Hi All,

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Currently reading The Rational Male, Art of Seduction and tactical guide to women. Lift, bjj, muy thai, kickboxing.

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My wife was on a business trip for work the past week, home this weekend and then back on another trip next week. Not worried at all that she will cheat/DGAF if she does.

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On her trip, I tried to keep texting to a minimum, I knew she was busy, so I didn't initiate any conversations via text. A few nights during the trip she facetime'd me to tell me about her day, etc. The entirety of the week, I focused hard on hitting the gym and my MMA stuff. Also just started doing no fap again, so by the time she got home this weekend, I was ready to burst. I won't cheat on my wife, but her hamster gets spinning hard if other girls show me attention.

She got home late Friday night from the airport and we were both exhausted by the time we got in bed. Went to sleep, woke up for work the next day, she came to work with me to help me out for the day, I needed help and none of my friends were available.

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We got home, dinner, etc. Laying in bed, she's complaining about how awful our clients were that day (they were super annoying, but I stayed focused at work to get shit done).

Wife: Those people were so fucking annoying, blah blah blah, etc.

Me: Yeah the day was a bit rough, but we can make it better, shit grin, eye wink, gay shit to suggest we should have sex.

She had a positive response, we continue talking. I forget what she said, but I basically mentioned that if we don't have sex this weekend, I'm gunna need a hall pass so I can fuck our neighbor. I said it in a humorous way, half kidding, half serious.

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HAMSTER engaged.

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For the next 5 min she was teasing/shit test/comfort testing me about fucking the neighbor and I could tell she was getting horny. I stayed in my IDGAF attitude. I pulled her pants off and as I'm doing it, I tell her that I expect some good sex from her. She's super into it, all fun, etc.

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We finish, she's cleaning herself up, I'm laying in bed. The first thing she says:

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Semi-shit test: You forgot to water the plants on the balcony, they're def going to die, I keep the blinds open so you are able to see that it needs to get done. Complain, complain, blah blah blah.

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I laugh, say they're plants, who gives a shit. Not my responsibility.

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Shit test ends, she cuddles with me until we fall asleep.

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Since reading stuff here on TRP and MRP, I've learned to pay closer attention to things, even small shit tests like the one about the plants. I've learned about how to sometimes subtly and other times broadly engaging her hamster.

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I think No Fap has made me change as well. I used to jerk off a few times a week and I think it turned me into a bitch. Doing no fap, I felt as if I didn't care if we had sex or not, I didn't worry about it, I know that if she doesn't give me any, I could easily get it elsewhere with the confidence boost I have from being all jacked up.

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So my question is: Does anyone have any ideas on how to subtly continue this slight dread with her? I'm going to stay busy while shes on her next trip, gym, MMA, etc. I can't use the same line again that I'm going to fuck the neighbor, like ever. I want to continue her feeling this way without throwing it in her face so obviously. Any tips on this?