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236	The best seduction books (you probably haven't read)		lonerboner123	/r/seduction	16/02/19 11:32 AM
5	How do I start approaching? Major approach anxiety 20 year old dude		lonerboner123	/r/seduction	12/12/18 05:43 AM

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1	RP bros who've had / have mental health problems and take medication for it (esp ADHD, anxiety, depression), what's your experience with it? I've been down that road (tried tons of meds, medicated myself, read dozens of books, therapy, etc.). Overall, the effect of medication is negligable unless combined with therapy, even with the strongest meds such as amphetamines and tranquilizers. Seriously, go see a doctor AND sign up for psychotherapy. I decided I didn't need meds/therapy and it to lead to self medicating for me that was shooting meth.	/r/askTRP	16/06/19 06:21 PM
1	Does being fit attract more women? Hey so you are, from an evolutionary psychology perspective, categorically wrong. The only time looks may play a more significant role is in the alpha beta theory of how humans pair (women cucking beta men with alpha kids), but even then its generally agreed upon that looms are just as correlating to career success as they are with long and short term mate pairing for women (which is to say moderately important). However, status is always more important.	/r/askTRP	07/06/19 05:42 PM
1	How does gender ratio affect hypergamy? The answers on here have no source and are mostly black pilled as fuck (aka looks are all that matter). Read the book datonomics if you want an actual answer. Heres what i got out of it though: -When there's equal gender ratios, there's an equal amount of casual sex and serious relationships. Average or above marriage/divorce stats. -with more men than women, there is better than average marriage and divorce rates. Women may be more likely to cheat (not studied but speculated), but studies show …	/r/askTRP	11/05/19 04:16 AM
1	Lets talk about cheating I would agree with you, but when studies show that (in America) 50% of married men and 30% of married women admit to physically cheating on their spouses its clear we have opposing instincts sexually and all probably have the propensity to cheat given the right/wrong circumstance. And by the way before you take the study at face value I think the reality is women cheat just as much as men (around 50%) but are able to hamster wheel or redefine the boundaries of cheating in their favor.	/r/askTRP	11/05/19 03:59 AM
1	I'm unable to function as a human being any longer - Debilitating Anxiety Dude you're normal. I literally talked to a dude about a month ago who came to me and had such debilitating anxiety he could barely speak and was stoic to the point of being catatonic. He thought people could read his mind and that he was permanently damaged from using too much LSD in high school (he even said he used to be the class clown). I told him (this is true) that ive been there. I was so isolated and using so many drugs that my sendse of human interaction was lost. Socializing is a skil…	/r/askTRP	11/05/19 03:47 AM
7	Getting monkey branched to feels kinda gross Sadly I have a feeling this might not do shit. Ive seen dudes and chicks put up with some retarded shit because of their denial and oneitis.	/r/askTRP	11/05/19 03:31 AM
1	Weird feeling inside. I want to dump my GF after she said this to me... Bro you don't need to dump her. Who says dudes cant branch swing? Keep her around if she's a good lay, support, etc. She must be serving some purpose for you. But also don't not invest in another, better chick cuz you have her. If you think she would leave you at the drop of a hat for a better man, you're probably right.... So leave that bitch once a better bitch comes. Dumping her would be weak shit, why deprive yourself of pussy and be lonely when you can beat the bitch at her own game and bra…	/r/askTRP	04/05/19 10:51 PM
1	Girls seem nervous around me I will. I do indeed feel that I have an odd vibe. I recently got sober, drugs left me with some great stories but a bit socially unaware.	/r/seduction	09/03/19 02:22 AM
1	Girls seem nervous around me Thanks for the advice. I think I have a resting bitch face (which I actively try to counteract) but the "neg" kind of humor does not fair well for me.	/r/seduction	09/03/19 12:53 AM
1	NO RESULTS AND HUNDREDS OF APPROACHES..... Also mad props on approaching. I just turned 21 and I look forward to doing some approaches. Any advice for someone who tends to get nervous/afraid of rejection? I have success in my social circle and tinder (easy mode), but I feel like true freedom of choice comes from cold approaches.	/r/seduction	05/03/19 08:43 PM
3	NO RESULTS AND HUNDREDS OF APPROACHES..... If you ask me, you're showing your intent too soon. That's the beauty of teasing and being a bit cocky, it doesn't show that you wanna get in her pants but rather makes you the prize. Any frame where you're chasing her, at least initially, may be causing this.	/r/seduction	04/03/19 10:10 PM
1	Don't Take Dating Advice from Women I agree mostly, however the only challenge to that is women's descriptions of their signals to men they are attracted to, also known as IOIs. Most men (except people in the game who are very good at reading IOIs like mystery for example), are infamously bad at "not taking the hint." I really like mystery's quote that "if you're wondering whether you should kiss her, you could have 10 minutes ago." The only really useful books I've read by women about seduction is the signals they give when they …	/r/seduction	04/03/19 10:03 PM
1	The best seduction books (you probably haven't read) On a fundamental level, yes. You cant run routines without good nonverbal skills, but with good nonverbal rapport a "natural" doesnt need routines. I find that once I started focusing on the nonverbal aspect, the rest comes much more easily.	/r/seduction	17/02/19 07:44 AM
6	The best seduction books (you probably haven't read) Perper's book as well as the ones by Lowndes basically have no PUA garbage, and no pickup lines. In fact, Perper discusses the hilarity in the fact the the "opening line" is of almost no importance" if body language is on point, and no opening line can save someone with bad body language.	/r/seduction	16/02/19 10:58 PM
14	The best seduction books (you probably haven't read) He spent over 2000 hours observing couples, in bar type settings mostly (due to the rapid level of intimacy which would normally take place over weeks). The most basic info/summary is that ALL "seductions" have components that stack consecutively as intimacy progresses. When he saw a man or woman innocently forget one of these steps, he knew they weren't going to go home together or go out again. 1. Non verbal signals. Like most mammals, women send the first signals up to 90% of the time by somw…	/r/seduction	16/02/19 10:55 PM
2	Do you ever open up to your women? Can you tell her about your secrets without turning her off? The greatest seducers in history all have one thing in common, they love women. They are vulnerable, sometimes professing their undying love for them. This may be a stretch of the truth as most seducers love many women, but it is also pretty much 100% authentic because they love all women, and all the women they seduce. Creating her fantasy, being her ideal lover, even doing as youre saying and refusing to share your vulnerabilities with her because she might view you as lesser than, has an unde…	/r/seduction	16/02/19 06:31 AM
1	Stopping girl from escalation If she was all over you (and you must have been all over her up to that point by accepting and returning her gestures), turning it around and flat out denying her escalations will result in a complete cease of interactions. She may have felt rejected, or worse, she responded to your direct game very well and and by wanting her to "be all over you" (which she was) by denying her with indirection, you may have come off as either uninterested, unconfident, or dishonest in your motives. But who know…	/r/seduction	16/01/19 06:49 AM