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You're only 16, so for at least the next 10 years, you should never initiate the "relationship" talk. Requiring a relationship before sexual contact is the misunderstanding of provider males. "Shoot your shot" is what girls ask potential providers to justify why they should let you do sex stuff with them. You're being asked to justify why she should let you touch her. Guys she actually wants to fuck don't have to do this because she actually wants to fuck them. If you have to "shoot your shot," …
/r/askTRP21/10/19 05:05 AM
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I don't disagree with this. It is vastly superior to do it now rather than in 15 minutes. The reason for the 15 minute delay in my example is setting up a feedback loop between present-me and future-me. Some of the problem with taking action comes from the sense that nothing really must be done "right now" but if you're not careful with that, "not right now" can become forever. As such, a compromise between the anxiety of "what do I do now?" and "I don't feel like it" is picking an arbitrary dea…
/r/askTRP26/01/19 09:17 AM
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Taking action is a habit. There are a bunch of little internal and subconscious tics that keep you from acting. Instead of trying to analyze and remove each one individually, you have to affirmatively develop the habit of action. This will burn through the things holding you back as a side-effect. Essentially, the process is a feedback loop of making continuous decisions to act as frequently as possible, consciously at first, uncomfortably at first, until the desired actions become habits. It ta…
/r/askTRP26/01/19 07:07 AM
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Give these guys a call: National Suicide Prevention Lifeline 1-800-273-8255 You're going through some shit and need a professional to talk to. They can get you started on a path forward. One foot in front of the other and DO NOT GIVE UP. They're available 24/7, so call them ASAP. Don't delay by posting here (or anywhere). Pick up the phone and call that number.
/r/askTRP17/01/19 12:31 PM
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Start out on a path. Any path. Soon you'll come upon a fork, and have to choose. This will keep happening, and your choices will lead you exactly to where you want to be, even if you don't know where that is yet.( none of us did at 17.) That is pure gold.
/r/askTRP20/10/17 11:12 PM
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"still a little drunk" Then wait until you're sober and can post coherently. You being drunk is a conscious decision to shitpost.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/17 02:47 AM
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Getting better at talking to people will help you, in general, but it's not the most efficient path. What you want, I think, is to learn how to meet girls and have sex. There are particular concepts that will help you learn how to do that, some of which are in opposition to general "talking with people" skills. Worse, the vast majority of the "talking with people" books are built on BP foundations. You almost certainly have a lot of societal conditioning that is harmful to your goal. The BP foun…
/r/askTRP02/09/17 01:32 AM
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Success with women doesn't come naturally to everyone. Some guys need instruction. You suggest "try to grasp and internalize the underlying principles in talking to people." What are those underlying principles? Is he supposed to derive them independently? Wouldn't it be a whole lot more efficient if he could get that information faster? Like, from a book? Your description of "cold approach" is inconsistent with usage by folks who practice it. It's also inconsistent with my experience. It is not…
/r/askTRP02/09/17 01:22 AM
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For books, the classic is "Mystery Method," or the streamlined version "Magic Bullets." Those are both a solid introduction to the overall framework of A to Z, meet to sex to relationship. Both are a bit dated now, but the concepts are still valid. Reading one of these will give you a general idea of what happens and each step along the way. The RSD stuff (esp. Pimp) is a lot more focused on practical action without the technical detail of the classics. Those are a great supplement to the classi…
/r/askTRP02/09/17 01:10 AM
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Blackdragon is the go-to source for nonmonogamy. His blog has tons of good stuff on this topic. I've seen "the ethical slut" recommended in another thread, but I haven't read it myself, so I don't know much about it. In my experience, honesty with the new girls is best because you have to screen for low drama. With the LTR, the best policy is to be open about it, but keep the details to yourself.
/r/askMRP24/08/17 11:41 PM
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Seriously. This book is way overrated and does more harm than good.
/r/askTRP21/08/17 11:36 AM
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You absolutely don't need to be fit to excel at game. It helps for a lot of reasons to lift and be in shape, but you should absolutely NOT postpone getting better at game until you're "in shape." Go read the yareally archive, there's a ton of stuff in there on this topic. If you have to pick one, start with game, the rest will follow.
/r/askTRP26/02/17 09:58 AM
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Head to the yareally archive. That will give you both an overview and a battle plan of how to prioritize your studies.
/r/askTRP20/02/17 10:02 AM
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Ramsey acknowledges the sub-optimal math. His reasoning for paying off debt from smallest to largest is that it is much easier, psychologically, to do it that way. The mindset that leads to having a lot of little debts is more susceptible to getting discouraged and abandoning the plan if there isn't noticeable progress. The psychological payoff of fully retiring a debt is massively helpful in overcoming the mindset that lead to a debt problem in the first place. But in terms of absolute financia…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/02/17 10:33 PM
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This is a pretty common misconception. The idea you seem to have is that if you do the "right" things (e.g., lifting, working hard at work/school, having friends) then you will automatically have success with women. The truth is that success with women is an independent skill that you can train, but it doesn't happen automatically. Being tall, rich, and conventionally handsome will certainly make it easier to interact with women. But the only way to get better results with women is to practice y…
/r/askTRP04/02/17 09:57 PM
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Well, that's kind of my point. Goldberg does an excellent job refuting the key words you presented, at least as to the application to the right wing. It's taken as common knowledge now that fascism is a right-wing system, but that isn't the whole truth. I'm sure you're aware that Wikipedia is heavily biased leftward wherever possible (see, e.g., their Gamergate entry). So the fact that Wikipedia says it's "far right" doesn't hold any weight with me. But I appreciate your dialogue, too. That's so…
/r/TheRedPill04/02/17 06:00 AM
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If you think thedonald is fascist, or so obviously fascist that it doesn't bear proof, you're probably somewhat misinformed. The "fascist" slur has been levied against thedonald and the alt_right for a strategic purpose by globalists. Pick up a copy of Jonah Goldber's "Liberal Fascism" and you'll have a better understanding of the term. Otherwise, you're merely repeating Soros talking points by slandering thedonald as fascist.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/17 02:44 AM
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Seconded. Pinning this is bullshit.
/r/askTRP23/12/16 05:29 PM
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You suggest two options: 1) they don't know the truth; or 2) they're intentionally lying. I think there's another option. When a woman gives advice to a man about dating, she's not thinking about what that man could do to win her heart, she's thinking about what her personal apex guy could do. She's not telling Larry Lunchpail what he needs to do get her in bed, she's describing what Ryan Gosling needs to do to make her not feel like a pump-n-dump. If a HB7 girl tells an HB5 guy "just be yoursel…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/12/16 01:26 AM
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You would probably have better responses if this wasn't such a zero-effort post. This is like posing, "in japan wat do??" Fuck you and you worthless question. Instead, how about you provide some value? Like, "Guys, I'm looking at how I might need to modify the Mystery Method for Japan, considering that they seem to need more comfort than other countries. What do you think?"
/r/askTRP18/12/16 10:26 AM
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You're not getting real replies here because this is a seriously low-effort post. Read the sidebar, especially "rule zero". If you still have a question, try again and conform to the posting guidelines.
/r/askTRP14/12/16 09:55 AM
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It's not really a necessity. It's over hyped here and you can absolutely achieve amazing things without going to the gym. To some extent, it's become something of an RP virtue-signaling tactic, especially by people who've read half the sidebar. But! The benefits from lifting are so profound that it's foolish not to take it seriously. It's like questioning whether you should stop smoking. Of course you should stop smoking. Can you smoke and still have an amazing life? Sure. But you should quit sm…
/r/askTRP24/11/16 10:57 AM
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This is massively bad advice, straight from the FI. OP, this is why you don't ask fish--ask the fishermen.
/r/askTRP14/11/16 12:11 PM
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Post this to @yareally, @pua on The Rational Male as a comment to whatever is the latest post there. While you wait for analysis, pick up a copy of PIMP (you can find it on the internet) by RSD Julien. They're probably going to tell you that you have two issues: 1) you're not isolating / escalating; and 2) you're not generating attraction. My suspicion is that despite your new wardrobe and gym body, you're giving off massive Provider vibes (or you seem clingy). For taking girls home, you want ma…
/r/askTRP13/11/16 12:20 PM
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Thanks for the honest reply. I think if you had added your second paragraph above to the top of the extended quote, there would be no doubt. Otherwise, it does look a little bit like there are two sets of guidelines, instead of one binary question, "does this post add value?"
/r/MarriedRedPill10/11/16 10:55 AM
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I don't disagree that this scene is massive. Maybe the single most important scene in the movie. My question was: if someone who wasn't a mod posted nothing more than a quote, even an extended quote, from a movie, would that post meet the posting guidelines? I don't think so. At the very least, this should have included some additional content, some insight beyond the raw words of the quote. It is way too easy to steal the mantle of wisdom by hiding behind someone else's words. That is one reaso…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/11/16 10:53 AM
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If someone who wasn't a mod posted this, would it still be here? This is way off of the posting guidelines. Where are you adding value with this cut/past of the script? You bolded a sentence?
/r/MarriedRedPill09/11/16 03:31 PM
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Models is garbage, packed with blue pill FI fan service. Start with either Mystery Method or Magic Bullets (a streamlined version of MM). That will give you a solid framework. However, you can't learn game from a book or video. You have to go out and experience it. Another good source is the yareally archive. That's a bit more calibrated to the current environment. If you would rather watch videos, find RSD Juliens "Pimp" (outer game) and "Shift" (inner game). In any case, the path to progress i…
/r/askTRP04/11/16 05:39 AM
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9gag link. No way am I clicking that.
/r/askTRP11/10/16 12:54 PM
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Came here to say this. Lifting is important but there are still a ton of forever alone gym rats. OP is in high school, though, so his practice area should be somewhere outside of his usual social network, especially during the awkward noob phase.
/r/askTRP09/10/16 07:27 AM
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If the content in your post was stolen from David D'Angelo, where did you get the content for your texting guide? I'd much rather contact the original author, the guy who has actually mastered the material, than the guy who knows how to CTL-V.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/16 12:47 AM
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100% this. The reason TRP stresses lifting is not for getting laid. If you interest is solely in getting better with women, lifting will not really help. Not that it hurts, but even getting shredded doesn't help you get laid. The only way to get better with women is to practice with women. The forever alone crown on MISC can attest to this. You should still lift, but don't let that interfere with your pickup practice time.
/r/askTRP28/08/16 01:35 PM
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One week is the standard partly because any more frequent contact reduces the time until you receive the Ultimatum. Once a week seems to be the consensus optimization between frequency of visits and risk of catching feelings.
/r/askTRP18/08/16 10:54 AM
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Meeting and dating/sexing girls is a skill you can learn. Go to the RSD youtube channel and watch a few videos until you find a guy you resonate with. Go to the yareally archive and read. Ultimately, you have to practice, and that means going out and talking to people. You can do it, just keep trying.
/r/askTRP03/08/16 12:24 AM
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This is a problem for which the manosphere doesn't have a clear solution identified. Under the "old rules," marriage provided a lot of benefits to the family structure. Those same benefits were also supported in the broader culture. Over time, the culture has changed. The "new rules" governing marriage are now freakishly lopsided in favor of the mother, to the detriment of not only the father, but also of the children. While we don't have a good solution yet, the answer is not marriage in the cu…
/r/askTRP27/07/16 12:19 AM
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One other question. You state: "having children out of wedlock and continuing to have sex with 20yos into my 50s" is "not as enjoyable as just getting married to a high SMV woman." What do you think happens when you get married? What things do you think happen differently in a marriage? Which of those things are exclusive to married relationships and not also applicable to LTRs, generally? What things, specifically, do you think make "getting married to a high SMV woman" preferable to, as we cal…
/r/askTRP25/07/16 11:47 AM
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It's not the "banging 20yos" that I meant to emphasize. It's the assumption that when you are 44+ those girls are out of reach for you. If you've read Rollo's work, you're already aware that most BP women will hit their "epiphany phase" as they approach the wall. Your assumption about marriage seems to be that you will be forced to select from among the epiphany-phase women as candidates for marriage. My point was that you can also chose from pre-epiphany phase women, well past when the FI tells…
/r/askTRP25/07/16 11:32 AM
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There are a lot of socially conditioned assumptions in your post. For example, you don't need to get married to have kids and be a great dad. You can keep banging hot 20yos well into your 50s. You're still using external validation to determine your self-worth, etc. If I were in your shoes, I'd read the entire sidebar, all of Rollo's blog, and all of the Yareally archive. And, as others have mentioned, you should suspend your decision to get married until after you've mastered the material (and …
/r/askTRP25/07/16 12:12 AM
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Unplugging isn't anything like the scene in The Matrix. Even if you understand everything in the sidebar, you can't undo years of conditioning in one second. At present, there is no psychological technique to change all of your habits and habitual thoughts instantly. Instead, what we call "unplugging" is a process of gradually undoing the social conditioning and replacing it with new habitual actions and thoughts. Worse, all that social conditioning is still going on in the world, so you're tryi…
/r/askTRP07/07/16 10:56 PM
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Find the RSD channels on youtube. Watch a few vids to see which instructor you like, then watch a ton of their videos. Or if you like books better, find a copy of Mystery Method or Magic Bullets. Those will give you a conceptual framework to understand the mechanics of seduction. After that, it's all practice, practice, practice.
/r/askTRP06/07/16 12:28 AM
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Very helpful, thank you. That's been mostly my experience with Chinese girls (in Asia, outside of China).
/r/TheRedPill06/06/16 12:06 PM
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I would love to hear more about Chinese style marriage. What does that mean to you?
/r/TheRedPill06/06/16 10:36 AM
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Came here to post a link to that Rollo article. Nice work, bro.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/16 10:31 AM
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The only place to learn is in the field. The basic process for tightening up your game is: 1) go out and try something 2) write up a "field report" (FR) describing your experience, with as much detail as you can remember 3) review it to spot areas you can improve OR share it with a mentor who can see it from a neutral viewpoint 4) repeat You could try to post your FR here. A better option would be to go to The Rational Male website, find the most recent article, and post your FR as a comment. If…
/r/askTRP31/05/16 09:42 PM
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For game, you can watch a ton of RSD videos on YouTube, you can also find a copy of Julien's PIMP and SHIFT products. I find the yareally archive (google it) to be a goldmine. He's a well-known commenter on Rollo's site. If you want old school, pick up a copy of the Mystery Method. The fundamentals are still rock solid.
/r/askTRP20/05/16 02:31 AM
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You're only 30, bro. Your peak is still five years away and you can still be dating nubile hotties until you're 50 and beyond. What you need are two things: 1) to stop associating pussy with success; and 2) Game. For 1), keep lifting; keep reading and contemplating the sidebar; and keep trying to improve yourself, for yourself. For 2), go to the yareally archive; find a copy online of RSD Julien's PIMP and SHIFT products (and/or watch a ton of stuff on the Real Social Dynamics (RSD) youtube chan…
/r/askTRP09/05/16 10:28 PM
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This was awesome, thank you.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/03/16 01:15 PM
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If you're worried about rejection affecting your social standing, go someplace where nobody knows you and run "beast mode" for half an hour. (Beast mode = don't be out of set for more than 30 seconds.) The tried and true method to rid yourself of debilitating AA is to approach a ton and get acclimated to the idea that not every girl wants to jump you right there. You get past AA and learn that not every girl is worth 20 seconds of your time.
/r/askTRP07/03/16 09:59 AM
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You can find Pimp, Shift, The Blueprint, and Foundations "online" if you want. The free videos on You Tube are also a gold mine. I would suggest you start with the free stuff and see whether it suits you. There's no need to pay them until you're ready, if ever. You can also check out the yareally achives for an excellent perspective on all of pick up. Given all that RSD has distributed for free (and their apparent lack of concern with distributing older stuff), it's quite a stretch to call them …
/r/askTRP14/01/16 07:02 PM
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Bullshit. There is no rule that says you have to date 30 year olds once you hit 40. This is a limiting belief and does more harm than good. And it's borderline bro-shaming. There are certainly adaptations to make in gaming girls that age, but it is absolutely not true that 19 is "too young" for a 40 year old man. OP, if you want to date 19 year olds, go for it. Don't let this guy crab bucket you away from going for what you want.
/r/askTRP25/12/15 10:11 AM
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You said, "it is hard for me to believe a hot 19yr old would fuck a guy my age." There's your problem, right there. Some 19 yo girls will find it creepy. Some 19 yo girls will find it really hot. Some won't care much about it and will only find it creepy if you do. There is nothing inherently creepy or unrealistic about the age gap. You just need to let go of the cultural conditioning and bro-shaming holding you back. Give yourself complete permission to meet and date young girls and then practi…
/r/askTRP24/12/15 10:40 PM
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I'll bite. You have a link?
/r/askTRP05/11/15 10:24 AM
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If you're going to soft next, consider the following: http://www.pua-zone.com/showthread.php?5492-How-To-Soft-Next-Step-by-step-instructions-and-answers-to-questions That should help you figure out exactly why you're doing what you're doing and to make it an effective exercise. You might also want to post a field report of how it all went down so you can get feedback and tighten your game.
/r/askTRP21/10/15 02:44 PM
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Since no one has mentioned it, yet, until you have solid internals and a lot of practice, it's much better to keep texting limited to logistics. Also, lift and sidebar and a lot of these questions melt away.
/r/askTRP29/09/15 10:21 AM
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What worked best for me in the beginning was to have a practice point to focus on. For example, "for the next ten approaches, I'm going to focus on slowing down." That transforms the approach from an event you might be tempted to use to evaluate your self-worth into an ego-neutral laboratory experiment.
/r/askTRP28/09/15 12:01 PM
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You should lift and read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP28/09/15 11:57 AM
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While you are probably correct--your wife needs more emotional excitement in her life, generally--this sounded to me more opportunistic than symptomatic. To use a different metaphor, you always need more money, but an unexpected windfall doesn't mean that your budget is bad. Thanks for posting this. It was a lot of fun thinking about it.
/r/askTRP27/09/15 10:16 PM
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I would just start with the default channel. Some of the guys will appeal to you more than others. When you hear a guy who resonates with you, you can subscribe to his channel. But really the default general ones will keep you busy for a while!
/r/askTRP27/07/15 02:37 PM
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Go find the yareally archive. Plenty of good stuff on there that will keep you busy for a long time. Alternatively, you can start with the Mystery Method or Magic Bullets or any of the classics. You should be able to find these online readily. Or, you can watch the YouTube RSD videos. (RSD = Real Social Dynamics). There is a ton of basic game stuff out there.
/r/askTRP27/07/15 12:49 PM
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This is the concept of "aftercare". A little bit of preventative comfort helps avoid the regret. Things like snuggling, taking her for breakfast, or even sending a comfort text like "hope you got home okay." Obviously your choice should be calibrated to the girl. Search the yareally archive for more examples.
/r/askTRP29/06/15 12:23 PM
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Massively helpful, thank you.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/15 02:59 AM
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This sounds to me like the fabled "ultimatum". All plates eventually get to this point, and all you can do is delay it. YaReally talks alot about this (search for the YaReally archive, it's a gold mine). The basic idea is that eventually all plates will want to convert to LTR. Doing boyfriend-type stuff accelerates the process. Being aloof tends to slow it down, but you can't stop it altogether.
/r/askTRP12/06/15 01:08 AM
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This is too long and reeks of try-hard. But good for you for putting it out there. That's how you improve.
/r/askTRP12/06/15 12:49 AM
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Really, the first step is to just get "go to gym" ingrained as a habit. If you try to do too much, too soon, especially if you've "never did shit before," you will likely have a hard time sticking to anything more complicated at first. Take the first month to just fight off the sloth monkey and learn how to force yourself to go workout, even when you don't feel like it, when it's hard or inconvenient. Once it's a habit, you can start tinkering with your routines. Just decide when you're going to…
/r/askTRP31/05/15 03:18 PM
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Sometimes outsiders or bots will just downvote everything, or everything in a target sub. Remember, these points aren't real.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/15 11:18 PM
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This post and the comments were profoundly helpful to me. Thank you, OP.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/05/15 02:27 PM
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This was really helpful, thank you.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/05/15 02:24 PM
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One thing to consider: You said, "However, I still feel that girls don't give me the attention I deserve." For the most part, girls will give you exactly the attention you deserve. The problem, the very problem TRP solves, is that what the BP tells us merits attention from girls does the opposite. More likely than not, if you are not getting the attention you want, then either: a) you are still trying to use BP techniques; or b) your RP techniques need work. The BP mindset is insidious and will …
/r/askTRP29/04/15 01:17 AM
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Start with the 16 commandments of Poon from Chateau Heartiste. Find and read the "Mystery Method" for a basic framework. Then go watch a ton of RSD videos on YouTube. There is plenty of information out there, and the commenter above has it right: learn some theory (MM/RSD), then go out and talk to girls. You'll make a lot of embarrassing mistakes that will teach you more than you can get from reading, but you do need a little theory to help organize your experiences.
/r/askTRP04/01/15 01:55 AM
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This has always worked for me: 1) deep breaths, as slow as you can do them, considering your excited state. and 2) focus on the feeling in your toes. This has the effect of grounding you in the moment. There's science behind it but I don't have a link. The second one seems to be hit or miss on its own, but the combination has never failed me.
/r/askTRP31/12/14 04:19 AM
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In my experience, the money is never worth it when the job is as soul-crushing as yours sounds. I have seen reports from people who take a raise for a job they hate, only to find they acclimate to the increased pay, and the daily grind stays miserable. From what you have written, it sounds like the huge pay cut comes with a massive release of negative circumstances. No one can tolerate the ball-busting you described forever, but if you can keep up appearances and have a good exit strategy, the e…
/r/askTRP27/12/14 04:06 PM
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Read the Married Man Sex Life Primer from the sidebar.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/12/14 11:51 AM
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Why the fuck are you posting here if you're high? What makes you think being high is any kind of legitimate reason for writing unclear, painful prose?
/r/askTRP23/11/14 04:01 AM
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That was what I was trying to say, but you said it much more eloquently. Beautiful.
/r/askTRP18/11/14 02:26 PM
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You're operating from a false premise. You don't have to behave like someone you don't want to be to get a woman. You will have to adjust your behavior to attract and retain a woman. Those two statements are not contradictory. The point of the RP is to open your eyes to the truth. What you do with it is up to you. Forget about the catch-22 for the time being. You sound ripe for some monk mode. Focus on yourself for a little while and you will naturally come to a place where you're ready to evalu…
/r/askTRP17/11/14 03:49 PM
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You might also try a bit lower-pressure approach, just to help get you over the initial anxiety hump. The next time you're out in public, force yourself to go ask one girl if there is a pretzel stand nearby, or where the bookstore is, or something. Then do it again and again. You're not looking for 10-15 minute conversations, the idea here is to condition you body to get used to you walking up to a girl and saying something. Once you're able to do that, you'll find that your "real" approaches ge…
/r/askTRP16/11/14 02:07 PM
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and especially the main sub sidebar.
/r/askTRP15/11/14 09:57 AM
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Welcome to TRP. One week doesn't sound like enough time to have read through all the sidebar material. That should answer your question rather thoroughly. Here's a helpful quote: "If you want to ask a question, we suggest you spend some time lurking and entering into discussion first. Spend some time reading the /r/theredpill sidebar."
/r/askTRP11/11/14 01:19 PM
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I am fully on board with this. Thank you for all you've done to keep this sub high-quality. I know it's probably a pain in the ass, but would it be possible to periodically put up a "this is the shit people got banned for" post, pointing out some specific infractions? I find those highly instructive. Or is that more likely to just dredge up all the butthurt?
/r/TheRedPill11/11/14 12:57 PM
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I liked that construction, thought it was rather elegant.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/14 04:16 AM
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Lift weights you shitlords. That cracked me the hell up. The Sex God method is a quick read. Probably worth it to solidify your understanding. Plus, there are some interesting points in addition to the physicality you mentioned, which I'd classify as the Dominance vector. He also brings up Emotion, Variety, and Immersion. Thanks for the FR. Good stuff.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/14 07:10 AM
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Totally seconded. I made a benign comment about the rationalization hamster and the reaction was confused disgust. There are some interesting points, but it's mostly BP PUA noobs. I still sub there, though, because it's an interesting reminder of what happens if you divorce seduction from RP philosophy, i.e., train wrecks.
/r/askTRP08/11/14 07:00 AM
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Absolutely. The best way to text a girl is a very different kind of communication than trying to exchange ideas between men on the internet. Sometimes it seems like guys are using their text game writing style on here. Poor grammar and spelling mistakes may encourage the tingles in girls, but they undercut real communication between men.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/14 06:43 AM
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I agree with your point, but don't like GBFM. I sincerely tried to parse his posts and found them not worth the effort. I agree that he does it on purpose, but don't agree that there's anything in there that makes it work really well. Some people really do grok him, though, so I don't find myself grinding my teeth as much as I used to. The larger point, though, is that there isn't room for more than one of those guys, yet they tend to encourage similar posting styles, which are nowhere near the …
/r/TheRedPill08/11/14 06:41 AM
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When I first read this, it sounded less like a shit test and more like celebrating your victory in getting in better shape. You both lost a lot of weight, so it sounded (at first) like she was saying something as innocuous as "hey, I can fit in my skinny jeans now!" But on reflection, we probably need to know more about the context in which she received this dude's number. Of course, your immediate problem is that you don't know the context either, so you have to choose your response in the dark…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/11/14 06:18 AM
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There is nothing wrong with wanting to help. It becomes problematic without some context, especially as the underlying assumption for persons commenting here is to have some level of awakening from the unconscious cultural conditioning. Put more plainly, if you're posting here, people will assume the advice you're offering is based on your experience in working with the RP framework. This guy asked his question here and not, say, in /r/relationships because he wanted the RP perspective on his qu…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/11/14 05:59 AM
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This is like admitting in a fitness forum that you don't know what a "squat" is. Are you familiar with the fundamental tenets of TRP, newfriend?
/r/MarriedRedPill08/11/14 04:31 AM
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Keep in mind that this video was expressly made for its shock value. It was, according to RSD (Tyler, anyway), a calculated move. If you're only seeing the SJW version of the video or reading the usual media outlets to get the story, then you're probably under the impression that that's his whole schtick. Also, your response is indistinguishable from the legions of BP white knights in /r/japan . Might you be relying on similar reasoning?
/r/TheRedPill08/11/14 04:22 AM
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I find it interesting that the concept of "there are no stupid questions" is so thoroughly embedded in the culture that someone can post, without irony, "Dumb question, . . ." AND someone else will answer him. If I catch myself writing, "Dumb question, but . . ." I now immediately google it first. There are usually 50 gagillion hits on Yahoo Answers or some other similar site, frequently as shamelessly admitting "This is a dumb question. . ." Philosophically, I think there is some merit to calli…
/r/TheRedPill08/11/14 04:11 AM
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I've tried memorizing the popular routines, "The Cube", etc., but I suck at it. So instead I just started making up ridiculous palmistry. Stuff like, "This is your crayons line. Did you have a lot of crayons when you were a kid?" As is often mentioned around here, it is vastly more important how you say whatever you're saying than what you're actually saying.
/r/trpGAME07/11/14 02:42 PM
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That is gold -- 1) I'm relieved to know it isn't just me experiencing this; and 2) now I know how to handle it. Fantastic, thank you.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/11/14 02:38 PM
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From what I've seen, for the vast majority of men, it never quite goes away completely, but with practice, it gets so low that it becomes a minor inconvenience. As for the practice, what worked the fastest for me was just making as many approaches as possible. Once you have some actual experience approaching a total stranger, you both understand and internalize the fact that your chest will not explode, the girl isn't going to slap you and tell the Internet that you suck, and you won't feel like…
/r/askTRP01/11/14 09:31 AM
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Maybe a TRPrant or trpNoob subreddit to handle all of that? All the venting, i'm16andIsThisAlpha, and other such posts can go to the newbie subreddit?
/r/TheRedPill01/11/14 02:12 AM
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Love that second one. Brilliant.
/r/askTRP30/10/14 02:52 PM
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I agree with this with one small caveat. The attractiveness of American women, like all women, is based almost entirely on their physical appearance. The difference, as you pointed out, is that dating an HB8 American woman will be a different experience from dating an HB8 Ukranian girl. For many in this sub, the Ukranian girl would be a much better choice. "Attractiveness" in this context is more of attractiveness+desirability. Something less "would I bang her?" and more "is it worth it to bang …
/r/askTRP30/10/14 02:39 PM
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I had that same thought. "Hmm, is this a thing, now?" To the other guys who had to google it, too: SHM = stay-at-home mom
/r/askTRP29/10/14 03:00 PM
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Sometimes the love is tough love. Good on you for posting and taking the responses well.
/r/askTRP28/10/14 03:37 PM
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I'm glad you posted this. I had never considered this idea before and I think it's worth some contemplation. I think you're on to something. At the moment, all I have to add is the idea that maybe "character" (i.e., the manly virtues) is something that we can demonstrate by our actions. Those actions will be observed and possibly absorbed by everyone around us. For a long time, one of my spiritual principles was to try to bring out the best in everyone I meet, especially my family. Post BP, the …
/r/MarriedRedPill28/10/14 03:32 PM
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Good point. Thanks.
/r/askTRP26/10/14 03:46 PM
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This is a perfect opportunity to practice Heartiste's skittles man game.
/r/askTRP26/10/14 02:34 PM
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The problem I see with comp sci / maths stuff is that it puts you in a very logical, direct-solution state of mind. You must turn inward to grapple with the concepts and it tends to dilute my interaction with meatspace. Additionally, the logical, direct-solution state of mind is completely useless when it comes to social dynamics. At the same time, it's your "Thing" and immersion in your Thing is very helpful in minimizing the pedestal problem. It gives you a sense of self and value and that is …
/r/askTRP26/10/14 02:29 PM
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What do you think about tacking on, "feel better soon" ?
/r/askTRP26/10/14 02:19 PM
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This was really helpful, thank you. Pre-RP, I eventually figured out that if she was acting exceptionally irrational, I needed to ask her, "are you on your period?" It didn't help her much but it reminded me not to take anything she was complaining about seriously unless it was still bothering her once she had her faculties back. Post-RP, I think your approach of tracking, but not mentioning, is much better.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/14 04:25 PM
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The fact that you are "only" 5'7"/129lbs is wholly irrelevant. Banish any suggestion that that fact matters from your mind. If you find that you still sometimes think negatively of yourself for your height, change your units of measurement to 5'7" of AWESOME. Game is its own status, and trumps looks, money, job, everything. You're already aware that it's a weak point, so you know what to do. Work on your game like it's going to be illegal in 2015. And don't be so hard on yourself. It's only been…
/r/askTRP17/10/14 04:31 PM
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For a good primer on "game," the go to reference is still Mystery's guide, "The Mystery Method." It's a bit dated, but still relevant. All of the concepts of "game" are in there. You can also look through the laidnyc guide and Chateau Heartiste. At the very least, that should provide enough evidence that "game" does in fact exist. IIRC, the trpgame sidebar has links to Mystery and CH, but maybe not laidnyc.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/14 10:36 AM
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This is the only correct response. OP has a lawyer and should not speak at all, to anyone, unless explicitly told what to say by the lawyer. To OP: do whatever you have to do to keep your mouth shut during court. Unless your lawyer approves it, nothing you want to say will help. If you have to address your ex directly, you should only speak the lines your lawyer had you memorize. You don't state your case, the lawyer does. Let the guy who does this professionally do his job. You stay the f**k ou…
/r/askTRP14/10/14 03:29 PM
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That was fucking awesome. Thank you.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/14 02:09 PM
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What is going on with the herb in the last picture? He looks like he's trying to sniff her neck.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/14 01:17 PM
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This is a pure inner game situation. Hit the gym, work on your abundance mentality, and fail your way to glory. You're not going to go from incel to jackhammer overnight. Just keep practicing and try to let the inevitable pathetic mistakes become opportunities to improve. If you don't give up, if you keep trying, the most horrific beta backsliding will be only a funny story your future self uses to swoop a girl you can't even approach now. Forget your incel time, focus on the groovy frood you wi…
/r/askTRP01/10/14 01:07 PM
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I understood that to mean that if it happens at my place, her hamster can explain it away as not her "fault". It was just something that she got swept up in in the moment. If it happens at her place, it's harder for the hamster to deny that she brought me home for sex. I'm not sure that's entirely how it works, but that's how I understood his use of the term.
/r/seduction30/09/14 02:45 PM
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Try Roosh's Day Bang (link in the sidebar). He does a good job of pointing out the differences between day/night game. Very straightforward style, too.
/r/trpGAME28/09/14 03:30 PM
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