I notice that a lot of girls are attracted to me. I even can converse well with women, but nothing gives me more anxiety than approaching/initiating a relationship. I would also like to mention I was medicating myself during most of my early relationships. I havent ever had sober sex, or really done anything sober for the past five years. Now im a couple months sober and its like FUCK. (ive only had 4 gfs, and none of them lasted long. Wed have sex, but they would end because I couldnt be vulnerable). How do i start approaching women who I feel are attractive, and that I notice may be attracted to me? Telling myself to nut up has never worked.