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crash-8-ball/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 11:55 AM
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As for Maternity pay: the first 6 weeks: 90% of their average weekly earnings (AWE) before tax the remaining 33 weeks: £172.48 or 90% of their AWE (whichever is lower) So sure first 6 weeks.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 04:18 PM
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Ive nly heard what he told me. Like in conversation, people bring these things up.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 04:15 PM
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Anyway she has a kid, and now she wants a year off to bond and is demanding he gets a new job/pay rise. Its the demanding part after insisting on how th eguy will be the SAHD. Look I get telling men on ething and then doing another may be nbornmal to you. But nio matter how much his wife insists he gets a new job, unless he gets one, they be fooked. ​ In fairness when I worked weith him, I did tell him sort his career out regardless of what your wife says. And here we are, one big "I f**king tol…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 04:08 PM
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Nah it was kinda depressing and sad tbh as well as very fatalistic and dark. I'm kinda sorry it was shuitdown, over lockdown it was some amusement to pass the days as they blurred into one.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 04:04 PM
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Yeah... its me laughing at someone I used to work with. Who is complaining about a situation of his own making.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 04:02 PM
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Maternity Leave, problem solved. Also lmao, I ain't gonna pay for her fantasies Being able to buy food, pay for water and gas, as well as pay off two SUV's (yep, bright move when expecting a kid) as well as the mortage, as well as whatever the kid needs, ain't really fantasies. Its more like basics. Also this issue is litterallly moment Americá(well not even that,most mothers work full time in America too). She dosn't want too though. Also,the "breadwinner" is a stupid thing; just split stuff 50…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 03:58 PM
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Yeah I get that some guys do fine on OLD, itsjust bnot my thing. ​ But for these guys constantly complaining, if its so grim and there is no hope and it makes you feel depressed, then stop f**king using it. By their own admission it will never get anywhere anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 03:55 PM
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I find the lives of feminist men so funny at times. Getting married to a woman who is "The Breadwinner" saying how even if she has kids he will be the SAHD so his career isn't as important. Anyway she has a kid, and now she wants a year off to bond and is demanding he gets a new job/pay rise. Like sorry bro, what was it you said last year? ​ Ots not actually funny, but having to listen to this garbage is annoying. Laughter is my cope, otherwise I would justwant to beat him round the head with a …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 03:39 PM
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OK, cool I get it. I actually figured this out myself, so I stopped using it. The end. I didn't have to keep mentioning it. I imagine speed dating is a bad way to date for a lot of guys, why is that not mentioned 1000 times a day repreatedly.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 02:26 PM
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I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 02:20 PM
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I think everyone has been agreeing onthis since at least Lockdown. Who is saying it does work for them? Why the hell are guys here still using it?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 02:18 PM
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Huh, so you disagree that women change their attitude for the "Chad", because he makes them feel more feminine? Masculinity polarises femininbity. ​ Unfortunately in todays world masculinity is frowned upon. Also there is the issue there is no clear definition of masculinity. ​ But if we look at all the incels crying and weeping because they are too scared to go outside, there is hardly anything masculine or man like about it. There very complaints aboyut them putting women on edge, suppiorts wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 02:05 PM
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I live in UK, we just have knives. If your in London, the mayor even said "Knife crime is an everyday part of life, people just need to accept that". Goota love the lefties and their views.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 01:52 PM
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Even if they did, if someone lost, they could still shot the other guy in the head with a gun.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 01:34 PM
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Is it working though?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 01:33 PM
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I love the "men need to police each other" and "Men start wars". Yes a war is normally duue to some men. However it comes across like we are all in some grand conspiracy and do it for shits and giggles. All I can take from this, is we should of let Hitler kill more Jes so that WW2 could of been avvoided. That way the toxic masculinity of WW2 could of been avoided. Liek I say, wars are not men in a conspiracy. Its normally men priotecting their country, wiomen and children so that they can live. …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 01:15 PM
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Tbf over lockdown they did not discriminate Subs like BlackPillFeminism were shitdown ​ But people on here were saying its unfair, despite there being posts literally sayuing "Women should all buy guns then gun down every man" Blackpill feminism was a strange place, they did come to a conclusion though that if all men started working together instead of being standoffish, they could easily outmuscle women and enslave them all so its probably better they dont. Like I say interesting place
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 01:04 PM
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Reddit closing down the Incel subs has definatley made Reddit better. Now instead of them being intheir own echo chamber which you could easily not enter they have infiltrated everywhere, polluting ALL the waters, being insufferable. The whole of Reddit is full of "Chad does not need to do that", constant "But the average man never gets a date" and "But that would mean leaving the basement Bro". I hope those who wanted the Incel subs shutdown are celebrating their success and victory and how it …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 12:12 PM
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Just had a quick look, nope its mostly about dating and men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 11:51 AM
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Best way. Don't knowingly stick your dick in batshat crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 11:47 AM
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Just be yourself bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 10:38 AM
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I'm stuck on the metaphor of this story. Is beastiality OK, if a woman (the little mermaid) wishes it? Or is Chad that attractive, other species want to mate with him?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 09:48 PM
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Classic fairytales with the genders reversed.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 08:31 PM
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Once upon a time there was a girl named Jackie who lived with her widower father on their small farm. Jackie’s father treated her like a little princess and even though they weren’t well off he always made sure Jackie was well fed and kept her up with the latest fashions. Eventually Jackie’s expensive tastes pushed the father to near poverty. Jackie’s father still loved her regardless, and as her sixteenth birthday approached he decided to sell their last cow to buy her a sweet sixteen gift. How…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 08:19 PM
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Once upon a time a hard-working shepherd broke his ankle and had to make his daughter look after their sheep. After much complaining she reluctantly obeyed and went out to the pasture. Utterly bored with this job, knowing that she could be in town hanging out with cute barony boys, the shepherd’s daughter sat on a rock and mulled over how much her life totally sucked. Then she noticed that, over in the next field, two cute shepherd boys were looking after their own sheep. Wondering how to get th…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 08:17 PM
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Deep in the forest lived Big Red and his father. One day his father marinated up some juicy steaks and put them in a basket with a six pack of beer. “Take these and go visit your grandpa,” Big Red’s father said. “You got it,” Big Red said. After all, as a man he appreciated his family and didn’t view visiting his older relatives as a burden. So Big Red set off along the path through the woods to visit his grandpa. As he was walking along a big bad wolf suddenly stepped out of the trees. “Where a…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 08:15 PM
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WHo said a man will be in his "Physical" prime later in life. What pill are you taking. What does the Redpill actually say: "At 37, if all goes well you'll be more financially stablke and mature than you are at 27" (The Rational Male) Nowhere does it actually say "Physical Prime". "The 37-year-old you will, in theory, be more ttractive to a LONG-TERM prospect than the 27 year old you" (This has nothing to do with physical appearence). ​ Now as for women competing with "Maddison Beer", does she h…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 01:12 PM
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Yeah true, but that would mean OPENING THE DOOR, just think of the anxiety that would cause.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 12:57 PM
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Just accept your shallow. Everybody is shallow, who cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 09:38 AM
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Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 10:05 PM
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Mostly bars, social events, events from Meetup. Mainly look for an in, make a comment on something happening nearby, get an opinion, whatever. I don't stick to them from then on. I go talk to other people, etc. Then they generally hunt me out and come find me or they don't (whilst at event). If its a daytime MeetUp event or something, I may then suggest going for a coffee. This works better when its a group of 2 - 4 women, than a single one. Probably seems less predatory. Then just take it from …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 09:47 PM
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Do you enjoy recieving gifts from your partner? Its not something I am bothered about to be honest. Recieving a gift makes me feel pressured to give them myself. Christmas and birthdays I understand and happily partake in. ​ Can you describe what type of gifts generally like the most? I would rather a partner surprise me with a weekend away or something like that. The partners who thoughtfully plan stuff, really stands out. It does seem rare though. If I am seeing someone for 3 - 6 months and I …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 08:19 PM
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Was that guy stoned? "Mahhh intentionzzzzzz were to beeeeeerrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr, but mahhhhhhhh"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 02:43 PM
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It is what it is. I have trainwrecked my life enough times, and I am glad I can achieve these ideals of "most men". Ability to provide - I have never felt so entitled that people should worship and praise me just because I exist. You get out what you put in. emotional steadfastness and staunchness - Why the hell would I want to quit at my goals in life. If I want something, I need to make it happen. I view part of being a man as the ability to carve my own path in life and yeah this will take ef…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 01:27 PM
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Like it still sucks but agree. Its like saying, well I left my money outside on the doorstep, it was stolen overnight. Yeah it will suck, but we need these experiences to learn to human better. Valuable lessons in life are sometimes the most painful to swallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 12:12 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/AllPillDebate/comments/171j4jy/no_women_spewing_he_doesnt_owe_you_sex_laughable/ ​ Is this really a woman being treated how some men get treated by women or is it a LARPer. Assuming it is true, why isn't she just happy that a man "wants her" and maybe she should stop seeing her BF as more than just a sexial object.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 11:58 AM
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No idea, however the Law of Unintended Consequences is a very real thing. However people will think it is going to go down, how it is meant to go down, will be totally different from how it does go down.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 12:49 AM
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I think its a you thing. At the end of the day, women are just people, some short, some small, some fat, some slim, some attractive, some not so. Myself, I still see this wide range of people around me. Some days, I see more attractive women than other days when I see not so many attractive women. Maybe your brain has just been warped by porn, who knows.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 09:28 PM
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In this day and age I can only make assumptions of spending too much time behind a computer, not siocialing and with social media being everywhere, constantly having your face rubbed in it with what everybody else is doing. Now we have assigned blame, what matters is what these people do going forward. Do they replace their bad habits with better more productive habits or do they just continue doing what they have always done and get what they have always gotten. As for "what" they actually need…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 09:09 PM
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Fair enough. But in all honesty, if someone wants to improve their lot in life, they need to just go out and do it. Yeah there are online groups that can help (to an extent), but ultimately it will come down to them. They need to grow a pair of balls, go out do their shit, accept that they are gonna be seen as creepy for a bit. But hey I would rather be a creepy guy than a nobody piece of shit that isn't even noticed, its still progress and accept that it isn't an easy road. I've been there I've…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 08:33 PM
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Socialising does not mean going from woman to woman running game without any awareness of your social surrounding or the social dynamics of the group in which you are part of.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 04:52 PM
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The Gunwitch method "Make the hoe say no" didn't help this either. It didn't help her by saying No as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 04:46 PM
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Even if a man spent his formative years gaming and consuming porn, he still has to go through the same social stages as everyone who didn't grow up behind a keyboard. Why is this so hard for people to understand. The only thing I am going to say in some of the case son here "Just be yourself" really is the worst advice ever. Please let them be anyone BUT themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 04:43 PM
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"BeCaUsE tHaTs WhAt ChAD dOeS, ChAd DoEs NoT tAlK oR GeT tO kNoW wOmEn, He JuSt fUcKs" or "wHy ShOuLd I Be A DaNcInG mOnKeY" or "I hAvE tOo MuCh AnImE tO wAtCh To Be AbLe To GeT tO kNoW sOmEoNe" or "If I TaLk tO wOmAnZ, I wIlL gEt ArReStEd" Sorry, was on PPD ages ago, this was the level of response when mentioning getting to know someone ort talk to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 04:39 PM
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Then why do we constantly have reddit posts about guys pumping and dumping, online articles written about this, the whole "Where haveth the good sires gone" thing not to mention TikTok. A lot of what guys say is based off what women complain about.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 04:16 PM
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Nah... just one of many Essex Girl jokes. They used to be a popular thing over here in the UK.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 02:49 PM
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If they burp, you get the pleasure of smelling another mans cum.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 02:44 PM
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Just learn to use some social skills or develop them. If you goto a walking club or something, don't just start "Approaching" women, just use social skills and get to know them, then when people break down into smaller groups, you are already known thus recognised and not some wierd creep who joins the clubs, hits on all the women, ignores everyone else and then gets banned. Sorry, I have seen this happen, its creepy as fuck. I'm also a member of a mountaineering club and can easily talk to wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 12:27 PM
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Only once, two guys were fighting and they actually were what this place would describe as Chads (over 6ft tall and solid slkabs of muscle). Some woman just grabbed me pulled me to the side, then one of the guys went flying into the space I had been stood. If that woman hadn't dragged me aside, I would probably have been obliterated due to colliding with "Chad".
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 09:28 AM
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I would say you have summed it up perfectly. Number 2 is the only one where I would definately say ask a woman. Hell, the last job interview I went for (and got the job), I realsed I needed a new shirt. Because I got a new shirt, I needed a new tie. Now I don't know fashion or colour matching that well. So I just asked some woman what tie whould i get with the shirt I bought. hen I put it all on at home and looked in the mirror, for once I didn't cringe on how the colours clashed. It looked fine…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 08:42 AM
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When I was fat and out of shape, yes pull o clock was was easy with a fellow female fatty but I had no confidence so couldn't approach hotter women. Then I lost weight and built muscle, the fatter women started ignoring me or bring outright rude. But the hotter women were more receptive of me. Of course as they assumed I was confident I would have to be the one approaching/making the moves. At this point fat women wanted nothing to do with me what so ever. By building muscle I improved my self e…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 01:35 AM
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Have you never observed men out in the wild?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 12:33 AM
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Why are you asking women. Do you have friee ds that are successful at dating women, ask them, study them, observe them. That will bee more helpful than asking the fish how to catch fish. Same as women asking guys, I don't know what it's like to date a guy. I also know what I say I want, what I think is want and what I reedpond to are all different things so I won't have a scooby doo.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 12:31 AM
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I will ask for help if I want it. But unsolicited advice is a no no.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 12:25 AM
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Not a massive friend circle. Married Couple: Sticking together because of kids (fair). Always seem to be arguing. Wife forces hubby to socialise as he would rather sit on sofa playing on PS5. Hubby gets jelous when I date women, he often tells me how he wishes he could date like that also. Wife goes on holiday with kids and leaves him at home all the time. He dosn't mind as it means more PS5 time. Unamrried Couple: No RP traits or masculine traits in the guy what so ever. He is a complete nerd. …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 12:16 AM
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Nope. Imagine there was an advanced virtual environment that you can enter by connecting your brain to a computer and once inside you could freely choose the appereance of your avatar Lets say hypergamy is definately real. What will this achieve. If everybody looks hot, then yes hotness won't matter anymore. Women will still want the best. So how does one become the best in "The Matrix". Any skill or ability can be uploaded. Being a doctor, a lawyer, good at King Fu, will mean jack shit., The av…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 11:52 PM
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Nah pass.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 11:46 PM
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Hope for death?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 11:45 PM
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Ok I don't know how old you are. I don't know how sociable you are, if you go out a lot, what your social circles are like or anything. But I worked in nightclubs when I was younger and I have seen players in action, I have seen women who have high "N-counts" (God forbid). I didn't see them throwing themselves at guys left right and centre like some of the peeps on here make out happens. If someone went out just 1 or 2 nights a week. That is something like 50 - 100 nights out a year. Over the sp…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 11:15 PM
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How many guys have you rejected though? We are only seeing half the story. Sorry, I am not obsessed with n-count like some people are.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 11:00 PM
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OTT as in over the top. Take Cat String Theory, yeah I don't want to seem to easy or to avaliable. But at same time I don't want to make myself totally unavalible to someone I am interested in. ​ As for the FDS handbook https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/wiki/recommended_reading/ ​ In all fairness, I do get the impression that FDS is more about filtering guys who you have never met before on OLD or Swipe Apps as opposed to organically meeting people IRL.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 10:48 PM
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I'd rather just live and learn from my own mistakes. Its part of what life is about.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 10:42 PM
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I'm in agreement here but also not. Playing hard to get to an extent I get. But some of it just seems a bit OTT. But thats my view. Taking FDS for example, I have no idea if it works or dosn't work, I cannot comment, but after reading therough their "Handbook" I would say it makes them undatable period, not just hard to get, unless they are a super model or the guy is a complete utter simp. But ultimately I guess as a guy I have my own level of whats acceptable and what isn't for playing "Hard t…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 10:32 PM
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The Cat String theory applies to both men and women. This is hardly new.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 10:11 PM
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Military is different than civvi street. Every base had ce3rtain women nearby, some that were used as initiations, ie if you are a sprog fresh out of training you had to bang the big hairy NAAFI woman. Then there were the well known women that slept with everyone hoping to be wifed up by an army dude. Especially more so in Northern Ireland where it got even more complicated as partners needed background checks run on them to see if they were from a "Red" area or they were linked to paramilitary …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 10:03 PM
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So biological agents and nerve agents are OK?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 09:46 PM
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Only 21 times less if I am correct. However if you eat cabbage, you can flush the estrogen out of your system to an extent.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 09:43 PM
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Truth, if there is someone I am interested in and one of my mates tries to "warn me". Lets be honest, am I going to listen? Am I hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 09:36 PM
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If he is a full grown ass adult then he can make his own decisions. What he does and who he does is up to him. If it falls to shit, then I will give him the obligitory trip to the bar where he can drown his sorrows and get drunk whilst telling shit I wish he wouldn't, but as its a breakup he gets a free pass. Then its business as normal. Part of being a grown ass adult is living with the consequences of your choices. If I told him that he shouldn't get with her previously, then I will obviously …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 09:33 PM
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If I remember right from the era of Lockdown, you took quite a unique approach involving hiring a PI? Are you who I am thinking of?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 09:25 PM
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One good thing of not being a King, I don't need to worry about Kingslayers.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 07:28 PM
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Not for the Skittles Man https://heartiste.org/2009/05/19/be-a-skittles-man/
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 07:17 PM
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Why do we want to level it. Let nature take its course. Messing with nature can have all sorts of wierd side effects. What we need is more warfare, then the male population can be reguarly reduced and only the strong will survive. Lets bring back Darwinism and let nature do the rest.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 07:10 PM
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If it isn't IG, it will be porn, or FB or whatever. But sadly until he admits and accepts he has a problem, it is not gonna be a happy relationship. Then... even if she splits up with him (which I would say she should), she is still probably gonna need trauma counselling as that stuff will affect future relationships (if she decides to have one after experiencing that) Its shit all round.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 07:07 PM
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How can you jerk off to someone and not want to fuck them. I'm confused here,
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 07:05 PM
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IT just left a company that didn't believe in work life balance, and now working for a company where I have had free weekends and crazy stuff like that. Seriously after 2 years of no free time to myself it felt strange logging off on a Friday and having the whole weekend to myself. Plenty more free time now for being a barfly at the weekend. And plenty more time for gym and swimming during weekday evenings. All is good.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 06:44 PM
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Well ultimately its just a numbers game. You meet someone you like, you date them, if they don't give off loads of red flags and you enjoy being around them enough that you forget about other women, you go exclusive, then if your still exclusive after 2 years and you don't wanna lose them maybe think engagement and marraige or carry on as you are but accept they may be more interested in "being married" then any actual guy. But there is no super efficient tactic that I can see tbh. Its ultimatel…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 06:24 PM
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Some people have repuations as everybody has been with them or know people who has been with them. Not so much in large cities if you both live in different parts, but small towns or close knit communities, reputations exist. Don't thinkits the norm, but it can and does happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 06:02 PM
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PUA was around before Red Pill. It was initially lines and routines so that guys knew what to say and could focus on delivery so they could get good at talking to women. Then there were other schools that homed in on things like NLP and extreme push-pull and fractination which were very very maipulative if done correctly. Some guys would use it when going out so it was fake, some would internalise it so it became a part of them. Then along came Red Pill, which sort of gave a "Why" as to stuff wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 05:42 PM
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Get lifting and wearing clothes that actually fit properly and colour match. Then get used to being surrounded by women. Be it hobbies just hanging round places with lots of women. Just become desensatised, your putting them on a pedstal. ​ I don;t wanna be like "Just be abundant bro" as that helps no-one. But yeah, surround yourself with women, get used to them. But I cannot help in saying how.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 05:34 PM
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The bluepill is burying your head in the sand.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 05:32 PM
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Some guys do when its a friend. It can get messy. Or sometimes the guys family just dosn't show up to the wedding and the inheritence is gone. It happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 05:26 PM
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Empathy means putting yourself in another persons shoes and feeling what they feel. I can't see a woman putting herself in a mans shoes and even understanding. Norah Vincent tried that shit and decided to endex for good. What can I say. As a guy, I can't put myself in a womans shoes and know what its like to be able to get 100's of potential dates day and be angry/annoyted/sad about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 05:23 PM
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"But they are oUtLiErs, the StAts dOn'T sUpPoRt tHaT"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 05:18 PM
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The reality is women want to be with someone who is strong. Who has his convictions, is not willing to bend and who can make her feels safe and protected by being a guy who has it under control. How many men like this can you name in your friend's circle? Most men shit themselves if they had to go talk to a cute girl at a bar. In caveman times a guy like that would be eaten by lions or killed by a competing tribe. If he doesn't have the balls to approach a cute girl how will he have the balls to…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 03:56 PM
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Only because there are other options. As a guy, why would I do expensive dinner dates? Firstly I am not a foodie and dislike restaurants regardless. But secondly if there are women who do not need to me to pay for their company via a pointless high calorific meal, why go for this option? ​ Now what if there were no other option? What choice would I have. The Game would change to who could create the most memorable dinner date. And that is how the game would be played.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 02:01 PM
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You would marry a woman who comes up to you and say's "Your cute, lets get married"? You would not have "some sort of screening process"? With all the info about how bad of a deal marriage is for men, you would just agree to marry anyone? This is a typical incel point of view and is not what most men want. Men want to select their partners carefully, to be sure they commit to the best possible partner. ​ At this point in life, I am not so fussed. When I was younger, yes I wish it was just a simp…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 01:57 PM
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Yep, in total agreement. In Robert Greene's The Art Of Seduction, this is covered using Cleopatra as a case study. She would use Verbal Kung Fu to tell stories left on cliff hangers, wear different dresses, etc, so that she was not executed. This kept men uin awe. However, like you say, this was not starting fights and just causing drama: “Her seductive power, however, did not lie in her looks [...]. In reality, Cleopatra was physically unexceptional and had no political power, yet both Caesar a…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 01:43 PM
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If FDS works (I have no idea of how successful the strategy is) then in 10 years or so, dating will be men taking women on expensive first dates and waiting several years for sex. Like I say, men will adapt. However, sooner or later women will get annoyed with that system and want it to change again. The constant need for drama, is what drives this constant change.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 01:35 PM
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I think us men do like to be kept on our toes, but not in the way that women create drama. That said, its always better to create drama yourself rather than wait for a woman to create it. Its just the way women have designed the game.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 01:33 PM
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Thats why beheading was a thing when the Queen couldn't produce a son. Much cheaper and less hassle than a divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 12:35 PM
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Sometimes the King beheads the Queen, repeatedly.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 12:34 PM
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Yes we know women manipulate men into relationships, whats your point,
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 12:32 PM
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OK you have made an observation in the Real Wolrd, now what are you going to do with that data?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 12:07 PM
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The whole planning dates thing, was something that took me a while to internalise. Despite all the screeching about "Men taking the lead" is toxic. Sorry I call BS, at least from the women I have met, they love the man to take the lead and be in charge of creating experiences on dates. If a guy does not take the lead, good luck. Yeah some women will make a first move but ultimately the man sooner or later has to take over. That was one of the big things I had to learn and work on myself on. As I…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 09:37 AM
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Not who you responded to. For me, I was never jaded against relationships, I was jaded and bitter aginst myself. So yeah when I was younger I would frequently be in a dark place wondering why I was so unattractive compared to every other guy on the planet. I want to say I bought into the BS about looks not mattering, but really I was just being lazy and looking for excusesto not have to do things like goto the gym. So yeah thats on me. Its all on me tbh, only I am responsible for my own life and…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 09:25 AM
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I'd ay Married Red Pill is more useful. Even though its for married peeps, it can be still applied in dating. Take the basic premise of Shutting The Fuck Up: Fourth, don’t go to your wife for validating behavior. So you lost five pounds. You fixed the things around the house you said you would. You bench-pressed more than the bar. You took the car for repairs and an oil change and got it running again. Good for you. Take that cup of STFU and drink it deeply. You shut up. You don’t talk about the…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 09:07 AM
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To be fair the guy sounds like a doughnut.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 11:36 PM
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Sounds like your the clear winner bro /sarcasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 11:34 PM
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It's better to be the monster than to be food.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 11:32 PM
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I can relate totally to this. When I was younger I was a nice guy. Women were not interested in the slightest. These days, if I go bar hoppoing I am probably 90% confident I will find someone to go on a date with and about 60% confident I will go home iwth someone. This isn't from being nice, nor being a dick. I just don't care anymore. Women come, women go, whatever. Yeah women are more than a hole, I like female company but I'm not gonna lose sleep over any one woman. At first it did feel like…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 11:02 PM
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OK, lets go to the original question: ​ Shaved 5 years off his age ​ Yeah I would say thats lying and decietful but I wouldn't say its manipulating her. She was attracted to him obviously. Lied about giving me a fake number (it wasn’t his real number, Google voice or something) ​ Thats just lying, not really manipulation. Lied about random personal details of his life -misrepresented his views. For example, once I paid for my own food/split the check when he was up from the table when the check …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 10:49 PM
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Yeah exactly. Its a quick, cheap, effective filter. That said, I would really only use it for OLD. If I met someone in RL and had already interwcted with them, I would have already guaged their interest. As someone who is a bit of a bar fly at weekends, I generally don't need to bother with this filtering bit. OLD just complicates things. But I guess the bar scene would suck if I didn't enjoy it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 10:37 PM
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Do you think Redpill encourages men to attempt to control women’s behavior by not being straightforward with them? No more than women are manipulative in relationships. Hell even back in the day, when magazines with articles such as "How to manipulate your man into marrying you" were a thing, it was viewed as OK. Manipulation is only bad when men do it. Take the colour red, there is study in how it affects men. Yet its fine for a woman to wear red. Which gender is most likely to use crocdocile t…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 10:14 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 10:09 PM
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Don't be daft. Men are legion and have no inducidual thoughts. There is just "men" not individuals.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 09:15 PM
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Its better to be the monster than to be food.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 09:14 PM
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I think TRP mostly says "Do not MARRY women with a high N-count" not "do not enjoy their company".
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 09:08 PM
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Porn used to be a taboo thing. Then good ole society normalised it. Maybe their was a reason it was taboo.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 08:58 PM
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TRP is not some brotherhood. Its more like tales around a camp fire where people share their views and experiences. Take from it what you want, add to it what you want. It works for you or it dosn't work. However there is no enforced set of rules or objectives. Your viewing it like some sort of political movement or something it isn't. There is no endgame. Guys just say what works for them or dosn't. Other guys try it, and it either gains popularity or it dosn't. ​ Also, there are lots of differ…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 08:54 PM
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I'm actually happy with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 07:48 PM
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Dating but nothing serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 07:43 PM
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I've been obese and I've been healthy weight. I know the difference in how I feel, the amount of energy I have and how much happier I am looking in the mirror. To me, an extra doughnut matters. Ive been on both sides of the scale. Also I still want to feel attractive to whom ever I am with. ​ Thus, I would rather have a partner with similar values. Unfortunately this stuff isn't apparent straight the way, how they will act and stop giving a fuck about themselves once in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 07:05 PM
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Yeah thats when she gets dumped. The bait and switching is amazing. If you wanna be a fat slob then present yourself as a fat slob. Not this bait and switch bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 06:26 PM
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Maybe observing someone and being real instead of thinking "Once he wears a ring he will magically transform from a frog into a prince" may be better. ​ Oops, logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 06:24 PM
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Beacause you start out being nice and get laughed at, beaten up, ignored, being told "Lerts just be friends" or "Your not really my type". So you stop giving a fuck, or you become a delusional virgin blue piller who marries some woman who fulfills his "Cuckold fetish" whilst raising her 30 kids all with different skin colours. When you stop giving a fuck you become more of a dick to women, then they start getting interested. So why would someone want to make himself unattractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 06:14 PM
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Sorryto hear about your mum.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 06:01 PM
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Didn't relaise that. I had forgotten her name.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 04:26 PM
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Damn didn't realise that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 04:25 PM
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Well because he is her father. Where as some random guy is not her father, so why would he care what consenting adults do.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 04:15 PM
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I'd probably laugh internally at him, unless he was friend or family.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 04:11 PM
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I'm not sure if it is the muscles. I'm no muscular guy, but a couple of weeks in th egym just boosts my self confidence and esteem, for me it makes a huge difference. Feeling attractive vs feeling unattractive is where the difference is at. Physically theres probably no real visible change but internally I feel a hell more attractive. Thats all it takes. If guys have deep rooted BlackPill beliefs, then yeah, the gym and muscles will probably make no real difference as inside they still hate them…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 03:47 PM
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Who was that woman who lived as man and is still getting therapy due to the privalige she recieved?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 03:29 PM
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Well yeah. Sitting behind a screen all the time isn't living. I live in a city, so its easy enough to find a bar and befriend people even if I go out on my own. People who put in no effort then complain, have no-one to blame but themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 02:31 PM
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I sometimes go out alone. Give it 20 minutes and I am not alone. I've never been arrested by the "Oh my god, you spoke to a woman" police either. If I were to sit in and do nothing however, then yeah, I wouldn't meet people and it would be no-ones fault but my own.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 02:29 PM
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Thing is... I am actually in agreement with you and yeah if I am on a date or just chatting to other owmen, I am not thinking about "The Competition". I fully agree with youir approach and promote it. However... I cannot bury my head in the sand and deny that it is competive because it is. However... competition or wanting to be better than others or doing something to "win over women" is a bad reason to do something, ie gym. However, in order to build enjoyment doing something, you need a catal…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 02:16 PM
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You don't need ot fight people off. I'm in agreement with your attitude. ​ However other guys still exist, so I am still competing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 01:38 PM
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I can find a job easily, but generally I am not the only applicant, a company will go for who is best for the company, so it is still a competiotion. ​ If your so sure of yourself, then please quit your job, goto an interview wearing a bin bag and put in no effort. Its not a competition right, so you don't need to try.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 01:37 PM
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What so I begin doing things for self fulfillment, other men cease to exist and I am no longer compared to them and women will magically stop going for the most appealing guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 01:36 PM
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