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This comment is exactly right.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/21 08:37 PM
5

I wouldn't be so sure of that.
/r/askMRP25/08/21 07:34 PM
-4

This is a whole lot of writing to describe something both you and every other user is supposed to already have read about in the sidebar. The friend zone is a covert contract: "if I'm friendly and hang out long enough, you will eventually fall for me and fuck me." Now go read the sidebar.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/21 09:52 PM
16

You are like the second coming of Rambo.
/r/askMRP26/07/21 04:16 PM
-7

Your comment is not adding value to this discussion.
/r/askMRP19/07/21 03:55 PM
3

Thanks for the context. I will imagine lots of money and trophies.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/21 09:42 PM
17

I heard about it and tried to find literally any science or studies to back it up. There are none and it is making specific scientific claims that absolutely impact if it should be taken seriously or not. It might be real, but there isn't yet any evidence to back that up.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/21 05:09 PM
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Grounding is pseudoscience. The rest of this is solid advice. 'Bout to walk around Y-ing on some people.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/21 05:00 PM
4

This guy was never "meditating", he was praying.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/21 10:48 PM
11

I used to think like this. Your libido calms down a lot as you age. I have access to more sex than I need and I often would rather do other things or even just sleep. I'm not super old either. I'm in my 30s now, but when I was in my 20s, I often wanted sex so bad it was physically painful to be alive. Now, 2-3 times a week is more than enough. My testosterone is also totally fine. I think as I've gotten older, I've learned to feel validated without sex. Also, giving up porn will make you less ob…
/r/TheRedPill22/04/21 06:01 PM
20

I was unaware of that "content policy". Maybe it's time to leave this platform, too. Why wait to be kicked out?
/r/TheRedPill06/04/21 03:56 PM
15

You are just as bad as the OP. Maybe you should fuck him, since his wife doesn't want to.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/03/21 04:54 PM
0

If you learned anything from this post you are too pathetic to be here. I'm done with this trash. Read the side bar, do the work, and contribute real value. This is a redundant leaf on a raging pyre.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/21 09:25 AM
2

No. It's been said multiple times and is also on the side bar, but TRP is male sexual strategy. If you are aware that women pursue the most attractive men and that more successful men are more attractive then you either try to become more successful or you shouldn't call yourself an RPer. Being Redpill aware and being a man that utilizes all of the tools in the kit are what separates us from MGTOW and incels.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/21 04:45 AM
12

If you aren't striving to be in the top 10% of men in our society, you probably haven't internalized the pill.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/21 10:57 PM
13

Most men are utterly irrational when it comes to women. How do you think Onlyfans functions as a business model? There is literally an infinite amount of porn, as far as individuals are concerned. Porn is being produced more rapidly than it can be consumed, all over the web, free of charge. And yet, average looking women are charging monthly fees to see them and only them naked. It's paradoxically absurd that this model works, but not only does it work, it works well. There are extremely average…
/r/TheRedPill26/02/21 11:05 PM
4

You are in the wrong if you don't think this is extremely common behavior amongst normal guys.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/21 10:04 PM
15

I hate terms like, "abusing substances". Are the substances going to take you to court and get a restraining order if you don't stop abusing them? You are abusing yourself. You use video games and substances because they numb you to the fact that you neglect all of your problems and can't face the reality that you are at the bottom of the dominance hierarchy. You have no serotonin in your system, because you know that you don't measure up. Rather than face that reality, you anesthetize yourself …
/r/askMRP04/02/21 09:49 PM
6

You do not have a masculine mindset.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/21 05:38 PM
6

Jocko says that he generally goes to bed around 9pm in a few of his videos. I never heard him advocate for 5 hours of sleep. I think that's just viewers assuming that he's going to bed around midnight and still waking up at 4:30am.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/20 05:36 PM
5

If you are referring to understanding RP truths as being sexual strategy and not self-improvement, then we are defining these things differently. In my mind, reading the sidebar constitutes self-improvement.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/20 07:37 PM
5

Reading between the lines and I'm not going to answer your question. People who constantly talk about the past, good and bad, tend to do so as an excuse to not deal with how lame they are in the present. "I used to be a handsome football star"... 15+ fucking years ago. "I got molested as a child"... 25+ years ago. What are you doing now? Look, I'm not a licensed therapist, but I've had some really fucked up shit happen to me, too. My advice? You being okay enough to even type on the internet is …
/r/askMRP27/12/20 07:25 PM
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A better post would explain how to expand your self-improvement into social areas. Saying that self-improvement isn't sexual strategy is simply wrong. Lifting makes you more attractive. Learning to dress well makes you more attractive. Learning to be a more confident speaker makes you more attractive. Learning how to lead makes you more attractive. All of these are things for which we are advocates. Sure, there are plenty of "tactical" methods, like PUA techniques, that will help, but these shou…
/r/TheRedPill27/12/20 07:09 PM
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Just hire a super hot young maid and a super hot young cook to come to the house once a week. Problem will sort itself out in less than a month.
/r/askMRP15/12/20 12:16 AM
1

Acceptance works better, you are right.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/20 12:07 AM
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No. It's nothing like that. Once you understand female nature, you forgive them. It's their nature and nothing more.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/20 06:27 AM
16

Redpilled since 2012 and still resentful? You haven't learned a damn thing.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/20 05:14 AM
1

Thanks. I almost replied.
/r/askMRP23/10/20 05:03 PM
9

I just read in the comments that you've been here for 3 years. You have such a toddler's level of understanding of such a basic concept that it's sort of baffling. My first instinct from reading this is that you have three major problems. First, it sounds like you aren't really taking responsibility for your baby. Second, it sounds like you have no frame. Third, you are a dick to your wife. That's all the effort I can muster for this response.
/r/askMRP16/10/20 09:38 PM
2

This post, right here, is exactly why many of the oldest members advocate for young men to not view TRP as an ideology. The sidebar is not the gospel. There are books on the sidebar that are very good and there are books that are less good (48LOP and SANGAF). Almost none of these authors are actually participants in the manosphere and it's likely that they don't know each other. These men have different world views, different lives, and different sexual strategies. We include very specific selec…
/r/TheRedPill16/10/20 08:28 PM
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There are a lot of problems with your critique of MRP. I was one of the men who was married before finding TRP. It is absolutely the case that MRP users distinguish between the members who come already married and guys coming to ask about marriage. Most of the guys on the sub are very wary of marriage, but we decided to do it for our own moral reasons and stick with it for the very same. Getting married isn't "losing frame". The tenets of what one's frame is constituated of are up to that indivi…
/r/TheRedPill16/10/20 03:50 PM
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It's recommended because the members here are not personal trainers and 5x5 was a cultural fad that a lot of people know about. It's definitely worse than just doing sets of 3 in the 8-10 rep range. I've read zero literature that recommends strength training if your goal is to look like a bodybuilder.
/r/askMRP15/10/20 08:03 PM
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Okay. So you are getting a religious marriage in a religion that you don't actually believe in (because you break the rules). You are living in someone's frame, but it's certainly not yours. Who are you staying in this religion for? Who are you following these rules for?
/r/askMRP06/10/20 08:56 PM
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All you have to do is stay consistent. Your grip will catchup faster than you can add weight. If you are having the problem after over a year, there's simply no way that you are deadlifting as often as you should be.
/r/askMRP05/10/20 02:37 PM
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Why? What do other women hypothetically offer that she doesn't?
/r/MarriedRedPill02/10/20 06:31 PM
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One week is not enough time. You don't know shit yet. Here are a list of reasons newer guys want to jump ship. They realize that normal guys, like them, can get a girl who will blow them every day, but your wife doesn't. Yet. They realize regular guys can get a submissive woman who cooks and cleans, but their wife doesn't. Yet. They realize that regular guys can have a partner that is obsessed with them, but their wife isn't. Yet. They realize they can get a woman that is responsible with money,…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/10/20 03:59 PM
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I don't know how my blue-pilled ass pulled this off when I first met my wife, but she asked me the same thing. "Will you still love me if I get fat?" And I just responded, "you aren't allowed to get fat, so don't worry about it." She still remembers it to this day and jokes about it.
/r/askMRP22/09/20 07:10 PM
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For me, I care because I want to have children. I want them to have an opportunity to have a better life than I did. I want them to grow up in a beautiful culture that teaches them to value themselves. I try my best to live without being weak and fearful. Justifying being a womanizer by saying "if I don't fuck this married dude's wife, then someone else will" is weakness in my eyes. Behavior like this is a corrosive force on society that will slowly wittle our culture into dust. No one "should" …
/r/TheRedPill22/08/20 12:20 AM
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Because individuals are all that we have.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/20 12:06 AM
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Watch Yuri Bezmenov's lectures on YouTube and listen to what he says about "Subversion". Then you will understand why "enjoying the decline" is bad. It's that very attitude, among men and women, that is causing the decline.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/20 11:01 PM
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There are multiple issues with both his behavior and your analysis. Boundaries are set before something happens, not after. He suggested that they eat healthy. This is shitty leadership. If he was leading the relationship, he would have taken over the grocery shopping and lead by example. If she brings chips home more than once in awhile, throw them in the fucking trash. He stopped having sex with her without telling her why. This is a covert contract, as illustrated in No More Mr Nice Guy. Be d…
/r/TheRedPill20/08/20 11:07 PM
2

I just meant his wife can't get pregnant from another woman fucking her.
/r/askMRP20/08/20 07:22 PM
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You're so effeminate that you are getting cucked by a female. At least you won't have to pay child support.
/r/askMRP20/08/20 04:30 PM
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Tried to read your post history a little bit and all that I found out is that you are more preoccupied with animal crossing than personal development or lifting. Calipers are cheaper than Nintendo Switch games. Maybe if you cared half as much about your progress as you do about making fictional baked goods for your wife who doesn't enjoy fucking you, you wouldn't be a weak faggot asking dumb questions.
/r/askMRP14/08/20 05:54 PM
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My opinion is that you are a fat beta male.
/r/askMRP14/08/20 05:16 PM
2

You don't want a "best way" you want us to talk you out of your moral dilemma. Do it yourself.
/r/askMRP11/08/20 05:01 PM
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This is the main sub. This sub has an estimated 1,000,000 readers. Format your fucking thoughts or don't post them.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/20 11:15 PM
2

Are you retarded? Probably. I stopped reading here. Why the fuck would anyone who has valuable insight introduce themselves this way? Iron rule of Tomassi #9, never self-deprecate for any reason.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/20 04:26 PM
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I actually like that theory. I also would add that the incel community operates as far away as it possibly can from ownership. Even when Elliot Rodgers went on a killing spree, it wasn't their fault, it wasn't even his fault. To the Incel community, everything Rodgers did was society's fault. Incels are the epitome of victims and one of the purest living examples of what it means to have an external locus of control. "Women don't avoid me because I act pathetic, they avoid me because of genetics…
/r/TheRedPill04/08/20 01:15 AM
1

Where are you getting this idea? There are plenty of betas at the top of hierarchies. Playing the beta game well can result in a lot of power nowadays.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/20 07:25 PM
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There is no such thing as a sigma male in the context of TRP. This is an idealized coping mechanism adopted by introverts who misunderstand what alpha means. They imagine alpha males to be these gregarious, extroverted, attention-grabbing braggarts. One of the reasons we don't use fictional examples in TRP is to circumvent exactly the sort of thing that's happening in this post. You are not Han Solo. No real person is Han Solo or Dirty Hairy. They are terrible examples. Disregard for rules and r…
/r/TheRedPill25/07/20 06:00 PM
1

This is a missed opportunity for you. I'm sure you have other life-altering decisions that I, an anonymous internet stranger, can help you make.
/r/askMRP22/07/20 09:00 PM
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The only information that matters in your post is the part about using women as an emotional tampon. Your emotions are fucked up because your life isn't in order. Men spiral and become depressed when they are missing the mark in their life and failing to lead.
/r/askMRP16/07/20 07:14 PM
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I'd have to be paid good money to babysit a 19 year old every night.
/r/askMRP29/05/20 10:34 PM
0

"In groundbreaking study, personality found to be a strong predictor of behavior".
/r/TheRedPill10/04/20 04:07 PM
0

Your blog is fine, but you are literally posting every entry on TRP. It feels like a bit too much. This sub shouldn't be treated like it's your mailing list.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/20 02:13 PM
0

It doesn't have to be alcohol. You sabotaged yourself in a matter of a week. You clearly are either lying to yourself about wanting a relationship with that girl or you have no control over how you act.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/20 02:39 AM
0

You are leaving out important details, like the fact that you have no control over your drinking. People with control over their own behavior don't nuke 1-week-old relationships that they want to be in. So answer this question, which is it? A. You didn't actually want to be in a committed relationship? B. You don't have even the most basic control over your behavior?
/r/TheRedPill14/03/20 02:20 AM
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I appreciate this comment. You are exactly right. My post was not intended to be some giant middle finger to society.
/r/askMRP14/03/20 12:30 AM
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See, if you ask me, what's selfish is going and buying 3 months of groceries, knowing that you are participating in emptying out entire stores before others even get a chance to buy enough supplies to last the next few days.
/r/askMRP13/03/20 06:35 PM
0

Amalt?
/r/askTRP13/03/20 05:22 PM
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I'm just living life normally. Enjoying the empty gym.
/r/askMRP13/03/20 03:24 PM
3

Stats Age: 29 Weight: 176lbs (I actually hit 180lbs last night, so it looks like the creatine is starting to kick in and help with water retention). Height: 6'0 Ballpark body fat percentage: still not properly measured. Using the photograph technique, I'd put it at 13-14%. Married: 7 years, no kids Mission My mission of becoming competent in a specific field, with the hopes of opening up job opportunities, has continued. I've finally started to make steady progress again, after falling off the h…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/03/20 03:53 AM
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He did the right thing, but it's important to understand why what he did is right. What he did is right, because he avoided a no-win situation. Let's examine a number of possible outcomes: He loses. Unlikely, but his reputation is ruined for years to come and he will be mentioned in some headline about how a girl defeated a boy in competition. To be clear, this would have made national news. He wins too fast. Now he's panned as being abusive and "cold". His reputation suffers, because he is seen…
/r/TheRedPill10/03/20 10:55 PM
1

Here are the techniques that helped me: Edge for as long as you can without blowing. Do this once a day. Learn how to reverse kegel and pay attention to your pelvic floor tightness during both edging and intercourse. Learn how to breath properly during sex. This is your number one focus during sex (other than enjoying yourself). Get her to cum first with foreplay. This will reduce performance anxiety significantly. Don't let her dictate the pace. She can say "harder" and "faster" all she wants. …
/r/askTRP10/03/20 09:19 PM
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I want you to entertain the possibility that you are the one who suffers from being a nice guy. If you didn't, the situation would already be resolved and you wouldn't have posted this here.
/r/askTRP10/03/20 09:10 PM
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You are in no position to be setting boundaries. Just work on yourself and forget this happened.
/r/askMRP10/03/20 06:57 PM
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It's your wife's responsibility to draw that line, not yours. Edit: you should be posting on Own Your Shit.
/r/askMRP10/03/20 06:18 PM
5

Just don't read SANGAF. That book is garbage and shouldn't be on the sidebar. 48LOP is an extremely dense, long, worthwhile read. Just finish that instead.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/03/20 04:31 PM
1

Lots moralizing going on here. I think it's much simpler than that. If you have to lie to people in order to lead the life that you want, you are weak. This will be reflected in every aspect of your life, not just your relationships.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/20 01:15 PM
2

Be rich.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/03/20 12:17 AM
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We already gave it all to you in the sidebar.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/03/20 12:40 AM
0

What do we do here? We help men become badass. It's not relevant whether or not what she's saying is true. She may be psychotic, but it's obvious to anyone with experience here why she would be acting that way. It's a lack of leadership, plain and simple.
/r/askMRP06/03/20 06:38 PM
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If you are positive about what you are saying and that I'm totally off base, then I would just leave her. If you truly are not in the wrong here at all then your wife is completely insane.
/r/askMRP06/03/20 06:25 PM
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I don't agree with the sentiment that this is only a massive shit test. This woman is desperate. What's the theme of all of those texts? A complete and total lack of leadership characterizes your relationship. While she's clearly flying way off the handle, this woman is so done with your beta ass that she's basically telling you to fuck off and die. This is not a woman poking you to test you. I don't have time to read all of your OYS posts, but I read a few. You never mention your drinking in th…
/r/askMRP06/03/20 06:09 PM
1

This is partly true, but picking at your husband and turning him into a submissive beta are not exactly the same caliber. There's a difference between a girl telling you she likes men with blue eyes, when yours are brown, and an exasperated wife dragging her husband to rehab because he still smokes weed and drinks like he's in college at 35.
/r/askTRP06/03/20 06:40 AM
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Your post is incorrect. Women don't want their men to be submissive, they are well aware that they despise submissive men. Women want a man who gets shit done. If you don't shit done, she will start telling you to get shit done. Your beta ass, then realizing that she's right about shit needing to get done, listens to her and gets that shit done. Then she thinks you're a lame faggot who needs to be told how to lead.
/r/askTRP06/03/20 03:36 AM
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This is almost always a trap. You become a hypocrite a year from now, when she asks for you to watch another dude fuck her. It's a bold move, but it's also an old move.
/r/askTRP06/03/20 03:26 AM
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If you absolutely have to continue to work there, write a letter to yourself and mail it to yourself certified mail. That's a way for you to ensure that nobody has to be told, but you still have legally viable, dated documentation of what's happening.
/r/askTRP05/03/20 05:16 AM
2

If you are a good wife then it may help. If you are bad wife, it will encourage him to leave you. Play at your own risk.
/r/askTRP04/03/20 10:29 PM
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Your wife is trashy. If my wife smoked while pregnant I would divorce her. She is injuring your unborn child. You can't build Rome in a day, but this is frankly a hill worth dying on. Frame or no frame, your child's wellbeing is at stake. Fuck her feelings and fuck her for mentioning them in this context. I doubt this marriage is worth saving, but your kid is.
/r/askMRP04/03/20 05:25 PM
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Stats: Age: 29 Weight: 174lbs (+2lbs over last week) Height: 6'0 Ballpark body fat percentage: last week was a guess, honestly I don't know. I need a new caliper. I think last weeks guess was probably a bit higher than I really am, but I won't know until I measure it properly. Married: 7 years, no kids General mission progress: I managed to kick all of my worst habits, which was a big roadblock recently. I've pulled myself out of what felt like a slump at work, but my studying is still more or l…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/03/20 05:10 AM
1

She already nexted you.
/r/askTRP03/03/20 08:33 PM
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These comments are garbage. It's okay to text about important stuff. If it's time-sensitive, I usually call instead, but either one is fine. Also, it's absolutely okay to confront her about not responding to important communication in a timely manner. Now, if she's in a movie or something then that's different and you have to use some common sense. If she's just out shopping, she needs to be a responsible adult and answer the phone.
/r/askTRP03/03/20 08:26 PM
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Your mental state is the sum of the things you feed it. If you consume Blackpill material more than you consume anything else, you will become an incel. If you watch a ton of Infowars, you will become a conspiracy theorist. Your thought process is a direct result of what you expose yourself to. Choose wisely. It's for this reason that I choose to read the great philosophers and limit how much I participate in even TRP.
/r/askTRP03/03/20 06:24 PM
1

All drugs are going to handicap your development, this includes alcohol.
/r/askTRP03/03/20 04:12 PM
2

Pregnancy is a whole different ballgame. TRP is not geared towards dealing with this. Pregnant women are only focused on making sure that their needs are met, so they can deliver a healthy baby.
/r/askTRP02/03/20 09:01 PM
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It doesn't complicate anything. If anything, it's even more indicative of the kind of relationship they have. This guy risked getting instafired by HR by asking her out with him, but he felt it was a safe bet. It's not even remotely "harder to reject" him. She could just complain and send him packing without him even getting a chance to explain himself.
/r/askTRP02/03/20 07:51 PM
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You can't set boundaries reactively, they must be set up proactively. That being said, there are certain things I would just expect a woman in my life to know. No one should have to set up the "no sucking off my friends" boundary, as an example. In the future, when you set boundaries, all you do is say, "here's how I expect you to behave...". It doesn't have to be more complicated than that.
/r/askTRP02/03/20 06:55 PM
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If you had internalized Briffault's Law, you would understand why this situation is not okay.
/r/askTRP02/03/20 06:18 PM
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If she didn't turn him down right away, she shouldn't be your girlfriend anymore. The guy is not the problem.
/r/askTRP02/03/20 06:09 PM
1

Tell your friend and ignore her. She needs to not have a boyfriend.
/r/askTRP02/03/20 05:01 PM
1

Lifting: There's no rush. That's a normal lifting regimen for me. I prefer to go in some capacity every day. Job: I'm not undervalued in my current job, I was offered a promotion awhile back and realized that I didn't want it or any of the positions above it. I decided to change careers after that realization. I'm switching to something that is more lucrative, challenging, and interesting. Ego: Again, I had an epiphany recently that my ego is still holding me back. "Extreme Ownership" is a refer…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/02/20 05:23 AM
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You aren't thinking about this the right way. I'll edit this post to go into detail when I get home later. Edit: Abundance is not finite. Male / female dynamics don't work the way that you think they do. You are hyper fixated on this idea of the male 6/10, 7/10, 8/10, etc... That's really not how it works. Here's how it actually works. If you workout until you are the most ripped dude in the room most of the time, you will stand out just about everywhere that you go. If you then make the effort …
/r/askTRP27/02/20 09:54 PM
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If you are in great shape and have serious money, this might be one of the few cases where social media is a good idea. Make an instagram. Post pictures of you demonstrating how much you make. This could be wearing a suit and dining in a fancy restaurant or standing in front of your sports car, etc... If you don't make that much money and you have no free time, reevaluate whether or not your efforts are going into the right things.
/r/askTRP27/02/20 05:40 PM
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He's already a power bottom.
/r/askTRP27/02/20 05:20 PM
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I'm a hiring manager and I give zero fucks about people lying in interviews. If you predicate your interview questions around qualifiers that people can lie about, you deserve to be lied to. Good hiring managers find ways to practically test the ability of candidates. Sure, you can lie about shit on your resume, but honestly, resumes don't count much once you are sitting in the interview. No one gives a fuck where you went to school if you cant answer basic industry questions.
/r/askTRP27/02/20 05:16 PM
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All women are the same. They just want the most physically attractive, successful, powerful man that they can get. There is absolutely no exception to this anywhere in the world. The point of reading the sidebar is to understand it, so just reread it there until you get it. If there's a specific question from the sidebar that you dont understand then ask here. Example: "In the Rational Male, Rollo says x. What does he mean by that?"
/r/askTRP27/02/20 05:05 PM
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The world has become soft. A soft world produces weak men. You are a weak man. We are the hard world that will make you strong. Now go read the books on the sidebar.
/r/askTRP27/02/20 04:30 PM
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You are a lazy, spineless faggot. Maybe that's why you got ripped a new one in askmrp? Nearly every post in your post history reads like this: What should I do about x? How should I reply to x? How do I LTR? How do I LTR better? Should I LTR? I don't want to LTR? I'm in an LTR? You literally asked if you could ask a question on trpwomen. Your Reddit account is almost 4 years old and you haven't figured out how to find sidebars yet? You're the kind of mother fucker that steals the answer key in s…
/r/askTRP27/02/20 04:21 PM
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You need to take control over your habits. Also, read the whole sidebar.
/r/askTRP27/02/20 03:53 PM
3

She's not trying to vet you. Women don't give nearly enough of a fuck about each other to go to that amount of effort. She's trying to fuck you.
/r/askTRP27/02/20 05:15 AM
5

This is so good I want to print it on business cards and hand it out to the betas I meet.
/r/askTRP27/02/20 04:51 AM
2

I've said this a thousand times already, but you don't "eat" at the gym. If you like her go for it. They aren't going to cancel your membership because you hit on the girl at the counter. There are 0 negative consequences to doing this.
/r/askTRP27/02/20 04:49 AM
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Hint: it's gonna be an issue.
/r/askTRP27/02/20 02:46 AM
3

I find that almost all of the lies that I tell are told for one of two reasons: To evade responsibility for something. To try and make myself seem like I'm the kind of person that I wish that I was. There are legitimate reasons to lie, but they are rarely what someone asking this question is interested in. I would rather take ownership of my life and solve those two issues above by doing the following: Only take actions that produce consequences I'm willing to be responsible for. Be the person t…
/r/TheRedPill26/02/20 06:25 AM
1

Stats Age: 29 Weight: 172lbs Height: 6'0 Ballpark body fat percentage: 15% Married: 7 years, no kids Mission Goal: My current mission is to keep studying with the specific hopes of transferring to a technical career. Problem: lately, I have been back on the horse. I fell off track completely for about 10 days after a train wreck of an interview. I let myself get really discouraged and second guess my preparedness, even though the reality is that I'm clearly ready to move into the field. I'm also…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/02/20 04:25 AM
1

It's honestly not a great book. It's the literary equivalent of clickbait.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/02/20 06:43 PM
1

The simplest way that I can put it is this: treat your personality like you are reformatting a harddrive. You are overwriting everything and starting fresh. Don't pick through your character for the "good bits". Just flush it all. Be prepared for the long haul. You are rebuilding yourself from scratch. Read the sidebar literally in sequential order and lift. Keep your mouth shut. There's nothing you can say that will make you more attractive. If done right, this can be incredibly easy. Guys here…
/r/askMRP06/02/20 07:27 PM
27

I disagree with you. I think there is value to these examples. No one is saying "be a violent piece of shit". The point is that what society teaches us about female attraction is just wrong. Women find aggressive men attractive. The more unruly and badass you are, the more sexual success you will have. I have seen this play out in my social circles, social media, mainstream news, erotic fiction (written by women), etc... If you can't extrapolate the actionable items from such a simple concept th…
/r/TheRedPill30/01/20 07:00 AM
56

Your wife is fucking bored. You aren't leading her and giving her direction. She has so little clue of what to do with her life or where she's headed that she wants to digress a decade and sleep with aimless college dudes. Her random slutty, unhappy girlfriends' pasts are more exciting than her present or prospective future. You omitted the most important parts of this story. Your wife: Doesn't have a job. Is a SAHM. Despite #2, the house is frequently dirty. She only cooks dinner intermittently…
/r/askMRP30/01/20 06:50 AM
2

This post is lame. Who are you even?
/r/MarriedRedPill24/01/20 03:45 PM
2

You need a mission. Also, at 21, your wife's a child. You will need rock solid frame to not have a miserable life for the next 5-6 years.
/r/askMRP21/01/20 08:08 AM
51

This post is beta as fuck. I told my wife we are paternity testing all of our kids. She got a little upset and I told her it's non-negotiable. She dropped it and never brought it up again. The reality is, women don't actually give a damn. The idea that women get permanently offended by stuff like this is horse shit. If you are alpha, she will do anything to keep you. She's not about to lose a badass man over him wanting to paternity test a kid once. Just sack up and take control of your life. Th…
/r/TheRedPill20/01/20 08:33 PM
8

Your physical stats don't add up. 8% at 200lbs is enormous, but your squat and deadlift are low. I would hazard a guess that you don't actually have any idea what your body fat is.
/r/askMRP20/01/20 02:59 PM
2

You aren't ready to be posting observations. Lift and finish the sidebar.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/20 09:02 PM
3

This post is lame. I don't find tearing down other men behind their backs interesting. This is how women behave. Worry about yourself.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/20 08:57 PM
163

Your post is actually a great field report and reminder. You need to stop putting yourself down. This contributed value to my day.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/20 02:45 PM
4

This is actually really good.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/20 07:01 AM
2

I feel mostly the same as you. With the one exception that I think TRM is a good introduction to TRP. That 375 squat is a fucking hoot though. Rollo couldn't bring one rep of 375 gracefully to the ground.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/20 06:27 AM
41

You do realize that all of this PC bullshit is a product of the Frankfurt School, right?
/r/TheRedPill09/01/20 05:01 PM
278

There's a lot to learn from comedians just in general. They've become the only people in our society that are allowed to break the rules on political correctness and start a dialogue. What's the lesson? Be funny, treat everything like a game of wit that you're well prepared for, and be direct while doing so.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/20 03:34 PM
9

Admitting who you voted for is not failing a fucking shit test. Literally doing almost anything else is though. Why are you such a faggot that you think owning your own decisions is a mistake? Why is no one else calling you out directly? Fuck pressure flips. Fuck AA. Fuck dodging the question. This is not a shit test. "I voted for Trump" is by far the best answer. Just be fucking honest. You are such a fucking apologetic, spineless, pathetic faggot that you can't even admit it was Trump anonymou…
/r/askMRP06/01/20 02:25 AM
19

The 48 Laws of Power most definitely talks about influence.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/20 05:21 AM
6

There's a very prevalent issue surrounding TRP that I think you are demonstrating quite well. That issue is that everyone, even among our own membership, seems to have a very different idea of what TRP is trying to say and how it reached those conclusions. I would argue that the best approach is a purely pragmatic one. Think of it this way, no one picks up a hammer and asks the context for which it was invented. It is self evident, upon using of the hammer that it is an effective device for putt…
/r/TheRedPill02/01/20 12:22 AM
4

Your wife's an alcoholic. You are a faggot. Who plans New Years months and months in advance? Don't you have anything better to do?
/r/askMRP01/01/20 06:59 AM
1

This is the top comment here, believe it or not. Until she believes that there are boundaries she cannot cross and expectations that she must meet just to continue being with you, this kind of shit will happen.
/r/askMRP31/12/19 09:55 PM
3

Dance? With that squat I'm surprised you can walk.
/r/askMRP31/12/19 09:51 PM
1

Edited to include my stats, because you are right about that. However, remember that we post here for ourselves, not for others. If you keep at this and don't let up, you too can post mostly wins. If you hadn't been putting in the work that you have, I wouldn't have responded to you. Keep it up, brother. Thanks for the call out.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/12/19 08:04 PM
1

OYS 3 Stats - edited and will include in following weeks Age: 29 Height: 6'0" Weight: 175lbs BF%: 8% Married: 7 years Mission I've been reflecting on what having a mission means. I realized that I've never had one. I've had goals, but no mission. They are not the same fucking thing. I have a mission now, because I sat down and articulated one. Lifting None this week. I will resume after Christmas. Finances Spent a good chunk of change on Christmas. I need to cook more meals at home, but other th…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/12/19 06:05 AM
5

For me, it just took time. Read consistently and don't skip days. You will slowly turn your new knowledge into new behaviors.
/r/askMRP20/12/19 04:23 PM
2

Killer post. Journaling is so helpful. I carry a journal with me every day at work and I face a really tough situation or my mind isn't in order, I pull it out and write for 10 minutes.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/19 12:33 AM
1

OYS 2 Lifting I made it to the gym twice this week. Had a good chest and back day. Still not going to post any numbers yet, as I'm still trying to recondition. I'm happy with how things are going overall, but I am noticing a lot of exhaustion. I forgot how tired lifting makes me. Finances Nothing special to report. I'm managing my money well, I just need more income. I'm thinking I might have to start looking for jobs in my desired field before I finish school. I don't know if I can handle conti…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/12/19 03:27 AM
5

There is no such thing as "... an HB9 for her age". This is BP bullshit and demonstrates a lack of understanding of abundance. You don't adjust attractiveness for age, because men with options don't have to stick to an age group. Women don't "believe" in anything. They demonstrate the behaviors requisite to get and hold onto the man that they want. It's really that simple.
/r/askMRP13/12/19 06:44 AM
6

Didn't have time to read the whole post, but threatening a spouse with deportation is actually illegal. Look at the laws around it, but my friend was in a similar situation and he was granted permanent residency in a case against his abusive wife who was doing the exact same thing as yours.
/r/askMRP12/12/19 12:35 AM
11

Lift your spoon to your face for 5 sets of 12 reps.
/r/askMRP11/12/19 04:23 PM
2

OYS 1 Again I want to start posting here again, so I have more tangible milestones to look back on. Lifting I got my ass back in the gym after about 4 months of slacking off. I feel way better. My lifts have suffered a lot, but interestingly, my weight has moved much and I still look pretty good. 6'0, 172lbs, ballpark 12%. Reducing my all of my lifts to bare minimum for a few weeks so that I can develop my strength back without risking injury. Not even going to post numbers until I feel more con…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/12/19 02:22 AM
6

Thanks for the explanation. I whipped out DuoLingo, but I only learned how to say "I am a man".
/r/TheRedPill08/12/19 10:33 PM
1

Great comment. I'll come back to this in 25 years.
/r/askMRP08/12/19 12:11 AM
12

First of all, no one here is going to tell you whether or not you "should" make it work. Step one to unfucking your life will be learning to make decisions like this without looking for Mommy or the Internet's approval. You need to start lifting as soon as possible and the first book I recommend is No More Mister Nice Guy. Eventually, you will want to read every book on the sidebar. I read your whole post without actually learning anything about you. I know significantly more about your wife, bu…
/r/askMRP07/12/19 02:05 PM
142

Nofap gets way too pseudo-sciency for my taste. I'm sure not nutting every day has benefits, but people act like they've reached nirvana by just not jerking it. It's too dogmatic for me to take seriously. Edit because I clearly need to clarify. I am not saying that quitting masturbation is a waste of time. I quit awhile ago. My criticisms are of the Nofap community, not abstaining from porn and masturbation. Also, to answer the guys asking if I've tried it, I have. I routinely go 1-2 months with…
/r/askTRP07/12/19 06:24 AM
15

I'm glad I know how far away you are, so I can keep a safe distance.
/r/askTRP06/12/19 04:14 AM
14

Who the fuck doesn't text? Maybe start by not asking stupid questions and see if your responses get better.
/r/askTRP06/12/19 04:12 AM
35

This post is complete bullshit. If I was your wife, I'd cut your sex ration to once a year. I'll elaborate later tonight, but enjoy your hysterical bonding while it lasts. Edit: okay, it's later tonight. Man, this post is a Goddamn mess. I'm just gonna go with bullet points to cover a few major things that I didn't see already covered by someone else. You talk too fucking much. No one who types a fucking novel like that is silent in real life. Shutting the fuck up will become the best tool in yo…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/12/19 12:32 AM
46

Change your goals. Just set the goal of getting numbers and don't even text them. As soon as you get a number, just move on to trying to get the next number. Once you have 10 numbers, then you can start texting. That way, the moment you start texting, you already have 9 other girls on the back burner. If you start getting antsy and needy with one girl, just text a different one.
/r/askTRP05/12/19 11:37 PM
2

Remember this, she only gives a fuck about the past when she can use it to her advantage. If you become the kind of man she wants, she won't give a flying fuck what you did yesterday, as long as it wasn't beta. Joining AA is an enormous step. Good job on that. Get a sponsor and listen to him. If you don't like your sponsor or he's too beta, fire him and get a new one. Stay plan is the go plan.
/r/askMRP05/12/19 05:42 PM
0

This article is basically saying something that I've thought to be the case for awhile now. The reality is a lot more harsh than 80/20 for being a top male. It's closer to 95/5, according to this article.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/19 01:00 PM
1

This question should be asked to a doctor, not us.
/r/askTRP05/12/19 12:25 PM
1

There have actually been studies done showing that a barbell at the gym is dirtier than a public toilet. Think out it, people are going to the bathroom, not washing their hands after wiping their ass, and then grabbing a barbell and getting sweat-mixed flecks of feces all over the equipment. Wash your hands thoroughly every time you lift and don't touch your face at all while in the gym. This is a common problem.
/r/askTRP04/12/19 11:06 PM
2

"Alpha" is Greek for the first letter of the alphabet. To be alpha is to be first. That is all.
/r/askTRP04/12/19 07:34 PM
1

Read the rational male. Also, being physically attractive is absolutely necessary for one to be alpha. You also must be confident and assertive, so if that's what you meant by "bold" then I'd say you are wrong about that. Ultimately, this is a pointless question. It's more important to know what the constituent parts of being alpha are than to question if they occur naturally or not. Who gives a shit? Obviously you don't innately have enough of these traits to give you the sex life you want or y…
/r/askTRP04/12/19 06:32 PM
38

This is a great look at what a first night out with an idealized wing-guru might look like. Good work.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/19 06:27 PM
34

I think overall, the advice of the post that we should be cold approaching is good. However, there's still a ton of pedestalization going on that caught me off guard. The article spends a lot of time expounding upon how attractive the girl is, how hot college girls are, and how many options they all have. I don't see the point in this at all. It makes much more sense to treat these things as binaries. You either find women attractive or not. No point in qualifying them and what options they migh…
/r/TheRedPill04/12/19 04:46 PM
1

Thanks for this. I read that book over a year ago and forgot a lot of it.
/r/askMRP04/12/19 02:28 AM
1

You don't "know" anything. Actually read the sidebar. All of the sidebar.
/r/askTRP02/12/19 05:39 AM
13

Be very careful. You still have to live with this woman for 2 years and she has a lot of power to make your life hell in the mean time. If she even remotely catches wind that you are trying to take some of her power back, she will seriously make you miserable.
/r/askMRP29/11/19 08:08 PM
6

You probably have some degree of lactose intolerance. I had the same problem and taking a generic Lactaid greatly reduced it.
/r/askTRP28/11/19 11:02 PM
1

Heroin relieves stress, too. Anyone who tells you that online games have benefits is rationalizing their addiction. I have probably 4 solid years played, like hour by hour and I can't rationalize that shit anymore. It was a complete waste of time and it almost killed me. But it didn't kill me and now I get a second chance to have a life worth living. I'm not wasting another second of it, but the only way for me to quit gaming was with 100% abstinence.
/r/askTRP28/11/19 08:34 PM
1

Here's the deal. You came to Reddit and asked for help, presumably for a reason. I don't know what that reason was, but you do. I assumed that reason was because you aren't happy. Take it from someone who literally worked at the pro level of gaming in numerous games when I was around your age. That shit will ravage you and leave you for dead. It's not even about how it eats away at your time. If that was the case then it would have no detrimental effects at the professional level, yet it does. I…
/r/askTRP28/11/19 08:23 PM
1

You are an addict. Nothing in your life will change until you quit games completely. If you drink or use any kind of drugs, you need to quit those as well. Anything that distracts you needs to be completely cut out with no exception. Do that for 10 days and report back. I was in your shoes once.
/r/askTRP28/11/19 08:11 PM
5

The degree to which you are delusional is hard to put into words. You even go so far as to suggest that some of us are jealous of you. Not a single person in this thread wants your life. To any man who has spent more than 1 week here, it is obvious why your wife is acting the way she is. It's so obvious, in fact, that even your intentionally conciliatory and self-aggrandizing writing can't hide the fact that your are 100% of the problem in your relationship. The choice is yours. You can take the…
/r/askMRP28/11/19 07:24 PM
7

Where's the ref when you need him? This is like watching someone get ground-and-pounded after they're already knocked out. You said everything I would have said and then some.
/r/askMRP28/11/19 01:41 PM
4

As long as you don't get butthurt over a rejection or engage them repeatedly, you should be fine. I think you'll be pleasantly surprised. There are crazy women out there, too, but you can't let them hold your behavior hostage.
/r/askTRP26/11/19 02:28 PM
15

No one told you it would be easy, they just told you it would be better. All of the barriers like headphones and being plugged into The Matrix just serve to weed even more betas. That means that someone cold approaching is even more rare and unusual, and thus, special. If you don't have the balls to deal with those factors though, just jump back onto the heap with everyone else.
/r/askTRP26/11/19 02:19 PM
35

There's no leader more impotent than he who cannot govern himself. It starts with the work you do on your own development then it moves to her.
/r/askTRP26/11/19 04:56 AM
11

First of all, no one gives a fuck about your fat face. Get over it. 140lbs is how much most guys here bench to warm up. You need to put on more weight. Don't even measure your BMI again until you are at least 180lbs. Secondly, if you want game material, you could start with the sidebar. Maybe read the Commandments of Poon. Third, you don't need coping mechanisms, only faggots use those. You need Stoicism and some balls. Feelings are normal, get used to them. How can you weather the external stor…
/r/askTRP26/11/19 04:32 AM
2

Maybe they don't want YOU to bother them. For the right guy, women are receptive whenever and wherever.
/r/askTRP26/11/19 12:06 AM
1

It's all in the reality you create around you. Women are collectively calibrated so much more than we are. If you believe that and act like you are genuinely the shit, they will believe it unless someone they trust tells them otherwise. Behave as if you are valuable. Withhold things like words of approval for only those who've earned them. Be consistent and be polished. Go out of the house dressed and behaving as if the paparazzi is trying to catch you on your back foot. Lifting is important for…
/r/askTRP25/11/19 06:59 PM
1

You trust things and people constantly, whether you like it or not. Every time you go through a green light at a 4 way intersection, you are trusting that a drunk driver isn't going to broadside you at 80mph. When it comes to transactional consent, just use common sense, be as clear as you can, and try to communicate via permanent mediums, like email, whenever possible. Frame is not about women and it's also independent from how you look. You are also conflating frame and confidence, which are n…
/r/askTRP25/11/19 06:25 PM
27

This post is ideological piecemeal and is mostly incoherent. You need to narrow your topic down to something you can tackle in one post.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/19 03:22 AM
1

Drinking is a waste of time and money.
/r/askTRP22/11/19 09:05 PM
2

A newly married coworker tried to have sex with me at an international conference.
/r/askTRP22/11/19 08:56 PM
1

Read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP22/11/19 05:15 PM
3

Yeah. This is extremely inappropriate. It also constitutes back talk, considering that she's telling him "all of the females". It sounds like all of the females need to focus on their jobs, so they can catch up to his sales numbers. This is absolutely harrassment. Unless I misunderstood the post and he's actually being accused of sexually harassing them himself. Either way, this is not how you handle it.
/r/askTRP21/11/19 04:11 PM
3

A true sense of value comes from improving the lives of others. Try it and see for yourself.
/r/askTRP18/11/19 01:08 AM
2

People find this place after hitting their bottom. Clearly, he's got a lower bottom than you expected. Maybe he'll hit it, maybe he won't.
/r/askTRP17/11/19 01:39 PM
1

Buy a paperback copy of NMMNG and highlight every sentence in it where he uses the phrase "covert contract". That's what your entire post is; a massive fucking cover contract.
/r/askMRP14/11/19 09:06 PM
1

I get so mad every time I read about a woman still expecting to be paid for in 2019. I left the anger phase 2 years ago now, but that's like the one thing that still enrages me. Either you want equal treatment or you don't. Fuck.
/r/askTRP29/10/19 04:16 PM
1

If being angry and hurt was enough to understand and have frame, I would have saved my own marriage without ever having to read the sidebar.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/10/19 03:48 PM
0

I'm not going to have this argument with you. If you genuinely want help, you can PM me and I will help you. Otherwise, let's just stop.
/r/askTRP27/10/19 05:55 AM
0

Do you really not see what your mind is doing to you? You literally are fabricating a quote to reflect your worldview. Believe what you want, but where have those beliefs gotten you?
/r/askTRP27/10/19 05:34 AM
13

That's the wrong question. Instead ask yourself this: are you really as unlovable as you think you are? You look the way you look, because ancestors who carried your genes successfully reproduced. Think about what that means for a bit. I wouldn't switch with you, but I also wouldn't switch with the millions of men who are mich more attractive than me. I've learned to love myself, for what I am, and I wouldn't trade that in to shore up my physical flaws. I had a really interesting experience toni…
/r/askTRP27/10/19 03:48 AM
8

Take this opportunity to learn how to love yourself, despite your flaws. That's more important than being physically attractive.
/r/askTRP27/10/19 03:03 AM
2

There are so many more things that can go wrong in this situation than can even be anticipated. What if one of her friends decides she wants to move in, but you're still on the lease? No problem, nothing a false rape accusation can't solve. Oh, she has a beta boyfriend now that comes over all the time and is super jealous of you? Now you live in intense discomfort the majority of the time. Oh, she's an alcoholic? Enjoy blackouts where anything you try to stop her from doing could result in you c…
/r/askTRP25/10/19 11:53 PM
3

My starting body weight was about 140lbs and my starting bench, for reps, was about 95lbs. I hit 245+ at a body weight of around 175lbs. I've been less focused on lifting lately, but I'm plateaued at around 185lbs and I reduced my bench deliberately to experiment with different grips lately. My chest has been responding better to repping 155 with more controlled form, much slower reps, a closer grip, and a better bar path. I find the more weight I try to press, the more I engage the wrong muscle…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/10/19 02:22 PM
1

I'm trying to assume legitimacy and just offer a second opinion. It took me about 1.5 years of lifting 5 days a week to put up 245lbs for a passable rep.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/10/19 02:11 PM
3

My point was not to naysay his achievement, just to remind onlookers that it's probably going to take a lot more time and work than that. "The path" I'm referring to is the work being put in, not the outcome being achieved. If I thought there was a one-size-fits-all 3 month fix, I would be preaching it along with everyone else.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/10/19 12:07 PM
32

I applaud your marital improvement, but to anyone reading this post, I think it needs to be made very clear that this is far from the norm and also not a path that most experienced members would recommend. To unfuck your 32 year marriage in 3 months, after reading only The Rational Male is extremely unlikely for 99% of our users. Also, after personally training 6 other men in the gym, one of which was 6'5" and extremely broad, I can say with confidence that your gym numbers are extraordinary. To…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/10/19 04:58 AM
2

I heard that the best way to rekindle attraction in this situation is to introduce another man into the bedroom.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/10/19 02:11 PM
2

Pretty sure that's what money is.
/r/askTRP17/10/19 07:28 PM
2

If they actually accessed your Google drive, you have a court case. That being said, they have every right to fire you for doing writing personal journals on the clock. Accessing personal files, whether written on a work computer or not, so long as they were stored on a medium that is your property, is a federal crime. They need a search warrant or a subpoena and that is a seriously, seriously big deal.
/r/askTRP15/10/19 04:02 PM
7

The other comments about alcohol are great, but I want to add something. Being funny 1-on-1 is pretty dependant on the other person giving you something to go off of. If they are boring and not really responding decently, you are going to feel like you aren't funny. Sometimes it's just them.
/r/askTRP13/10/19 05:24 AM
40

Joe honestly eviscerated every point he tried to make.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/19 09:12 PM
1

That's extremely unlikely. Shit, I can't get out of my gym memberships without a certified letter, proof of new address, and a doctor's note. You think they are going to cancel a membership because you made a girl "a little uncomfortable"? I'm sure it has happened somewhere, but that's hardly the norm. If it does, go to another gym. I have like 5+ gyms within a mile of my house, who cares if they pull the plug.
/r/askTRP02/10/19 04:48 PM
5

I'm not saying there arent posts about frame, just that it's very often misunderstood and mischaracterized by members.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/19 04:45 PM
6

You should do sober every day, indefinitely. Drinking will add nothing positive to your life long term.
/r/askTRP02/10/19 01:31 PM
-1

Ignore this reply. Gaming at the gym is not "shitting where you eat". Such beta fear mongering. God forbid you visit a place a second time after talking to a woman there.
/r/askTRP02/10/19 01:29 PM
1

That's not what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/19 01:24 PM
17

I agree with this except for one crucial point: I don't accept the statement that most people here "understand what frame is" after a certain tenure. I actually think one of the worst issues of TRP is that frame is so mercurial in its definition that people seem to have different ideas about what constitutes frame. This inconsistency cause members a lot of issues when trying to understand posts like yours, fully. That being said, it's still a good post. Thanks for the contribution.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/19 01:24 PM
1

This question is worded incorrectly from the start. There are no leagues.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/19 12:48 PM
3

I appreciate this post. This is what I tell people who come to me for help. You have to love yourself, wholly, before you can live, fully.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/19 01:55 AM
2

Keto is one of the very, very few fitness fads that is absolutely legit. There is extensive research to back up Keto. A close friend of mine lost over 150lbs after being over weight for quite literally his entire life. He lost this all in the span of like 7 months. That being said, I've heard anecdotal accounts that starting Keto is as hard as giving up a long-term addiction and that you will feel low-energy and miserable for as long as a few weeks. Best of luck!
/r/askMRP29/09/19 07:29 PM
1

Read the married red pill sub's sidebar. There are great books on it that arent in the regular TRP sidebar and are still perfectly relevant for unmarried men.
/r/askTRP26/09/19 01:47 AM
-2

Are you quoting someone in the midst of a stroke? I have no idea what that sentence is supposed to mean.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/19 03:16 AM
-1

New ways? Do you mean 5,000 year old ways?
/r/TheRedPill25/09/19 02:54 AM
-13

This sub is becoming a fucking meme.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/19 02:45 AM
28

TRP is not an ideology and you seem to have forgotten that. You have no business telling men on this sub what their goals "should" be. The moment you cross that line, you are in deep philosophical water that is far beyond the scope of sexual strategy and self-improvement.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/19 11:07 PM
1

Peacocking is not RP behavior. That's PUA shit that we refer to as LARPing.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/19 12:52 AM
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I do think that buying expensive cars and watches is very often done for similar reasons to the ones that I mentioned above. Look, obviously not all tattoos are gotten because of some form of insecurity, but I still feel comfortable making that generalization. I think I have a solid grasp of how human behavior and psychology work, but I actually will add that book to my reading list, because you arent the first to mention it here. The point I'm trying to make is that tattoos are very often compe…
/r/TheRedPill20/09/19 12:03 AM
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I mostly agree with you, except for one major point. I think tattoos are effeminate as hell on men. Tattoos are a form of compensating for a deficiency that you perceive in yourself. You are trying to manipulate people's impression of you by pre-emptively telling them how they should perceive you. Examples: Effeminate man gets a tattoo of something overtly "badass", to signal that he's actually a tough guy. Actual tough guys, like Jocko Willink, David Goggins, or even John Cena, don't feel any n…
/r/TheRedPill19/09/19 10:33 PM
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Incredible post. I've added all of those books to my list. Thanks again.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/19 05:46 PM
3

She just wants to be lead and in her own personal narrative, the most alpha man is also "a man of God".
/r/askMRP18/09/19 02:47 AM
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"Beginner gains will go to waste". That's quite possibly the most bro sciencey statement I've ever seen on this sub. That's not how lifting works, lol. Beginner gains are just your body accelerating to a comfortable, healthy weight once you put proper loads on your muscles and eat enough. It's not like a window of time that you need to maximize, lest you miss the timing. The reason things slow down is because most people want to push past that weight and keep gaining and it's difficult to condit…
/r/askTRP16/09/19 04:50 PM
3

When you don't have to ask.
/r/askTRP16/09/19 12:38 AM
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I work directly with a lot of RP men via personal messages. The most common arc that I've encountered is that men are coming out of an LTR where they were either unceremoniously dumped or cheated on by a woman that they had been extremely emotionally invested in. Most women that men perceive as "bimbos" are way too sexually attractive for a freshly red-pilled male to even feel confident enough to approach. I really don't think your post is accurate at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 06:43 PM
7

This is lazy tripe. How does your argument deal with the existence of MRP?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 06:01 PM
1

No.
/r/askTRP12/09/19 09:56 PM
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TRP doesn't promote hatred of women. It's extremely unfortunate that that's what so many people experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/19 04:57 PM
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Blame yourself for everything you dislike about your life and you will always be the one with the power to change it. Never stop reading, exercising, eating well, and sleeping well. Even a house of cards can stand tall on a stable foundation. Don't hate women.
/r/askTRP12/09/19 12:44 PM
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I really needed to hear this specifically right now. If this had come at any other time, I would have brushed it off as being whack. Thanks a lot, man.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/19 09:34 PM
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Sales is fine, but it's absolutely nothing like how it's portrayed in movies. It's just about relationship building and persistence. The dishonesty aspect is seriously overblown. I'm almost never dishonest. If you have to lie about the quality of your product, then you will always be fighting an uphill battle anyways. Sell something that you think is great and you don't have to lie.
/r/askTRP06/09/19 04:49 PM
2

This is an absolutely fantastic post. Hell yes. We need more content like this. Body language is absolutely everything, and eye-contact is the filet mignon of body language. When I'm at my most crass, which is most of the time, I refer to proper eye-contact as eye fucking. You should literally eye-fuck woman that you meet. It's the most primal behavior possible. The only way to learn this is by staring people down intensely and watching how their body language and their own eye-contact subtly ch…
/r/TheRedPill03/09/19 11:09 PM
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Then he needs to say it like that.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/19 09:20 PM
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This is a bad post. If anything, at TRP we have an epidemic of people not even reading the sidebar. Asking for more material should certainly not be frowned upon. Also, experience may be the most memorable teacher, but it's not always the best. Some lessons are high-stakes. You don't need to experience divorce to learn that it sucks. I have a huge problem with you referring to reading as a consumption habit. First of all, ideas aren't consumables and the purpose of books is to convey ideas. Seco…
/r/TheRedPill27/08/19 03:47 PM
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I've literally experienced this.
/r/askTRP26/08/19 06:33 PM
4

The hyman definitely breaks during intercourse for most virgin women. That's a real thing.
/r/askTRP26/08/19 05:23 PM
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Holy shit. I almost choked on my food.
/r/askTRP26/08/19 04:37 PM
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If it became a habit then I'd be annoyed. It's not like I want to date an alcoholic, but I'm not gonna freak out if my girl gets drunk with her friends once. But I'm not you. You have to understand that TRP doesn't dictate how you should feel. The way I feel isn't "the right way to feel", it's just how I feel. If you feel differently, then you need to act differently than I do to solve your issue.
/r/askTRP26/08/19 06:07 AM
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That's up to you. The simple act of drinking doesn't bother me. She knows the rules, and she knows that she has to follow them whether she's drunk or sober. That's all I care about.
/r/askTRP26/08/19 05:10 AM
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The overreactions in this thread are insane. Who gives a fuck.
/r/askTRP26/08/19 03:49 AM
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Not every guy owns a Lamborghini, but every guy who owns one posts pictures of it on social media. It's the same thing. If you can get easy validation for something, you will do it. This is not unique to women, they just get way more validation for their bodies than we do. Guys who can achieve that level of validation on instagram with their body do the same thing, they are just far fewer. Look at dudes like David Laid, Zyzz, and Jeff Seid.
/r/askTRP24/08/19 11:31 PM
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Just be aloof. Think Jon Hamm's character in literally any role.
/r/askTRP24/08/19 10:40 PM
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I was a waiter. She wants a big tip and that is all. The most successful waitress I ever worked with did this at literally every table, even for 70+ year old men.
/r/askTRP24/08/19 10:18 PM
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While every woman is going to be different, it only makes biological sense that she's more sexually interested during particular parts of her cycle. Outside of wanting to be intimate and thinking it feels good, that is sort of the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/19 04:33 PM
1

Just read Hemingway. His style is minimalistic perfection.
/r/askTRP21/08/19 03:00 PM
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This article is the best thing I've read here in a long time.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/19 03:38 PM
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Body language & eye contact are the most important thing in the entire world.
/r/askTRP19/08/19 02:58 PM
1

Damn. This was me in my late teens. I know how much that sucks, bro. You are too needy right now. That's what's holding you back.
/r/askTRP19/08/19 12:26 AM
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I highly doubt your wife gives a fuck about the content you are reading. She is happy and more pleasant because you are leading her.
/r/askMRP18/08/19 10:13 PM
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No. I don't consider tattoos to be a red flag. However, they definitely make people less attractive sometimes.
/r/askTRP18/08/19 05:30 PM
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Because MGTOWs are generally full of shit. They claim to not be interested in women, yet they indulge in gratuitous amounts of porn and weird fetishes like hentai. They are also often fat neckbeards with low T. They are just blobs of cognitive dissonance, low self-esteem, laziness, and denial. For every sincere, badass MGTOW you show me, I will find you 10 more with cum-stained bodypillows of some anime girl.
/r/askTRP18/08/19 05:03 PM
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This is such a crock of shit dude. I'm a good bit shorter than you and I have noticable flaws. Women are legit crazy about me. I'm married to a really hot girl. I have a list of at least 10 women who would jump on me in a heartbeat if I was ever single again. One girl legitimately wants to branch swing to me as a sidechick even though I'm happily married. She doesn't even care. Based on how you described yourself, I find it very unlikely that I'm better looking than you. If you are having low su…
/r/askTRP18/08/19 11:39 AM
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I don't have kids. I'll lay that right out there for you, but this isn't about me. Your situation sucks, because your wife took the reigns out of your hands and fucked up your relationship past the point of no return. It sucks that your wife did something that's going to have a negative impact on your children for years to come. It fucking sucks just about as much as any relationship can. But she did it and here you are. Take what little power you have. Currently, you have the initiative on her,…
/r/askMRP18/08/19 06:15 AM
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You hold all the cards? What are you on, dude? She's got a pair alright. A pair of some other dude's balls whacking her ass from behind.
/r/askMRP18/08/19 05:52 AM
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The reality is that if you are a good employee and at least mostly respectful, people will look for every excuse not to fire you. I'm not buying this story. I manage about 38 people at any given moment and I've never even been tempted to fire a good employee. But hell, if someone's an idiot that I want to get out of my team, I'll use anything I can to get rid of them.
/r/askTRP17/08/19 07:59 PM
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I work in management for a huge corporation. The second thing I said is significantly more important than the first thing. So many guys on this sub are so intense and full of rage. I have no rage. So for me, saying that I share my beliefs is really not that big a deal. For some of the guys here, yeah, it would be devastating. It's so important to give less fucks about things that don't matter. Some autistic dipshit said something earlier about how he thinks women should have their rights taken a…
/r/askTRP17/08/19 07:51 PM
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A few times?
/r/askTRP17/08/19 04:47 PM
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She's pressuring you to commit by showing you that she has options.
/r/askTRP17/08/19 03:41 PM
3

Um... what?
/r/askTRP17/08/19 02:28 PM
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Disagree with this post 100%. I don't know a single girl with NO hobbies. For example, significantly more women than men self-report as being casual readers. I also know far more women who are into art than men. That being said, if you only meet people at bars, you are going to meet a large number of people whose main hobby is going to bars and getting drunk.
/r/askTRP17/08/19 02:17 PM
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I have two big suggestions. Don't hide your beliefs. Share your opinions freely and challenge the opinions of others equally freely. Just don't do either of those things on social media. Don't give so many fucks about things that don't matter. This will circumvent a lot of what you are going through. The older I get, the less fucks I give about politics and what other people think.
/r/askTRP17/08/19 02:02 PM
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She's been carefully cultivating these emotions for "you" since long before you came into the picture.
/r/askTRP16/08/19 05:31 PM
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Just wanted to reply to this real quick to make sure that no one thinks this is actually a good response. Repeat after me, "dick pics are beta".
/r/askTRP16/08/19 05:06 PM
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You are a massive man-child. A TRP aware adult would realize that all the shit she's put you through is because of your own faggot ass failing to establish proper boundaries and hold frame. But screw growing as a person, let's just roast someone else.
/r/askTRP16/08/19 04:52 PM
2

This has absolutely nothing to do with The Red Pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 04:43 PM
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For me, realizing what being angry means completely turned me off from it. Anger is the most pathetic of all emotions that a man can feel. It is the manifestation of frustration and powerlessness. Usually men with short fuses think of their short fuses with a TINY bit of satisfaction, because they think their rage is at least an expression of some kind of righteous masculinity. Hint, there's nothing masculine about losing your temper. Angry outbursts are the antithesis of frame. Pick one. You ca…
/r/askTRP16/08/19 04:08 PM
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You just have to get over "being an introvert". Your question is similar to saying "I want to catch fish, but I don't like fishing boats, piers, lakes, rivers, or the ocean." Well? Get the fuck over it?
/r/askTRP16/08/19 01:33 AM
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Being in a position of leadership means that you are responsible for the actions and results of other people, in addition to your own.
/r/askTRP16/08/19 01:26 AM
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It's actually very much contrary to TRP to suggest that we say men should do less chores. We say nothing of the sort. What do say, is that men need to not do "choreplay", which is essentially jumping through hoops and conditions to earn sex from your wife. These are two very different things. If you want a more clear understanding of what TRP actually promotes in the context of married relationships, go to marriedredpill and read se of the OYS (Own Your Shit) posts, where men discuss how they ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 12:39 AM
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You are not mature enough to be making this decision. Gamble your entire sexual future for $300k? That's stupid as hell. Besides, if it doesn't work out, she's getting half of that anyways.
/r/askTRP14/08/19 09:46 PM
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Then just say no? Move out on your own. Do whatever you have to do to get out of a situation where you have "2-3 years tops before marriage". Why the fuck is that the kind of condition that you are willing to accept for your life? This whole thing reeks of dogmatic, religious manipulation. Get out or suffer the consequences.
/r/askTRP14/08/19 09:29 PM
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You are too young to even consider marriage at this point. If I were you, I'd hook up with your gym buddy and see how it goes. Date her, and if you still like her after 5 years, you can come back here and start talking about marriage. Dating based on your parents' preferences is a surefire way to set yourself up for an absolutely miserable life. I was once in your exact same position.
/r/askTRP14/08/19 09:23 PM
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If you possess enough reasoning to swallow the Red Pill successfully, you have enough reasoning stop believing in fairytales. I was raised hyper religious and man, it's such a farce.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/19 09:14 PM
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You answered your own questions. Learn English. Get over your approach anxiety.
/r/askTRP14/08/19 08:39 PM
2

To answer the actual question, no. Now, to add context. After swallowing the pill, learning about my own value and becoming the best that I can be, I feel really differently about the women in my life. My tolerances are absolutely not adjusted based on how young or hot a woman is. I have boundaries. You either respect them or you are out of my life. As for being a bitch, that's much easier. "Bitch" is just a gendered word for asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 07:56 PM
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Either no one is actually in an LTR or no one has the balls to truthfully answer this question. The answer is this: it's fucking hard! Going from an AFC to a really driven, attractive, confident, dominant man has multiplied my options times 1,000. Sometimes those options are unbelievably sexy and tempting. I've found that the most effective way for me to keep my game tight is to just be more outgoing with everyone, not just women, and certainly not just with attractive women. I strike up convers…
/r/askTRP14/08/19 03:33 PM
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RP theory is equally applicable cross culturally, make no mistake about that. The default prevalence of RP thinking among men, however, is vastly different.
/r/askTRP14/08/19 12:41 AM
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It's hard. Most of these men deal with immense sexual frustration and anger. I am very unreserved when I talk about my opinions. If they don't like it, they can just not be friends with me. Most of them however, start to become very curious about what has lead me to be so much more happy than they are. This leads to a certain level of respect that sometimes allows for the possibility of a decent friendship.
/r/askTRP13/08/19 08:54 PM
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Fantastic post. Though I think you could have delved a little more into the gray areas, because there certainly are gray areas. An example could be the fact that sometimes even a well handled shit test isn't the end of whiney behavior. Sometimes, she keeps going and you eventually have to tell her to stop talking. That has potential to be considered rude, asshole-like behavior no matter how you slice it, but it's also ocassionally a necessary part of being a leader.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/19 04:35 PM
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Marriage to beta males is the status quo internationally. As an attractive white guy in Asia, married women would approach me pretty often at clubs, the gym, and occasionally even the grocery store.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/19 04:21 PM
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I lived in Asia for half of my life and I see no differences. The whole alpha/beta dynamic is already a spectrum, introducing a third, very similar concept serves no purpose.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/19 04:09 PM
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This is such a radical mischaracterization of TRP that there's nothing to even rebut.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/19 03:34 PM
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Quitting drinking should be concidered the most basic tenet of MRP. I know that I tore you a new one, but that's what we're here for. Tough love and the rawest truth to set us straight. Lifting and not drinking is a great starting point. Try out some STFU while you are at it, it works wonders.
/r/askMRP12/08/19 02:35 PM
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"Hey Doc, so I just drank 12oz of bleach, what should I do?" First of all, you need to get it through your head that this kind of shit can literally never happen again. This is not a "so I did X, how do we get back to Y?" scenario. You basically acted like an enormous, drunk toddler. Worse yet, you did it in front of your children. A truly self-respecting woman would divorce a man for acting like that. Your role in both your marriage and as a father is that of a suspension bridge cable. A bridge…
/r/askMRP12/08/19 02:05 PM
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Stop smoking. Stop drinking. Stop being low-achieving. Stop being a pussy. Other than that, good job.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/19 04:13 PM
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This is completely wrong."Bad energy" may be a crappy term to use, but a defeatist attitude and what you think about manifest themselves in your body language, tone of voice, and even word choice. It absolutely matters whether or not you are confident.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/19 08:08 PM
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Sucks for him, but she's definitely cheating. Thank God for TRP.
/r/askMRP10/08/19 06:50 PM
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Doing anything all day is a big commitment. I mean, after pounding it out for a 4th-5th time, I'm usually completely satisfied. Also, after about 5 sessions I'm sore for at least a handful of days after.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/19 05:39 PM
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Ideal is usually 2 times a day, sometimes less. The occassional all day sex thing is something I'm down for about once a month.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/19 05:13 PM
1

How do you propose we stop biology from being a factor in mate selection? Do you also suggest that we stop choosing the most physically attractive mate that we can?
/r/TheRedPill10/08/19 04:08 PM
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No. That's a leap. Our biology is not that sophisticated. Men would only find that kind of woman unattractive if she was refusing sex, but that's almost never the case.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/19 03:48 PM
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What I'm saying is that women hide their numbers instinctively. It's biologically dangerous for men to invest in a woman who sleeps around, because his offspring might not be his. We are saying the same thing: "sluttiness turns off men". But you are suggesting that it's because of "shame" that women don't share their number. I'm suggesting it's a biological instinct. Even in the absence of societal shame, women will still not be truthful about their numbers and men will still find higher numbers…
/r/TheRedPill10/08/19 03:25 PM
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That's not the case. They keep their number a secret for biological reasons concerning mate selection and paternity.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/19 02:35 PM
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Women have sex covertly anyways and never tell anyone their real number. The fear of being called a slut is almost never a factor that concerns them.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/19 02:26 PM
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I'll check it out when I have time. That book is definitely the densest on the sidebar, and despite it having some good advice, it's also loaded with stuff that's just a bit much. Like the chapter on "crushing your enemies completely", for example.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/19 02:15 PM
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I had moments where I felt similarly to you. It definitely has a spiritualist/Christian vibe to it. That being said, it's the best book on the sidebar when it comes to leaving the anger phase and leveling yourself internally. It could probably be replaced with other books, but it serves a purpose that nothing else on the sidebar does.
/r/askMRP08/08/19 01:14 PM
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One of the two. I had meant the lack of feels, but either answer could be right.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/19 03:26 PM
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I am also married and can relate so much. You are going to go through a period soon where you find your wife less attractive or even completely unattractive. Just roll with it and it will likely eventually end. As your value soars up into the stratosphere and you become more attractive, you will start to develop abundance. Just don't let that change rock your world and push you into doing things you would rather not do. Also, the marriedredpill sub is a much better sub than this one for married …
/r/TheRedPill06/08/19 05:28 PM
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I have absolutely no fear of any of this. People have known that having muscles is attractive since Aristotle, and bodybuilding had a meteoric rise to fame during Arnold's time. And yet, I'm the only man who visibly lifts in legitimately 90% of the places that I go. Most people would rather watch porn/Netflix, play video games, and aim low in life.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/19 05:24 PM
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You still don't understand women at all. Your lecture did nothing but piss her off. We say STFU for a reason, not because you don't know what to say, but because there's nothing you can say that will have a greater impact than your actions. You haven't read far enough on the sidebar to be making demands. NMMNG and WISNIFG are fantastic books, but they are 100 level for a reason. They just teach you how to stop being a spineless faggot. They don't teach you how to be the prize. You literally say,…
/r/askMRP05/08/19 04:13 PM
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This comes off as hella fake and lame.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/19 04:58 PM
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Thanks for this. You are making me realize that I need to get around to re-reading the 100 level materials.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/08/19 04:38 AM
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I would go even further and say that the rational Male is irreparably poorly written. It honestly just needs to be rewritten by someone who can write.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/19 07:30 PM
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I agree with your conclusion 100%. Pump and dump is absolutely not what I'm into, but how did most of us come to that conclusion... welp...
/r/TheRedPill31/07/19 04:56 AM
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Let men go for just 10 minutes without being judged for their decisions. A man in his early 20s, who previously had no sexual success, suddenly having access to an abundance of "low-quality" mates is still life changing for him. Let these men have their wins and stop diminishing what they are experiencing as being a victory. I'm all for tough love, but that should be reserved for failure. We need to be more supportive of each other's success, even if the person we are supporting is shooting belo…
/r/TheRedPill31/07/19 04:51 AM
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While I agree with your sentiment about the quality of posts wholeheartedly, it is also wrong to say that TRP isn't about sex. It is, in fact, male sexual strategy. The best posts will be written from the understanding that sexual success is a natural result of other endeavors, but I don't see the value of subverting that message entirely and replacing it with a more chaste dialogue.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/19 04:30 AM
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You have created a cocktail out of RP theory and Christianity that you seem satisfied with, but I can't relate. While I'm not going to shout for this to be taken down, it blatantly crosses the line in regards to moralization. A lot of what you're saying works without the God metaphors and is decent, if not somewhat tired and elementary theory. Don't be a nice guy, but don't be socially inept. Okay, so a little NMMNG mixed with some Robert Greene. I'm down with that. Where you lose me is the whol…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/07/19 04:16 AM
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With only the context that you provided, I interpreted your father-in-laws words very differently. It sounded a lot more like he was telling you to "man up" and be the change that he would like to see in your relationship. In this case, "come what may" sounds a lot like "you're gonna get what's coming to you". He was trying to tell you that his daughter isn't going to change, so your unwillingness to do so as well dooms the relationship. This man is rooting for your team, but don't forget which …
/r/MarriedRedPill15/07/19 05:43 PM
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I used to try and comment on RPW as a way of giving back. I eventually realized that they aren't interested in the pill at all and are just trying to create turbo-charged betas.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/07/19 02:26 PM
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You are both lame. You wrote a novel without even addressing the real issues, because you are so in denial of what they are. He's a massive faggot who doesn't lead the ship enough to even have hard conversations with his own kids. He thinks that it's your fault you don't want to fuck him and that some other broad will want him more. He needs to get over here, but he won't.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/07/19 02:17 PM
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You didnt mention whether or not you've read the 101 materials on the sidebar, NMMNG, WISNIFG, MMSLP, MAP, etc... You've also never posted to Own Your Shit, so it's really hard to help you out. It's like going to your mechanic without your car and saying to him "Hey, my car's running great, how can I make it run better." I'm assuming you are here for a reason. What is it?
/r/askMRP14/07/19 03:53 PM
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My wife wouldn't make a remark like that, because she operates in my frame. She would know that I wouldn't say anything intended to hurt or disrespect her and she respects me as well. It reminds me of that quote from the Matrix. "So, you're saying that I can dodge bullets?" "No, Neo. I'm saying that when the time comes, you won't have to."
/r/MarriedRedPill08/07/19 10:13 PM
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You are totally in her frame. You are right that you never lost frame. You can't lose frame that you don't have. You are experiencing your life through the lens of her current emotions. This is so normal to you that you don't even realize that it's happening. You are looking for red flags in your own behavior while wearing red glasses. This entire post is about how the way she feels affects the way that you feel.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/07/19 09:50 PM
1

"Help, I'm currently touching a hot stove. How do I get my hand to stop burning?"
/r/MarriedRedPill07/07/19 12:34 AM
1

I really like Rian a lot. Monetizing things is a way to dedicate more time to them. If that's what he wants his mission to be, I respect that.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/07/19 05:34 PM
2

I witnessed this very thing last night. I went out to eat by myself. A couple sat next to me and for the next full hour, I don't think he shut the fuck up once. I could hear the sound of every drop of moisture in her body evaporate as she became steadily more and more visibly exhausted. That dude sincerely thought that his behavior was attractive to her and it was hard to watch.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/07/19 07:50 PM
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Not accusing him of plagiarizing. Just saying that it was about the most low-effort book I've ever read. He's also a shrimp and his personal accounts sound mostly like LARP. I still learned something though, so I'm thankful for that.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/07/19 07:05 PM
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If you ever expected more from Rollo than being a opportunistic blogger with a handful of insights, the joke's on you. The dude published a "book" that's literally an unedited collection of blog posts. The first time I tried to read it, I had to put it down, because it was written so poorly that it felt like an ad-hoc translation from another language.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/07/19 06:58 PM
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I'd take it a step further and say there's rarely a good reason to compromise yourself mentally. I quit drinking entirely after finding MRP. It puts you in a vulnerable state, costs money, makes most men act like betas, and rewards my brain with happiness that's not earned or real.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/07/19 02:46 PM
2

Damn, that's some awesome insight. Thanks for sharing.
/r/askMRP02/07/19 08:37 PM
2

I could have phrased my response much better. Rather than saying that her depression isn't fully his fault, I should have said that her depression is rooted more in a persistent circumstance that he's created in their lives than some set of actions that he does or doesn't do.
/r/askMRP02/07/19 08:16 PM
9

I disagree with the general sentiment that we are solely responsible for the depression of our wife. There are many more factors that cause depression than relationships. A post-wall woman with no children and nothing to distract her is almost guaranteed to be depressed. She is neglecting her most important, time-sensitive biological imperative. In some cases, women have careers or other things to distract them from this feeling of dread, but some women have nothing. Your wife is one of those wo…
/r/askMRP02/07/19 07:17 PM
2

If your interpretation of the advice that other men offer here is them "being jerks", you have a lot to learn. Nobody here is advocating for being a jerk, just for knowing your value and acting as such.
/r/askMRP02/07/19 07:12 PM
4

Your post history has me in stitches, bro. "I don't think my newborn likes me." Holy shit man, I'm weak.
/r/askMRP29/06/19 09:47 PM
1

Intent is showed through body language, eye contact, and behaving sexually. You can behave sexually by responding in a particular way to shit tests. Ill edit this post to give you a more satisfying response when I have more time to sit down.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/19 03:45 PM
4

The guys saying you couldn't have done anything differently are wrong. Even from the tiniest bit of information that you posted, you made numerous mistakes. You were unnecessarily self-deprecating from the very beginning when you approached then under self-assessed context of "bugging" them. Talk about knowing your value. Think about the origin of that term. Bugging someone is analogous to flying around them annoyingly like a gnat. Is that how you really want to introduce yourself? It's clear fr…
/r/TheRedPill29/06/19 03:34 PM
1

Yeah, I don't stress about that sort of stuff, it was just an observation based on your post.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/06/19 08:25 PM
1

My relationship is going the best it's been yet, but I'm beginning to think a main event might be coming. Her comfort tests and shit tests are simultaneously intensifying, which hasn't happened before. She's starting to say things to me that make her vulnerable in ways she never has, yet at the same time, she's visciously stabbing at my frame and testing me daily. Thanks for the clarification on what a main event really is. I had sort of thought that I had one before, now I know that I haven't.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/06/19 07:57 PM
76

Aside from the fact that nobody asked you to make this comparison, what the fuck does this actually have to do with the Redpill? Is there a pragmatically actionable thesis here? Are you suggesting we move to Japan, because it's slightly less shitty? Are you just whining that the grass is greener? These sorts of posts are gay as fuck. I came here to become a badass mother fucker, not to read vague, tabloid-esque drivel comparing how one arbitrary first world country might be marginally better to …
/r/TheRedPill28/06/19 02:25 PM
1

Awesome post. Thank you.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/06/19 02:15 AM
24

This kind of sentiment is so dumb. Women have a hypergamous nature that sometimes hurts the men they are with, but that's totally different from being incapable of love. If this sub doesn't stop degenerating into an incel hangout, I'm out. I'm seriously tired of this shit.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/19 12:29 AM
5

Did you literally not read the data he just posted at all? It's actually based very little on looks for everyone except the tip of the iceberg, who only benefit marginally (+30% at the very top as compared to the very bottom). Even then, they aren't controlling for things like the confidence that more attractive men have from the assumption that their attractiveness gives them an inherent advantage. If anything, this is one of the strongest anti black-pill arguments that I've ever seen. If you w…
/r/TheRedPill26/06/19 10:04 PM
3

This is a great post that I'll be coming back to.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/19 09:40 PM
27

That's why you don't pay for dates.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/19 10:33 PM
-6

I think you need a better definition for "thirstiness". What you are describing sounds like neediness and displaying low value.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/19 03:17 AM
17

Congratulations, you were mean to a lonely person. You really exemplify what we are trying to achieve in this sub.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/19 06:25 AM
10

I actually agree with what you're saying pretty much completely, but you really have to work on your delivery. That guy lost frame repeatedly and acted like a faggot, but rather than using that to your advantage, you just lost frame right with him. You litter your arguments with unnecessary logical fallacies and started the conversation out of the gate with a bunch of personal attacks. You need to be aware that his viewers like him and are emotionally invested in the things that he says. Obvious…
/r/TheRedPill10/06/19 08:20 PM
8

This MLD guy is a massive deering faggot. I agree with close to 100% of what GLO is saying, but his delivery is pretty poor.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/19 08:05 PM
1

How come you didn't mention all the hours you spend playing video games in your post?
/r/askMRP07/06/19 11:22 PM
3

If you have to ask this question then you are not as experienced in the pill as you claim to be. This is basic as fuck.
/r/askMRP07/06/19 11:20 PM
4

The work that most needs doing in a man's life is always the work that feels the least natural. For you that work is obviously shutting the fuck up and just quietly reading the material on the sidebar. From here on out, only post on OYS once a week.
/r/askMRP05/06/19 01:53 AM
3

You are basically average height. You need to lift and read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP30/05/19 09:13 PM
1

What are your stats and what sidebar books have you read?
/r/askTRP30/05/19 08:58 PM
1

One of the most successful guys I've ever met is a 5'5" Asian. He has women that literally won't leave him alone, no matter how many times he tells them he's not interested. You don't understand how women think at all. For some reason, you are desperately attached to the idea that you can't ever succeed. It's a lot easier to be a whiny faggot who hates women than to be a low SMV dude who starts working on himself and admits that his own behavior is the problem.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/19 01:53 PM
1

You didn't answer my question. Have you even tried? In this world, which is the only world, that's an effective strategy. No one is saying it's easy. Simple and easy are not the same thing (and simple is obviously what the poster of that statement meant). It takes time to develop that level of confidence. I'm neither rich nor super handsome, but I'm very physically fit, dress well, and confident as fuck. I took control over all of the parts of my life that I'm able to. It's vastly superior to bi…
/r/TheRedPill30/05/19 05:58 AM
3

The top quote is perfectly legit. Mattyanon's stuff is fine too. I get what the "meh" thing is going for. I would have phrased it differently and used a word other than, "meh", but to each his own. The terminology that you use makes it very clear that you are a part of the incel community. That's fine. I get being frustrated, but have you actually tried applying any of the principles advocated here?
/r/TheRedPill30/05/19 05:53 AM
9

Your post is a giant logical fallacy. "Crossfit is a great form of exercise because of all of this shit that has nothing to do with exercise". That's like saying, "I know you don't like insert-politician-name, but we should elect him to office. He wears tailored suits of the highest quality, their thread count is immense and the stitching is immaculate. He also is a great golfer." I said that Crossfit is a shitty form of exercise, I didn't rag on its merits as a social club. Every form of liftin…
/r/askMRP30/05/19 04:41 AM
14

You are a very articulate idiot. The rationalizations in your post are absolutely unreal. She has some deep religious sexual shame that has really fucked her up Yeah, man. All that religious shame. It must be so hard for her. She and I are also doing sex therapy with a Schnarch-trained therapist who seems to be good and holding us both accountable. I’m hopeful it’ll be helpful for helping her work through some of her religious sexual shame That miserable shame that she still carries to this day.…
/r/askMRP30/05/19 03:11 AM
3

This is not a thing. I get more IOIs at my local target than anywhere else. I literally think to myself everytime I'm there, "if I'm ever single again, I'll just come here to game women."
/r/askTRP29/05/19 11:49 PM
2

For me, giving up anything that dramatically alters my state of mind, like coffee, alcohol, etc... I also gave up video games, porn, and TV. They flood my brain with dopamine and make me lazy. I don't deny myself fun, I've just changed my outlets. I read, play musical instruments, and write for fun now. Sometimes I play sports, when I have time. I get that this is pretty extreme, and ironically similar to a satirical post above me, but its worked wonders on my life and the way I feel.
/r/askTRP29/05/19 11:43 PM
2

Cold showers are one of the most powerful psychological tools in the kit.
/r/askTRP29/05/19 11:20 PM
0

Try horny goat weed. They sell it at GNC and Vitimin Shoppe.
/r/askTRP29/05/19 04:25 AM
7

There's nothing beta about not letting women waste your time.
/r/askTRP28/05/19 09:56 PM
2

Traveling and doing shows is enough to boost the hell out of his SMV. The preselection effect is on steroids with anyone who is in the public eye.
/r/askTRP27/05/19 08:31 PM
2

I think I misunderstood your post. Is he a millionaire or his family? If he's a self-made millionaire rapper, which is sort of the impression that I got, he's pretty high SMV. If he's a hobbyist rapper living in his parents' million dollar home, that's mega lame. How much money your parents have doesn't affect your SMV. Being high-earning from a cool career is definitely a DHV and pretty alpha.
/r/askTRP27/05/19 08:22 PM
8

You still don't really understand how women work. You have oneitis for a person that doesn't exist, your idealized version of your blatantly hypergamous girlfriend. Stop pedestalizing your relationship with her as being "a great match" and her just not getting it. She gets it perfectly. The other guy has a 2 million dollar home and you are skinny beta male with presumably significantly less than 2 million dollars. You live in an apartment that she herself can already afford, he's a significant u…
/r/askTRP27/05/19 07:59 PM
1

Sort of. If you live with her then you definitely can. If you don't it's probably not going to work. Monk mode entails a lot less going out and wasting time on activities that don't help you grow. If your girl lives with you, you guys can sort of just coast and cohabit for a few months. If she doesn't, then you will have to arrange times to go out and meet her. In all likelihood, you will either fail at really being in monk mode or you will fail at keeping her interested.
/r/askTRP27/05/19 12:30 AM
5

Look, if you want more direct advice then here it is. Read No More Mr. Nice Guy. It deals with covert contracts. Stop trying to game over text. It just isn't worth the effort. Text for logistics only. Don't use self deprecation. Sarcasm and hyperbole look really lame in text form. Things that work in person don't necessarily work online. Learn to take criticism. I don't care what you call me, but letting yourself get mad about my post, rather than trying to learn from it is just ego protection. …
/r/askTRP26/05/19 07:56 PM
4

Your frame is extremely beta and nearly everything you said comes off as supplicating. You are being a manipulative "nice guy" and trying to form numerous covert contracts all at once. So what she goes to church, do you? Why are you trying to match her habits? Why are you framing yourself as a victim to your ex (even as a flippant conversation starter). Don't say "I'll pretend to be gay for an hour". It sounds pathetic and beta. LMR is for sex, not for getting a date. Stop treating her disintere…
/r/askTRP26/05/19 07:14 PM
6

I agree with the logic of your statement, AAing is always a great move. But in my experience, never pull the gay card. It just isn't attractive even as a joke. Experiment a bit and you will see what I mean.
/r/askTRP26/05/19 06:13 PM
17

You are too old to be that insecure. Yes, she would fuck Michael B. Jordan if given the chance. She would probably even do it in front of you, if that's the only opportunity she had. AWALT. Get over it. You will always be AMOGd by random celebrities. Just treat it as a shit test and move on.
/r/askTRP26/05/19 05:46 PM
6

That's called DEERING. Don't do that.
/r/askTRP26/05/19 05:04 PM
6

You handled it really well. She won't get caught doing it again. What to do next depends on if you want to continue or not. I wouldn't honestly be that pissed about a diary, nearly every girl is gonna do that, just most of them won't admit it.
/r/askTRP26/05/19 04:55 PM
4

That's not true. Rooshv's website has a book section that he sells his own stuff from. He took his own books and separated them into 2 categories on his website, "All Books" (hint: it's not all of his books) and "Out of Print" (the rest of his catelog).
/r/TheRedPill26/05/19 02:06 AM
2

I bought both. Thanks for the tip, man.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/19 01:33 AM
3

What the hell. That's so fucking lame.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/19 11:33 PM
1

I'm guessing thate's going to stop selling his books too then. What are the most important Roosh books to read? I was putting it off, but it's obvious that I'm gonna miss out if I don't jump right now.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/19 09:06 PM
1

I am a huge Dr. Seuss fan, but sadly that quote is beta as fuck. Guys playing video games 16 hours a day while talking shit to their friends over Discord are following that advice. Translating that into a Red context would sound something like this: "grow into who you want to be and say things that help you become that." (Not gonna try to rhyme). The reality for 99% of the guys here is that who they are and what they say isn't getting them what they want. They are ignored by the quality of women…
/r/askTRP24/05/19 09:45 PM
5

Of course you can recover from this. There are people who go on to getting PhDs after having a stroke or traumatic brain injury that leaves them unable to speak or walk. What books have you read on the sidebar?
/r/askTRP24/05/19 06:49 PM
1

Best of luck.
/r/askTRP24/05/19 05:19 PM
2

It can be anything that isn't discussing infidelity. You can read about finance, tech, martial arts, art, whatever. Just consume other things roughly equally to how much you consume the stuff that's driving you towards paranoia.
/r/askTRP24/05/19 05:08 PM
25

You have to balance the reading that you do. If you only read TRP, you will become paranoid. It's important to know the stuff we teach here, you reading too much here will make you feel like being cheated on is a 100% inevitability, you're just waiting for it to happen. It's like infantry trying to reintegrate into society and freaking out every time they hear a whistling sound. Not all whistles are mortars and not all women are waiting for an opportunity to cheat on you. All women are hypergamo…
/r/askTRP24/05/19 04:40 PM
5

Read the sidebar. Every normal woman wants to be dominated by her man.
/r/askTRP24/05/19 04:27 PM
1

This is going to jump to the top of my reading list.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/05/19 03:56 PM
0

The point of having a subreddit is to filter the type of posts and comments that are submitted. The above comment is standard-issue politically correct fluff you could find anywhere. It's the antithesis of anything RP.
/r/RedPillWomen24/05/19 02:24 PM
-8

Hi, Blue-pilled individual! No where in her post did she say anything about him "making her feel guilty"; she did that to herself. Try participating in an RP sub before commenting on one. Tell me what sidebar books from any RP sub that you've read. Remind me which one stated that a man cant even have a preference for a woman's hairstyle.
/r/RedPillWomen24/05/19 02:13 PM
2

Lifting: I only went to the gym 3 times since my last OYS, which is 1-2 less than I would like. My back day, yesterday, was garbage. I've been consistently progressing and sitting at a 1RM of about 385lbs until yesterday. I tried to pull 385 and couldn't even budge it, so I stripped off 20 pounds and tried again. Still not even getting it off the ground. Okay, I took the 25lbs off each side, moving it down to 315lbs (which I usually do 8+ reps of lately), I got 3 miserable reps out. I don't know…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/05/19 03:56 AM
5

Decades is the most popular bar in DC that isn't mega trashy. Whatever you do, don't get in any kind of altercation. Everyone in DC is a lawyer.
/r/askTRP23/05/19 01:12 AM
6

This is the post that belongs at the top of this thread. That being said, if any of what she said is true, he's definitely not posting to MRP, which is what he needs to be doing. If she gets him on MRP making weekly OYS posts, there is an enormous chance that their relationship would drastically improve.
/r/RedPillWomen23/05/19 01:10 AM
5

Haha, "days". Welcome to The Red Pill, where learning the material properly can take years of daily effort.
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/19 10:22 PM
3

Being a dick and being too nice are two sides of the same coin. The problem is that both of attitudes are buffers for training yourself to maturely and appropriately respond to situations in your life.
/r/askTRP22/05/19 02:56 PM
2

Anyone can achieve this. This isn't even that big a deal and it's certainly not worth writing an article about. I have periods where what's described in that article wouldn't be enough for me. Sometimes we go at it 2 times a day. It may not be possible with the woman you've got, but there are plenty of women out there who would be happy to oblige, for the right guy.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/05/19 01:57 PM
4

I'm pretty sure that he's referring to the idea that you can't "slut shame" a woman for her n count. The whole born-again-virgin concept and all that. It's basically women trying to divorce themselves from the reality that the amount of previous partners they've had affects their SMV.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/05/19 02:52 AM
15

You have a way of wording things that makes them sting just as bad as it did when I first unplugged. Fuck you, Rollo.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/05/19 01:49 AM
1

You mentioned nothing, nor did anyone ask you, about your fitness level. Are you in shape? Do you actually go to the gym and lift weights? Confident men have options. Why should they choose you?
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/19 01:53 PM
1

That made me laugh out loud. So true, man. "Is it okay to hold eye contact with guys that are bigger than me?"
/r/askTRP18/05/19 10:38 PM
6

That's not a comfort test. It's a shit test followed by a compliance test. A comfort test is when a woman tries to get you to demonstrate commitment to her voluntarily. She exposes some sort of vulnerability to you in the hopes that you will see it and respond with a confirmation of your commitment to her. Example: "I'm afraid to go to the grocery store alone at night", is a possible comfort test to see if you are willing to be her protector. A shit test is when she tries to get you to respond e…
/r/askTRP18/05/19 08:58 PM
5

Sadly, this is a terrible idea. The hatred for the RP community is so intense that in all likelihood, someone would try to kill us if we gathered in one place. At the very least, there would be an unfathomably intense amount of doxxing and picketing happening.
/r/askTRP18/05/19 08:34 PM
6

Just soft next for sure.
/r/askTRP18/05/19 01:53 AM
4

If you want him to approach you, conveniently work out near him, let him catch you looking at you more than once, and for the love of God, take your headphones out. If you want to approach him, literally anything will work if he finds you attractive. Just walk up and start a conversation or as someone else said, ask for a spot.
/r/askTRP17/05/19 10:15 PM
1

Who said anything about talking shit about women who are sexual? Whose argument are you rebutting?
/r/MarriedRedPill16/05/19 05:33 PM
1

What is this purplepill faggotry? Making her feel "safe"? Bitches are fawning over a dude like Ted Bundy and you think that this woman's bluepilled husband is making her feel unsafe? What a crock of shit.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/05/19 04:00 PM
7

That post was really eye-opening. Thanks for sharing.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/05/19 01:17 AM
11

I'm going to assume you are asking for an example of what solipsism is. Here's a basic example of two different ways of understanding an event in your life, one from a solipsistic lens, and one from a healthy and balanced lens. Balanced perspective (how almost 0 women think and how TRP encourages men to think) My boyfriend left me because of things that were under my control. He told me to stop drinking and talking to my ex, but I was unwilling to do it, so he left. I shouldn't have cheated on h…
/r/TheRedPill15/05/19 10:04 PM
3

I was looking through this post for this comment, so that I didn't have to take on the burden of writing it out myself. The original post is actual misogyny. Rarely have I ever seen a real example of it on TRP, but here it is. Women don't have empathy? Fuck out of here with that bull shit. What a joke. It's a complete misunderstanding of the meaning of solipsism. There are so many people here now that struggle with 101 concepts and are still deep in the anger phase, but still feel qualified to g…
/r/TheRedPill15/05/19 08:20 PM
1

I'm going to go out on a limb and say that you are too self-obsessed to be fun to be around. Of the posts that you have started on this Reddit account, they are almost all about some insecurity that you have about how other people will perceive you based on X. X changes from post to post, so it's clear that the thing you are concerned about is not actually the X factor, but the other variable in all of these equations, you. Guys who are actually really fun to be around are outcome independent le…
/r/askTRP15/05/19 04:20 AM
2

Straight to business Lifts I almost pulled a 405 deadlift this week. It was really close to being all the way up, but I started to feel my form slipping and didn't want it to be the last deadlift that I do, so I dropped it. I slammed 385 right afterwards with ease, so I know I'll get that 4th plate soon. The rest of the week was not notable. I had a good chest day and a good shoulder day, but I didn't attempt any PRs. I may go for a 1rm on my next chest day. I haven't done one in a long time and…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/05/19 12:13 AM
3

You don't understand what agree and amplify is, you don't know what ironic means, and all of your examples suffer from the straw man fallacy.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/19 10:42 PM
7

No. This is wrong. Also, this is how men critique each other. Get used to it. If you don't like it then fuck off. The culture of men is one of trial by fire. In the male tradition, making even simple mistakes could result in the death of not just yourself, but all of your comrades. If you can't handle tough love, you are too pathetic to be here. This post is pointless and should be closed. To the OP: if you even read the replies to this bullshit that you posted. Nobody gives a fuck. You are talk…
/r/askTRP14/05/19 01:21 AM
3

Some people apply this strategy, not just in relationships, but in all areas of their life. It doesn't work anywhere. You can lie about your diet, but you'll be unhealthy. You can lie about going to the gym, but you'll be out of shape. You can lie about how much you study, but you'll fail exams. You can lie in a job interview about your experience, but you'll lack confidence and ability. You can lie to your significant other about your past, but you'll lack intimacy. The point I'm trying to make…
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/19 12:36 AM
1

The best advice I can give you is to just do it the moment it occurs to you. You don't accumulate more bravery as you wait. You start with the maximum amount of balls you are going to have and slowly lose balls as each second ticks by. Your mind presents more and more reasons you shouldn't do it and plays more and more blow-by-blows of you getting socially humiliated for trying. Just do it immediately. Great opening lines for beginners are just picking something about her that you can use as a n…
/r/askTRP13/05/19 11:06 PM
1

Someone just posted an archive his entire blog from the time it started to February 2019 in one of the Redpill subs today. I recommend downloading the whole thing for yourself before it's really gone.
/r/askMRP11/05/19 08:34 PM
7

You are acting like a woman. You act butthurt over her going out when she's not even being irresponsible. You have absolute oneitis for this girl. Your oneitis is so bad that you gravitated to "married redpill" for a girlfriend of 1 year. You need to calm down and focus on yourself. You have to get to a place where you are confident that you can get another girl by tomorrow if you want.
/r/askMRP11/05/19 08:26 PM
5

Abundance. You can't stop a girl from cheating on you by convincing her to not go out with her friends. She is either deserving of your trust or not and which one it is is your problem and not her's. You are freaking out because you have no abundance and you are putting her on a pedestal. You've decided that she's higher SMV than you, so you live in fear that another higher SMV male will see her on a night out and take her from you. I know this sucks to hear, but the way forward for you is gamin…
/r/askMRP11/05/19 05:19 PM
2

Yet you're here. You don't end up on this sub by Googling "why am I so happy and successful with women." You know why you are here. You know what Google searches lead you to find this place. Only a weak man would be intimidated by finding out about the true nature of women. Now you get to decide, will you die a weak man? I chose not to. You do what you want.
/r/askTRP11/05/19 03:56 AM
28

I saw that post about 2 hours ago and I can't stop thinking about it. It feels like it's just a matter of time before there is no place left where people can really talk.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/05/19 02:41 AM
1

I'm going to ignore your question and offer you some advice you aren't asking for instead. If you are doing things that you regret doing while drunk, you are a faggot and don't have control over your life. You are deliberately electing to become a weak man every time you get yourself into a state of being that inebriated. That is far more concerning to me than the mistakes you make while drunk. Once anyone is properly drunk, they basically become a giant impulse machine. If you have a problem wi…
/r/askTRP11/05/19 01:50 AM
2

That's extremely useful. Thank you. I'm going to keep reflecting on this situation for awhile. I still don't fully understand it. Edit* after reading that post again and all of the comments in it, I'm starting to get some more insight. I think I had a massive covert contract with my wife in relation to our finances. I missed it as being a covert contract, because I wasn't expecting sex in return, but it still is one. It's essentially this: if I pay for everything and put you through school, you …
/r/MarriedRedPill10/05/19 06:03 AM
2

I'm a few days late to the party this week, but this is the week I need to post most. This week was shitty. I got a sore throat around Saturday last week and within 24 hours I had 0 energy. I've been crashing after work every day for 1-4 hours and my moods have been in the gutter. My productivity has tanked and I skipped out on the gym, because I can barely get myself out of bed when I'm not working. Lifts: Tonight was my first night back since my last OYS. It was a decent chest day. I hit 205 f…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/05/19 02:01 AM
1

You don't "eat" at the gym. There's literally no reason to not game there.
/r/askTRP08/05/19 11:00 PM
2

The reality is that even people who agree with you don't have any interest in your political opinions. Talking about politics is about as welcome as farting in a elevator. Interesting people talk about their interests and share things about their life and mission. Unless you are a politician, leave the politics out of your conversations.
/r/askTRP06/05/19 04:29 AM
2

This, in text format (not a link), should be on the sidebar.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/05/19 12:39 AM
1

You might be right. I definitely have a lot on my plate right now and it is a little difficult to keep up everything. Most of the things I'm doing a good job of working on and I'm making progress, but I do find that the most important things on the list do tend to move a little slower than I want, because there is so much I'm trying to accomplish. I think the most important piece that you touched on is going to bed late and waking up early. i definitely need to iron out my sleep schedule to some…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/05/19 12:19 PM
1

Lifting: Weight fluctuating a bit down this week. I was going between 183-185lbs last week and I feel like I looked a bit better. This week I'm hovering around 181lbs and I swear I look smaller. My bench suffered a bit this week as well. I went for 205 again and still got 6 reps, but I had to pause after 4 and the reps felt way harder for some reason. However, I locked out a 385lbs deadlift tonight and I'm stoked as hell about that. That's my all time one rep max. I also was repping 315lbs way m…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/05/19 03:05 AM
3

The person doing the acts is the submissive in the power dynamic. It's really that simple.
/r/askTRP01/05/19 01:41 AM
0

Read the sidebar. Literally everything that's wrong with this post can be fixed by reading almost any sidebar book.
/r/askTRP30/04/19 03:19 AM
6

Confidence is believing in one's own ability. Arrogance is expressing disbelief in the ability of others as compared to you. A confident person's aim is to inspire others to believe in him. An arrogant person's aim is to make other's question their own ability as compared to him. Confident statement: "I'm going to win this tournament." Arrogant statement: "There's no one here who can compete with me."
/r/askTRP29/04/19 09:04 PM
10

This is the wrong question. Your question is wrong because it comes from a place of not knowing what TRP is. TRP doesn't dictate what your goals in life and many men who fully swallow the pill choose not to enter into LTRs to begin with. So, you are already starting from a strange angle by assuming that someone who really embraces the pill would have a girlfriend or wife. That being said, the answer is simple: it depends on you and the girl you are with. Some women are damaged and want to be wit…
/r/askTRP28/04/19 11:52 PM
1

Don't skip out on lifting. You can start even with just 2-3 45 minute sessions a week.
/r/askTRP28/04/19 10:56 PM
3

You have to find a way to constantly remind yourself that you are trying to fix this stuff. It's quite a battle. I was raised by women my whole life and developed similar issues to you. I've mostly overcome them, but it's been a lot of work. The first thing you should do is go on Youtube and find a vocal warmup video for singers. When you find the notes where your voice is most naturally comfortable, you've found your normal resonant center. Most men who have had a feminized upbringing like me a…
/r/askTRP26/04/19 06:51 PM
1

You are missing the most important piece: frame. Frame is everything. Frame is the reason that losers get hot girls and rich guys lose less attractive women. Women want to live in a strong frame, even if that frame is the frame of a man who is measurably less than the one they are with (by man standards). Do LMS matter? Fuck yeah they do. They matter a lot. Why? Because anyone can have frame. Top tier women can, in most cases, pick any man that they want. Are they going to encounter loser guys w…
/r/askTRP26/04/19 06:25 PM
1

Clearly the Venn diagram of what you consider to be "weird" and what women find attractive has a lot of overlap. You will have to get more specific about what behaviors you are referring to as "weird" if you want more help understanding his game.
/r/askTRP26/04/19 05:01 AM
4

He has a frame that he holds. </post>
/r/askTRP26/04/19 04:48 AM
1

Ignore feedback from your customer. -No CEOs
/r/askTRP26/04/19 04:42 AM
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Absolutely not. Your frame is the reality that you create around you everywhere you go. If NO woman wants to enter your frame, you have a much bigger problem than not currently having a woman. Rejecting women entirely is not the answer. Women are a man's mirror to his shortcomings. Your desire for them and their rejection of you can be wielded as an impetus for change. Don't give them power over you, but take the power that they give you and use it to transform yourself into something better. A …
/r/askTRP26/04/19 03:04 AM
0

No. It's because genetic diversity is healthy.
/r/askTRP25/04/19 04:09 AM
1

It's perceived negatively, because when you guys learn about the nature of women, you become hateful and angry. Just accept it as it is. Women are awesome.
/r/askTRP24/04/19 12:50 PM
1

Volunteer at a nursing home and start talking to old people. Start with the people in society that you feel least threatened by. Talking to everyone is pretty much the same. If you can carry a conversation with a 90 year old woman and make her smile you can carry a conversation with Becky.
/r/askTRP24/04/19 05:45 AM
2

Lifting was good this week. Put up 205 x 6 for bench press yesterday. Didn't miss any days. I tried to pull a 385lb deadlift, but my back immediately started giving me warning signs. I dropped it back down to 365lb again and was able to pull a really solid rep out. My weight has been pretty stable at around 185lbs, which is a little frustrating, because I'm trying to gain. My biggest issue holding back my lifting right now is that I keep skipping breakfast. I really need to be more regimented ab…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/04/19 03:08 AM
3

Do scary shit that gets your adrenaline pumping. Drive a little faster. Go cliff diving (but check for rocks, for fucks sake). Fuck a little harder. Share your opinions like it doesn't matter what people think. If you don't do martial arts or box and never have, you definitely need to give it a shot. No man should die without experiencing a few good fights, even if they are in a controlled situation.
/r/askMRP21/04/19 09:36 PM
2

To be blunt, when it takes you until 21 and 4 years of college to figure out that you want to be a singer, it's safe to say that it's probably just a side thing. Also, "making it" is definitely not a thing anymore. Record labels don't pay a living wage like they used to, because they have basically no guaranteed way to monetize you. The only form of "making it" that still exists is being a Youtube star. It's doable, but it's not something that happens over night. If you are dead set on the idea …
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/19 02:14 PM
3

Just set your alarm early and go for it in the morning.
/r/askTRP21/04/19 01:46 AM
5

Don't drop out of school with a week left in the semester. Finish the semester and finish it strong. Honestly, music is one of the shittiest careers you can possibly choose, especially as a vocalist. I was in the "industry" (which doesn't actually exist anymore) for a really large portion of my life. I did almost exactly what you are suggesting you want to do. I had extremely good grades, was on track to finish an in-demand technical degree from a great school, and I threw it away on a whim to "…
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/19 01:45 AM
5

It's not egos. The truth is that there's a lot of posturing and aggression in that culture. A friend of mine from a long while back once told me something that I think is really true, so I'll share it here (for what it's worth, we were both heavy into a similar scene at the time). Men, across all walks of life, respect other men based almost entirely on what they bring to the table. If you are really, really good at something that other men want to be good at, you will have respect in almost any…
/r/askTRP21/04/19 12:36 AM
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I just checked it out for about 10 minutes and holy shit was it a waste of my time. These girls are so dumb it is painful to listen to them.
/r/askTRP19/04/19 09:54 PM
1

Don't drink or do drugs in excess (ideally at all). I'll let Nietzsche do some talking “Courageous, unconcerned, sarcastic, violent –thus wisdom wants us: she is a woman and always loves only a warrior.” Women like fun guys, but they don't like weak men. Weak men go out to party and get wasted and black out. Strong men just don't act that way. Have a good time, be fun and engage with everyone, but maintain a certain level of composure and don't lose your cool.
/r/askTRP19/04/19 12:32 AM
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That's fair. You seem to clearly get the point I was going for, so I'll just leave it at that.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/04/19 12:26 AM
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The issue is this: men come here, presumably for help, then any time someone tries to point out where they went wrong they rationalize their fuck ups ad naseum. You don't walk into a class to have a debate with the teacher. You walk into a class to learn from the teacher.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/04/19 11:51 PM
2

I lift 5x a week and swim 5-7x a week. Swimming is awesome, but it in no way replaces lifting. Swimming WILL make your upper body blow up though, especially in conjunction with a good lifting routine.
/r/askTRP18/04/19 09:45 PM
3

You have no legs at all. It looks like you lift in a wheel chair. You mentioned that you lift 3x a week. Add a leg day and you will be golden. The rest of your physique is pretty much done.
/r/askTRP17/04/19 04:40 PM
2

17 days ago I started a bullshit fast (March 31st). No alcohol. No coffee. No porn. No video games. No TV or Netflix by myself (still might take the wife to a movie). Trying to swear a little less, because I've been getting excessive lately and they are starting to slip out when I don't want them to. So far doing that in conjunction with reading "The Slight Edge", by Jeff Olson, has rebooted me back to being on the right track. I had been slipping into mediocrity and comfort for quite awhile. Th…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/04/19 02:19 AM
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You don't kill the beta with a sudden act. You starve the beta by acknowledging it less and less as each day passes. One day you will wake up and you will realize that you just aren't the same person you used to be. It's a bittersweet feeling, but ultimately it's the way forward.
/r/askTRP15/04/19 03:33 AM
1

Logistics is always the only reply. But I otherwise agree with your post.
/r/askTRP14/04/19 04:12 AM
4

I think introversion is essentially a classification for people who develop a certain set of habits and a way of being to insulate themselves from their own social anxiety. That being said, as I stated above, a man cannot be the best version of himself without adopting many of the habits/traits often attributed to introversion. Reading, comfortable in solitude, being meditative and reflective, etc...
/r/TheRedPill14/04/19 03:53 AM
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I would put it this way. introversion and extroversion is pretty much complete bullshit anyways. With that in mind, there are very useful characteristics that are often attributed to each one. Example of traits that fall on one side or the other that every alpha male should exhibit: Extrovert: 1. Be confident in social situations in general. 2. Know how to small talk. 3. Remember the names of people you meet. 4. Go out to events/gatherings (when there is a benefit to doing so). Introvert: 1. You…
/r/TheRedPill14/04/19 03:27 AM
3

You seem like a smart guy, but you are still pretty blue pilled. What sidebar material have you gotten through? Also, if you don't know what "Don't throw the baby out with the bathwater." means, look it up.
/r/askTRP14/04/19 02:34 AM
3

This is criminal behavior.
/r/askTRP14/04/19 02:32 AM
1

I waited until I was married (21). It was for religious reasons at the time. I'm no longer religious at all, but I still have no regrets about waiting. Pleasure is pleasure. It's fleeting, even when it's great. I never look back on a past steak that I had and reflect on how glad I am that I ate it. Once it's done it's done. No point in worrying about pleasure you missed out on in the past. The only pleasure that exists is the pleasure that's happening right now.
/r/askTRP14/04/19 02:28 AM
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If you cold turkey next her, there's honestly a high chance she will freak out and hamster herself into wanting to be with you. After 3 days of constant contact, she clearly has interest. Rip that comfortable beta carpet out from under her and wait. Also, stop talking to women 3 days straight.
/r/askTRP14/04/19 02:26 AM
2

I waited and don't regret it. Listen to your gut and you will know the answer.
/r/askTRP13/04/19 02:49 AM
2

Quit playing video games. Women don't want to be with a man whose hobbies resemble an 8 year old.
/r/askTRP12/04/19 03:04 AM
5

You don't have a plate. You have a wife and a girlfriend.
/r/askMRP09/04/19 03:01 AM
2

Yes. Women like confident men. You asking her that question is an obvious buffer for you to avoid potentially being rejected by asking her what you are really trying to ask her in the first place. Have a spine.
/r/askTRP08/04/19 02:28 AM
3

The Subtle Art of Not Giving A Fuck, by Mark Manson, is an excellent book. The younger you are when you read it the more it will benefit you.
/r/askTRP07/04/19 08:42 PM
1

It's all about locus of control. Turn your mandated loneliness into selected solitude. Read about Ludwig Wittgenstein and how he intentionally isolated himself to write his greatest work.
/r/askTRP07/04/19 08:40 PM
4

Don't play all the cards at once, McGuiver! At least pretend to be a real person if you want to keep trolling.
/r/askMRP06/04/19 09:31 PM
3

I'm going to just pretend you aren't trolling for a second and answer this. That's not what broken record is for. You are trying to use game and cheap tricks to circumvent one of the first laws of TRP, "You can't negotiate attraction". If you let your wife control whether or not you are going to the gym, you are still deep in her frame. No matter how attractive you become, if you live in her frame, you are her equal at best. Until you internalize this, you will make no progress.
/r/askMRP06/04/19 03:32 PM
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"My wife won't let me go to a real gym". And herein lies the entirety of the answer to everything. Your wife doesn't have the authority to not let you go to the gym. She can watch a kid for 2 hours. What books on the sidebar have you read, if any, and what questions do you have about them?
/r/askMRP06/04/19 03:15 PM
3

Most of the people who get the most angry about my interest in TRP are ironically single men who haven't been on a date in months/years. I'm not that covert about it. I think the IDGAF attitude is the way forward.
/r/askTRP05/04/19 09:45 PM
2

Yes. I did this and it was the best decision that I ever made.
/r/askTRP05/04/19 04:59 AM
2

You still don't get it. Nothing is or isn't "viable". Only your SMV and confidence matter. The palm reading thing has worked and will work to the end of time, for the men she finds attractive.
/r/askTRP01/04/19 12:13 AM
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This is not a bad question at all. It's something I struggled with for awhile. The answer is also not simple. "Alpha" is a term that gets conflated with a lot of things, so I'll try to simplify that a little bit first. The purpose of being an alpha is ultimately to get the things you want and not have people manipulate you for their own gain. You never have to be an "asshole", to get these results, you just have to be willing to, and know how to, put yourself first. Often times, we unknowingly d…
/r/askTRP30/03/19 12:14 AM
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Your man doesn't have enough spine to lead your relationship, so you are making strangers on the internet act as the surrogate masculine energy in your life. "What does it mean and where do I go from here?". It means you need to stop abusing yourself and this man you are serially cheating on.
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/19 06:12 PM
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This post is an absolute steaming mess. You have no business being in any relationship right now. It's March and you were "sexting" in January. This is after having cheated another time earlier in November. Even without the cheating, your relationship sounds like a really bad match. Your boyfriend should get his testosterone checked by a doctor. Why is he "always too tired". A man only wanting sex once a month is a major red flag (for his health). You aren't a sex addict for wanting sex a few ti…
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/19 03:37 PM
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It's not that big a deal, but there's a caveat I like to call "The Alcoholics Paradox". I don't know if this is a concept I borrowed from somewhere else or made up, but here it is: "Alcoholics constant questioning of why they can't have just one drink is, in and of itself, the reason that they can't have just one drink." -Someone (maybe me)
/r/askTRP13/03/19 04:40 AM
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This is the most beta question I've read on here in awhile. Dude, please go to the gym and get your test levels up. You know how your "female peers" should feel about every girl they see you with? Jealous.
/r/askTRP10/03/19 12:56 AM
2

Nobody admits or doesn't admit to "liking a girl" after freshman year of high school, so this question is irrelevant.
/r/askTRP09/03/19 05:39 PM
2

Only vacuous thots use that term as anything other than tongue-in-cheek.
/r/askTRP04/03/19 02:43 PM
6

If you just realized it's a shit test then you really need to be focused on the sidebar right now. You are doing yourself a disservice by not reading all the materials available.
/r/askTRP02/03/19 02:59 AM
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It WAS evolutionarily beneficial in nature... ... but then murder became discouraged.
/r/askTRP01/03/19 12:39 AM
4

I think for us to sort this out, we would probably have to come to a deliberate agreement about what constitutes a "high value man". I'm guessing our definitions would be quite different. When I say "high value", I'm definitely implying a man who is not only "a catch" on paper, but also knows his value and behaves in a manner that generally fits into the Red Pill box. I know plenty of men who are good looking, financially well off, and caring/loving that I wouldn't refer to as high value. In ord…
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/19 06:11 AM
1

There are certain questions that I don't appreciate being asked by someone I've just met. It has nothing to do with how I feel the answer reflects on me and everything to do with how I feel the question reflects on the person asking. I hate questions that relate to provider-like traits: "What do you do for a living?", "what kind of car do you drive.", or really anything that is probing into my material worth. People who are over eager to evaluate your material worth very seldom have your best in…
/r/askTRP28/02/19 06:03 AM
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You held frame like a pro. I don't believe in "punishment" though. Either you want to keep the relationship or you don't. If you want her to not do that again, just set a boundary with her. "If you do that again, don't come back to my house afterwards." If you aren't considering LTRing her then it's a waste of time to do anything at all.
/r/askTRP28/02/19 03:12 AM
3

Verify what? If you can't even trust your girl to decide what apps she uses on her phone, why the hell are you in a relationship with her to begin with? "Trust, but verify" applies to situations where something is really off-putting. Yes, let's put security cameras in her bedroom and get external hard drives with Wireshark running on our computer at home. Let's take her panties into the local lab for DNA testing once a week. Let's brows through her phone every time she sets it down somewhere. Le…
/r/askTRP27/02/19 04:33 PM
4

I find it highly doubtful that she deleted her social media to hide something from you. Your reaction should be nothing at all. Just use regular texting/calling and move on with your life. Also, she will reinstall them all in the next month at the very latest, so enjoy this while it lasts.
/r/askTRP27/02/19 07:47 AM
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The higher value the man the more selective he will be about everything to do with his partner. This includes your N count. I would even go so far as to say that if a man doesn't care about your N count at all that you should treat that as a red flag. Ultimately, you are going to do what you want to do. Just don't hold any illusions that high value men aren't going to care, because they definitely are going to.
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/19 06:17 PM
4

Stop using emojis, they are cringe-worthy.
/r/askTRP26/02/19 05:50 PM
21

Instead of sending her "I miss you texts", you should send her a butt plug with your name on it so that you can still take her shit while she's getting fucked by other dudes.
/r/askTRP26/02/19 03:41 AM
2

You do what you want. Most people around my age use Snapchat as well. Most men around my age (and every age) are also pathetic beta males. I think that using Snapchat is effeminate and lame. Its whole purpose is to spike your dopamine levels and give attention starved people (mostly women) access to a greater supply of attention that they have no plans to reciprocate in any substantive way. If it is making you a better man, and I'm missing out on some higher purpose that it serves, more power to…
/r/askTRP25/02/19 10:49 PM
14

She gets demoted to plate who isn't friends with you on Snapchat. Who has time for that shit? Also, why do you have Snapchat if you are an adult?
/r/askTRP25/02/19 12:40 PM
15

Eh. I honestly draw the line at 1 on 1 meet-ups with women when I'm in an LTR. I'm not trying to convince you of what's morally right or wrong, but let me explain something. A woman who wants to meet up with you after 10 years is not just trying to say "hi". She wants you. If you already have a nice girl, and you don't plan on straying, it just sounds like a big waste of time to me. Why invest energy in a girl who wants you that you don't want back? Does she have business connections?
/r/askTRP22/02/19 04:09 PM
1

I see where you are coming from. That was the 2nd book I read and it was definitely a huge eye-opener.
/r/askMRP21/02/19 11:27 PM
1

The first step is to lift and get a good diet going. You need something to kick start your motivation to fight for yourself. I like Jordan Peterson's advice of cleaning your room when you can't seem to do anything. Do that and start reading 'The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck' and get back to us in a week.
/r/askTRP21/02/19 12:17 PM
1

It was low. I ate 2 meals a day, probably less than that sometimes. Probably a bit below 1,500~. Now, I try to keep it around 3,500. I also drink 2 solid protein shakes a day. If you want to look like Christian Bale in that movie, just stop eating. No exercise necessary.
/r/askTRP21/02/19 06:07 AM
1

I lift 5 days a week on a "5 day split" regimen. My diet is honestly not particularly strict. As can be implied from my statements above, I am naturally really low body fat. I honestly eat as much as I can get down most days. I'm basically on a permanent "dirty bulk", because it's what keeps me gaining weight. I may eventually make my diet more strict, but for now, I'm making gains and I look really good.
/r/askTRP21/02/19 05:58 AM
1

For reference, the guy who just replied to you is a different person. I'm guessing my body fat percentage at that time by looking at photos of myself from then and looking specifically at my facial definition. I'm currently at 10% body fat and have way less definition in my face than I did back then. You could see lumps and bones in my skull that aren't even visible on most people, because I had absolutely no fat. I looked like Christian Bale in 'The Machinist'. The point is that you need muscle…
/r/askTRP21/02/19 05:49 AM
1

No. I had low body fat basically my whole life. If I had to estimate it, I was probably at 6-7% for the better part of a decade. I looked TERRIBLE. Men need to have muscles to be attractive to women. You can build muscles doing calisthenics, but to do a calisthenics routine that is as effective as bodybuilding is incredibly demanding.
/r/askTRP21/02/19 05:17 AM
1

Calisthenics are fine, but it's a way rougher commitment than lifting. Lifting is recommended because it's the easiest way to build a good, attractive physique.
/r/askTRP21/02/19 05:08 AM
4

You need to read the sidebar. I started with 'No More Mr. Nice Guy' first, so that's what I would recommend. You need to get a gym membership and become attractive again.
/r/askMRP21/02/19 04:13 AM
1

Knowing a little bit about pop culture is definitely not a bad idea. Most girls devour that stuff and it will give you opportunity to make tons of jokes. There's some great material in there for sure!
/r/askTRP21/02/19 03:31 AM
26

I honestly would be super grateful if a random stranger gave me a heads up like that. Just make a throwaway email and send him a message.
/r/askTRP21/02/19 03:29 AM
6

Some basic boundaries that don't seem to be obvious to the current generation are these: Don't be disrespectful in public (or ever, but if you do it in public we are done instantly). Don't post slutty pictures on the internet. Don't make major decisions without permission. This is a huge one that a lot of BP men put up with endlessly. Don't lie to me. This goes for guys too. People who lie are the definition of people who can't be trusted. Even seemingly small lies are enormous, waving red flags…
/r/askTRP21/02/19 12:32 AM
1

Don't berate him for developing bad coping mechanisms when he was 13. That's not what he's asking for help with anyways.
/r/askTRP20/02/19 06:50 PM
33

Don't forget the pressure flip. "Are you seeing other guys?". It takes 0 brain power or wittiness. Edit* I didn't say that this would solve the problem. This is just a reminder that "pressure flips" are a tool in the kit. They can also be great for implying that someone is projecting. Her: "Did you cheat on me?" You: "Why would you ask that? Is there something you want to tell me?"
/r/askTRP20/02/19 06:34 PM
1

You being vague about who you are is part of your problem. Despite me being pretty blunt with you, I'm actually responding because I would like to somehow help you. I can't help you if you don't tell me what the issues are. Your inferior genetics are not leaving you 98lbs. If you eat a caloric surplus, you will gain weight. It's simple biology. You aren't special. You need to calculate your macros and hit them every day. Count calories and how much protein you are taking in. If your hair is rece…
/r/askTRP20/02/19 05:15 AM
2

Why are you "potbellied" after a year of TRP awareness? It's not a mentality, it's a way of life. I have a friend who is 5'2" and could have fucked your mom on the operating table while she was giving birth to you. India has the 2nd largest population of any country in the world. Indian women clearly have no problem with having sex with Indian guys. You have a choice. You can take what life has given you and make it into something awesome or you can sit on your ass and type pathetic bullshit int…
/r/askTRP20/02/19 04:30 AM
1

Read the sidebar and ask better questions or get the fuck out. No one has time for whiny bullshit.
/r/askTRP20/02/19 02:49 AM
6

Only in so much as it's a trapping of status.
/r/askTRP19/02/19 05:51 PM
2

There is so much over analyzing going on in this thread it's kind of ludicrous. When people try to do power grabs by asserting themselves and demanding doing things that you would actually like to do, the correct response is to grant permission. Her: "We are going to do X at Y time." You: "Okay. You may come over at Y time and we can do X." It's that simple. Also this juvenile bullshit about going to the gym or soft nexting her is making me facepalm. You realize that if you simply behave as a co…
/r/askTRP19/02/19 04:56 PM
4

I'm gonna guess that you are a good deal under 30 and American/British. If I'm right, then congratulations, you come from the generation that was never taught how to fail. You have no idea what failure is supposed to feel like. You need to find something that you love and are terrible at and just let it tear you apart. That should prepare you for facing rejection.
/r/askTRP18/02/19 01:19 PM
3

You need to find a mission and pursue it with every sliver of energy you can muster. It's not too late, but you are way behind the curve.
/r/askTRP18/02/19 02:09 AM
2

This is your girlfriend, not your plate, and you should definitely next her.
/r/askTRP18/02/19 01:26 AM
3

No. Women don't desire casual anything. Women are unbelievably neurotic and do everything frenetically and with desperate purpose, even if they don't know what that purpose is.
/r/askTRP17/02/19 06:20 PM
2

This was a post I needed to read. There's nothing on the sidebar that deals with overcoming an addictive personality. Do you have any suggestions? This is something I've struggled with a lot.
/r/askMRP15/02/19 05:04 AM
4

I think in this case that this may be the literal answer and not just the usual canned, tongue-in-cheek response.
/r/askTRP15/02/19 03:06 AM
3

Is your lack of deeper explanation a shit test?
/r/askTRP15/02/19 03:04 AM
4

I think calling a girl you don't know a nickname comes off as clingy and beta. It feels a tiny bit like trying to stick your flag in an unclaimed plot of land. She's probably reacting badly because it's fairly cringe-worthy. As for the whole telling you what language to use, it's probably a shit test unless you are using a language she's less fluent in. If the latter is the case, it's definitely an awkward choice. Final note: texting is for logistics. If you are just chatting with this girl, you…
/r/askTRP15/02/19 12:53 AM
1

It's an enormous red flag that she's "hot" and a guy dumped her after 6 years. Women initiate >80% of divorces (yes I know they weren't married, but it's still a usable statistic). Men don't casually date a woman for 6 years. She also still wants him back, but he won't take her. She did something really fucking bad to that guy that you don't know about. Also, "boudoir" is French. We speak English here. In English, the word you were searching for is "slutty".
/r/askTRP14/02/19 04:14 AM
1

No. It has to do with being courageous vs being a pathetic weasel.
/r/askTRP12/02/19 01:13 AM
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There are plenty of TRP aware men who choose not to spin plates. It's a praxeology, not an ideology. We take the parts that we like and leave the parts we don't. I don't spin plates and I don't have any plans to. I'm mostly in TRP for the personal growth aspects.
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/19 01:12 AM
1

I think that a lot of people have undiagnosed mental illnesses that affect them in fairly significant ways. Diagnosing mental illness, when it's not absolutely severe and obvious, can be very difficult. People have primary care doctors, but far fewer people see a psychiatrist routinely to check on their mental health. The information that TRP offers is extremely valuable, but certain concepts will be hard for people with underlying mental issues to properly apply. For example, a man with undiagn…
/r/askTRP10/02/19 10:52 PM
3

Underlying mental illness is likely the number 1 issue holding back men who actually take the pill.
/r/askTRP10/02/19 02:13 AM
10

You can't marry a man that you look down on. That will never work out.
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/19 02:04 AM
1

Nothing to be angry at, man. It's just their nature. I'm more angry at the billions of beta males that jerk off constantly instead of contributing to the world.
/r/askTRP05/02/19 11:05 AM
4

Only the ones that I want... like Netflix and her Amazon prime.
/r/askMRP05/02/19 01:52 AM
2

I know plenty of funny women. Women don't seem to value humor as much in other women, which may lead to less women being funny than men. However, almost every girl that I know that has older male siblings can hang with the boys.
/r/askTRP02/02/19 02:05 AM
1

Like everything on the sidebar, you have to take what works for you and leave what doesn't.
/r/askTRP01/02/19 05:21 PM
2

There is a theory in one of the books on the MRP (married redpill) sidebar that suggests that a woman who really values you sexually won't want you to cum in her mouth. She will always want you to finish inside her. Swallowing loads is a covert way of ensuring a beta's sperm doesn't make its way into her vagina. Now I'm not saying that I believe this theory 100%, but I thought I might offer you another perspective. Maybe she's just into you enough that she only wants that baby batter to go in th…
/r/askTRP01/02/19 05:09 PM
3

I agree with your sentiment on a technical level, but this girl obviously enthusiastically offered him that because she wanted to do it anyways.
/r/askTRP01/02/19 05:06 PM
10

This is a hard, but necessary truth.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/02/19 05:04 PM
4

This comment is retarded. Not including ab work will hold back your progress in other lifts.
/r/askTRP01/02/19 02:27 AM
2

Why are people moralizing this garbage rather than dismantling it RP style. You literally have had oneitis for a post-wall divorcee for what appears to be a long time. You have 0 abundance. This shit is so pathetic it hurts. If you want to fuck other women just leave your "boring marriage". Be a fucking man. Be the kind of man with unlimited opportunities. Do you know how many women an attractive man meets on a given day that he could have deep-throating him by the end of the evening? What is th…
/r/TheRedPill01/02/19 12:15 AM
1

You are going to get a bunch of pathetic pussified crap about how you can't unplug another man. It's simply not true. It's a ton of work and will require a lot of investment on your part, but it's certainly possible. I would only do it if this guy is one of your closest friends, otherwise it probably just won't be worth it. When I did it, I started with sidebar books. You do whatever you think will work best.
/r/askTRP31/01/19 02:04 PM
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Love it or hate it, the truth is that aggression is a male trait and women find male traits attractive. They definitely don't appreciate being beaten, don't get dumb ideas. However, displays of aggression are attractive to women. See you in prison for thought crimes after I get doxxed.
/r/askTRP30/01/19 03:33 AM
2

It's really this simple: There is something you want and you have two potential tools at your disposal. a. Tool "A" is claimed by many to work. It's difficult to use and seems to have mixed results. b. Tool "B" claims that both tool "A" and tool "B" are useless. The task is impossible and your goal unachievable. Which tool would you choose?
/r/askTRP29/01/19 06:41 PM
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I'd tell him to his face what he's doing and that it bothers you. I had 2 instances in the past of where I would take the ribbing too far with certain friends and had no idea that it bothered them. They both eventually told me and I stopped. If you've been a pussy and acted like a jester for an extended period of time, it may be on you and not on your coworker to get things back on track.
/r/askTRP29/01/19 05:00 PM
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There are a lot of good answers here, but there is an elephant in the room that needs to be addressed. TRP does not describe 100% of people, be it women or men, or 100% of potentially successful relationship dynamics. It just describes the average. TRP is not about making every woman like you, it's about making yourself attractive to the majority. There are plenty of relationships with feminine men and masculine women that work just fine, it's just not what most women want and that's the key. So…
/r/askTRP29/01/19 04:56 PM
2

The damage that hypergamy does has way less to do with the men involved and much more to do with children. It's having a baby with Chad and then luring Franklin to pay the bill for the rest of his life. Men can't really do that because the law is never on our side and there's no social pressure whatsoever for women to date, and subsequently care for the children of, single dads.
/r/askTRP29/01/19 04:17 PM
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You don't sell yourself. You're the one buying. Until women are the ones qualifying themselves to you, you aren't leading conversations, interactions, or your own mission correctly.
/r/askTRP27/01/19 02:46 AM
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I snorted a bit at "having exclusive sex with...". Just because you've been having sex exclusively with her doesn't mean that you've been having "exclusive sex".
/r/askTRP24/01/19 02:47 AM
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She might message him back or she might not. That's not what he was asking about anyways. I'm not questioning whether or not what he did was an example of strong or weak frame. I'm pointing out that a discussion of frame is not the most important takeaway from the above scenario. The lesson to learn is that, in all likelihood, he got out-competed by a man she found more attractive. Football teams don't lose games because of a fumble in the last quarter then spend the rest of the season trying to…
/r/askTRP14/01/19 12:36 AM
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By doing whatever the fuck you want. Think of frame this way. You don't go to McDonalds and try to order off of the Wendys menu. You either go to McDonalds to get what McDonalds has on their menu or you go somewhere else that serves what you want to get. That's how frame works too. She is coming to you trying to order behaviors that are not on the menu. Now, you can bend to her will and try to add them in to your "menu" or you can tell her again what's actually on the menu and she can decide to …
/r/askTRP14/01/19 12:13 AM
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That suggested response you posted is referred to as "deering". You don't explain yourself. Some people don't like foul language. Maybe this is your first real exposure to that. Now you decide if you want to stop using it or not. You decide that for you, not for her.
/r/askTRP13/01/19 11:54 PM
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I think what you want us to tell you is the tough truth. You got stood up and even if you were polite about it, she would have just ghosted or stood you up again. What you did gives you back some sense of illusory power, but it's nothing more than that. She ditched you and not the other way around.
/r/askTRP13/01/19 11:40 PM
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This is actually fairly easy if you are tech savvy at all. I was a HUGE gamer for literally over 10 years. Nothing worked for me to quit. The biggest issue was that I have to use my computer so much that it was always right there at my finger tips. The solution? Install a Linux distro and overwrite Windows completely. If you want some help with this, I can walk you through it, just inbox me. I recommend Linux Mint, for people who have never used anything but Windows/Mac before. Taking away the i…
/r/askTRP13/01/19 07:17 AM
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This is textbook "Nice guy" talk. I used to be exactly like your boyfriend. There's a reason that I say "used to". He's talking like this because he's terrified that you are the only girl that he can get. He uses words to try and create a cage around you. He creates a false reality in which no man could ever love you as much as he could. He's trying to control you through emotional manipulation. He doesn't KNOW that what he's doing is wrong and unhealthy. He's doing the only thing that his "nice…
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/19 08:57 PM
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What that guy said is extremely cringe-worthy. *Edit to add: I also think it's unfair to you to say something like that. It forces you to be the bad guy just for not wanting to be in an LDR. Even if you apparently only get to see him once a year. That's a totally unreasonable condition for a girl friend of 9 months.
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/19 06:27 PM
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Well, what have you learned? Do you feel like if you were to try things all over again you would have a higher chance of succeeding? That's what I'm getting at. I bombed something at work recently, but I know that I'll do a way better job on it next time, because now I feel like I have a better idea of how not to bomb it.
/r/askTRP12/01/19 05:15 PM
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Being willing to pursue your mission to the point of literally becoming homeless is fucking badass as hell. Don't compare your success to people who aim much lower than you. As long as you are learning from your failures then they are small victories.
/r/askTRP12/01/19 05:29 AM
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You've been through a lot more than me, but I'll still try to answer your call for help. It is my opinion that, at least for men, depression stems from two things that are intimately intertwined. It comes from feeling that you have no control over your life. It comes from not having a mission for which having control is important. The result is that you feel helpless, but also feel no desire not to be helpless, because what does it fucking matter anyways? If that sounds like you, I'll keep going…
/r/askTRP12/01/19 01:37 AM
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the top 20% rule applies to all social media, individually, and for each category. If you want to post anything for the purpose of looking attractive, you should be in the top 20% of people posting THAT thing. You aren't competing with the fitness levels of all men when you take a shirtless pic. You are competing with the fitness levels of all men who take shirtless pics. The same goes for guitar, rock climbing, skateboarding, etc... You aren't competing with the men who don't do those things, o…
/r/askTRP12/01/19 01:29 AM
2

"Most of the women I know do."
/r/askTRP12/01/19 01:14 AM
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The business aspect may be uniquely American, but the pathetic education standards are worldwide.
/r/askTRP11/01/19 04:08 PM
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You are probably young, so let me tell you the cold hard truth of the world. The higher education system in the West is just a business model that vomits out incompetent, under prepared people. The result of our broken collegiate system is that the vast majority of people are incompetent for the first decade of their career, especially in fields that don't have good objective measures in place for competency.
/r/askTRP11/01/19 02:31 PM
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Here's the first thing on the TRP sidebar: "The Red Pill: Discussion of sexual strategy in a culture increasingly lacking a positive identity for men. " If all you want to do is watch porn, you don't belong on a sub dedicated to sexual strategy.
/r/askTRP10/01/19 06:30 AM
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She's just trying to turn you into her beta provider. Read the Rational Male and report back. You are the guy whose not quite attractive enough to be worth just riding and banging, but you seem like you might be able to afford a house in the next few years.
/r/askTRP10/01/19 06:26 AM
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Submissiveness and assertiveness are a Yin and Yang dichotomy. Submissiveness cannot exist outside of a source of assertion and assertion cannot exist outside of the potential for submission. What I mean to say is that you can't be submissive without something to submit to. Healthy submission starts from trusting your partner to make the kind of decisions that are going to give you the life you want. This is something that your boyfriend and you will have to work on as a team. The first step of …
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/19 05:49 AM
2

You have anxiety. Why? I don't know, but you do. You need to work this out or her closing her eyes will not be the only false red flag that you see. This kind of stuff will destroy you from the inside out.
/r/askTRP08/01/19 08:27 AM
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She says she's a virgin. Being Christian doesn't mean anything. Biology doesn't care whether or not you go to church on Sunday and most religions (barring Islam) have some form of path to forgiveness for people who stray. Don't fool yourself.
/r/askTRP08/01/19 03:52 AM
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This is the best advice here.
/r/askTRP08/01/19 01:45 AM
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If you read the sidebar you wouldn't have to ask this question. Your first mistake is assuming that "she's not the type for FWB or hookups". She's just not interested in being that type with you.
/r/askTRP08/01/19 01:21 AM
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If you are borrowing terminology from TRP then there should be some consistency in their meaning. For example, the terms "alpha" and "beta" are frequently used to describe people. This is done by even the most prominent and well respected members of the TRP community. In fact, it is much more hotly contest that a trait, in and of itself, can ever be alpha or beta outside the context of the individual expressing that trait. For a relationship to be happy, both the woman and the man need to be hap…
/r/RedPillWomen06/01/19 09:55 PM
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I read that post. It suffers from a very common problem in discussions of TRP. That problem is delineating between the desire to feel comfortable and safe and the desire to be with men who inspire feelings of sexual attraction. These are opposite ends of the same scale. While it may seem in your best interest to balance that scale as much as possible, it will always be in an alpha man's best interest to tip the balance towards attraction and away from comfort. The scale in the scenario you descr…
/r/RedPillWomen06/01/19 08:36 PM
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Since no one is addressing this, I will. A man being what would traditionally be considered "a good catch" does not make him alpha. You disqualify him as an alpha in numerous statements. He's an above average beta provider whom you like, and there's nothing wrong with that, but we need to draw these distinctions if we are going to talk about what it means to be alpha/beta within the context of The Red Pill. All of the non-physical traits you use to qualify him are distinctly provider traits: per…
/r/RedPillWomen06/01/19 08:17 PM
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People here who are telling you that this won't affect you in any way are lying to you. There are going to be a portion of women who won't let it bother them to the point of nexting you, but there are a lot who will see this as a really bad display of low value. It's one thing to have one kind of cringy hobby, but you have to balance that out with something masculine. You appear to have only hyper nerdy hobbies from the brief description of yourself that you gave. Can you still get women? Sure. …
/r/askTRP02/01/19 04:36 AM
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No post history. Questionable hint at being a white supremacist in your name and cringe-worthy "boobs" tacked on the end. This post should be removed. You are clearly not who you say you are.
/r/askTRP29/12/18 03:12 AM
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This sounds like an issue caused by some form of imbalance. I get like this under 3 circumstances: 1. When I'm very sleep deprived. 2. When I've had way too much caffeine. 3. When I stop doing physical activity for an extended period of time -- like more than 2 weeks.
/r/askMRP27/12/18 05:01 AM
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This is absolutely beyond crossing the line. Written reputation sabotage is libel: Legal Definition I would absolutely escalate this. If I caught one of my employees doing this to someone else, they would be terminated. It totally undermines the fabric of the team to have one person spreading rumors behind another's back. What you did, hypothetically, to deserve this is irrelevant. If she has a grievance against you, she can take it up with HR. Only you know your next move, but I would either fi…
/r/askTRP23/12/18 10:28 PM
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I doubt she's really more "horny" than she was when you weren't with her. She just wants you to give her all your attention, even when she's not there. She knows the best way to get you to pay attention to her is to pretend that she wants sex. She's also manipulating you with dread. Women, unlike men, understand and utilize dread without being told anything about it. It's innate for women to act like this. That being said, why would you stay in this relationship if you already know after only 2-…
/r/askTRP23/12/18 06:08 PM
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I don't know whose frame you are living in, but it's not yours. You know whether or not you want to do this. Weigh the consequences vs your desire and then you will know your answer.
/r/askTRP22/12/18 09:51 PM
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You seem to have a decent level of abundance and your priorities also look to be in order. I honestly wouldn't worry about her. Let her have her fun and leave her be. Boundaries need to be created before they can be enforced. If something about her behavior is bothering you enough that it needs to be a boundary, that's something you can handle in the future. Creating a rule in the heat of the moment comes off as controlling, jealous, and butthurt. She very well may be a "smokeshow", but she's fu…
/r/askTRP20/12/18 04:06 AM
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Your "LTR" hasn't met your kids? Why did you "LTR" someone who hasn't even known you long enough to have met your kids? Please post stats and sidebar progress so we know what we are dealing with here.
/r/askTRP20/12/18 03:31 AM
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u/sharingiscaring404 You are mega plugged in still. It's unclear to me why you think you are qualified to give advice here. What are your stats? Where are you in your sidebar reading? You haven't posted anywhere asking for help or guidance, why are you actually here? You've been posting to TRP-related subs for less than 24 hours and you are already trying to "share your experience". What experience? Enlighten us. It sounds like a nauseating dose of The Purple Pill and a bunch of tired platitudes…
/r/askTRP19/12/18 11:52 PM
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Her bad behavior isn't precisely his fault, but him having a wife who behaves badly is 100% his fault. It's all about wording. No man can control how the women in his life behave, but he can set standards for the kind of behavior that allows women to remain in his life. Some women will filter themselves out through this process, but for a high-quality man, many of them will step into line.
/r/askTRP19/12/18 11:33 PM
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OYS #3 Things have only been better since my last OYS. Gym: Started eating more again. Diet is back where it needs to be. I could probably have bigger breakfasts, but it's not a huge concern. Had a few great workouts this week and I seem to be coming out of the semi-illness that I was going through. Someone requested stats in my last post, so I'll drop them here. Stats: I'm 6'0" and 184lbs, last measured this evening on a mechanical scale. I haven't properly measured my body fat % in awhile, but…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/12/18 07:30 AM
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u/4percent3381 Thanks, I'll check it out.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/12/18 09:30 PM
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You need to be the one approaching the girls in the gym that you want to talk to. That's the only way that this will ever stop. In most interactions, guys are the ones who instigated the interaction. Just be that guy. I'm in an LTR with 0 plans of cheating and I still cold approach girls that I think are attractive all the time. It's necessary for keeping/developing an abundance mentality. Jealousy comes from not having options.
/r/askTRP15/12/18 01:52 PM
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Not excited about how I did this week. Mission: I have been faltering as of late from my mission. I was studying 6+ hours a day and I basically completely stopped. I let myself get sucked into a video game after not having played a single one for 6 months. I learned a valuable lesson: video games will not only continue to not add value to my life, but they will actively suck any value out that I've managed to put back in. They have no place in my RP lifestyle. Lesson learned, but damn me for los…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/12/18 07:18 AM
1

Start tying the 1,000 foot rope around her waist and get ready to run. What books have you read so far on the side bar?
/r/MarriedRedPill15/12/18 03:55 AM
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I read through all the comments on the thread and no one mentioned this, so I will. ​ The #1 issue "hard-gainers" deal with is not fucking eating. I trained a guy who had tried going to the gym on and off for years from this January to this September (9 months for the mathematically challenged). He went from 5'11" 145lbs to 185lbs. His body fat went up a good deal too, but he probably put on about 20~ pounds of muscle. He looks infinitely better now. We were extremely consistent with going to th…
/r/askTRP13/12/18 08:59 AM
1

Everyone keeps saying something along the lines of "she wanted exclusivity and you didn't.", but that's clearly not the case or the issue at hand. The issue (and the reason you posted this) is actually this: you wanted exclusivity (or at least some form of LTR) and pretended you didn't, so when she left, you became upset. If the first statement was true, this post wouldn't exist. It's not true and therefor we are here discussing this topic. Being alpha isn't about having no feels. Being alpha is…
/r/askTRP13/12/18 04:46 AM
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Agree with this post. Even in TRP nowadays, I can say things that seem to be "unpopular" due to how direct and truthful they are. Even those who would call themselves unplugged still can't handle the truth and won't put in the work.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/18 06:44 PM
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u/Redpillbrigade17 ​ I'll try to rephrase that in another way. A high SMV single man has sex with the women that he wants, when he wants. The only condition for him being able to have this sex is that the women he wants are interested. A married man, on the other hand, has sex with one woman in exchange for...? Feels? That being said, the benefit for the man used to be culturally/socially permissible sexual access to a woman. Now it's ...? Nothing really. ​ Now to the female side. A single woman…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/12/18 03:07 AM
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Simple. Ghost the date. There are 2 possible outcomes. (more likely) She doesn't show up, because she wasn't going to anyways. She messages you pissed off asking where you are. You respond later that evening saying something came up and you were out of data. You would have called, but you didn't have her number.
/r/askTRP06/12/18 05:58 AM
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A lot of these guys are still plugged in. They pick and choose the answers that they want to hear and leave the rest.
/r/askTRP04/12/18 12:13 AM
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The honest truth is one of the hardest Red Pills to swallow. No. It's a common tenant of contemporary Western culture that telling men not to cry is "toxic". The reality is that it's necessary. Crying is a form of weakness that will always reduce women's attraction to you. It's really that simple. The natural response to a crying man for women is disgust and nothing more. She doesn't want to know your struggles. She wants you to be an immovable object. You are the sheer, stone face of the cliff …
/r/askTRP03/12/18 11:22 PM
2

You can't let fear hold you back. Remember this key tenant: "You can't negotiate attraction." That is both a curse and a blessing. You don't need a special line or the perfect excuse. If she finds you attractive, you really only need to say "hi". The difference is more often eye contact than word choice. Once you have confidence, you won't care about saying some particular phrase. Crafting the perfect opening line is just another buffer against the fact that you fear rejection. You are using you…
/r/askTRP03/12/18 04:30 AM
2

If you have balls then you meet women wherever you encounter women. If you don't have balls, you don't meet women regardless of where you go or how many surround you.
/r/askTRP02/12/18 11:49 PM
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Don't have conversations over text messages. That's how women communicate with each other.
/r/askTRP02/12/18 06:12 PM
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It's definitely a shit test. How is your woman ordering you to make her food not a shit test? OP, you need to live in your frame. Right now you are trying to find the best way to operate from within her's and that's never going to work in the long run.
/r/askTRP02/12/18 06:04 PM
3

"Or she just doesn't like alphas" Reflect on this line.
/r/askTRP02/12/18 08:40 AM
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Jordan Peterson is not strictly RP, but his views are compatible with at least 90% of RP concepts. With the exception of 'The Rational Male', none of the books on the sidebar are actually 100% RP either. Jordan Peterson is AT LEAST as RP as most of the sidebar material, if not more. He has his short comings, as do all great teachers, but listening to his ideas has never been a waste of time. If nothing else, Jordan Peterson is one of the greatest debaters in the West. Being competent in debate i…
/r/askTRP02/12/18 08:05 AM
1

Fair point.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/12/18 01:37 AM
3

My First OYS post: Introducing myself: I'm late 20s and married 6 years. I have been lifting semi-seriously for 4 years, with the last 12 months being very serious; though my diet was below par until the last month. I'm 6'0, 185lbs and was 11% bodyfat when I last measured it at 180lbs. The start of my RP journey was just over a year ago, at the beginning of last November. I found TRP because of a single incident with my wife disrespecting me so horrendously that it caused a catalyst in my willin…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/12/18 07:30 AM
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I am going to ignore the question in your post and give you some RP homework instead. Realize that there are no shortcuts to knowing the answers to these kinds of questions. You will be playing question Whack-A-Mole the rest of your life if you don't develop your fundamental knowledge. You need to cultivate a deep understanding that can only be had through real work. Read 'The Rational Male'. Get a gym membership if you don't already have one. If you don't already have a mission, figure out what…
/r/askTRP30/11/18 05:43 AM
1

Then what do you think the problem is? I don't see how you could have good body language and eye contact without any confidence, which you are clearly severely lacking in. If you want some tips, give us more to work with.
/r/askTRP25/11/18 04:32 PM
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Eye contact and body language are everything. ​ Most guys aren't even aware of what they are doing in these areas and it's absolutely make or break. Eye contact is so powerful it can literally start fights with people or make them do things they wouldn't otherwise do.
/r/askTRP24/11/18 06:01 AM
5

This post wrecked me. Lord have mercy.
/r/askTRP24/11/18 05:48 AM
3

"Another one bites the dust" -Freddy Mercury
/r/askTRP24/11/18 05:44 AM
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You just wrote a textbook example of hypergamy. ​ From Guy A Guy A: More attractive, good for a short-term relationship, girls love him, exciting, but not entirely stable, concerns Mom because his financial future and commitment to you are somewhat questionable. Transition to Guy B Guy B: Better provider, is already showing a willingness to be exclusive with you, even on a first date, has Mom's approval, doesn't come off as having a load of options, despite having a great job. Will likely offer …
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/18 05:29 AM
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You are the kind of girl that men describe as "wife material". You have nothing to worry about.
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/18 04:23 AM
2

In order to say interesting things, you have to be interesting. If you are talking about casual banter with acquaintances, just talk about whatever books you're reading or personal projects you are working on. A huge part of being interesting is also asking the person you are talking to what they have going on and actually listening to them. ​ If you are talking about banter for cold approach then literally anything that isn't a compliment on her appearance is fine. You can't negotiate desire. S…
/r/askTRP23/11/18 04:40 AM
1

Thank you. I will do that.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/11/18 03:06 AM
1

Do I need to post on OYS to be allowed to comment on MRP posts? Serious question.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/11/18 01:15 AM
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Editing this comment out because it's stupid. ​ You are right, I should post on OYS.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/11/18 10:43 PM
0

Good report. You just made me realize that I'm about one year in as well.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/11/18 08:40 PM
1

Just tell him straight up that if you cross paths in real life and he says something even remotelythreatening to your face that you are calling the cops. We aren't cavemen anymore. We have laws that protect innocent people from having to receive death threats.
/r/askTRP20/11/18 03:30 PM
18

This guy sounds like an idiot.
/r/RedPillWomen19/11/18 09:32 PM
3

Just looked it up. It probably does, just like all facial and jaw exercises, but only the muscles (once again just like all jaw and facial exercises). Facial "yoga" and other forms of face exercise are all very legitimate and effective for changing the way you look in very small increments. I highly doubt it changes your bones, but adult pallet wideners do exist and are reasonably effective. Perhaps over an extended period of time it would widen your pallet? I don't know. Give it a shot and tell…
/r/askTRP19/11/18 01:47 AM
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This kind of question doesn't merit real advice or answers. TRP is not game. He doesn't need help right now. He needs to invest in himself. This isn't a "help betas get laid by LARPing better" hotline. I did give him advice. He needs to read the sidebar. His question shows an underlying lack of understand in what the purpose of RP theory is.
/r/askTRP19/11/18 01:16 AM
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These kinds of questions need to stop. TRP is not game theory. We don't LARP here. Stop trying to take shortcuts, you need to read the sidebar and become more alpha.
/r/askTRP18/11/18 01:09 PM
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I actually didn't discredit the ideas validity. I agree with you that it's a valid idea. I just said that it needed a disclaimer attached so that new people interpret it the wrong way. That's all. I agree with everything that you just said, except for the part where you said I called his post invalid. Reread my original post.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/18 11:52 PM
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These designations are not helpful. I have a few close friends who got really into the idea of their "introversion". Both of them are extremely unsuccessful and not anyone who you would want to emulate. I was also called an introvert most of my growing up by my parents, teachers, and many of my friends. I had to train myself to even be able to talk to strangers. I was terrible at small talk, public speaking, and leaving the house in general. I felt "more energized" sitting at home in front of my…
/r/TheRedPill16/11/18 01:13 PM
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I would be very cautious about using this kind of thinking as a rationalization for inaction; which is a much more common male problem than over-action. I definitely have a more calm, collected, and slow-moving demeanor than most people and I think it serves me well, but that's not an excuse to not act and be assertive. ​ I think the whole introvert/extrovert dichotomy is a little bit overblown and to nearly as stupid as asking people what their "sign" is. Every man on the planet needs both the …
/r/TheRedPill15/11/18 11:22 PM
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I actually was paid to play video games. 3 different games actually. I spent about 15 years of my life gaming for 8+ hours a day. Don't do that. Girls didn't give a fuck. Only other betas cared at all. The only good take away that I got from gaming are learning how to be a shot-caller/team leader and learning how to type really fast. Invest yourself in hobbies that are awe inspiring. Athletics, music/art, or writing are all pretty good ideas.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/18 11:42 PM
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I like this. "Don't be the girl in the interaction." ​ Simple as hell, but sometimes the best things are.
/r/askTRP13/11/18 11:18 PM
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You are completely missing my point. I'm not debating whether or not Sofia Vergara made good choices that others should emulate. ​ I'm only attempting to discuss when women peak. I'm saying that just because a woman is still beautiful after her prime that doesn't mean she isn't past her prime. Top athletes can still be top athletes past their prime, but they aren't as dominant as they once were. Women's sexual attractiveness almost always peaks in their 20s. That doesn't mean 40 year olds can't …
/r/RedPillWomen13/11/18 11:13 PM
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This is a branch of The Red Pill. You need to understand RP principles before you post. Her husband is acting awkward and directionless. It's obvious from the tone of her post that not only has she completely lost attraction for him, she's clearly debating leaving him; even if not overtly stated. This is profoundly serious and is not something to be talked about lightly. No one wants a man who behaves like he's behaving. She has come here for real advice, not tired platitudes. The real advice is…
/r/RedPillWomen13/11/18 05:55 AM
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Thanks for posting this so that I don't have to. There's no point in showcasing how a legendary beauty looks at 45 and saying, "see ladies, look how hot she still is." Is she still hotter than most 20 years olds? Yeah. Is she as hot as she was at 20? Absolutely not. Not even close. Not even close to being debatable. At 45, she's a solid 7-8. At 20~, she was one of the hottest women in the world.
/r/RedPillWomen13/11/18 05:51 AM
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Are you serious? Two of my closest friends graduated from middle-of-the-pack schools with between 2.0-3.0 GPAs and both of them landed jobs paying 75k+ before graduating. If you look at Craigslist ads for any major city, there are walls of posts each day looking for developers. Almost all of these jobs start at a minimum of 55k (not the dream, but still WAY better than unskilled labor). In my city you start at 60k on average for just having a CCNA, which is way easier to get than a CS degree. Yo…
/r/askTRP13/11/18 05:14 AM
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You find it by looking for it. You look for it by constantly pushing yourself to try new things. You don't find it by pontificating what it is. You don't find it by asking other people. You don't find it in your daily routine.
/r/askTRP13/11/18 04:53 AM
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Congrats on having successfully trolled me.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/11/18 01:03 AM
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Good lord this is a mess. I might take a whack at this later, but this post is going to be time consuming to break down. ​ In the interim. Read the fucking sidebar. Year in my ass.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/11/18 12:23 AM
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Across the world, men in the most advanced civilizations have become pathetic subhumans.
/r/askTRP10/11/18 12:50 PM
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I only go to social gatherings when I have completed all the things on my personal development lists. If I'm slacking off then I don't allow myself to do fun thing until I stop slacking off and make progress. I honestly don't know what the solution to your anxiety is, but try using this quirk to get yourself to work harder on your mission/goals and then reward yourself with social time. Maybe your group is just hyper competitive. I don't think I've ever felt that way about any of my social circl…
/r/TheRedPill10/11/18 12:37 PM
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Conversation ... And that's where you fucked up. ​
/r/askMRP10/11/18 03:44 AM
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Can you distill that down to a more specific question? That's kind of a shotgun blast of little open-ended questions.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/18 02:36 AM
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I'm not saying that the point you are trying to make is invalid; time is a finite, valuable asset. What I'm saying is that the context and method used to reach your conclusion is problematic and rooted in blue-pilled thinking. I'm glad you've done your due diligence of reading and lifting and you have a great attitude. You just need to learn more about what abundance really is. Men with abundance don't "miss opportunities" with women. Men with abundance have the sex they want, with the quality o…
/r/TheRedPill09/11/18 04:47 PM
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This post is not good or relevant to TRP. For any potential new-comers reading this, I'll briefly explain why: This post is about a girl instead of you. You demonstrate nauseating levels of oneitis. The "moral" of the story is a lazy non-sequitur. This one needs some more elaboration. Yes, time is a valuable, finite resource. However, the line of thinking you are promoting in this post reads something like this: "if you catch oneitis for a random girl, you need to pursue it as fast as possible s…
/r/TheRedPill09/11/18 02:48 PM
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Read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP08/11/18 01:00 AM
1

On this season's finale of: "How I Met Your Mother"...
/r/askTRP07/11/18 11:55 PM
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Yeah and I'm a bad mother fucker.
/r/askTRP07/11/18 11:51 PM
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When violence becomes an acceptable response to unwanted speech, society crumbles to dust.
/r/askTRP01/11/18 07:10 AM
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I've already been working on giving up stuff with TRP, but I'll add a few to the mix. ​ No jerkin' it. No coffee. No Netflix. I will read one article, watch one video, or read a chapter of one book per day for the career I'm trying to transition to. ​ *Edit 11/7 - So far so good. The coffee has been the hardest part by far, but I'm still hangin' in there.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/18 01:03 AM
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I have a theory: There's more than one reason for musicians being so successful. Here are some examples. What women want and what they think they want are two completely different things, as we here at the Red Pill are fully aware. They think that they want a really emotional, sappy guy who lays out these deep romantic emotions. They actually want a sexually attractive, unavailable badass. Musicians get to be both of these things simultaneously. They get to sing the most heart-wrenching sappy bu…
/r/askTRP26/10/18 07:37 PM
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It all starts with one manageable task at a time. Give yourself one goal for tomorrow. Tell yourself, "if nothing else changes, I'm going to do a really good job of making my bed". The next day, you add another task of cleaning your room. The next day you go online and start studying for your driver's license test. During each of these days, you have to completely let go of how much you resent not having achieved all of the things you want to achieve in the future. One step at a time. I did that…
/r/askTRP26/10/18 04:26 AM
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There are whole continents of men with no facial hair. It's genetic.
/r/askTRP26/10/18 12:56 AM
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When the dicks I'm taking are the size of yours, I can take even more. Women say crazy shit. You can't have boundaries if you have no frame.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/10/18 11:43 PM
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I disagree with this. Women will literally say anything in an emotional moment. Any woman you've ever known, or even not known, can accuse you of rape at any time (Christine Blasey Ford comes to mind). Her having said that doesn't make her any more dangerous or untrustworthy than any other woman. This is just the world we live in and the reason for some men choosing the MGTOW route becomes more apparent every day. I think Jordan Peterson and David Deida say it best when they state that women lit…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/18 12:19 AM
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Do you do birthday parties?
/r/TheRedPill23/10/18 09:42 PM
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I laughed out loud at "HB9". No. They look fine together. You need some abundance.
/r/askTRP20/10/18 01:58 AM
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A good leader doesn't need to threaten his followers. Here's why: A good leader lays out VERY clear and achievable expectations. A good leader teaches his followers how to achieve the goals laid out in those expectations. A good leader motivates his team to WANT to achieve those goals. You only have to be an asshole if you fail at any of the above or the employees in question don't belong in their role at all.
/r/askTRP20/10/18 01:53 AM
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"I know God isn't real, but how often should I pray?"
/r/askTRP19/10/18 02:25 AM
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Now this is a good field report. You are actually listening to what people are saying around here. Take notes, boys.
/r/askTRP19/10/18 01:33 AM
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I'm not trying to recommend anything necessarily. You said you don't have time to lift. I'm simply explaining how I use my lifting time more productively than most people I see in the gym. I'm sure you have reading assignments for class. Read those at the gym. If your textbooks are too big to carry around then get a Kindle and buy ebooks.
/r/askTRP18/10/18 11:22 AM
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You should be taking a minimum of 1 minute rest between every set. Most people just sit there staring at the wall with their headphones in. I've read almost the entire TRP sidebar during those 1 minute intervals over the last year.
/r/askTRP18/10/18 11:17 AM
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Study at the gym. I read books at the gym. Fuck the haters.
/r/askTRP18/10/18 06:15 AM
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We've all said things that came out wrong. The rest of society is here to coddle us. The RP community is here to criticize every aspect of our lives and the way that we think and talk so that we can become the best men we are capable of being. You are a mature guy and you can learn a lot from this community.
/r/askTRP18/10/18 05:58 AM
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"Relationship Market Value." Also known as CMV, "Cuckoldry Market Value."
/r/askTRP18/10/18 05:43 AM
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Normal people also usually go to the grocery store, their local coffee shop/bar, their barbershop, restaurants, etc... If you rule out approaching women you are interested in at a particular venue because you go there frequently, you are really limiting your options. At some point, you have to accept that in order to get everything you want out of life, you are going to have to take some uncomfortable social risks. No one has ever said anything worth saying or done anything worth doing without p…
/r/askTRP18/10/18 05:28 AM
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This is not the correct use of that phrase. You don't "eat" at the fucking gym. Nobody is paying you to work out and if you piss off the management badly enough that they cancel your membership then you can just join another gym. It's not like they background check you or interview you first. And if you live in a town with only one gym close by, you need to move. Nobody wants to be the king of fucking Gary Indiana. Now back to OP. Your approach is whack. Don't tell women you think they are prett…
/r/askTRP18/10/18 03:57 AM
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I think your AA could have been better handled. Using AAing to neg a girl is fine for dates and plates, but if you are in LTR, you can find ways to AA her without making her feel like a retard. At the end of the day, solid frame is solid frame, but try creating a frame that's actually fun for her to participate in. Think of a toddler pouting and asking for ice cream. You've already decided to say "no". Do you say "no" and then spank them or do you say "no" and then tickle them until they meltdow…
/r/askTRP18/10/18 03:47 AM
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It doesn't matter. Just lift until you look better than the guys you find yourself surrounded by when you are in the presence of the girls you want to be with.
/r/askTRP18/10/18 03:47 AM
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Salary doesn't contribute to SMV. It contributes to RMV. This misconception is a huge contributing factor to why so many men have become beta cucks. Women who are asking about your net worth aren't interested in fucking you for the sake of fucking you. Anything they tell you otherwise is a lie.
/r/askTRP18/10/18 03:46 AM
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I think you are looking at this the wrong way. I'm against college. I think that it's government funded extortion (if you are an American). It's a ridiculously overpriced racket that guilts parents into sending their kids off to go drink and fuck in the hopes that they will receive a piece of paper certifying their employability to an employer who wants them to demonstrate a competency in skills they most definitely didn't actually develop. I'm very vocal about this and just about everyone I kno…
/r/askTRP18/10/18 12:00 AM
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I'm married, so it's slightly different, but I still cold start conversations all the time. I'm actually a beast at it, because I have 0 fear of rejection (because I'm not actually looking, just maintaining an abundance mentality). I get mostly extremely good responses. Women love getting approached by abnormally confident men. Most men don't cold approach and the few that do usually treat it like the are cliff diving for the first time ever. Even though women appreciate any effort at all, they …
/r/askTRP17/10/18 11:08 PM
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You probably got a small adrenaline rush. This will subside over time. It's like jumping off of a 30 foot cliff into the ocean. The first time you do it, your body is full of chemicals you may have never felt the effects of before. You were probably about as mentally impaired as someone who is mildly intoxicated from alcohol. Anything worth doing is scary. Keep doing it and it will become familiar and from familiarity, mastery can blossom.
/r/askTRP16/10/18 12:08 AM
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There isn't anything that can completely replace weight lifting, but there are alternatives to weight lifting that are still good practices for gaining muscle and strength. My recommendation is to check out some calisthenics videos on Youtube. That's what I would do if I found myself in a situation where I wasn't able to lift.
/r/askTRP15/10/18 12:07 AM
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Just do bodyweight exercises in your room. Get a pullup bar from Amazon and don't tell them what it is. No one has the right to tell someone else whether or not they can be physically fit.
/r/askTRP14/10/18 11:15 PM
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"I work with a company that moves kilos of cocaine". At least this was true of every restaurant I ever worked in as a young man.
/r/askTRP11/10/18 05:53 AM
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You either have sex with your body or you have sex with your jokes. You don't get to do both. Men who excessively tell sexual jokes in the presence of women are viewed as being very unattractive. Women, no matter how slutty, will always put on appearances of chastity. Telling sexual jokes forces women to have to make sudden decisions about how to deal with you. If she still acts interested in you after a few "dirty" jokes in front of all her friends, she is displaying low value in front of them,…
/r/askTRP11/10/18 05:50 AM
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How you deal with it is up to you, but she didn't forget.
/r/askTRP11/10/18 05:43 AM
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It means that the men she finds attractive don't find her attractive and the men that give her attention repulse her.
/r/askTRP11/10/18 05:13 AM
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We've all been there. I'm not saying that the way you carry yourself won't influence the way people experience your presence. I'm just suggesting that you take these feelings with a grain of salt. You can never really know what people are thinking or what their glances mean.
/r/askTRP10/10/18 03:40 AM
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I gotta be honest, you are sounding a little narcissistic here. The vast majority of people are way too focused on themselves to give you much more than a moment's thought unless you are behaving really weirdly or look really weird.
/r/askTRP10/10/18 03:10 AM
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Let's set the record straight. If you are employable and make any effort at all, you will have a job. I interview people nearly every day that I work. If a guy with an RP mindset ever sat across from me and didn't raise any red flags, he would almost definitely get the job. If you are unemployed for more than a calendar week, you are being lazy.
/r/askTRP10/10/18 03:06 AM
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You can't fake interest. Also, your post has a really negative vibe. You sound like the kind of dude who finds a way to sneak complaints into every conversation. Just be fucking interesting and don't go on "dates" with girls you aren't interested in dating. That's a fucking covert contract. "If I pretend to be interested in more than sex, you will have sex with me." So fucking beta and lame.
/r/askTRP07/10/18 02:54 PM
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This is so genius. It's like using Tinder for girls who didn't download the app. TRP will look back on this OP as being a great innovator.
/r/askTRP07/10/18 06:11 AM
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Pick shoes that women wouldn't wear casually. A lot of the most popular shoes, like Vans/Chucks, are unisex. Wear shoes that are NOT unisex. Boots are almost always a good choice, because men and womens' boots are pretty strongly differentiated.
/r/askTRP07/10/18 06:09 AM
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Younger guys see me as a mentor now. I frequently get asked for advice on how to deal with women and how to approach life. That basically never happened before. Aside from that, it has also negatively impacted my social life in some instances. I had to stop being friends with a couple I had been cool with for a long time, because the guy started mate guarding and it totally destroyed our friendship. It definitely has its ups and downs. I feel that in some parts of my life, people seem to trust m…
/r/askTRP07/10/18 02:42 AM
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Let her go. A woman reacting really strongly to an acceptable (outside of relationship) sexual conquest of your past is doing so out of anger, not disappointment. She's pissed off that her beta provider pulled some other tail. Women will rationalize the fuck out of something like this if you are a high SMV alpha. How dare her complacent little beta cross her like that. Hit the gym. Read the sidebar. Develop your frame. Pursue your mission. Don't LTR someone who doesn't worship you.
/r/askTRP07/10/18 02:04 AM
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As someone who actually did boxing 5 days a week for a solid year, I strongly recommend against it. It seriously is not good for your brain. Almost any other martial is going to be better for you long-term health. The headaches I used to get from it were really disconcerting and unlike anything else I've ever experienced before or after. Sometimes they would last for 2-3 days. Aside from the above, boxing is also a sub-optimal form of self-defense. Learn a martial art that teaches you how to inc…
/r/askTRP07/10/18 12:28 AM
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If you are checking all the measurable boxes like finances, body measurements, etc... then it's something immeasurable. Really the only thing left is either the way you talk or the way you carry yourself. 95% of men carry themselves like complete faggots. Look at any guy in a film that launched them to sex-icon stardom. How do they walk? How do they posture themselves? Do you have the body language of a victim or a warlord? I'm not suggesting you have invisible lats syndrome, but I am suggesting…
/r/askTRP07/10/18 12:13 AM
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Don't use asktrp to attempt to skip the hard work entailed being RP aware. Actually read the sidebar. There is no shortcut to understanding these concepts enough that it actually changes your life.
/r/askTRP06/10/18 12:54 PM
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Who is it that you read? Pick a book that you think is really worthwhile and I'll add it to my list. I'm not being sarcastic. I'm open to the idea that I'm wrong about this.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/18 03:26 AM
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Where did I say anything was solely to blame for the West's decline? I was just explaining the failures of collectivism. I could go on for hours about the other contributing factors, but that's beyond the scope of this particular post.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/18 02:28 AM
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There has been a lot of arguing about this for years and years in the bodybuilding world. The general consensus is that 8% is not a maintainable level of body fat. It's a transitional stage that occurs while cutting, which is why people prepare so incredibly carefully before competitions.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/10/18 12:16 AM
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Lifting definitely makes you much more attractive. You will notice way more IOIs after gaining muscle mass.
/r/askTRP05/10/18 04:31 PM
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Individualism is far preferable to collectivism in the West. Collectivism only works in homogenous societies. Collectivist ideologies (aka slightly evolved tribalism) are what spawned Marxism, Communism, and the current political plague that's ruining the USA, Europe, and Canada.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/18 04:23 AM
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I doesn't matter what mark you'd consider yourself to be at. They consider you at the "stand him up 60-75% of the time" mark. You can stick your head in the ground and pretend it's not you getting outcompeted, but that's not going to help you grow. They are doing something, with someone, each and every time that they stand you up. What are your lifts/stats? Are you over-texting or just texting for logistics?
/r/askTRP04/10/18 09:20 PM
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They just aren't designed for HIIT. Ideal HIIT exercises last somewhere between 1-3 minutes. Most treadmills won't even go fast enough to exhaust that fast and even the ones that can are way too dangerous to be worth it. There are much safer ways to expend all your energy in a short span of time. Don't be the guy at the gym biting the floor because you tried to do sprints on a treadmill.
/r/askTRP04/10/18 08:59 PM
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Be more attractive than their other options. On Monday night, a 6 may be the hottest new guy that's messaged/approached her. By Friday night, it's a 7-8.
/r/askTRP04/10/18 02:53 PM
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2 reasons. As a poster below said, raising your heart rate higher (within reason) is a better workout. It's similar to how lifting heavier weights works your muscles more. You want to push past the heart rate range that is considered "fat burning range". Especially for men who are starting off from the smaller end of the spectrum. You want to train your heart as intensely and efficiently as possible without burning too many calories. HIIT is great for raising your heart rate without giving your …
/r/askTRP04/10/18 01:31 PM
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The exhaustion you think that you are feeling is likely to actually be exhaustion. While I don't recommend that someone who weighs 160lbs do a ton of cardio, you do need to be healthy. It sounds like you are fairly new to lifting, so try this routine for a bit. 2x 12-16 lat pulldowns, 2x 12-16 bench press, 2x 16+ squats, and 2x 12+ (light) deadlifts. After you finish lifting, for 5 sets do 2-3 minutes of the most intense cardio that you can. Avoid bs like treadmills. You want to raise your heart…
/r/askTRP04/10/18 06:21 AM
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I don't have any studies to link for you, but I have a strong feeling that insecurity is linked to lower testosterone levels. When I'm lifting, sleeping well, pursuing my mission, and eating right, I almost never feel more than fleetingly insecure. When I'm sleeping late, low on motivation, and stop lifting/eating well, I start to become a co-dependent pussy. I don't think the advice of "trust your gut" is always the best advice. If trusting your instincts worked for becoming great with women an…
/r/askTRP04/10/18 05:03 AM
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Just tell her you love her. She's not trying to be manipulative. If she's doing this at the END of sex, it's probably a sign that she can't climax as well without feeling that you love her. I have no problem with this idea. It's not like she's a ONS or a plate.
/r/askTRP04/10/18 01:50 AM
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Firstly, this is an irrelevant comparison, because women almost never "punch down" in SMV. If they can have sex with more attractive men, they will. Secondly, penis size is not something women give that much thought to. Compare the popularity of well-hung porn stars to the popularity of someone like Zac Efron. Even if Zac Efron was poorly endowed (within reason) and a girl knew that, do you think she would choose some porn star over him? There's absolutely no freakin' way. Not for an LTR. Not fo…
/r/askTRP04/10/18 01:40 AM
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You actually may have had an opportunity to blow her mind by AAing her hilariously idiotic idea and belly-laughing at her to her face (a little bit of flying spittle would probably have added a nice effect). In case you haven't realized what I'm getting at, the answer is no. Real confidence comes from real sexual relationships. Do you gain sexual confidence from jerking off to porn? Trust me when I say that "being good in bed" is mostly bullshit. Female sexual pleasure is based on how aroused th…
/r/askTRP04/10/18 01:20 AM
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Great post, @Auxfite. This is inspiring and is a good reminder to lift and that being self-motivated can have massive rewards. Congratulations on your success with your app. I need to get off Reddit and get my ass to the gym. In my opinion, SMV is the single greatest predictor of happiness in a man's life.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/18 01:14 AM
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This is the 4th stage of the cancer that Western society infects its men with.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/18 12:53 AM
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Thank you for posting this. Men need these kinds of reminders. Anyone could become this guy.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/18 03:24 PM
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Nobody ever quits anything. People only replace things. If you have nothing on deck ready to replace gaming, you will just start playing again. Try not to make it drinking or jerking off and you should be set.
/r/askTRP02/10/18 03:45 AM
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Lol'd at "master plan". You need to develop abundance. Do you have a master plan about what you are going to order at chipotle a month from now? Do you have a master plan about what toilet you are going to shit in a month from now? Any time you care more than that, you don't have real abundance. We often use the term "Oneitis" more broadly than the name would imply. The point of that phrase is just to point out how men behave with a scarcity complex. The phrase itself is not worth getting hung u…
/r/askTRP02/10/18 03:42 AM
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Make sure to register an account at TRP.RED. They've already created a RedPillWoman section and you can link your Reddit account to the account you make on that site.
/r/RedPillWomen27/09/18 09:00 PM
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That video has nothing to do with what I'm talking about. I'm not promoting positive feel-good psychology and neither is Peterson. The call for individuals to personalize all responsibility -- a phenomena that is referred to in psychology as taking on an internal locus of control -- is not a sappy platitude. It's an extremely powerful tool for regaining control over an errant life. It is the audacity not to blame traffic for you being late to work once a week and to instead leave early enough th…
/r/askTRP22/09/18 05:51 PM
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He goes into great detail about why men become "alienated" from the system. It's almost always because of their lack of knowledge of either the existence of dominance hierarchies or their inability to adequately participate in them. I would hardly say that encouraging men to take up personal responsibility and try to be dominant in their life is Blue Pill.
/r/askTRP22/09/18 04:08 PM
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This is where Jordan Peterson comes in handy. It all starts with a single first step: clean your room. It may not literally be your room, but there are guaranteed to be critical parts of your life that you are neglecting. Do you let your laundry pile up? Does your car need an inspection? Are you putting off something at work (or do you need to start a job hunt to even find work?)? It all starts with finding one task that is surmountable and doing it. For me, cleaning my room and doing my laundry…
/r/askTRP22/09/18 05:18 AM
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Be reserved and have some humility when it comes to showing off your body. Men don't want to LTR women that are slutty and crude. Behaving like that will get you A LOT of attention, which is why most girls act that way, but they don't know that the attention they are getting will never turn into love and respect. It's only lust.
/r/RedPillWomen21/09/18 01:38 PM
1

You absolutely should just eat clean and lift.
/r/askTRP14/09/18 07:32 PM
2

Dread only works on women if you have a higher SMV than they do. You getting pissed off at guys trying to make you jealous is because of two things: 1. They are TRYING to make you jealous. Dread isn't about trying. That strikes me as very beta. 2. You were either equal or higher SMV than the men you were with and felt that while being good enough to date, they were not terribly irreplaceable.
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/18 11:51 PM
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I think that you would be very surprised by how traditional many RP men really are. The reason that TRP may look as if it supports cheating is because of the strict "no moralizing" rules that are enforced in the related subs. If a man wants to cheat and to ask other men for advice about how to do that successfully (get away with it), everyone is welcome to encourage him and give him advice, but trying to talk him out of it on moral grounds is strictly forbidden. This leads to threads on these to…
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/18 11:26 PM
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I almost always do 5 days a week. 3 is too few, even at 100%. A lot of serious bodybuilders still do a "4 day split". The general idea is that you separate the body parts out into groups and focus on one group per day until you've done all the groups for that week then you rest until next week. I broke it into 5 days, because it just felt better. Each sessions is 45-60 minutes long with 1.5-2 minute breaks between each set and 3-4 sets per exercise, depending on which movement it is. The above b…
/r/askTRP12/09/18 02:50 AM
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I think there can be a little confusion on this topic. Career and education are secondary relationship traits as far as men are concerned. Being sexually (keyword here) attractive is a primary relationship trait. It's not that men don't want women who have a work ethic, earn money, and have potential for a fruitful career. We just aren't even remotely sexually attracted to that. It's a bonus, but frankly speaking, if a man has a prospect that he finds even slightly more attractive than you sexua…
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/18 02:11 AM
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When you have to ask on Reddit.
/r/askTRP11/09/18 12:37 AM
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Hey, it looks like my comment on your last post wasn't far off... He wanted to feel like you are actually a fan of what he's doing. The moment he felt you were actually excited to see the performance, rather than just be there, he wanted to include you. I'm so glad this one has a happy ending.
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/18 09:35 PM
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Doing drugs is beta and talking about doing drugs in a medium that keeps a permanent record and passes through the internet backbone is asinine. Other than that I have no comment on your post or question.
/r/askTRP04/09/18 02:55 AM
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For reference, in actual TRP theory, men are encouraged to wait 2-3 days to text girls they are actually interested in. 12 hours is hardly a sign that he isn't interested in you.
/r/RedPillWomen04/09/18 02:51 AM
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Porn is always bad. It's not bad for moral, ethereal, or lovey-dovey feminist reasons either. Porn is bad because it rewards your brain for achieving nothing, saps your motivation and physical energy, and is a waste of an alpha-male's time.
/r/askTRP04/09/18 02:45 AM
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If you are close to your friends then you can just tell them. Don't do anything directly to tell the girls to stop or insinuate that their behavior is unacceptable. Women are masters of reputation sabotage and manipulating men into violence. Just deal with your bros directly.
/r/askTRP02/09/18 04:15 PM
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I think it's sort of a 10-80-10 rule. The least manipulative people in the bottom 10% are that way because of extreme personal effort to be better than that. The 80% in between operate more or less automatically and with varying degrees of manipulativeness largely based on their upbringing. The last 10% are deliberately as manipulative as possible and jump at every possible opportunity to take advantage of other people.
/r/askTRP30/08/18 02:41 PM
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Be more physically imposing than the men standing around you when you tell the joke. Self deprecation is fine when it's not the truest statement you've said all night. "I deal with crippling inadequacy about my body" is tongue in cheek when you are 190-200 at 8-10% bodyfat. If you are 135lbs or 250lbs at respectively 2% body fat or 35% body fat then it's more humorous in the tragic and overly honest sense. The whole "being suave" thing is seriously overblown. Just be attractive and set tasteful …
/r/askTRP29/08/18 11:47 PM
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You need not ask a bunch of strangers about how to answer one of the most important questions of your life. Read the sidebar and then ask this question to the only person whose opinion matters: yourself.
/r/askMRP29/08/18 02:25 PM
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This is the most disappointing thread I've ever seen on TRP. Don't let your insecurity turn into racism. This is literally mate guarding against an entire race. I hope that the posts in here are not indicative at what most RPers actually think. This shit's gross.
/r/askTRP29/08/18 01:04 PM
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Preacher curls are fine. Do them no more than 2 times a week as a beginner (preferably at least 5 days a part). Rep range should be 8-12 and extremely slow. The most common mistake with bicep curls is using too much weight. It's better to use slightly too little weight and just move slower than to use too much weight and have to compensate with some sort of kipping motion.
/r/askTRP29/08/18 04:28 AM
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I have a few employees who do this. It's a form of manipulation and it's extremely toxic and intolerable. I've had a few conversations about this with them, but my guess is that it's a learned behavior very young in life. My guess is that he was borderline abusively punished for admitting to mistakes as a child and learned that if he could find a good enough excuse he could get out of the abuse. While there's always a chance he can change, you need to ask yourself what your plan of action is in …
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/18 04:19 AM
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Unattractive guys ultimately have 2 directions they can go in. Be an Incel <-----------middleground----------> Not give an Eff Some guys have a sort of synthetic abundance, where they realize a girl is so conventionally out of their league that they don't give a damn about what she thinks of them. This is ironically really effective.
/r/askTRP29/08/18 04:11 AM
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Whether or not you care, this is never a bad sign.
/r/askTRP29/08/18 03:53 AM
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I'm married, so I could care less. Honestly, were I single again, I would try to find a girl from a culture outside of the US/UK/CAN/AUS. Where there is "Western" culture, there is feminism. However, there are plenty of cultures that still produce intelligent, traditional women who take care of their bodies.
/r/askTRP29/08/18 03:40 AM
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In 2018, there are women who actually believe that they are "perfect just the way they are". So, if she's a 10 in her mind and you are anything less, she's actually settling for you.
/r/askTRP29/08/18 03:34 AM
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Abundance starts with actually being desirable. Lift, read, and develop a strong frame. Women go crazy over men who check those boxes. Game =/= abundance. When you are desirable, you will know. Women will treat you differently and you will have casual conversations where you get IOIs that clearly tell you the woman you are talking to wants more than just to talk. Abundance is for you, not for them. Faking abundance would be like faking being happy; there's really no point in doing that.
/r/askTRP28/08/18 05:10 AM
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Look, you probably won't get it this time. When I was 18, I was also a hopeless loser, but listen up. Your whole post is just you being a massive clueless faggot. Read the sidebar and posts by older members and maybe you can stop being an idiot faster than any of us did. It took me until I was probably 24-25 to stop being a jackass. You have this incredible resource and can be done with all the BS by the time you are 19. Start now. Read as much as possible. Learn. You can do it.
/r/askTRP27/08/18 02:14 AM
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When people tell you to read the sidebar, they aren't telling you that the answer to your specific question is on the material and sending you on a mission to find it. They are saying that based on the fact that you even asked that question, you need the insight and personal development offered by the sidebar so that you can learn to ask the right questions. "How do I woo X girl" is always the wrong question. Read the sidebar. The whole sidebar. Start with the first book and then move to the sec…
/r/askTRP26/08/18 10:27 PM
1

"... make the sidebar your new girlfriend..." made me smile. Good tip.
/r/askTRP26/08/18 10:21 PM
1

It takes exactly 117 shoulder day sessions, each comprised of roughly 41.2 reps of exercises targeting rear delts.
/r/askTRP26/08/18 10:18 PM
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STFU is not the endgame goal. STFU is training wheels for stopping the stream of beta bullshit that comes out of most men's mouths. The ultimate goal is to develop a strong frame and an interesting character. Will this new you get less sucked into BS and ultimately talk a little less? Probably. Will you autistically stare blankly at the wall during social interactions? Probably not.
/r/askMRP25/08/18 12:21 PM
1

I've only ever had fat women call me skinny. It's probably just them trying to make you feel that between the two of you, if one of you is not of normal weight, it's you. It's a way of rationalizing their being bigger than average. That's my 2 cents at least.
/r/askTRP25/08/18 02:04 AM
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I read between sets. Every sidebar book I've read and about 3-4 others have all been read at the gym in the last 10 months. You will stand out a bit, but it definitely helps add more value to the time spent. My biggest hangup with working out is that it takes so long that I sometimes feel like I'm wasting my life. Reading fixes that problem for me.
/r/askTRP24/08/18 12:26 AM
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First off, take my "upvote". I expected defensiveness and I'm not usually surprised by people's responses on here. If you are willing to listen to the things that people say on here, you will improve much more than you are probably currently willing to even imagine. Whether or not you get frostbite is irrelevant, you don't need all your fingers and toes to be alpha. Chop it off and move on.
/r/askTRP24/08/18 12:16 AM
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You are creating patterns in the patternless and catastrophizing everyday life events. Having 2 sprained ankles doesn't mean you can't lift, it just means you need to change your routine to circumvent the need to use your ankles. Letting your parents decide how you cope with your injuries is your problem, not theirs. I've never heard of bronchitis affecting someone's ability to read self-improvement books. How the fuck does your dad being hospitalized have anything to do with your personal devel…
/r/askTRP23/08/18 05:26 PM
1

I assure you that if employers aren't calling you back, there's a reason. Very few people host interviews for the fun of it. I rarely bother reaching out to candidates that I haven't selected, but the 1-2 times that one of them has reached back out to me to ask, I've told them the truth. If you don't know why you aren't getting the gig, give them a call and just ask them what you could have done to present better or be more hirable.
/r/askTRP23/08/18 04:22 PM
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Let me offer you another flavor of RedPill that is talked about a little bit less around here. All friendships are conditional. The higher value people are, the more strategic their friendships are as well. In the same way that when you see a bunch of girls out at the bar, they are usually about 1 standard deviation of attractiveness apart at the most, all people select friends that are close to them in social value. When you find that your social value is exceeding those in your social circles …
/r/askTRP23/08/18 03:59 PM
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I find it highly unlikely that this girl is going to actually file a police report over this incident, but that being said, there's a lesson to be learned here. You are ultimately responsible for putting yourself in such a vulnerable situation. No one made you drink/smoke to the point where you were passing out. You need to own your shit and kick this habit. You say that you're high smv? Stop displaying extremely low value, because that's what you just did. Had you spent the whole evening displa…
/r/askTRP23/08/18 03:40 PM
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Stop drinking. Practice striking up conversations with people you aren't sexually interested in. Learn to talk and you will feel more comfortable cold approaching. Grow some balls. Realize that there is no guaranteed method for success and that everyone has to deal with rejection at some point.
/r/askTRP23/08/18 01:08 PM
2

Before: Meet her expectations. During: Last. After: Marry her.
/r/RedPillWomen23/08/18 03:32 AM
2

Yes. Keep in mind that he was about 25lbs~ underweight for his height. He probably put on about 20lbs of fat, 5-10lbs of water weight, and the rest muscle. He's still not perfect, but damn does he look better than he did. I've also been RP coaching him subtly while we lift (without him knowing) and he's gone from an N count of like 2 in his entire life to 2 new hookups in the past 5 months. He's made huge progress. He started out as a really average Joe and I've watched his whole life change for…
/r/askTRP23/08/18 12:09 AM
1

That was a comfort test, not a shit test.
/r/askTRP22/08/18 04:05 AM
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I'm training a guy who is 5'11" and was 140lbs when we started. Skin, bones, and awkwardly placed body fat. When we first started out, he could BARELY press the bar during bench press. We are talking like 4-5 miserable reps with a spot. He's been going religiously with me now for almost 9 months, and he weighs 180lbs and just did 135 on the bench for the first time last week. He got 6 reps of it with nearly perfect form. He's not gonna be on the cover of Men's Health this year, but he increased …
/r/askTRP22/08/18 03:30 AM
1

Because YGAF.
/r/askTRP19/08/18 10:18 PM
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This is the right place to ask this question, because people will give you brutal, non-pc answers. There will be perceptions about people from your country that are both good and bad, no matter where you are from. Emphasize and lean on the things that are considered good (joke about your high tolerance for alcohol, etc...) and diminish the things that are bad (don't have a unibrow). Something else that I think is extremely important is to be proud of where you are from. Develop an unshakeable fr…
/r/askTRP19/08/18 01:12 AM
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The reality is that the things that attract men to women are all innate. We like: Beautiful faces, bodies that haven't been ruined by bad habits, and youth. The things that attract women to men, in many cases, must be developed. They like: Handsome faces, good physiques (that for men require years of hard work), good careers, confidence, and high social status. 4/5 of those are not intrinsic attributes, but things that have to be gained after years and sometimes decades of hard work.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/18 09:37 PM
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After you ask her about her bag, you should ask her if she would enjoy going for a bikini wax with you before you take her out to the gay bar. Women like men who have the balls to just be direct with them.
/r/askTRP15/08/18 03:40 AM
1

RP men train themselves to assume AWALT for the same reason most people learn to lock their houses and cars at night. Not everyone who walks through your neighborhood is trying all the doors that they walk past, but there are people that do this and they probably walk through every neighborhood. You can meet 10,000 good Samaritans throughout your life, but no one gets to meet more than one Jeffrey Dahmer. I think AWALT is often misconstrued to mean that women are not trustworthy. I think it's mo…
/r/askTRP15/08/18 03:26 AM
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It sounds like you are on the path to something healthier. It's important to remember that when we travel this path of taking more personal responsibility for the things that happen to us in our life, or "owning our shit", we can sometimes focus on the wrong things. Is it your fault that you acted like a complete beta and created an environment where something like this could occur? Yes, it is. However, is it your fault that your wife ultimately is doing what she is? No, it's not. Your portion o…
/r/askMRP14/08/18 04:25 AM
4

Q: "...scarcity..." A: Abundance.
/r/askTRP09/08/18 10:42 PM
3

Accidentally cross-post this exact post on a mostly female sub and your inbox will explode with new girlfriends.
/r/askTRP09/08/18 10:38 PM
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10%, right. Bro, 10% feelings aren't even a chub. You have oneitis.
/r/askTRP09/08/18 10:34 PM
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Early 20s. I was abstinent until after we tied the knot. 0 regrets.
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/18 10:11 PM
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I don't care what all the feminists in society shriek at the top of their lungs. I wouldn't have even considered marrying a girl who wasn't a virgin. It made a huge difference to me when I was deciding to marry the girl I'm with.
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/18 12:40 PM
1

Philosophy is the evolutionary precursor to the manosphere as far as I'm concerned. Religion is basically Philosophy repackaged as reality. At it's best, it's really high-quality. At its worst, it's culture-eroding dogma. Just take it with a grain of salt and always make sure to remove the implicit/explicit threat of hell and damnation present in almost all religions. Only in doing this are you able to clearly evaluate religious allegories on their intellectual merit.
/r/askTRP08/08/18 05:40 AM
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A huge part of TRP is learning that hypergamy exists and finding a sexual strategy to either circumvent it (as in TRP) or try to combat it (as in MRP). The open relationship community embraces hypergamy at no real gain to the man. A high-value man can gain all the benefits of an open relationship without being married or committed. A woman simply can't do that. That's why open relationships are an asymmetrical power-dynamic that always favors the woman. She gets your financial commitment and hel…
/r/askMRP05/08/18 11:51 PM
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This post is a huge mess. TRP and cuckoldry are complete opposites. You need to decide which path you want to go down before you post anymore.
/r/askMRP05/08/18 10:04 PM
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This post is exactly what's wrong with the 99% of the West right now. None of any of the bullshit you are saying has anything to do with how much success you can achieve. Please stop regurgitating critical theory and read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP05/08/18 12:12 AM
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This is against the law in a lot of places. Libel/defamation and in this instance, a case might even be made that it was a form of identity theft.
/r/askTRP04/08/18 11:56 PM
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Assertiveness is the most important thing you can have. Assertiveness is where confidence meets action. I know plenty of very confident guys who more or less keep to themselves and don't get that much action. I know very few assertive guys who don't get action. If you are assertive and direct (no bs) in approaching women that you find attractive, you WILL have some degree of success. That being said, you can't discount looks.
/r/askTRP04/08/18 11:41 PM
1

Any real contact sports will make a man out of you. That being said, they are extremely physically grueling. If you have trouble eating enough to gain while lifting, adding more training to that will make you have to eat even more.
/r/askTRP04/08/18 11:35 PM
5

The end goal is not a one-size-fits-all. This may bother some people, but only the greatest of men are allowed to have an end game at all. It sounds like you may be approaching that category. What's a field you admire that you'd like to leave your mark in? Are there disadvantaged people in this world that you'd like to help? No one can tell you the answer to this question. TRP doesn't imply an end game. TRP just puts you on the path. The end of your path is too individual for anyone else to help…
/r/askTRP04/08/18 11:31 PM
5

Think of your confidence as a form of brand marketing. Everyone can also probably name a few terrible products that people buy up like crazy. Think of Apple. Subpar products almost across the board. Under-powered tech for next year's prices. They simply have the best marketing in the game. They just created a brand image people want to be a part of. Create an image of yourself that men and women want to be a part of. You'll notice that all of the less good looking guys who get a lot of girls all…
/r/askTRP04/08/18 11:27 PM
1

I've only ever had to hard next two friends. One of them for being a serial flake and never having the balls to admit why he was flaking (there was always an excuse). The other 'cause he was too needy to handle.
/r/askTRP04/08/18 04:24 AM
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Girls who want sex from you will go to great lengths to hide the existence of any other men in their life from you. I hear the Earth is really beautiful looking from orbit.
/r/askTRP04/08/18 04:09 AM
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You are wrong because it's not other guy's responsibility for your girl to not cheat on you. If your girl is respectful enough to deserve being in an LTR with you, she will tell the guy to take a hike all by herself. If you feel the need to intervene there's a lot else wrong with the situation.
/r/askTRP04/08/18 03:58 AM
3

As long as you don't ever overtly lie to her about being exclusive then she knows the full deal and has no one to blame but herself for sticking around.
/r/askTRP04/08/18 02:07 AM
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No need to call my opinion bullshit. Artists care about their significant other liking there work. Why do you think John Lennon put up with that abomination, Yoko Ono? She was really into what he was doing. Instead of attacking me with a logically fallacious statement that begs the question, why don't you present a counter argument? I shared my anecdotal experience and even qualified it as maybe not being accurate. Add something of value to the discussion if you think I'm off base.
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/18 01:41 AM
1

I did freelance personal training for about a year. Don't do this. It's a liability. I did this to sort of test the waters before I got certified (which is required by nearly every gym before they will hire you). Personal training is interesting. As with most forms of coaching, it often isn't quite about the thing it's about. Training successfully is much less about educating people on how to exercise and much more about somehow convincing them to be consistent with it. A lot of it is about sett…
/r/askTRP03/08/18 04:23 PM
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I have also been very serious about art/music in the past and I have some insights to offer, though I may be wrong ultimately. Your first statement is pretty telling: ...suffice it to say that even though I'm not particularly a fan... Trust me, he is fully aware of what you just said. Despite caring about you and loving you, he probably feels bothered on some level that you are not a fan. Without you coming to shows, he may be able to compartmentalize the fact that you clearly aren't actually th…
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/18 03:40 PM
3

I was depressed for about 8 years. The reality is that depression, as we regard it in western society, isn't real. At least in my own experience, my "depression" was the result of my personal development stagnating for a very long and arduous part of my life. Feeling depressed is a result of not taking any personal responsibility to gain the things you want from life. It is a state of excuses and unwillingness to make absolutely necessary changes to reset the course of your life to something fru…
/r/askTRP03/08/18 06:31 AM
1

What happened to the OP? It was a great post. At any rate, it's working out well. I've only been doing it a week and not EXACTLY the way that you are, but close enough. I decided to sleep less and only let myself go to bed after completing at least one task from a list of small, digestible tasks that I've given myself for the week. It worked really well for about 5 days (like extremely well, I got a ton done) then on about the 5th day I crashed really hard. I still ultimately got way more done t…
/r/TheRedPill03/08/18 05:16 AM
2

Posts like this make me wish on some level that the feminists win.
/r/askTRP03/08/18 03:39 AM
2

I've been experimenting with something like this as well. Thanks for the insightful post.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/18 03:34 AM
1

If you don't want to be lean then don't be lean. It only increases your life expectancy, quality of life, energy levels, chance of getting laid, athleticism, and possibly even gives you a leg up for certain employment opportunities. I can see why you wouldn't want any of that.
/r/askTRP03/08/18 03:28 AM
1

I dunno, they are both kind of getting used. A "man" who works 3 days a week is really just a glorified child. They both get whatever they get from each other and are both kind of hopeless from an RP perspective.
/r/askTRP03/08/18 02:58 AM
2

Your career choice does not make you an alpha by default. Watch the actual video, his behavior is pretty cringe.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/18 12:16 AM
1

You don't seem to get it. At TRP, we don't strive to just be "alpha" in our actions. We strive to be a true alpha. One of the most important elements of being alpha is the unspoken element. Patrice can convince someone that he is alpha quite quickly with his words, but what woman looks at him and gets tingles? The alpha mentality creates dread and desire in the women who are already accessible to you through your current SMV. However, if you are low SMV, who the fuck actually cares if the 4-5s t…
/r/askTRP01/08/18 03:30 AM
2

In the same way that being a great coach doesn't mean you are a great football player, understanding alpha mentality and frame doesn't make you chad. There is a certain physicality to being chad just like there is a certain physicality to being a professional football player. Patrice is a cool dude, and you can learn a lot of great stuff from him, but how many teenage girls do you think had his poster on their wall growing up?
/r/askTRP31/07/18 03:16 AM
2

If you can't even control what goes in your mouth, I don't think there's much of a case that could be made for you being "deceptively alpha". Being alpha is more than just a mindset. It's not something that can be just turned on or off, like pickup artists would have you believe. Being alpha is about developing frame and a huge part of frame is the actual circumstances of your life that you've created and choose to live in each day. No one wants to be fat and therefore it's incompatible with an …
/r/askTRP30/07/18 12:56 PM
2

Kind of surprised by some of the comments here. The correct answer is simple. What do you want? Do you still have some sexual interest in her? If so, ask her why she is contacting you again. State exactly what your interest in her is with something like this: "We are either going to meet up at X place at X time on X day for X activity or I don't see why we would continue communicating". If you aren't interested in her anymore than either ignore her or block her again.
/r/askTRP30/07/18 01:46 AM
2

Don't make your insecurity and lack of abundance some other dude's problem.
/r/askTRP29/07/18 11:47 PM
1

If nothing else, writing is an awesome tool for memorization. It feels like it interacts with your brain differently than nearly everything else does. I could practice another language for hours and remember/learn very little. If I spend that much time writing sentences down and vocabulary, I retain WAY more.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/18 04:38 AM
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...Stuff that would make Justin Trudeau's jaw drop. Another man's penis, perhaps?
/r/askTRP27/07/18 02:42 AM
1

Have you guys ever stuck with something you started to dislike doing purely for gains elsewhere? Yeah, working.
/r/askTRP26/07/18 06:40 AM
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This is exactly the sort of question I expect from the next generation of "everyone wins a prize" snowflakes. Sometimes the answer is actually the hard road. When you feel the urge to do it, you just don't. You will feel a building discomfort and when you feel this, you still don't. The discomfort will become nearly overwhelming and when you feel this, you continue not doing it. After about 40-50 days of this, the discomfort slowly starts subsiding. Congratulations, you've been a man.
/r/askTRP25/07/18 11:57 PM
1

Be careful. Any time you feel you need significantly less sleep suddenly (and "feel great on 6 hours"), there's a chance that you are actually entering a manic state. Mood swings are never good for us, even if they are an upswing. A downswing will always follow. Try to balance out even your highs and your lows will be more balanced as well.
/r/askTRP24/07/18 05:20 AM
10

Many people will likely disagree with this statement, but porn is actually a twisted form of a self-love. The porn is definitely a huge problem. A lot of men cope with porn because it somehow makes them feel validated by women. It sounds like your husband may have a deep-seated issue with feeling valuable. He needs to feel like he's capable of being good enough for you. This comes from you giving sincere, heartfelt compliments about the effort that he makes for you and your family. Most women do…
/r/RedPillWomen20/07/18 02:06 AM
2

This is bang on. Terminology is extremely important. Careful use of our words is what separates TRP from things like SJW culture (obviously not the only thing that separates use, but you get it). Men are promiscuous -- and it could be debated that we are more promiscuous than women -- but they are not hypergamous. Promiscuity =/= hypergamy.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/18 10:33 PM
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You correctly identified hypergamy and AWALT and this a solid post, but one thing needs to be clarified: This content =/= branch swinging. Sounds like she just wanted a side bang. That is not what branch swinging is. Branch swinging is completely leaving one relationship for another. There is definitely not enough information available for us to jump to that conclusion, unless she had subtly mentioned that she planned on divorce raping her current husband. She's not leaving a millionaire for "a …
/r/TheRedPill18/07/18 04:39 PM
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I'm guessing you are a virgin. I know this answer might rock your world, but live because there are better things than sex anyways (not knocking sex, it's great). Climb a mountain in the cold. Get to the top. Exhale fully. Inhale fully. Survey the land. Be a human on this incredible planet. It's so awesome.
/r/askTRP18/07/18 02:49 AM
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I'm gonna guess you are on the young side. I could be wrong. The reality is that not everyone gets a prize in life and men instinctively know this from birth. If you want to respect yourself and gain real respect from others, you have to be good at something admirable. That's all there is to it.
/r/askTRP18/07/18 02:06 AM
13

You are acting way too rambo. The getting out of bed to drive around at 10pm move is pretty lame (I did this once during the throws of my anger phase, too). Acting angry, butthurt, and passive aggressive is not having frame. Your top priority should be delaying this marriage right now and trying to find some emotional stability. You are still in the clutches of early TRP fury and need some time to collect yourself. It took me about 5 months to simmer down. I know it's easy to assume that we know…
/r/askMRP16/07/18 03:44 AM
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As long as you found them attractive at one point in the relationship and clearly express that I think it's ok. If you've never found them attractive to begin with, that's a whole other can of worms that is beyond the scope of what most people will be able to help you deal with.
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/18 10:08 PM
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I know it's frowned upon here, but watch some RSD stuff. RSD Tyler is a great example of a guy who knows how to self-deprecate just enough to be really entertaining, but not seem seriously low self-esteem. There's definitely a balance. It's one thing to crack a joke about "your small penis" to pass a shit test. It's another thing for "your small penis" to become a reoccuring theme that you use as a crutch to try and get laughs over and over. Women assume a joke is a joke and a theme is probably …
/r/askTRP15/07/18 04:59 PM
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Understand that many times the first thing out of a genuinely attractive woman's mouth will be a harsh shit test. Cold approach is a whole different ball game from other forms of meeting people. It's much harder if you don't know how to do it and much easier if you do. You can set yourself apart from 95%+ men by simply not acting rejected after the initial "go fuck yourself" shit test. AA, laugh it off and initiate a conversation. Ask yourself: "if Russell Peters was on the town gaming women and…
/r/askTRP15/07/18 04:37 PM
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India is the second most populated country in the world and it's nearly 100% homogenous. Indian women seem to love having sex with Indian men. There's always that option at least. You may need to post pictures if you really want help. I assure you that whiteness is not what you are lacking.
/r/askTRP15/07/18 02:19 AM
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Your initial post reeks of low self-esteem. I'm not buying this "best I can be without surgery" bit. You have sold yourself a narrative that you are not good enough. Why do you believe that? Why are you attached to the idea that you can't improve the aspects of yourself that are holding you back? Until you decide that the things that are setting you back are things within your control, you are wasting your time even posting here. TRP is about personal development. Figure out what you want to dev…
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/18 05:28 PM
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Your views of race are unhealthy. For what it's worth, I've never been particularly attracted to white women and I'm white. Everyone is different. There are plenty of men of every color and SMV that prefer non-white women. The most important tenet of TRP is to not allow yourself to have excuses that will hold you back from reaching your potential. You need to challenge yourself to be the best you can be. I promise you that if you take care of your appearance and workout to become awesomely fit, …
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/18 04:38 PM
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You don't fully understand abundance. You just wrote a wall of text about a girl. TRP is not about girls, it's about you.
/r/askTRP13/07/18 03:06 PM
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Your whole dynamic makes me uncomfortable. The impression that I get from your post, which may or may not be accurate, is that she basically talks to you like a naughty and rebellious child. I couldn't handle even one night of the crap you just went through. Not telling her your intentions was immature as hell. How can she even attempt to be a first officer when the "captain" gives no orders? Be assertive for the love of God. You don't have to be a domineering asshole to tell her that two Saturd…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/07/18 01:42 PM
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Your relationship sucks, but I don't think you want our help. I've read all of your responses to the people trying to help you figure this stuff out and your responses are garbage rationalization for why you should allow this girl to treat you like dirt. You keep saying stuff about how you think you are the type of guy that she wants, she just wants to change you a little bit. What horseshit. If you were a prize to her, she would treat you like a prize. She treats you like an undesirable lump of…
/r/askTRP06/07/18 01:30 PM
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We call each other faggots here because feeling insulted is an effective learning tool. You correctly realized that you handled that situation poorly. It doesn't seem to have screwed up your chances this time, but remember that it could have. That's the takeaway.
/r/askTRP05/07/18 04:57 PM
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You showed a lack of a combination of the following: 1. Confidence. 2. Knowing what you want. 3. Assertivenss. Those are all highly desirable traits in a man that you missed the opportunity to demonstrate, thus reducing your value. If you still feel like pursuing her, you have to recover value. Say something like "I'm accustomed to girls chasing me". It's kind of a cop out, but it's really the best I can think of given your circumstances. Best of luck.
/r/askTRP05/07/18 04:42 PM
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You can certainly treat this as a shit test, but she's actually just calling you out for being a faggot.
/r/askTRP05/07/18 04:20 PM
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There are three basic routes to dealing with this. The easiest solution is probably to tell him to go away and leave you alone. The next easiest is to just change your gym (you already said you can't change what time you go). This is the hard option. If you feel genuine sympathy for him, put him onto a sidebar book that you think would be appropriate for him and make that a condition of your continued "friendship". Something like this could work: "Hey man, your situation sucks, but it also doesn…
/r/askTRP05/07/18 01:41 AM
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Thank God someone said it. My eye started twitching while reading those lines.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/18 11:50 AM
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Impressive stories. What were your stats at the time? How would you rate your SMV? Rough estimate of body fat, etc... I'm curious.
/r/askTRP04/07/18 01:45 AM
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This is a very attractive rationalization for being less than the best you can be. You can't choose to be outside of the dominance hierarchy. You either choose where you sit on it or everyone else does, but there is nothing adjacent to the dominance hierarchy. This entire video is actually just attacking a strawman construction of the definition of "alpha" behavior that we frequently see referenced in pop culture. It pointlessly illustrates the juxtaposition between characteristics that it false…
/r/askTRP04/07/18 01:20 AM
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It's not a book for "asserting masculine presence". It's a book that deals with understanding the subtleties of emotional manipulation, how to identify it, and how to overcome it. Many of the books on the TRP sidebar would not be appropriate for women. This one is, and if you had read it, you would know that.
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/18 05:48 PM
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It's not a "male" book just because it's on the RP sidebar. It's a book that helps with the exact thing that she's going through. It's loaded with examples of him using these techniques to improve the lives of his female clients as well.
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/18 03:58 PM
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Honestly, I would just leave the relationship. She sent a bunch of links, of content that she hasn't even read, to her family in order to get them to gang up on you? Just put your nose down into the sidebar, lift, develop frame, raise your SMV, and after all that, take a good hard look at the kind of bullshit you were dealing with. You may have been a bluepilled faggot and a mess of a man, but she's manipulative beyond what I would even attempt to fix.
/r/askMRP30/06/18 01:47 AM
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It's not even close to too late for you. You will be fine. 22 is plenty young. If you dedicate yourself you can be in good shape in just a few months. Remember, it's not actually about weight specifically (don't take what we've said here and develop an eating disorder). It's about utilizing the frame that you were given at birth to the best of your ability. Bring yourself to 18-20% body fat and actually lift weights. The goal is to look, and actually be, extremely healthy. That's what people fin…
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/18 11:34 PM
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The blunt truth is that you are overweight and most guys don't care about your education. I also have a sneaking suspicion that you know this to be the case and you put on an arrogant front, pretend that you think men should value your education more, and then belittle them based on their educational level (which you see as inferior to your own). You are avoiding dealing with your insecurities by convincing yourself that they are not the things that your Sexual Market Value (SMV) is based upon. …
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/18 10:48 PM
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I can give you the stats for when it started happening to me. I'm 6'0 and around the time I was 165lbs with my naturally low body fat (about 12% at the time) women started noticing. My biceps were probably around 16" at time, so actually not really that huge at all (think Brad Pitt in Troy). The situations where this occurs vary quite a bit, but it does happen. It first started happening to me in bars, where some desperate heavy girl would grab my bicep and make some comment about how fit I am. …
/r/askMRP29/06/18 08:12 PM
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I am gonna give you a real answer, since I feel some honest sympathy for you. You JUST finished NMMNG, aka the first book on the side bar. You are deep in the anger phase by now. During this part of your journey, more than any other part, you should be shutting the fuck up, not asserting yourself. Let's look at something you said that was a bit of a poor move and we can analyze why you most likely did it: This evening she was heading away for the weekend. She asked for a kiss good bye i said onl…
/r/askMRP29/06/18 07:31 PM
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I'm not going to lie to you. You either get the most gains you can and stop running or you keep running and gain way less. Look at marathon runners and try to find one who is really huge. There just aren't any. There's a reason for that.
/r/askTRP29/06/18 05:56 PM
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I'd say you've smoked enough already.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/18 05:48 PM
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Running is poison to gains.
/r/askTRP29/06/18 04:58 PM
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Read "When I Say No, I Feel Guilty" by Manuel J. Smith. You need to develop healthy coping mechanisms for emotional manipulation. The "Fogging" technique is just one of many that will greatly improve your life experience.
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/18 04:51 PM
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I don't really even know how to reply to this post. You talk about the people in "social circles" as if they are a different species. Everyone has social circles that they get together with every now and then. Everyone also goes out in small groups or alone sometimes, too. Social circles are literally made out of the exact same people that you find anywhere else. Oh, when people go out with their longtime friends they bring their SOs? You don't say?
/r/TheRedPill24/06/18 02:49 AM
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This man speaks the truth. Looks can get you a lot if you use them, but they aren't everything. In high school/ college I was probably around a 5-6 (considering 5 as a total average). I pulled literally the 2 hottest girls in my high school over WAY hotter guys than myself. Game is extremely real. The first step of having incredible game is giving 0 fucks about whether or not you get rejected. I got rejected probably 50% of the time as a teenager. It was brutal at first, like life-shatteringly b…
/r/askTRP24/06/18 12:56 AM
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That's not what AWALT means. I'm gonna go out on a limb and suggest that you were acting butthurt to her in some way or another. Women despise butthurt. If your physical stats are real then you are a pretty big dude, so I seriously doubt that it's related to you being physically attractive. Just lighten up and don't take shit so seriously. You literally voluntarily shit-tested yourself just to fail it. Read your post again and look for what I'm talking about.
/r/askMRP24/06/18 12:40 AM
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20% body fat is where the vast majority of non-lifting men sit naturally. It's not aesthetically awesome, but it's not necessarily unhealthy or terrible looking. Honestly, the information that you've received is just wrong. Peoples' bodies differ a little bit, but ultimately the way that lifting and gaining works is science. Do what you wish, but I would at the very least encourage you to read more and watch some Youtube videos before you decide to drop 20 pounds. I've been lifting for quite awh…
/r/askTRP23/06/18 10:47 PM
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You don't need to be cutting weight desperately if you are 185 at 5'10". There's no sense in the cut>bulk>cut workout plan. Why would you go through a cutting phase twice (and even if you didn't think that was your plan, that's what it will turn out to be if you cut then bulk). Seriously just lift. You are probably in the ballpark of 20% bodyfat right now, which is really not a bad starting point at all. You need to do the following things: Pick a plan and get started right away. Focus on consis…
/r/askTRP23/06/18 04:21 AM
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Yes. I've gradually been getting better and better about it. You are the sum of your habits. When a Christian wants to follow the words of Jesus, they don't read the Bible once. They read the Bible daily, go to church at least once a week, and possibly participate in small groups. You need to find a book or resource that you can treat like a Bible. NMMNG is not a bad idea. You need to constantly have awareness of what both being a nice guy and not being a nice guy looks like. Always have these t…
/r/askTRP23/06/18 04:03 AM
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This post is awesome. Thanks for the inspiration. Best of luck in your continued journey.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/18 02:15 AM
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When I first found the RedPill it rocked me to my core. I felt like everything I was told was a lie and I didn't even know who I was anymore. We talk a lot on TRP about things like building "frame" and developing yourself, but sometimes you have to literally build yourself again first. It's very difficult, frustrating, and exhausting to undo years of beta behavior. I found myself getting mad at myself so often. You start to catch all the little things that you are doing to self sabotage your val…
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/18 05:01 PM
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The anger phase is temporary, but for most men it's unavoidable. You should consider writing a letter to him that reads very similarly to the post you just wrote. Being open an honest about how you are feeling is really the only thing that you can do. If he really wants to raise his self worth then he needs to start doing things like lifting and reading. Encourage him. It's ok to leave if he becomes abusive, but if he gets on the right path then this journey will eventually turn him into an awes…
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/18 02:47 PM
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Go John Mayer on them. Yeah, I'm traveling the world, but first I'm traveling your body.
/r/askTRP22/06/18 12:42 PM
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You keep mentioning SMV yet you don't post any stats. Post your lifts, your sidebar reading, etc...
/r/askTRP22/06/18 11:38 AM
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At 6'1" 183lbs you do not need to be cutting. Just lift religiously and see what happens with your metabolism. You may be pleasantly surprised or you may not be, but you never cut while starting lifting. New lifters are totally unconditioned. You need to eating healthy, taking as many positive supplements as you can, and eating in a caloric surplus. Abs are way less important than size is.
/r/askTRP22/06/18 04:55 AM
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Just do whatever you will stick with. I've been doing jaw exercise for about 4 months. I think I've probably hit close to my genetic max for what muscle I can reasonably expect to pack on. It didn't do much for my actual jawline honestly, but those muscles cover a lot of area on your head and I think it made my face look better overall. It's a subtle but still worthwhile difference. I plan on doing it more or less indefinitely.
/r/askTRP22/06/18 04:20 AM
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Somewhat. Your bone structure is not going to change, but you can develop the muscles quite a bit. It's a better to have a weak jaw with well defined muscles than a weak jaw with no muscle definition.
/r/askTRP22/06/18 04:11 AM
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She's an angry, insecure, BPD fembot who probably spends 12 hours a day rewatching '90s Disney movies and fantasizing about the "toxic" male culture that she constantly bemoans on her 11 social media accounts.
/r/askTRP22/06/18 04:08 AM
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Beginner's Guide To Using Steroids Safely: Don't.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/18 02:47 AM
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Do you have a good social circle of other men who are RP aware and leading interesting lives?
/r/askTRP20/06/18 08:30 PM
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These are some really great questions. I think it's always appropriate to broach the topic of what you ultimately want. It can be hard in an extremely casual setting to do it without killing the mood, but I'm sure you will find a way. People don't go fishing without the expectation of maybe catching a fish, just like they don't date without the expectation of some kind of relationship potentially coming out of it. It's ok to state that you aren't interested in a fling or a ONS. I will explain th…
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/18 06:43 PM
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You need self worth. Do you have a mission in your life? If you were to be on your deathbed tomorrow, are there non-sexual goals you would regret not having achieved? You need a mission more than you need sex. Having a mission will give your life meaning and leaving a meaningful life will imbue you with a feeling of self worth.
/r/askTRP20/06/18 05:33 PM
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It sounds like you are on the right path, albeit a little early in the journey with those lifts. I honestly think you just have to get your mind into a more positive place. The way you feel in each given moment is the sum of the things you spend your time on. You spend a tremendous amount of time and energy on incel-related stuff that is extremely emotionally toxic. Please read The Mindful Attraction Plan next. It will help you understand the importance of taking away the aspects of your life th…
/r/askTRP20/06/18 05:04 PM
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You have to salvage yourself from the cesspools that you mentally bath in every day. You can't participate in "incel" culture and then expect to love yourself. If you can get an erection for sex naturally then you can do it with the girls you are struggling with. I think to move forward we need your full stats. What have you read. List each book and how many times. What are your lifts? Height, weight, and body fat. How much money do you earn? Have you ever in your life had a successful sexual en…
/r/askTRP20/06/18 04:36 PM
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There are a few things that can definitely help to make these sorts of boundaries clear. Don't wait until the moment arises to start drawing boundaries. You should have clear boundaries set from the earliest moment that it's not uncomfortable to talk about. If you tend to have problems with this sort of thing on date 4-5, casually mention your boundary about sex outside of exclusivity on date 2. Use very deliberate language. Avoid saying things like "I don't want to Netflix and Chill". Instead s…
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/18 04:30 PM
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How much of the sidebar have you actually read? You still give way too much of a fuck and seem to have very little or no frame. I just went to your comment history and it was very eye opening. You have an extreme defeatist attitude in general. You comment in the worst parts of the RP aware community constantly. You let this shit devour your personal philosophy and leave you with nothing but a shell of pure Nihilism. People here can help you, but only if you are willing to help yourself. You have…
/r/askTRP20/06/18 03:51 PM
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A lot of being good in bed is just her being turned on. You achieve this by being attractive to her. You can last for 30 minutes of intense penetration and be hypothetically "great" at nearly all aspects of sex, but her enjoyment of it and her likelihood of orgasming is really mostly hinging on how hot she perceives you as being. You need to just work on yourself. Read the side bar and develop your frame. Feel like you are a man of the kind of quality that no sane woman would want to pass up, es…
/r/askTRP20/06/18 04:25 AM
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Read the side bar.
/r/askTRP19/06/18 02:15 PM
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You aren't bad looking, but you have a terrible personality. You need to go to TRP and devour the sidebar. You need to get your shit together. I'll give you a quick rundown of your first day as a Red Pilled man. Day 1: Download No More Mr. Nice Guy and go get a gym membership. Use Stronglifts, 5x5, or really any program at all that has a decent following. I have a once fat friend who started P90X 2 months ago and looks like a different person now. Just do something. Day 2: Read more of NMMNG and…
/r/TheRedPill15/06/18 07:08 PM
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You aren't bad looking, but you have a terrible personality. You need to go to TRP and devour the sidebar. You need to get your shit together. I'll give you a quick rundown of your first day as a Red Pilled man. Day 1: Download No More Mr. Nice Guy and go get a gym membership. Use Stronglifts, 5x5, or really any program at all that has a decent following. I have a once fat friend who started P90X 2 months ago and looks like a different person now. Just do something. Day 2: Read more of NMMNG and…
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/18 06:48 PM
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Plain as day. You are a virgin who had has done oral before.
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/18 03:37 PM
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Simple. You are in her frame. The give away was when you mentioned you had shutdown your instagram. Instagram is a photo sharing website. I literally use it to develop my business and network with clients (art related). It's not Tinder or a dating site. This woman has created the world in which you live. You can do all the RP techniques in the world to respond to her texts and accusations, but you will still go to bed tonight in her frame. Until that changes you are never going to get anywhere. …
/r/askMRP15/06/18 02:42 PM
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You care way too much about what others, even your father, think. You need to keep reading and internalize your metrics for value. Once you have decided what makes you valuable, you can work towards attaining it. Read, read, read.
/r/askTRP15/06/18 02:24 PM
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Amen. That's what I did and I'm so much happier now.
/r/askTRP15/06/18 02:15 PM
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This is the person I've been waiting to be mean to ever since I discovered TRP. Jk. I used to be horribly addicted to video games. I played competitively also. I got into the top level of every game I played. Do you know who gives a fuck about that last sentence I wrote? Absolutely no one. Sure, people say stuff like this all the time, "no one cares that you are good at this game". But have you really truly internalized that? Because it's true. No one of any significant value in this world gives…
/r/askTRP15/06/18 04:20 AM
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I read the community rules just to make sure I wasn't posting anything inappropriate. It says in the rules: This is NOT Purple Pill Debate RPW does not exist to justify our beliefs. If you have a problem with this sub, its overall mission statement, or any of the users on this sub – move along. We are not going to engage in useless debates. I read this to mean that posts should strictly follow RP theory and not anything that would be construed as Purple. That's why I posted what I did.
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/18 04:01 AM
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I just discovered this subreddit today and I'm incredibly pleased to know that such a thing as this even exists, but I'm still going to have to call you out. Your post is not a Red Pill. It's a Purple Pill. I understand why it would be tempting to rationalize a Purple Pill as being the ultimate solution, from a female perspective, but I promise you it's not. ...The ideal happy medium (therefore) is to marry a beta male with a some alpha traits. This can only be accomplished if both husband and w…
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/18 12:54 AM
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The correct response to this is, "Shut up, Eleven."
/r/askTRP14/06/18 04:44 AM
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Just reverse the situation. If a cute girl walked up to you and wanted to flirt, how much would it actually matter what her opener was? It wouldn't. You get it? Just don't say something extremely off-putting and you will be fine.
/r/askTRP14/06/18 03:29 AM
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The issue is not whether or not men will be happy with this. The issue is actually extremely simple: Men would rather have sex with lower value women than not have sex at all. Women would rather not have sex at all than have sex with lower-value men. Women are selecting for both situations.
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