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| 3 | FR: What happens if you divorce after MRPTruth. There is light at the end of the tunnel. If you stay the course; be consistent, on top of you world and follow through. The kids come back. They have agency and use it. Example my oldest son followed my footsteps and going in the military. he chose the Coast guard because he wanted to do search and rescue. Currently we are both working together in Florida. My Rescue Task force got sent out and I am working out of his base. Bad ass seeing your son doing cool as shit. My youngest calls and … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 10/10/24 12:54 PM |
| 2 | 8 years laterDo what? You’re not really saying anything here. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 16/08/24 07:03 PM |
| 1 | What lifting routine did you start with? And which one do you wish you started with?Jesus. All this mental masturbation over lifting routine. Just fucking lift the weight. It really doesn’t matter. Put the heavy stuff on the bar and move it. Don’t stop. Day in. Day out. Nothing else really matters. It’s the volume of work that will get you through from a 200 bench, to a 300. From 400 to 500. This isn’t about a 4 week, 6 week, 12 week change. This is about 2 year 4 year changes. As a man you are defined by your weaknesses. You can only bench 225? Doesn’t matter you can squat 700… | /r/askMRP | 16/08/24 02:30 AM |
| 15 | How can I recover after acting weak and needy? (girls night out)When girls go out they're gonna get hit on. They're gonna let guys buy them drinks and grind on them. It's attention. Best case, she exchanges IG names with some chad. Worst case she fucks in the bathroom. Nothing you can do about it. Worry about things you can control. Like hitting your lifts for the week and achieving your goals like the unmerciful god you're supposed to be. | /r/askMRP | 02/11/22 01:15 PM |
| 2 | If the United states has a civil war what authority should be obeyed?You know the media is messing with you, right? Creating a "this side vs. that side" situation because when emotions run high so do the ratings. And, like any narcissistic relationship, it only ends when you stop giving the narcissist your attention. Partisan politics is like that. Most people think the US will fall like Rome did but in reality it will be more like Athens. In fact it will be exactly like Athens did. If a church is more concerned with the partisan politics they have lost their pur… | /r/askRPC | 01/11/22 09:52 PM |
| 1 | If the United states has a civil war what authority should be obeyed?You’re fear mongering. The US military doesn’t do this. | /r/askRPC | 01/11/22 08:10 PM |
| 4 | Thoughts on an own your shit weekly thread?The categories are based off the MAP. The marital action plan written by Athol Kay. Which all have to with sexual market value. While we don’t hold to Athol Kay’s work as much as we used to the spirit is still there. They’re key areas men should be focused on in order to move forward with their lives. And yes men have some agency to play with this. Typically men fail in the same areas. It also forces introspection. Being able to self assess and determine the right path. It's hard to take your ow… | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/11/22 07:52 PM |
| 2 | RP philosophy: A take on selfishnessI couldn't keep reading this hamstering. u/SorcererKing had some good advice here's some more. There is no such thing as altruism. None. Even volunteering you are gaining something out of it. Makes you feel good, you're working and getting satisfaction out of it. What happens is blue pill thinking removes even that. It says you should be sacrificing for the sake of it and leaving yourself a dry husk at the end. I was a soldier. I am a volunteer paramedic/firefighter. These things are "patriotic … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 04/01/22 04:04 PM |
| 2 | The phermonal beta and the pherominal alphaLet me correct this Alpha/Beta evolutionary biology bullshit. Dr. David Mech, the man who gave us the idea of alpha/beta wolf behavior, now spends his time trying to remove the concept now. In his own words: One of the outdated pieces of information is the concept of the alpha wolf. "Alpha" implies competing with others and becoming top dog by winning a contest or battle. However, most wolves who lead packs achieved their position simply by mating and producing pups, which then became their pack… | /r/askMRP | 03/01/22 03:24 PM |
| 6 | MRP thoughts on gaming?Yes. But you’re not able to. A lot of guys will recite a list of behaviors and activities that are “masculine approved” and they’d be correct. RP has set behaviors like lifting, martial arts, etc NOT necessarily because she will find you attractive but because it sets you on the road of the right mental frame work. It also gets you out of the house. The secret is to get you into your frame. To establish what you want. Who you are. If you want to game: go ahead. Be unapologetic about it. Like all… | /r/askMRP | 03/01/22 03:47 AM |
| 3 | Self Inflicted dreadOP isn't interested in anything that doesn't support his narrative of events. | /r/askMRP | 28/12/21 09:59 PM |
| 4 | Self Inflicted dreadThis is a good example. OP has presented us a story that was designed to show how he has leveled up. Notice how this is a beta dressing it up as a comfort test. Furthermore he tries to pass it off how dread is working and....viola! She did it to herself. Not how it works, but ok. What really has occurred is that OP has shown us and example of how ego plays in a man's mind. Just wanted to share this mornings shit/comfort test for further wisdom from more experienced MRP members. Not what he wante… | /r/askMRP | 28/12/21 09:55 PM |
| 3 | Probably a basic questionSo we can dissect this guy's situation but doesn't change the path or what he needs to do. OP can only control himself and his actions. His actions should be the mark of a Man of Value. Which then influences his wife to decide to stay and allow him the mental position to either keep her or drop her. she needs space to heal and that she can’t do it with me constantly there as a reminder of the man who stopped loving her. She wants to separate for some period of time, 3 months or something The onl… | /r/askMRP | 27/12/21 09:41 PM |
| 1 | Had no issues with healthy masculinity, and was a member here a few years ago with another username. Took propecia, it killed the masculine in me. Please help.Again another post I am not going to unpack. It's really not necessary. If you have been here before you know what to do. You can't roll up your sleeves if you are wringing your hands. | /r/RPChristians | 24/12/21 02:14 PM |
| 4 | Did I fail?I am not even going to unpack this. Yes you failed. You can't negotiate desire/attraction. You should have STFU to begin with and given her the massage like a good little beta you are. | /r/askMRP | 24/12/21 12:48 PM |
| 3 | Coming out of the blackpill, what to do going forward/how to reframe thinking?I always review the post history of guys I reply to. It's rather enlightening. you have fallen victim to nihilistic thought. This vs that, do this one thing, or don't do this one thing. If only someone else....People make millions by writing books with titles Like DO THIS [insert one word here] AND YOU CAN HAVE HAPPINESS, or AVOID [insert one word here] THING FOR HAPPINESS Instead of living life, studying, improving, making mistakes you are afraid to make a move. Like many men these days you are… | /r/RPChristians | 21/12/21 06:29 PM |
| 8 | Own Your Shit Weekly - December 21, 2021What the hell is this? You need a ban because you are waaaay into what your wife wants and feels. To be clear she seems like a down girl. Seriously I want to know what you think she is asking for when she wants it to "be your fault" she's wants to have sex? Think really hard about this. 90% of the men here would kill for this level of interest even as beta as you are. But listen, if she's a fan of Harry Potter? Keep her. Trust me, she's carrying around enough homemade potions and essential oils … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/12/21 05:19 PM |
| 1 | Lurking for a while, thought I'd post something.Your life is like a Christmas cookie: Decorate it however the fuck you want. The taste, the texture, the toppings — it's all up to you. And, if somebody doesn't like your cookie, that's fine; save it for someone who wants to eat it. Here's the deal: Some people won't fucking like you, some people won't want to fuck you, and some people will simply think you fucking suck; but — what others think of you — isn't a reason to stop being you. If you are that sore from working out your recovery isn't r… | /r/askMRP | 20/12/21 05:32 PM |
| 2 | Falling Off the WagonShe says I do not take her out and “treat her like a woman,” but I have all these other women I flirt with. She basically is super jealous and accuses me of cheated with everyone. We seem to be fighting more than ever. She has threatened divorce many times. I don’t know what to do You're missing it because you want her validation. So let's put this in perspective just a bit. You girl is hot tempered. Though she discovered your RP stuff she still had sex with you and you claim it's been good. Don… | /r/askMRP | 20/12/21 05:26 PM |
| 9 | Split after bachelor partyNot too bad. You have the right mindset in the end. Let's pick through some fly shit though so some guys don't make mistakes and so you certainly don't relive some of this with the next girl. Don't get married (or even a serious relationship) until 30 or older. Doesn't matter. In your 20s your only goal should be making mistakes, figuring your shit out, and making money. I can't reiterate this enough. Some did it early and succeeded but that is the exception. Her making demands on what you can d… | /r/askMRP | 20/12/21 05:11 PM |
| 1 | Are women who marry submissive men doomed to a life of unfulfillment?This is misleading advice. Being submissive doesn’t mean being subservient. Being dominant doesn’t mean being domineering. A marriage isn’t a partnership. Red pill very carefully uses the concept of Captain and First Officer for a reason. I’d recommend understanding that concept before giving misleading advice regarding the roles men and women fulfill in a relationship. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/12/21 10:42 PM |
| 3 | RP philosophy: A take on selfishnessThe truth is simple. The truth is instinctual. The truth doesn't require rationalizing, overexplaining, or manipulating; the truth is what you feel in your gut before those things come along and fuck everything up. Doesn’t take a mathematician to figure out 1+1=someone fucking with you | /r/MarriedRedPill | 19/12/21 10:12 PM |
| 2 | Sabotaging the deal at the endWe did have one similar to that. Ultimately over training can kill athletic goals like when I am in meet prep. Yet when I am in a cycle sometimes I need to kick into gear and push out those reps. Strength in my world isn't always on. I have walked into the gym and a 225 bench became difficult. Those days suck. Somedays I have to make that shit happen regardless. Then double down on recovery between. Yet the numbers move. Yet it's this very thing when we men of RP talk about pushing through, trai… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 19/12/21 05:15 PM |
| 5 | Any red pilled books/podcasts/youtube channels for expecting dads?There's a sub for Redpill fathers. /r/redpillfatherhood/ Not much activity there. There isn't much in this realm of RP Manosphere. Not many men swap notes in this sphere. yet the core remains the same. You are the example and you lead by it. If you aren't right then no amount being a father is going to fix it. Yet here's my experience. My boys are 16 and 18. I have coached them in RP without coming out and saying....read this or let me tell you about Red Pill. That day may come but not now. They… | /r/askMRP | 16/12/21 10:58 PM |
| 2 | Advice from some more experienced MRP dudes?Put in some work then come back and ask questions. She is no different from any other woman. Worry about things you have control over like getting a sick fucking pump and crushing your deadlift. | /r/askMRP | 12/12/21 04:51 AM |
| 2 | Do men really want to get married?And see that’s the problem. You’re saying not until we’re married will I act as a woman should for her man. To him if you’re not going to fully support him, take his lead in all things, then he’ll find someone that will. At some point, and it may have happened, if there was a cross in the road and it either meant following him or going your own way, and you chose your way? He was watching. Keep bringing marriage up. Keep making it a conversation piece and guaranteed he will either marry you beca… | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/12/21 02:23 AM |
| 2 | Die by The Sword: God's Law and The Amorality of ViolenceBut they are important. What you are referring to in a micro sense is jus ad bello and jus in bellum. St. Thomas Aquinas did a comprehensive theological/Philosophical discussion of this and Augustine of Hippo before him. Riffing of the tenets for a just war (my changes are in [ ] : First, [self defense] must occur for a good and just purpose rather than the pursuit of wealth or power [and cruelty] Second, self defense must be waged by a properly instituted authority [of purpose] Third, peace and… | /r/RPChristians | 08/12/21 05:43 PM |
| 5 | How do you decline sex without making husband feel rejected?No one should force another person to have sex against their will. However adults should not be forced to remain celibate or restricted sexually with their partner either. I need some advice from a RP perspective. This statement shows you already know the answer. The RP perspective is to have sex with your husband. By asking this you also know your chosen course can't continue for long. It won't magically change either. I try to do things throughout the day to show him that I still find him attr… | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/12/21 01:53 PM |
| 5 | Die by The Sword: God's Law and The Amorality of ViolenceSelf defense and vengeance are not the same thing. Nor are the acts of warfare the same as self defense. The Bible never forbids self-defense, and Followers of Christ are allowed to defend themselves and their families. Relying on “the wisdom that comes from heaven” (James 3:17) will help us know how to best respond and the right situations that might call for self-defense. We are also obligated the follow the laws of the land. Therefore knowing how to defend yourself is also knowing the laws wh… | /r/RPChristians | 07/12/21 10:43 PM |
| 3 | Creepy coworker at LTRs workplace. Unsure how to proceed Dear Diary, Muh gurl is being touched at work. She isn't reporting it to her boss. I saw the dude and he was nice to me. he must be a rapper. I can beat him up for her. I need to practice my karate kicks in front of the mirror now, Diary. Thanks for listening. XXOO Me. | /r/askMRP | 07/12/21 06:36 PM |
| 2 | What are some good book recommendations about arguments?No what you want is to satisfy your ego and that you know best. First, there is no argument winning in this world. none. The majority of people believe they know everything, or at least know about everything thanks to the internet. What has happened is most have confused belief for knowledge. It's why when you argue (more accuaretly discuss) and you try to refute or address a point someone made you aren't having an intellectual discussion. You are in fact attacking someone's deep seated belief. … | /r/askMRP | 07/12/21 01:37 AM |
| 7 | How intense is my retard? Looking for a reality check.You’re frame sucks. Here’s an example: Arriving home late, after a night out with the boys, being met by your wife holding a broom: NO FRAME: I'm Soo sorry honey. DEER DEER DEER GOOD FRAME: Are you still cleaning, or are you flying somewhere? IRON CLAD FRAME: smelling of perfume and beer, with lipstick on your collar, and slapping her ass and saying, "You're next, chubby!" Where do you fall? And yeah she was happy after sex. Who wouldn’t be? A clue you’re in her frame. What about you? | /r/askMRP | 06/12/21 01:15 AM |
| 2 | Trickle Sex - Decline it or Praise it?You’ve not been reading. Ignore what she says. Watch what she does. Today it’s trust. Tomorrow it’s something else. Effort is a reflection of interest. If you constantly feel you have to ask her for more then you are ignoring the obvious. She doesn’t find you attractive. She’s all but saying it. I bet your gut feeling like how I used to be around my Nana when I was a kid. She would always hold my face & demand kisses when I wanted to just say "hi" and run to her back garden & play. Or when your … | /r/askMRP | 06/12/21 01:10 AM |
| 4 | Coming out of the blackpill, what to do going forward/how to reframe thinking?This black pill thing. I can't even begin with it. Even without a girl in your life you are deep in her frame. Here's the thing. A title does not define you. Brother, boyfriend, husband...etc. These are roles that you play in somebody else's life not words that establish the purpose of your life. You're an individual unique to God and in His Kingdom, not someone else's. You need a goal that's exclusive of your relationship role. Fix your frame. Stop focusing the negative; on what you are missing… | /r/RPChristians | 03/12/21 02:12 PM |
| 4 | FR - A Week of Irrational Self-ConfidenceCognitive Behavior Therapy. It's amazing. It's really that easy, gentlemen. There was a time I was more afraid of her than I was of a drug addict with an knife. When I realized if I can talk that guy down WTF is wrong with me when dealing with her? There it was. It was me. It was always me. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 29/11/21 06:35 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - November 23, 2021Unless you address where the failed lift is happening nothing will work. Without videos it’s hard to tell where is the fail at. Is it at Lift off? At the concentric or eccentric phase of the lift? Then where at the phase? Off the chest or at lock out? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/11/21 11:08 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - November 23, 2021LTR showed pictures of an acquaintances husbands’ 3 month gym transformation. And yet you got crap for working out when your had set the bar that budget was tight. Maybe you see it and didn't mention it but your LTR is still not attracted to you. At best what she is thinking is that you aren't him so why are you going to the gym. It happens to guys when they try to use RP tools like Agree and Amplify or something. She compares you to Bill down the road and making a point that you aren't him. Tim… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/11/21 06:27 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - November 23, 2021I have been doing more reps on most exercises, so the "loss in strength" is being made up by larger volume with more reps. Don't fool yourself or us. I can tell something is off. You're not even close to having this issue. You're numbers don't support this concept. If you were a Raw lifter of several years with a solid record...yeah I can see where you coming from. Muscle hypertrophy is a result of work and will occur in the presence of strength gains, but this work suggests that it is not the m… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/11/21 06:20 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - November 23, 2021I can’t tell if I'm just butthurt, or gf is flashing massive red flags. I view this lack of foundation as a core weakness of mine. Easy to spot a yellow car when you are always thinking of a yellow car. Easy to spot opportunity when you are always thinking of opportunity. Easy to spot reasons to be mad when you are always thinking of being mad. Easy to see flags when you're always thinking of red flags. You become what you constantly think about. It's hard to see what's happening in your head be… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/11/21 05:16 PM |
| 2 | 60 DoD '21 Booster Week 2: Diet BoostIt's probably some idiotic ego thing but I refuse to use straps...or a belt. Natty for me is no assistance other than what I bring to the table. Not ego. you're what is called a raw lifter. I do use a belt as I find it helps me focus on tightening properly at heavier loads. I have progressed into geared lifting (knee wraps, squat suits...). I've become something of a gear snob. My squat suit collection rivals my wardrobe at this point. All these things help. They add compression to your joints a… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/11/21 02:57 PM |
| 2 | 60 DoD '21 Booster Week 2: Diet BoostNo. It’s the definition of biology. Your ego has experienced the law of accommodation. It’s a biological fact. Do the exact same thing and you will stall. Your body has compensated to the stimulus and growth has stopped. In fact I just wrote a post about this. This is why progressive overloading training like 5x5 will eventually fail. In the interest of openness I’m a conjugate apologist. Every day I train it’s different. You need to vary your lift techniques (wide grip to medium to narrow for b… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/11/21 02:38 AM |
| 3 | My wife's cold attitude is driving me nutsThis post covertly more about her than you. Stop worrying about what she is and is not doing. Hit send on your life. Right now she doesn’t see any reason to stick around and she’s telling you that through her actions. You need to show her the consequences of her actions. She’s acting like a child. She may very well be going to Starbucks and flirt with the barista with the dead locks and BLM tshirt. You know the guy. At best he bought her a liquid donut and shared IG usernames. At worse they bump… | /r/askMRP | 10/11/21 12:59 AM |
| 2 | How to get past the cognitive dissonance that is killing me?You think too much. Stop. There’s just action and inaction The more you focus on missing out on something, the more you miss out on simply living. Instead of creating memories, you create doubt and uncertainty. You question (or regret) most of your decisions, which, over time, makes you an increasingly negative and boring fucking person and explains why you’re always crying. It was never about her, them, or anyone else. It has always been about you and your self respect. What you stand for. What… | /r/askMRP | 05/11/21 01:02 PM |
| 10 | Weak Things BreakYou didn’t give a lot to go on. Like what lifts and movements other then flexing causes this to hurt. I’m also going to say only you can judge the pain level and seriousness. Take what I’m saying as a meat head powerlifter of 20 years (4 competing) with the medical training of a paramedic. If you’re that concerned go get checked out as this could lead to a bicep tendon tear. Monitor closely for any changes. Answer for yourself: Is there pain and weakness after pulling exercises or repeated Manua… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 30/10/21 02:34 AM |
| 3 | What lifting routine do you use?A conjugate based system. My coach programs it so it doesn’t have a formal name. Monday After each set Sumo Stance Standing band crunch - 20 rep Banded Side bend -20 rep each side As a super set DB shrugs4x20 Scap push ups 4x20 Scap Rows 4x20 Scap pulldowns 4x20 Main workout Inclined Bench with Barbell 8RM Flat Bench DBs 8RM Inclined Tricep rollbacks 8RM Band tricep extensions 200 reps each arm with bands Wide grip lat pulldowns 8RM Neutral grip rows black and silver machine 8RM Rear delt X flys… | /r/RPChristians | 29/10/21 03:00 PM |
| 1 | Wanting to explode when STFU?Your relationship didn't ruin you. You ruined you because you didn't love yourself enough to stop allowing shit that you knew you didn't deserve. You don't need someone who cooks you breakfast in the morning; you need someone who makes your overall life less difficult. Because no amount of pancakes will make up for the fact that you're with somebody who is a boat anchor to your life. do not expect that the woman in your life will be grateful, and sacrifice for you, when you can no longer provide… | /r/askMRP | 30/08/21 08:55 PM |
| 5 | laundry and logicSimple. No frame. NO FRAME: I'm Soo sorry honey. I didn’t intend to make you mad . DEER DEER DEER GOOD FRAME: you know your mom told you your face would freeze that way but It looks good on you. IRON CLAD FRAME: “Two step, huh?” slap her ass and say, "You're next, chubby!" | /r/askMRP | 27/06/21 12:11 AM |
| 31 | Wife gets disrespectful when she doesn't get what she wants.Protected sanity is more important than protected sex. I don't care how good somebody fucks, it's not worth it if they make you feel like you suck. Nobody rides dick or squishes lips so fucking well that it justifies going through emotional hell. | /r/askMRP | 21/06/21 07:45 PM |
| 2 | Struggling to not be socially awkward in my relationship. Often get mistaken as being serious or standoffish since I'm quiet a lot of the time.It's because you're 22. Most 22 year olds don't have any more of an idea than you do. The difference is most DGAF. They are just out there doing stuff. Forcing change into your life is rewarding; you just have to stop second-guessing. Think of it like a mid-sex change of position: Even if what you're doing is currently working, make the right move and you'll be like, "Damn, this is what I was missing?" | /r/askMRP | 21/06/21 12:58 PM |
| 2 | Plate brings up the topics of expensive giftsDear Diary, I am having an affair. it's cool. makes me feel gud. I should tell the guys about it see what they think. Love, me. | /r/askMRP | 21/06/21 12:25 PM |
| 1 | Was referred hereYep. It’s all her fault. First will direct you here r/RPChristians I have determined that beta men fascinate me because I've never met a group of people who so unabashedly proclaim themselves the tragic hero of all their own self-made problems What would I do? What I would do isn’t what you would do. Here's the deal: Some people won't fucking like you, some people won't want to fuck you, and some people will simply think you fucking suck; but — what others think of you — isn't a reason to stop b… | /r/askMRP | 21/06/21 10:57 AM |
| 3 | Messed up big timeRollo says you left the trash out on the street for a reason. True, but some people have to smell the garbage just one more time. They must enjoy the sick sweet scent of rot. That’s why I think people get back with a shitty ex | /r/askMRP | 21/06/21 12:59 AM |
| 5 | How do you guys deal with recurring problems and frustration?It’s cute you want your wife to like you. To see just how much you do for her. There's nothing wrong with NOT being liked. Some people don't like dogs, those people are dumb but dogs don't let it bother them. Fix your frame. Stop focusing the negative; on what you are missing out on. It was never about her, them, or anyone else. It has always been about you and your self respect. What you stand for. What your mission and your creed is. It has always been about not letting someone control you. Yo… | /r/askMRP | 21/06/21 12:57 AM |
| 9 | Initiate or not initiate. Can't get my head around it.Having a bad time of it, eh? I mean you could just quit. Stop. I guess that is an option. A man with options is powerful, amiright? Let's see how that works out. Kind of like not lifting, or no longer doing deadlifts. It is just too hard right now. I get it. Everything feels god-awfully heavy. Odds are you would just go through the motions, counting down the sets until you can leave or go to bed. I don't blame you at all. How can you focus without sex? Or her denying you all the time? She’s just… | /r/askMRP | 12/06/21 11:16 PM |
| 1 | When Something Heavy Takes You DownSorry. Missed your question. here’s a primer I did on shoulders while lifting a while back. Read that let me know if it helps | /r/RPChristians | 14/05/21 04:20 PM |
| 1 | are signs of promiscuity not always an indicator of promiscuity?Once a sinner always a sinner. All red pill men are desperate to look for partners and maybe even friends that have no red flags. You can read it in every RP post. Well if we all have sinned how are we to not find any red flags? Clearly, that assumption is wrong, what other so-called "facts" about red flags are actually false?If it's possible for someone to be an ex-smoker, ex-drinker, or ex-drug user it seems illogical to believe someone who has a sin (or red flag) in their past is forever doom… | /r/RPChristians | 12/05/21 12:16 PM |
| 1 | Need Life AdviceYou're young and have all the time in the world to try and make mistakes. I was an Army Officer (ROTC). I am a paramedic/Firefighter (Volunteer). You are comparing yourself to others that though they have "great jobs" they can get stuck and never progress. They may peak too early and have no where else to go. Life is not linear. Your life isn't someone else's life. First up you need to set a daily prayer time with God to ask for his help in finding your path. Where the skills you have and will h… | /r/RPChristians | 12/05/21 12:03 PM |
| 1 | When Something Heavy Takes You DownThe shoulder is a fairly complicated joint muscularly speaking. Make sure you aren’t getting a strain in your rotator cuff. That injury scares me. The band work will help with recovery. Keep flexibility and give the tendons and smaller muscles the ability to strengthen. Make sure your bench press form is good. If you had a tricep problem then got back to bench odds are you might not have supported the shoulder right. | /r/RPChristians | 12/05/21 11:35 AM |
| 1 | When Something Heavy Takes You DownI’m a paramedic. So yes. I’m well aware of how inflammation works in the body. Inflammation can also be a detriment. The body reacts and sometimes that reaction isn’t appropriate or at times it over reacts. I’m any event I took them to sleep. The ache was enough to keep me awake though since then I learn how to support and “elevate” the area (RICE…remember that one?). The stated purpose was to rehab while not missing a lift. So far it’s working. Judge when I do a close out. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 12/05/21 11:33 AM |
| 4 | When Something Heavy Takes You DownIt’s an ego driven narcissist machine. By and large it is. Understanding that CrossFit is just a brand and a lot “crossfit” gyms just use the term for marketing. So there are some that are just fine. They aren’t specialty gyms and everyone does the “boot camp” style workout or Workout Of the Day. Yet many of these gyms practice unhealthy lifting practices. Like pounding out 3x20 deadlifts. Or doing an godly amount of power cleans. Most times without regard for the condition of the athlete or per… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 11/05/21 09:50 PM |
| 1 | When Something Heavy Takes You DownHeh. No. In a powerlifting meet there are 3 referee/judges that decide whether a lift is good or bad. A light panel indicates each judge’s decision about the lift. A white light indicates the lift was good and qualifies. On the other another hand, a red light indicates the lift was bad and does not qualify. 3 white lights is a good lift. White lights and big lifts is just something we say kind of like saying good luck or wishing someone success. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 11/05/21 09:42 PM |
| 2 | When Something Heavy Takes You DownIf it’s of value I can post this cycles workout with notes. Then go into my accessory work and why it’s done and even my mobility workout. There might be insight there for someone. I’d have to impress that My coach writes it. I have some ability to discuss with what’s going on and he will adjust based on our goals. But I trust him. He’s been with Westside Barbell. Degree’d and certified in fitness and training. Has a pedigree of professional lifting. I went to this gym after years of not doing i… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 11/05/21 09:15 PM |
| 1 | When Something Heavy Takes You DownI’ll put something together. I don’t OYS much as a post but I have a small group of RP men I trust and have known for the last few years where I get the straight poop on my ego investment. As it should be | /r/MarriedRedPill | 11/05/21 07:55 PM |
| 2 | When Something Heavy Takes You DownMuhahaha. This is why I come back here | /r/MarriedRedPill | 11/05/21 07:53 PM |
| 1 | When Something Heavy Takes You DownI see where you’re at. So let’s go and break down all the failures that were possible that day. Reviewing my notes (coach requires notes to be kept) on the bench my elbow flared out a bit. Not so much that It could have caused this injury. I was also on a 3” board bench off the duffalo I wasn’t been deep enough for that effort. Spotter caught me before I did damage and pulled it out. We reset, took the 2-3 minute break and continued. See on the team we workout together. Spot each other coach and… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 11/05/21 07:40 PM |
| 2 | When Something Heavy Takes You Downu/ImNotSlash My PL mentor has always told me the only cause of injury is poor form. This is not true but ok. I am not arguing against you mentor, I don't know him, but his and my experiences widely differ. u/ImNotSlash But I'm hardly ever hurting or injured or even in discomfort. I listen to my body. There are many factors that go into having a quality workout. To be cognizant of all and have the ability to make adjustments (acknowledgement bolded below) will go much further than pushing yours… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 11/05/21 06:44 PM |
| 1 | I don’t have a title idea, click the linkWhich is why this was spam and not a valid post for discussion. There was no hate in my comment. A violation of TOS is a violation. No community should have to tolerate it. If you want to have a mutually benefiting discussion we can. All the best. | /r/RPChristians | 08/05/21 02:56 PM |
| 1 | Hot Take: Drinking Liquor = Divinely Ordained Bad LuckI kind of promised myself I would stop bringing history and factual study to my faith, but I feel there are times when it is needed. First just because it's "natural" doesn't mean it's safe. There are plenty of examples here. Furthermore comparing marijuana usage (or any drug use) to Communion is a false argument. To qualify myself my academic background is Early Christianity and Ancient History (it's my degree). I was also a craft beer brewer and certified Craft beer judge, as well as having a … | /r/askRPC | 07/05/21 08:05 PM |
| 4 | I don’t have a title idea, click the linkSpam. Low value article Check users post history. Needs to be deleted | /r/RPChristians | 07/05/21 07:03 PM |
| 3 | RPC and Chronic IllnessIt's difficult to give advice with a vague issue like "genetic issue". While many things about being a good husband, lover, leader, etc. don't change, True so what are you looking for? What isn't working? we have a number of challenges that I haven't seen discussed anywhere and you are still not discussing them. | /r/askRPC | 07/05/21 03:37 PM |
| 5 | Own Your Shit Weekly - May 04, 2021Started Simple & Sinister with 16 kg kettlebell a month ago. Lost 11 lbs. No discipline with food. Settled on macro / calorie goal but for the past month I meet goal for a couple of days and then eat completely out of control for a couple of days. Aim is eat within macro / calorie goal 6 days a week by being disciplined about batch meal preparation. Let's start right here because everything else you said merely supports your complete lack of discipline or ability to stick to a plan. The directio… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/05/21 01:25 PM |
| 3 | Help Needed to Become stronger manQuitting before you see it to the end. | /r/RPChristians | 06/05/21 12:10 AM |
| 1 | Want to know the history and origin of the culture of "STFU and listen to me "I think you need to study logic more. | /r/askMRP | 05/05/21 08:56 PM |
| 9 | Help Needed to Become stronger manGenerational curse. That’s your problem. Stop believing in magic. Stop reliving the mistakes of your past and focus on the moments of today. Replaying a situation over and over again in your head is not a productive way to live — that's a Boomerang and it belongs on your annoying friend's Instagram. Giving up on a dream/goal too early is like leaving an all you can eat buffet still feeling hungry: Don't let a small inconvenience, or a sudden lack of confidence, prevent you from finishing what yo… | /r/RPChristians | 05/05/21 08:51 PM |
| 1 | Want to know the history and origin of the culture of "STFU and listen to me "Post needs deleting. Post history reveals OP just hits subs and asks questions. No intent to do any work. | /r/askMRP | 05/05/21 08:28 PM |
| 8 | Time to fuck...you have been warnedYou missed the point. If this post triggered your sensitivity it most likely applies. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 30/04/21 11:17 PM |
| 3 | I used to be Alphamale ego is driven by recognition, attention, and action. This is not self interest. A mans ego is responsible for reality testing but in betas it becomes overly inflated to protect him from what’s really going on. Red pill is built on this concept. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 30/04/21 10:50 AM |
| 3 | What do you do?You, Jack10, Ultimatecad pushed me along the road…or dragged me as it were. | /r/RPChristians | 30/04/21 02:58 AM |
| 2 | Question regarding the "How to Lead" section of the RPC sidebarYou ever text someone and mess up a word so bad that autocorrect can't figure out what you're trying to say, but you send it anyway? I think life is like that sometimes Just hit send on your decision, don't worry about somebody else's misunderstanding or opinion. | /r/askRPC | 29/04/21 10:58 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - April 13, 2021I'm back at the gym at last and am switching to GLSP with some mild bodyweight stuff on days off. I've had my calories set at 1500 while I haven't been there and have kept the weight off but need to ramp it up now to at least 2000 on gym days - minimum 150g protein. Sugar and alcohol are off the menu which actually makes it quite a challenge but I know I just need to cram it in. My lifts were shit pre-COVID because I wasn't eating enough it's time to fix that. I was never a fan of when MRP start… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/04/21 06:21 PM |
| 3 | Own Your Shit Weekly - April 27, 2021Telling jokes, making her laugh and she was enjoying it. So yesterday I got jealous of this situation, but I didn't say anything nor I went to where they were. I just stayed where I was with the other folks but I could see them far away. Haven't you learned? When girls go out they're gonna get hit on. They're going to let guys buy them drinks and grind on them. It's attention. Best case, they exchanged Instagrams or Snap names. Worst case she cheated on you when she went off to the powder room. … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/04/21 11:10 AM |
| 3 | Getting Jacked: Interview with ReddJive:Red Pill Christian Podcast - Episode 37Yes. I’ll edit it for more group consumption. Meaning block out faces and such. I’m not a video nerd so it’ll take me a bit. I’ll have it up this weekend. | /r/RPChristians | 22/04/21 11:42 AM |
| 1 | Learning MRPYou're on mobile aren't you? You won't see the sidebar. There's a lesson there. Changing your perspective in life is rewarding; you just to stop second-guessing. Think of it like a mid-sex position change. Even if what you're doing is currently working, make the right move and you'll be like, "Whoa, this is what I was missing?" | /r/askMRP | 21/04/21 08:08 PM |
| 2 | Lifting - You're Doing It WrongYeah. Still here despite the worlds best efforts. Glad to see the house is still standing. | /r/RPChristians | 09/04/21 08:48 PM |
| 2 | I Want Marriage Badly, but Believe It Would Only Hinder the God's Purpose for my Life. What Should I Do?However, I think I'm more worked up (as you say) over my doubts than over the desire itself. I don't know whether I should get married; or whether, if I should, I would get married. Where do you think you will find the answer? | /r/RPChristians | 08/04/21 10:15 PM |
| 1 | I Want Marriage Badly, but Believe It Would Only Hinder the God's Purpose for my Life. What Should I Do?My first response is you are too young. 23 is way too young to be thinking let alone getting married. You have a lot to accomplish and do before you take on this task. Just like in the MRP side I will point out that your post is I, I, I, me, me, me. Is that really what this is about? Everything every one has mentioned so far is accurate but there is one thing you HAVE to do. Give these feelings to God. Find peace and calm. Remember our feelings will lie to us. So if/when you have intense feeling… | /r/RPChristians | 08/04/21 09:57 PM |
| 1 | Infallibility of the Bible?My undergrad was in ancient history/early Christianity. There are many ancient documents that validate the Bible new and Old Testament. How little the word ha drifted if at all. The Dead Sea scrolls. Much of the New Testament has scrolls dating back to 150ad. There are even papyrus scrolls of the gospel of John and Matthew from circus 2Ad. I could go on. the historical evidence for Christianity is overwhelming. | /r/askRPC | 31/03/21 02:37 AM |
| 3 | What is allowed on the main sub?I think he’s looking for Eharmony. | /r/askRPC | 30/03/21 11:50 PM |
| 1 | Have any of the other guys on this sub been able to quit the habit of pre-marital sex?He’s choosing sarcasm over listening to advice. | /r/askRPC | 28/03/21 10:16 AM |
| 14 | Have any of the other guys on this sub been able to quit the habit of pre-marital sex?I know it feels amazing and can be wildly invigorating, but gents… you have got to stop holding so much value to sex. And before you start denying that you do this, let me remind you. Sex is not money. Sex is not love. Sex does not hold any additional value besides reaching a moment of ecstasy–and that’s only if you really know what you’re doing. A mature man makes the right judgment & applies wisdom; A strong man holds onto his beliefs; A Weak man allows others to decide his fate; an immature m… | /r/askRPC | 27/03/21 03:21 PM |
| 1 | Does anyone suffer from chronic pain due to lifting injuries?That is silly. Women don't care about the numbers, they care about what it looks like when you take your shirt off. Completely incorrect. I am a powerlifter, amateur competitor (meaning I don't get paid). I train in a specialty gym for powerlifting and bodybuilding. There are real athletes there that are elite status, a few that are ranked nationally (like my coach), and some of these guys are well over 400 pounds. Not a close to being lean. Yet their girlfriends or even wives will show up to co… | /r/askRPC | 10/03/21 12:28 PM |
| 5 | Is marrige worth it?There is no benefit to a man getting married. As one or even other comments have said if you can't avoid sexual sin then marry, and yet even that isn't a guarantee you will not fall to it. Then there will be others that align with the thought of your woman is a reflection of you. This is a misunderstood RP principle that more accurately stated is "your relationships are a reflection of yourself". This is a a poke in the chest of up and coming RP men who can't figure out why everything they do is… | /r/RPChristians | 15/05/20 08:48 PM |
| 3 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (10/16/19)Glad to hear the workout is helping. I've been working on a deadlift post. But I've been focused on real world vs intenert world lately. | /r/RPChristians | 16/10/19 03:17 PM |
| 5 | Main sub being banned soon.TRP isn’t going...yet. Reddit admins reversed thier decisions. The fact is that TRP hasn’t violated any rules. The mods are very active more so than any other sub, or at least most. Though it seem the admins have made some comments that the TRP mods are looking into. until then TRP remains. https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/dbyr23/reddit_admin_give_rtheredpill_a_stay_of_execution/ | /r/RPChristians | 01/10/19 10:55 PM |
| 1 | Quick Advice on LiftingReverse hyperextensions. Look it up. Perfect for any one with back issues and those without. The guy who invented it, Louie Simmons, had broken his back twice powerfliting. This exercsie got him back into it, | /r/askMRP | 25/09/19 11:16 PM |
| 1 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (09/11/19)It was. Did it on mobile. Must of bit the wrong reply button. | /r/RPChristians | 11/09/19 11:50 PM |
| 1 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (09/11/19)There will be a period adjustment. You're body is just used to certain things. Slow and steady. It'll come back. Even now once in a while I'll wake up with a cramp. Last week benching my right side traverse abdominal cramped so hard it pulled me off the bench. Gotta love the process. | /r/RPChristians | 11/09/19 04:42 PM |
| 2 | Stoicism as a Tool in TRPMeh. There's a difference between stoicism and being Stoic. Also be wary of the sudden marketing of stoicism (also the APA says it's a.mebtal problem...fuck yes!). I have a love hate relationship with Ryan Holiday on this. any way there are really three pillars of stocism as a philosophy. One is spiritual. One is scientific. And the other is ethical. It's the ethical portion that gets play. The other two are largely shit. Completely incorrect. So as a philosophy no stoicism is crap. As a code of… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 10/09/19 11:16 PM |
| 1 | Children fightingAlong with /u/UEMcgill Why do you allow it? You must allow alot of other things as well. | /r/askMRP | 07/09/19 05:11 PM |
| 1 | Glossary of Notes to Increase Lifts: The DeadliftGood to hear. Success in the future | /r/MarriedRedPill | 07/09/19 09:44 AM |
| 2 | Glossary of Notes to Increase Lifts: The DeadliftIt's different each day. Sometimes I'm only sitting for a couple hours out of my 12 hour shift. Sometimes it's 6 or 7 hours depending on how much free time I have. Forgot to address this. If you sit for about 5 hours in a day your glutes disengage. They shut off. You need to move every hour minimum to keep glute activation. If you are already have a weakened area sitting isn’t going to help this. Even if you stand you should be flexing them to force them to move. Be aware of this. Again deadlift… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 07/09/19 01:07 AM |
| 2 | Glossary of Notes to Increase Lifts: The DeadliftSuccess brother. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/09/19 08:22 PM |
| 2 | Glossary of Notes to Increase Lifts: The DeadliftI can't pull up your ljnk mobile. This a box deadlift. https://youtu.be/cnGBjjGR8wc Competitors add these in to help with developing speed and power at the sticking points. Like adding chains but not the entire movement. For you it will help keep you developing until you're ready to. Of course you can keep them in to keep developing that power on the lift. Yates rows. I'm going to say it's your back strength. With a weakened abdominal your back is taking the brunt. I suspect you don't have a neu… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/09/19 08:05 PM |
| 5 | Respect is earned?Huh. So you were both bitches. Look admit it. No one took leadership here of the group. Every basic class like this has some things that need to be done. Someone need to get the equipment Someone nedds to understand the experiment Someone needs to write down the data. So on and so forth Did anyone take charge and start giving the team direction? A full three quarters of your team were reading a paper. How many does it take to do that exactly? Sure he lost his cool doing the chogy work but you go… | /r/askTRP | 06/09/19 03:31 PM |
| 7 | I'm pretty sure I'm going wrong, need some advice gentlemen.You now earned Pussy of the Week. So many years of being a pussy has kicked my ass. It's hard to suddenly stop giving a shit about someone else when you've lived like this for so long. . I'm not scared of losing her, I'm confident I can find happiness in any other woman, These statements are at odds with each other. You are no where near any of this. I am scared of losing my kids and not being a part of their lives every day. FIFY | /r/askMRP | 06/09/19 01:09 PM |
| 12 | I'm pretty sure I'm going wrong, need some advice gentlemen.I had to stop reading half way through then go to the bottom where the question was. OP....dear gawd. There is a search bar. You can just flick back on the pages of the sub. It’s all right here. There are also other webpages out there of men who have collectively written notes on what has gone on. Rambo. DGAF about Rambo. Too much is made of him and hardly any of you actually understand the reference. Rambo is a cool dude. He gets his life and moves forward unashamed. Rambo in the moment is anot… | /r/askMRP | 06/09/19 12:55 PM |
| 2 | Glossary of Notes to Increase Lifts: The DeadliftDoubtful deadlifting alone did this. The main muscles used in deadlifting are lower back and glutes. Deadlifting most likely just pushed you over the edge. It IS possible that deadlift could force the intestines through weak natural openings of the abdomen, from my knowledge that hasn’t been sufficient evidence that this is a common occurrence during the lift. Otherwise it would be something every powerlifter experienced of all the injuries this isn’t one. Shoulder injuries dominate the sport. I… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/09/19 12:34 PM |
| 4 | Wtf happened?! Worse before it gets better?That's fucking brilliant. Now I want to run it through a Lean process to see how it works. | /r/askMRP | 29/08/19 01:47 PM |
| 1 | Glossary of Notes to Increase Lifts: The SquatSolid post. I’d add Reverse Hypers. If you are serious about squats and Deadlifts lower back strength is key. Reverse hypers is your go to. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 29/08/19 12:34 AM |
| 15 | To stay or not stayHuh Sometimes I forget what it was like to be that beta. Then someone like OP comes in. | /r/askMRP | 28/08/19 02:09 PM |
| 2 | Wife Moving OutWatch what she does. Not what she said. If she can drop you and 6 years with thought so can you. Realize she’s been thinking about it a lot longer. You’re just catching up but it changes nothing for you. Your path is still the same. She’s once again a single mom with 2 kids. | /r/askMRP | 28/08/19 02:03 PM |
| 2 | What’s it come down to?If you have that feeling in your gut. You’re about to get kicked in the nuts. | /r/askMRP | 28/08/19 01:58 PM |
| 3 | Frame....Frame.....FrameRead closer. OP does HIS dishes. Not THE dishes. Ignore the choreplay aspect. He's just taking of HIS mess not THE mess then telling her it needs to be done. She knows how to do it he's not setting the standard. He's just bitching about it after the fact. Once he has set the standard and the metrics for which that is going to be judged. And she fails to then do that. He then can decide whether he wants to keep her or not As it is OP is just living a parallel life | /r/askMRP | 27/08/19 07:27 PM |
| 7 | Frame....Frame.....FrameI am reading a lot of ego here. A clear case of the Captain not training his First Officer. You do realize the women don’t know how to do this right? They have maternal instincts and they know how to be a mom (to one degree or the other) but they don’t know how to be your FO. as /u/SBIII said it’s all here. | /r/askMRP | 27/08/19 12:36 PM |
| 1 | I lost frame last night. She hit me at my weakest spot.True enough. It could go either way. His frame and how fast he builds will decide the outcome. | /r/askMRP | 27/08/19 12:33 PM |
| 1 | I lost frame last night. She hit me at my weakest spot.That is a good point. | /r/askMRP | 27/08/19 12:32 PM |
| 5 | I lost frame last night. She hit me at my weakest spot.This is a perfect example of how women love. Oppurtunitically. They cannot love a man as he expects to be loved (unconditionally). Some have a higher metric others not. Some are. Monetary. Others are not. Still it leaves only one outcome. She don't like it? The door is right the fuck there. Do you really want someone like this in your life? Sure as hell if you fight and she stays. Your business becomes a success she'll crow how she was right there with you how the both of you made it work and...… | /r/askMRP | 26/08/19 08:55 PM |
| 4 | Career/mission/military?I had a troop who served 6 years. Left with 50k in the bank. He saved his paychecks. His enlistment bonuses. Always lived in the barracks. Always ate in the DFac Didn't buy a car. Had a MOS that was low retention and enlistment which meant higher bounses. It's possible to leave with a solid bank account as long as you don't go fucking nuts. No dependas. Don't hook up with dead beats. And don't buy the first sports car that catches your eye | /r/askTRP | 26/08/19 06:59 PM |
| 7 | Career/mission/military?My first blush is to tell you to ignore the political diatribe about military service. I served. Yet for me it was a passion. As it is for most the volunteer. If it's not something that is in you then I don't want you in my army. Find something else. Yet don't let someone else tell you what to do or not to do based on some made up ideals. In fact that's what this is about in general. If joining up isn't a passion a 4 year hitch is going to be a prison sentenance. Don't burden other soldiers with… | /r/askTRP | 26/08/19 06:43 PM |
| 7 | Rethinking about MGTOW as a ChristianAs a paramedic I've seen men report abuse. I'm called in to treat. Transport. Clearly see the marks and obvious what happened. Cops have to keep her at Bay and seperated. We transport to the ER (not always life threatening but patients usually want to go). Then the cops show up later and charge him. My or my partners report support his case but it's hell going through it. Man are expected to man up. Same for sexual harrassment or abuse. Society thinks men love sex ergo why wouldn't he be excited… | /r/RPChristians | 26/08/19 06:37 PM |
| 3 | Echo ChamberYou're young. You'll get over it. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 26/08/19 06:32 PM |
| 2 | Echo ChamberI am a little amazed you just discovered this. It’s what finally kicked in Red Pill for me. But hey all men come through a different way I just assumed that meditation was a norm. For me I realized that if I can find calm and peace through meditation then why couldn’t I do it without. It’s then it clicked. In life, you are either a warrior or victim. The only thing owed to you is death. You live as if you were destined to live forever, no thought of your frailty ever enters your head, of how muc… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 26/08/19 05:18 PM |
| 1 | How do you handle being manly/masculine, when your birth defects harshly limit that possibility.Hobbies... explore new ones. It’s not so much about finding what you like but finding out what you don’t. You never know unless you take a chance. Just go out. Obviously staying in doesn’t help. I don’t drink either well not any more. Last time I was drunk was when I was 22 (I am 46 now). | /r/askTRP | 26/08/19 12:28 PM |
| 18 | How big a role does BF% play in SMV?There are two things Red Pill says to do at the start of your improvement. get fit (muscular and ripped) and make money. It’s because these are easy gains for a man to get what he wants in life. Lifting teaches a lot of life lessons and it reinforces them. There is also discipline to learn in restricting your diet. The gym is one of the few masculine places left. Assuming you aren’t in a Planet Fitness style gym. Frame, game, emotional control take a bit more time and experience. So yes BF does … | /r/askTRP | 23/08/19 12:10 PM |
| 1 | The Unofficial-Official song of MRPFairy Tale Gone Bad - Sunrise Avenue | /r/askMRP | 22/08/19 06:18 PM |
| 12 | Rule #8: Don't argueI am going to throw OP and others a bone here. Think of it this way. Flared men are “made men” in the mafia mindset. man of respect, one of us, friend of ours, good fella, and wiseguy. Not all of us are the same nor see eye to eye but we all agree on one thing. That one thing is Rule Zero above all. That’s why we are here there is no debate about it. Disagree? The door is over there. When a flared man, or even someone who is universally recognized as knowing his shit say or do something they hav… | /r/askMRP | 22/08/19 06:14 PM |
| 3 | Why would you want to change a girl if she wasnt like that to begin with?You’re not changing her. What you are doing is showing her the way things are going to be by being with you. You are showing her that this is the standard and this is what is expected. She can make the decision to stay or go, but if she stays she’s committing to a life of improvement. The difficult part about Red Pilling yourself is seeing past the rhetoric of those who really don’t know what they are doing nor talking about. We use the Captain First Officer concept. I prefer Captain First Serge… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/08/19 03:37 PM |
| 2 | Types, Truth, Bad Vibes, and the Redpill Attachment StyleI'm a PhD student. Your first year is pretty much doing just that. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/08/19 12:32 PM |
| 5 | Types, Truth, Bad Vibes, and the Redpill Attachment StyleAs Marriage and Moral Apologists take to the internet to try and soften red pill in either their image or a warped idea of it by using Rainbow Bright and her My Little Pony ideas. Being laconic is sometimes not the best answer. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/08/19 04:35 PM |
| 13 | Types, Truth, Bad Vibes, and the Redpill Attachment StyleThe blogger is still firmly in a blue pill mindset. The author, like many men (married or not) came here to the Pill to find life’s answers. There weren’t any. What was there was a message of find your own fucking answers, but here are the left and right limits. He learned game, drowned in pussy and is now learning that this wasn’t what it was about. Low vibe game? Low vibe girls? Yeah ok. I am not sure what vibes are about and don’t care. What I do know is once you get a girl most of you have n… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/08/19 02:41 PM |
| 2 | How to raise red pill sons and daughters?I've 2 sons. Frankly I don't think you can raise true red pill kids. You can give them lessons and point out things as you would any other behavior but you can't force feed it to them and wants more they can make their own decisions on their own I think the goal is to build enough base so that if and when they beta out the fall isn't so far and they recall what you told them. What I do is take moments to illustrate red pill to them. When their mom acts up or most recently my son's first girlfrie… | /r/askTRP | 20/08/19 11:55 PM |
| 6 | Wife found ED PillsI give you permission to go fuck other women. Go with Brodin my son | /r/askMRP | 20/08/19 10:03 PM |
| 2 | Convinced wife to train for a fitness competition. Now I need to up my fitness game.Brother. Your ego is in the way. That's my only point. You seem to hitting on most cylindars. My comments still stand especially if the words of some fat dudes on the internet triggered you. | /r/askMRP | 20/08/19 08:05 PM |
| 1 | Convinced wife to train for a fitness competition. Now I need to up my fitness game.Yeah? It gets into that eh? Nice. Louis has those books in his gym for sale. It's heavy into the science but it's all there. | /r/askMRP | 20/08/19 05:51 PM |
| 1 | Convinced wife to train for a fitness competition. Now I need to up my fitness game.Heh you just became a teachable moment is all. And proof that the numbers don't always tell the full story. I did wonder why you looked so weak with the bar. But figured any number of things were going on. Having done a 425 previously explains it. | /r/askMRP | 20/08/19 05:50 PM |
| 1 | Convinced wife to train for a fitness competition. Now I need to up my fitness game.I saw that. Watching it tonight. Couple years back i went down to Westside and met Louis Simmons. Dude is intense. In his gym testosterone drips from the ceilings. | /r/askMRP | 20/08/19 05:27 PM |
| 2 | Convinced wife to train for a fitness competition. Now I need to up my fitness game.OP isn’t listening to some of the advice so I doubt he will take the lifting advice with any seriousness. My immediate guess is the same as /u/red-sfpplus His 265 was not legit. Maybe at parallel but not regulation for competition (A2G), well he states this but I have doubts about his 265. Also at his numbers he should be hitting a 318 Deadlift. There is some slack going on or being new he’s really pushing it, hence the injuries. Curls. I have 18” biceps and I don’t curl. I am already hauling he… | /r/askMRP | 20/08/19 03:12 PM |
| 1 | Convinced wife to train for a fitness competition. Now I need to up my fitness game.Huh. Interesting because I never once said anything negative about you leading her towards improvement. But hey you got this. | /r/askMRP | 20/08/19 02:23 PM |
| 1 | Convinced wife to train for a fitness competition. Now I need to up my fitness game.What you're failing to realize is you're doing it for her. If your life is on track as you say it is. That she is in your frame willingly following and enjoying the benefits of being with an alpha such as yourself.... What she does won't matter to you. If she leaves. You can replace her. If she decides she's better and can get better...you're nonplussed about it. You are slowly dipping into her frame. I'm not saying you are completely. What I am saying is your post has hints of beta in it. Lead … | /r/askMRP | 20/08/19 02:00 PM |
| 2 | Why are there a lot of women who lie about not liking muscles?Pretty simple. Ripped or muscular bodies indicate to a woman you're a player. Or likely to leave her. Dad Bod means beta and more apt to stay and do what she wants. Watch what they do not what they say. | /r/askTRP | 20/08/19 01:50 PM |
| 6 | Wife Sending Selfies to Orbiter / ChadIt's a way of softening the blow. Like saying I've been red pilled for x years or months. They think it'll make it easier and we will bro hug them | /r/askMRP | 19/08/19 09:20 PM |
| 17 | Wife Sending Selfies to Orbiter / ChadA cuck is a man who knows his wife cheated or has and does nothing about it. What you do is up to you. If you keep her recognize exactly what she thinks of you and your "marriage". In other words she's a plate that raises your kids. Second you talk too much. The only red pill awareness you had was seeing it there on the table. You seem to have a grasp of things but it took this to jolt get it in you. Yes if she made that offer this isn't the first time she's cheated and it has been physical. You… | /r/askMRP | 19/08/19 06:49 PM |
| 3 | Catching onitits for a side pieceMale branch swinging, is that a thing? Yes and you’re doing it. You have got to stop holding so much value to sex. Sex is not money. Sex is not love. Sex does not hold any additional value besides reaching a moment of ecstasy. A women who doesn’t value you, but wants to take advantage of your money or other things, has no problem opening up her legs and saying whatever she needs to in order make you think everything is all going to be great between the you. | /r/askMRP | 19/08/19 03:55 AM |
| 1 | Can you demote a wife to plate status?I like the whole Alpha play here. Sadly you don’t have the Frame to make this work. Gawd I wish Cad were here for this one. Any way looking forward to hearing how you slept with Mary Jane Rotten Crotch and fell in love with her. | /r/askMRP | 19/08/19 03:51 AM |
| 1 | Who do you talk to?I don’t talk to any one. Not even guys really want to hear your emotional BS. I mean you can but odds are you’re going to get the man up speech in one form or another, so why not just give it to yourself. I work my shit out in the gym. Which is why I don’t get this tribe shit that’s now all the rage. It’s a support group. In a tribe a man has to be a functioning member coming in first...any way I digress..... Lift Angry. works wonders. I also take it out on a student in the dojo. Being a higher … | /r/askMRP | 19/08/19 03:47 AM |
| 1 | Lifting but losing muscles - need tipsYou have a good grasp of your macros. every one is giving you diet advice. That’s nice, but you’re not telling something. Where’s your workout? What exactly are you doing? This isn’t rocket science. Fuck any diet will work really as long as you stick to a few things and are committed to it. fasting is the latest rage, but its all a male hamster. So I am going to tell you that your workout fucking sucks and you are not committed to it. There are 4 reasons why you aren’t gaining muscle. Your gains… | /r/askMRP | 19/08/19 03:34 AM |
| 6 | Recently Cheated on and Broken up with after 7 Years... What the Fuck do I do?I didn’t read the other post. Doesn’t matter. She cut you out you should not have an issue with cutting her out. It’s done and over why give it more then it was worth. How could she? What she is thinking is that you were never good enough. It's hard for me to convert that information into a plan for myself. I am completely lost. All normal. You’ll figure it out. Cut the harpy out of your life. Block if you have no self control. Otherwise don’t answer her. There is nothing good that can come from… | /r/askMRP | 15/08/19 06:17 PM |
| 4 | I stay in a lot but am always on my grind. Will this eventually lower my SMV to new LTR?If you feel like taking a break from the grind that’s your call. Not hers. If she is going to flip on you over this she’s already done so. going out for dinner and drinks is loser behavior in my opinion. Last time I got drunk when I was 22 (I’m 46) last alcoholic drink I had was 3 years ago. It impedes my training. if someone wants to think I am a bitch because I don’t go out drinking on the weekends fuck ‘em. They don’t deserve to be a part of this adventure. It’s your life. Live it. She can fo… | /r/askTRP | 15/08/19 05:30 PM |
| 0 | Conflicted about ending an amazing relationshipYou’re 18. You didn’t have a relationship. You had a girl you fooled around with. And yes. You’re being a bitch. What do you want? | /r/askTRP | 15/08/19 05:25 PM |
| 4 | Large social group with regulars (100+). Best strategy from a Redpill perspective?I like this post. Truly shows that someone is just putting thier red pill colored sunglasses for the weekend. Like those bros that go to the gym Friday after work to get a pump on before they go clubbing. Sure they look good but it’s nothing more than an aesthetic to them. There’s no work there, they don’t even know what the hell they are doing, just pumping blood and water into the area to be swole. This isn’t about getting the Red Pill persective. This is about living life in such a way as you… | /r/askTRP | 15/08/19 05:23 PM |
| 2 | How the hell do you get out of the anger phase when the entirety of society is rage-inducing.A mature man makes the right judgment & applies wisdom. A strong man holds onto his beliefs. A weak man allows others to decide his fate. An immature man lets the crowd decide his actions Everything men do is a decision. Most of us just rationalize it as outside influence. | /r/askTRP | 15/08/19 05:17 PM |
| 8 | Need advice with wife falling out of love with me.I could recap a lot. But you wouldn’t appreciate it and I would be depriving you of the face smack you deserve. Yet this is common. ILYBNILWY speech. Your advice is in your reading. Maybe someone here can tell you what happened to them and maybe how they reversed it. First off OP needs to learn how a woman’s emotions work. Her emotions are her reality. She can and will convince you And herself that she really didn’t love you. Iron Rule of Tomassi #6 Women are utterly incapable of loving a man in… | /r/askMRP | 15/08/19 02:20 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - August 06, 2019Not bad Frame for a new guy. And yes that is faking it until you make it. At some point you will realize that she is going to be pissed to be pissed. And she wants you and everyone pissed too because it validates her. Your job is not allow that to happen. She has an emotional outburst, fine. Baby Girl can go sit in the corner and then come back to the big person table when she’s done. A better move would have been when she started complaining to slap her ass and tell her if she doesn’t shut up t… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/08/19 12:33 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - August 06, 2019I'm a high-value male Yeah. No you are not. This isn’t your dear diary. Stop wasting other men’s time. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/08/19 12:27 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - August 06, 201948 laws of power. Best read up. It will explain how to navigate this. Most guys rest on the treating her like any other women but I disagree. in the #MeToo world I wouldn’t unless you are very charismatic which clearly you are not. There is a reason she went off and it wasn’t anything to do with you. Your Red Pill understandings can lead you to the why but does it matter? 48 Laws will serve you just as well here. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/08/19 12:22 PM |
| 1 | Is It A Bad Idea For Me To Get Married?I don't care if a man decides to marry. His call not mine. Though he needs to realize being married is not in his interests. There is no upside to being married for a man. That said. No. You're 22. No man should consider marriage until 30 years minimum. At 22 you've no idea what you're doing. Make money. Get jacked. Then you can consider what ever you want. | /r/askMRP | 12/08/19 01:22 PM |
| 2 | I fucked up last night had a fight with the wife.I didn't look at your post history. Yet you clearly haven't been doing this a year. First. Stop drinking. I stopped getting drunk at 22. I stopped having any alcohol 3 years ago. It is an obstacle. People use it as a crutch or some inflated sense of having fun. It leads to shit like this these days. Your wife hit you. I don't care if it was nothing to you. If you'd done the same you'd be in jail. Consider that your wife's reaction was to hit you. Yes you were a little bitch for starting an argum… | /r/askMRP | 12/08/19 01:15 PM |
| 5 | Some old guy at metro sexually harassed my ltr and she got turned on, says she feels like she cheated. Soft next, dump or what?As someone said you can use this kink. Willing to bet she'll be calling you daddy tonight if you have the frame for it. Most times the age is a silent mature confidence older men have or appear to have. She didn't cheat. She made no action to do so or so she says but you don't know. But a beta would want to find out and worry about. Your choice but as someone said...time to push the kink boundaries. | /r/askTRP | 11/08/19 08:18 PM |
| 6 | Theory on Frame vs. EgoDon't confuse ego. There are two aspects. One is a person's own sense of self-importance. Another is the actual psychological construct . The part of the mind that is responsible for reality testing and a sense of personal identity. The first is can be inflated. The second is essential. Both can be removed but I don't recommend removing the second one. The first is an obstacle that must be overcome if you have any desire to grow and move on. It's a wall that prevents learning, and an excuse to i… | /r/askMRP | 11/08/19 08:05 PM |
| 16 | Shit Test Again- Same shit about TRTWell you are a faggot. Sex was right there and she pulled back. She used it as a bargaining chip. It was her plan all along. Mine did this. Only for her it was to talk about bills, retirement plan, bank account, budget....it was always something. She told me it was how she felt close. Can you image in getting a handjob while she talked about next months budget plan? The only answer is to get and walk out. No sex? Leave. Kiss on the forehead, and leave. Takes balls right? This is why you’re a fag… | /r/askMRP | 10/08/19 12:12 AM |
| 3 | Career beta looking for tips on maintaining frame, without anger, during early transformationJust fucking stop. Stop. Stop thinking about what an Alpha does and is and just fucking be one. You feel like you need a month away? Feel? Look. Your Frame develops. Know what you want. Know what you are doing and just fucking do it. I know a great majority of you budding alphas want nothing more than for the world to stop for just a moment. For her to shut up. The kids to calm the fuck down. Everything to just fucking quit. Go off and live in the mountains, maybe grill some steaks and whatever … | /r/askMRP | 09/08/19 02:36 PM |
| 5 | Need help setting a boundaryRead my mind. Gawd. We've been together for how long now? I swear if you just paid a little more attention to me and maybe picked up your gym gear we wouldn't have these issues. You're never around. Always with your red pill friends. Gawd it's like talking to a brick wall. | /r/askMRP | 09/08/19 12:34 AM |
| 2 | Need help setting a boundarySometimes I don't write for OP. But I don't disagree with you. | /r/askMRP | 09/08/19 12:22 AM |
| 1 | How not to give a F when kids are involvedDo the math. It comes down to time right? How much time will you have with your kid divorced and not. Odds are more time divorced. Just being in the home isn't parenting it's being present. Everyone says for the kids. So you're going to role model a shitty marriage for them? Or model boundaries and having some self respect. As a father your biggest tool is the example you set. Both the negative and positive example. Own your shit is a life time not just here and now. What you do is your decision… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 08/08/19 10:57 PM |
| 6 | How not to give a F when kids are involvedYou're a businessman. Look at it this way You are in a constant state of earning profit. You want to end your fiscal year in the black. Some of us have multiple gigs/businesses going. Sex maybe earns $10. Certain sexual acts ups the margin. Varies between the man. Supporting your mission in life maybe $20. being supportive $35 per action Doing laundry, cooking, let's say $30 for each time it is done Nag? Complain, be negative all the time then the account losses money to the bank. At three times… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 08/08/19 10:45 PM |
| 3 | Having women spend money on you. Is this alpha and let’s you hold frame?My thoughts? She's dating a girl. JFC | /r/askTRP | 08/08/19 08:00 PM |
| 5 | Need help setting a boundaryThis is why fucking some girl is left for the final stages of dread. You’ve run the race. You’ve made it clear. You’re in charge of your life, your world. Making that Step to cheating ins’t necessarily the end of the marriage (women will share a high value man vs leaving him) BUT it means the pedal is down on the ground. The advice is if sex is all you want go get it. It’s there. You can find it. Any man can fake being an Alpha long enough to fuck a girl. Don’t mistake the two things. As OP illu… | /r/askMRP | 08/08/19 04:32 PM |
| 3 | Way of the Superior ManThis is why Red Pill is a toolbox. Rifle around. Find what works for you what doesn’t. To also back up /u/2ndal said sometimes you don’t know what will come back to you as you progress. I didn’t like WotSM yet it was a good read in general. Worth the time. | /r/askMRP | 08/08/19 03:56 PM |
| 6 | Looking for advice for 'nice guy' kidsFinding their thing isn’t your job. Your job is to expose them. My oldest wants to lift now. His reason? He hates his skinny arms and legs and wants to look like me. Now...there is an element of setting the example. I have a black belt they do as well, I was in the military they want to as well. BUT I just expose them to options. I am an Eagle Scout...they tried it. Didn’t like it. I was a High School baseball player, they didn’t like it. Oddly /u/RStonePT touched on this in his cast on ego inve… | /r/askMRP | 07/08/19 03:40 PM |
| 20 | Looking for advice for 'nice guy' kids/r/Redpillfatherhood Not a lot there. I keep thinking about posting more. One thing to understand there is no cure. you won’t stop whatever they decide. The best you can do is prepare them so that they will recall and course correct on their own. No man can be convinced of what we talk about. Those days have left. The best you can hope for is that when they hit a wall they will go. Yep. My dad taught me this. Should have listened. My advice is don’t go for the tropes of manhood, or the Miller Li… | /r/askMRP | 07/08/19 02:35 PM |
| 9 | Failed comfort testred pilled in 13? That’s funny shit. This is basic stuff. GTFO | /r/askMRP | 06/08/19 04:40 PM |
| 1 | I now see why spinning plates is the most desirable outcome but shit it feels lonelyYou're learning that sex is easy. Next consider why you are seeking that level of validation that you want a woman to do all those tasks for you. Lastly. You aren't living in plentitude. Friends. Plates. Social life other than girls. You've focused your mission on gaming. | /r/askTRP | 06/08/19 04:07 PM |
| 9 | Dealing with LD WomenUnless medically diagnosed there is no such thing. Even still her hands and mouth work right? If sex wasn't important to a marriage or any relationship then cheating wouldn't be a big deal. Only it is. Think about it. | /r/askMRP | 06/08/19 04:02 PM |
| 5 | Failed comfort testYou're arguing with men who are giving you advice. Third shift sucks ass. You can't make her do it but you can point out how it's fucking things up. I mainly work this shift as a paramedic. And that's a volunteer gig. So yeah. I get it. Lead her out of it to better pastures. She makes the call you lead her to the decision that's best. As for your comfort test. It was your lack of frame that did it. You defended thinking you were deflecting a shit test. This is how this goes. HER: can you quiet t… | /r/askMRP | 06/08/19 03:58 PM |
| 4 | Shit test passYOu got fucked but not for the reason you think. Your wife likes dick. Had nothing do with the dancing monkey routine you put on for her. | /r/askMRP | 06/08/19 01:52 PM |
| 5 | Comfort Test resposneSo I took a look at your post history. Confirms some things. Still you aren’t saying what you told her which gives me nothing to go on. What did you fuck up? If you truly believe this is all a mystery maybe this isn’t the droid you’re looking for. | /r/askMRP | 05/08/19 05:44 PM |
| 6 | Comfort Test resposneThe fact you didn’t tell us what you said gives me pause, but fuck it. I am going to assume you JackTen’d that shit. Do you really intend to leave? If not then why are you worried about what she feels? How and what she feels isn’t your responsibility. You are responsible for what you say not for what she understands. | /r/askMRP | 05/08/19 04:21 PM |
| 11 | FR Hard ResetYep. This is Rambo to a degree but really it’s a blue pill mindset looking for mommie’s adherence to the sudden new state of things. She will always be 6 months or so behind you in changing. Your hardline approach to “take it or leave it” is a Rambo-esque attitude. Which would be fine if you had bothered with any improvement other than reading for a year and realizing you are ready. Actions prove who are. Words who you pretend to be We will see if you have Frame in all this or not. You’ve not po… | /r/askMRP | 05/08/19 02:17 PM |
| 3 | I'm in a bad spot mentally. I feel trapped. I have a very good work from home job but I feel like it's destroying my social life and my SMV.Ya. It's all her. Fuck that bitch. Go get a thot. | /r/askMRP | 02/08/19 07:37 PM |
| 8 | I'm in a bad spot mentally. I feel trapped. I have a very good work from home job but I feel like it's destroying my social life and my SMV.It's because you're always home. Stopping doing that. Women don't like that. | /r/askMRP | 02/08/19 07:37 PM |
| 14 | Wife has been frantic and emotional about the upcoming family vacationWhat I am wondering is why OP is even here asking shit like this. I want to know when he is going to ask what he really wants to, or at least say what he really wants. Not a bit of this information is relevant to anything. OP has to mention twice in the post that he is in his frame or that she has come to his frame. No no no. Your frame just is. It's not like some magic shield you have up. It just is. Case in point: I think the fretting is kinda cute. If his frame was evident he wouldn't have to… | /r/askMRP | 02/08/19 12:42 PM |
| 2 | Feminine style on a budget?https://www.thredup.com/ Good site | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/08/19 03:23 PM |
| 3 | Shit test...did I pass?No. Text is for logistics. | /r/askMRP | 01/08/19 02:08 AM |
| 2 | Knowing the path and walking the pathAbsolutely. Never have a problem with Rambo. He gets shit done. There's an issue when Rambo goes hey why isn't she sucking my dick? What's wrong with her | /r/askMRP | 31/07/19 04:23 PM |
| 4 | Knowing the path and walking the pathAnother tragic hero of his self created problems. I want to make one point clear. The failure of OPs marriage isn't indicative of anything. His mindset is. He's clearly navel gazing and needs to get his dick out of the dirt. We'd like to say because he's divorcing he didn't do it right and that may be. He may have pushed the car over the edge. He also may not have. MRP saves the man not the marriage. He may have been too beta too long for her to accept anything else from him. There's a slow deba… | /r/askMRP | 31/07/19 12:08 PM |
| 1 | I had to act and I acted./u/ChokingdownRP said it. You are essentially remembering what it was like before marriage. When you are just IDGAF. It’s easier to plate. which is why the “pro-marriage” movement lately is all about saying, being married is so much harder. Don’t do it! But they say it as a shame thing. it’s is a bastardization of what we used to say. MRP is red pill on hard mode. becasue you can’t just next her without consequences. I also am not sure why you are getting such a hard push back on your frame. I t… | /r/askMRP | 30/07/19 05:14 PM |
| 3 | Wife prohibiting me from DJing in bar of my choiceI remember those days. It’s also the day I stopped using miracle whip instead of mayo although miracle whip is cheaper and the marketing is more persuasive. | /r/askMRP | 29/07/19 08:46 PM |
| 1 | Finally passing shit tests, but more questionsHello, McFly. Hello? Anyone home? Think, McFly, think. | /r/askMRP | 29/07/19 08:42 PM |
| 1 | Finally passing shit tests, but more questionsYeah your goals are all fucked up. You just told me that you are hanging around without shit to do waiting to get your dick wet. Please tell me you are not waiting there for her to tell you she’s done then you can go sit on the couch. Hold her hand. Waiting for her to green light sex. I was way off base and you held shit back. You are still very much LARPing Frame. The thing about having something to do means you actually have shit to do. She knows it. She knows you are waiting. | /r/askMRP | 29/07/19 08:38 PM |
| 6 | Wife prohibiting me from DJing in bar of my choiceDidn’t read a damn thing. Just the title. I am willing to bet I don’t need to. Let me ask you this: Do you ask permission to pee? If not why are you asking permission for this? | /r/askMRP | 29/07/19 08:18 PM |
| 1 | Finally passing shit tests, but more questionsI'm doing what I think is what I'm supposed to do What do you want to do? What do you want? She said no to sex, and in that moment when she was astonished that you weren’t going to sit there and wait like a good little puppy, you held frame. NOW you are asking what do? Listen, McFly, I am betting your she is wondering why you aren’t pouting, fawning over her to get her to warm up to sex. Keep going about the rest of the day. You made your point. She knows. Do your thing. When you see her again s… | /r/askMRP | 29/07/19 08:15 PM |
| 2 | Finally passing shit tests, but more questionsI didn’t read other comments. I usually do. mostly because I hate repeating something but today...fuck it. I never understood why guys that start this process feel the need to point out the world’s blue pill mindset. This show is blue pill, where is the Red Pill music at? Give it up. The world is blue and it’s not your job to change it. This smacks of the real alpha bullshit that flared up last year. Stop it. This is about you. Not them. Not anyone else. Your self respect. Your boundaries. What … | /r/askMRP | 29/07/19 07:25 PM |
| 3 | A post for Newbie's HopeOn that STFU about your feelings. A captain does his shit in his cabin. Not on deck where everyone can see. | /r/askMRP | 29/07/19 04:45 PM |
| 2 | Joint pain while liftingmy form is not perfect Fix this. | /r/askMRP | 27/07/19 10:46 PM |
| 1 | Heirs of the Blank SlateCan’t argue logic with the feminine. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 27/07/19 12:51 PM |
| 2 | Help identifying lifting milestonesThis is a bad case of Fuckarounditis. Plateau? It’s called the grind and you just do it. Goals? Squat: Novice your body weight Elite 2x your body weight. Deadlift Novice: Your body weight Elite 2.5x your body weight Bench Novice: Your body weight Elite: 1.5x your body weight Pull-ups Novice 10 Elite 20 Push-up (1 minute) Novice 20 Elite 50 | /r/askMRP | 26/07/19 05:08 PM |
| 1 | Vetting. Why bother when boundaries are way betterNo Jacktenofhearts analysis but simply put: There is no bad sign. It is about your self respect, core values, and terms you live by. It's you knowing what you want & what boundaries you have. Then to follow them. This way, no one controls you. You are going to move forward either way. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 26/07/19 03:47 PM |
| 2 | You don’t know how weak you are because you don’t know what strength is.I meditate. It used to be talked a lot but as said it was a crutch. I mediate because I am a practicing Stoic. Not because it’s a RP thing to do. You can take all the cold showers you want, but without the will and the mental toughness your balls just shrivel. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 25/07/19 12:19 PM |
| 3 | Don't talk about fight clubWhat the fuck? You were making some serious progress then? Here’s the thing. I know most of you unplugging guys think you want a RP women, or RP “aware” women. But do you know what that means? It means they just confirm what you know. It’s not like you are going to get access to the kingdom. AWALT is AWALT. RP aware or not. Your post reads like you have some frame going on. Maybe, in tiny pieces. First up.....WTF about the kids? Look some of you are all gangsta about wimmen in their place. Alpha… | /r/askMRP | 24/07/19 06:30 PM |
| 1 | Frame & HappinessAre you trying to convince us? Words just show who you pretend to be. Stop worrying about what a high value man does and just be one. | /r/askMRP | 24/07/19 06:10 PM |
| 3 | Introducing Chad Thundercock's Younger Brother, Dylan -- A Lady's Man for Our Modern AgeDylan sounds like a Sigma. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/07/19 12:57 PM |
| 7 | Wife’s a lazy in bed. Do you acknowledge low quality sexMuch clearer. Thank you. See all caps made it better. Here I thought he wanted his wife to validate his manliness by bouncing up and down. | /r/askMRP | 23/07/19 03:37 PM |
| 7 | Wife’s a lazy in bed. Do you acknowledge low quality sexSometimes a man wants to get fucked. I don't understand any word in that sentence. | /r/askMRP | 23/07/19 03:12 PM |
| 2 | Injury adviceYou keep asking for clarification. You're now making me think instead of advice in which you'd create your own path. You're looking for someone to tell you what to do. What I'd do isn't what you'd do. My advise for me is exactly what you laid out. Its worked for me. Take what works. Throw away what doesn't. Your life. Your Frame. | /r/askMRP | 23/07/19 03:07 PM |
| 2 | Injury adviceExactly. Examples might be your own research. Find a trainer who knows how to get you a program with this injury. Maybe a PT. RP don't pay enough attention to their bodies other than what it takes to fuck. We also need to be healthy. You're money is there for a reason. Martial it address this otherwise you're just kicking the can down the road and this will come back. I've 30% disability from military service. Because I aggressively manage my Injuries. Find qualified and experienced people to ad… | /r/askMRP | 23/07/19 02:54 PM |
| 1 | Fat man wants to know how light he needs to get to start jogging again?Yeah. Lifting won't lose weight. It creates lean muscle mass. I don't look at weight anymore. I look at body fat. There's no magic number IMO for cardio. Don't over do it. So at you stats I'd go for a run walk. Run for 5 minutes. Walk 10. Do this for maybe 2 miles. You do need to build up your body to handle the stress. Can't just go hit it. Over time one day you'll feel stronger and want to stretch your legs. Then you'll know. | /r/askMRP | 23/07/19 02:45 PM |
| 1 | I can't fucking do it.Stop reliving the mistakes of your past and focus on the moments of today. Replaying a situation over and over again in your head is not a productive way to live. You're problem is you care too much. About them. Her. About being beta or alpha. Just stop caring. None of it matters. All that matters is pursuing your life's mission or figuring it all out. This is a marathon. Not a Sprint. | /r/askTRP | 23/07/19 02:42 PM |
| 3 | Injury adviceThere's nothing. Your injury requires full stop. There's good news though. I've often found when i take an extended break I don't lose all that much. Maybe a bit of a slide but if you are as aggressive with recovery as you with lifting your body will respond. A lot of guys will break this shit down with stats. Science. And basically convince you that they are Masters and made the right decisions their entire life. Guess what? Not true. Your body will do what you tell it too. I've seen some absol… | /r/askMRP | 23/07/19 02:33 PM |
| 1 | Who created our red pill?Rare gem of a comment here. | /r/askTRP | 22/07/19 10:17 PM |
| 4 | Don't Kill her fantasy, a guide to building mysteryNever be stagnate. Always have things going on. Example: I'm a martial artist. Within one of my styles at 4rth degree the practitioner has to earn a Meikyo certificate to proceed on or to open a dojo. Do you need to tell her you did it? I also picked up another art (BJJ) Didn't tell her. Just did it. Never be stagnate. Keep moving and doing | /r/TheRedPill | 22/07/19 02:01 PM |
| 2 | Making Progress, but have questionsFrame. You're in hers. Your entire post is about her When she got back in betting in your mind she was going to strip and say take me. Odds are she wanted you to do it. Why the fuck you new guys don't initiate all the time is beyond me. Last time I checked you could be too tired and still get a blow job. | /r/askMRP | 22/07/19 01:26 PM |
| 4 | Won't sign up as the FO despite massive improvement. Kill the puppy?You need to stop trying to make her admit to anything. Your frame literally needs to be that your train is moving. She’s on it or not. What she says doesn’t matter....unless it’s disrespectful then a whole other deal. | /r/askMRP | 21/07/19 11:26 PM |
| 6 | If you could go back in time and do anything different at the beginning of your relationship, what would it be?The low effort of this post reflects the low effort you put into yourself and relationships. Effort is a reflection of interest. | /r/askMRP | 21/07/19 11:14 PM |
| 1 | Lifting question, herniasThe mesh is good stuff. It’s what they go with now. My BJJ instructor kept fucking around with his hernia. Thought it was tough guy time every time he pushed it back in. I had a talk with him told him what could happen over time. It was enough to scare him and his LTR. Next day he was in the pipeline. Any way he got the mesh and a month later was rolling again. So my first recommendation is take your time getting back. And go slow adding weight. There isn’t anything specific. What belt do you us… | /r/askMRP | 20/07/19 09:27 PM |
| 9 | 5 month lifting progress after discovering wife's EA - want to set new lifting goalsI don’t understand your goals clearly here. Are you asking what you should be hitting next? First impression is that you are ego lifting. Just there hammering the weight. It’s fine for where you are at but soon you will start paying that price. 315 is a big lift. Fuck the other guys. It is. Not many get that. Even fewer get to 500. But lets get to 315 first. If your goal is to keep going then I seriously recommend to take a long view approach and start working on your accessory muscle game. Add … | /r/askMRP | 20/07/19 12:55 AM |
| 3 | 5 month lifting progress after discovering wife's EA - want to set new lifting goalsMmm centaurs. | /r/askMRP | 20/07/19 12:44 AM |
| 4 | I want to begin Martial Arts, leaning towards BJJ - looking for advice.I have 2 black belts. And blue in BJJ. My father taught me to box, he was an amateur competitor. Learn one art. Study it for years. Get a black belt if it’s there. Then branch off. Trying to learn a bunch of things all at once is like eating a bowl of chop suey. It’s all mixed up. Someone said you need to learn to fight and that takes time and training. It takes dedication. Fighting is not natural. Among the arts I dedicate time to I have also dabbled in a few others. Kung Fu. TKD, Hapkido. I ev… | /r/askMRP | 20/07/19 12:40 AM |
| 25 | Cheating, divorce and lost new girl. Need help.Thank you for showing the entire community what male branch swinging looks like. The only way to improve from here is to admit to your own bullshit. | /r/askMRP | 19/07/19 02:42 PM |
| 3 | What are your thoughts on bringing your wife/LTR to a strip club?This isn't dread. Dread is where other women hit on you. | /r/askMRP | 19/07/19 12:31 PM |
| 1 | Night time routine / talking / initiatingDo I just stop initiating altogether? what do you want? | /r/askMRP | 19/07/19 12:26 PM |
| 13 | She's sleeping on the couch? (EXAMPLE)I wouldn’t get into an argument. There is no argument. An alpha has a frame where if it’s important to him he engages it. If it isn’t he doesn’t. An argument is merely a duel of egos. If she blurts this out then it’s a sign she is at the end. She has no other tools left and is asserting her control of the marriage bed a symbol of sex. So you have a choice. Smile. Smack her ass. Get your coat and keys and go out of the night. Don’t come home sleep somewhere else. A buddy your trust, another woman… | /r/askMRP | 19/07/19 01:39 AM |
| 8 | Challenge a Shit Test?Her. You know I don't like skinny guys Me. That's cool. Maggie does. (doesn't matter who Maggie is) You've not studied enough. STFU is your response if you can't manage AM or AA | /r/askMRP | 18/07/19 11:11 PM |
| 2 | What do you do with youre girlfriends/wives on daily basis?So I am a supposed to tell you what I’ve learned from hard won experience? I could, in fact it’s all here in the MRP subs, but you can’t pull it off because you are more concerned about how your wife feels. Get to fucking work and stop asking us dumbass questions. | /r/askMRP | 18/07/19 03:51 PM |
| 4 | Night time routine / talking / initiatingBeing less beta? This whole post is about being more beta. It was like a guy i read once that said he wants his wife to feel loved and cared for. Jesus Christ. Actions show who you are. Words show who you pretend to be. | /r/askMRP | 18/07/19 03:48 PM |
| 2 | What do you do with youre girlfriends/wives on daily basis?You should be more concerned with what I am doing with your wife on a daily basis. | /r/askMRP | 18/07/19 03:44 PM |
| 1 | Lifting Primer: Your ShouldersI imagine they would but they aren't in the protocol at the moment. So two motions hurt. Bench press and when you pull up your pants. So those two actions are the ones that cause sincere pain. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/07/19 08:14 PM |
| 1 | Lifting Primer: Your ShouldersIt's primary purpose is shoulder retraction and scapula stabilization. So if you have rounded shoulders and forward posture yes it will help. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/07/19 11:59 AM |
| 1 | Lifting Primer: Your ShouldersThe bench and incline is due to my AC Joint issue. It's a moderate bench to keep me in the game until i heal fully. Normaly I am doing 6-8 reps. I try to stay between 1-2 minuets between sets, but frankly as I get up there I need to rest longer. Deadlifts and squats especially. Though i am not like most and hang a sign up that says "gone to lunch" I try to get back at in 8 minutes or less. seems to be a good rest period. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 16/07/19 06:25 PM |
| 6 | Lifting Primer: Your ShouldersEach lifter on the team has a work out unique to him that addresses each individual's strengths, weaknesses, and their own body mechanics. My workout doesn't look like the other guys. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 16/07/19 05:27 PM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - July 16, 2019Your Shoulder: stop benching. Shoulder problems like these are common with lifters who lack proper form (been thinking of doing a post on proper form and accessory work). Start doing lat pulldowns, v Bar pulldowns. One arm dumbbell rows, and inclined rear delt swings. Develop and strengthen the shoulder area. What is your stretching like? What is this Navy BF bullshit? It's gay. Stop it. Your Wife: She likes you. Not only that she likes sex. You need to stop being a little girl about it. It has … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 16/07/19 12:31 PM |
| 5 | Don't know how long me (29) and my wife (34) will last - 5 years married & autistic son, feeling stuck, bored, and like we're not really friends anymore.Huh. You got a lot more advice then I thought you would. My goal is to remain married Then this isn't the place for you either. We don't save marriages here. Red Pill saves the man. Not the relationship. Any advice on how to talk to my wife about that specifically? You don't. Women don't care about men's feelings. That's about all the advice I have because your goal is wrong. Change that and then I might pay more attention. | /r/askMRP | 16/07/19 12:13 PM |
| 1 | My husband wants a divorce a week before our anniversaryWhile this is for men, there is some wisdom a woman can get but for the best advice you need to go /r/redpillwomen | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/07/19 02:12 PM |
| 4 | Power Phrases and BrevitySTFU for me was always about not committing until I was ready. It should come about as a high value man that when you speak it means something. People use their mouths like gatling guns. If and when you talk it should be important. Yet, not everything is important. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/07/19 01:47 PM |
| 8 | How did you approach your wife?Dear MRP, I am a really great guy. I wear the latest clothes from Walmart (RP RULE: Be thrifty). I go to Planet Fitness (RP RULE: Workout). I even hit on the cougars at the water aerobics class (RP RULE: Always be flirting). I just don't know what's wrong. I am smart enough, my cock is big enough, and gosh darn it people like me. Thank you for listening MRP. You are the best. Love, OP | /r/askMRP | 15/07/19 01:44 PM |
| 9 | How do you approach them go to sleep?Earn your sleep like you earn you meals. A man earns his keep, even to himself. | /r/askMRP | 15/07/19 01:34 PM |
| 6 | How do you approach them go to sleep?Why? What's the purpose? It's because you don't understand what you are supposed to be doing. And How? I end up staying up and thinking about my life, just like every other night. It's anxiety. It's realizing that you aren't doing shit. your hamster is running wild and giving you reasons why things are the way you want them to be. it's really an admission by yourself that you aren't working enough. When 10pm comes around I am almost beat. From the gym, work, or home projects whatever it is I am … | /r/askMRP | 15/07/19 01:17 PM |
| 1 | Getting Ass To GrassCorrect. Chronic is bad. Which is what they joint would have turned into if it wasn’t knocked out. I’d have to heal the inflammation, stiffness and lack of flexibility. As it is I didn’t. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/07/19 11:05 PM |
| 9 | Field report and question on how to continueA weak man, developing his masculinity has to mention he’s going to fuck the neighbor. A high value Alpha has the neighbor wanting to fuck him. Which do you think you are? HINT: I tell her that I expect some good sex from her. One of those men has to tell her. The other gets it all the time. | /r/askMRP | 14/07/19 11:03 PM |
| 2 | Getting Ass To GrassCentaur women are where it's at. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/07/19 08:40 PM |
| 1 | Cocaine and a girlget your sorry coke snorting ass out of here. There are men working to correct their lives. Leave your wife. Fuck the co-worker that you didn’t intend to cheat with Cry about your pay, respect, how alone you are. i really don’t care. What I care about is that you are wasting men’s time here with problems you created. | /r/askMRP | 13/07/19 06:22 PM |
| 1 | Cocaine and a girlGood luck. | /r/askMRP | 13/07/19 05:49 PM |
| 1 | Cocaine and a girlKewl. You got it all figured out. | /r/askMRP | 13/07/19 05:49 PM |
| 2 | Training WomenWhat the fuck? why? I have so much time. I can either spend it reading about how I can learn skills to train someone or I can use the time to better my life. Effort is a reflection of interest. If you have to change the course and direction of you life just to interest her and play some carnival tricks to get her to stay? Then you missed the fucking point and you’ll be dead before you do anything with your life. have a distance and direction for you life. Execute it with violent intent. | /r/askMRP | 13/07/19 05:05 PM |
| 1 | Cocaine and a girlWont’ change a god damn thing. You are still you. Your next relationship will turn out the same way. You won’t make any progress in your life. | /r/askMRP | 13/07/19 04:10 PM |
| 1 | Cocaine and a girlI became am a softy blue pill guy but and I’m not improving that. FIFY. Not only has your wife checked out but you have as well. Is there hope to this and I should keep going down the mrp path or should we just end things now? If there is hope, what next? Hope isn’t a method. Let me spin it this way. I just read a post by a guy who is the tragic hero of his own self created problems. What is it you want? Then go do that. | /r/askMRP | 13/07/19 04:08 PM |
| 8 | Wife is trying to counter my STFU.I am going to go counter on this just a bit. This isn’t Jersey Shore where you walk in with washboard stomach and panties fall. It helps, but it isn’t all you do. Ripped or not she would have done the same thing. I have seen well built men in the gym cut their gym time short because “the old lady” called. They lack Frame, boundaries, and self respect. They are doing it for her. Most of you unplugging guys just can’t keep your cock holsters shut. AND you don’t even understand how the Relationship… | /r/askMRP | 13/07/19 03:58 PM |
| 1 | Getting Ass To GrassNo gear. My levels are normal. This is my Daily supplement protocol: Multivitamins Whey Protein (Dymatize Elite Whey) Fish Oil (Omega-3 high EPA/DHA content) at 1500mg a day (500 3x daily) Creatine 5 grams a day Beta-Alanine 5mg day Magnesium 600mg Osteo-Vanitiv (a joint enhancement supplement with Magnesium, cartilage, and terahydro Iso alpha acids) this and eating are a fucking full time job. EDIT: Coffee. 3 cups a day. I use this instead of pre workout. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 12/07/19 02:27 PM |
| 1 | Getting Ass To GrassHa. I am | /r/MarriedRedPill | 12/07/19 09:41 AM |
| 1 | Getting Ass To GrassThey are. Affordable is relative and depends on location. The place I picked does sports consulting and they are certified trainers and nutrionists. It's going to cost me but I've been doing the standard stuff you read online for years. Everyone has variations of rice. Chicken turkey with green veggies. Verdict is still out so we will see | /r/MarriedRedPill | 12/07/19 02:37 AM |
| 2 | Getting Ass To GrassYes indeed. Punch your ego in the neck and go back to square one, if that's what it takes to reach the next ledge. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 12/07/19 02:21 AM |
| 1 | Getting Ass To GrassI take a mountain of supplements daily. I posted it in an OYS. I am having a nutritionist go over my meal plan next week to see if I can tighten my game. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 12/07/19 02:19 AM |
| 1 | Getting Ass To GrassI use harbinger. Yes the confidence boost alone is worth it. And with deadlifts. Spotters too. You don’t have to worry about losing it when you are in the pocket. Just lift. I am guilty here. I usually lift along using the power rack but it’s not the same. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 12/07/19 01:55 AM |
| 1 | Getting Ass To GrassHa. I wipe mine down with an antibacterial wipe I pick up from the fire station. Probably attributes to the rapid wearing out I'll look into them. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 12/07/19 01:52 AM |
| 1 | Getting Ass To GrassSBD. Mine are wearing. Need new ones How do yours hold up? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 12/07/19 01:46 AM |
| 2 | Getting Ass To GrassSquat shoes check. Same type you use. Neoprene knee sleeves. check. There is no danger in going below parallel if your form is right. The fatigue is in the hips and legs. Not the knees. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 12/07/19 01:26 AM |
| 10 | Getting Ass To GrassThe way a man lifts reflects his life. You are doing too much in a short gap thinking that’s all that’s needed. You are ego lifting. I am betting you are going about your Red Pill that same way. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 12/07/19 12:41 AM |
| 4 | Continue with kino or back off?4 weeks? Wow. That’s a long time. No. It’s really not. You are getting impatient, you want to see gains now. You aren’t in fact it’s about to get worse becasue I am going to tell you to ignore her. Keep initiating. Keep keno. I never understood men who stop initiating with their wive or GF/LTR. You are literally conditioning her to not have sex with you or think about having sex with you. HER: No I am not having sex tonight ME (rubbing muh belly) ok but we are going to play sea monster and the d… | /r/askMRP | 11/07/19 09:41 PM |
| 2 | Need Advice: Marriage CounselingMove this to /r/askmrp Can’t read directions.....that should be your flair. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 11/07/19 04:14 PM |
| 8 | Female Psychologist wants husband to become BetaOP believes that if he can only reason with her. OP doesn’t even realize he can fire her. | /r/askMRP | 11/07/19 02:02 PM |
| 6 | What to do when anniversary is coming up?What do you want to do? I know. Pretty radical idea. | /r/askMRP | 11/07/19 12:30 PM |
| 2 | MRP/TRP says it's my fault if my wife cheats on me. What does RPC say?Red pill guarantees to fix the man. It might fix the relationship but then it's not a man's job to maintain the relationship. (and I'm not really sure that's a Christian principle or not but it is a red pill one) | /r/RPChristians | 11/07/19 12:13 AM |
| 2 | MRP/TRP says it's my fault if my wife cheats on me. What does RPC say?you didn't understand what i actually said | /r/RPChristians | 10/07/19 08:35 PM |
| 1 | Girl (plate) starting crying at dinner. Then was acting weird and denied sex. How should I have handled This?how do you act less alpha because I would really like to hear this one. Is she a plate or a girlfriend or an LTR? She basically wanted drama. Created it. Sucked you into it. You stayed "to cuddle", instead of getting fucked like you wanted. | /r/askTRP | 10/07/19 04:52 PM |
| 1 | Girl (plate) starting crying at dinner. Then was acting weird and denied sex. How should I have handled This?I should have acted “alpha” This sums up your problem You were and are acting alpha. Fix that. | /r/askTRP | 10/07/19 04:46 PM |
| 1 | MRP/TRP says it's my fault if my wife cheats on me. What does RPC say?There's been some things in MRP/TRP that are more hardline in the last year. The idea that it's your fault, that it all falls on you is being taken a bit too far. It's never said but over time one comes to understand what is really being said. In the past it wasn't so direct and hard. There are success stories more than not of Married men turning their marriages around. It just gets lost in the noise of those that decided or failed to do otherwise. Though if you haven't completely unplugged then… | /r/RPChristians | 10/07/19 02:34 PM |
| 1 | Since my frame increased tremendously I can shatter a girls confidence with one weird look?is this the Red Pill version of staring at goats? | /r/askTRP | 10/07/19 12:57 PM |
| 9 | Balancing set expectations/boundaries and denying escalations from wife.Been a creeper on here for a few months. I really like it when guys say this. Makes it real easy and I don’t have to read the rest of thier nonsense. It basically means they were sitting on the fence watching real men get work done. OP, you’ve done jack shit. So welcome to Day 1 of Hell Week. I am sure you are familiar with that, yeah? Also if your wife is Eastern European don’t fool yourself. She knows full well how relationships work. It’s how she was raised. Trust me on this. She’s just waiti… | /r/askMRP | 10/07/19 12:01 AM |
| 0 | Own Your Shit Weekly - July 09, 2019my fear of divorce is damaging no. we only have 2 fears in life. Fear of death and fear of being alone. Which do you think your fear is? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/07/19 06:55 PM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - July 09, 2019Since then I’ve just been ignoring it. So, yeah, I have been am a pussy FIFY. This is all you had to say. The rest is just so much word vomit. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/07/19 06:02 PM |
| 4 | Own Your Shit Weekly - July 09, 2019Having been a former alpha you're lying. Stop it. I know because you then go into great depth about not knowing how to be assertive and all about her. If you were alpha once long ago in a galaxy far away none of this would be so hard for you. It's like those guys that say I am a natural alpha. Just fucking stop it already. No one gives a fuck about your BP self. Every swinging dick here has been BP in one way or the other. Guess what? we don't care. What do care about is you lying to yourself an… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/07/19 05:39 PM |
| 3 | Own Your Shit Weekly - July 09, 2019Your shoulders aren't strong enough to handle your lifts. You need to add accessory muscle workouts to strengthen the overall area. Look into dumbbell work. I don't warm up at all. I stretch I have some mobility exercises I do but like Sunday i jumped right into a DL exercise from hell. All 3 forms (sumo, conventional, and Romanian) all on a 4x4 at 380. You are overworking your joints. Get away with? Did I just read that? With that attitude you won't. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/07/19 05:29 PM |
| 3 | Own Your Shit Weekly - July 09, 2019I am still stuck on where OP has to change things up becasue he is afraid his wife might bolt. Seriously? if she is a flight risk and a proven one wtf are you doing about that? Seems to me that she is pulls this nuclear option because it gets you to the table to negotiate. You shouldn't negotiate with terrorists. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/07/19 04:58 PM |
| 3 | Own Your Shit Weekly - July 09, 2019"You know, whenever you're ready to be that couple that has sex again, don't be shy. Come over and rub my penis. Make sure I get the message." She laughed and said, "Noted." This is the first time in 6 months we've even discussed sex when I'm not pressuring her into it. You weak fuck. You had a chance at sex right then and went and did something so blue pill it likely set you back 30 years. Have you not learned you can't negotiate desire. OF COURSE SHE WANTS SEX...and if you aren't nailing her s… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/07/19 04:50 PM |
| 5 | Own Your Shit Weekly - July 09, 2019Your wife is a bitch. Would you allow anyone in your work environment to talk to you like that. Furthermore would you allow a teacher to talk to your kids like this? Why do you allow your wife? I stopped right at the little story about your wife. All that other shit is just you making excuses as to why you aren't progressing. While you are sitting there wondering while the rest of your world is going up in smoke. Stop hamstring why and start doing. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/07/19 04:36 PM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - July 09, 2019What's up with the shoulder what lift hurts it more. Ease off now on all shoulder work outs...trust me on this. I am nursing a AC joint separation at the moment. BP is limited to 225 max when my 1RM was 450 I was supposed to be hitting 500 this summer. You are putting off your mission and mental development why again? Waiting for a perfect time? there is no perfect time other than now. just spank her ass and see. just walk by her and do it then keep walking as if it didn't matter. Like you've al… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/07/19 04:23 PM |
| 2 | Cold approachingI've been noticing there is some very basic things all these unplugging guys are failing to do and read. Just out there alone and unafraid. What they are doing is just searching Reddit for the answers or waiting for a flared man to repsond. Then using that as the basis off their development. | /r/askMRP | 09/07/19 03:41 PM |
| 2 | Do women generally make poor quality friendsWomen as your friend? I don't want to fuck my friends. | /r/askTRP | 09/07/19 12:54 PM |
| 2 | Where do I go from here? 44 yo, 5'3", $1.6M, in NYCEeyore, the old grey Donkey, stood by the side of the stream and looked at himself in the water. “Pathetic,” he said. “That's what it is. Pathetic.” He turned and walked slowly down the stream for twenty yards, splashed across it, and walked slowly back on the other side. Then he looked at himself in the water again. “As I thought,” he said. “No better from this side." This is you. You are stuck in cognitive distortions. Your emotional reasoning is quite astounding though not surprising. It's pr… | /r/askTRP | 09/07/19 12:51 PM |
| 2 | Did any of you married men "talk" about sex before getting married?Actions show who you are. words show who you pretend to be. There is no summit meeting that you have with your wife/GF/LTR. You show her what you expect by enforcing your boundaries. You don't just hand her a book of rules nor set her down and go over things. Her dad did that and she still snuck out of the house to the trash can party to jerk off the football captain. you show through your actions, it is your own self respect, core values and terms you live by. It's about you knowing what you wa… | /r/askMRP | 09/07/19 12:28 PM |
| 3 | Knowing When To Take A KneeTo add to /u/FereallyRed I can’t identify with this. As men, we have an innate desire to compete, to be in the mix, and to simply lead things. Men do, but if you have walked that walk it no longer becomes a need. Maybe it comes with age, experience, perhaps both. I held 3 company commands before I was 30 (I am 46 now). Right place right time because not many officers get the chance at 2 let alone 3 commands. I no longer have a need to prove nor display my leadership. It is who I am rather that w… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/07/19 01:53 AM |
| 1 | Quit Being Angry at Bob VilaAll men deserve a second chance. But you keep an eye on them. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/07/19 01:28 AM |
| 1 | Quit Being Angry at Bob VilaI didn’t think of the prodigal son but I see how it fits. In general we need to beware of demogauges and idols. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/07/19 01:14 AM |
| 5 | Quit Being Angry at Bob VilaI have my issues with both because I see them cut from the same cloth. Both are young men that haven't been through fire. They may understand red pill and what it means but I doubt either understand the gravity of it. One has to use large words and invoke philosophical ideas that don't really belong. They are a distraction. A crutch most likely because his message might be lost otherwise. The other tries to identify and sees commonality in his life that paralells other made men. He has a seat at… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/07/19 12:01 AM |
| 1 | Reality Check TimeAgreed on the natty. I have considered gear but I want to compete that they test. There are two ways to go. Either Ripped AF Ryan Gosling style or look like you could just fuck her in half, Gregor Cleagne Style. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 08/07/19 06:28 PM |
| 1 | Jesus is the Answer...I wasn’t implying you did. What I am saying is that your angst is misplaced. If you wish we can take this to PM but I for one have had enough of flared man drama with the turn of TFA and Rollo’s post. | /r/RPChristians | 08/07/19 06:13 PM |
| 1 | Jesus is the Answer...You’re off base. I did not draw a complete thread and completely support either RP pure ideals or those espoused here on RPC. OP isn’t willing to listen to either. His voice needs to be silenced. Hence my point. I am also not going to get into a food fight with a fellow EC. | /r/RPChristians | 08/07/19 06:08 PM |
| 2 | Cold approachingYou missed at least one spot where she gave you an opening. No guarantee she would fuck you, but she gave you an opening. Odds are she gave you more but you didn’t see them. | /r/askMRP | 08/07/19 03:54 PM |
| 7 | Quit Being Angry at Bob VilaI have been a marital artists for over 20 years. I have 2 black belts and am active in both arts. I have also started BJJ and hold a blue belt, though I am not concerned with getting black. I just enjoy it. Here’s what I have learned. I don’t think you can monetize martial arts. For one both my original arts are traditional. One is core to Japanese culture. The other a Okinawan art. In Okinawa though dojos are for pay it is not the sensei’s main job for the most part. There are a few. the pay is… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 08/07/19 01:05 PM |
| 1 | Jesus is the Answer...Everyone wants to be the man. Personally when I find myself repeating advice I know it’s time to go to the forest and find out for myself. The next time I wonder if I will return. | /r/RPChristians | 08/07/19 12:51 PM |
| 1 | Jesus is the Answer...it smacks of /r/realalpha come back from the dead | /r/RPChristians | 08/07/19 12:42 PM |
| 2 | ChristianManosphere Reddit Forum...This is like throwing a hand grenade into a room and closing the door. Your own sub you complain how this sub is victim of groupthink and no one wants to challenge and discuss. Based on this alone the real issue is that YOUR ideas are challenged and you do not like it. | /r/RPChristians | 08/07/19 12:23 PM |
| 1 | Jesus is the Answer...In reality what you are doing is trying to reframe things under your paradigm. Let’s review. You came to a Red Pill forum, clearly understanding where you were. Tried to Ingratiate yourself by using RP terminology and then admit that you have no understanding of them meanings. YET you claim they are unclear. How are they unclear when you don’t understand them. Furthermore you do not come here to seek understanding but to pull men off the path. | /r/RPChristians | 08/07/19 12:19 PM |
| 1 | Repenting of NOT being a manThe hard right over the easy wrong. | /r/RPChristians | 07/07/19 07:05 PM |
| 2 | Jesus is the Answer...i didn’t get too far in your reply. You have very little understanding of the Red Pill, Christian or otherwise. | /r/RPChristians | 07/07/19 07:03 PM |
| 4 | Jesus is the Answer...I take some exception to how you classify Red Pill men here. Red Pill in general forces men of all faiths and backgrounds to see the world as it truly is. Not how they were told it is or should be nor what their own emotions tell them. We are to accept the world for what it is we cannot change it. In fact the Bible even warns of it if one were to pay close enough attention. Even in Christian sense this is true though the Bible tells the faithful to make inroads and not be concerned of the outcom… | /r/RPChristians | 07/07/19 06:34 PM |
| 1 | How to not feel like a cuck in an ltr?You are in no position to LTR. Don't. So you're a cuck to imaginery guys or to the past? That's great frame. Due to your lack of frame no other lesson or advice is going to make sense. | /r/askTRP | 07/07/19 01:09 PM |
| 2 | Knowing When To Take A KneeI was a certified beer judge (legit thing) for the local craft beer competitions for over a decade. But when I want to walk that hairy edge for a competition I have to cut back every thing that can impact me for that goal. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/07/19 06:20 PM |
| 2 | Knowing When To Take A KneeWow it’s like a reunion and shit. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/07/19 06:13 PM |
| 15 | Knowing When To Take A KneeQuit drinking 2 years ago. Conflicts with my lifting goals. Besides I don’t things that diminish me. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 05/07/19 03:38 PM |
| 4 | (Xpost from asktrp) My wife is depressed, and I would appreciate some insight so I can help herDepression is a serious issue and leads to worse things. you are thinking of having kids? Post partum is a dangerous mindset, and I believe all women get it but most come out of it quickly. The chemical wash their brains go through during pregnancy and childbirth is pretty intense. If she is already in a depressive state it can get worse. You do you but my first step would be to lead her to counseling. Not ask, not beg. I would make the appointment and tell her this is the day and time. then tak… | /r/askMRP | 03/07/19 11:59 AM |
| 16 | "Do you like my dissected boobs?"Excellant post. Too many view shit tests solely through the realm of disrespect. True they can be but they are also her looking to test your frame. Once you engage her it’s a war of egos. Any situation marred by ego cannot stay for long. When you enter into an argument with her, point for point. You think you are using Red Pill arguments (Hey lady here’s my grand vision) while she is deep in the feels, all you are doing is trying too fix her feels. Trying to convince her that this is better. Jac… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 02/07/19 05:45 PM |
| 7 | I think I failed a stupid shit test this morning?Leading doesn’t mean you take her out all the time. This thinking is just giving her what she wants, a beta provider who is taking her out and letting her show off. Besides why would you take a crabby person like that out? ——- ME: "Hey! On Friday evening, we're going to the movies together!' HER: "I'd rather have you ASKING me this instead of just giving me an orderlike that" ME: Who said I was taking you? ——- You did fail. It’s obvious zero of you are actually researching and just reading the n… | /r/askMRP | 02/07/19 04:41 PM |
| 20 | Confirmed my LTR has been cheatingYou know why puzzles come all in pieces? Part of the fun is putting it together. Seeing how the picture unfolds. There is also learning along the way. If you think you need the puzzle handed to you then you are missing the point and you will never get your shit together. | /r/askMRP | 02/07/19 12:58 PM |
| 22 | Confirmed my LTR has been cheatingWhat i see is a guy who is willing to be bend and break his boundaries for what? You were so worked up over her cheating that you looked through her phone. You even twice tried to get it out of her. YET...you are considering staying with her. See most men use Red Pill as a way of trying to figure her out and get revenge. They look for the signs of cheating, or if she is good enough. That’s not the point at all. Every day events can be red flags when you are looking for red flags. Being cucked is… | /r/askMRP | 02/07/19 12:26 PM |
| 3 | How can you love and admire men after taking the red pill?Easy to spot a yellow car when you are always thinking of a yellow car. Easy to spot opportunity when you are always thinking of opportunity. Easy to spot reasons to be mad when you are always thinking of being mad. You become what you constantly think about. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/07/19 05:24 PM |
| 6 | Wife pushing back after upping my SMV and holding frame.Her friend? Don’t know about you but I don’t want to fuck my friends. | /r/askMRP | 01/07/19 02:53 PM |
| 12 | Wife pushing back after upping my SMV and holding frame.Shut. The. Fuck. Up That’s your advice. You weren’t doing anything other then using Red Pill words to justify blue pill actions. HER: What if I couldn’t have sex for a year would you leave? ME: No, of course not. I need someone to clean the house too. ———- HER: You only act closer to me when we have sex. ME: Sex, you say? Sure, you might get lucky tonight, if you play your cards right." (with a wink and/or a smirk) ——— HER: You only act closer to me when we have sex. ME: No, I care about getting… | /r/askMRP | 01/07/19 02:50 PM |
| 2 | Wife pushing back after upping my SMV and holding frame.So hopefully I get some decent advice. You hope? Hope? Is this how you go through life? Hoping things work out? Hoping that your efforts pays off, hoping beyond hope that she will just get you. What I was hoping you’d just shut the fuck up already. Much like your wife was likely hoping. Hope isn’t a method. You talk too much. | /r/askMRP | 01/07/19 02:38 PM |
| 14 | Could you help me?Hint: It was always time to focus on your desires and goals. It should have never stopped. They fall in line with your vision of life or they find somewhere else to go. Your life isn’t over. It’s just begun. The question is do you accept it or are you going to keep crying about the past. | /r/askMRP | 01/07/19 01:43 PM |
| 31 | Could you help me?Jesus fucking Christ. Just when I think I made some head way with one man another sad sack shows up. Like all Blue Pill fucks OP is the tragic hero of his own self created problem. Alright mother fucker. Here’s the deal. You are needy as fuck. Stop that. Neediness is an insidious thing. It comes from a variety of places and even reasons. Even experts don't completely agree. Some think it comes from your relationships with your parents, others a pattern of neglect and disregard in all your relati… | /r/askMRP | 01/07/19 01:35 PM |
| 3 | DHV "battle" between me and my wife; question.The reason we tell men to make more money and lift is because these are the easiest things for a man to do in order to improve SMV. There are plenty of examples where women make more than their husbands and still the man commands a higher SMV. Why? Frame. Cast admantium strong frame. Sure her head could be turned by the CEO she works for wearing that shark skin suit, but I can tell you I have met plenty of CEOs and corporate executives that are blue pill as fuck. Money is a fantastic equalizer b… | /r/askMRP | 01/07/19 12:58 PM |
| 2 | Anyone have tips for creating time and space for sex when there are always children in the house?Sepean, baby. After reading all the comments sounds like you are just at the limits of time. Nearly every idea here you counter with a negative response. The only thing left then is to consider removing things from your schedule, family’s and individual. I am guilty of this. I fill my time with things and never look back until have hit a crunch. Volunteer work, martial arts (BJJ and karate), PhD studies, full time job, gym life, and competitions. Then I have to make room for my social agenda. So… | /r/askMRP | 01/07/19 12:48 PM |
| 1 | Wife not a good motherDifficult to tell based on n this little bit. This is why lurking is never accepted. With more post history we’d get a better idea. Possible your wife is sociopathic. Possible she’s got postpartum (doesn’t sound like it but would need more information). A lot of things are possible. YET you came here asking us to give you a full up plan on what to do. NOW that speaks to your ability to do much more than get a woman pregnant, and likely some slut you picked up at a club. The fact that you equate … | /r/askMRP | 01/07/19 12:35 PM |
| 13 | Where can I really find a dominant man?Dominant men do not advertise. They are reserved until they don't need to be. They know who they are and have little need or desire to flaunt it. Learn the difference between dominant and domineering. Most weaker men are domineering since they're trying to prove who they are. Actions show who these men are. Words show you who they pretend to be. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/06/19 02:16 PM |
| 2 | How to deal with a bratCareful your rules aren't some blue pill bullshit. Research because your writing down your expectations smacks of blue pill thinking. You don't have the frame yet so you're going to go half cocked on it. Look into brat Taming more and rules for Daddy s girls. | /r/askMRP | 28/06/19 12:21 PM |
| 3 | How to deal with a bratSome details you left out when we were talking. /U/Sepean has good questions you need to ask yourself. I asked you. Are you a Brat Tamer? Your wife is perfectly bratty. I love brats. Love shit tests. A lot of guys can't stand the perception of disrespect. Shit tests aren't disrespectful normally. They can be but it's all in the tone. Still if she stops shit testing you then you need to wonder what's up. For a brat They are a test and as a brat she's trying to rile you up. make you lose control. … | /r/askMRP | 28/06/19 11:45 AM |
| 3 | Spanking your wifeHold up. Hijacking OPs thread but fuck it. She can say no but again Daddy wins here. If you want to fuck you fuck. you could have turned to sex right then. She may want to hold off, but this is her dictating sex again. With a Brat you have to take charge. So she said no. Is she going to get punished for that no? Does she know that? All other BP guys have a different outlook. YOURS wants you to fuck her but she enjoys torturing you. YOu need to change this up. If yoiu tell her she’s going to get … | /r/askMRP | 27/06/19 06:17 PM |
| 5 | Spanking your wifeHow’d that work out for you? Things change when you see it differently? Your view of her disrespecting you was an ego stance. Stepping out of that moment and seeing the behavior for what it is will serve you better. | /r/askMRP | 27/06/19 06:00 PM |
| 1 | Covert Contracts and STFUHate cranberry sauce. Good video though. | /r/askMRP | 26/06/19 05:15 PM |
| 0 | No Wife / Why Women Don't Need You / Do not marry her...A woman needs to ask herself one question: Does she want to be right or have a relationship? Simple as that. | /r/RPChristians | 26/06/19 04:37 PM |
| 8 | Fuck... the body...Man's life is hero to zero. One minute King. One minute pauper. Everything only lasts a day. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 26/06/19 02:04 PM |
| 4 | Discussion about the fundamentals of MRPHeh. The old I am willing to discuss as long as it sits within my view of the world. Look bub, Your ego is an obstacle to life. It prevents you from learning, growing, and improving. It’s a reason for you to ignore things that are of benefit to you. There are only 2 choices here: Get the fuck over yourself or chose to remain stupid. | /r/askMRP | 26/06/19 12:38 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - June 25, 2019Choking. You may have choked her too hard. The throat is a weird thing. YOur hands should be high and the pressure isn’t really on the lyranx. Unless she has that fetish which doesn’t sound like it. Women want this balance of trusting you to NOT do it and having the feeling of lost control. So the pressure is on the entire hand just giving a push on the throat. As for her saying slut. Have you called her that yet? the first move is to usually tell her she’s your slut. A good slut. A good little … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 26/06/19 12:23 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - June 25, 2019Yes to both. She is brat, and you played it wrong. Brother you have a great one on your hands for sure. That play fighting confirmed it for me. Mine like that too. She takes Krav Maga doesn’t know much grappling, still she loves to try to fight me and we only just started that. Your brat absolutely wants and needs to know you are able of taking her down and using her when and as you want. Only she isn’t going to give it up easy. Do you really want her to? She must not like riding so don’t do tha… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 26/06/19 12:03 PM |
| 1 | Frame. You Lack ItThey do. I just got done saying this to /u/Daddy_Thundercock in his OYS it’s not only the seeking of validation from her but also seeking her respect. Respect will come and it is a marker on the road BUT you don’t need it. If you get wrapped around that axle you will lose your frame. You will then start chasing the Pussy again. You don’t need her respect. Her respect is the result of who you are. Remember she can just as easily walk away on you then where’s your respect if it was hinged on her? … | /r/askMRP | 26/06/19 11:54 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - June 25, 2019With a brat you need frame. Cast iron frame. She knows you don’t have it. Fucking strange and papers are not going to solve your issues of frame. You will still be you. Those routes are just ways for you to pretend, which is where some guys get when they pretend to go monk mode. It’s like taking their ball and going home. You care too much about her behavior and treatment. Do you really see yourself as a pussy? You must because you want her respect of you in order to feel like you’ve made progre… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 26/06/19 11:47 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - June 25, 2019Brats are fucking awesome. If you aren’t a Brat Tamer there is no shame in that. Of course you can't rule out she's just a bitch but regarding bratty behavior: They are looking for Daddy. Bottom line you need to set clear rules and she follows them or is punished. This can vary. Brats are subs but not in the same way. She gets bratty on the phone or text and you just calmly say. “You are going to get disciplined for that bratty attitude”. Of course she will be flippant like what are you going to… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 26/06/19 11:42 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - June 25, 2019Careful here. You're in the all or nothing concept. That same attitude of her letting you down is the one you want to encourage towards sex. My guess is you're not doing this right. You're halting sexual advances because you're butt hurt about not getting fucked. When really you need to keep it going and not GAF if she says no. Slap her ass and move on about your day. Your frame is that sex is that you're a man. Sex is expected just as dinner is expected. She doesn't get dinner you've got other … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 25/06/19 08:56 PM |
| 1 | Frame. You Lack ItUltimately we are saying the same thing. I opted not to get into the weeds on some aspect because Frame is already a hard concept for the unplugging man to understand. The display of Alphaness I can understand yet the underlying issue is that too many guys are using sex as the final mark. We already know a woman will fuck a beta to keep the ”bux” around, and we also know there is a time limit on this. At some point she will get tired of it and move on. Some marry because the beta is the first li… | /r/askMRP | 25/06/19 12:06 PM |
| 2 | Developing a love for shit tests and results from smashing them...A woman is attracted to a man who can walk away in a minute. Walk from her, the family, the whole thing. Men build things. It is our work, our effort, our blood that inspires songs, books, sagas, and wars. Nothing else. Every one here is patting you on the book and yeah, I can the see the humble brag. Except I also see how you are just along for the ride. You then say “here’s my question” but instead of a question you go into a long explanation of how great your sex. life is. Sure humble brag a … | /r/askMRP | 24/06/19 11:25 PM |
| 5 | Validation & MRP, contradictionsWhat the fuck does any of this mean? | /r/askMRP | 23/06/19 08:03 PM |
| 2 | Is the Dark Triad really that powerful?Not all women want to be treated like a toy by a psychopath, but if you are Alpha enough she will be wanted to be treated like a fucktoy by you. The Dark Triad generated by an unplugging man is different from the psychopath. | /r/askTRP | 23/06/19 06:24 PM |
| 11 | Validation & MRP, contradictionsStop worrying about it from her perspective. You have a long way to go as it is. blue pill men they hold a lot of value to sex. And before you start denying that you do this, I’m not talking about sex with any girl… I’m talking about sex with that girl. I’m talking about sex with the girl you have sex with and decide you want to be the only one have sex with her. Sex is not money. Sex is not love. Sex does not hold any additional value besides reaching a moment of ecstasy–and that’s only if you … | /r/askMRP | 23/06/19 06:17 PM |
| 1 | I get extremely dependent on any girl I am interested in. AKA chasing them / halting my goals etc. Please help me have a head change guys.haven’t you been reading? What have you been doing all this time? It’s pretty Simple. At 25 don’t get a girlfriend. Period. No man should be looking for a relationship until they are at least 35. So I said it’s simple but you haven’t even tried to do Red Pill. You’re just going through the motions. Actions show who you are. Words show who you pretend to be. | /r/askTRP | 22/06/19 07:33 PM |
| 1 | Girl sensitive to negs?Already pointed out. Negs are for the PUAs. And while TRP learned a lot from them (some Red Pill men were PUAs), negs are a very delicate tool. Just tease her. | /r/askTRP | 22/06/19 07:30 PM |
| 1 | Red pill musicWhy do you need something to give off a “vibe”? Stop wondering what an Alpha is and be one. That’s your vibe. | /r/askTRP | 22/06/19 07:24 PM |
| 3 | Question about Christian womenI think if you stop hamstering reasons for your ineptitude you might find your answers. | /r/askMRP | 21/06/19 01:53 PM |
| 5 | Question about Christian women/r/RPChristians You still aren’t going to find your answers. Your looking for Red Pill reassurances to keep a Blue Pill relationship | /r/askMRP | 21/06/19 01:38 PM |
| 4 | Your woman is one of your greatest creationsBring it back to perspective. Rule Zero. Yes, she is a reflection of you. Not a big surprise. There is a theory of nature called Trophic Cascade. Give it a read (or listen). I believe the same applies to men as they return to their rightful place. Our actions will change our environment. It’s natural and makes sense. YET we cannot deviate from Rule Zero. It is this unbashed pursuit of our goals, ideals, and mission in life that achieves this. The wolf who chases down the deer just for his meal, … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 20/06/19 09:27 PM |
| 1 | Strategic Thinking Help Needed – Boundary Violation ConsequencesStop worrying about what a man would do and just fucking be a man Seriously just stop with all the nonsense. you think that being a man is about always making the right decisions. It shows in how you analyzed it all right down to the smallest detail. Maybe it is to some degree yet thing about that is the right decision is never the easy one. Furthermore it’s not that bad things don’t happen to Alpha men. It’s how Alpha men handle it when bad things happen. | /r/askMRP | 18/06/19 02:32 PM |
| 4 | Their behavior, not their words tell you all you need to knowI am not taking away from the progress here, though I have a feeling it's not always this easy. "yeah, but you like my any cock in you..." careful OP. Digging deeper here what we see is a woman who likes to fuck. Not surprising. The question is does she want to fuck you or are you just the available dick? Further supported by her initiating with you. I am not sure why guys think of this as the pinnacle of sexual attraction. When she starts going on about independent women again and you can tell … | /r/askMRP | 18/06/19 01:35 PM |
| 5 | Be First. Especially You Asshole.The same attitude That you need to reply “I know” to her “I love you” Is the same attitude you will need when she wants you to use her for your purposes. Believe me. Once you get there you will know it. | /r/askMRP | 17/06/19 01:03 AM |
| 3 | Watch your shoes...big vomit post...There’s no such thing as an Alpha female. There is such a thing as an aggressive female, BUT if she says she’s alpha it’s because she feels men in her life are failures therefore she needs to take charge. Ergo she is now the alpha. odds are she’s right about that. Women can perform the man’s role in a relationship. It is not ideal for them and it manifests in anger, resentment, very harsh AWALT behaviors. YET they can replace you. Your First Officer is ready, willing, and able to do the job and … | /r/askMRP | 15/06/19 07:57 PM |
| 1 | Introduction - Slow gainsOne question. Why are you still giving her a relationship when she is doing nothing to maintain it? | /r/askMRP | 15/06/19 07:45 PM |
| 2 | She's a reflection of meYour actions prove who you are. Your words prove who you pretend to be. | /r/askMRP | 15/06/19 07:39 PM |
| 3 | HD/LSE Wife... any tips?Your number one problem is you are thinking about this way too much. When are you going to do get into action? You aren’t seeing it are you? Sure she could be deranged but you aren’t seeing what’s going on. You are a docile little bitch until you lose your cool. What is that all about? She acts like that and you FINALLY lose it? Brother, my little shrew used to get angry every Sunday morning. It was a habit for her. Just a habit. I used to take the family out for breakfast every Sunday. I liked … | /r/askMRP | 14/06/19 01:05 PM |
| 2 | HD/LSE Wife... any tips?No. No one has ever experienced any of this. You are a unique snowflake. she’ll follow me around, screaming, swearing, threatening... This is what you call passing a test? At what point are you going to no longer accept this? Is this how an adult behaves? TRP has some great tools, teaches a lot of fucking fantastic things, but you are so deep in her frame that you are licking the inside of her ass crack. You aren’t even applying what you are learning. You think she shit tests you. Pass it then s… | /r/askMRP | 14/06/19 12:17 PM |
| 2 | Wife calls me gay for wanting anal...proper responseEver get a tech support help from someone over seas? Of course you have. Did you get frustrated when the tech Support guy couldn't get off his script? even to the point when you knew he was going to make some stupid comment about the weather knowing full well he was likely half a world away. What ever response you get you won't be able to execute. This isn't some PUA class where we give you a script and you run with it. You wouldn't know how to improvise, or break the script. What if she asks ab… | /r/askMRP | 01/05/19 12:51 PM |
| 1 | [FR] career-beta under transformation, I think I'm passing her shit tests, but I'm losing interestfucking gold right there. | /r/askMRP | 30/04/19 02:28 PM |
| 5 | [FR] career-beta under transformation, I think I'm passing her shit tests, but I'm losing interesti genuinely feel violated at having endured this. I just sat there and let it happen to me. I'm not sure if MRP thinks I'm being too harsh. You're being a faggot. | /r/askMRP | 30/04/19 01:23 PM |
| 1 | What's next?k | /r/askMRP | 29/04/19 06:11 PM |
| 3 | What's next?I've been RP aware for 5 months but I'd say I was trending the RP direction for the last 5 years. I stopped really paying attention right here. I read your post, but it was all meaningless. I don't really give a fuck about your wife. It's all the same women want to be better, they want to be like him, for him and with him. Still your statement that I quoted. It's meaningless and it's your lie to yourself. you really don't get it. you hope that if you do X, Y, Z that you will get what you want or… | /r/askMRP | 29/04/19 02:34 PM |
| 1 | Where can i add some dread?i mainly lurk, read the top posts of the week ect... But I'm hoping for a bit of advice Hope isn't method. Either do this or not. My advice? get your dick out of the dirt and start really working on the program. You are insulting all the men here doing real work. She knows I'm rolling around the floor with men in the evenings, There's your dread only it's not gay if you don't look them in the eyes. | /r/askMRP | 29/04/19 02:25 PM |
| 9 | When to try? When to give up?next time do it then just walk away before the rejection. Women like rejecting men. They get off on it. A sick game of cat and mouse. The flared men's advice is spot on, but it doesn't matter what she thinks and does about this. She is already going to reject you. She knows you are getting fucked....so tongue fuck her mouth. Leave before she has had a chance to register it then walk out of the house. Leave her wondering. I guarantee you will hear about it. One way or the other. thats when she ei… | /r/askMRP | 29/04/19 01:59 PM |
| 5 | Confronting the Need For ValidationThe Captain does his personal shit in the cabin. Not on deck for the crew to see. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 26/04/19 05:09 PM |
| 1 | The push/pull gamemy first sensei was amazing. if he didn't have so many demons (recovering alcoholic, debt, and just a lousy businessman) he would have been one of the greats. he has all the skill you see and hear about. One day when I he was showing me some more advanced techniques he stopped and looked at me. He had been showing me something else. explains why it was so damn hard for me to pick up. Nothing was making sense. He apologized and told me that all the things he's learned and trained in over the year… | /r/askMRP | 26/04/19 02:17 PM |
| 1 | How to regain frame?Maybe a year ago I decided to stop fucking around with my lifting and get a coach/trainer. In short time my lifts almost doubled. I wasn't a slouch when I started. I was pulling 400 pounds but now I am closing in on 800. thing of it is you can be fucking strong, you can have the diet and supplements on point, but if your form, your attitude, and even emotional outlook are wrong? You aren't going to do shit. It all has to be working. It all has to be on point. Deadlift and squats are as much an e… | /r/askMRP | 26/04/19 12:54 PM |
| 2 | When does it get better?Frame. Understanding it always seems to be the issue. Some like OP think it's the magical exilir. If I only had my frame back. Others think it's a magical shield to protect them from the evil wimmens. She couldn't break my frame. If a person gave away your body to some passerby, you’d be furious. Yet you hand over your mind to anyone who comes along, so they may abuse you, leaving it disturbed and troubled–have you no shame in that?” — Epictetus The cornerstone of frame is identifying externals … | /r/askMRP | 14/04/19 01:47 PM |
| 3 | Crossing the line.Here are the only two important things you had to say. I have been on my red pill journey for a couple of months now and I'm trying to get that respect back, but it's not working very well. And you think a few months here and sprinkle some alpha on it is going to change things that quick? Do we still say that...sprinkle some alpha on it? You have, at minimum, 15 months of work on you. Do you really thinks she's going to suddenly bend over for you at every turn? Looking at your post history I can… | /r/askMRP | 12/04/19 12:59 PM |
| 5 | Learning from a blue pill fatherDon't get married. There is no benefit to a man in marriage that he can't get from a dedicated LTR. Marriage is not love. Marriage is not some magical shield that prevents bad things from happening. Rethink this decision. | /r/askMRP | 12/04/19 12:00 AM |
| 3 | Be a man - Go outside and scare yourselfI once sunk a Jugluar IV by jumping in air across a living room while a raging 400 pound diabetic threw two firefighters into wall. Does that count? Maybe when I was so drunk I did a PLF off a 3rd story barracks balcony? Wait...that actually might have been more stupid then bad ass. I once told a woman she was purty. Now that was pretty brave. YOu have to admit. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 10/04/19 01:13 PM |
| 1 | Of Dancing Monkeys and MeaningJust that you do the right thing. The rest doesn't matter. Cold or warm. Tired or well-rested. Despised or honored. Dying...or busy with other assignments. ~~Aurelius | /r/askMRP | 10/04/19 12:37 PM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - April 09, 2019what's your thoughts on fighting sport least likely to generate injuries? I think they can cause just the same amount. There are now two aspects to combat sports IMO. The first is non-traditional. Going through an MMA gym where you are trained to fight. This would like the old school boxing gyms. You can be brought up slowly and only spar when you are ready. Of course injury is possible yet I would see it as less likely until you are going full bore on your sparring partner in the ring. The othe… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 10/04/19 12:22 PM |
| 3 | Not attracted after weight gain.You've been to my house haven't you? I wonder why the toilet didn't flush and the cat was pregnant. | /r/askMRP | 10/04/19 09:09 AM |
| 14 | Solipsism and contemptAnd you never will be first. Ever. Even when you have reached alpha status. At best they will be scared into but be aware women don't give one flying fuck about you, your feelings, and what you have accomplished. At all. Amazing right? Do not expect that the woman in your life will be grateful, sacrifice for you. Even after you provided so many years and you are at the end. you have never been, and never will be, part of what is hers. What are hers will be first herself, then her (biological) ch… | /r/askMRP | 09/04/19 11:10 PM |
| 3 | Own Your Shit Weekly - April 09, 2019brother, we all got shit to work through. Yet that's just it. women don't at all understand what it is like to have a weakness and still be expected to perform. They like to say they do but they don't really know. They just put their heads down hope things get better. Hope is like crack to women. But we know hope isn't a method. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/04/19 06:25 PM |
| 3 | Own Your Shit Weekly - April 09, 2019I looked into therapies. There's a men's clinic not too far away. The benefits are there. I was and am tempted. Yet I wanted to compete first. Not to brag but my blood test last month had my T levels at 900 so I think I am alright at the moment. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/04/19 05:55 PM |
| 6 | Own Your Shit Weekly - April 09, 2019You mean like other drug therapies? hormone stuff? I don't do those and meets test. So no. Yet I get it. It's hard to believe but I have seen some amazing things in a gym that has professional trainers that know wtf they doing. I have been powerlifting for a long time. 20 years. I never made it too far before I would get injured, and I never competed until now. My age being a factor I don't have too much longer before my body just won't let me. Any how I always figured I had athletic issues. Blu… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/04/19 05:41 PM |
| 3 | Own Your Shit Weekly - April 09, 2019Multivitamins Whey Protein (Dymatize Elite Whey) Fish Oil (Omega-3 high EPA/DHA content) at 1500mg a day (500 3x daily) Creatine 5 grams a day Beta-Alanine 5mg day Magnesium 600mg Osteo-Vanitiv (a joint enhancement supplement with Magnesium, cartilage, and terahydro Iso alpha acids) this and eating are a fucking full time job. EDIT: Coffee. 3 cups a day. I use this instead of pre workout. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/04/19 05:18 PM |
| 4 | Own Your Shit Weekly - April 09, 2019good to be back. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/04/19 04:56 PM |
| 10 | Own Your Shit Weekly - April 09, 2019It's been a while. There are some new faces. Good to see. So I will begin in the typical fashion that seems to be the norm now. I am ReddJive. 2 kids (boys) being raised as best in the Red Pill as I can figure. I plan on posting more in the redpillfatherhood sub. Not saying I have answers but the body if knowledge has to begin somewhere. Weight 280 BF 18% height 6'4 Age 45 Lifts Squat 650 Deadlift 755 (conventional) Bench 450 I am on an amateur competition strong man team. My gym specializes in … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/04/19 03:08 PM |
| 9 | Not attracted after weight gain.I can barely understand any of this. Your liberal use of pronouns I can't tell if you were talking about 1,2, or 5 women. What this tells me is that your thoughts are unorganized. That you came here and just vomited all over your keyboard. I am going to just take your last paragraph becasue it was the most coherent. All that other shit was just a horny squirrel running around fucking any wet hole he could find. The more I build my frame, the less I initiate and do all this MRP stuff.. "Do what y… | /r/askMRP | 09/04/19 12:40 PM |
| 2 | It’s a feature not a bugAnd it's not even Wednesday.... If you happen to have a CB7 or higher Woman in your life, do you ever purposely make her bitchy? You've clearly not read much of the material. All the time. It's called black knighting and when you get good at it. The fun begins. Boys tease girls. It's been true since day one. I mainly did it for fun (practice) and to see how crazy sex would get at night. How dangerous is this and what are the repercussions? For you? Bad bad bad. Like don't even try. Have Chad com… | /r/askMRP | 09/04/19 12:25 PM |
| 3 | The fallout of saying noI grew up on a farm and did all the survival camping and outdoor shit you can think of. In no way do I want to go live on the Alaksan wild. My father taught me to understand how things work but to make enough money to pay others to do it. he spent far too much time repairing trucks, tractors, and other things. Red-sfppls has a mission in his life and he pursues it. The point here is the OP is coming off as entitled. Yes men do as they wish and yet I don't get that sense from OP. He just as much … | /r/askMRP | 08/04/19 03:23 PM |
| 8 | Need red pill advice on my marriageYou sure she isn't a lesbian? From what I read it seems like your wife has a wife. | /r/askMRP | 08/04/19 01:32 PM |
| 2 | My self improvement marriage daily journal.This isn't a place for you to journal your feelings. You're also in the wrong place. go to /r/askMRP your journey begins there. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 08/04/19 12:39 PM |
| 1 | When should I initiate?Muscular In shape, Good looking, Good career, And gosh darn it people like you. Except your wife. I wonder why? | /r/askMRP | 08/04/19 12:27 PM |
| 1 | How the fuck do I stop being negative.It's a decision | /r/askMRP | 08/04/19 12:18 PM |
| 4 | New RedPill brain, Still bleuish hue. Help!Jesus. I Want to stay in frame and come off as the confident guy that is not needy. Too late. You need to read the sidebar and really start this shit. There is no advice for you other than to fix the mess you made other than you manning up and getting out. You pulled the pin on the grenade and are asking us to put it back in. Sorry bub. We don't make house calls. | /r/askMRP | 08/04/19 12:00 PM |
| 2 | The fallout of saying noYour first mistake was that you listened to Black Phillip. Stop that shit. Black Phillip is about 10 years out of date. Even Beige Phillip while somewhat within the Red Pill ideal it is not Red Pill. Good lessons in frame. Otherwise you are using a lot of PUA techniques. Until you can tell the difference stop. You lack frame. If you had it what she did wouldn't matter. If you had a purpose for your life and your family, what she did would not have mattered. Ever try to explain poor behavior to a… | /r/askMRP | 08/04/19 11:52 AM |
| 3 | A little something to take the edge off? Stripper anyone?It's because your wife knows the truth. | /r/askMRP | 05/04/19 10:15 PM |
| 3 | Am I Holding Frame Well or Just Being Stupid?Ok I'll be clearer. You fucked it all up. don't talk so much. | /r/askMRP | 05/04/19 12:33 PM |
| 15 | A little something to take the edge off? Stripper anyone?So hold on. I used to think guys posting Their lift stats was kind of gay. Now I am kind of seeing the point. Something isn't making sense. Your lifts are way beginner. Like I'm certain either you're recovering from illness or you literally just started. I'd even say you aren't putting a whole lot of effort. To get that look at this stage you have fantastic genetics. And yet you claim you're getting the looks from way below average lifting and likely swolested by some friend (side note men and w… | /r/askMRP | 05/04/19 12:32 PM |
| 2 | Am I Holding Frame Well or Just Being Stupid?You're under the delusion that women just swoon and fall for red pill men. They do but not how you think they do I'll explain that a little bit better with this analogy. Ever have a 5 year old act up? Then you tell them rules and the punishment and for some damn reason they do it anyway and get even worse as the punishment is carried out? Doesn't mean she isn't into your red pill development or does or does not think there's attraction what it means is that women have agency and sometimes they a… | /r/askMRP | 05/04/19 12:21 PM |
| 2 | Movie depictions of building frameThere was no frame in that movie. It could be a depiction of a beta trying to gain frame. So sure I will give you that. Lester merely spectated in life from start to finish. He never fucked the girl and in fact backed down to be her "friend". His working out was not for him but so his wife would fuck him. this we all know too well. Most of you guys start because you want to be fucked and you are willing to put in the work for that what very few begin to realize that being fucked and getting wome… | /r/askMRP | 04/04/19 03:04 PM |
| 2 | Early in RP - need advice on how to appropriately handle this situationAll that just to ask how do you tell your wife you don't want another kid right now? What you are really asking is how do you do it and not piss her off and still get your dick sucked. Stop worrying about what she thinks. Stand up for yourself. Jesus. I expect to tell my 14 year old this not a 31 year old man child. | /r/askMRP | 04/04/19 01:47 PM |
| 2 | I lost my way, how do i recover? Feedback desiredA name does not define you. Boyfriend, Alpha Male, Chad...these terms are nothing more than a role you act out in someone else's life. They do not define your life's mission. You're an individual. You need a goal that's exclusive to you and no one else. Stop worrying about what others are thinking. Start worrying about the time you're wasting. | /r/askMRP | 04/04/19 01:27 PM |
| 1 | Sheesh...Being happy is a choice. Not because there's a reason to be. It's a very personal thing that has nothing to do with anyone or anything else. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 03/04/19 04:22 PM |
| 3 | So I guess I need to figure out relationships. They’re a lot harder than they advertise...Everyone has shitty days. Thing is women want you to engage in it with them. They want everyone around them to feel as they do. That way they are validated. What they want to is is what they feel is real. Well sometimes it is and most times it isn't. As beta male you're initial reaction is to say fuck yeah a chance for me to get in there and show her how manly I am. I can mix it up in there and engage that shit. Maybe I'll get a blowjob while I am at it. LEEZ DO DIS!!! An alpha knows differently… | /r/askMRP | 03/04/19 04:10 PM |
| 1 | Wife giving the silent treatmentbeen getting things done. Couldn't do it stuck in a digital world. Nice to see old friends and new faces around here. Means it's still moving along. | /r/askMRP | 03/04/19 01:46 AM |
| 1 | If you're extremely high value what's the chance that she'll want to leave?It's not about her. Never was | /r/askMRP | 03/04/19 01:42 AM |
| 1 | Wife giving the silent treatmentStart by respecting yourself. | /r/askMRP | 01/04/19 08:12 PM |
| 1 | Wife giving the silent treatmentSo she moved into the 3YOs room? Sounds like she has become how she acts. At what point are you going to start stop accepting this behavior? Ask yourself is this how adults act? Is it really acceptable for someone to just not talk to you any more? I mean clearly you do because you are letting it go on for 3 weeks. "that's ok, I'm going for the food, obviously not for the company" WTH was this? A simple ok would have been enough but you had to go for the gold here. You want her to feel bad about … | /r/askMRP | 01/04/19 03:39 PM |
| 2 | Living in doubt about my wifes past infidelityAny guys out there dealt with this sort of thing? No. No man here has ever dealt with this or anything remotely like it. You have hit upon the most unique scenario ever. Let me ask you something. Why the fuck does it matter? Scan the headlines of AskTRP, AskMRP and there is some variation of this question being asked. yet it's all the same purpose and intent. Why oh why is my wife like this? we are married she should have loved me and cherished me and.... blah blah blah All that question asks is… | /r/askMRP | 30/01/19 05:11 PM |
| 16 | Living in doubt about my wifes past infidelityIts easy to spot a yellow car when you are always thinking of a yellow car. Its easy to spot opportunity when you are always thinking of opportunity. Its easy to spot reasons to be mad when you are always thinking of being mad. You become what you constantly think about. | /r/askMRP | 30/01/19 12:22 AM |
| 2 | Need some insight/u/MrChad_Thundercock is right. this was a comfort test. you seemed to have a fine night after it. Sometimes it isn't that hard. | /r/askMRP | 18/10/18 07:02 PM |
| 1 | Why StrongLifts over GreySkull for beginners?I did SL at the start. I was a powerlifter in my younger days though. My gains were pretty quick as the body never really forgets. I stayed on it for a long long time. Last summer I was doing SL every day. Yeah yeah yeah I know but it worked for me. I stayed on SL longer than most but the gains were still coming. I switched to Madcow just because, but soon I hit the 400 barrier i always hit. Injury came up as history showed. I always got hurt around the 400-450 range. Always. That's when I got a… | /r/askMRP | 18/10/18 04:30 PM |
| 3 | IVF medicationsI don't know fertilely that well but what I can tell you is that while it is true the hormones will do all sorts of things. It can also become habit. Learn the difference. | /r/askMRP | 16/10/18 07:16 PM |
| 1 | New relationship.Seriously? you can't fake a better post? I've seen better trolling from my 15 year old. This isn't TRP where you are going to rile up the natives. Get your shit out of here, knuckle dragging fucktard. | /r/askMRP | 16/10/18 07:13 PM |
| 7 | Let's talk about sportsI agree with /u/MrChad_Thundercock Also women are starting to dominate the "watching" sports fan area. We know why it is but I also have a unsupported theory that it's to shame men. To compete or be our equals. I study martial arts. I hold 2 black belts, started a third early this summer (BJJ) I teach in 1 (karate) and compete in 1 ( BJJ ). I also just started Powerlifting competitions. I don't have time to watch sports. I participate in them. Thats my tribe. The ones I share blood with...litera… | /r/askMRP | 16/10/18 03:51 PM |
| 2 | Wife's pms is increasing.My main question is will my wife stop being this way over time as i improve myself? No. She's this way because you allow her to be. She's the oldest teen in the house. There is no excuse for her to be yelling. She's an adult. She should be modeling more self control. | /r/askMRP | 15/10/18 11:23 AM |
| 4 | how do you reset every day?A man's life is hero one minute and zero the next. It can happen in .03 seconds sometimes faster. Get over it. | /r/askMRP | 15/10/18 11:16 AM |
| 1 | Questions... and a bit of puke.I have no idea. Sounds like you are doing well. People like you and you are an amazing human being. good luck to you. | /r/askMRP | 10/10/18 07:03 PM |
| 1 | Questions... and a bit of puke.he hasn't done a god damn thing other than post here. | /r/askMRP | 10/10/18 06:58 PM |
| 2 | Questions... and a bit of puke.Ha. No you don't. You've been on it for years. Fucking years. Oh you'll get a bunch of dudes weight in, throw thier RP knowledge at you but what you you really need is to get off your ass and actually do something. You haven't done a god damn thing. So what do you want me to tell you? How she's a lazy whore? How the world sucks and fuck man AWALT? Maybe you want to just cry over a couple beers. Jesus fuck me silly and shave me naked. You haven't done shit in 3 years since reading other than mast… | /r/askMRP | 10/10/18 06:32 PM |
| 1 | Questions... and a bit of puke.So you were reading with jack and cad were here officially (because they are still here just not posting as they once did)? that was like....3 years ago. huh....no fucking clue what your problem is. Maybe you should have the award for the longest fence rider. | /r/askMRP | 10/10/18 06:21 PM |
| 1 | I am obeseI don't put much stock into BMI. At my leanest I was never cut. Some have seen my pic from the beginning of the summer....no cut. I've bulked up lifting some serious weight now and dropping weight back down for a lower class. I am 6'4" 283. Don't know what my BMI is but my BF is 19%. It's a process and I have goals to meet. She's along for the ride or not. | /r/askMRP | 10/10/18 06:18 PM |
| 2 | Punish wife for disobedience?It's not about others actions it's about yours. What you do and how it affects you. | /r/askMRP | 10/10/18 12:46 PM |
| 6 | We have all the weaponsSounds like your mentor has read The Unfettered Mind. The mind that becomes fixed and stops in one place does not function freely. Similarly, the wheels of a cart go around because they are not rigidly in place. If they were to stick tight, they would not go around. The mind is also something that does not function if it becomes attached to a single situation. If there is some thought within the mind, though you listen to the words spoken by another, you will not really be able to hear him. This… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/10/18 05:21 PM |
| 2 | Make your fucking choice.What do you want? Simple question. Huge implications. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/10/18 05:16 PM |
| 2 | Noticed this weird pattern while talking to older men.For someone who didn't GAF about it you came here and posted to tell us. Why do you care so much? | /r/askTRP | 09/10/18 12:15 PM |
| 8 | Is it only ever worth involving yourself with women who show enthusiastic interest?At some point in your life you will realize things are fuck yes or fuck no. There is no middle ground. Raise the price of admission to being with you and you will have a more quality life. | /r/askTRP | 09/10/18 11:45 AM |
| 5 | I want to leave my wife, but probably not for a good reason. Me 30 - wife 25holy fuck. I have seen Army Privates that wifed up the first stripper that busted their nut with more sense than you. What you want is permission to leave your wife. Go ahead. Or not. We don't give a fuck. But like Steve and so many other LARPers that come in here you will be back wondering why the next chickee is the same way. Your issue is you. | /r/askMRP | 09/10/18 11:31 AM |
| 1 | Help a woman by helping her husband. Please.Ha. Ok. I concede the point. I'd hate to be your husband. | /r/askMRP | 08/10/18 06:59 PM |
| 2 | Help a woman by helping her husband. Please.I don’t disagree you except that the woman can’t make a man alpha by throwing him a link and saying read it, or asking for it. He has to come to that himself. if she has to become overt she is at the end of the line. | /r/askMRP | 08/10/18 02:48 PM |
| 1 | Help a woman by helping her husband. Please.True. Yet someone can come here and say the same of the betas that post here. RPW is hypergamy on display still women are not overt. It's a fine line between being overt and nagging. She will have to break her ego and learn to submit. This isn't easy. If OP can learn those two things she may have a chance. | /r/askMRP | 08/10/18 01:32 PM |
| 0 | Help a woman by helping her husband. Please.YOu can’t. There is no way to force a man to take the pill. It’s traumatic enough when we realize it’s what we want. Your best answer is to go to /r/redpillwomen and learn how to be the feminine in your relationship. A good woman will know how to guide her captain. | /r/askMRP | 08/10/18 12:53 PM |
| 3 | Stupid mistakes. Rookie mistakes.A wet hole is a wet hole. | /r/askMRP | 07/10/18 06:21 PM |
| 14 | Stupid mistakes. Rookie mistakes.Not sure where you are in this whole thing but yeah. you expressed it on email. and as already said own it. Most times people keep secrets because of the social embarrassment and then hold them over your head for the same reason. Why? because you should feel bad about it. So don't. If aint' nothing don't make it nothing. Fuck that. Fuck them. You wanted a better marriage and did something about it. Alright so you didn't handle it in a masculine way. Like you emailed....fucker. Next time don't, i… | /r/askMRP | 07/10/18 05:38 PM |
| 6 | How to become more successful in initiating sex? Share your strategies.The general rule is that this a man's room but you seem to have some presence about you. Mostly the RPW sub is full of women who admit to the AWALT spectrum but work to trying to keep it at bay and find productive ways to use it to achieve their goals. ie lock down an alpha male in a committed relationship. Make no mistake AWALT is real. There is no denying it. So yeah that is a RP unicorn. Being able to do that and keep it. What I mean by not petting the unicorn is directed at men to go. HELL Y… | /r/askMRP | 07/10/18 05:33 PM |
| -1 | So tired with my life, how do you stay motivated?Jack Donovan has expressed it well. You aren't my brother because you did nothing to earn that status. This also shows a lack of understanding of how the male hierarchy works. Which is why most men have a gut reaction to the word. We know instinctively this is wrong. The male world is a meritocracy. We earn. TRP has codified it to some degree, which largely was never done in the world of men. It was usually just known, but with the age of hipsters, ladyboys, soy boys, and just general weak ass m… | /r/askTRP | 07/10/18 04:58 PM |
| 1 | I am always crying about not getting shit, then I realized its because im not doing anything about it (vent)You just hit rock bottom. What are you going to do about it? Life is a decision. You make that decision every morning you get up. Men and men alone have the ability to not only change thier actions but change the very core of who they are. Women can't do this. The only question you have to answer is what do you want? Don't come back here until you have accomplished one thing. Just one thing. Then report. Move on to the next. Each action will build a pattern of success and confidence. You can mov… | /r/askTRP | 07/10/18 04:36 PM |
| -1 | So tired with my life, how do you stay motivated?First I would stop calling people bro. I am not your brother. Motivation is an emotion. It will always fail you. Lastly you really need to read th source material in the sidebar. You are just reading the sub here hoping that something will click. It won't. You need to find things to do. Doesn't even matter if you like it. You will eventually find things. As you can see this isn't about women. Not at all. This about your actions and what they are doing to you. Fix your actions. | /r/askTRP | 07/10/18 04:33 PM |
| 3 | How to become more successful in initiating sex? Share your strategies.You know what is a really reat thing in the morning? A good cup of coffee. I know what you are thinking. So many other things out there to enjoy, and maybe the caffeine isn't the best for me, but nothing bets that great cup of coffee. And it starts with picking the right beans. Most people just go, grab some coffee beans off the shelf or gawd forbid that shit from Starbucks (always smells like baby shit to me). But I mean get into where your beans are coming from, the flavor, taste. You can real… | /r/askMRP | 07/10/18 04:27 PM |
| 3 | How to become more successful in initiating sex? Share your strategies.This here is a unicorn. Don't pet the unicorn. | /r/askMRP | 07/10/18 04:14 PM |
| 4 | Is being cocky really attractive to females?In short yes. But you have to be able to back it up. Which is why men need life experiance and why women fall for older guys in general. The more life you've lead the more cocky becomes who you are. | /r/askTRP | 07/10/18 12:22 PM |
| 1 | Mission First Women AlwaysIt's not black and white thinking. Its knowing what you want and doing that. For some its building a family. Others its living like no other. For the rest it could be anything but at the core it's the rules you live your life by. Its knowing that there the rules are meant to be broken and that a self actualized man knows which rules to break to lead him out of a passive blue pill life. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 07/10/18 12:18 PM |
| 2 | Anyone done a sex moratorium from NMMNG?Fixed it | /r/askMRP | 06/10/18 02:22 PM |
| 1 | Anyone done a sex moratorium from NMMNG?You don't have a clue what you are doing. Stop thinking and start doing. I just read your OYS from a month ago and things seems to be on track a bit. What happened, Rambo? | /r/askMRP | 06/10/18 02:20 PM |
| 3 | Anger PhaseWe are broken in some way. Society is shit and the baby boomer parents didn't help much. Still...my world now. So I recommend you pull your dick from the dirt and realize you still have a slut for a wife. You say as much. Pussy was on tap. You aren't angry at anything else but what you did. Your entire statement blames others and things. You hamster the idea that a Chad has already fucked her. Maybe he has maybe he hasn't. In either case every man here was a woman's second choice or even third. … | /r/askMRP | 06/10/18 02:17 PM |
| 1 | Anyone done a sex moratorium from NMMNG?I want to be friends first." The ONLY response to this is "No thanks. I have more friends then I have time" Also you are being sent a clear message here. Listen to it. Time for you to seriously not give a fuck about what she thinks. You are danger close to being divorced. So to address the autistic nature of this post. I am slowly coming around where we need an addendum that addresses the conflicting parts of MMSL and NMMNG BUT it's also good fodder to see guys who have done shit in the Red Pill… | /r/askMRP | 06/10/18 02:05 PM |
| 1 | What the fuck have I gotten myself into?brilliant. | /r/askMRP | 05/10/18 04:58 PM |
| 2 | Helping my son take the pillEither do it or don't. His to accept. My kids are young. I found out my oldest has some LDR thing going on. So during the times I am taking him to one of his activities I will just blurt out something. Young kids accept this stuff more readily. 22? Who knows. Just do it. There is no right time. And don't be all dad. at that age it's more friendship and mentoring. I'd ask him for a beer. Go and start about you. Not him. He's smart enough to know actions from words. So start using your example. Se… | /r/askMRP | 05/10/18 04:58 PM |
| 1 | What the fuck have I gotten myself into?these usernames you guys come up I think that too. I am betting most look at mine and go. Fuck I want a cool one when I grow up and can look back. Here's my secret. Mine is actually Red Five. From star wars? Luke's call sign only Red Five was taken and I didn't want Red Five334838298 So yeah. That's myself secret cool name. | /r/askMRP | 05/10/18 04:18 PM |
| 12 | Do you feel closer to your wives after MRP?it's misguided. Completely. She will judge you by your actions. She doesn't GAF what you think. At all. Though it's what they say. All they need to know is that you are engaged and not going to rape them then kill them. Just go over and read Red Pill Women sub. It's all blow jobs and unicorns over there and you may think. Dayum. I need to show this to the girl. But don't do that. Thing is she won't see it like you do. Hypergamy. In fact reading the unicorn zoo there is a deep deep lesson in hype… | /r/askMRP | 05/10/18 03:58 PM |
| 8 | Starting my MAPNow this son of a bitch gets it. This is perhaps the best question I have ever read on AskMRP. Now get over there and get some. | /r/askMRP | 05/10/18 03:31 PM |
| 5 | What the fuck have I gotten myself into?You're right. I should have handed him some milk and cookies and tucked him into bed all nice promising a better day tomorrow. | /r/askMRP | 05/10/18 02:50 PM |
| 1 | Newbie here. Bumped into my ex again. I feel like having sex with herI am sitting here at a coffee shop catching up on the latest that's happening with Red Pill, preparing to get back into the work my editor just sent me. There's this HB7 sitting right over there. The IOIs are light. She's mimicking my behavior. Gives me slight smiles. I had to take a piss so asked her to watch my gear. She said "sure" not the best conversationalist but hey. We've had this whole relationship for the last 10 minutes. Think I should get with her? Maybe she's learned to have a great… | /r/askTRP | 05/10/18 02:09 PM |
| 3 | Woke up still drunk and got 3 numbers in a single class. Why can’t I do this sober?ok. I'll bite. You caught me finger fucking the internet. I write this more for the guy who's trying to learn. You, I am already 90% certain won't do anything because you haven't even bothered to do any research. Your inhibitions got lowered. You literally assume a DGAF attitude. So start doing that. DGAF. That simple. now read the sidebar. Get back to work and make room for the boys that are trying to do something. | /r/askTRP | 05/10/18 01:45 PM |
| 3 | How do I succeed in life alone?Well the first step is actually do something. Like look right on your screen and see all the links to a wealth of information. My guess is you want people to spoon feed it to you. Tell you the iching, that one thing you can do. Like a cheat code on a video game. So here's how it works. You get out there and start doing. You take your lumps when you fuck up. You take it like a man does. You get up the next day and don't do it again. You push and you push. Fuck what they say. They don't know you. … | /r/askTRP | 05/10/18 01:42 PM |
| 1 | Woke up still drunk and got 3 numbers in a single class. Why can’t I do this sober?Do you know how alcohol works? Do some research. but it's you. You're stopping yourself. | /r/askTRP | 05/10/18 01:37 PM |
| 8 | What the fuck have I gotten myself into?He was asking for a reach around. You didn't give to him. I am pretty sure he's running to his safe person right this very moment. | /r/askMRP | 05/10/18 01:33 PM |
| 5 | What the fuck have I gotten myself into?I am so sorry. I know it can be rough. If people only understood what it is we men go through. No one to suck our dick 24/7. I hear brojobs are a thing these days. Maybe look into that. Would a hug once in a while kill anyone? and seriously why can't I just have a bad day and sit on the couch in my jammies watching The View? Guys have feelings right?! Fuck. You are some kind of faggot. I mean if MRP gave out Faggot of the Year awards you'd earn it for this year and next Well runner up because I … | /r/askMRP | 05/10/18 01:32 PM |
| 1 | Why do I feel this way... what can I do?It's because you developed a sense of validation from the women you were with. Your emotions are not the issue here. It's your actions. You got a sense of validation and superiority over your friends from fucking beautiful women and sending pics to your buddies. It's not that you fell for a hot chick that crushed you, or that you allowed to crush you. That shit happens. Happens to all of us, only the cringe worthy boys pretend they can armor themselves against it. Like you. You thought you could… | /r/askTRP | 05/10/18 01:13 PM |
| 1 | How would you classify this woman's behaviour at my gym?What's awful is that I am reading a humble brag about getting straight up swolested and you didn't do anything but run to reddit instead of getting her number or date. Don't tell me I will find a post in your history about how you tried to close a girl and she blew you off....Because I can see why now. | /r/askTRP | 05/10/18 01:01 PM |
| 3 | Constant Internal StruggleDivorce already. It's like you are throwing it out there to us as a threat. MRP you better work or I am divorcing. Fuck. Look I don't know what it is about guys that come in here and go....holy shit I can divorce and get laid all the time. Only YOU can't. It's not even about that. If you can't get laid married you sure as fuck can't single. Ok...maybe while you are on that business trip and stop by that little bar for a drink. The local town greeter, Mary Jane Rotten Crotch will, that ONE time. … | /r/askMRP | 05/10/18 12:53 PM |
| 1 | Does anyone know if Planned Orders will still firm automatically in SAP if there are firmed POitems further out?Believe it or not I understood everything you said. BUT since you lack reading comphrension and attention to detail I am pretty sure that's your issue /u/Rian_Stone /u/weakandsensitive Probably needs to go. | /r/askMRP | 05/10/18 12:38 PM |
| 5 | Can someone explain to me the reference about loading the dish washer?I've always noted a difference between doing and helping. Helping is coming home to find few dishes in the sink. House is immaculate. Kids are doing thier thing, homework done, 3 course meal is being prepped while laundry is nearly folded and put away. You roll in and finish up the dishes. Doing is coming home to her crashed on the couch, kids playing videos games, clothes, books, shoes all over the house. Every dish in the house piled up and groceries still need to be bought. She had a hard day… | /r/askMRP | 04/10/18 03:18 PM |
| 5 | Can someone explain to me the reference about loading the dish washer?to point out the difference between chore play and doing it because shit gets done I will load the dishwater so the wife is relaxed and calm so I can make a move . I will load the dishwasher because I don't live in filth. Girl, wear that sheer thing...no the other one. Panties? What? Are you new here? | /r/askMRP | 04/10/18 02:55 PM |
| 3 | Can someone explain to me the reference about loading the dish washer?is it really that big a deal for something that takes no time and almost no effort? Not like anyone is out at the river scrubbing on rocks any more. HINT: women will always declare housework is so hard. Yet the general attitude you want is that yes is for women. Practice by telling her to take off her pants. | /r/askMRP | 04/10/18 02:50 PM |
| 4 | Advice neededDon't Root Through The Garbage | /r/askTRP | 03/10/18 06:13 PM |
| 4 | GET OUT NOW or STAY? Pill taken!Me: Good morning, I love you and my heart misses you Her: Hey good morning :) I've been thinking a lot about us (obviously), and i miss you. But i hope that doesn't make it confusing. I feel the most alone I've felt since i left and i'm trying to figure out if i miss you because i'm lonely or i really miss being with you. It's hard to differentiate and i'm sorry for putting you through all of this. ME: K. Divorce papers are on the table. Please be out by Thursday. | /r/askMRP | 03/10/18 11:46 AM |
| 3 | Ego growing since started rp.How much more grievous are the consequences of anger than the causes of it. Yeah you had a shitty life. So what do you want? A cardboard cookie? You can have it if you like. Or you can realize that you control your actions. It's not that you are angry...actually it's not because any one of us are angry. That's the big misunderstand of Red Pill. Men are angry. Anger is wrong. We don’t control what happens to us, we can’t control what the people around us say or do, and we can’t even fully control… | /r/askMRP | 03/10/18 11:41 AM |
| 2 | Is this it?sounds like you have a plan. Not sure how I was wrong there. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 03/10/18 11:22 AM |
| 4 | Thinking about quitting my high salary/great benefits military career after 13 years10 year Army vet. Left at the Rank of captain. 3x company command...been there done that. The DOD sucks ass, yep sure does but it is a machine. It doesn’t care. Never will. You know this. Fuck at 13 years you have to be a senior enlisted or close to field grade? You know that we all joined for one reason or that other. We stayed because of one. Our brothers/sisters. If you leave don’t leave because the Anonymous Army drove you out. This you will come to regret. You will always wonder why. Leave … | /r/askMRP | 03/10/18 02:35 AM |
| 3 | I still get so confused in frameIn .3 seconds every damn day | /r/askMRP | 02/10/18 09:08 PM |
| 3 | I’m still an addict. And a faggot.Like your buddy handing you pills in your story | /r/askMRP | 02/10/18 08:18 PM |
| 2 | I’m still an addict. And a faggot.I'd never reccomend it for a married man but it fits for you | /r/askMRP | 02/10/18 08:12 PM |
| 2 | I’m still an addict. And a faggot.For you I'd say find other things that move your mission. Women are a gateway drug for validation. Until you can handle it no gaming. | /r/askMRP | 02/10/18 07:47 PM |
| 3 | AWALT confirmed. A MRP FRFuck. Now I'm hungry. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 02/10/18 06:32 PM |
| 1 | I’m still an addict. And a faggot.I love wine. I like beer too. I am supposed to lose 40-50 pounds by winter for a meet ( I am about 10 pounds in). So many holidays in between so many fun things to do. Whenever I think about having a glass of wine or some beer. I drink water. I limit activities that put myself into position where I would drink wine and beer. I just don't do it. Over time my ability to resist increases so seeing it won't be a big deal. The simplest thing to do is in your heroin recovery. Stop the things that get … | /r/askMRP | 02/10/18 05:52 PM |
| 5 | My exgf ruined my life I still lover her (oneitis)you got feels. Nothing wrong with that. You are a human after all. Take a minute. Do what you need to, go cry behind the garage, then come back ready to get going again. It's been said that a man can't truly swallow the red pill unless his heart has been broken at least once. bub, you may just be ready to swallow it. Getting the feels, oneitis, well it happens to us all at least once. Those that it doesn't are either lying or so deep in her frame they are licking her cranium. We can't control wh… | /r/askTRP | 02/10/18 03:24 PM |
| 8 | I still get so confused in frameFirst of all you have to remember that most men in here that talk of frame don't know what they are talking about. When it comes to frame, unless you have been here a while and can know who's half in the bag, listen only to flared men. What's frame? I assume you read the Rational Male blog because that is really all there is. There are others out there, but I think RM is pretty solid. Sooo frame.... I'll tell ya it's tough to figure out. You go into work. Shit is just piled up and you are stuck … | /r/askMRP | 02/10/18 02:44 PM |
| 7 | How do you handle other men trying to stare you down in public?it's called a monkey dance. It's a display of dominance nothing more. Let the monkey have his way. Has nothing to do with being alpha or not. This sort of display, as rightly pointed out, is childish. In his world it means something in yours....it shouldn't. Move on. | /r/askTRP | 02/10/18 12:33 PM |
| 1 | AWALT confirmed. A MRP FRhuh? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 02/10/18 12:28 PM |
| 1 | AWALT confirmed. A MRP FRThat was my point. They are more selective ergo more hard core. And my second is I don't really care much about the HB scale. I smash or not. That's all that matters to me so the HB system has always been a bit difficult for me to wrap my head around. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 02/10/18 12:26 PM |
| 2 | Gents : Your competitionThing is. A woman's accomplishments don't scare me...nor do they turn me on. She can do and achieve whatever she wants. As long as she is bent over the table when I get home. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 02/10/18 11:28 AM |
| 1 | Is this it?There are a lot of reasons why TRP popped up on the ban list. It wasn't just because of Red Pill or any men's right thing. Right now my guess is that MRP flies under the radar. If there are rumblings of MRP getting on that list I am sure the MRP mods will have a plan or maybe do just keeping it under wraps for now. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 02/10/18 11:26 AM |
| 7 | AWALT confirmed. A MRP FRHuh. good progress. I echo the Steve sentiments. Remember you have plates and the purpose they serve you right now. Buddy has some pretty fucking big shoes to fill, hope he likes being compared to me and used as a pawn in her eyes to try and stir up some emotions from me. About this. Yes this is lack of frame it's also lack of abundance. Most guys want to end up on top when a relationship goes bad. In fact a lot of Red Pill advice is to make sure that happens. Some interpret that to mean they Al… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 02/10/18 11:19 AM |
| 5 | AWALT confirmed. A MRP FRThe whole HB concept is relative to each individual? The idea is if you put 100 girls in a room there would be only one HB10. Really an HB10 is once in a life time. I don't necessarily subscribe to the HB theory. We all have what attracts us. Women are much more hard core about it, which is why the HB theory exists - to calibrate men to that kind of concept. Though like Rian says wife googles. I will admit that there are HB5s and 6s that can get me going. Sometimes it's all in the way they walk … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 02/10/18 11:12 AM |
| 2 | Big dread game improvement but kissing is a problem, advise pleasenot sure why anything had to be said. It's all right here. This is the reason. | /r/askMRP | 02/10/18 11:06 AM |
| 13 | keeping frame when talking to chicks about astrology and shitYou're not listening to her. She's qualifying herself. Once a girl starts gushing information about herself like this she's trying to impress you. one of my plates is a southern belle. Like deep south. All the things you hear about...dirty as fuck. She also has this deep southern accent. She owned a business sold it...yadda yada yada. She will go on and on and on about it. Some of it is interesting as I don't work in that field, but at some point I am just done. Look at her and... ME: Huh (take … | /r/askMRP | 02/10/18 11:04 AM |
| 5 | Took catch and release too farWow. I just completely lost my boner. Faggot. | /r/askMRP | 30/09/18 01:47 PM |
| 2 | Girl making me her beta?Shes not doing anything but being a woman. It's your actions you should be thinking about. | /r/askTRP | 29/09/18 02:07 AM |
| 3 | What are good signs that you should put off getting women for a while and work on yourself.Mission First. Women Always | /r/askTRP | 29/09/18 02:05 AM |
| 16 | Cuddles are requiredJust dont be a pussy and delete your history. Oh. The house key is in same spot when you want to come by and cuddle. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/09/18 10:30 PM |
| 5 | How do you reply to this one?Problem with most of you new guys is you force the AM and AA. You want the book of one liners but you aren't ready for that. It has to be natural, and flow. One of my newer plates is from the south, like a deep southern accent. She will go on and on and on. Sure I have a witty comment but at some point I have had enough and just look at her and say. I think you just said bend me over and fuck me. I am getting this southern accent. AM and AA all you want but at some point enough is enough or are … | /r/askMRP | 27/09/18 12:39 PM |
| 15 | How do you reply to this one?Say? Try doing. Pay the bill or not. What does it matter what she says? Either her phone is needed for running the family or it isn't. Take charge. As a teaching point this isn't about the big strong man saving his little princess nor teaching her a lesson. In normal circumstances if there was a balanced relationship this would be one helping out the other and lending support, comfort. Keep the trains running. Problem is hypergamy and solipillism lets women enjoy this idea that they are independ… | /r/askMRP | 27/09/18 11:27 AM |
| 9 | Wife thinks when I’m avoiding her shit test I’m being sneaky or shadyI am not sure why you give a fuck. Sometimes no response is necessary. You are falling into the same trap of giving her feedback. Positive or negative feedback is feedback. Give her nothing. | /r/askMRP | 27/09/18 11:16 AM |
| 1 | Can you keep frame if you’re wrong?Here's a tip. Most people today believe they are knowledgeable on a subject becasue they "researched it" meaning they looked it up on the internet. Ahhhhh the internet. The one place where everyone can comment or post something and be an expert. I often remember what my history professor told me in college. He is the leading expert in his field, which is ancient civilizations (yeah I have a fundamentally worthless undergrad). Every class he taught from freshman to masters to PhD, you were allowe… | /r/askMRP | 26/09/18 02:20 PM |
| 2 | First post, long time lurker...5x5 is essentially powerlifting. It's a start point. I've been powerlifting most of my life with breaks here and there. I got serious about when I started my red pill recovery and then got dead fucking real about it this year. Got coach and now on a full power team. The gains have been insane, and it's essentially a sport for me now. I don't have the fat buddha bod that olympic lifters get, but I am not Mr Universe cut either. Women can't see your muscles under the shirt but know when you throw … | /r/askMRP | 26/09/18 12:43 PM |
| 6 | Wife pulled a knife on me last nightis there any other kind? She was making your favorite meal then turned a knife on you. A depressed woman is usually in her fat clothes on the couch or bed. She was making a meal she knew would lower your guard. | /r/askMRP | 26/09/18 12:38 PM |
| 2 | The cheating dreamlol they still do that. or 100 pushups. either way. | /r/askMRP | 26/09/18 12:33 PM |
| 1 | facial looks and improving them so you're not uglyLifting. eating right. Finding your joy. Honestly all the things we say women do to look like they hit the wall do the same thing to men. Drinking hard, living a hard stressful life will ruin you. The thing is for men time makes us more attractive. Not just because we mature but becasue we grow into ourselves. Takes time to develop a strong body correctly. Experience, calmness, all that good shit gets reflected on your face. It's not over yet adapt the right attitude and the correct lifestyle. S… | /r/askMRP | 26/09/18 12:13 PM |
| 9 | Wife pulled a knife on me last nightI haven't read your post history but I don't see this as depressed person. People who are depressed don't do things. It's in the definition of the disorder. You are being setup. Pure and simple. | /r/askMRP | 26/09/18 12:09 PM |
| 3 | First post, long time lurker...I plan to simply tell her that I'll be seeking outside resources to have my physical needs met. Sooooo you're trying to emotionally blackmail her? If you want to fuck then fuck. You don't need ours or her permission, but this is screaming for attention. PUHLEEEZE fuck me or Mary Jane Rotten-Crotch will. But looking at your lift stats you aren't putting in the work. You are DL2. That is your issue. You aren't even ready for the hard stuff yet. Unless you were seriously obese you should be further… | /r/askMRP | 26/09/18 12:06 PM |
| 6 | Can you keep frame if you’re wrong?The moral of this story is if you can't do it right do it cool. | /r/askMRP | 26/09/18 11:59 AM |
| 2 | Can you keep frame if you’re wrong?Yes. HER: Just admit you're wrong. ME: Of course I am. It's your fault but my mistake HER: Just admit it you're wrong. ME: I admit it. I married the wrong woman. HER: Idiot that wasn't the right thing to do ME: Damn straight but it was fucking cool right? Did you see how far it went? HER: You're an ass. Why can't you get it right. ME: You knew I was an ass when you married me. (then smack hers). | /r/askMRP | 26/09/18 11:57 AM |
| 1 | Hard time deciding between cutting the cord or re-cultivating scorched earthHa. dumbass. She got pregnant when you came clean on sleeping with other women. Uhhhh right it just magically happened. This is why TRP says don't hide it, don't openly admit it, but...fuck And by the way...if a woman doesn't want to get pregnant. She won't. The odds of an "accident" are extremely low if she is on her game WHICH means you fucked up by not wrapping your pecker. NOW she has PTSD? Seriously? Do you realize the level of trauma that has to actually happen to have PTSD? You are seriou… | /r/askMRP | 25/09/18 12:55 PM |
| 1 | Wife has some type of access to my phone?It's called a key logger. They make them for iOS as well. Suck less Do better. Technology is a survival skill these days. | /r/askMRP | 24/09/18 11:38 PM |
| 29 | The cheating dreamI was late for black belt class. Rushing to get inside and running through the parking lot when my sensei came out of the dojo. He was drunk and stumbling. I hurried to him and said "Sensei, I am sorry I am late. Did I miss the lesson?" He stumbled back a step and looked at me. Hands on his hips he laughed out loud, he leaned back, it was a loud laugh. "Late?" he roared, "The lesson begins now!" Then ninjas from the Foot Clan appeared from every where. My reactions were quick and natural. hands … | /r/askMRP | 24/09/18 10:38 PM |
| 10 | Best approach with wife?You have the relationship you deserve. What do you think you should do? | /r/askMRP | 24/09/18 10:33 PM |
| 1 | How to do this without being a total piece of shit ?Nawww Cuz maybe you'll find a chick you want to cheat on and all your problems will be solved. | /r/askMRP | 23/09/18 05:49 PM |
| 1 | How to do this without being a total piece of shit ?Not if you are paying attention. | /r/askMRP | 23/09/18 05:42 PM |
| 1 | How to do this without being a total piece of shit ?It is. What it is. This is awfully stoic of you. Because this statement means that one has accepted the world as it is. Looks for no explanation of it. The world just is. The problem is most weak mother fuckers use it as an excuse to explain away shit they should change.. They just want something so it is what it is. I am fat no matter how hard I workout. Must be genetics. It is what it is. Your statement here also tells me that you were looking for some bro-love. Like we were going to high five… | /r/askMRP | 23/09/18 05:38 PM |
| 1 | Dealing with 2 plates in the same place at onceI don’t get it. They are plates....why the fuss? | /r/askTRP | 23/09/18 03:41 PM |
| 4 | filtering high quality womenHigh quality woman. There isn’t one. | /r/askTRP | 23/09/18 03:40 PM |
| 1 | How long do your dates last?As long as I want them to | /r/askTRP | 23/09/18 03:39 PM |
| 5 | Pity date?I am going with a different tact. Every man here is a woman’s second choice. She isn’t and never was yours, just your turn. With that in mind she is overdoing it for a reason. So what? Enjoy yourself. If you want to go out do it but take her for all she is worth. She will put the breaks on if she thinks she has you hooked, so don’t let her think nor do that. YOu know where you exactly where you stand with this girl so why the fuck not put the gas pedal down and go for it. This girl is a practice… | /r/askTRP | 23/09/18 03:37 PM |
| 2 | Is it possible to recover from losing a shit test and totally losing frame.It is possible but you are not in a relationship so why bother? In either case though you are the prize. Even if you fail a shit test it’s her loss. She missed out on being a cool mother fucker....even one as weak as you. As a teaching point remember she can’t read your mind. As long as you don’t lose your cool she will wonder what happened with that guy? Women shit test alphas as well. It’s when they STOP shit testing is when you have to worry. Move on. if she was into you she will approach or … | /r/askTRP | 23/09/18 03:31 PM |
| 1 | How to do this without being a total piece of shit ?This is male hypergamy. It is not the desire to Fuck as much you want. It’s a rare woman that will be down 50 hours a day for it or even multiple times and you would need to be Supreme Alphas of the universe. What is male hypergamy is to want women just have women....like a little boy running around Willy Wonka’s Chocolate factory; to want to fuck the variety pack, because there is no such thing. A wet hole is a wet hole. In fact I will do you one better. every hand you shake has touched a cock.… | /r/askMRP | 23/09/18 02:52 PM |
| 2 | I am missing something in my progress.God damn wise words. Fucking stealing that one. | /r/askMRP | 23/09/18 02:06 PM |
| 1 | I am missing something in my progress.Isn’t it amazing how i all comes down to that? I look at my 13 year old and just tell him to stop talking. He gets it, well for a bit then his mouth starts jabbering on again. Sometimes she’s not the only adult teen in the house. | /r/askMRP | 23/09/18 01:45 PM |
| 1 | Am I being reasonable?women love a busy man. They really really do. They want to know their man is out there kicking ass and taking names then coming home to fuck them and make sure shit there is taken care of. No fucking joke. I can’t tell you how many times i hear it. My new plate, 40 years old, told me two things. The first is that she would gladly be wrong if it meant having a relationship, and two she wished her husband would do something other then sit around the house. If your wife is bitching it’s for one of … | /r/askMRP | 23/09/18 01:37 PM |
| 2 | I am missing something in my progress.He’s just missing the “Gosh darn it people like me” Bet he talks to himself every morning in the mirror. | /r/askMRP | 23/09/18 01:30 PM |
| 4 | Turning a failed deering around.WTF? So old boy wanted a BJ and instead got texts about custody. That’s the TLDR. If you were alpha you would give her the custody agreement, or as already suggested if you were alpha you would be getting your dick sucked right now. This weekend I linked up with some army buddies of mine. One a Special Forces sergeant. Real monster, warrior. Makes me want to piss my pants kind of guy. Dude scares me he is that intense and focused. We had a few and he started to bitch about his wife. So I started… | /r/askMRP | 23/09/18 01:27 PM |
| 3 | FR: My Return; Dread, Frame, and AmusementWell done. Now get to work. | /r/askMRP | 20/09/18 02:34 PM |
| 1 | Do a lot of men let their wives know the pin to their phones?My phone is locked because bank apps. Money flows on this thing. Nothing has changed except our paranoia. Stop worrying about what others are doing. If shes cheating you know what to do next | /r/askMRP | 20/09/18 02:30 PM |
| 3 | FR: RP Working quickly but I'm in uncharted territoryThat was some victim puking there. Barely made it past the second paragraph. Had to stop. All I can say is stop thinking. Doesnt do any good. It's just the way it is. Women are like buses. Always another one coming. | /r/askMRP | 19/09/18 12:10 PM |
| 8 | Her Sexual Changes (Direct vs. Indirect)For the most part women married the man they want to be with. Either you became a pussy or you failed to rise to the occasion. Its the minority that married a woman that isnt on board with any changes or refuses to come along on the ride. Or maybe your fall was so far down they cant forgive it. Either way. Doesnt matter. Stop hamstering the why. Accept it. It just is. Your actions are more important. | /r/askMRP | 18/09/18 07:16 PM |
| 2 | The StratosphereWell said. Finalizing Divorce on the horizon and coming fast Full power lift meet in January. Book moving along ahead of schedule. 3 plates. Life is alright. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 18/09/18 07:12 PM |
| 4 | what is mrp”s view on divorce?He just needs a ban. OP isnt even looking at the material. | /r/askMRP | 18/09/18 04:07 PM |
| 7 | How to find your mission in life, or better yet, happiness. Feel alone in this world.Stop watching useless shit and get to work. Find your Mission In the immortal words of Sun Tzu. The most important technique to winning war is to stop being a faggot and get your hands out of your pockets | /r/askTRP | 17/09/18 12:30 AM |
| 5 | My body, my choice?The corollary to this is women who cant relinquish that control. For whatever reason they intentionally seek out beta relationships because they can control or think they can control the Male. This always backfires. It leads to affairs. Divorce. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/09/18 12:24 AM |
| 2 | AWALT?Well. Consider every hand you shake has touched a cock. Every. Single. One. Get over it | /r/askTRP | 17/09/18 12:11 AM |
| 4 | Anger problem. I have the divorce papers in my car.All special operations soldiers/sailors will also say selection never ends. They may have passed the training and try outs but once on the teams/ODAs....they need to prove themselves every day. A man's world is much the same thing. My dick itches every time I hear a man have to recount his pedigree. Mother fucker its hero to zero moment every damn day. | /r/askMRP | 16/09/18 04:18 PM |
| 2 | Almost Home: Advice on how to return to empty home and kid separation?This is a better question for some divorce or single father sub. Your kid will benefit from an active father who knows his mission and is in their life. Ultimately you will have the same quality. Above all stop worrying about what your actions do to others but what they do to you. If you want to be a good father then do that. Stop hamstering over how your daughter will feel about it. | /r/askMRP | 16/09/18 02:02 PM |
| 4 | Anger problem. I have the divorce papers in my car.How can I stop this?? Drop your ego. Stop being a faggot. You are more emotional than your wife. No wonder she thinks you're a douche. | /r/askMRP | 16/09/18 01:33 PM |
| 9 | what does the monk mode mean?As for monk mode I refer you to sun tzu the most important technique for winning a war is to not be a faggot and get your hands out of your pockets. | /r/askMRP | 16/09/18 03:21 AM |
| 2 | what have i become?you are LARPing. You just quote the rules and guidelines without real experience nor doing it on your own. Why? Can anyone help me with this shit Yes.... I do 'beta' shit, Stop doing beta shit. It's really that simple. | /r/askTRP | 16/09/18 12:06 AM |
| 2 | What does going rambo mean?going Rambo I believe was coined by /u/Rian_Stone. Could be wrong but he's the one that brought to prominence in my mind. Essentially Rambo has reached his base desires. He now innately understands what to do but ONLY because he's been pushed to his limits. he then lashes out and oddly gets shit done in a red pill way. Like I said he's reached the point where enough is fucking enough. There's been a lot of talk about Rambo. Some see it as an autist approach others as a rage monster. The real poi… | /r/askMRP | 15/09/18 11:26 PM |
| 3 | Emotional affairs?Yeah. I felt violated after reading it. I needed a hug. | /r/askMRP | 14/09/18 11:00 PM |
| 14 | Emotional affairs?So you took this much time to write. I'm a faggot. | /r/askMRP | 14/09/18 05:57 PM |
| 2 | how to deal with knee pain?Theres a lot to lifting correctly. Beyond form. Just can't get tennis shoes and go for it. I've been thinking about making a post about it | /r/askMRP | 14/09/18 05:27 PM |
| 8 | Emotional affairs?So much stupid here it makes my eyes burn. In retrospect I could most likely have fucked them had I not been so amazingly beta I love statements like this. Its the same as "I was once alpha". Its the lack of ability to see what you truly are vs what you would like to be. Like saying we are all jealous because you re talking to girls on the internet all day long. Get over yourself mother fucker. You are hamstring the whole thing. Trying to find a way without having to put in the work. I think you… | /r/askMRP | 14/09/18 02:44 PM |
| 2 | What to make of this situation? advice?Been texting this girl for about 2-3 weeks That's your problem. Texting is for logistics. End it find a real girl. | /r/askMRP | 14/09/18 02:35 PM |
| 2 | how to deal with knee pain?Along with what /u/2ndal said but I will add get the right gear. The lifting RP advises men to do is heavy lifting and it doesn't talk to the right gear. First are shoes.. These shoes are for deadlift and bench only. You want flat feet for deadlift. Next are Neoprene knee sleeves for support & compression | /r/askMRP | 14/09/18 02:01 PM |
| 2 | Lack of abundanceI once asked one of my sergeants how he could deal with the things he'd seen at war. He'd been in a couple more scraps than I had. He looked at me and asked me what I meant. Well, I said, the emotions, the sights, sounds. people dying how do you deal with it. I remember clear as day he looking at me like I was a dumbest mother fucker on the planet. he said you don't. How could you. who else can understand it. This isn't normal. Put in a box and lock it away. Never open the box. Does why really m… | /r/askMRP | 14/09/18 01:53 PM |
| 3 | How to Smell Amazing: A Man's Guide to Buying and Wearing CologneDon't dismiss it. Do it right and it's catnip. A woman won't be able to stop being near you. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/09/18 01:45 PM |
| 2 | Is there anything one can do about cumming too fast?Sooooo sex is a race to you. A race to orgasm. Do all the things said here. Supplements. Exercise. Mental control. Also. And hear me out. Dominate her in other ways. Not just cave man. Tease her till shes begging. Control her orgasm. Make her have multiple from other ways. Finger her. Eat her out. Whatever until shes begging to be fucked. Then dont. Keep going Teasing her will ramp up things. Sometimes it's not about physical domination....ok maybe a little. theres psychological and emotional as… | /r/askMRP | 14/09/18 12:22 PM |
| 2 | How do I deal with weight loss sabotage?So what you're saying is that you're so weak that you cant ignore fat pills? Shit food is everywhere. Deal with it. Have a bit of control. Discipline. My weakness is a good solid breakfast. Eggs. Meat. Gravy biscuits. Plenty of hot black coffee. Cant do it. So I dont. Make the decision to not. It's literally a decision. | /r/askMRP | 14/09/18 12:14 PM |
| 1 | I want to like my wife againI bet she wants to like you again as well. Send me her number. Sounds like a down girl. | /r/askMRP | 14/09/18 12:12 PM |
| 1 | Lack of abundanceTo add. I'm not sure its validation. I dont get that sense. What I think is that you were used to a certain state of things. Like a drug addict. Used to high and euphoria. You seem to know and are working towards a better state of mind. | /r/askMRP | 14/09/18 12:11 PM |
| 8 | What does a masculine man feel about his wife initiating sex?There are times when my girl needs to take out her aggression. Maybe her day was shit. She'll jump me. It'll go until I'm tired of it then take control back. Those are times I like sex to be a fight. So yeah. Men have a range. | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/09/18 12:06 PM |
| 0 | Why can’t i always be like my drunk self?Thisnis how I know you're a just going through the motions. It's in your head. Alcohol is a depressant,, which means it slows the function of the central nervous system. Alcohol actually blocks some of the messages trying to get to the brain. This alters a person’s perceptions, emotions, movement, vision, and hearing. It also causes a sense of euphoria similiar to orgasms. Women blame alcohol on a lot of things. So you're telling everyone here alcohol made you do it. No. You're making yourself n… | /r/askTRP | 14/09/18 11:56 AM |
| 6 | Wife refuses to be submissiveThat was the funniest shit ever. Submit woman. Imma man. Dude. Seriously. What the actual fuck? The only thing I see that makes me relate is that godly bullshit. We can talk later about that or maybe go see /r/rpchristians But we cant because your ego is in your way. | /r/askMRP | 14/09/18 02:48 AM |
| 2 | How to Smell Amazing: A Man's Guide to Buying and Wearing CologneMost of this trial and error. This needs to be retained so many more dont have to travel paved roads again. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 13/09/18 10:12 PM |
| 2 | How to Smell Amazing: A Man's Guide to Buying and Wearing CologneIt's a lacking area. Men dont know how to coordinate their scents. From cologne to soap. After shave. deodorant | /r/MarriedRedPill | 13/09/18 10:05 PM |
| 2 | How to Smell Amazing: A Man's Guide to Buying and Wearing CologneNeeds to get added to 60 Days of Dread /u/Rian_Stone | /r/MarriedRedPill | 13/09/18 09:54 PM |
| 12 | how to get energized and motivationwhat make you think I wrote it for OP? | /r/askMRP | 13/09/18 12:15 PM |
| 2 | How to Lead my FamilyWas there a question here? Or just jerking off to how much of a faggot you are? | /r/askMRP | 13/09/18 11:14 AM |
| 4 | Ex gf reaches out to congratulate me on the anniversary of my small business.No contact means no contact. Why is this so hard? | /r/askTRP | 13/09/18 11:11 AM |
| 27 | how to get energized and motivation.....because motivation is an emotion. It is a powerful one, but it relies on someone else’s involvement - their validation. Forget it. You don’t need it. Emotions wax and wane like the moon, as will motivation. Your emotions will never complete you. You need to rely on discipline. You build discipline by doing what you said you would do no matter how you feel. Then at some point the pain goes away, and you begin to appreciate, if not, love the process. From here on out you can no longer believe… | /r/askMRP | 13/09/18 11:01 AM |
| 0 | Own Your Shit Weekly - September 04, 2018Yeah i don't know what your problem is. Get rid of that giant sized ego of yours and take a look at things. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 10/09/18 07:09 PM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - September 04, 2018I am going to take a different stance here. Where has your leadership been? Are you just watching her struggle? Most men even experience a time of shock at losing a job. It's a hit to the ego. Some recover quicker than others. Women would take it a lot harder. In beginning she took her role as being home seriously. It was clear by her actions. I am curious as to your response to it. Then her actions started going down hill. While you will interpret /u/man_in_the_world s advice as make her get a … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 10/09/18 06:09 PM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - September 04, 2018so I'm trying to build up a consistent track record of working out so I can easily overcome the wife's objections to me paying to go to the gym or buying a weight system for home. I stopped right here. Who are you doing this for? Why are you letting her dictate your fitness? It's a covert contract. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 10/09/18 05:57 PM |
| 2 | How to hold frame when u’re tired?This is warfare. If you haven't been soldier then you need to figure that shit out now. She isn't your friend not by a long shot. She willl know exactly when to get to you when you are at your weakest. To me this is why going Rambo aint' so bad. Anger never lies, so just letting lose when you've had enough is ok. Just accept what happens after. Put this into perspective. Does she even deserve to have a calmer you? She's pushing you and pushing at some point any one would break. I know my STBX do… | /r/askMRP | 10/09/18 12:18 PM |
| 8 | First post: Wife cheated on me with a chick...what would you do?I am going to deep dive on something here. In the back of my mind I knew it's cause I had been living half ass and not owning my shit or ACTING. When she and I talked I was very clear about her being at fault due to HER decision to do this. You have been married 2 years. There is no way becoming beta caused her to go muff diving. She married you because you ARE beta, this is has been in the making for a long time. Women rarely, and I mean RARELY, are overcome by desire and have to fuck anything … | /r/askMRP | 10/09/18 12:02 PM |
| 1 | My textgame sucksUgh. Really? A walk is exciting for you? Back to basics. Upgrade your life and activities. Unless shes a nature lover tree hugging girl you're not going to get a yes. Find something fun. Exciting. A walk is isolating individual. Even with someone you're doing it alone. | /r/askTRP | 08/09/18 09:22 PM |
| 2 | My textgame sucksDo what you want. If you arent going to enjoy whatever it is. Is she? Stop worrying about how your actions effect others and start thinking about how your actions effect you | /r/askTRP | 08/09/18 09:10 PM |
| 1 | My textgame sucksIf I have to answer that one for you call it off. Do what ever you want. | /r/askTRP | 08/09/18 08:59 PM |
| 3 | Rejected by a huge slutWomen are like buses. Always another one coming. | /r/askTRP | 08/09/18 07:33 PM |
| 3 | My textgame sucksI need a getaway drive for Saturday (or whenever). Various crimes planned. Must love puppies. | /r/askTRP | 08/09/18 07:27 PM |
| 2 | How to deal with a girl's friends such that they don't get in the way of a potential relationship?Like I said. Your frame is weak. You are unwilling to learn. | /r/askTRP | 07/09/18 04:11 PM |
| 2 | How to deal with a girl's friends such that they don't get in the way of a potential relationship?There is no such thing as an alpha female. There is one at the top of their dominance hierarchy but she can be replaced quickly. Women are not Alpha. Hide behind all the Red Pill terms you want. The fact is you are investing in too much here. Knowing what you want also means knowing what you don't. You are clearly willing to put up with a lot to fuck one girl. Let that sink in. Exactly how much is your time worth fucking this one girl? You seem to be willing to put a lot into it. Two things stan… | /r/askTRP | 07/09/18 12:34 PM |
| 2 | Help needed with response....not quite a shit test...There is no way I can give you a line and it come from you being authentic. What would you say next? She may reply oh really? then you have to answer that. This is a shit test and it isn't over her shaved pussy. It's over your needy asking for pictures. This is where you are placing a lot of emphasis. In general I don't get nudes on text. Call me old fashioned but it really does nothing for me unless I am fucking her and even then I want the real thing not spank bank material. You are placing to… | /r/askMRP | 06/09/18 07:13 PM |
| 1 | Why do guys particularly my friends think it’s creepy to hook up, plate or LTR an 18-19 year old? How do I deal with this?You're lying to yourself. Which is it? | /r/askTRP | 06/09/18 06:50 PM |
| 1 | Hott moms at the park. I F'ed up.act like a child get treated like a child. even the fat beta knew what was up. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/09/18 05:39 PM |
| 6 | Lifitng with a physical job.What no one will tell you nor admit to is that building a physique takes time. LOTS of time. I have been powerlifting all my life ad it wasn't until last year I got dead serious with it that I change started happening. Up until then it was just lifting off and on. It takes a long fucking time. Bench and shoulders are the most difficult, BUT most times women aren't impressed by the weight you lift. Which is why betas hit the gym friday evening to get a pump for the clubs. I've seen real built dud… | /r/askMRP | 06/09/18 05:23 PM |
| 6 | Is your wife completly incapable of selling anything on ebay?There are no words to describe how utterly useless this post is. /u/Rian_Stone can this go away now? | /r/askMRP | 06/09/18 05:15 PM |
| 3 | Sick Wife - We cant have sex anymore because im going through menopause.So I hope thing improve, i agree my bench is the worst and hoping these changes help. From an earlier comment. Hope is not a method. Look OP I was in your position. Not once but twice one I married. Yeah I did that shit TWICE. I am going to tell you now that she will always have a reason to NOT fuck. She will. Using the kids as a reason. Yep. Been there but again there will always be a reason. There are other flared men that have made this decision. Some regret it and change thier minds. I am on… | /r/askMRP | 06/09/18 03:55 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with a girl's friends such that they don't get in the way of a potential relationship?Frame. You lack it. | /r/askTRP | 06/09/18 03:08 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with a girl's friends such that they don't get in the way of a potential relationship?Theres no such thing as an alpha female Stop being a white knight. Her problem not yours. I could go on but if these three aren't clear to you the rest us lost on you. | /r/askTRP | 06/09/18 01:43 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with a girl's friends such that they don't get in the way of a potential relationship?why do you want this drama? | /r/askTRP | 06/09/18 12:37 PM |
| 3 | What am I doing wrong?OMG. We are never the villain in our stories. What I just read was that you're the creepy guy that keeps following this girl around hitting on her. Try being the fun guy that games everyone, talks to everyone, and creates a good time where ever he is at. Invite people to your world. Be that guy that has a good time no mater what. SHe's just another person. Either she will see what a truly wonderful beast you are or she isn't your problem any more. | /r/askTRP | 06/09/18 12:34 PM |
| 0 | Constant Angeralright then let this be the last fucking time you cry about it. The last time you puke it up to the internet. Life sucks. It isn't fair....yeah yeah yeah. Your move, jocko. | /r/askTRP | 06/09/18 12:29 PM |
| 3 | Constant AngerAnger is something I know alot about. It can be either adaptive or maladaptive. Anger cannot be dishonest ~Aurelius Find out the source of your anger. Choose not to be harmed — and you won’t feel harmed. Don’t feel harmed — and you haven’t been. Why are you allowing yourself to be a victim? You are not angry at the person you are angry at yourself for a reason. Be honest with yourself and find out why. How much more grievous are the consequences of anger than the causes of it. ~Aurelius You are … | /r/askTRP | 06/09/18 12:12 PM |
| 7 | Should i bang this married chick?Huh? I am not sure what I read. All that before was just hamstering on your part and hints at seriously prolonged oneitis. or at least you held on to something that long. The reason I know this is because you are linking it to current situation. You are reaching a decade back thinking she has feeling for you. To be sure she may want to fuck. You didn't give us enough information. At all. You were given some hints that she was looking to get fucked by you. You failed and are failing. Married wome… | /r/askTRP | 06/09/18 12:04 PM |
| 10 | Need adviceStep 1. Keep doing yoga. Step 2. Get her number Step 3. Send it to me. You can't handle this yet. Go back to step 1. | /r/askTRP | 06/09/18 11:56 AM |
| 5 | Why do guys particularly my friends think it’s creepy to hook up, plate or LTR an 18-19 year old? How do I deal with this?Why do you care what they think? | /r/askTRP | 06/09/18 11:54 AM |
| 13 | Sick Wife - We cant have sex anymore because im going through menopause.Took me way too long to figure this out as well. I get where OP Is coming from. Once he flips the switch it'll be on. Right now he's still not there. | /r/askMRP | 06/09/18 11:53 AM |
| 5 | Sick Wife - We cant have sex anymore because im going through menopause.Seriously? You've not studied enough. I am not going to make it that easy for you. Women's currency is sex Men' currency is time/commitment Which do you think is more valuable? | /r/askMRP | 06/09/18 11:24 AM |
| 3 | Sick Wife - We cant have sex anymore because im going through menopause.Ha. Been there. In fact my STBX is fond of saying "It's not the 1950s I don't have to have sex if I don't want to." Whatever. I found others that don't believe that. As for you...Don't her hands and mouth work? The thing is even the most sexual woman will look for ways out of fucking you. It is literally the natural order of things. Just because you want sex from her doesn't mean you are insensitive or unable to understand what she is going through. Flip it. If you stop dedicating time and atten… | /r/askMRP | 06/09/18 11:08 AM |
| 1 | FWB wants exclusivity, but is scared of relationship.Why would a woman want exclusivity but not a lrt? It isn’t obvious? Lock you in. Then when she has recharged her validatoin She will drop you. This is what a strong independent woman wants. She wants all the feels of a relationship which is what she will get with the exclusivity part but she will demand and want the relationship from you, only she won’t “owe you” anything. Then as already said she will dump you. If you are still struggling with scarcity. And blue pill mindsets you’ve not complet… | /r/askTRP | 05/09/18 05:47 PM |
| 6 | Recommending Japanese rope bondagemost women are submissive and shibari feeds well into that All women are. You just have to be the Alpha they will submit too. | /r/askMRP | 05/09/18 04:28 PM |
| 1 | running in circles, need help nailing down a missionpossible failure. This sums up everything in your life OP. | /r/askMRP | 05/09/18 04:20 PM |
| 2 | How to handle separation from child? Wife is spinning off the wheel...Has anybody dealt with getting back from deployment and coming back to split households? The military has classes on this. What are you doing? Amazing a girl who complained about me wanting to talk to her just a few months ago now tries to keep me on the phone for as long as possible. This will be amusing. All that other shit is just you feeling empowered because she may or may not breaking down and realizing what's happening. You are still in her frame if you even are caring about what happens.… | /r/askMRP | 04/09/18 01:52 PM |
| 18 | Divorced RP after 50 (Part 2): Reflections on FrameFrame is pretty simple. It has nothing to do with culture other than most western cultures are way too uptight. It's a simple question. What do you want? The answer is simpler. Go do that. If you want to go out to the bookstore then get up and go. If you want to go grab a beer and spend an hour watching the game at a pub then go do that. Why explain yourself? The reality is men come here because they realize they have spent these last few years worrying about how their actions will make others f… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 04/09/18 01:48 PM |
| 3 | Little confusion?See? Fuck this is why I regret not just saying lift and sidebar. You, sir, are a faggot. Get the fuck out of her frame. Lift. Sidebar. Stop posting bullshit. | /r/askMRP | 02/09/18 04:05 PM |
| 5 | Little confusion?When a woman is being annoying she wants her ass smacked. In public. In front of everyone. Action not words. So I am going to deep dive fora moment. Only becasue I am sure you don't get the difference. Black Phillip. ugh. Ok it's a good podcast, but it's early years of the whole masculinity movement so there are aspects they get wrong.. Beige Phillip is really rehashing old PUA techniques. Do you really talk at length to your toddlers or kids? I mean really? They don't fucking get it and even st… | /r/askMRP | 02/09/18 03:53 PM |
| 5 | There's a lot to unpack in Meghan McCain's Eulogy of Her FatherThe idea is to win without fighting, because any form of warfare invariably results in losses for all sides, including your own I respond by pissing on Sun Tzu. I always advocated The Book Of Five Rings over Art of War. Musashi said the fight begins when the challenge is made. If you think for one minute that fighting and warfare are contained within the confines of gunfire and explosions you are woefully misinformed. For men these same skills translate if that man has developed himself. Non-vio… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/09/18 03:07 PM |
| 1 | I just read it....Jesus christ another faggot. Shut. The. Fuck. Up. Read. Study. Get to work stop posting.bullshit. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 02/09/18 01:53 PM |
| 1 | I just read it....This is not where you do this. Move to OYS and don't make this mistake again. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 02/09/18 01:50 PM |
| 3 | You're Being Cucked. What Do You Do About It?Right. It's exactly that. I can't tell you how many times I hear something along the lines of: I never knew how bad my relationships were even in the best of times. I'd gladly be wrong if it meant having a relationship like this for the rest of my life. Being a strong independent woman is shit when theres a man like you around Pretty powerful shit right there and I've heard it a lot. It would seduce e even the strongest alpha when shes fucking like a demon. Thing is doesnt matter. Hypetgamy and … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 02/09/18 12:48 PM |
| 3 | Who The Fuck Are You?To the first. Yes for another 7 months. To second. No. Not my job | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/18 01:26 AM |
| -3 | Who The Fuck Are You?They came here. The message doesn't need to be watered down. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/08/18 11:34 PM |
| 5 | catfished in real life?I am surprised you are even having this revelation. Women will demand everything from you. You must be over 6 foot, have your shit together, own your car, your house, be a man. Meanwhile they....you get the point. What this post tells me in your hubris you decided to break or at least bend the rules a bit. Her pictures she sent you were designed and taken to hide the worse of her, or were older pictures. If you followed the TRP rules of online dating this would not have happened, How do I know? … | /r/askTRP | 31/08/18 11:04 PM |
| 1 | Who The Fuck Are You?Your close yet you are falling into the trap of "not my priority right now". Wrong thinking. yet there is hope. I am working on that post right now as it is a valuable discussion and a skill I see young men are not taught any more. As a military brat you may recognize the mantra I am about to throw out. Stand by. More to follow. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/08/18 10:36 PM |
| 2 | Who The Fuck Are You?Should be pretty self explanatory. What do you do when there's something in the road blocking your path? The hardest one to understand is go through it What that means is blow it up. Put some C4 to that bitch and nuke it sky high. The same reasoning can be applied to obstacles in your life. Most obstacles in our life are put there by our own ego. If we put them there we can remove them. If you didn't put them there, you have other options at your disposal. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/08/18 10:31 PM |
| 1 | Who The Fuck Are You?Shit I remember that now. Stupid. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/08/18 08:28 PM |
| -11 | Who The Fuck Are You?Correct. So let's pick at the fly shit shall we? The air force is also investing heavily starting this year in developing pilots. I dont understand their reasoning behind getting kids at this age into flight training. But it's an opportunity. Before this year I paid for him to go. Now the air force does it for me. My state is close to several air bases. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/08/18 07:38 PM |
| 5 | Who The Fuck Are You?Yep. I thought it odd too but it's the colleges response to the medic shortage in our state. Even still I think it's a bit risky to put an 18 year old behind a rig. It's a new program so I've been talking it up to those I know. Drivers programs need to get far more serious than they are. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/08/18 05:48 PM |
| -5 | Who The Fuck Are You?I'd emphasize her femininity while being successful in her life. Make her understand that there is a man's world. That being strong is also being submissive. There is hard with soft. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/08/18 05:35 PM |
| 9 | Who The Fuck Are You?I thought the same. As I am also a medic (volunteer at local fire department) I looked into it. they sure enough do get one. It's not national. State only. They receive the EMT in the first year then move on through. It's a 3 year course | /r/TheRedPill | 31/08/18 05:33 PM |
| -2 | Who The Fuck Are You?It is. But think about it and you'll gain some understanding | /r/TheRedPill | 31/08/18 04:36 PM |
| 21 | Who The Fuck Are You?I'm blown away by it. Being army the Jr rotc programs are jokes. Sea cadets has done amazing things for him. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/08/18 04:15 PM |
| 40 | Who The Fuck Are You?Navy sea cadets. I dont understand all that it is. They worked with other hard Hats and were likely doing grunt work and smaller jobs. Still big stuff for a kid. I intentionally stay out. Merely a proud dad. I find it important for them to learn leadership under other men as well as me. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/08/18 04:06 PM |
| 7 | Who The Fuck Are You?Did my first last month. It was a strong man competition. Not a bad showing. Training for my next in December Success to you | /r/TheRedPill | 31/08/18 03:49 PM |
| 31 | Who The Fuck Are You?Some of you will find that an example. Some of you will call that small. But that's what I've done. The title of the post was specifically chosen. It's either a question or statement. Depends on your ego. Who the fuck you are is up to you to judge. No one else. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/08/18 03:01 PM |
| 17 | Who The Fuck Are You?CAP allows 16 as long he flies under them. He cannot just walk on any airport and fly | /r/TheRedPill | 31/08/18 02:55 PM |
| 4 | Who The Fuck Are You?are you married? I am but not for much longer. do you get help from their mother? No. Why do I need it? raise my kid and do basic stuff like clean/do dishes, etc. Not mentioning actually getting any women. This is a mistake. You don't need to directly mention Red Pill until they are much older and able to research on their own but not talking about the principles is a mistake. young boys are far more receptive to direct and blunt truths than older men/boys. there is a sub for Red Pill fathering,… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/08/18 02:51 PM |
| 6 | I have a little bitch voice. How to put some volume in it?Several ways to do this. All lead to the fact that you need to learn to speak from your diaphragm. In fact it's an essential part of lifting not often talked about. belly breathing is a source of power and strength. it is a sign of a strong core. Look up things on line. An easy way is to take singing lessons. It's how singers can hit high notes without ruining their vocal cords. Another thing to do is take dramatic reading classes. This is also helps with public speaking, and cold reading when y… | /r/askTRP | 31/08/18 02:46 PM |
| 16 | Who The Fuck Are You?And there are those that game but have no authenticity as men. They are LARPing. Women can smell fake like lions can smell blood on the Serengeti. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/08/18 02:36 PM |
| 1 | The unicorn fantasy that even TRP men have the hardest time letting go.A woman will have no problem fucking you to keep access to your money and the "lifestyle" she thinks she deserves. All to make sure you think things are ok. She can desire you and not value you. I have seen it. I have been in your house. Ate your food, fucked your wife on your couch, and petted your dog as I walked out the door. It's not about her. Her status. It's about what you are and are not willing to put up with in your relationships. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/08/18 11:00 AM |
| 3 | You're Being Cucked. What Do You Do About It?I am not suggesting anything. What I am saying is you are in her frame if you are worried about it. Your line of thinking suggests that somehow or way you believe she is locked in. If you acknowledge it can happen then finding out shouldn't be a problem. She is capable of it. It's not about looking for red flags. Looking for signs of her cheating on you. Trust me. If she wants to she will and you won't know. It's about knowing what you will and will not put up with in your relationships. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 31/08/18 10:47 AM |
| 3 | You're Being Cucked. What Do You Do About It?I think if you're that scared of being cheated on, you're playing life too safe. well said | /r/MarriedRedPill | 31/08/18 10:43 AM |
| 2 | Don’t Overcomplicate Things.I take the summers off of Reddit. Live life. Takes some lumps learn my lessons come back and share. Remember life is out there. Not in here. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/08/18 07:05 PM |
| 9 | How to adjust to harsh realities? (AWALT, Hypergamy and Women's inability to Love)not our job to raise another man's kid. | /r/askTRP | 30/08/18 06:16 PM |
| 3 | LTR/Fiancee job relocating, how to deal?Brother. Take a deep breath and remember who the fuck you are. | /r/askMRP | 30/08/18 05:58 PM |
| 3 | What kind of test is this?i can't even I was kind of hoping it was a slick way of saying her pussy was broken....nope. there it is | /r/askMRP | 30/08/18 05:30 PM |
| 2 | LTR/Fiancee job relocating, how to deal?Fuck. OK. Here is it. That's not my concern here. Stop lying to yourself...here's how i know. I guess I'm struggling with putting a boundary on this long distance issue. Boundary? No boundary what do you want? Is this how you see a relationship? If so then ok. If not ok. I don't want that, but at the same time, Cognitive distortion. Stop thinking in her frame. You don't know what she thinks what do you want? I don't think its really reasonable to tell her to give up a really good job opportunity… | /r/askMRP | 30/08/18 05:05 PM |
| 12 | How to adjust to harsh realities? (AWALT, Hypergamy and Women's inability to Love)This is where you need to be /r/redpillwomen | /r/askTRP | 30/08/18 04:58 PM |
| 1 | LTR/Fiancee job relocating, how to deal?Life is pretty fucking easy today. A lot of redundancy. There are maybe a handful of situations I would say that you are fucked in. Overall though life is a choice. Don't be fooled any other way. We aren't just out there bouncing around like bumper cars. Every one is making a choice. It's influenced to one degree or the other but in the end it is a conscious decision. I can't make yours. You can't make mine and sure as fuck you can't make hers. But I'm struggling with how to approach setting a f… | /r/askMRP | 30/08/18 04:55 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Beta Bob and the AMOG: When Conflict Arises, Rise Above itAlso Ranger panties are amazing to run in my balls fall out | /r/MarriedRedPill | 30/08/18 04:48 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Beta Bob and the AMOG: When Conflict Arises, Rise Above itShit tests are fun even when men are giving them to you. Bob's real problem is he has no control over his life. he lashes out. He isn't fucked despite what his wife says about his body. He isn't respected despite his rank and odds are his duty assignment, and he isn't even acknowledged. Just be careful. You seem invested in Bob make sure he is a sociological study like Jane Goodall. IMO you should be avoiding Bob and his shit show of a life. If the wife wants to come hangout encourage it. And I … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 30/08/18 04:03 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Beta Bob and the AMOG: When Conflict Arises, Rise Above itNot just insight. I've been the Chad in this situation. Either she already is or she is about to. Being in the Navy she probably sees a lot of Chad worthy guys, but then again there are a lot of Blue Pill fucks around. Either way she is seeing her friend with the good life of an Alpha. It's taking its toll. odds are if your LTR and her as close as you say they talk. Friend hears about you the changes you've made blah blah blah. Don't think for a minute women don't talk about that shit. They do. … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 30/08/18 03:46 PM |
| 7 | You're Being Cucked. What Do You Do About It?I don't know about any statistics but my Kentucky windage and from what I have seen says that most women are intentionally marrying betas. They want the control over men so they think. These are the ones that will cheat eventually. The ones that may not are the ones that have turned their Alpha beta and still truly love him. They have to be driven to cheat or they will just live vicariously through the friends that do. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 30/08/18 03:33 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Beta Bob and the AMOG: When Conflict Arises, Rise Above itBeta Bob and his wife finally decided to come hang out with LTR and me My guess is that Bob is reporting to the ex. Dude is so deep in your frame licking your cranium. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 30/08/18 03:08 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Beta Bob and the AMOG: When Conflict Arises, Rise Above itThis was weird to me Shouldn't be but i can see how it is. There are cases where a woman will deliberately chose a beta. For while and maybe for the rest of her life she may not want to cheat. Despite what we say cheating for a woman is not always an instant switch that flips. Any how she choses this beta. A fat one at that. She does it because she knows she can control him. She may fuck him like a porn star for a while but once has that hook in she won't have to do any more. She can just keep c… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 30/08/18 03:05 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Beta Bob and the AMOG: When Conflict Arises, Rise Above itEach branch has different standards. Navy is the weakest. Not only that but military fitness when it comes to weight tracking really isn't. It's more about dimensions. Some men can squeak by. It's the combat arms branches where the physique is real as the fitness. I have seen real powerhouses fail the weight test in the Army. The Army wants you lean and thin. Not hulking with muscles. The marines want a balance. Navy? Air force? Just don't step on your dick. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 30/08/18 02:57 PM |
| 2 | Are women conscious of their meta-game?They are very aware. | /r/askTRP | 30/08/18 02:50 PM |
| 7 | Shit testing from afarTurn her texts sexual. RESPONSE: I love you and I love tacos. Some days I love you more than tacos. Now put your hair back the way I like before I replace you with tacos. RESPONSE 2: I miss your tits. Send a photo. RESPONSE 3: Stop. I can't focus on that I have a one track mind. Send a picture of your ass and everthing will be fine. RESPONSE TO GNO: Have fun and send nudes when you get home so I know you made it back safe. | /r/askMRP | 30/08/18 02:06 PM |
| 3 | You're Being Cucked. What Do You Do About It?Trust in a Relationship | /r/MarriedRedPill | 30/08/18 01:46 PM |
| 5 | I supposedly hit on my girlfriends sister on her brothers weddinghow you deal with this would make a good FR. report back let others learn. | /r/askTRP | 30/08/18 01:38 PM |
| 5 | You're Being Cucked. What Do You Do About It?This is also a situation. Most guys would tell you to stop her from hanging out with this wild friend, but you identified an oppurtunity. Nice, but some would say she is living her wild life with her friend. Possibly fucking guys. There is also a chance she isn't. true she may like the attention she is getting but here is the key. Are you providing her reason to fuck Chad? She is going to do it one way or the other what you want is get to the point where she realizes what she will lose if she do… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 30/08/18 01:36 PM |
| 2 | I supposedly hit on my girlfriends sister on her brothers weddingIMO your girl wants to be with you. If she truly felt you were fucking around she would have ended it right then. So it's your choice. Either way you need to end the drama. | /r/askTRP | 30/08/18 01:33 PM |
| 3 | I supposedly hit on my girlfriends sister on her brothers weddingAs far as I know her, she won’t bring it up again, but she will question me. This statement conflicts. Stop lying to yourself. The way I have been acting lately, WTF do you care? This about you and your actions. What you do and how it affects you. If she wants to be with you she will adjust to the new you because that guy is pretty awesome right? sounds like you regret what you are doing and haven't internalized shit. I currently believe that the start is very hard for a blue pill man to take th… | /r/askTRP | 30/08/18 01:21 PM |
| 8 | You're Being Cucked. What Do You Do About It?There's a possession element to men. We want to own what is ours. It's primal, it's natural. We have to let that go when it comes to women. Though women want to be possessed....feminism....blah blah...ruining things...blah blah. Let go. The world is a paradox. Don't figure it out. Accept it and move on. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 30/08/18 01:02 PM |
| 3 | I miss her, please drill some sense to my skullLoss is nothing else but change, and change is Nature’s delight ~Aurelius There is nothing wrong with feeling what you do. How you handle it is where you will be judged. What you do echoes for a life time. It's been theorized that no man can accept the Pill unless he has had his heart broken at least once. realize right now you are not mourning HER. You are remembering what you wanted, and it can be with any girl that deserves your time and attention. She can get dick any day of the week. What t… | /r/askTRP | 30/08/18 12:49 PM |
| 3 | I supposedly hit on my girlfriends sister on her brothers weddingAs said your first mistake was agreeing to watch the sister. White Knight move right there. Second? Your response. To which I replied with “Nothing happened, I did as you asked to bring her up.” good would have been "I don't deny things that are untrue. Better would have been to STFU. There is no good that can come of this. Side note the sister is lying for a reason assuming you are telling us the full story. UPDATE: She texted me that I really don’t care; To which I replied I did nothing wrong … | /r/askTRP | 30/08/18 12:40 PM |
| 4 | What to do when you reject a girl and she talks shit about you to some white knights who come to confront/fight you?You care too much. I could go on and on, recite Red Pill backwards and forwards, but you clearly don't get it. Maybe advice from over a thousand years ago will help: If you hear that someone is speaking ill of you, instead of trying to defend yourself you should say: ‘He obviously does not know me very well, since there are so many other faults he could have mentioned’.” ~~Epictetus | /r/askTRP | 30/08/18 12:29 PM |
| 17 | You're Being Cucked. What Do You Do About It?There's a corollary to this. That some just can't meet your standard. They will know it. And they will run. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 30/08/18 12:22 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - August 28, 2018Of course. There are many facts that dont line up. Something happened but not what was said. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 29/08/18 07:47 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - August 28, 2018Facts. The easiest is that each of the statements were nearly identical. That never happens. People never see the situation identically. In this case there were 4 identical statements | /r/MarriedRedPill | 29/08/18 07:42 PM |
| 0 | Handling the un-fun side of spouse who says no to social events.why do you care so much about her? | /r/askMRP | 29/08/18 04:45 PM |
| 1 | Update: 2 Month Separation and the Beta OrbiterTLDR I am great, and wonderful and smart gosh darn it people like me. Why is the ex still looking at other guys? | /r/askMRP | 29/08/18 02:51 PM |
| 1 | Have been in a ldr for 2 years, have to marry to be together, is it worth it?Since you asked....no. | /r/askMRP | 29/08/18 02:44 PM |
| 31 | The NMMNG / Red Pill contradictionThe books are going to conflict. Where there is a contradiction RP overrules. Above all action reigns supreme. Women in no way give a flying fuck about what you feel. In fact they will use it against you. The hard part is telling other men how you feel. For the most we part they DGAF either BUT it is far healthier for a man to tell other men. Take your lumps and move on with it. In the last couple months I have made more progress then I ever thought possible and I happened in one OYS post. The h… | /r/askMRP | 29/08/18 02:43 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - August 28, 2018huh. thanks for this. I might copy it. certainly less time than mine has taken. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 29/08/18 02:30 PM |
| 1 | (Theory) - The Light That We Bring (Again and Again)It's a discussion found throughout time. Found first in Stoics vs the Epicureans. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 29/08/18 02:29 PM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - August 28, 2018Last week things took a turn. Son 1 got wrapped up in a bullying situation. Right now he is the accused aggressor but it's clouded by a few issues. It may go legal but right now patience is required. STBX is anything but calm and has been high orbit for a week. She calls our son a liar, and she can't trust him. Huh...common theme here with her. I for one know the things said are lies. My son could not have done the things claimed. My bullshit meter was pegged high but like I said time and patien… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 29/08/18 01:58 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - August 21, 2018It's not that I don't know this. It's in my hubris I thought I had it on lock. The knife slices both ways. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 23/08/18 02:29 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - August 21, 2018No. I've been powerlifting for over 20 years as a fitness routine. Just was not this successful on my own. I'd get to a point and suffer a serious injury. Have a set back. Wasn't until I got a coach things took off. I've thought about it myself but I want to compete. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/08/18 02:50 AM |
| 4 | Providing comfort without being Beta... fixing her feelz during grief, etc.We told you that the same issues would creep up with this relationship as with your past ones. She just lost her daughter. Yep.... but you are the one feeling guilty about it. Part of me feels like a needy bitch that I need sex during this time. And yet she is sexy and I'm a man. I need sex daily. The night I came back from my holiday she said she couldn't be sexual right then but yet somehow SHE escalated things and had 3 orgasms that night and told me she loves it when I fuck her hard. I see t… | /r/askMRP | 21/08/18 07:10 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - August 21, 2018I'll make compromises if you're worth it, but if I'm making compromises, This is where I let it go too long. Worth can diminish. It's knowing when i has is the key. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/08/18 06:49 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - August 21, 2018It's taken me a little longer than I would have thought to calibrate this for me. A year ago I would have said it's on lock. Now? Clearly I am still giving too much. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/08/18 06:16 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - August 21, 2018For a strong guy, you put up with a lot of shit. Truth. I set a hard standard or I am able to. I allow too much leeway. The mindset I need to firmly change is not that I understand how things can go wrong, but wrong things can be prevented. The standard is the standard. I used to say that I look for people who can keep up with me and then often times I was disappointed when the couldn't. So I eased my standards back so at least someone was around. Not such a good strategy as it turns out. That s… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/08/18 06:01 PM |
| 3 | Own Your Shit Weekly - August 21, 2018I ate it. but we can still go to church together if you want | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/08/18 05:51 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - August 21, 2018Were you dating my wife for six months? Sneaky bastard. I certainly pity you then. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/08/18 05:25 PM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - August 21, 2018You know there are days I want to just bitch slap you. But I am sure the feeling is mutual. No I have had a few girls just never under the plate concept. One plate isn't? Somehow I missed this. I really try not to brag about my strength. Frankly in the last 3 months my progress under this coach has been crazy. He told me at my analysis earl fall that I was leaving a lot of strength on the table due to my bad form. It's taken a lot of work and Doc visits to get my frame adjusted right to handle t… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/08/18 05:21 PM |
| 1 | On Being Alphai have noticed that the clarity of your writing wanes up and down with the clarity in your frame. I see it as more in clarity in what I understand. I am not afraid of putting something out there and having people shit on it. I am not satisfied in thinking we have it all down, that it's all figured out. I could spend a lot fo time going over it and over in my head until well...it just needs to get out and see the light of day. I see a lot of connection to what RP talks about with Rousseau, Locke,… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/08/18 04:43 PM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - August 21, 2018You need a lot of patience and ability with kids for that. Maybe with training contracts you can change that model, but I tend to agree with you. Which is why I don't train kids any more. My studio is adults teens only. As for contracts it won't last either. Which is why the whole "reality based" thing is all the craze. There is no reality in a self defense situation. The reality is you find the most deadly weapon you can and fight or get out. Anything else is just ego invested dominance dancing… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/08/18 04:25 PM |
| 3 | Own Your Shit Weekly - August 21, 2018It feels lame not because beta, but because you're not owning it yourself - researching, learning etc and there it is. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/08/18 04:23 PM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - August 21, 2018Everything I wear is in the $100 - $150 range. I even found a website that will custom make shirts for you. So Now I have a few $200+ on the way. I am still a $20 shirt kind of guy becasue I like being in the dirt and working. He needs to die. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/08/18 04:05 PM |
| 1 | On Being AlphaOne way to look at it. The other is to push your goals. Make new ones. Find ones that challenge you. Is it enough? If you achieved and then ended before your life is up than you set seriously low goals. Never be satisfied. where am I at? What am I doing? Where should I be? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/08/18 03:41 PM |
| 3 | The more I read, the more I detach from my StBX. How not to go autistic and Rambo?I have always been a fan of Rambo. The guy usually gets it. Most times Rambo is taking action and doing shit. True enough it's usually als breaking everything as collateral damage. The autistic part is going. uhhhh wha happened? Dumbass you know what happened. Don't necessarily be afraid of Rambo-ing it up, just be conscious of what you are doing and where you are at. Frankly this tells me you are angry. Yeah you have a right to be. Admit it. Move on with it. How do you stop it? You just don't d… | /r/askMRP | 21/08/18 03:07 PM |
| 2 | woke up... at last... what with the sex now?if I succumb and have sex A better WTF? His mind needs to get to the point of taking what he wants. IF she doesn't want to give it then move on. | /r/askMRP | 21/08/18 02:56 PM |
| 1 | On Being Alphaand you made my point. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/08/18 02:45 PM |
| 1 | On Being AlphaOf all men here I hold you in the highest esteem. We've poked each other too much on our journeys to for me not to respect your word. I am a little concerned you'd have to say that. I run towards pain because that is where growth occurs. If I am wrong I am. Still doesn't invalidate the discussion as I will learn something from it. Bring it. I am not conflating the words Alpha and leader. leadership is a skill. I replied to Rian in that All alphas are leaders but not all leaders are alpha. I do f… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/08/18 02:42 PM |
| 1 | On Being Alphaheh. we are too focused on labels. I'd lump any flared man in the realm of intellectual. We think, we study, we are students of human nature. The main difference is that we are driven to action and to effect change. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/08/18 02:35 PM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - August 21, 2018Here we go. Little bit more than I put up yesterday. I didn't want it to get buried but also wanted to get a shot over the bow. Lifting Let's start on a high note. Powerlifting as a sport now. Made a good showing for my age at a strong man competition. My lifts are: Bench 405 Deadlift 525 Squat 550 OHP 315 These are one max reps. My bench is bad. I am still going slow and recovering from rotator cuff strain last winter. Also having back spasms. It's natural conserving my rate of improvement. The… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/08/18 02:30 PM |
| 2 | On Being AlphaThat made me laugh. Yes most of my stuff is a brain dump. I see too many connections. Too many parallels and things do run together. There will be another this weekend. Based on comments I do need to retrace and make myself clearer. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/08/18 02:09 PM |
| 1 | On Being AlphaAgreed. I am deliberately trying not to create a set of terminology. I don't want that role, though I believe most would agree that leadership is a trait, a skill, and not the iching of what we strive for. Hence being instead what is. All alphas are leaders but not all leaders are alpha. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/08/18 02:04 PM |
| 1 | On Being AlphaI will admit I am taking the long way around but yes. I think "What do I do to become the person I want to be at this party?" Exactly. Don't deny your true purpose. There are core personality traits that those we would consider Alpha exhibit. Like it or not behaviors can be mimicked. The truth comes out in the end of course. We can see that here. where am I at? What am I doing? Where should I be? Rule Zero is focused on men and their sex life. No argument from me. Yet take this and expand it out… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/08/18 01:42 PM |
| 2 | On Being AlphaThere is still philosophy behind behavior. There is still understanding. It doesn't invalidate the journey to come to such an understanding. is the worst of it. you could replace the word "alpha" with "father" or "leader" or "preacher" or "sensei" or many others; but maddeningly (to me at least) you keep on attempting to use "alpha" as a container word for everything you see as good-masculine. And see here we are with the philosophical. Slice it up how you want it does come down to that in many … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/08/18 01:28 PM |
| 1 | On Being AlphaI gave a hint. The state of nature. That underlying philosophy demands that a society with laws is necessary and the goal of most people. We now that there are sole who conform to no structure. Hence power vs force. No one wants to truly live in a chaotic world. Everyone seeks a group for protection. This is what the alpha provides. Haha! Yes. So is that the answer then? Huh. Maybe it is. Can it be that simple? Interesting thought. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 20/08/18 08:27 PM |
| 1 | On Being AlphaYou're overthinking it and this isnt an OYS post. I find folks deflect deeper discussion when challenging commonly held beliefs. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 20/08/18 08:01 PM |
| 1 | On Being AlphaDoes that then mean a beta who beats the shit out of you and rapes your LTR is alpha? Theres a difference between force and power. As for me these thoughts have been working for a while. Am I get what I want? Yes and no. Theres always work to do. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 20/08/18 07:16 PM |
| 2 | On Being AlphaYou'll get a lot of feedback on "what is alpha," along with "what is the purpose of MRP." Some will say rule zero, period. Others will say it is more than rule zero. Of course. and it is an oversimplification. Which is why I retitled it and removed the list that I had originally posted. Rule Zero. It is both our core light and our mill stone. How does it fit then with sex/women are not the goal? See so many of our rules, and mantras conflict on the surface. While completely true there must be so… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 20/08/18 06:53 PM |
| 1 | On Being AlphaI was hoping the Corey Worthington example would come up. I misstepped there about teh veterans. I meant to show how the military is often in a weird alpha/beta consideration. Thing is we are not black and white. WE can change, the rules while there, for men are guidelines. Things to use to propel ourselves. This is also why the term Alpha isn't correct becasue this isn't seen in nature. The lone wolf don't fuck. Doesn't always do what he wants. The lone wolf is literally alone. It is also why R… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 20/08/18 06:48 PM |
| 4 | Crunch timeAt what point do you just say "fuck it"? I didn't even read this long diatribe of puke. I just looked and found what OP is asking? How do you know? You know. Everything else is just a journey. You will rationalize things, the human mind is fantastic at it. Like...really good yo have no idea. I have come to realize in the last few months that everything a man does is to avoid pain. to avoid the unpleasant. Fact is we must face it. Head on. In that there is then growth. So I ask you where is the m… | /r/askMRP | 20/08/18 06:28 PM |
| 1 | Wife doesn’t want me to volunteerShe thinks... And this is where I stopped. I am a volunteer paramedic. minimum 20 hours a month which is 2-12 hour shifts. MINIMUM. I tend to do more. Training, plus continuous ed and my shift work I easily do 50 hours a month. Think bout it. | /r/askMRP | 20/08/18 06:22 PM |
| 1 | Ideas for improving bench/ohp?Bench is the hardest to improve. Shoulders are damn tough. Form. I would start there. Research teh fuck out of it. Take a class that focuses on bench. Guarantee there is one. Accessories. DB rows 3x8 will help. wide arm lat pulldowns. I would stop with all that other benching. Maybe keep incline but work at 80% of your weekly max lift. You could be just plain wearing yourself out in your pursuit. If you want to work accessory focus them. What you are doing is just rehashing major lifts. once a w… | /r/askMRP | 20/08/18 06:19 PM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - August 14, 2018but it is liberating. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 20/08/18 06:07 PM |
| 2 | On Being AlphaThe ultimate risk is becoming who you want to be. This was a play on words. Give me some artistic license. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 20/08/18 05:56 PM |
| 1 | The Myth of the Alpha Femalea natural deference to male authority, humility, admiration and an unobligated desire to recognize that man as her complementary partner are just some of the long-term attributes and at some point you will have to face her challenge. These things are not natural for her. Hence shit tests, comfort tests, and all the rest. Today we call it feminism. 400 years ago it was survival instinct of finding the most powerful male or being taken captive by one. The game doesn't change. The tools are the sam… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 20/08/18 04:54 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - August 14, 2018There's been considerable training the last few months. Just before I earnestly started power lifting. Gained maybe 20 pounds? I've got the typical gorilla stomach of a power lifter it's not bad looking but not lean either. It's Ape man strong. I don't know about 50 myself either. Bit of a stretch The house, the land its on. I am not sure it will matter she stated she doesn't want it and plans on getting an apartment soon just easier to deal with since everything is in my name. Nope. Everything … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 20/08/18 04:48 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - August 14, 2018fuck them You weren't totally off. The approach was wrong. In my head it sounded far better but going back it was a poor execution. I admit I am much more intellectual and philosophical for my own good but so what. I am who I am. The topic has merit as I pokes at a pillar we all adhere to. The nature and idea of Alpha. And well....we should never accept status quo and should strive to challenge even the most aged of tropes. Life is suffering and we grow from crisis. I told Rian recently that eve… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 20/08/18 03:57 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - August 14, 2018In my martial arts study I often tell my students to look to yourself to learn how to defeat an opponent. Our bodies move the same. Joints, muscles, tissues, are all the same in each of us. There is no secret there. Your weaknesses are my weaknesses. Such as it is with red pill. It isn't often that a flared man comes in and admits to failing. It's usually all blowjobs and unicorns. This summer was anything but for me. It was full of personal growth, defeat, and success. Life for a man isn't succ… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 20/08/18 01:58 PM |
| 2 | The nature of women...This is about recognizing when you haven't physically turned her on or worse yet you physically disgust her Just learning that are you? The point is that you haven't progressed much past this point. Likely never will because you are still finding your happiness in women. So yes, it's true. Women will ogle a dude with rippling muscles. But we know this already. Yet the extent of your improvement as a man is to get ripped, fuck wimmens. Congrats. you made the rank of a PUA. There are other subs fo… | /r/askMRP | 22/06/18 03:00 PM |
| 3 | A little advice about chattels if you separate...but it's utterly replaceable. Everything is ephemeral. It all can be replaced. WE all can be replaced. | /r/askMRP | 22/06/18 01:08 PM |
| 3 | The nature of women...We know all this shit. Why repost it? where's some original insight here? This post reads too much like a man doing what he needs to do in order to get laid not improve. . Remember this the next time she says she is just not in the mood or has more important things to do. What do you think her body is telling her ? Examine this for a minute. The Rubicon in this moment is to know when you are the prize and the rejection is her failure to be with Mr. Awesome. Steve has equated his happiness with g… | /r/askMRP | 22/06/18 01:01 PM |
| 15 | FR: Came in her mouth, she wasn't happyFuck - as I type this I'm realizing that I'm seriously viewing sex as validation and as a measuring stick of my progress. Hard not to with the 180 that's happening in my sex life..but I've got to stop viewing it that way. So we have porn level interest from the peanut gallery but this gets missed. This is key. OP is starting to see through the fog. | /r/askMRP | 22/06/18 12:29 PM |
| 2 | Tried to have sex. Failed hardYou executed. Badly but you acted. Most men freeze whimper wonder what do? Next time suck less. Do better | /r/askMRP | 21/06/18 01:55 AM |
| 2 | Tried to have sex. Failed hardTomorrow is another day. Wipe the slate clean. Start again. The only real failure was not having tried. Despite your setbacks you did what 90% of the men in your position dont bother doing. | /r/askMRP | 21/06/18 01:46 AM |
| 1 | LTR frequently upset with US politicsI laughed way too hard at this | /r/askMRP | 20/06/18 11:59 AM |
| 2 | Progress reporthad? | /r/askMRP | 20/06/18 11:13 AM |
| 3 | [FR] Fathers Daymy sons (pre teens) left for junior military training camps this week. Each branch of the service has these junior cadet programs. It's been amazing that at their age that we have something to bond over. Their stories of the "drill" weekends and my military duty are eerily similar. Talking about fire watch, Carl (every unit has a Carl), KP duty....some things are just the same no matter the age. To echo, every day is what you make of it. | /r/askMRP | 20/06/18 11:10 AM |
| 1 | Why I come here everydayThere's truth to it entirely but one can't be a little RP or some RP. I had a roommate in college that lived the PUA life before PUA was a thing. But he is extremely BP, as most PUAs are. Don't be fooled. You should push hard for a divorce. From your posts and language it sounds like she's wanting trial this or that just to see how it works out. When she's unsure. She wants to make sure she will have the same financial life of comfort she had with you or better. If not then she will come crawlin… | /r/askMRP | 20/06/18 10:58 AM |
| 1 | LTR frequently upset with US politicsI found myself and others getting so upset (with Obama) and the government but no one could do anything except bitch. Get over it. This has been true since the days of Athens. This is you being passive aggressive and just deciding not to be who you are. Hence the situation you are in now. Live your life stop changing it for someone else. I think if this continues to worsen, I'll walk away, How much worse is worse? You came here to complain about it. I wanted to ask for suggestions on how to deal… | /r/askMRP | 20/06/18 10:51 AM |
| 1 | Why I come here everydayThe status of a woman is irrelevant. Your actions are the same. It’s the consequences that change. Removing the factor of law why would a man keep a cunty wife vs say a plate that’s become burdensome | /r/askMRP | 20/06/18 10:08 AM |
| 1 | Why I come here everydayits consequence vs action. You’re able to dump a plate at will with little to no consequence. You can do the same with a wife or LTR yet the consequences are more dramatic to life altering. | /r/askMRP | 20/06/18 09:42 AM |
| 1 | How do you answer the question what do you do for work?Keep running a script. Tone. Demeanor and environment play a role. Sometimes a question is just a question. | /r/askTRP | 20/06/18 09:40 AM |
| 1 | Why I come here everydayyou really haven't read much then. The medium is the message. She wants a place on her own. Give it to her. She's on her own now. End story. | /r/askMRP | 19/06/18 03:47 PM |
| 2 | How do you answer the question what do you do for work?huh. why not just answer the question? I get the whole be funny...yet You aren't here to entertain her like a damn circus clown. it's more be fun, be upbeat. Meaning don't act like your job is a drag. Answer the damn question. Sometimes this shit ain't that hard. | /r/askTRP | 19/06/18 12:50 PM |
| 2 | Getting divorced, don't feel like sexCognitive Distortion. Learn to identify when you are falling into distorted thinking and a self-defeating attitude. Eeyore, the old grey Donkey, stood by the side of the stream and looked at himself in the water. “Pathetic,” he said. “That's what it is. Pathetic.” He turned and walked slowly down the stream for twenty yards, splashed across it, and walked slowly back on the other side. Then he looked at himself in the water again. “As I thought,” he said. “No better from this side." | /r/askMRP | 19/06/18 11:22 AM |
| 24 | Why I come here everydayThe size of your hamster is amazing. You'll be right back into your butt hurt status in a few hours. How do I know? because you looked elsewhere to help get you into a positive mindset. Like a heroin addict looking for a hit. Just as you do with everthing else. A lot of guys here like to think there is a difference between TRP and MRP. There really isn't except maybe the shackles in which a man puts on. A plate is nothing more than a short term relationship. It has the same issues and obstacles … | /r/askMRP | 19/06/18 11:09 AM |
| 1 | Girl I've been talking to sends me a picture with another guy in it?Unless you rank high on the dark triad your emotions are always going to be there. What you are doing is realizing that you can move on without her. That she isn’t the ONLY one you will ever find a connection with. You dont turn them off you accept them and don’t allow them to control you. They aren’t laws nor royal edicts. YOu can feel anger without being angry. Feel sad without being depressed. Happy without being euphoric. See? We humans are funny creatures. We want what we don’t have and don… | /r/askTRP | 18/06/18 11:38 PM |
| 1 | Girl I've been talking to sends me a picture with another guy in it?Why do you care what she thinks? Mid conversation or not. How does it change anything | /r/askTRP | 18/06/18 11:27 PM |
| 2 | Girl I've been talking to sends me a picture with another guy in it?And she got one. The only answer was not to reply. When my girl talks about other guys or the latest that hit on her. It’s not interesting to me. IDGAF. She’s seeking Validation. The only exception is when she’s bringing it to you as an offering. Like a female lion brings the latest kill. this her showing her alpha her SMV and her submission. The difference is tone and how she’s presenting herself. In your case OP she’s looking for validation. | /r/askTRP | 18/06/18 09:14 PM |
| 2 | Feel like an autist around new people/groupsA little known thing called Mayor Game. His world. He welcomed everyone to join him. | /r/askTRP | 18/06/18 09:08 PM |
| 1 | The universal way forward, you get the relationship you deserve.To be honest it’s all arguing over fly shit. OODA vs Keizen wasn’t the point | /r/MarriedRedPill | 18/06/18 08:56 PM |
| 6 | Endometriosis and SexBeyond the barbarian OP what you need to come to terms with is that this isn't a charity case situation where you are the doting loving husband who gives up all for her. Are you willing to go your whole life not having the relationship you want? Sounds horrible to say. YET she gets everything she wants/needs. Life isn't fair is it? Yet here's the one lesson you need to learn and understand. She knows exactly how to keep you interested in the relationship. She knows exactly how to get you off wit… | /r/askMRP | 18/06/18 06:41 PM |
| 1 | The universal way forward, you get the relationship you deserve.I commanded 3 line companies in the Army. Still stand behind what I said | /r/MarriedRedPill | 18/06/18 06:04 PM |
| 1 | Grinded on some dudes wife while he watched.It happens the same way as it does without the married component. Yet more to the point it happened because Dadbod let it. You have the relationships you deserve. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/06/18 05:57 PM |
| 2 | The universal way forward, you get the relationship you deserve.debatable. I find OODA creates paralysis analysis in those that have never executed it in real life. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 18/06/18 05:50 PM |
| 1 | Stoicism is an evolutionary defense mechanism in men. It is designed to protect us.Among the unique abilities that men have it is our ability to compartmentalize hardship, emotions, and current situations in order to accomplish a task/goal, that truly sets us apart between the sexes. Stoicism is a method of showing how it is done. I once asked a sergeant of mine how he dealt with the things he had seen and done in war. He had been in a few more fights than me. He said You don't. Who could. Do you really want to talk about that stuff your whole life? You put it in a box. Lock t… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/06/18 05:48 PM |
| 2 | How to best deal with shit tests from wife when she gives you impossible or hard to measure tasks? Examples inside.This is not so much a shit test in the sense of a general test of your frame but it's directly aimed at your leadership. Soon it will be: You don't play enough with him you don't show him how to do X you don't this you don't that. The odds are astronomically low of him becoming a pro. Yet addressing this as no he won't be pro, you run the risk of no longer believing in your son. The best answer here is to tell her being a pro isn't the goal. Being able to play when he wants as an adult is. Being… | /r/askMRP | 18/06/18 03:30 PM |
| 1 | First PostShe is “taking space” and thankfully our home is large enough to accommodate her having refuge on another floor. This is not the action of a woman who is interested in you nor a relationship with you. Medium is the message | /r/askMRP | 18/06/18 11:11 AM |
| 6 | MRP, Feminism, Chris Hardwick and the #METOO MovementMy favorite meme of the year. Whenever I read #metoo. I read it as pound me too. Branding. It matters. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/06/18 04:02 PM |
| 1 | My plate just told me she had a gangbang with 5 guys not sure how to reactHuh At least she told you. | /r/askTRP | 15/06/18 01:50 PM |
| 2 | Tips for lifting progressively heavier weights on ketoWhich only proves the point. What works for you doesn’t work for everyone. Biology is a messy science. Insulin sensitivity plays a huge role in processing carbs. Maybe you have good genes. Who the fuck cares. | /r/askMRP | 14/06/18 11:39 PM |
| 1 | Tips for lifting progressively heavier weights on ketoSteve when I want your opinion I’ll tell you what It is. Until then stfu and fix your shit before you give men your sorry excuse for advice. | /r/askMRP | 14/06/18 11:05 PM |
| 2 | Tips for lifting progressively heavier weights on ketoSeriously. You can either loose weight like crazy or gain muscle. Cant do both. I ran into the blog post. Great advice. The Secret My favorite parts Many, many, many people that come to me say they like carb cycling, but what I see is a random amount of high to low carb days where they eventually land on a low carb day where their workout split calls for an intense lower body day. They go to the gym and get buried under the smith machine at planet fitness while doing 1/4 squats because they don’… | /r/askMRP | 14/06/18 05:51 PM |
| 3 | What is the frame you guys have when it comes to your life with the wife?no. no. no. double no. Frame is not the decisions you make. This is female thought. most women think frame is just making a decision to do what they want to do. This isn't frame. Here is a great little cheat sheet But Frame is attitude. Your mind. Where it is at. It's all the things coming together. game, OI, DGAF. A lot of guys see frame a like some magical barrier to protect them from the bad people. Terms like Holding frame make chuckle I hear my drill sergeant after someone said during comba… | /r/askMRP | 14/06/18 05:46 PM |
| 1 | did i hold frame? tricky situationNot sure why the long drama to tell us about a couple incidents. If it wasn’t funny or interesting it didn’t exist. It seems like you were more concerned about holding frame (which isn’t really a thing) than you were about having a good time. | /r/askTRP | 14/06/18 02:43 AM |
| 1 | Covert Contracts according to Marcus AureliusThere is so much bullshit in this statement. Also proof you've read jack shit about red pill. Altruism isn't real. Catch up. A man can nobly spend his life in service to others or a cause greater than himself. No he doesn't. There is no such thing. It's blue pill thought | /r/askMRP | 13/06/18 04:02 PM |
| 2 | Covert Contracts according to Marcus Aureliusoh no. It's well argued in philosophy. The question is are people naturally selfish or altruistic. You can go back as far as discussions on the state of nature for that you would read Hume, Hobbes, Lock, and Rousseau. The same philosophers that influenced the US Founders. Interestingly enough even they did not believe in the altruism. A lot of people think the checks and balances of the Constitution were merely to prevent power resting in one branch but it was also supposed to prevent human natu… | /r/askMRP | 13/06/18 02:45 PM |
| 3 | Covert Contracts according to Marcus AureliusNo. An Alpha knows there is no such thing as altruism. | /r/askMRP | 13/06/18 01:28 PM |
| 1 | Audio Book suggestionsDaemon by Daniel Saurez Freedom (book 2 from Daemon) Day by Day Armageddon The Mechanical: The Alchemy Wars Hell Divers | /r/askMRP | 13/06/18 01:26 PM |
| 2 | Audiobook suggestionsBecause you seem boring and need some fun. Daemon by Daniel Saurez Freedom (book 2 from Daemon) Day by Day Armageddon The Mechanical: The Alchemy Wars Hell Divers If you must have a RP book Obstacle is the way Ego is the Enemy Mastery (Robert Green) | /r/askMRP | 13/06/18 01:25 PM |
| 4 | Covert Contracts according to Marcus AureliusSummary....because Marucs rambles a bit. Marcus talks about three kinds of people who do kind things for others: 1) those who think about what's now owed to them; 2) those who think that the helped person now in their debt; 3) those who completely forget that they've done a good deed. Marcus compares #3 to a grape vine: it produces good fruit, and that is both its purpose and its reward. Marcus lists creatures that likewise fulfill their purpose without expecting reward: bees, racehorses, huntin… | /r/askMRP | 13/06/18 01:14 PM |
| 1 | Time to cut bait?you're in her frame. simple as that. you didn't learn much other than how to LARP. | /r/askMRP | 12/06/18 03:39 PM |
| 1 | Time to cut bait?what are you 16? | /r/askMRP | 12/06/18 03:15 PM |
| 0 | Time to cut bait?Since then I have been dating a woman who seemed very noncommittal (wishy washy on communication, made me a low priority, etc.) Seemed? You sound unsure. Was she or wasn't she? It's pretty easy to tell if a woman is into you or did you miss those lessons in your Red Pill journey? Besides if these were true why did you stay with here. Something isn't right with this statement. Suspect we aren't being told everything. Finally, corner turned and she was in love with me and I was seeing a side of he… | /r/askMRP | 12/06/18 02:51 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Calculate your "cost per fuck"You've got this a little off. IN this way you are in her frame considering her. Not her value to your marriage but assuming she HAS value and you are determining it. So let's get real and really compare it to business. Men are in a constant state of earning profit. We want to end our fiscal year in the black. Some of us have multiple gigs/businesses going. Of course these prices will vary based on market value but go with it... Sex maybe earns $10. Certain sexual acts ups the margin. Varies betw… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 12/06/18 02:30 PM |
| 2 | The Nature of the GameIt's why my dick itches when I read "I was once alpha" No. No you weren't. May have had some Alpha traits, like having good genes. Maybe you don't have to go as far as some guys, but the fact remains those beta traits are like the Dark Side of the Force. Seductive and easy to fall too. You can see it in TRP. Young men thinking they have it all locked down. They know Alpha and if it doesn't fit their paradigm of what THEY are capable of then...it's beta. Perhaps not a bad way to start as long as … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 12/06/18 11:59 AM |
| 3 | New Captain In Uncharted Waters - Analysis NeededJesus christ. You talk too much. Well.....here are your responses to her after your little beta bullshit. She spewed all kinds of shit about all I want is sex, don’t care about her as a person, seem more interested in other women than in her, the kids see me as the fun one & her as the angry bitch even though she does everything for them, on and on it went. You want me cook and then fuck me, too... you really like to take advantage, don't you?" (with obvious mockery) No, I care about getting som… | /r/askMRP | 11/06/18 05:40 PM |
| 1 | Would you wife up a RPW?RPWs including mine are incapable of recognizing their behavior when they’re in it. I actually argue that RPW do see it. BUT they recognize the negative and positive reactions from it. This is the crux of Rollo's work: Hypergamy has served an evolutionary purpose for the human species; it doesn’t mean we have to like it, The point here is that they understand. Compare it with a plate or a THOT and they use their behaviors to poor ends. A RPW understands there are consequences for the use of her … | /r/askMRP | 11/06/18 05:33 PM |
| 2 | Update: She has swung and is killing the puppy...awww so...what? no laundry service? | /r/askMRP | 11/06/18 04:24 PM |
| 2 | Update: She has swung and is killing the puppy...wow shit's changed. Well good. Still make a call. Don't wait. No reason to if you're at sea. Hell your version of a hardship tour is when the ice cream machine breaks. | /r/askMRP | 11/06/18 04:16 PM |
| 1 | Would you wife up a RPW?Careful. You have blinders on. First Red Pill is a MALE strategy. Read the RPW site. It clearly says that they recognize the negative aspect of feminine behavior and work to not let them effect their goals in life. Namely getting an Alpha and having a relationship. Don't let this cloud your judgement your decisions. Just because they recognize AWALT is a thing doesn't mean she won't fall to it. AWALT is a spectrum just as being an Alpha. There is a general place on that spectrum they prefer to b… | /r/askMRP | 11/06/18 04:15 PM |
| 1 | Update: She has swung and is killing the puppy...YOu're military right? I don't think there is much you are going to be able to do in terms of your pension and such. Sadly the US Military thinks the spouse deserves half. Look into it. Accept what it is. but.... I'm upset that my wife will make such a self-centered decision but at the same time not shocked due to the readings. Execute now. Fuck hypergamy is selfishness. The only response is tough love. She wants out. Say no problem. Done deal. If I remember right you are a navy? If so then go t… | /r/askMRP | 11/06/18 03:42 PM |
| 2 | Fucked up again?I've kicked my shrew out of the car on the way to eating out. Once made her walk a half mile home. If you're paying your bills and can afford to buy sliced fruit don't beat yourself up too badly. Life isn't all that bad. | /r/askMRP | 11/06/18 03:34 PM |
| 3 | Fucked up again?I like this. OP has some moxy going. Yeah he porked the pooch but I think he showed some great....fuck that didn't work attitude. And his willingness to wipe the slate clean and start again. He's also got some very good basic frame working. So your execution was shit but your recovery wasn't too bad. Ok so first thing to remember. Don't beat yourself up for wanting to go out on your anniversary. Oddly I have learned these things mean more to men than women. We are the more romantic of the gender… | /r/askMRP | 11/06/18 03:22 PM |
| 1 | What is the best way to get the most out of the side bar in limit daily time?I hear starting at the beginning is a good place to start. | /r/askMRP | 08/06/18 02:34 PM |
| 1 | Accused of being too controllingYou were accused of being too controlling? Huh. You are just so there’s no confusion. Work on that. | /r/askMRP | 08/06/18 01:53 PM |
| 1 | What is the best way to get the most out of the side bar in limit daily time?I got to my first unit as a bright and shiny lieutenant. Freshly minted, beaming with vigor, I was eager to change the world. Only I hadn’t counted on the battalion commander I would get. The guy hated Lieutenants. Even said it out loud. Never made sense to me since he had to have been one. His habit was to pick a one of us and he would make us his pet project for the week. Typical things included calling you to his office and then make you sit outside his door until he recognized your existence… | /r/askMRP | 08/06/18 01:49 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - June 05, 2018Good points. Mostly I mean getting off reddit. Living the lessons I’ve learned. Gain insight in some things then come back in the fall and report what I’ve learned. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 08/06/18 12:17 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - June 05, 2018So update. Shrew came home freaked. Argued. Cried. Complained. She's sleeping in the down stairs "apartment". The last week she's been nice, but I can still feel that edge. Conversations don't go beyond the kids. She also texts at length about how her classes suck. I have since put her text on mute. She's also living her own life in earnest. Workout Lifts are better. The coach has me in to see a neuro-chiropractor. Holy fuck is this a game changer. I am standing taller, or at least it feels like… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 07/06/18 04:57 PM |
| 2 | Back to the basics - TRP is amoral.The word "strategy" connotes something that's planned (at least to some degree). This is not Amoral. Things that you do can be moral or immoral. I missed this comment in my initial read. This is interesting distinction that I have not read/heard nor considered. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/06/18 04:14 PM |
| 2 | Back to the basics - TRP is amoral.I retract my comment i originally placed here not the one above. I missed a nuance I hadn't previously considered. I made mention of it. I need to think about that. Thanks for the conversation | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/06/18 04:10 PM |
| 5 | He has access to endless free sex....what am I getting out of this?I'm not sure what it is that I want from him so that I feel like my needs are getting met This is your problem. Not him. Sex, RMV, the money. All this is just window dressing. All that makes a relationship. We can quibble about the finer points of roles, who does what, but The real issue is that you don't know what you want. So OP. What do you want? | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/06/18 02:23 PM |
| 5 | Did I handle this well?I see your comment. No. The dread isn't working. Those first few levels of dread have nothing to do with her. Its just your girl is into you to some degree. Look at what she did as proof. You kind of passed it. More like skirted by and barely scraped your ass on the barb wire. Now. as to your shit test. You talk too much. Low grade test it may have been because of her period BUT any other time your answers would have caused more shit testing. She wanted you to engage in her emotions. The best re… | /r/askMRP | 07/06/18 01:52 PM |
| 1 | Back to the basics - TRP is amoral.Sexual strategy is more then just having sex. For instance some women have no problem accepting gifts or benefits from men. After all, they aren't asking and who are they to say no if the man really wants to do these things. We won't talk about the beta implications here. Still some women use thier sexuality as Chekov's Gun. It just sits there. Rule Zero of TRP is to develop men to understand how to do the same thing in pursuit of their goals and mission in life. Only it is more pronounced as fu… | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/06/18 01:25 PM |
| 7 | It just got more complicated...and it's not her...She's going to want it to go into the bank account. That simple. You pass it off as asset planning. Tell her no details nor amounts. Don't bring it up. Life goes on and it IS NOT life changing. Don't consider it as such. There are plenty of ways to do it but the key question you should answer is do you still want access to it. Where are you right now? We all understand that we work for ourselves but is divorce real for you. I believe for the most part women are with the guy they wanted to be wit… | /r/askMRP | 07/06/18 01:09 PM |
| 3 | Question about 31 Days to Masculinity by Hunter DrewI don't know why guys are so afraid of going Rambo. I liked Rambo. What is stupid is to go rambo and then come here and go AWALT amiright? To me Rambo is a dude at least trying. He's had enough of the rules, he knows it's all bullshit but maybe he just can't quit dial it back. Rambo it up, just be ready to take what comes and OYS when it happens. In the end that's how women see it. They want an alpha that will take risks, speak their minds, and own their shit when it's needed. | /r/askMRP | 07/06/18 10:37 AM |
| 1 | I feel like I’m fucking this upBeen realizing lately that I really don’t like the way my wife treats me. We have sex all the time. I’m pretty high value. Really high to her. But I can start doing more around the house. This makes no sense. It's called cognitive dissonance. Stop lying to yourself. | /r/askMRP | 07/06/18 10:31 AM |
| 1 | Am I a sociopath? A piece of shit? Or just fucked in the head?Just my observation but a lot of addicts just go from one addiction to the next. Some turn to religion. Others exercise. I highly recommend you seek help and find out how to deal with life without having to go from one high to the next. Whatever your medium is. Life is nothing without balance. | /r/askMRP | 06/06/18 11:09 PM |
| 4 | Question about 31 Days to Masculinity by Hunter Drew31 Days Because you can't use the search bar I highly doubt you can go 31 days. But understand one thing. You won't solve nor get your life in in order in 31, 60, or even 365 days. This is a life long pursuit. So read your book. Follow someone else's path and do exactly what the book says. You maybe you'll find something maybe you won't. Yet the number of days is irrelevant. I can tell you haven't even started with Day 1. | /r/askMRP | 06/06/18 10:34 PM |
| 5 | Need some perspective and adviceWelcome to being a man. Suck it up cupcake Cute. You still think sex is the goal. You don't. You show her. Lazy fuck. Search bar is right up there. | /r/askMRP | 06/06/18 06:35 PM |
| 14 | Lessons learned after 90 day ban from TRPThere is a lot to be gained by taking a break. I am guilty of it myself. Summer is almost here and I disappear for a couple months. Come back in the fall. Life is out there. Not in here. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/06/18 03:48 PM |
| 3 | 'Consent' is not an issue when you're high value and can steal hearts. But be prepared.I can't help but think there is going to be a kickback against this "metoo" era it'll eat itself for sure. Though it may take time. and more men need to take on this lion mindset. Though there is a fine line between stoically taking it and allowing others to cross your boundaries. I don't see it as "finally having enough" as much as "get the fuck off my lawn" | /r/TheRedPill | 06/06/18 03:45 PM |
| 2 | 'Consent' is not an issue when you're high value and can steal hearts. But be prepared.I get the mindset and there is some point being made here. yet in today's society, the reason men have to learn to adapt and just accept the ways things are....you do need to accept no. even if you suspect it's LMR. Like in self defense you need to accept the laws and rules society has created. I can't just hit someone without repercussions, but I can if I understand the laws involved and adapt my behavior and strategies. Why? Its built into the metaphor of Alphas being predators and women being… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/06/18 03:40 PM |
| 1 | Am I a sociopath? A piece of shit? Or just fucked in the head?They are similar. Psychopaths are more likely to get in trouble with the law. They lack emotion and empathy. They can't relate to people. So they act out looking for that emotion. Often they find in the most extremes ways but have little way to generate it. So they go from emotion to emotion. Sociopaths are much more likely to blend in with society. Sociopaths and psychopaths do share some traits, a sociopath is far less severe. Although they tend to more self destructive in thier behaviors. An … | /r/askMRP | 06/06/18 01:33 PM |
| 5 | Am I a sociopath? A piece of shit? Or just fucked in the head?The question is not whether you like chasing women, having sex with a variety pack. That, well, your dick just remains hard and one woman can't do it. You just wear her out. Yet you get up and go about your day until...yeah need to fuck again. The real question is are you doing it for the emotional thrill? One ride after the other? Riding the highs, and yes the lows. That you are constantly thinking and obsessing over the next one. The difference is one is one is within your frame. It's what you… | /r/askMRP | 06/06/18 12:42 PM |
| 13 | DenialI have seen talented men destroy themselves. Men who seemingly had limitless potential. You can see it through the higher levels of society. I no longer believe in Natural. talent. Skill. Gifted. The bottom line is some have to work harder than others. having a gift or skill doesn't mean better or more capable, just means you have other work to do. I think this because men have demons inside of us. Not the spiritual puking up shit demon but the kind that drives us insane with rage, spite, anger,… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/06/18 11:57 AM |
| 7 | Post separation, my drive is missing... now what ?Steve. Boobie. Look. Your entire post is filled with you making sure we know that these things are what you chose or making sure we know that everything is great, splendid. That's it all lollipops and blowjobs for good ole steve. Fact is I can its not. Never was. But go on and keep telling us that it's all in your frame because you choose them to be. well no shit. We all make choices whether it's our frame or not. Women think they are in their frame because they are making choices. That isn't yo… | /r/askMRP | 04/06/18 10:37 PM |
| 1 | Should I send one my plates a pic of me out with another girlThink about what you posted. What you asked. When you realize not saying anything and being aloof would create more attraction you’ll figure it out. | /r/askTRP | 02/06/18 01:05 PM |
| 3 | Is the Trophy Wife Inevitable?Short answer. Depends on the man. Longer answer: Everything is temporary Your woman should be of value. No matter how long you want to keep her around. Sexually, socially, and unconditionally. She must provide value to your life and mission As years go on men will remember these things above all else. We are hard wired to look upon a woman in her old age and if she has been there; Been of value and been supportive, sexually available, a girlfriend, a wife, a mother, and not been a boat anchor. w… | /r/askMRP | 01/06/18 05:37 PM |
| 7 | Questions phrased to elicit DEERing: How best to respond?Legend tells of a legendary warrior whose kung fu skills were the stuff of legend. He traveled the land in search of worthy foes. He knew all styles of kung fu. From the hard iron style of AA, to the soft southern style of AM. He knew the monkey OI forms, and was revered for his dreaded secret fogging techniques. He was so deadly in fact, that his enemies would go blind from overexposure to pure awesomeness. There was only one opponent that he had never bested in single combat. Wifeia. Feared th… | /r/askMRP | 01/06/18 11:03 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - May 29, 2018It was the military aspect that got me through it easily. Old muscles coming to life as it were. Only then you knew it was coming and what barracks rat was stuck. Sometimes it was a rager of a party through out the company area....best BBQs ever! Other times it was a ghost town and nothing but chill out after some hard train ups. Wasn't like I didn't have stuff to do. Just not what I wanted to do. but what needs doing and what we want are not always the same thing. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 31/05/18 03:53 PM |
| 3 | Own Your Shit Weekly - May 29, 2018I remember the golden frame. back in the blue haze days I did finance the family. Coming from old world upbringing you helped family. But then as I look back on it the family worked together to get shit done. Vastly different but you rationalize it as something else. Ultimate Cads advice comes in handy: Alphas want to share thier good fortune. But only with those that deserve it. Social stuff. I am fine with day game. It's really my strong suit. Over a holiday weekend such as the US memorial day… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 31/05/18 02:20 PM |
| 5 | Own Your Shit Weekly - May 29, 2018Lawyer strategy. There are some financial issues to settle and I am not leaving the house. The roommate situation in my state instead of just packing up is the best method. Since she was a SAHM for so long and is in school I can't just get up and leave. the courts here see it as abandonment. say what you will but the judges in my area that will likely get this case have their own spin. Its not permanent. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 31/05/18 02:11 PM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - May 29, 2018My take is she was either expecting me to be butthurt and I wasnt so she got mad that I wasnt impacted by the denial or she was just per-emptively putting her defenses up as a reaction to the way I used to be. Not sure but she was distant that night and the next day. Does it matter what she thinks? Your response was spot on. Could have been any number of reasons for her pissy attitude. Does't matter. Look at it this way: She doesn't get what she wants she throws a fit right? She did a few times … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 31/05/18 02:06 PM |
| 3 | Own Your Shit Weekly - May 29, 2018Dude the solipsism was unreal. Normally female solipsism isn't so obvious and in your face, but this time? Wow. Literally everything she accused me of was what she had done. She was projecting everything onto me. First time its been that blatant. So it made it easy to see. Already saw the lawyer. Plans are being set. He recommended I set up the lower floor as a full fledged apartment before she got back and start living there. Done and done. It's not the split level thing you see today. My house… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 31/05/18 01:25 PM |
| 2 | Loss of momentum and provoking shit testsGood thoughts. Though after a workout I sit on the gym floor and curse my coach. mother fucker is going to kill me. | /r/askMRP | 31/05/18 11:34 AM |
| 1 | How to Out-Alpha an Alpha Wife?if he came across a truly powerful woman she'd eat him a live and leave the bones. | /r/askMRP | 30/05/18 05:02 PM |
| 10 | How to Out-Alpha an Alpha Wife?Ha. You do realize that its one large or multiple shit tests right? Your wife is no different. She is shit testing you and you are failing. that's it. So fix that. Becasue you are failing so badly I am not even going to analyze anything else because it's all bullshit. Really? over what you are going to eat?! Oh wait over what YOU are going to cook? pussy. turn in your man card on the way out the door. | /r/askMRP | 30/05/18 04:59 PM |
| 1 | Getting your ass kicked.Echoing what /u/humansockpuppet said but I’ll also add MMA is all the rage these days. The trouble with MMA and BJJ is that they rarely teach the one real reality of a self defense situation. You don’t know the training nor capability of your opponent. Is he a hardened criminal? You’d be shocked to know you can’t just tell who they are. Some yes. Many no. Is the guy an amateur MMA fighter? A few clues but really you don’t know. Is he a successful psycho? Meaning he’s never been caught yet? No id… | /r/askTRP | 29/05/18 09:49 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - May 29, 2018No butthurt. I just didn’t have an actionable plan. I figured I’d find something other than work. I’ve been alone before on more auspicious holidays when I was in the service. But it was expected this one I just blew it off. Like i said I didn’t have a plan. As for leaving sooner? This is sooner. Had to revisit the lawyer. There’s some prep involved. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 29/05/18 08:47 PM |
| 4 | Own Your Shit Weekly - May 29, 2018Workout ON track. My lifts are rapidly getting back to where they were before my injuries. Getting the powerlifting coach helped immensely. The only issues right now are the low cortisol levels I experienced last week. There's a range of possibilities as to why so I have to explore which is causing it. Diet is a slow cut. Yammer all you want about it but I am not sacrificing strength for an immediate cut. I've done it. I can do it. But I know what i want to look like and it will take time to do … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 29/05/18 04:54 PM |
| 1 | Any good podcasts?its dying now though. AND it's more PUA. So caution there is a hefty amount of validation seeking in there. | /r/askMRP | 29/05/18 04:26 PM |
| 5 | This is my dream. This is my nightmare.Your mind is a mess. Like really. There are all kinds of clouds. Dark grey, black storm clouds. Big white fluffy ones. Shapes and sizes of all kinds. The sky sees the clouds. It sees the storms. The sky isn't the clouds. It just watches them pass by. | /r/askMRP | 29/05/18 04:24 PM |
| 1 | Loss of momentum and provoking shit testsyou have to have ego. So the idea of killing it isn't accurate. more like reprogram it. ego in all it's forms basically refers to these ideas: The way you view yourself The value you place on yourself The way you wish you were people with out of control ego have a disconnect between reality and these concepts. It creates both cognitive dissonance and cognitive distortions. both are blue pill thought processes. | /r/askMRP | 29/05/18 03:53 PM |
| 15 | Loss of momentum and provoking shit testsI am going to take a softer approach, but first. I've been fairly RP for the last several years but have only had the RP focus to channel my self improvement through since mid March. This is a lie you tell yourself. A lie you tell us so we go softer on you. A lie that you say to rationalize how you don't have to do certain things or that it will be easier. I argue no man is red pill. Ever. he has to learn it. Our fathers failed us or we failed them. either way you aren't you just recognize what … | /r/askMRP | 29/05/18 02:01 PM |
| 2 | Girlfriend's friend wants to visit and stay in the same room.until they do. | /r/askMRP | 29/05/18 01:24 PM |
| 3 | Do you have goals?It's common for all men. Only real men figure it out and go on to accomplish things. The first thing to get out of your head is just becasue you are late doesn't mean you failed. How do I make a fucking difference in this world? You don't. Get over that shit right now. What you do will fade and turn to dust. At best you will be remembered. I spent this weekend at a few graves. Men that won't be back. did they make a difference? Don't care. Isn't the point. They live through me and my brothers. T… | /r/askMRP | 29/05/18 12:05 PM |
| 1 | SO said I don’t give her enough attentionSomething about this doesn't make any fucking sense. First....what friend is going to walk in on you in teh shower? Something off there. Unless you deliberately walked out of the shower in a towel to go across the hall KNOWING there was someone there. Second. She tells me “because you haven’t been showing me any attention. I want attention” I am a little dubious on the fact that she would be this overt. When a woman is overt it means she has reached her limit with covert tells. And it's usually … | /r/askMRP | 29/05/18 11:53 AM |
| 1 | Today I have been discriminated againstDon't give me this MGTOW bullshit. Grow up. Life sucks. guess what? Sucks more when you're stupid. Realize that there is no more loyalty with corporations. There once was. There was once a reason to work for the same place for years on end....now? Not any more. Jobs are as disposable as you are. | /r/askMRP | 29/05/18 11:43 AM |
| 3 | I'm an ugly woman. Im trying my best to look my best as possible but I don't see much difference even when it try. Its making me very depressed and now just wondering how I can cope with my fate as being an unattractive female?a perspective from an older man. Accept what cannot be changed Everything is temporary Do not wish for the ideal situation Focus on positive emotions and minimize negtive emotions Understand that men seek value. In all things. Be of value. Sexually, socially, and unconditionally. As years go on we will remember this above all else. Beauty fades, but when we have grown old we will look at you and remember these things. Remember that above all else you were there. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/05/18 02:51 PM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - May 22, 2018K | /r/MarriedRedPill | 25/05/18 02:00 PM |
| 1 | So here’s where I amI understand that she I worked her my ass off and doesn’t want to sit around doing nothing. while she went to college FIFY | /r/askMRP | 25/05/18 01:58 PM |
| 4 | Not sure how to handle vacation situationI have no idea why any of you think that setting a boundary has to be declared. It doesn't. At all. Unless SHE brings it up. Just blurting it out is like her dad telling her she can't go out with the Football Team Captain. Guess how that turned out? If she asks, then yeah you can state in general terms, but your actions will show more. The phrase "she isn't yours just your turn" has multiple layers to it. Most men only see it at a sexual level. Sure ok I get that, but it has a deeper meaning. Si… | /r/askMRP | 25/05/18 01:27 PM |
| 1 | Finding Your MissionA man's mission matures as he does. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 25/05/18 12:52 PM |
| 2 | How to not give a fuck?id not seen these before. They are brilliant. I suggest they get put in the sidebar as the clearly outline how a stoic mind is built and used in the face of female hypergamy. I also suggest this one which is referenced in one of those posts. https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/36k50h/stoicism_a_primer_for_how_to_be/ | /r/askMRP | 24/05/18 04:28 PM |
| 2 | How to not give a fuck?OP, he did it for me. But I argue that this concept is lost on you simply because it's core material that you should have learned in all those months of reading. | /r/askMRP | 24/05/18 02:46 PM |
| 1 | How to not give a fuck?Am I missing something?? yep | /r/askMRP | 24/05/18 02:40 PM |
| 1 | How to not give a fuck?Good points by /u/rocknrollchuck. Some anaylsis that is stopping you. “so, wanna tell you some thing” Her body language shifts to an “uh-oh, shit!” pose and gets the deer in the headlights look “What is it?” She says “I want you to suck my dick” I reply with a grin. Mind you, I had to muster courage to say this. BP me would have rather died than bluntly state this want. As a recovering nice guy, I never said anything like this before. I always asked, always nicely vomit but you did ask. You did … | /r/askMRP | 24/05/18 02:28 PM |
| 3 | Shoulders getting stressed. Best adjustment?Just addressing the medical portion. Get checked out. MRI maybe. Shoulders are high risk for injury and they are the toughest to train. It's likely the bench that is causing it. Research your benching. In short your shoulder blades should be pinched. Feet on the ground as far back as you can so your heels are slightly off the ground. When you push up you push down on your heels like you are pushing your body sliding back on the bench. Keep those shoulder blades pinched and push up with your ches… | /r/askMRP | 24/05/18 01:57 PM |
| 1 | Modern women choosing traditional masculinityBy traditionally masculine qualities I mean that these men may not have as high of a salary or even the same level of education, but he has physical strength, street smarts, hands-on skills, social skills, athletic ability, a sense of protection. Typically these men can be found in jobs of law enforcement, military, emergency services, aviation, vocational trades or sports/fitness, essentially jobs that are not so academic but require a different set of skills. Because of modern society. By and … | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/05/18 01:49 PM |
| 0 | Finding Your Missionha not always. Women want Alphas. Not all women want the same Alpha. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/05/18 01:44 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - May 22, 2018I'm not following a set program, just focusing on hitting muscle groups in a balanced way and having fun with the weights again. You're just there doing some stuff and maybe you make mention of things you want. You need a plan. You even say it. I read a post on here about women fucking men with fun plans and I realised how boring I must be to be married to. just like your workout. Resolved to change that. not really. you negotiate and go through things hoping they work out because you are all do… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/05/18 01:21 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - May 22, 2018I was recently told I suffer from analysis paralysis but when i make a decision i work 10x harder than anyone else to make it happen. talk about an ego hit. But message received. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/05/18 01:15 PM |
| -3 | Finding Your MissionTrees vs forest Bears vs cheetahs Everything can be an excuse if it doesn't fit a paradigm. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/05/18 01:09 PM |
| 2 | 1000 Foot Ropeperspective. I think of red pill like the parable of the elephant. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/05/18 11:31 AM |
| 3 | I guess you guys might give me some insight here7 months is an LTR? No. You don’t have an LTR. You are more invested than she is. It’s her job to maintain the relationship and she isn’t. Let me address the lack of vision outlook on “she isn’t yours” For the young man looking to get fucked it has a clear meaning but to older men it means more. It simply means she has agency and can make her own decisions. We don’t own people. The saying is meant to kick you on the gut. Sex is important to men and it is painful to think your snow flake will imm… | /r/askMRP | 23/05/18 02:18 PM |
| 2 | Advice. Legal next moves. Etc./u/Red-Curious is the one to ask. | /r/askMRP | 22/05/18 06:56 PM |
| 2 | [Discussion] Love After MRPLove comes from your Frame. You decide what you give and how you give it. It isn't earned, like trust. You give love until you decide you can't any more. There can come the time when all the negativity, all the things finally out way her value. Then the love stops. Just like trust. You can love your children yet if they continue their lives constantly making the same mistakes and looking to you to bail them out, at some point that love stops. The children must go on their own. It is not a mistak… | /r/askMRP | 22/05/18 06:52 PM |
| 5 | Dread for womenCompare it to business. Men are in a constant state of earning profit. We want to end our fiscal year in the black. Some of us have multiple gigs/businesses going. Of course these prices will vary based on market value but go with it... Sex maybe earns $10. Certain sexual acts ups the margin. Varies between the man. Supporting your mission in life maybe $20. being supportive $35 per action Doing laundry, cooking, let's say $30 for each time it is done Nag? Complain, be negative all the time then… | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/05/18 06:02 PM |
| 4 | 60 DoD Week 8 - Social LifeMayor Game. It applies to all things. Rule Zero is multi layered. It't not just fucking. It's using you masculine nature to draw and attract others to your frame. To be a man of value, to be social, to be who you want to be. To do that you must control your emotions. Look at any beta. at some point in a conversation it turns to the negative. How are things going Kevin? Well I guess I can't complain.... Only Kevin can and does. It's always something with Kevin isn't it? Fuck Kevin. He's a pain to… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/05/18 01:54 PM |
| 1 | Question about nagging and frame pullingThis needs to be addressed. It's wrong. The underlying assumption to this is that Frame power and control. It isn't. To quote the Rational Male: Both gender’s internalized concept of frame is influenced by our individual acculturation, socialization, psychological conditioning, upbringing, education, etc., but be clear on this, you are either operating in your own frame or you’re operating in hers. Also understand that the balance of frame often shifts. Frame is fluid and will find its own level… | /r/askMRP | 22/05/18 01:21 PM |
| 13 | Question about nagging and frame pullingNo there is a female frame. It's called being beta. And no. You are thinking of it all wrong. I am not necessarily a believer in the AF/BB concept. I think it is perfectly within RP reasoning that a pure Alpha male can be both the AF and BB for her. She wants an Alpha pure and simple. She settles for a BB. It isn't a dichotomy that she wrestles with. That said. You are thinking of frame wrong. Stop thinking of things in terms of control, or manipulation. That is beta. There is an aspect of the d… | /r/askMRP | 22/05/18 11:28 AM |
| 3 | Cliff Notes: Primary Pointers for BeginnersLift. For the non-believers, you'll just need to trust me on this one. I was an athlete when I was young - highest level possible - I continued to work out for years - yet I always harbored a mistrust of dudes lifting weights. Frankly, I looked down on them. Christ what a mistake. Lifting is glorious and it gets results. Vain, self-obsessed? I don't fucking care anymore. Whoever drilled that dumbass shit into my head was likely a fatass who didn't understand the sheer joy of seeing a new vein, s… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/05/18 03:51 PM |
| 1 | Need opinions on how to be a busy man while working shiftsWhat do you want to do? Then go do that. What you are doing is asking permission for us to let you do what you want when you want it. Fucking just do it. Your wife wants you to make the "right decision" based on what she thinks the right decision is. HINT: there isn't one. You're fucked either way. So do what you want. I have certain boundaries most men here don't. I don't believe in seperate vacations. I don't mind a GNO because I can go out my buddies. It's the trust vs loyalty aspect I have t… | /r/askMRP | 21/05/18 03:11 PM |
| 1 | FR, Lifting, SAHM and Shitty wife getting shittierwhat the fuck? All I read was she she she she her her her her. Yeah I don't know what you problem is. | /r/askMRP | 21/05/18 03:04 PM |
| 4 | FR update one day later to my long AF postfunny. I didn't say power. | /r/askMRP | 17/05/18 04:17 PM |
| 1 | FR update one day later to my long AF postno. it's still about control. | /r/askMRP | 17/05/18 04:10 PM |
| 3 | FR update one day later to my long AF postIMO the vote is still out on this. OP is realizing it but not why he thinks. She hasn't gathered the water and is trying to please him as much as she has realized she needs to reel her beta in. There's still a long way to go. OP has connected dots. Ok good. Don't forget them. They will be tested soon. It's not over. Not by a long shot. | /r/askMRP | 17/05/18 04:08 PM |
| 1 | Main event coming up? LONG AF post warning.Even though mormon though you would be better served at /r/RPChristians at least they can give you advice within teh confines of your religious outlook. Just a suggestion. she doesn’t really care about me yet at all FIFY My gut tells me there is more to this, but there is little reason for her to take this to this level over a beard, despite the underlying issuing being her control over you. It is to the level of ridiculous. At some point you are going to realize that giving her a relationship i… | /r/askMRP | 17/05/18 03:15 PM |
| 2 | Main event coming up? LONG AF post warning.I think all of this was brilliantly handled. The aspect some may not get is the religious framework OP is working within. Since Red Pill is amoral there shouldn't be judgment on how he exactly implements dread...if it all. here's the rub though, and OP pay attention. Despite your religious upbringing and leanings divorce and leaving are always an option. I will always disagree that Dread is a firm and solid step process. Example: I am at DL4 but moved to 5 last night, but you know she was acting… | /r/askMRP | 17/05/18 10:48 AM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - May 15, 2018DISCLAIMER: I am a paramedic only. Paramedics are trained in emergency medicine and primarily focused on early detection of medical problems. We have advanced training in cardiac function. Long term treatment, long term care is not out forte. We learn it as a process of our work but even still not all Medics are equal. All depends on where we work and what we have done. In laymen's terms I am a mechanic. I only show up when there is an issue. So if you are breathing and have a pulse not much I c… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 16/05/18 02:17 PM |
| 5 | FR I'm a unicorn.BP 220+, DL 275 This is my warm up. If Steve is a unicorn I must be a god damn triceratops which we all know is three times better. I have to take back what I said. Banning Steve isn't productive. He is a great example of the male hamster in motion. | /r/askMRP | 16/05/18 02:05 PM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - May 15, 2018Hang on. I am going to geek out here. 180 is way too high and yes there is a risk in a high heart rate. The heart is muscle but it doesn't get stronger the harder it works. It will if you do it over time and consistently, but not to "exhaustion". think of the heart as a pump, well it is, but literally a pump. What happens when your water pump keeps running at a high rate for a long time? Burns out right? Maybe runs out of oil maybe overheats. Similar happens to your heart. The first thing that c… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 16/05/18 11:28 AM |
| 1 | Lessons from two divorce casespersonally i think trump only succeeds because he has so much money and influence. not because of his skills. | /r/askMRP | 16/05/18 11:03 AM |
| 14 | Dealing with guilt from Alpha Widowing a girl.That’s your ego talking. Every bit of it and you’re showing your white knight tendencies here. So really it’s impossible You alpha widowed her. Just showed her a good time and relationship Frankly you’ll never really know if you alpha widowed a girl if you do find out it won’t be for years later. Any way. Her feelings aren’t your responsibility. | /r/askTRP | 15/05/18 10:20 PM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - May 15, 2018If your dick got chopped off yeah you got my attention. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/05/18 06:55 PM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - May 15, 2018a.) having emotions and expressing them, and b.) having emotions and needing her to fix them. exactly. The problem is viewing EVERYTHING you do through the lens of, "will this make her want to fuck me or not?" We are more than that; more than simply the gratification of our desires, just as our wives are more than means to gratify those desires. LMAO is this the male version of "she only wants me for my muscles". Still I get it. Sex is amazing and can be wildly invigorating, but it can also be a… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/05/18 06:49 PM |
| 3 | Own Your Shit Weekly - May 15, 2018where i see the difference is reaction. beta men use thier emotions as a terrorist weapon. An alpha male will use them becasue...well they are there. I see it as part of being unpredictable, hot/cold, one minute I will express my anger at something then be able to switch gears and laugh at a joke. Men have and are expected to pull themselves out of it quickly. This is well rooted in Stoic philosophy. But yes hypergamy has a vote and is she is going to leave you for being human then you didn't re… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/05/18 06:33 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - May 15, 2018I think the cardio has given me an overall feeling of well-being. runners high. It's real. The endorphins from running can be addictive which is why many still do it despite the injuries it can cause. When you get back to lifting I recommend light jogging or walking for 25-30 minutes. Heart rate not to exceed 120bpm. Just maintain calories burn. You will be surprised how a light workout like that will really kickstart things. Am I looking at a heart attack? huh? BPM are not a gauge for cardio im… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/05/18 06:25 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - May 15, 2018I wouldn't suppress my feelings for anyone Nice insight here. I have felt the same. Not something you see from a RP man. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/05/18 06:17 PM |
| 3 | Lack of frame and asking for advice againShe likes drama so maybe I should give her a little controlled drama? you already are but if you want to up it to the next level hand her a lawyers phone number instead. | /r/askMRP | 15/05/18 06:12 PM |
| 2 | Lack of frame and asking for advice againby writing here I understand I’m already in her frame unfortunately. Not necessarily. But you are. They aren't the same thing. Just tell her you aren't a pimp. She can get her own dates then walk away. Leave the cell phone at home. You need to remember that the relationship is hers to maintain. not yours. She is firing the shot over the bow expecting you to come groveling. So maybe her frame is cracking but it's a odd way to show it. Your move? DGAF. She's going to do what she wants and one thin… | /r/askMRP | 15/05/18 06:10 PM |
| 1 | When to work on MRPI am a black belt at the senior instructor level. I mainly teach self defense classes for the dojo. I teach the fast food version of karate. Techniques that maybe one will be remembered because the average person just wants to feel like they could do something. They don't actually want to train in doing like I do. Under pressure self defense techniques are hard to pull off. You have to have timing, presence of mind while under attack, and the will to execute. I practice every day. up early to ge… | /r/askMRP | 15/05/18 03:12 PM |
| 6 | [FR] STFU, just STFUoh yeah. I've done this. Want a real cringe worthy show? Go back and watch home movies of yourself. Jesus christ that is an eye opener. | /r/askMRP | 15/05/18 03:05 PM |
| 3 | Lessons from two divorce casesseriously. People criticize Trump for multiple bankruptcies but the fact is in today's world it's a viable tactic. The stigma is almost gone from it. Amoral as it were. Back when the US housing market crashed short sales were, and to some degree still are, all the rage. | /r/askMRP | 15/05/18 02:57 PM |
| 2 | Lessons from two divorce caseshe had the advantage of being upside down. The bank didn't add it to his possible assets as a result. As Red-Curious points out having a lawyer that can do math helps. My buddy did. | /r/askMRP | 15/05/18 02:49 PM |
| 1 | Appearing butthurt when I'm notI assume you understand this fixes you not the marriage. The marriage course correcting is a result of your work, this of course assumes she is willing and hasn't thrown in the towel already. This said there is always a chance that a man comes to the realization that marriage or whom he married wasn't the right decision after all. I haven't read your post history yet there are situations where she never comes around. That all your work and effort yield nothing. At that point you realize she can … | /r/askMRP | 15/05/18 01:51 PM |
| 4 | Anyone here has success with Mindfulness ?but I also think it makes me very anxious in general and prevents me from being natural in conversations, any advice This is complete opposite of mindfulness. What you are talking about doing is more discipline then mindfulness. You seem like a nervous chihuahua. Just got a lot of shit going on in your head. Can you be alone? Can you just sit and literally stare at a wall and contemplate ideas, philosophy, and be comfortable knowing that only you will understand what it is you do? Mindfulness is… | /r/askTRP | 15/05/18 01:45 PM |
| 6 | Appearing butthurt when I'm notTwo months since swallowing the pill This is why and I am willing to bet you escalated just before bed. Which only leaves you one route...ie butthurt. She must've picked up that I'm butthurt because I wasn't as flirty as yesterday eeeyup. Even I can smell the ass throbbing here. Women can smell beta like lions smell blood on the Serengeti. , gave me a look that I know all too well "You're pissed and I can tell it". Reality is, I'm not just busy and IDGAF about what happened yesterday, today is a… | /r/askMRP | 15/05/18 01:30 PM |
| 2 | 6 Month Progress - The Good and BadI am working on a post. I will make it at the end of the week. | /r/askMRP | 15/05/18 10:51 AM |
| 3 | Lessons from two divorce casesFew are pushing theory any more. It's just regurgitation of the already known principles. I blame veterans and flared men here for that. In many respects we are not offering ourselves up to the crucible and vetting a theory or idea. Pushing the boundaries of Red Pill. For that matter FRs are only success stories, and lately only if they are massively successful. Its not all nearly figured out. There is more to learn from each situation. | /r/askMRP | 15/05/18 10:51 AM |
| 2 | Lessons from two divorce casesI have recommended bankruptcy a couple times to friends of mine. Since 2008 or so it's been nature's do over. Doesn't carry the stigma it once did. A buddy of mine got in a bad spot. I convinced him to file. In the end he got to keep his house (which he didn't expect), and walk out owning only 8K of a massive debt he was staring at. Granted....he was stupid and got himself into trouble still I am shocked at how much redundancy there is in modern life. | /r/askMRP | 15/05/18 10:47 AM |
| 12 | Hypergamy and menopauseLazy fuck Took my .005 seconds according to Google Fog of Menopause Sexual retirement Late life hypergamy | /r/askMRP | 11/05/18 02:47 PM |
| 1 | 6 Month Progress - The Good and Badthose who speak it, know it not, those who know it, speak it not. brilliant. | /r/askMRP | 11/05/18 10:23 AM |
| 1 | 6 Months in...100 days until home...not going to lie I'm fucking worried about Ramboingyep | /r/askMRP | 11/05/18 10:22 AM |
| 1 | 6 Month Progress - The Good and BadRight. Now you’re getting where I want the discussion. The mission is yours. So you set it. Some Men may have several missions in their life and over their lifetime. Some may only have one. Yet a mission is filled with long and short terms goals or objectives. Maybe milestones. All synonymous for this discussion. This is the meet of it I think. What confuses some is that not every man will have just one. I have just one mission in my life through discussions /u/88will88 have pointed out my missi… | /r/askMRP | 10/05/18 06:55 PM |
| 2 | 6 Month Progress - The Good and BadVisualization of your mission does not work. I disagree here but not with everything else you said. You have to visualize or know what right looks like. Then you can create the path to it. You have to know how you want your life to look. Then create the plan to get there. | /r/askMRP | 10/05/18 06:43 PM |
| 1 | 6 Months in...100 days until home...not going to lie I'm fucking worried about Ramboingyou've got two issues. For one it's the typical deployment stuff. The wife has had to assume the male role. It never works to just come in and take it all over. Listen tot eh FO. Find out what she's discovered that works. Do that. Improve upon it. The other party? Why worry? Already mentioned. Rambo it up if that's what happens. Just don't sit and wonder why shit just got bad. At least you gave her feelz. Women dig negative emotions as much as positive ones. The idea is that you don't really wan… | /r/askMRP | 10/05/18 06:38 PM |
| 1 | 6 Month Progress - The Good and BadNice analogy. I like this. | /r/askMRP | 10/05/18 06:22 PM |
| 1 | 6 Month Progress - The Good and BadYeah? I’ll look then. It may be just bringing it together in a journal. Not saying I have this answer but it’s like the parable of the elephant. We all describe what we see and make sense of it | /r/askMRP | 10/05/18 06:18 PM |
| 2 | Is being angry means breaking frame?you can feel anger without being angry | /r/askTRP | 10/05/18 04:47 PM |
| 1 | LTR invites me over then having girl-talk with sister while I'm there...I am going to go against the grain a bit. I am not saying leaving wasn't the right option what I am saying is that you show an amazing lack of social ability. that and some how you got yourself into the same situation not only once, but twice. So let me get this straight. Your LTR invites you over. You go. Get dinner.....and just stare at two women talking? At no point did you consider just being happy fun guy and taking over said conversation? She just comes off like an arrogant little brat to … | /r/askTRP | 10/05/18 04:44 PM |
| 11 | 6 Month Progress - The Good and BadI really should do a post on finding your mission. There are some out there but none really scratch the itch. Seems to be a lot of guys struggling out there to do it. Ultimately I can tell you that your sex life isn't improving because of you. Your wife likes to fuck a muscular man. That's clear. Despite your numbers you got something working there and it seems to be working. I also don't think it's completely done for either. Addressing her being busy. It's right out of the play book. She has n… | /r/askMRP | 10/05/18 03:47 PM |
| 15 | Marriage yes/noSince you asked. No. | /r/askMRP | 10/05/18 11:18 AM |
| 2 | I really need to spent more time with your chest...it was probably something like this right? | /r/askMRP | 10/05/18 12:15 AM |
| 1 | Regulating Sexual DesireAnother comment from the occasional onlooker. I post and read here becasue it's fascinating to me. Aside from the hyperbolic and often over the top language used on MRP and TRP the message is nearly the same. I have said taht my mentor in college used to remark that christianity was the only historically proven religion. He meant that the secular proved the faith. Any way it's simple. You adopt the monk mode perspective and as directed by what others say follow the faith. You build yourself into… | /r/RPChristians | 09/05/18 06:27 PM |
| 2 | I really need to spent more time with your chest...The show is called IT Crowd. A sitcom from UK. Hilarious. | /r/askMRP | 09/05/18 04:59 PM |
| 1 | Trouble deciphering shit test/comfort testlazy git. Took me longer to do the this post than find all this information. here's your guide. Newbies: No, your wife doesn't "comfort test" you. Comfort tests and attachment theory How to distinguish between a shit test and comfort test. Bluepillprofessor's 5th Video/Podcast: Comfort Tests, Alpha, Beta, Omega and Oaks My first comfort test that I knew was real Theory The Shit-Comfort Continuum | /r/askMRP | 09/05/18 04:07 PM |
| 3 | I really need to spent more time with your chest...I told her I was an asshole and trouble. I told her she should run away Here's the clue. Post wall really isn't so much the issue. Beautiful women are beautiful women. The issue is that Steve doesn't get it. Steve ISN'T a FR in good game or Alpha awareness. He's a study in beta in motion. He had to actually tell her he was bad for her. An Alpha just would be and through is actions. This is how I imagine Steve's date when down God, I'm a bastard | /r/askMRP | 09/05/18 04:03 PM |
| 1 | Being StoicThere'a a hundred different meanings and takes on being stoic. I contend it does, but you have to fully accept that nothing is in your control and your world is your world. Being Stoic will certainly bring a woman in since you exhibit a certain calm that is not found anywhere else. But most guys come off autistic ie in the corner. A full stoic lives life, enjoys everything he sees and does. His ego is put aside in order to accomplish goal, including putting up with other peoples shit because the… | /r/askTRP | 09/05/18 11:39 AM |
| 5 | I really need to spent more time with your chest...Its not even her baggage that's the issue. It's his. She will sniff out his beta in a heart beat and he will be right back where he was. Contemplating Monk Mode will flipping through Tinder to make sure he's still getting matches. | /r/askMRP | 09/05/18 11:33 AM |
| 2 | Going RamboThe question is how to get back from being Rambo. The answer is tomorrow is a new day. Today we communicated totally by text, and she agreed to sign the docs, with the addition that I’ve really hurt her emotionally. Tonight she is ice, and I am also as I don’t want to be in her frame. Watch what she does. So she signed them papers, so clearly she agrees at some level. Keeping the property was likely just a dream thing or the status of having more. Doesn't really matter. Your task now is to step … | /r/askMRP | 09/05/18 10:58 AM |
| 5 | I really need to spent more time with your chest...Thought you were in Monk Mode. | /r/askMRP | 09/05/18 10:45 AM |
| 1 | David Takes on Goliath: Married Red Pill Relationship Coach Sues Our Social Media Host Alleging Gender and Political Discrimination in Access to Advertisingright. 48 Laws. Have to tailor the message AND some wouldn't be suited to selling that message. We all can't be evangelists. I sure as fuck am not and have no desire to be. Though many want to it just isn't a fit for some. Goes along with finding your mission. You must also find yourself. Where do your strengths lie and what it is you are to do. IN the last week i have had things happen that my gut instinct got triggered and action needed to be taken regardless of how i felt and how long I shoul… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 08/05/18 07:20 PM |
| 1 | David Takes on Goliath: Married Red Pill Relationship Coach Sues Our Social Media Host Alleging Gender and Political Discrimination in Access to Advertisingfair enough. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 08/05/18 06:57 PM |
| 2 | David Takes on Goliath: Married Red Pill Relationship Coach Sues Our Social Media Host Alleging Gender and Political Discrimination in Access to AdvertisingYou're a great mom and a pretty good wife, but you could do some work in the girlfriend department can be a pretty effective message if delivered the right way. Maybe a post about this? Easily title as an Master Class kind of thing. There are guys that are in that position. The key here is that each man's situation is different and they need to read it. It may spark a thought in someone. Just saying. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 08/05/18 06:52 PM |
| 2 | Why so adversarialI'm sorry. Maybe we can go to church together. Then go out for some ice cream cones. I will bring one of my kids dolls and you can show me the bad place the Internet touched you. | /r/askMRP | 08/05/18 06:39 PM |
| 1 | David Takes on Goliath: Married Red Pill Relationship Coach Sues Our Social Media Host Alleging Gender and Political Discrimination in Access to AdvertisingIt's new. Needed to get something for cardio. I don't run. I am not prey. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 08/05/18 06:32 PM |
| 0 | David Takes on Goliath: Married Red Pill Relationship Coach Sues Our Social Media Host Alleging Gender and Political Discrimination in Access to AdvertisingYou are in reddit's frame Coach...fight the good fight, but don't turn into that same SJW on the street corner screaming about how the world is unjustly oppressive of you. Lets explore this for a minute... What is the line between anger and acting out in anger vs finally having enough and taking action. Sure the language is angry, I might be as well, and have been in other situations. But does that mean he made this decision in anger? or just not putting up with it any more. Stoicism would requi… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 08/05/18 06:27 PM |
| 1 | David Takes on Goliath: Married Red Pill Relationship Coach Sues Our Social Media Host Alleging Gender and Political Discrimination in Access to Advertisingi was wondering if I was the only one that actually lifted https://imgur.com/a/nECZyMe https://imgur.com/a/fLTCYT3 For what it's worth I overhead 225 | /r/MarriedRedPill | 08/05/18 06:19 PM |
| 1 | Pregnancy and Newborn affect on relationship: Is this normal? Does it get better?I am a little amazed that as a surgeon or even a doc that you don't know how even a little bit of chemistry and change the brain and someone's outlook. Changing the way you look at things and how you deal with them has a dramatic effect on your outlook and emotions. It starts with standing up straight. It's on of the reasons lifting is required. Any other form of exercise is just masturbating. | /r/askMRP | 08/05/18 04:56 PM |
| 4 | Pregnancy and Newborn affect on relationship: Is this normal? Does it get better?no. /u/man_in_the_world is on it. What isn't really said but alluded to is taht the more Alpha or top tier the man's career the more she expects you to be Alpha. Your career is one of the outward signs of what you are able to handle. You don't get a pass at home. Consider this: In today's world there are few careers that require the physical differences in the genders. There is almost no reason a man nor a woman can't do the same jobs. The benefit of a modern world I guess. Yet the man comes hom… | /r/askMRP | 08/05/18 04:51 PM |
| 1 | David Takes on Goliath: Married Red Pill Relationship Coach Sues Our Social Media Host Alleging Gender and Political Discrimination in Access to Advertisingi admit i had to look that up. and. ewww | /r/MarriedRedPill | 08/05/18 04:40 PM |
| 5 | David Takes on Goliath: Married Red Pill Relationship Coach Sues Our Social Media Host Alleging Gender and Political Discrimination in Access to Advertisingnot really. you'd be surprised how people accept RP principles if you don't mention the words red pill or come out as "Fuck wimmens" attitude. You have to tailor your message to the audience. All in the 48 Laws. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 08/05/18 03:09 PM |
| 1 | David Takes on Goliath: Married Red Pill Relationship Coach Sues Our Social Media Host Alleging Gender and Political Discrimination in Access to AdvertisingIf anything I have learned is that BPP usually has a purpose behind what he does. Watch how it plays out. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 08/05/18 12:43 PM |
| 1 | How to approach sex in the first weeks of marriageI don't place much faith statistics these days. Way too easy to manipulate. Even still all they show correlation. Not necessarily causation. Again, I am not arguing the faith component. Yes my term of being unforgivable was a bit hyperbolic yet it can be overcome. It would be akin to saying if one has high blood pressure cardiac arrest is not too far away. Possibly, but very treatable, but in and of itself high blood pressure is not going to kill you (aside from the fact that there are limited c… | /r/RPChristians | 07/05/18 06:59 PM |
| 1 | How to approach sex in the first weeks of marriageStill you and the wife were having pre-marital sex? That's still an all bets are off type of issue from what I've seen in the Christian manosphere. I won't debate the biblical teaching on this but the logic you present is inconsistent. I do disagree that premarital sex is a killer in the relationship. That idea cements a concept that it's unforgivable. That can't be right. I am not going to argue that it's fine, as I understand the moral implications for a Christian. Still I don't see it being t… | /r/RPChristians | 07/05/18 11:24 AM |
| 1 | How to approach sex in the first weeks of marriageUh. No. The girl I was engaged to was someone else. I met my wife little over a year later. | /r/RPChristians | 07/05/18 01:49 AM |
| 2 | How to approach sex in the first weeks of marriageI’d like to add. Having done this my wife still denied. And often. Her statement was always It’s not the 1950s. I don’t have to have sex if I don’t want to. Fair enough. I have my own thoughts on way this occurred. Be clear. Be honest. And I’d add make it a deal breaker. Women would sure enough be just as angry or upset if you stopped providing relationship benefits. Or “checked out”. An explanation i heard once: Imagine a couple on a date and the man just says “So are we having sex tonight? I d… | /r/RPChristians | 06/05/18 08:19 PM |
| 1 | wife is overwhelmingly attracted to another man and is in my face about itWell. there is are dread levels. The process is well laid out. A lot of men have success. Some don't. Some don't even bother. Some flip that switch in their head immediately and realize....fuck that bitch. The doors are there for you to decide. You have to choose exactly how far this line is that she crossed. Red Pill or not. There are some lines that just can't be uncrossed. As for me? She'd be my sparring partner until it was time to leave. Disloyalty on that scale is unacceptable. | /r/askMRP | 06/05/18 02:25 AM |
| 3 | “The Lag” and Knowing When and Why to Escalate Higher Dread.It's all about Frame. No one can judge a man if he is in his Frame. Still...sometimes doggedly sticking to a plan can be ego protection. Plans can change. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/05/18 02:12 AM |
| 2 | WARNING wall of text My StoryThank you. It goes so far. FIL is in a life or death medical situation. every day is touch or go at the moment. I am putting ego aside so the kids, mine and the nephews/nieces see how an adult and a man is supposed to act. I agree about not acting out in anger. I hired a counselor just as pointed out. A "hire a friend' thing. I will tell you it's different talking to someone and having them verify and dig in as opposed to reading and writing. Helpful but having a person in front of you challengi… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/05/18 01:58 AM |
| 8 | “The Lag” and Knowing When and Why to Escalate Higher Dread.Exactly this. All women are attracted to Alphas. But not all women are attracted to the same Alpha. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 04/05/18 04:46 PM |
| 1 | What are all the safeguards I should take before getting married (and while married) to ensure I don't get fucked?Safeguards? Don’t get married There are no safeguards. | /r/askMRP | 04/05/18 04:44 PM |
| 2 | If shes great in general (and pregnant) but NEEDY where is my line before it becomes codependent?What I mean is a MRP post. You’re drawing a line here most men can’t see. It’s a fine line distinction that cross cuts a lot of other areas | /r/askMRP | 03/05/18 05:19 PM |
| 2 | If shes great in general (and pregnant) but NEEDY where is my line before it becomes codependent?you should develop something more from this. There is far more you left unsaid. | /r/askMRP | 03/05/18 03:47 PM |
| 1 | On Beards...There is only one time I would say listen and maybe not grow a beard. Some women can develop a rash from the course hair. So unless you were going to go full hair treatment regimen and soften it. Consider that. I am not into beards myself. I just don't have the look to go with it and it feels dirty to me. that said here's a little thing from the MRP sidebar that I am sure you missed. | /r/askMRP | 03/05/18 03:43 PM |
| 1 | On Beards...Hate beards. I can grow a full beard in 4 days. It's course, hard. FUCKING HATE IT. Maybe it was all those military years, I don't know. That and I look like a silver fox WAAY before I am ready to. | /r/askMRP | 03/05/18 03:40 PM |
| 1 | WARNING wall of text My StoryGood luck. fuck that. we make our own luck | /r/MarriedRedPill | 03/05/18 03:37 PM |
| 1 | KETO: Your shortcut to (part of) being attractive or how you can get shredded in 4 months.Alright. How do you do this and powerlift? I have run into many issues with energy, libido issues. This was me. The only way to fix it was go back to a more balanced diet. I am not fat but I am not shredded lean any more. I still haven't found the right balance. | /r/askMRP | 03/05/18 03:36 PM |
| 1 | WARNING wall of text My StoryWithout a doubt. I just didn't want to pull the lame ok ok ok relooking the plan. Still the point was made. Doggedly sticking to a plan (good or bad) can be a form of ego protection. You just don't see it when you're in the middle of it. I took some advice from /u/FireTempered /u/man_in_the_world /u/Persaeus and I am adjusting fire. I didn't expect this, but it's eye opening. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 03/05/18 03:29 PM |
| 2 | Girlfriend's friend wants to visit and stay in the same room.You don't really now. All men have an issue. We think about things. We are planners and executors. We tend to think and think until we brood and then what we think becomes real. So what if this dude has ulterior motives. It's not him you have to be worried about. Red Pill already tells us that women have beta orbiters. It's a fact. Now many of younger men that can't think beyond thier dicks thinks its a competition of beating out the betas and that, as an alpha, if you didn't then you really mus… | /r/askMRP | 03/05/18 03:25 PM |
| 1 | WARNING wall of text My StoryYeah. that analogy makes no sense. You watch too much Band of Brothers. And point of fact. No one stands up guns blazing. John Wayne dies in real life. Despite the the poor gut kick story your point was made. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 03/05/18 03:14 PM |
| 2 | WARNING wall of text My StoryIt’s these lessons we need posted more of. Dread is not a lock step process. I believe to be more milestones and yes steps can be skipped or rather blown by. As many times events unfold without our choosing. It’s how we handle those events that are of more importance | /r/MarriedRedPill | 03/05/18 11:00 AM |
| 2 | How to overcome nagging?the search bar would have helped as well. | /r/askMRP | 02/05/18 02:03 PM |
| 1 | The Journey (Alternatively, Read the Books)These guys are called Sigmas. They are an odd mix of Beta and Alpha that on one can explain. They don't just see the matrix they are the matrix. Literally Agent Smith in this regard. | /r/askMRP | 01/05/18 05:26 PM |
| 1 | Wedding ring at the gymAddict bro is right. Women pick up on the subtext far more then men do. To us it's a ring. Wear it or not. To them? The medium is the message. | /r/askMRP | 01/05/18 05:22 PM |
| 2 | Any experience of beta being viewed as alpha?It's not so simple. There is a lot of experience here in that it has happened but a lot has to do with the type of drunk captain you were/are, and her. MRP saves the man. Not the marriage. | /r/askMRP | 01/05/18 03:15 PM |
| 1 | WARNING wall of text My StoryI set it up as a "buy a friend" deal. this was my idea as well. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 01/05/18 02:01 PM |
| 1 | My StoryI know that she doesn't want me, she just doesn't want to lose her husband. people can desire you and not value you. | /r/RPChristians | 01/05/18 01:49 PM |
| 3 | WARNING wall of text My Storyyou have a shit ton of posts on MRP which would lead the reader to believe you have at some point successfully unfucked your life This is a judgement statement or near to. Fact is if a man makes a decisions within his frame no one can judge him. It may be a blue pill thinking but I feel that flared men should stand up more and be accountable more then other men. I think of flared men as the mafia version of made men. if you understand the phrase. We are not immune, but we know what we are lookin… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 01/05/18 01:16 PM |
| 1 | WARNING wall of text My StoryThey did/do. I know exactly what I want or I should say what I should have kept going after. But just because you are late doesn't mean you failed. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 01/05/18 01:13 PM |
| 1 | WARNING wall of text My Storynot true at all. lots of professions use their degree directly. in fact, i would say there is a good correlation between this and how much that degree is worth. it's really only true if you get a completely useless (unless your a professor) degree like you got. an important point in your post, i think this thought is a under-discussed extremely important factor in a man's sexual strategy I wanted to address this: The purpose of this degree was to achieve an Army commission. Many don't know that … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 01/05/18 01:11 PM |
| 1 | WARNING wall of text My Storyone part I did not detail was the phase of marriage counseling. Yeasrs before Red Pill came into the picture. I have an natural distrust of therapists. I think I mentioned before that they usually try to diagnosis you. The one I picked for this doesn't take insurance so my idea is that they will not try to direct a certain path in order to be paid more. It's strictly about time. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 01/05/18 01:07 PM |
| 1 | WARNING wall of text My StoryThey don't post often enough about it. There's a difference between getting hungry for sex then your dick wet and making the conscious decision to move on. Admittedly it's a fine line. DL12 is a whole other mindset in and of itself. It's not just about burning it all down. Though I can respect it if the man maintains his frame. Though here I sound like I support the lock step process when really I am supporting mindset. I contend it is possible that a man can go through the levels quickly.. The … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 01/05/18 01:05 PM |
| 1 | WARNING wall of text My Storytrue story. The emergency did. It was a medical one. 97% death rate and amazingly survived. I have to say being a medic has proven to me that having a some medical knowledge beyond booboos and band aids is a survival skill. This I will make a post about as a follow up to the one I did year or so ago about being a man of value. I am now more adamant about the fact that an Alpha male has to have a life skill that is beyond just being a man. Something he can put his name to. Despite negotiating the… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 01/05/18 12:58 PM |
| 1 | WARNING wall of text My Storyit wasn't just that. Though it wasn't my goal I knew to expect it. Besides no matter how much one can be introspective, and able to step outside...fact is we all get caught up in our own heads and bullshit. But in this case it was a double whammy. Had a family emergency. A serious one and in that context you see the real person. I mentioned somewhere in here already but it was astounding. Sometimes no matter how much I know and expect the level of shitty human behavior still floors me. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 01/05/18 12:50 PM |
| 1 | WARNING wall of text My StoryI have always thought that all flared men are not done and should do something like this. There should be no shame in posting your story. Failure? To say this is to show a lack of understanding. It's not a success or failure. It's success or learn. Flared men are not immune they just know the difference. This is the problem I have with the institutionalization of Dread. That it has become a lock step process. It is true that somethings need to come before others but...fuck it. I don't mind the R… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 01/05/18 11:42 AM |
| 3 | WARNING wall of text My StoryNice. I like that. I am stealing it. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 01/05/18 11:39 AM |
| 1 | WARNING wall of text My Storyit's been a awhile since you made any OYS post or comments. It has. I normally don't like the thread. Just too disorganized to me. Like a jumble of conversation. IT also bugs me that some flare is grey some is red. Triggers my military OCD need for consistency. I have talked to /u/rian_stone a couple times about it. i remember when you did I always had the urge to hit you upside the head with a 2x4. this one is no exception. Ww both have that in common | /r/MarriedRedPill | 01/05/18 11:38 AM |
| 1 | WARNING wall of text My Storyyou have a point. An appointment was made. In the past I was arrogant and figured I could handle this myself. This weekend showed me otherwise. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 01/05/18 11:37 AM |
| 1 | WARNING wall of text My Storyone reason I still stick around MRP is that there are few if any that stay on Reddit once they hit DL 11 or even 12. I think /u/Persaeus is the only other one. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 01/05/18 11:36 AM |
| 2 | WARNING wall of text My Storykind of the same thing. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 01/05/18 11:30 AM |
| 4 | WARNING wall of text My StoryI am fine with the challenge. Expect it. No one can judge a man in his frame. Yet I will point out that I gained something from the exchange. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 01/05/18 11:30 AM |
| 1 | WARNING wall of text My StoryThe nuts. That's the funniest thing I've read all day. I literally LOL'd. It's become funny to me as well now. Talk about covert messages | /r/MarriedRedPill | 01/05/18 11:27 AM |
| 2 | WARNING wall of text My StoryI had a family emergency develop this weekend. Yet I want to answer some of the questions in the comments. I feel it would be good for the historical purposes for it to be there. First i posted his because some had wanted to hear more and I had nothing to fear from posting. The postmortem while unexpected was good. Some insight I hadn't seen before. Primarily this: Some times doggedly sticking to a plan can be a form of ego protection. Sometimes you just need balls. I will admit that I don't kno… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 01/05/18 11:20 AM |
| 3 | WARNING wall of text My StoryI see where going. True. I did wonder how my misleading of timelines would be considered but fuck it. I put it out there and didn’t tell everything. I thought there was more value in some of the points I made. Plus I wasn’t and am not afraid of the crucible I was going to be under. I see that and disagree with that portion of dread. I see where you’re going now. The FMoFY wasn’t planned. It happened. True it wasn’t in accordance with the way BPP lays it out but I also don’t care. I’m that moment… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/04/18 03:16 AM |
| 1 | WARNING wall of text My StoryNo. Not really. There is a deliberate altering of my timeline in the post you link to. Doxing is a concern for me. Related to my job. My first user id I went too far and nearly blew it. Rian or stonepimple something at the time advised me to delete and start a new one. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/04/18 02:18 AM |
| 1 | My StoryIt’s nice to see how it’s true where an independent source such as yourself comes to the same conclusion. The Iron Law was developed by Jerry Pournelle. Truth throughout. | /r/RPChristians | 28/04/18 01:56 AM |
| 2 | My StoryIt’s also called the Iron Law of Bureaucracy. It states that in any bureaucratic organization there will be two kinds of people First, there will be those who are devoted to the goals of the organization. Examples are dedicated classroom teachers in an educational bureaucracy, many of the engineers and launch technicians and scientists at NASA, even some agricultural scientists and advisors in the former Soviet Union collective farming administration. Secondly, there will be those dedicated to t… | /r/RPChristians | 28/04/18 01:51 AM |
| 7 | WARNING wall of text My StoryI am mad at myself for falling for it. To your second question I just don’t dwell on it. I can feel anger without being angry. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/04/18 01:48 AM |
| 3 | WARNING wall of text My StoryI’ve served with better. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/04/18 01:47 AM |
| 1 | Wife broke up and is now hitting me up sending mixed signalsI have no idea why i just laughed so hard at that. | /r/askMRP | 28/04/18 01:42 AM |
| 5 | WARNING wall of text My StoryI love these questions. I believe in the possibilities of the universe - the multi verse as it were. I also believe that while I have free will, the decisions I made were my destined path. This is the path I walk. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/04/18 01:41 AM |
| 2 | WARNING wall of text My StoryHave one on retainer. Papers drawn up ready to use. EDIT: I just realized what you meant. Ugh. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/04/18 01:36 AM |
| 3 | WARNING wall of text My StoryFMoFY? Yes. Didn’t go over well. Her reasonse was “well thank god it isn’t the 1950s and I don’t have to have sex if I don’t want to”. She didn’t think I would or I am capable of an affair. 12 Levels of dread all the way. They aren’t a silver bullet they are a process to improve yourself. Only the last 2 or 3 levels are about her. Besides. MRP saves the man. Not the marriage. The implication of your question is that following MRP will fix the marriage. That it is a silver bullet to solve all ill… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/04/18 01:35 AM |
| 4 | WARNING wall of text My StoryShe will probably be both. Something different for a better marriage? What I should have done is stayed my course and completed the mission I had set for myself. Finish an army career. If it had resulted in a better marriage? I don’t know. That isnt’ relevant. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/04/18 01:12 AM |
| 3 | Wife broke up and is now hitting me up sending mixed signalsJesus Christ dude this is what it looks like when people don’t use paragraphs and just keep rambling for one topic to the next in the long stream of consciousness. I drives me nuts it really does. ANd I am allergic to nuts. I am also allergic to bullshit like what you are doing here. I don’t know what your issue is but you are clearly in her frame and i mean so far deep you can lick her cranium. What you need to do is start worrying about yourself more and maybe find a grammar class to learn to … | /r/askMRP | 28/04/18 01:02 AM |
| 6 | WARNING wall of text My StoryLol thanks. But it’s not about the birthday. In my bluest days it was. But now...fuck it. I get that steak dinner all to myself. I am thinking of a 3 day trip this year. Not sure where though. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/04/18 12:55 AM |
| 6 | WARNING wall of text My StoryTo begin I am not a man that can have a soft harem. I am just not that kind of guy. I don’t know what that says about me, but I also don’t care. It just is. This said I feel none of those things. It’s a choice. It’s a matter of my needs and my life now come first. I once looked at myself as playing parallel to the world. Knocking on the window looking in. I now think the rest of the world is knocking on my window looking in. There are a couple factors before I leave. First and foremost financial… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/04/18 12:53 AM |
| 1 | My StoryLol an apt analysis perhaps. | /r/RPChristians | 28/04/18 12:41 AM |
| 2 | Delayed Onset of Anger PhaseThere are white fluffy clouds and dark storm clouds. The sky sees all of the pass by. The sky knows the weather. The sky isn’t the weather. It’s my belief that RP men never get over it. Alphas just learn to deal with it through time and experience. Even still some never do and they go hard core to the extreme side of the spectrum of Alpha traits. You can rationalize it away by things like: No sunk cost mentality. Live in abundance Meditate Pick up more physical tasks It goes on. Thing is to some… | /r/askMRP | 28/04/18 12:41 AM |
| 2 | Golden Ratio vs Always GamingYou are gaming her for the wrong reasons and she can tell. Game isn’t “I want to fuck so I must do X” Game is almost in and of itself a ritual dance. It’s fun. It amounts to nothing other then grabbing some ass. The reason she isn’t receptive is she just doesn’t see you as attractive. Limit your presence more. | /r/askMRP | 28/04/18 12:35 AM |
| 11 | WARNING wall of text My StoryAre you saying you want to go church on Sunday? Get ice cream cones? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/04/18 12:03 AM |
| 2 | WARNING wall of text My StoryIs that not in there? I’ll correct it. But yes. I’m at DL 11 | /r/MarriedRedPill | 27/04/18 11:27 PM |
| 1 | Cheating/Dread?Just simply end it. | /r/askMRP | 27/04/18 10:54 PM |
| 1 | Cheating/Dread?Not well enough if it’s still going on or you’re doing things to intentionally keep it going. Like black knighting her. Again no judgement but if you are then why come here bitching? See my point? If you’re tired of it and it’s nothing then end it. Your actions should be enough to show your intent. Remember women connect memories to emotions. If you’re making her feel something this memory keeps coming up. | /r/askMRP | 27/04/18 08:43 PM |
| 1 | Cheating/Dread?That interesting point you feel is the tug of frame control going on. Whether she has control or not she’s trying to get it. How you respond to this will define your frame. | /r/askMRP | 27/04/18 08:30 PM |
| 1 | Cheating/Dread?Trust In A Relationship Trust is something given not earned. She can either trust you or not. I’m not going to moralize your decision to have plates while maintaining an exclusive relationship. You dug your ditch there. Actions incongruent with your words. Still she continued with you. Simply put she’s using it as leverage against you. You can either care about it or start showing her that needs to get over it. Most times women will have the same action ie control husbands but will rationalize t… | /r/askMRP | 27/04/18 08:21 PM |
| 2 | My StoryI once thought the same. Like I told Red curious dr maier told me Christianity is the only religion that can be historically proven | /r/RPChristians | 27/04/18 06:20 PM |
| 1 | My StoryIm going to update it. Post it on MRP as well. To your question I’m too spiritual to be an atheist but I can’t see believing in God. As it is I practice Zen though not a Buddhist. | /r/RPChristians | 27/04/18 06:18 PM |
| 1 | My StoryHeh. While I’m not intentionally baiting you it just further makes me wonder. I’ve believed a long time that there is an inherent corruptibility of the faith. I’m not trying to bend your words but just follow. You say you’re in small churches. The current one my wife attends with the kids was as well. Yet over time they heard the mission to expand, to spread the word. In a meeting very short time it tripled the congregation bought more property. It’s quickly on the move to be a very large church… | /r/RPChristians | 27/04/18 05:51 PM |
| 1 | My StoryI won’t disagree. Maybe anymore is never. Being Christian was never a comfort to me. It always felt burdensome. I never felt the joy others claim. To me it felt like more responsibility as does life in general. I feel no different now as I did before. | /r/RPChristians | 27/04/18 05:38 PM |
| 2 | My StoryWhile I don’t claim to have the totality of human experience I’ve yet to find a congregation that could even be considered red pill. Mostly because man is a rationalizing animal. I’d say that there is a small awakening among Christian men. But they’ve yet to truly find a place and make a stamp. | /r/RPChristians | 27/04/18 05:29 PM |
| 1 | My StoryNo one on the other side has written anything to my knowledge but the faith is not red pill. More accurately it acknowledges the red pill assessment of Praxeology. Yet it imposes it’s own philosophy in order to control that praxeology. the faith limits men for the purposes of morality just as it limits women. To be simple about it the faith places the that authority on men. So similar to the hierarchy of love the hierarchy here would be God —-> Man ——> Woman —-> Child It is here where I object. … | /r/RPChristians | 27/04/18 04:54 PM |
| 2 | My StoryBoth. For men marriage is no benefit. I agree completely with red pills idea here. And I’ve seen it play out in other people. As for the faith. It encourages it. Furthermore it’s not my job to fix it. I just choose not to play any more. Either I’m right or it’s not my problem | /r/RPChristians | 27/04/18 03:21 PM |
| 1 | My StoryThe oldest BP. Thought process. She put her time in and sex was there. I disagree with the way Red Pill says she must give it up on demand. It’s more that she should have a sex positive mindset. | /r/RPChristians | 27/04/18 03:11 PM |
| 1 | My StoryNo. I have no intentions to return. I realize I forgot to detail the marriage counseling we did which began to form some my basic feelings on leaving. I owe an update. | /r/RPChristians | 27/04/18 03:09 PM |
| 1 | Properly Shutting the Fuck UpPeople often want to be heard. YOu see it every where. Get your voice out Stand up be counted. All these things make you think. Fuck. Yeah I need to stand and be heard. No. No you don’t. Not everything thought in your head is important. Not everyone’s idea is valid. Most are down right stupid. In my office people will flock to phone conferences. I dn’t relaly know why but the excuse is: I just need to know what’s going on and make sure people understand.... Then they will speak up with the stupi… | /r/askMRP | 27/04/18 07:14 AM |
| 2 | "You're a pervert"You need to keep studying. You’ll find this is typical behavior. You’re nothing special. | /r/askMRP | 27/04/18 12:55 AM |
| 1 | Why I am anti-game and pro godly masculinityExactly. Hypergamy was once kept at bay by masculinity | /r/RPChristians | 26/04/18 10:44 PM |
| 1 | Why I am anti-game and pro godly masculinityYou’re reading too much into my statement. But if we were to bander scripture. Somewhere it talks how we know what is right. We willingly choose otherwise following our base desires. Or something like that. | /r/RPChristians | 26/04/18 10:32 PM |
| 1 | There Are Shitty People In Your LifeI do as well. In some cases it’s omegas. I don’t think it invalidates RP at all. Perhaps an evolution to the next step. Women seek resources for their kids. She will find a male willing to give her that. This doesn’t mean the male is all in on the family thing. Or is even a decent human. She may choose him for a variety of characteristics. I contend it’s essentially because she can control him. Maybe it works. Maybe it doesn’t. Either way this is not the ideal relationship for her and she seeks … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 26/04/18 10:19 PM |
| 2 | Why I am anti-game and pro godly masculinityEven betas have a place. Not every man is capable of being an alpha. So Come on. Make the final leap...... Some women aren’t worth having. Women fall in love with who we are. They then spend their lives trying to change us into who they want. It’s our job to prevent that. | /r/RPChristians | 26/04/18 09:37 PM |
| 1 | Why I am anti-game and pro godly masculinityI guess it doesn’t matter. I studied under Dr Paul Maier. He’s had thousands of students by this time. Ha. | /r/RPChristians | 26/04/18 09:14 PM |
| 2 | Why I am anti-game and pro godly masculinityBrother. Religion or not hypergamy is out of control. It’s the fault of men not following their hearts. Who they are. Women can and do justify a lot even the most godly of them. I haven’t written my story as I said but it matters little when they do not see men as men. Meaning we need to be willing to risk it all for those principles. My undergrad is in early Christianity. My mentor (a world renowned pastor and Christian academic) told me once Christianity is the only religion that be historical… | /r/RPChristians | 26/04/18 09:11 PM |
| 1 | Why I am anti-game and pro godly masculinityThe inverse of your statement is that woman stay with their husbands because they are manipulated to do so. Not because they want to be or attracted. My point is that women stay because of who you are. While it’s true that some are attracted to alpha qualities not all women are attracted to the exact same alpha. Any other thought assumes women are suddenly paralyzed in the presence of two or more alphas. To sum up. I have a distance and direction. I’m moving that way. Women come. Women go. Some … | /r/RPChristians | 26/04/18 08:44 PM |
| 1 | Why I am anti-game and pro godly masculinityYou do that by pointing out it doesn’t exist. Not by giving it validation | /r/RPChristians | 26/04/18 08:38 PM |
| 1 | Why I am anti-game and pro godly masculinityIncorrect. The door is there. No one is stopping you. I keep going. | /r/RPChristians | 26/04/18 08:35 PM |
| 2 | Why I am anti-game and pro godly masculinityMy point is that it’s a long way around the tree to simply say game isn’t godly. Using chivalry as a counter point is akin to a straw man. It literally doesn’t exist. You’re more accurate in saying game is anti romantic love in your final paragraph. Yet I’d contend that game is just a method. Perhaps to those who do not apply moral code to masculine principles but what it does is illustrate the fundamental point that masculinity is what keeps hypergamy in check. I once used the environmental pri… | /r/RPChristians | 26/04/18 07:58 PM |
| 1 | Why I am anti-game and pro godly masculinityI don't understand why we still talk about Chivalry being a thing. The modern idea of chivalry as courtesy to women has weak connections to chivalry. It's closer to courtly love, which was coined to describe the worship of a married noblewoman by a lowly noble or knight. Courtly love is adultery. Real chivalry was code of conduct in battle and obtaining fame and fortune in the name of their king and without any display of cowardice. How this is connected to game and everything I haven't a clue. … | /r/RPChristians | 26/04/18 06:33 PM |
| 2 | Did i go Rambo?here's your guide (it took me 2 minutes to find these). Newbies: No, your wife doesn't "comfort test" you. Comfort tests and attachment theory How to distinguish between a shit test and comfort test. Bluepillprofessor's 5th Video/Podcast: Comfort Tests, Alpha, Beta, Omega and Oaks My first comfort test that I knew was real Theory The Shit-Comfort Continuum | /r/askMRP | 26/04/18 06:16 PM |
| 1 | Did i go Rambo?You didn't rambo you were just ignorant of what your wife was saying. With In laws there it could be she looked for support from you on something and failed. Look back make sure you didn't fail a comfort test to get this shitty shit test. Either way though it should have gone something like this. HER you don't care about my feelings. ME (get close) of course i do. HER You don't support me (already I picture pigtails, pouty lip and she just shrunk to a 12 year old level...oh and she stamped her f… | /r/askMRP | 26/04/18 05:15 PM |
| 1 | Alpha bitch and her minions at work got me firedYou failed 48 Laws more than anything. no matter what you did it would have happened this way. You primarily failed to see how much control the boss woman had over the group. Her influence. Key rule of any manager is to make friends with IT and HR. Once you have to going and favors are exchanged then you can make shit happen. Do better next time. | /r/askTRP | 26/04/18 02:25 PM |
| 12 | Questions from a newbie: Shit test or something else?No. No. I am not going to answer your simple question. Do some damn research. Here's your homework. THEN come back and ask a better question. here's your guide (it took me 2 minutes to find these). Newbies: No, your wife doesn't "comfort test" you. Comfort tests and attachment theory How to distinguish between a shit test and comfort test. Bluepillprofessor's 5th Video/Podcast: Comfort Tests, Alpha, Beta, Omega and Oaks My first comfort test that I knew was real Theory The Shit-Comfort Continuum | /r/askMRP | 26/04/18 02:20 PM |
| 1 | I've lost all interest in women.No. The clouds can be white and perfect or black and stormy. The sky just watches them pass by. No matter what the clouds are the sky is unchanged. It knows the weather. it isn’t the weather. | /r/askMRP | 26/04/18 12:32 PM |
| 2 | There Are Shitty People In Your LifeWell when you’re blue pill yes. But back then if she didn’t she was out. I wasn’t alpha so much as didn’t waste my time. I believe that men can have some alpha traits and still not be self actualized. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 26/04/18 10:48 AM |
| 4 | "You're a pervert"I don't normally come out of the gate and say this.... but this isn't going to end well. I know because your shrew is just like mine. I don't have the same issues as you, not even close, but mine has wrapped her belief in how a marriage is supposed be that she can't even see reality any more. The hysterical bonding you are creating is temporary. At some point she will stop even that and someone (her mom, a friend) will tell her to stand her ground. I guarantee she has a cheerleader rooting her o… | /r/askMRP | 26/04/18 10:05 AM |
| 2 | How did you get here and what are you going to do about it ?“there is nothing outside of yourself that can ever enable you to get better, stronger, richer, quicker, or smarter. Everything is within. Everything exists. Seek nothing outside of yourself.” ~Miyamoto Musashi That book? Now I see why you have so messed up. That book is rooted in wrong thinking really. Years and years ago when my little shrew decided I was the issue in the marriage she decided we needed counseling. I was BP as fuck so sure. Let's go. Short of it is that the guy kept saying my p… | /r/askMRP | 26/04/18 09:10 AM |
| 1 | How did you get here and what are you going to do about it ?AskMRP mods should ban this guy already. I suggested that a month ago. Decision was.....he's a lesson to others. Can't disagree, but when your kid keeps taking heroin and isn't taking seriously you just have to let them go. | /r/askMRP | 26/04/18 08:37 AM |
| 2 | Wife threatening to ban me from son's birthIf you do you know where to get advice. | /r/askMRP | 25/04/18 05:27 PM |
| 3 | Successful Marriage is a not a MythLook at his post history and his comment below. This is link bait. it should be deleted. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 25/04/18 03:25 PM |
| 2 | I've lost all interest in women.have an upvote | /r/askMRP | 25/04/18 11:33 AM |
| 2 | I've lost all interest in women.I like a good tight squat ass. | /r/askMRP | 25/04/18 11:31 AM |
| 1 | I've lost all interest in women.fucker. now that song is in my head. | /r/askMRP | 25/04/18 11:26 AM |
| 3 | I've lost all interest in women.funny thing is he's been monk mode for months now. It's still primarily validation seeking behavior he's engaged in. Though I want to think that this is the first that it's coming to his realization. Time will tell. | /r/askMRP | 25/04/18 11:25 AM |
| 2 | What do you think of this? Incel being blamed for Toronto Attack...I am working on something that talks to this. But I will say part of it here. Incel or not isn't really the issue. This is a problem of society. Human beings don't just decide one day to kill someone. It takes serious thought, consideration to think, plan, and execute that strategy. There is study going on this area.. Even soldiers and police don't just take aim and end someone. The vast majority do not. A few can and do. So while I am not comparing soldiers and cops to this or any other mass ki… | /r/askMRP | 25/04/18 10:33 AM |
| 5 | I've lost all interest in women.Steve, I want to say you have it. Yet there are some validation things said that concern me. For one you have to mention you Tinder account and your ex GF. Still I can absolutely relate to where you are. /u/screechhater has it. Sometimes women just want to exist in emotion. Bad good. It really doesn't matter. Yet here is the bridge you have yet to cross. You have to enjoy it. Why should their agenda matter? Men have an agenda. Men want sex. Women want relationships. Where we intersect is where t… | /r/askMRP | 25/04/18 10:27 AM |
| 2 | Wife threatening to ban me from son's birthTrue masterpieces. And while I hate to quote the matrix. It’s true. Once you see through it everything is easy. My sensei often says he has a hard time seeing the difference between martial art styles. It’s all the same to him. It’s all movement. All I see any more is behavior. Masculine and feminine behavior. | /r/askMRP | 25/04/18 08:32 AM |
| 4 | Wife threatening to ban me from son's birthSeriously felt like it. Fuck he’s been infecting me the longer I walk this path. Dude was some next level savant. There are times when I’m more inclined to just link his stuff then even bother with my own. Some even think Jack is Pook come back. | /r/askMRP | 24/04/18 10:02 PM |
| 2 | I just read this story about a man losing his wife and it made me think about how TRP may not be the way I want to live my life...You need to remember men are the romantics. Women are not. Oddly women when it comes to relationships are very practical. I guarantee she isn’t thinking that nor would she if it were the other way around. She may be at his side but out of loyalty. It’s fine if this is what you want. But you need to earn it regardless. Odds are the man in that story worked his balls off for his life and enjoyed every minute of it. | /r/askTRP | 24/04/18 09:35 PM |
| 1 | Should I break rule 1/2?All I will say is that there was a toilet plunger, condom, and 3 feet of intestines removed. | /r/askMRP | 24/04/18 05:37 PM |
| 3 | Whats next ?clearly you haven't done much because no is always an option. | /r/askMRP | 24/04/18 05:33 PM |
| 1 | Should I break rule 1/2?Well....as a paramedic I can tell you how it comes up. but no. You'd have to buy me a few whiskeys before I could tell those stories. | /r/askMRP | 24/04/18 05:32 PM |
| 3 | Wife threatening to ban me from son's birthI think you actually believe this is all your fault? I get the whole "relatioiinsihp is a reflection of me" mantra but this is some bullshit. Look at you. You don't listen to her as much? There are bona fide alphas here that don't listen to thier wives unless they are screaming thier names in ecstasy. And you are dragging your dick around like you should be at her beck and call. Jesus. if your drink analysis is right.... I know some real alcoholics and they are now where near you. And thier wive… | /r/askMRP | 24/04/18 04:21 PM |
| 1 | The Instinctual ProcessNot every one is going to develop the same way. That's why the journey is the same the path is different. Using his martial arts example everyone has a flinch response. It differs from person to person but everyone has it. As /u/markpf73 said it takes training to reduce the "flash to bang". Professional fighters have reduced it to mere nano seconds so it is no longer visible. Soldiers drill to reduce it. Even still in the realm of relationships you can meet someone who will test a well proven fl… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/04/18 04:13 PM |
| 9 | Wife threatening to ban me from son's birthWell first I need to know what you did. You don't post here much just poke your head in and ask a question every now and again. She hates you? Reading your post history that's throughout your story. Now I am not even going to address your mental state and things you may have done to cause it. but you need to be here more getting involved, taking your lumps for being a weak mother fucker. DO you realize how much energy it takes to hate someone? Seriously do you? Hatred is not normal. Apathy is. L… | /r/askMRP | 24/04/18 03:33 PM |
| 2 | Oldest Child in the House - Needs > Wantsbratty wife bratty? ugh. I love it when she gets bratty. Bitchy? That's a whole other deal. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/04/18 01:00 PM |
| 5 | How to respond to this kind of shit test?3 months? The only proper response is no response with a long black out on communication. Maybe a whole day. I would be more concerned about your phrasing of "trying to hold frame". What gives there. | /r/askTRP | 24/04/18 11:18 AM |
| 1 | Ex talking behind my backwomen are perception based. while they hold on to memories it's only when they are tied to children or emotion. So if you've not given her emotions she will likely wonder what the other girl was bitching about. Besides...why does it matter what they think? | /r/askTRP | 24/04/18 11:08 AM |
| 3 | Men of TRP, what prompted you to finally stop giving a fuck?The day I realized it's all bullshit. Every last bit of it. I get AWALT, hypergamy, solipsism....all that. Doesn't matter. I have a distance and a direction. I am moving out. She can be there or not. Some one always is. Laugh at her Smirk at myself. It's all bullshit in the end. | /r/askTRP | 24/04/18 11:06 AM |
| 3 | Different question for you allsell it to her. she might need it for the next simp. | /r/askMRP | 24/04/18 11:01 AM |
| 1 | Should I break rule 1/2?pegging isn't hard enough? And how exactly do you tell another guy this? Jesus. | /r/askMRP | 24/04/18 10:59 AM |
| 1 | Should I break rule 1/2?I used to tell people no. It never works out and usually drives them further towards the blue. But.....do what you want. You will any way. He can listen or it's not your problem. | /r/askMRP | 24/04/18 10:59 AM |
| 3 | Oldest Child in the House - Needs > WantsExcellent. For added information I found this golden oldie that marries nicely with this. BP/RP Thought Patterns | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/04/18 10:57 AM |
| 1 | Pass or fail these shit/ compliance test?women don't like telling you where they are going. Your actions lead her actions. Still she may think its you controlling her if she "has" to give up where she is going and doing. but...that's a different lesson. | /r/askMRP | 23/04/18 03:05 PM |
| 1 | Pass or fail these shit/ compliance test?Understanding Your Women Leading a Woman Who Doesn't Want To Be Lead | /r/askMRP | 23/04/18 02:40 PM |
| 2 | Pass or fail these shit/ compliance test?First and foremost her trust issues are hers. They will always be hers. The "trust issue" is designed to keep you forever working to earn trust. Here's a secret. You don't earn it. Trust is given until it isn't any more. She can trust you or not. There's nothing you can do about it. Even the phrase "I have trust issues" reeks of it. Yes. YOU do have trust issues. So...really. What was the problem in telling her you were going to pick up your sister? | /r/askMRP | 23/04/18 10:42 AM |
| 8 | Help! I’m an emotional cheatI have as much effort as you have | /r/askMRP | 22/04/18 03:28 AM |
| 8 | Help! I’m an emotional cheatwhat the fuck do you want us to do? Give you permission to divorce? To fuck other women? Tell your wife you're sorry. Do the dishes. Gather some laundry. I hear that words great to improve any situation. | /r/askMRP | 22/04/18 02:49 AM |
| 1 | Why we do this for ourselves....The day I realized I had accepted all Red Pill had to offer is the day I realized hypergamy, solipsism, AF/BB, IOIs, LMNOP, all of it... was bullshit. Yeah yeah yeah I get it. But I also don't care. I am moving that way. She can follow or not. Doesn't change a thing. Laugh at her Make fun of myself It's all bullshit in the end. | /r/askMRP | 22/04/18 12:49 AM |
| 6 | Funny how I see it everywhere now...especially movies.Once you see it you can't unsee it. I get far more enjoyment going t a pub and watching the dance unfold. | /r/askMRP | 22/04/18 12:46 AM |
| 1 | I’m missing something obvious and I’m blind to itYou misunderstood. Allow me introduce myself. I’m Chad. I’m fucking your wife. Don’t mistake my kindness for weakness or concern. I’m telling you these things because I’ve seen men who literally cannot leave their wife. They are completely dependent on them. They make zero dollars due to debt, addictions, or inability. You can leave. You don’t want to. | /r/askMRP | 19/04/18 07:42 PM |
| 3 | I’m missing something obvious and I’m blind to itTLDR. I don't do TLDR because they are for last people but in your case I want to put it out there. I agree with /u/88Will88 Divorce. Realize you have a shitty person in your life. You have no kids. There's no reason to stay if it's like this. Leave while you still have some semblance of manhood left. What is below is not designed to keep your marriage because I think it's fucked. She's a shitty person. What the rest is for you to grow and not get into this situation again. I don’t fault her for… | /r/askMRP | 19/04/18 10:44 AM |
| 3 | Men are horny. Women are bored.The fact that you have to make a special call out about covert contracts merely illustrates that fact that you wrote a large covert contract. Sex/Women ARE not the mission | /r/MarriedRedPill | 18/04/18 02:47 PM |
| 5 | Your one word can change everything. Here is a story.people ask me if studying a martial art is hard. My answer is almost always yes. But not why you think. it takes a certain mindset to stay focused during training. But you have to develop it. No one is born with it. It can't be given to you. Getting to black belt is a long time. And even then few stick around to make 2nd Degree or higher. think about this way: You had a hard day at work. your morning was just awful. Not enough coffee, traffic made you late, rapid deadlines and demands stacked up… | /r/askTRP | 18/04/18 02:40 PM |
| 28 | Beware of TRP's trap.Women/Sex are not the mission. They are the outcome/the result. Normally when Red Pill talks of Betas, they really mean Omegas. Beta sounds soooo much more cringe worthy, that and it should get you motivated (ie Wha? I am not beta. I'll prove it). Betas get sex. They do. They don't get it for the reasons they think, the frequency, nor the sex with whom and the way THEY want. But they do get sex. This is why sex isn't the mission. It's already proven that you can buy it, go find some girl who wil… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/04/18 02:25 PM |
| 2 | Update to my previous postShe called me asking me to come home earlier so she could take care of some things. Yep. Add this to it. She may have left to tell Chad he knows. Time to go underground for a bit. | /r/askMRP | 18/04/18 12:21 PM |
| 2 | Econ 101 vs Econ 202I really have no idea what any of this means. To begin it's been said that the beta we vilify here is really an omega. A beta has some hope of turning things around in his lifetime. There is no hope for an omega. They are truly hopeless. Women fuck betas. They do. Betas in life are necessary. A true beta is the reverse of an alpha. While an Alpha can and does exhibit some beta traits to get what he wants, a beta will exhibit some alpha in order to get achieve his ends. Still the things that are … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 18/04/18 11:55 AM |
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