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Let it out sis! That was very cold of him, but know that you are not the problem! Think of your very close friends and ask yourself if they would describe you the same way: drama queen/angry/on edge whatever! I bet you they wouldn't! I dealt with the same type of shitty guy, and right after the break up I felt like I was reeling a bit. Now, after time has passed, I feel like I breathe easier and I am feeling like myself again :) It sucks to hear the person you care about say things like that, an…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 07:11 PM
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I am fucking DYING over here 😂😂😂😂 This guy hahaha 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 07:03 AM
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Nothing will distrub your peace and happiness more than a guy who is incertain about the way he feels about you. I can tell you from experience, staying and pursuing some thing with an emotionally unavailable guy is like pouring your love into a black hole. Your love and effort will not be reciprocated, and you will just be uneasy and worry about the disconnect you feel. I'm proud of you for standing your ground, recognizing the bs and saying NO. Keep saying to yourself, "No means no, and I say …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 04:32 AM
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I agree, narcissists will tell you whatever you want to hear. I would advise ask a few of these every so often early on. As time goes on and you are still with them because they are passing your thorough vetting process, ask them the same questions. See what their answer is... If at 4-6 months they aren't replying with the same answer they used at month 1 or 2, then dump him. Did the narrative change? How is their tone this time? Did they get meaner? More inconsiderate? Disrespectful? Leave them…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 06:03 AM
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hahaha This reminds me of the last screenshot I took from OLD and sent to a friend. Maybe you wiser women can have fun decoding it for the young ones. He literally had a pro/con list and it looked something like: PRO: •Father to an amazing pup •Grills a mean steak •Never skips leg day •Don't take myself too seriously. CON: (hahaha Yes, he left the con section blank 😂😂 My friends were laughing like hell at the audacity!!)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 08:39 PM
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e.g. Opening doors for you on the first date, fast forward 5 months and they never open a damn door because they're too busy walking ahead of you. 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 06:44 PM
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Can attest to this. MONTHS later I realized my boyfriend (now ex) was a monster.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 06:42 PM
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Why does she send him nudes? TO FIX HIS FUCKING ISSUES?? WHY ARE WOMEN DOING THIS TO THEMSELVES??? SHE IS WORTH SO MUCH MORE THAN HIS PATHETIC DICK PROBLEMS! If anyone tells you anything EVER, about your body/ looks, fucking leave their ass! There he is, with his receding hairline, nonexistent manscaping, and dirty sheets, telling her shit about her looks
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 06:08 PM
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Yes yes yes! I'm so happy you are choosing YOU from here on out!! Not all guys are into that freaky shit and screw those guys that try to manipulate and tell women that "great" sex is SUPPOSED to be a little bit painful or uncomfortable 🙄 Tell them all to gtfo and you know what yes I want me some amazing gentle vanilla sex so please excuse yourself and go have sex with your right hand. 👋🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 06:41 AM
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Had a woman once joke with me if I was off my game because I wasn't getting laid since I dumped my ex. I told her no I don't miss that. She took that as meaning I wasn't a sexual person and told me, "We are waaayyy different. I'd rather have bad sex than no sex." And she thought it was the cool girl response, like I would think it made her better because oh wow she was getting some dick. I simply told her yeah we are different. I LOVE sex, but I love hot, passionate, fingers-gripping-the-sheets-…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 06:18 AM
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I felt this post. It sucks so much. From what life has taught me there is always joy walking alongside pain, so I'm hoping good things will be coming your way soon. Hang in there, and thank you for being an awesome human being and sticking things out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 07:35 AM
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Good on you! This pos couldn't even handle sitting through a difficult conversation with you. Imagine if you were still with this garbage and having to handle actual life challenges? You could never rely on someone like that. Glad you now have room to live a happier life without him. For YOUR sake, erase him from your life. I mean it. Pictures, messages, contact info, social media. They don't deserve to know anything about you and you certainly don't want their shitty, fake ass personalities on …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 09:45 PM
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I wish you all could just knock some sense into my friend about following her ex's Instagram/Facebook etc. 🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 06:05 PM
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Yet he's too much of a coward to be honest 🙄 I've gotta ask...how did it end? Did he ever end up breaking up with you or did you just take the silence as a break up?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 06:02 PM
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LOL! Maybe we all did! Or maybe we've just dated...men... either way I'm glad to be rid of the garbage! 😂 For those of you that might be unsure, here are some other very subtle examples of gaslighting that might not be as obvious as the "You're crazy" bs... "You never take the blame for anything" "You're always in a mood" "I already apologized GEEZ" "No one would ever associate that interpretation with what I said" "Maybe I minimize something, but you seem to maximize everything" Ugh I'm getting…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 02:20 AM
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Same to you and all of the other women on here! 💝
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 02:19 AM
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PREACH 👏🏼 GIRL 👏🏼PREACH👏🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/20 06:09 PM
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I'm so sorry you're going through this right now ❤ That is not okay!! Have you read the "Break Up Survival Guide" pinned in the FDS handbook? Please give it a read if you haven't yet. Also I know it's really hard, but I promise you you will get past this if you put in the work and do some homework in the mean time. And when you're having a really bad day, tell yourself that's okay to be struggling, but one day you won't even feel this anymore. And you look forward to the day that you are so move…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/20 06:06 PM
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My ex would say the same shit. I didn't know what gaslighting was at the time, all I knew is that his comments left me totally confused; none of my closest friends (who have seen me through a lot of shit) would ever describe me as an angry person. But the thing about gaslighting is it can be so subtle, so the manipulation WORKS. I'm always telling other women, if your SO's comments are leaving you confused or you have weird feelings about something. LEAVE THEM. You might not have the vocabulary …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/20 05:46 PM
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This is SO REAL. My ex was seemingly charming at first, but that masked slipped. Here are some examples of the bs my ex would say: "You don't really have to train today, just ditch it and hang out with me." After I told him I'm very serious about training and focusing on it so I can start competing. "What's your research in again? My parents asked me when I told them about you but I actually didn't really know." When I definitely told him what the hell I'm studying and why. Asshole just didn't c…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 07:38 PM
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