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cramerrules/r/Divorce_Men29/02/24 03:04 AM
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cramerrules/r/Divorce_Men03/03/24 02:50 AM
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Love it ! Karma
/r/Divorce_Men04/03/24 01:45 AM
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Thanks yes each situation is different - for some families that have stayed decade or more it makes the home very very personal
/r/Divorce_Men03/03/24 04:24 PM
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Love it ! Our home is paid off and I love my home, I paid every single $.01 on it so wife’s contribution is $0. But I know the courts side with women when it comes to home and kids , still have a middle schooler with few more years before they turn 18.
/r/Divorce_Men03/03/24 02:16 PM
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One thing that really bothers me with all these stories is how easily women are getting the family homes . A home is the single most important safety net any human can have and women know that well but the pain of a divorce should be felt both sides . If you don’t have young Children the home needs to be sold off , period . If children are involved , ageee to sell it off when they turn 18 and move out . I think the court cannot force you to give the home permanently and while we all love our chi…
/r/Divorce_Men03/03/24 12:28 AM
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Fire to frying pan
/r/Divorce_Men01/03/24 10:16 PM
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Tried that - she realized a few times but keeps going back to status quo . So not much help . At times she acknowledges her family is difficult but she does nothing to change it
/r/Divorce_Men01/03/24 10:06 PM
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Agree
/r/Divorce_Men01/03/24 03:08 PM
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Thank you - i can and have stood up to that but what’s the point inviting someone to your home to show them the ugliness - not worth the battle and not a battle that anyone wins
/r/Divorce_Men29/02/24 04:38 PM
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Haha not sure , I chose my battles too but at times I have let my self respect me compromised for peace - sorry not happening anymore
/r/Divorce_Men29/02/24 01:18 PM
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Thank you for sharing - seems like my Mil 😂 - I think my in-laws won’t change but I can and after 20 years I have decided that I got nothing to do with them . I don’t want to see or talk to them and if my wife wants to do that it has to be without me
/r/Divorce_Men29/02/24 01:02 PM
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Thank you - on the financials she earns about 1/3 of me and I earn pretty well so money is not the issue . It’s the ability to contribute towards common good and the home . Her argument is she cooks and does kitchen so if she contributes then I need to cook 1/3. Now I do order food more than a few times for kids each month or week and I could help with cooking too but I know she is just deflecting the finances with all these excuses and demands
/r/Divorce_Men29/02/24 11:19 AM
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Well said , while you would expect the in-laws have the maturity to handle themselves and provide good advice , in reality they don’t . But the real issue is not them but my wife . She should act like an adult , see their transgressions when that happens, and be a wife first . I have none to blame but her as my only expectations in this matter are with her not with my in-laws
/r/Divorce_Men29/02/24 11:00 AM
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Planning to finally do that this year . His behavior is passive aggressive not necessary verbal aggressive . But I have had enough . The reason I have been tolerating this is my parents are old and my wife will shut them from our home if I shut her family - but I think I have reached that point . Kids are grown up have their own lives and I can always visit my parents myself . Not taking more BS
/r/Divorce_Men29/02/24 10:49 AM
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Without kids in the mix I agree
/r/Divorce_Men29/02/24 03:22 AM
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Kids will come around some day , karma is a bitch. Most kids realize what you did for then when they graduate and enter true adult life . Hang in there brother
/r/Divorce_Men29/02/24 03:13 AM
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