The impression I get from spending very little time on this subreddit is that cheating is not really talked much about. I mean it’s something you CAN do if you get no sex from your girlfriend/wife and you’ve tried everything, still I get the vibe it’s frowned upon. Correct me if I’m wrong.

But what about the guys in decent, or even good relationships that got too drunk on a night out and cheated, or even had an affair, what are your stories? How did it end, did it mess with ypur head?

My girlfriend which I’m living together and have a baby with have had a great relationship, however I have cheated on her twice, both while drunk (last time about a month before we knew she was pregnant) almost got caught too; I was stupid and sent some messages, which she screenshot and sent to my girlfriend after I ghosted her. I swore she must be lying and made it up/photoshopped my messages. My gf seemed very skeptical but after a lot of convincing atleast she said she believed me and let it go. Only she knows if thats true or not

I had a clear point when I started writing this which I forgot as I wrote my story. I guess I’m just trying to get a conversation going on the topic. I’ve myself felt that no matter how well my relationship has been with my girlfriend if the opportunity presents itself I might possibly cheat. And I really don’t want to be that guy, and I have strong affection for my girlfriend and intend to stay with her.