. You can probably still salvage this. Just stop back peddling. Best of luck.
/r/askTRP18/03/19 06:36 AM
1

I would slowly back away from her and keep text messages from the relationship as proof you did not rape or assault her in any way. She seems controlling and we already know how manipulative people can be. If you decide to stay with her know that if you hit her you are done son. Also if she gets pregnant or claims she is pregnant you need proof you are the father and know that she will use the kid or alleged pregnancy as leverage to control you. If she threatens to kill herself that isn't your p…
/r/askTRP18/03/19 06:32 AM
1

To me she is trying to make you jealous. Why would she tell you something like that? And would you tell her something like that? I usually just say that is nice! I also don't give one fuck what she does when she is not around me. So if you care and are jealous I would pretend not to be. I mean body language, facial expression everything. She says "oh guys are looking at my butt," you should say "that's cool," and carry on the conversation completely non-fuck giving.
/r/askTRP18/03/19 06:02 AM
1

Pledge fealty to your new keeper!
/r/askTRP18/03/19 05:53 AM
4

Calling something "mean" is characterizing the communication itself as opposed to criticizing/evaluating the message for accuracy and legitimacy. In reality there is no sugar coating. If you can't figure out what is required to create a fire when you need a fire, or how to distill salt water when you need to or how to hunt, you are a dead person. Reality does not care if you think that is "mean." That is why people are so coarse here.
/r/askTRP17/03/19 07:14 PM
6

Like they are NPC's (non playable characters.)
/r/askTRP17/03/19 07:03 PM
1

Proceed with condom I mean with caution.
/r/askTRP17/03/19 06:44 PM
2

Tell her she can get 20% of this dick and leave the country with all of your assets.
/r/askTRP17/03/19 06:37 PM
1

I think she realized she has competition. So she is naturally trying to out compete the other women. She doesn't know though, she is only swimming up an endless stream.
/r/askTRP17/03/19 07:56 AM
3

Once you are content being alone you will be in a much better position to pursue women. It is like going to buy a car when you don't need one v.s. going to buy a car when yours is broken down and you have no other options. Which situation would you rather be in? Beggars can't be choosers, so stop begging.
/r/askTRP17/03/19 06:59 AM
3

I think women don't want to be sluts in public. I think that is why they say oh I am looking for a nice guy then are getting banged in a bathroom stall. I think the reason they don't want their guy to get in too good of shape is because other women will be more attracted to him and he will have more options. She wants him to be in a position to where she has to worry less about him leaving. Disclaimer: There is nothing wrong with being a slut in fact, I like sluts. They are upfront.
/r/askTRP17/03/19 06:44 AM
8

Damn Daniel. HPV see if you can get tested. The husband thing, I would sleep with one eye open and if possible deny that you knew she was married, plausible deniability if possible. I was in a similar situation once upon a time and it got pretty close to being pretty violent.
/r/askTRP17/03/19 06:39 AM
3

When you go to use a slide at a park at midnight no one else is there it’s all yours. When you go to that same slide right after school lets out or on a weekend you’re waiting in line to ride it. Same principal really. She’s was busy before now she isn’t or the opposite .
/r/askTRP09/03/19 07:36 PM
2

This is my calculation as well.
/r/askTRP07/03/19 12:07 AM
1

Makes sense!
/r/askTRP05/03/19 08:46 PM
12

I mean if roles were reversed and you had a harem of women that just were in your life doing nice shit for you, what would she think? This is what made me not care. I figured it is fucked up. I wouldn't do that because it doesn't seem like something someone who "loved you" would do. She must know how this makes you feel. I am sure you feel like you can be replaced by any one of these orbiters. They are literally trying to contest you for your position in her life. It is so pathetic and a mind fu…
/r/askTRP05/03/19 06:17 AM
1

I hope the immigrate some of them women. Increase the diversity in the pool ;)! I think I might be having desert fever! Seriously though I think it might not be good but at the same time if the people of the government don't care then it doesn't matter.
/r/askTRP05/03/19 06:01 AM
15

My lady friend had like 3 orbiters that I knew about. I was stressed and jealous and angry and like wtf. Then one day I just said fuck it. I actually realized that I don't care if she fucks all of them when I am not around. I could care less.
/r/askTRP05/03/19 05:58 AM
1

I think women have sex for maintenance as opposed to out of desire once in a paired off status. Why for maintenance? She needs to feed the provider/protector enough to stay. Why not out of desire? Because women want men who have options. Would a man in a paired off status be more appealing than a man who is so sure that he would rather play the field vs settle down? A guy that is willing to play the field is saying not only can I do better, but I demand better. The guy who is paired off is sayin…
/r/askTRP05/03/19 05:53 AM
7

I was brought up to hold the door, pay for dates, pick her up drop her off, be nice to her no matter what, never hit her, don't touch her in an offensive or sexual way, verbally ask for consent, hold the car door open, buy her shit for holidays/birthdays, trust her, when dating don't look for anyone else, that girls and guys can be friends and not fuck, that if she gets pregnant it is my job to support the kid and she has no responsibility at all, to get on one knee and propose to her to show he…
/r/askTRP05/03/19 05:34 AM
0

Neither now.
/r/askTRP05/03/19 05:16 AM
9

The online dating scene is definitely trash now. It has always been trash but lately it is even more useless. I remember back in the 2013 time frame POF was money. In 2014-2016 Tinder was money. Now there are bots, fat chicks, attention whores predominantly on those sites. Online dating is more like a pond that was over fished in my experience. I pretty much gave up on online dating and moved back to reality. I also think the women on online dating always had inflated egos. Now I think the women…
/r/askTRP05/03/19 05:08 AM
0

Eat the butt.
/r/askTRP04/03/19 08:14 PM
-1

The only way to break up with a woman and avoid feelings and all that is to make her a plate without her realizing it. Agree to stay with her fuck her brains out and string her along until she realizes eventually, that there is no next step. Ending it one day for any reason(s) will create a dramatic situation. Letting things play out will be much better and you have an interim plate.
/r/askTRP04/03/19 08:14 PM
1

Disclaimer not socially acceptable: Story 1) In high school I was in a situation where my best friends GF wanted to fuck me. I told him he got mad at me. Didn't believe me. I showed him texts he thought I made it up. Eventually he came around. Story 2) I made out with a good friend of mines GF in their bed when I was 19. He went to work. She was sending choosing signals I engaged. We would have fucked but she didn't want to because we didn't know when we would be back from work. Story 3) I fucke…
/r/askTRP04/03/19 08:07 PM
3

Her beta orbiter son. They are just friends.
/r/askTRP04/03/19 09:12 AM
1

You should start fucking whoever you want. She isn’t taking the relationship seriously and neither should you. So use her for sex until she stops putting out then fire her. TLDR: if a gf acts like a plate, demote her to a plate
/r/askTRP04/03/19 08:55 AM
1

I have no idea what you were trying to say
/r/askTRP03/03/19 01:32 AM
1

Plausible deniability. She probably feels insecure for some reason and is wondering if she can get validation from you in the form of attention. I would ask her if she wants to get lunch or something some time and see if she flirts then. If it goes well invite her over if she still flirts try to fuck her. If you can new plate, if you can’t you know it was all for attention in the first place. You might be able to just invite her over but it’s hard to tell if it’s for attention or not ?!
/r/askTRP03/03/19 01:12 AM
2

Bad idea.
/r/askTRP03/03/19 12:08 AM
0

The correct response is to lie : I am open to a relationship if the right person comes along. But I like to take my time.
/r/askTRP02/03/19 11:59 PM
1

When divorce, alimony and child support won't set you in life.
/r/askTRP02/03/19 01:18 PM
2

Every woman I know who claims she is a lesbian sleeps with or has slept with men. They are closer to the socially inept side of the scale I will add which might explain why they would just go for women as opposed to men. I kind of see it as a cop out.
/r/askTRP02/03/19 01:12 PM
1

Beta cuck fuck pedestal conditioning. When I was in high school I was so blue pilled. I had absolutely beautiful GFs that I didn't fuck because of this. Now I don't care if they have a 10/10 face I want to know how pretty their pants flower is. ​
/r/askTRP02/03/19 12:52 PM
1

Communicate less and when/if she inquires into why tell her you have been busy with (insert excuse here) but tell her you really enjoy her company and should get together soon. Or actually I read somewhere that over communication will turn her off. And make her think you are too needy. So if you want to burn the bridge try that lol. Pretty much act like a blue pill cuck.
/r/askTRP02/03/19 12:28 PM
1

This is the best thing that could happen. Just make sure she has a good time. Like make it an experience and she will be back.
/r/askTRP02/03/19 11:59 AM
3

I would just bring him into a family court room one Saturday and just sit in the back and observe what occurs. That alone should be enough to make him reconsider. If after that he still wants to go then so be it. There is nothing you can do about it. Don't even tell him I told you so when he gets set in life. I have found that people are like trains on tracks some times. There is nothing you can do to convince them to switch rails even if that means they are headed towards a collapsed tunnel.
/r/askTRP02/03/19 11:51 AM
5

I would just not tell him next time I fucked her. And I wouldn't tell him anything that might hurt his feelings. I would probably just slowly stop communicating with him honestly, what a cuck.
/r/askTRP02/03/19 11:47 AM
2

It sounds to me like she doesn't want to go on a date because she is seeing someone. But she can make out fuck and suck you. She seems to need plausible deniability. Have you tried inviting her to your place? Going out is took risky for her. The only issue I see is if you want a relationship ? Which wouldn't make sense to me but hey, not my life.
/r/askTRP02/03/19 10:28 AM
2

? Just own it man. You sent the message she decided to post it. Lesson learned.
/r/askTRP02/03/19 10:23 AM
3

Are you okay with being in a relationship with a woman that was fucked blind folded, tied down, in a 3 way, raw dogged repeatedly, sucked dicks, swallowed cum, gargled cum, took it up the ass. Fucked right side up, up side down, side ways, on beds, on floors, in public bathrooms, at parks, in trailers, outside inside, in a tent, etc. You get my point. The ones that tell you "oh I have been with 3 dudes romantically." There is nothing wrong with being the next dude to fuck her because she cleans …
/r/askTRP02/03/19 10:12 AM
2

Nah man it ain't happening. I would lead her on and fuck her for that.
/r/askTRP01/03/19 06:44 AM
1

If you lie and she shows up then you are in a really awkward position. She may leave. If you tell the truth she might leave, she might stay. Take away, if you don't care you might end up having a 3 way. Women are freaky and want to be accepted.
/r/askTRP01/03/19 12:00 AM
1

I think women always under state their partner count. It is not socially respectable to be a slut. So I have no idea. Also women have more option then men so I would assume actual body count is 2 - 3 times higher than what she says.
/r/askTRP28/02/19 11:45 PM
1

This. It screams it doesn't matter and I have options. I think 8/10 she will still be there.
/r/askTRP28/02/19 11:42 PM
1

I think if you don't care women can sense it. That is when the fucking happens.
/r/askTRP28/02/19 09:21 PM
1

I never had a high pressure sales position but I was a Jehova's Witness for the first 16 years of my life. I think if I can sell people the idea that the bible is real, I can sell them anything. I always would start the conversation off with small talk. Asking them about their day and how everything is going. Look them in the eyes when you talk to them or actually listen if it is on the phone. If through message or phone ask questions that make it seem like you are listening. Let the inner sales…
/r/askTRP28/02/19 09:17 PM
1

Rating is a pass with a few discrepancies/ notes. Only approach girls that show interest. Don't kiss unless you are going to fuck her. Wait a while after getting her number to contact her and keep the phone calls short. Finally if you don't already, make it an experience when they spend time with you. Don't date after the third date if she hasn't fucked you yet. After that she can come over or she can not. Keep the dates cheap. Like drinks for happy hour of coffee. Do you have any plates?
/r/askTRP28/02/19 09:07 PM
2

Yeah you can be mad but you can't rationally express it to her.
/r/askTRP28/02/19 08:17 PM
1

Whatever the cause of the fight was I think if you were content being alone it wouldn't matter. Being dependent on anything makes you keep as much of it as possible. Where as being content being without makes it to where you only have things/people that you enjoy being with. This goes for everything. I think it might be a red pill pillar. If I don't need a woman then they are all worth: 1/2 X 7.5 Billion, that isn't special. For general friends it is 1/7.5 billion. If need them then they are ove…
/r/askTRP28/02/19 09:35 AM
2

Yeah I read secure job maybe you are around soul sucking fucks. I have a secure job but I am about to finish my degree and roll out man. I can't do this shit any longer than I have to hahaha I don't give a fuck how secure it is. Maybe it isn't the job, maybe you need to go for a drive and just exist for a moment. Exist with your thoughts and reflect on the past, present and future. No radio, no ads nothing but you and your thoughts. IDK just a thought. I am thinking about taking a month off and …
/r/askTRP27/02/19 09:54 AM
3

Tell her your needs aren't being met. This is a subtle way of telling her if the sex doesn't increase you are out, without directly asking her for more sex like you are begging for table scraps. Also if she has a bunch of excuses and shit just tell her it isn't going to work out. Realistically, you can't fuck her excuses and you aren't in a relationship with her excuses. And I am of the opinion (with a population of 7.5 billion) she is fucking maybe just not you. best of luck!
/r/askTRP27/02/19 09:49 AM
0

It is obvious she is fucking or about to be fucking other dudes. But that should be public knowledge since women are community property...
/r/askTRP27/02/19 08:00 AM
0

I had one chick a few months ago didn't want to fuck one night because of some reason (excuse) I can't remember. I didn't hang out with her for about a month after that. Now we fuck every time she comes over. I didn't ignore her or anything I was just busy ( excuse ) for a month. ​
/r/askTRP27/02/19 06:54 AM
0

I have friends, family, lady friends, aunts, uncles and work colleagues choosing not to risk half for one person and empty promises doesn't equal living in a vacuum ? That is ridiculous.
/r/askTRP27/02/19 02:50 AM
0

Voluntarily entering into an agreement where you are trading " love " for half of all of the value of your time, labor, sweat, tears and retirement is what makes the general population happy then so be it. It is like religion to me. The Stalingrad of religion for me was that exactly. "Would millions of people really think that mary was a virgin, and jesus her son? And blah blah blah. I am not interested in purchasing snake oil.
/r/askTRP26/02/19 07:19 PM
0

Stop waiting
/r/askTRP26/02/19 07:05 AM
4

This. Muscle isn't built in the gym.
/r/askTRP26/02/19 04:18 AM
3

I would have looked at her like she was stupid, then said back to what we were doing.. Making her look like a low minded fool. But low key I would stop biting my nails.
/r/askTRP26/02/19 04:06 AM
1

Why does her ex bf have a key to get into her apartment or home or dorm or whatever?
/r/askTRP26/02/19 03:56 AM
2

Why would you want to?
/r/askTRP26/02/19 03:44 AM
9

Same here. I do love fucking women and spending time with them. But I don't love any one woman. I don't see how I could ever again. I kind of think the idea of a LTR or marriage is just a pipe dream concept to assist women in raising offspring. It seems grim and odd because so much of the species pair bonds off but my experience tells me the dude thinks they pair bonded off. She is still hard wired to fuck her best reproductive option. ​
/r/askTRP26/02/19 03:37 AM
9

Out do your competition. Like be in shape, have bigger muscles have money, or seem like you do. Make it an experience when you spend time with women. That way there is an attachment and they want to see you again. When you aren't with them don't validate them, talk on the phone for hours, have infinite text conversations, reply fast seeming like you have nothing going on. When you do it for long enough you will build a base of plates and you will do it out of habit. This will make you not jealou…
/r/askTRP26/02/19 03:33 AM
3

Just don't chase her if she pulls back. I don't believe in the virgin mary shit anymore. I have had girls who don't seem like that at my place despite being engaged/married/in a relationship. No one even knows. Did god really impregnate mary? Or was she just so good at fucking low key that they made a damn fairly tale about her ass?
/r/askTRP26/02/19 03:27 AM
0

She wants to be dripping cum on her way to the bathroom. ​ ​
/r/askTRP26/02/19 03:19 AM
2

A couple things you validate(d) the fuck out of her. You gave her a lot of non sexual attention. After talking on the phone for hours why does she need to come over now? She is probably hooking up with other guys. I hate when dudes think women have a low count. Women have more options so I say she has a higher count. The black out thing is a joke. Pretty much a shit test. A beta would have thrown a fit and gotten jealous. I also think you spent too much time with her making her think you are too…
/r/askTRP26/02/19 03:11 AM
1

I think it is a power play. Women need the emotional turmoil. I think if you do what she is asking you to do she might lose interest. If you keep doing what you are doing I think there is a better chance she stays. That or she found someone she has higher interest in and needs an excuse to step out for a bit. ​
/r/askTRP26/02/19 03:00 AM
1

Good thing.
/r/askTRP25/02/19 08:36 PM
2

No. This is a calculated measure. You literally take her trust in you mixed with logic and emotion and slowly bird feed it to her.
/r/askTRP25/02/19 08:35 PM
0

The end game for a woman who is "red pilled" is to have kids with an alpha, but have a beta cuck fuck to protect and fund the kids. This is the best possible out come for a woman. 1/10 misery rating. If she marries the alpha he is no longer an alpha after marriage/commitment/ LTR/ relationship/etc, then he becomes beta cuck fuck. 5/10 misery rating. If she over values her attractiveness for too long she becomes single mom of the law. She has kids with no father figure and supports them herself. …
/r/askTRP25/02/19 08:32 PM
1

Say " your muscles are probably super tense from the workout." A relaxing massage would probably be great for releasing the tension.
/r/askTRP25/02/19 08:16 PM
11

Lady boys have always had deep voices..
/r/askTRP25/02/19 08:08 PM
1

Yeah in all of it I feel bad for the kids. Especially the kids raised around beta cuck fucks, even though they probably aren't his kids.
/r/askTRP25/02/19 08:07 PM
1

Women are weird sometimes the next dude is the dude that gets the short straw and her biological clock takes over and bam! 18 years of child support.
/r/askTRP25/02/19 08:04 PM
1

Very carefully, like 18 years of a percentage of your paycheck carefully.
/r/askTRP25/02/19 08:02 PM
7

Honestly the hail mary is the real plan b. plan c is to destroy whatever idea she has in her head about how great it will be to have a baby right now and also any idea or thought that by having the baby you will stay or that she has control over you. Once she realizes that she will be raising a baby on her own and it will more than likely put her in poverty and the child she will likely reconsider. Especially when reminded that any goals she has in life are not going to happen if she proceeds wi…
/r/askTRP25/02/19 08:05 AM
5

In America, if you are a dude, I doubt it would be prosecuted even if it was illegal. Check the age of consent for where you guys live though and this is not legal advice I am not a lawyer.
/r/askTRP25/02/19 07:50 AM
2

I'm Lex Luthor? hahaha
/r/askTRP25/02/19 07:47 AM
18

Convince her to take the plan b pill. And if you have to use the hail mary use it. The hail mary is convincing her that right now is not a good time to have kids but you see yourself having kids with her in the future when you are in a better place to do so. Then once she has her next period leave her.
/r/askTRP25/02/19 07:43 AM
2

Cucks are the equivalent of the sucker fish in the fish tanks. They come around doing the crap no one else wants to do and they are happy to do it. Like eating their girls out after she gets cream filled by someone else. He just thought she was extra excited! They take the women who were dicked down in their good years and give them homes and children. In many cases raising children that aren't theirs. They get divorced and pay child support and alimony then so she can keep eating ho hos. Child …
/r/askTRP25/02/19 07:40 AM
1

You don't say no, you do no. What I mean by that is she has canceled twice for no reason. You were probably waiting around for her. She doesn't get a date now. She gets to come over and fuck and leave. So I would not hit her up, when she hits you up invite her over. If she comes great, if not great. Do it on a day that isn't the weekend preferably. That way if she flakes it doesn't really matter. Maybe also do a window, ex I have to be up early but you can come over for a few hours. Blowing up o…
/r/askTRP25/02/19 07:16 AM
11

I think you are in denial or you are a woman. It doesn't matter who is saying something if it is true, it is true. One night stands are a pretty common thing. Why do only men mention them? Who are the men banging? It seems like they are banging women but women never talk about one night stands, or maybe they do just in girl only circles? We can deduct that these girls are probably (some) married or in relationships and out with the girls for the night. It doesn't matter how that paragraph made y…
/r/askTRP25/02/19 06:54 AM
1

The problem is you care about someone who really doesn't matter to you for a significant reason. She knows this, you know this. Yet for some reason you are chasing after her and trying to figure out why she isn't interested. It doesn't matter is the correct response. If she made excuses one time a dude with options would have not hit her up ever again. She doesn't matter. It doesn't matter whatever her reason was. She blew you off twice and you chased after her. Have some self respect man.
/r/askTRP24/02/19 11:09 PM
3

I think you are afraid you can't do better than her and this creates beta mode in my opinion. If you finally find someone that you are genuinely attracted to after looking for a long time you are walking on egg shells. You don't want to lose her and will do anything to keep her, not a good look. Women don't really want to fuck that person. The come across as desperate, insecure, afraid etc. If you have more options you don't act like you are walking on egg shells. Who cares if you make a mistake…
/r/askTRP24/02/19 11:04 PM
13

She is chasing your validation if you never say it first. She is in the submissive position. That is where you want her, not sure where exactly she stands with you. You want her wondering if she is good enough for you. Not the other way around. I don't think people say I love you because they thought you forgot. They say it so you say it back. It seems to stem from insecurity in my opinion. So when you say it first you are coming across as insecure and needing validation. Not a good look.
/r/askTRP24/02/19 10:58 PM
2

I would wait a week. Then just invite her to do something.
/r/askTRP24/02/19 10:52 PM
4

It might be salvageable but I wouldn't count this one.
/r/askTRP24/02/19 10:51 PM
1

As an American in England I had a very easy time picking up women. I was there for about 2 years. I had like 5-7 women in my rotation usually with new recruits on a regular basis. Now I am back in the states and for the same amount of effort I have 2 women in my rotation. I don't really feel like putting so much effort into dating for less results. The time is better spent on something with higher return.
/r/askTRP24/02/19 10:42 PM
1

The opposite is not having a tinder profile.
/r/askTRP24/02/19 11:46 AM
1

Eat the butt man they all want that
/r/askTRP24/02/19 03:26 AM
17

Screams I am a beta use me.
/r/askTRP24/02/19 03:21 AM
5

She is either attracted to you or she isn't. That is what the matching process is for. After we match maybe an introduction a little small talk then invite her out for food somewhere mutual. This builds a feeling of security for her since she now has met you. If you look like you do in the picture you will look better in real life. If you took just the right angle you might not hear from here after this. On the second meeting invite her back to your place and every time after that as well. Hasn'…
/r/askTRP24/02/19 12:17 AM
1

"I'm free after 8 pm," that is the issue, not that it is a booty call. You are available as fuck on a Saturday. Every date is a booty call. That is why she didn't say yeah or no. WTF man. You might be able to salvage this but I am not sure how. If you would have said I am free between such and such time that would have been one thing but saying from 8 pm forward I have no plans is ridiculous. I think the only way to salvage this is to invite her to do something you would have fun doing whether s…
/r/askTRP24/02/19 12:06 AM
3

You have to be content being alone first and foremost, this takes time. Second once you are capable of being alone, when you spend time with women it has to be an experience. They have to have a great time. And when they are not around you be distant. If you need me to expand I will but I think it is pretty straight forward. Best of luck.
/r/askTRP23/02/19 11:48 PM
1

Just be glad it happened before you two were married with a kid. My buddy learned the same lesson just after a marriage and with a kid. WOMEN ARE COMMUNITY PROPERTY!
/r/askTRP23/02/19 11:45 PM
3

It sounds like you drove her interest up by going and asking for the pictures. They come and touch your face. She asks you how you are and you kind of rejected her (in her mind.) Usually women looking at men incessantly is enough for a dude to go and talk to them so she probably felt rejected 2x and assumed you weren't interested or were gay. I find it interesting that you weren't up for gaming that night, when she pretty much threw the pussy at you? It would be one thing if she was just sending…
/r/askTRP23/02/19 11:41 PM
2

You need some milk.
/r/askTRP23/02/19 02:16 PM
1

Rehire at a lower salary. We shall call the new apprentice, darth dick sucker!
/r/askTRP23/02/19 01:58 PM
1

Being able to collect and understand information is what smart means to me. The speed at which you do it isn't really as important. I think we have a preset level of competence. I am not sure why or what controls it. Some people are just more competent than others in my experience. It really takes a shit on equality.
/r/askTRP23/02/19 01:50 PM
1

I think women like men. If her arms are bigger than yours then... idk
/r/askTRP23/02/19 01:37 PM
1

I think someone has been pumping her full of cum the whole time she has had that bf of hers. If you play your cards right that person could be you. If you really want you could be the bf who only fucks her sometimes while someone else is busting all kinds of nuts inside her. I am almost willing to bet money she has a pipe layer on call.
/r/askTRP23/02/19 01:32 PM
1

I felt the same way when I was around that age, granted I am not much older now. I think a lot of it comes from society at every turn telling us who we are supposed to be. As we grow up and make our own observations, we realize that person we are supposed to be is a door mat. We are supposed to pretty much be eunuchs who beg for sex like a dogs at a table waiting for scraps. We are supposed to not talk about things that offend people. We are supposed to limit our speech and the topics we debate.…
/r/askTRP23/02/19 01:29 PM
1

I think you aren't wrong for doing what you want, but I think you should not have said k bye. It makes you come across as a butt hurt emotional dude who is going home to put a tampon in his butt and eat cheese puffs white watching emotional dramas in a studio apartment with his cats. When I feel like just going to bed I just say that. People get upset but I do what I want. Or I lie and say I am too drunk. Or if I picked up a chick I bring her home but I tell them in person usually not through a …
/r/askTRP23/02/19 01:18 PM
1

You should talk to her in person. She has obviously been showing interest in you for a while, not sure why you haven't engaged? If you are afraid to talk to her I don't know what to tell you. I think you might have women on a pedestal still? So if she has been looking at you for a while, she has matched with you on tinder how much more obvious does she have to make it that she wants you to approach her?
/r/askTRP23/02/19 01:13 PM
1

You know she is fucking someone right? Women are not these asexual deities society brain washed us to think they are. Both of you knew why you were hanging out and she declined you for sex and you pretty much said aww that's okay twice. So she knows you are desperate by your actions. Someone with other options would have been like well you have a good night, the first time and that would have been it pretty much. If you weren't gonna fuck you weren't loosing anything. There is no reason to be st…
/r/askTRP23/02/19 01:06 PM
2

I use to have the man boob issue too. I hit the gym and have a chest like a damn rooster. I have put on 40 lbs since then and I still don't have man boobs. I think if you stop skipping chest day eventually you will have enough muscle up there to eliminate man boobs from the equation. I would be like do you want some milk?
/r/askTRP23/02/19 12:58 PM
1

Reengage at a later date if it happens again I think she is using you for attention.
/r/askTRP23/02/19 12:51 PM
5

Think about what you want to do in the next 5-10 years. Then look up the child support percentages for your state. Then decide if getting her pregnant on a one night stand is worth a percentage of your income for the next 18 years and your life objectives.
/r/askTRP23/02/19 12:37 PM
4

I call bull shit, we didn't get to a population of 7.5 billion people with weaker sex drives.
/r/askTRP23/02/19 06:27 AM
1

You should confront her on the alternate FB account take screen shots and end the relationship all in one action.
/r/askTRP22/02/19 01:10 PM
2

This would be priceless. She is looking for shit and he just throws it in her face!
/r/askTRP22/02/19 01:09 PM
1

Reality to the rational observer would be red pilled by default I think. To the irrational observer they could be hit in the face with 15 divorces and be looking for the next wife.
/r/askTRP22/02/19 01:06 PM
65

Women are community property lol
/r/askTRP22/02/19 01:03 PM
2

I know I banged 7 in 2018 but I can't remember in total. But I am mid 20's!
/r/askTRP22/02/19 01:02 PM
2

I think she should be demoted to a plate if she confronts you and you have to correct her.
/r/askTRP22/02/19 12:57 PM
1

You know what you should do, you just want someone to say it!
/r/askTRP22/02/19 12:28 PM
1

I have 2.5 right now. When I am more about it I have usually 3-5. I have been taking a break kind of slacking. Kind of let a few go.
/r/askTRP22/02/19 12:25 PM
1

Pretend like you are a beta. Give her too much attention, come across as needy and always be available.
/r/askTRP22/02/19 12:23 PM
11

Treat everyone equally kind or rude. Give everyone a set amount of chances to be in your life. Hold the door for anyone who is entering or exiting after you, not just attractive women/men. When you realize you are treating someone above how you treat everyone else, or above how they treat you that is how you know you are using the good ole pedestal. It took me a while to override the pedestal brainwashing from society. Best of luck.
/r/askTRP22/02/19 12:17 PM
1

I don't think so but maybe. It would probably be quicker to do the things you know you should do and for whatever reason don't. Like cleaning your room, exercising working for the promotion, starting a business or chasing your dream objectives. Doing that will make you confident a hell of a lot faster than pretending in my experience. I think confidence comes from knowing what you are doing and where you are going, or where you are trying to go. So you don't really have time to entertain people …
/r/askTRP22/02/19 12:10 PM
1

I would wait a week and then hit her up.
/r/askTRP22/02/19 08:04 AM
3

I think she is pegging you both for beta males and she is going to make you guys have a pokemon battle to see who will be the poke-cuck-king! Them sugar walls need coating and something tells me he is going to lay the foundation.
/r/askTRP22/02/19 07:53 AM
1

It is profitable and it is what the majority of society wants to see/ hear. ​
/r/askTRP22/02/19 07:45 AM
3

Yeah same here I wonder if when I was a blue pilled fuck, if my gfs were on the same shit? I also wonder how many married dudes are raising kids that aren't theirs?
/r/askTRP22/02/19 07:36 AM
1

After he is done tell him to get a she made it home text and she had a good time and all that in case she cries rape. But honestly she probably bucks like a horse man. I don't know if I blame him for getting him some. I would definitely proceed with caution though..
/r/askTRP22/02/19 07:29 AM
1

I don't think women want kids by their protectors (betas) because she doesn't want her son to be a protector (beta). She wants a protector to ensure she can have the kid safely, but she wants to be impregnated by an alpha. She wants her offspring to have alpha traits because they are more likely to reproduce. I think this is why women cheat. I think the idea of an LTR and not dying alone is a lie. So in being in any relationship with a woman I think you put yourself in a provider role. This auto…
/r/askTRP22/02/19 07:24 AM
4

Yeah I think you should hang out with her because she is definitely trying to smash. I would be careful though with the "sending her away," piece. You always want girls to leave your place on a good note and get a "made it home safe/had a great time" text message to CYA if she decides to go postal with the false rape/sexual assult nonsense.
/r/askTRP22/02/19 06:41 AM
1

I didn't believe it before ( I do now) but, women chose whether or not they want to bang you when they first meet you. They already know.
/r/askTRP22/02/19 06:32 AM
0

Hey
/r/askTRP22/02/19 03:09 AM
1

I think you can still salvage it. Most people would have just been like oh my bad. You kind of distinguished yourself. This is funny as hell by the way.
/r/askTRP22/02/19 02:55 AM
1

Yeah she wouldn't have given you her number if she wasn't interested in giving up that puthy. I think it either means she is not emotionally available, she is in a relationship or something and needs some side dick or she needs beta male orbiters. I would not over pursue but if she wants to hang out ever I would do it up and if you bang her we need updates here.
/r/askTRP22/02/19 02:20 AM
6

If she wants to bang you she wants to bang you. If she doesn't, she doesn't. There is nothing you can do to change that. If think the only thing you can do is lower your chances by coming off the wrong way. When you do hang out make it an enjoyable time. That is the only way to keep them interested I think. Also when you aren't with them have a life or pretend like you do. What I mean by that is don't call and text them all the time.
/r/askTRP22/02/19 02:17 AM
3

This dude told me one time that women are community property. I was younger and thought it was messed up. In my experience it is true. Not in such an ownership way but they chose who they want to bang regardless of their relationship status. I would just cut him out of my life lol. Any ways how did he find out you two were coating the sugar walls?
/r/askTRP22/02/19 02:08 AM
8

Honestly, I would start wearing a condom every time we had sex moving forward if you don't already. Not saying she is going to cheat or anything but I don't trust that bull shit. And I would not care, and I would be going to clubs too from that point forward. I mean honestly, what is someone in a relationship doing going to a club? How would she feel if you were like, ah me and the guys are going to the club. We all know what happens at the club.
/r/askTRP22/02/19 02:05 AM
1

I don't trust anyone. By trusting someone you are taking their word at face value as being equal to action. So if they fail I always have a back up plan because I don't trust anyone. Where as if I did trust people for whatever reason, I would be scrambling to figure out what to do when they don't come through. In my experience peoples words are not equal to action. Action is equal to action.
/r/askTRP22/02/19 02:02 AM
1

Tell her you don't date people you work with. Of course, include the no offense disclaimer.
/r/askTRP21/02/19 08:06 PM
1

Keep things cordial but I would not expect anything to come from that right now.
/r/askTRP19/02/19 09:39 AM
13

Yeah you are right man. Sometimes I just would rather beat off than deal with it. I have a lady that I see every Sunday and it is always something new. Sometimes she goes to take a nap in the other room but leaves her phone in the room I am in. The whole time she is napping her phone is going off and the volume is all the way up. I want to grab it and smash it. But I think it bothers her more that I don't give a fuck. I am not jealous at all of how many people message her. I don't care how many …
/r/askTRP19/02/19 09:36 AM
1

I would hang out with her again but at your place since this date was a bust. And I would also be working on other plates. She is probably emotionally unavailable but that doesn't mean you can't smash necessarily.
/r/askTRP19/02/19 09:29 AM
1

Sounds like a real beta move.
/r/askTRP19/02/19 08:49 AM
1

More plates. If you have 2 options and one is being off then you are really close to zero. If you have 10 and one is off it doesn't matter. Always be hiring.
/r/askTRP19/02/19 08:39 AM
2

That actually doesn't make sense. If you are betting either way, you have risk. Arguably you mitigate the risk of loss when you differentiate ?
/r/askTRP18/02/19 10:31 PM
2

I weight 243 ish depending on the day and I am 6,2 or 6'1 depending who measures. When I get down to around 225 lbs I get a lot more attention from women. And like someone else said people are nicer to you just because when you are not a modern day recreation of the blob.
/r/askTRP18/02/19 10:29 PM
1

If she was a gf I would demote her to a fwb or something. Maybe permanent friend zone. If she is a plate then just give her a day every week or as needed. I have a plate right now that is not pretty. But the sex is pretty alright and she isn't obese, she is Sunday girl lol.
/r/askTRP18/02/19 10:19 PM
1

I think you are fine saying it in response. I think that is a sign that she is chasing your validation, which is what you want. The issue would be if you said it first. It is a really insecure thing to say for a man or a woman. But by you never saying it first you remain in the dominant position.
/r/askTRP18/02/19 10:07 PM
1

How so?
/r/askTRP18/02/19 09:57 PM
1

It looks like you were such a beta that she declined money even. That is the first time I ever heard of something like that happening.
/r/askTRP18/02/19 09:56 PM
4

You're right. Most people are disappointing. I think the philosophy is the only way to see things if you are smart. Using diversification provides you the best possible options.
/r/askTRP18/02/19 09:53 PM
1

It looks like she has pegged you as a beta and/ or she is a masculine ass female. Someone said it in the other comments and I am going to say it again. If she isn't willing to do what you want her to then leave if she is a gf. I would just make her a friend and put her in the male friend zone.
/r/askTRP18/02/19 09:40 PM
13

Acting like a woman.
/r/askTRP18/02/19 09:37 PM
3

Hold people accountable. Women want to date men not women with dicks.
/r/askTRP18/02/19 09:04 AM
1

All women step out from time to time.
/r/askTRP18/02/19 08:57 AM
0

Tell her what she wants to hear.
/r/askTRP18/02/19 08:55 AM
3

Started from the bottom now we in limbo
/r/askTRP18/02/19 06:34 AM
1

Yeah I mean you could bang the breaks off her and no one would know, except you me and whoever else read this. Things could also take a turn for the worse and that dude could end up threatening to kill you over it. For some reason a lot of people have this "have to do the right thing," in their head after they already decided to do something they know is wrong. For her she is just a woman and you seduced her. To her husband you fucked his wife and betrayed him even though that makes no sense. Yo…
/r/askTRP14/02/19 09:12 PM
3

I learned the hard way not to bang women I work with. In 2014 and then again in 2016. LOL so I did not bang this one haha. We just became really good friends and I just stopped pushing it. We got along entirely too well. Like when you know you and someone just click and you could easily progress things to get in dem pants!!!
/r/askTRP14/02/19 08:39 PM
9

The plan B pill is super effective. Unless she spit it up shes not pregnant. That being said do yourself a favor moving forward and don't do that again? If things take a turn for the worse, you will be on the hook for paying her a percentage of your income for the next 18 years. A lot of people stay when she gets pregnant or claims to be pregnant. They then throw their life away trying to do the "right thing," only to be left when she is ready. The kid is used for leverage. She will chose when y…
/r/askTRP14/02/19 08:34 PM
9

She is married and a coworker! DO NOT ENGAGE! I have been in the situation though. I met this new chick that came to where I worked. We talked for like 3 or 4 hours strait one day. Waiting on stuff at work. And I was like we're talking too much, getting along too well.
/r/askTRP14/02/19 08:28 PM
1

I think I would be either pretty much leading a girl on for sex, or I would be a blue pill beta provider. I took new information (Red pill stuff) and updated my world view. I guess there is a third possibility, I can't accept the new information. So I pretend like it isn't true and keep dating women who will never love me for who I am but for what I provide.
/r/askTRP14/02/19 07:28 PM
1

I didn't think anyone was going to say it. Hahahahaha.
/r/askTRP14/02/19 07:22 PM
1

Maybe, maybe not.
/r/askTRP14/02/19 07:16 PM
-1

I think you are handling this by the book so far and you are doing great! You definitely need more girls though lol. Ask her when she is free then invite her back to your place. If she can't come back to your place then I would cut my losses.
/r/askTRP14/02/19 10:09 AM
1

I would wait like 3 days to respond and then say you do too.
/r/askTRP14/02/19 10:02 AM
6

I would just be honest. That way there is nothing to hide and if she decides to just show up one day you aren't worried about. I think it will make them want you more. Unless she is a relationship type. Then I would tell her that you are open to a relationship if you meet the right person and you like to take your time.
/r/askTRP14/02/19 09:53 AM
3

I think you were probably raised in a world where women are angels and men are dogs. Where if you have sex with a woman and she changes her mind later you raped her. Where if you were drunk and she were drunk you raped her. Where if you bump into her its sexual assault even if it was on accident. Where if you like a girl you do really nice things for her and don't push for sex. Don't expect her to pay for anything or be accountable for her actions especially if she is on her period. For holidays…
/r/askTRP14/02/19 09:47 AM
2

This is interesting and I have also considered it. I think playing the field until you die is a better option than not though.
/r/askTRP14/02/19 09:40 AM
1

I would just get a hotel room and invite her tell her it has a nice tub. Everyone likes hotel rooms.
/r/askTRP14/02/19 09:29 AM
2

I would wait like 3 days and then unmatch her. Perfect response.
/r/askTRP14/02/19 09:14 AM
2

It is shitty. Remember how shitty it feels and stay single! You should have strung her along until you found someone to replace her with at least. for future reference.
/r/askTRP14/02/19 09:11 AM
1

I had a girl not want to have sex one time when she came over. I am not sure what the reason was. Well I pretty much didn't have time to hang out with her for about a month. After a month I gave her another chance. Every time she comes over now we fuck.
/r/askTRP14/02/19 09:08 AM
1

This is a really good comment. Like this is my philosophy when it comes to women even though I will never admit it. Not to anyone, I am glad to have found someone who thinks similarly!
/r/askTRP14/02/19 09:06 AM
2

Make sure your friend is cool with you banging her.
/r/askTRP14/02/19 09:01 AM
2

Hmm I think you should keep your options open. I think once you stop seeing other women she will lose interest in you. And then bam, drought.
/r/askTRP14/02/19 08:58 AM
3

5 Dates and no fuck.I feel like she already pegged you as a provider type. If you don't mind me asking, who pays when you guys meet up? Also if you want to try to bang her get a hotel room but I think there is a really high chance she ghosts you and you just waste more money and more time.
/r/askTRP14/02/19 08:55 AM
0

Don't get mad but don't plan another hang out. If she wants to she will do it. And honestly I think you should agree then, ignore her for 2 days and tell her your dick hole is not feeling well and you had to replace your engine in your car. And then offer to reschedule.
/r/askTRP14/02/19 08:54 AM
2

You live a life of abundance. If you don't strive too. People, things and events in the past are not changeable. You should move forward, you have much more control and input over things ahead of you than behind you.
/r/askTRP13/02/19 09:35 AM
2

I think you should take complements and insults worth the same, nothing.
/r/askTRP13/02/19 09:31 AM
2

Exactly. Betas are successful in a small pond big fish way.
/r/askTRP13/02/19 09:29 AM
2

Dude I have been reading a lot into this kind of literature. Since 2014 this has been my hobby.
/r/askTRP13/02/19 09:28 AM
1

I disagree. An alpha male would be pissed off for failing. That is an alpha trait. A beta would be like aww alright crap happens.
/r/askTRP13/02/19 09:27 AM
4

1) Beta/Blue pill 2) Confusion 3) Incel/ MGTOW 4) Purple pill 5) Alpha/ Red pill. ​ 1) You are doing what you have been told is correct and don't question it. You have no luck with women no matter what. You think you are being a nice guy to them. You get cheated on and left for people that are ass holes according to her. 2) Something caught your eye. You read something about a woman cheating on her husband in a super orgy or some crap lol. And you were like what? You dug too deep and realized wo…
/r/askTRP13/02/19 09:24 AM
9

Failing isn't a beta thing. In fact, I think the opposite. I think betas do what they are good at so they don't fail. I think it is in woman nature to be attracted to certain men who display certain qualities for certain reasons.
/r/askTRP13/02/19 09:14 AM
8

There are 7.53 billion people in the world. Half of them are women. She is 1 /3.76 billion. Treat her like it. She is sending you closed responses treat her the same. If the conversation ends there so be it. You have to be willing to let it go. Best of luck man!
/r/askTRP13/02/19 09:09 AM
1

You are being logical. Don't stop being logical. Women like like being told things that are comforting. That being said, know what the truth is and follow it closely.
/r/askTRP12/02/19 01:28 PM
1

Now.
/r/askTRP12/02/19 01:26 PM
8

I told her family and still broke up with her. I didn’t think she was seriously going to do it but just in case!
/r/askTRP11/02/19 09:26 PM
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