| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 602 | The level of mental gymnastics here | PICKME CULTURE | cranesinspace | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 01:25 AM |
| 116 | Fighting for her queen pickmeisha status 🤢 | PICKMEISHA HALL OF FAME | cranesinspace | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/20 12:14 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 94 | The level of mental gymnastics here100%, seems not in their world though | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 02:12 AM |
| 223 | The level of mental gymnastics hereShe is indeed. I just watched in disbelief from the “nagging” to hugging shorts cause he might not come home? And all the comments obviously love it and share how much they appreciate that they get to clean up after their husbands. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 02:02 AM |
| 3 | What should you do when you can't trust your own intuition?100% | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/21 10:27 PM |
| 60 | What should you do when you can't trust your own intuition?I think our intuition is never misguided - after all if you truly listened to it you wouldn’t actually get into the bad relationships in the first place, our intuition is something we are taught to ignore all the time, and we squash it down routinely. To be fair there is something to be said about re-learning attraction when it used to function on a rollercoaster, hot-and-cold, trauma bond basis, yes. But I will be damned if I’m gonna settle for someone just cause they’re nice and I can barely g… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/21 07:08 PM |
| 36 | Dating your friend is okay in the FDS strategy book?I think the only danger I find with dating people I know like that is I’ve always gave them way more lee-way than I’d ever allow a “stranger”, and it’s a lot harder to block, delete and move on. So guess just remember the FDS rules and don’t cut him a break just because you know him and remember what you’re worth | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/21 04:48 PM |
| 32 | What is it about video games that I, and many others, find so repulsive?Absolutely. I game - sometimes I get sucked into it for hours, it happens, but it doesn’t become my entire life all year round. It’s something I enjoy amongst other things, comes and goes in phases, to de-stress and enjoy amazing stories and worlds and a bit of escapism from the mess of this world. They seem to take it to a whole new level, it’s all a competition and the echo chambers are so toxic, I don’t really touch online multiplayer games and especially don’t even think of entertaining voic… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/21 01:14 AM |
| 2 | Single fathers will date women for free child care. Don’t let a man dictate which car you buy because they don’t want their child in it. This woman needs to 🏃♀️Same! And so many comments doing mental gymnastics to excuse it as being anything but him wanting a free nanny | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/21 03:41 AM |
| 116 | Scrote goes to brothel and gets serviced by his obviously miserable friend. Reports on reddit for awards and mostly pats on the back.That supposed reply is the fakest thing I’ve seen in my life, their imagination is WILD | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 01:16 AM |
| 28 | He really thought he did somethingHer laugh fills me with pure joy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/21 03:02 PM |
| 4 | Fighting for her queen pickmeisha status 🤢Guess you can be glad you’ve opened your eyes? I’ve done many things in my life I wish I could take back with men that didn’t deserve it one bit... can only move forwards tho! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/20 11:42 PM |
| 10 | Fighting for her queen pickmeisha status 🤢Probably true, it’s mad how far these things go though, even if it’s just putting on a show for money... and also so telling about guys who fall for this shit and who really fantasise about this, they’re honestly deluded. Like when that streamer girl mentioned she’s got a boyfriend and she instantly drop thousands of followers... like do they really think they have a chance? That any of this shit is real? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/20 11:41 PM |
| 15 | Fighting for her queen pickmeisha status 🤢Legit, they’ve gone and played themselves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/20 11:38 PM |
| 29 | Fighting for her queen pickmeisha status 🤢It’s this whole fantasy where the woman is feeble, vulnerable and child like while still being a slut for that one guys... gross | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/20 11:37 PM |
| 10 | For all the single ladies.. what's your favorite part about being single?This is a small thing, but - having all of the bed to myself and sleeping in peace 👌 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/20 05:53 PM |
| 20 | Another 40+ LVM for your pleasure.. as fun as it is to scour my past screenshots for you ladies this is just depressing and remind me why I'm so happy to be off the apps!That’s the result of years and years of conditioning. I’m the exact same. It takes time to shift, don’t be too hard on yourself, just try to choose differently next times ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 09:32 PM |
| 47 | Another 40+ LVM for your pleasure.. as fun as it is to scour my past screenshots for you ladies this is just depressing and remind me why I'm so happy to be off the apps!I especially love how with that wall of text he never actually said anything specific to you... after all we all know that all we are are meat suits, as long as they’re pretty that’s all that matters. He probably just copy pastes it and hopes for the best. I also keep the screenshots to remind me why I’m staying far away from OLD! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 09:21 PM |
| 42 | How Did YOU discover FDS, and what convinced you to follow its principles?I found it through somebody calling this a crazy place on some other subreddit, I went in full I ready to judge and laugh and cringe, but I was after 2 rounds of fuckbois breaking my heart and in the midst of OLD, and the more I read the more it made sense. I was tired of the disrespect from the men I was dating and myself, and tired of my pickmeisha behaviour cause it always left me devastated and ashamed. So I kept reading and thought this place isn’t so crazy after all, and honestly don’t reg… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 02:57 PM |
| 1 | Realized why I was so obsessed with him.I know the struggle. The only thing I can advise is to get the hell out and shift focus back to yourself, you’re spending a lot of energy on him right now, even when you’re just thinking about how does he not care just like that. It’s hard but we’ve got to bring the focus on ourselves, our lives and how to move forward. Also shifting from the victim mentality, and working on building ourselves up. Give yourself time to feel through it, yes, but then comes a time to think about how can you live y… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 10:10 AM |
| 8 | Realized why I was so obsessed with him.God, have we been with the same guy?! That’s the part that really does a number on your brain, you have nowhere to turn to because everyone else says they’re so amazing, and you’ll come out as the crazy one if you try to say otherwise. The thing about men is it does not matter how they are in any part of their life, they can still be absolute trash with women when it comes to relationships! I’ve met men who I thought are the sweetest and the most innocent, only to find out they string girls alon… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 09:39 AM |
| 11 | Twin flames, soulmates, Plutonic relationships and other Pickme bs pushed by the astrological communityThis is why I always stick with myself in astrology, I use it as a tool for retrospection and reflection on myself. Sometimes motivation as well to get shit done and instill some self belief when I’m feeling low, but I stay as far away from the relationship stuff as possible because it always just perpetuates the cycle of staying in toxic situations and relationships and keeps you in the mindset of a pickmeisha. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 10:31 AM |
| 12 | Making me go to a male OB/GYNIt’s totally ok for you to feel uncomfortable, you decide who gets to see your body especially when it comes to intimate care. I always preferred women I heard such awful stories about men, even when they do get the job done their treatment is so unacceptable and unprofessional yet everyone keeps excusing it because they do the job. When it comes to your health it’s so important to feel safe and comfortable, and more over respected, for you and your choices. If my choice was disregarded like tha… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/20 05:04 PM |
| 6 | "but I love him..." is never an excuse to settle for garbageThe moment I said those words in one of my past relationships I knew it was over and I had to get out | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/20 11:49 PM |
| 8 | Don’t boost a LVM’s egoYour response kills me every time! Love it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/20 02:10 PM |
| 2 | Boyfriend doesn’t introduce me to anyoneDump him | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/19 06:50 PM |
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