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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| -15 | I feel like this is grounds for block, delete, move on, am I being too harsh?I think you’re being too harsh. I mean it wasn’t like he bailed on meeting up for a date. I have forgotten to call people back plenty of times | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 02:26 AM |
| 15 | Billie Eilish's newest song screams FDSThe most bizarre thing was how I was telling myself to put more focus into my future instead of dating and then 10 mins later I saw her song came out... wild | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/20 07:43 PM |
| 23 | And he wonders why he’s single when he sends me unprovoked messages like this about my selfiesI would say “you’ll never know 💁🏻♀️” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 09:30 PM |
| 139 | Here is the follow up to my post from last nightOooof I saw the first post and was going to ask if he showed. I’d be speechless if I were him lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 03:18 PM |
| 2 | I went against your advice and downloaded tinder because I'm tired of being single. Please enjoy the most cringe-worthy conversations made at my expense.Yes I have :) and it’s not desperate to want a boyfriend. No harm in trying 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/20 01:28 PM |
| 4 | I went against your advice and downloaded tinder because I'm tired of being single. Please enjoy the most cringe-worthy conversations made at my expense.I was actually hoping he would ask for drinks/dinner or that it would at least click that I wanted to meet 🤦🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 11:33 PM |
| 6 | I went against your advice and downloaded tinder because I'm tired of being single. Please enjoy the most cringe-worthy conversations made at my expense.Lmao gotta appreciate the poor attempt to recover from that. What an idiot 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 11:30 PM |
| 17 | GenerosityI’m so happy for you! This gives me hope lol I would say to keep soaking up these things while you’ve got them. He sounds really sweet and definitely knows how to treat a lady! Kinda nosy, but you said it was still early and that he was planning an overnight trip. Have you guys slept together yet? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 07:32 AM |
| 278 | 🥴🥴🥴🥴Ok I know this conversation is horrible but why can’t I stop laughing?? “or are you playing?” WHO SAYS THAT?!? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/20 06:15 PM |
| 1 | I miss physical intimacy so much that I cry over it. How do you all handle going without it?You are spot on. I hate cliches but time really does heal all wounds. It’s not helpful in the moment when you are suffering, but it does help to know things are temporary. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/20 05:47 PM |
| 2 | I miss physical intimacy so much that I cry over it. How do you all handle going without it?Today marks 2 months exactly but it was over probably 3 months before that. That relationship was very toxic and on/off so I got over it pretty quickly but I have also cried over the fact that I stayed with someone so long who made me feel so inadequate that I couldnt even reap the intimate benefits every guy but him wanted. I get sad that I spent so much time letting someone treat me this way and feel like I wasted so much by giving him so much love he didn’t deserve. Ugh. Thank you though ❤️. … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/20 09:58 AM |
| 3 | I miss physical intimacy so much that I cry over it. How do you all handle going without it?I wish I could say I want nothing to do with men but that physical bond is intense that I know I’ll always have a craving for it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/20 08:45 PM |
| 11 | I miss physical intimacy so much that I cry over it. How do you all handle going without it?This is exactly how I feel too. The buildup to sex, the anticipation, the response from a man... there’s no replacing that. Like I said before, the only thing that comes close to the real thing for me is dreaming about it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/20 08:41 PM |
| 18 | I miss physical intimacy so much that I cry over it. How do you all handle going without it?You worded this so well! It’s those little things that lead up to it. I miss the excitement of inching closer and closer to sexual territory with a man. It’s so thrilling when it’s someone you’re into and you know is into just as much. The only thing I’ve found that comes close to it are my dreams. I feel like I know my body well enough to get off but it only feels like a means of a release; not as intimate or exciting as sex. The responses from a man like you said is what does it for me too. Ug… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/20 08:40 PM |
| 29 | I miss physical intimacy so much that I cry over it. How do you all handle going without it?These are awesome suggestions! I have an electric blanket which I love but may have to try a weighted one | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/20 05:27 PM |
| 9 | I miss physical intimacy so much that I cry over it. How do you all handle going without it?I actually do have pets but they aren’t exactly cuddlers. The sad thing is when I was living with my ex we had a dog together who I spent more time with than him and bc of it I really bonded with her. She was the most cuddly and sweetest animal in the world. I had to leave her with him though because he was technically her owner. But I have 2 dogs at my parents home and a cat however they are just way to rambunctious to sit still. I’d love another dog like the one I had with my ex but think my h… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/20 05:26 PM |
| 13 | I miss physical intimacy so much that I cry over it. How do you all handle going without it?All of it. I’m have a job, I work out, I walk outside everyday, do chores around the house and even paint and read. There’s still that void | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/20 05:17 PM |
| 56 | Why are LVM so obsessive! Small d*ck energy to the maxThis is fucking pathetic. What a butthurt ass lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/20 02:50 AM |
| 67 | A good response for all too common "we should snap"This response is way too clever that I’m sure his pea-sized brain couldn’t handle it. I’m dead 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/20 10:54 PM |
| 19 | Recently started dating again (I explain why I'm dating during COVID-19 in post), and I'm having trouble narrowing guys down. Besides being kind, handsome, and having a good job, what do you look for?Ok, they can have all of these things but how many are consistently messaging you and trying to see you? I’ve found that guys seem perfect on paper but don’t want to make any effort. Talk to as many as you can and the duds will weed themselves out. You’ll know by how much effort and interest they make/have. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 09:45 PM |
| 30 | I laughed out loud when I found this profile. I had to share it with you ladiesI’m think the real question is why does he have a hard on at the gym?!?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 03:20 PM |
| 114 | Glad to be this man’s second choice. We went on a date back in October. This virus is bringing out the desperation in menThis physically hurts to read lol I’m shocked he told you the truth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/20 11:04 PM |
| 1 | MJ dropping some truth bombs as usual!I freaking love him!!! 👑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/20 07:29 PM |
| 17 | Who should initiate a conversation if someone tried setting a guy up with me?Good idea! My cousin did mention he had another date so maybe it went well and he only wants to pursue her. I just don’t understand the point of sending a friend request if the motive wasn’t to reach out though | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/20 08:23 PM |
| 3 | Who should initiate a conversation if someone tried setting a guy up with me?Good point. It’s frustrating to have gotten the request but no message. I’m just confused. Why even bother sending the request? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/20 08:20 PM |
| 26 | Apparently I am too hash. Does that even make sense?I dare you to text him at 11 pm “you up?” or insinuate sex then wait and see how quickly he responds, only to ghost | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/20 01:08 AM |
| 1 | Is not driving or having a car a dealbreaker?I really appreciate this. You sound very similar to me. it's funny when someone like you puts it so maturely and confidently because it doesn't make me think any less of you. I respect the hell out of someone who doesn't drive and doesn't let it get in the way of anything. I always worry that my value is depreciated because of this one little thing and you are absolutely right that it is because of society's standards. I have always been a late bloomer but feel so "behind" just because of this. … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 01:28 PM |
| 17 | "Sorry i offended you" and "sorry for what i did" are two VERY different sentences and I really wish some women were more aware of thisThese were always the best and ONLY “apologies” I could get from my ex. I always explained how they weren’t apologies either. I don’t think he’s able to say the word sorry and mean it. My favorites were “sorry YOU think...” or “sorry YOU feel...” dick | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/20 10:42 AM |
| 3 | Is not driving or having a car a dealbreaker?Thank you for taking the time to reply. This was a great response and I appreciate all the suggestions! You’ve been so reassuring and made me feel a lot better. It is definitely something I want to do because I’m tired of feeling so small for not doing it or just getting puzzled looks when I tell people. It’s easier said than done though. The main concern I have is getting in an accident, adapting to mistakes, and understanding where my car physically is (like staying in my lane, parking straigh… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 10:32 PM |
| 6 | He’s never going to change for you- The mentality of the LVMGahhh I freaking love you and wish I had you around in my life all the time lol you are amazing. I really needed to hear this and you don’t know how much it means. For the first time in a long time I feel like I am being selfish and finally putting myself first. It has been a great feeling to feel like I can finally breathe and be happy. I still have some work to do but I feel like I’m finally on the right track. I feel like I have my identity and independence back. He put it in my head for so l… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 11:48 AM |
| 6 | He’s never going to change for you- The mentality of the LVMTwo years is bad too! For half of our relationship, we were doing long distance which made him somewhat bearable. When we lived together, that's when the monster came out. You truly don't know someone until you live with them... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 01:54 AM |
| 6 | He’s never going to change for you- The mentality of the LVMA hard lesson learned indeed. That changing him mindset is real and was very hard for me to accept wouldnt happen. I am scared of putting myself out there again and making the same mistakes again even after going through all of this. His manipulative tactics were so good. He knew how to put it on and always knew the right things to say. I guess after a couple years, someone can only keep up an act so long. It's scary to think you may not fully know a person until a few years. It definitely makes… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 01:52 AM |
| 43 | He’s never going to change for you- The mentality of the LVMWow, did you date my ex too? The sad thing is that I put up with all of these things while he acted the way that he did for FIVE YEARS. I was so convinced if I kept putting up with his behavior, I’d be able to kill him with kindness... Now that I’m a month away from the relationship and can actually think straight, it baffles me how evil and just mean he was to me. Yet, I was always so comforting to him. What happened when he screamed from stress or over the littlest thing? Or when he punched ca… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/20 02:26 PM |
| 3 | How do you stop feeling ashamed of your party/wild girl past?Honestly, idk how I feel about this. I get how this should help, but it’s hard to picture people I care about in this. Imagining my little sister in this situation is scary and would make me feel embarrassed and worried for her. I would never want her to put herself in the situations I was in because I don’t know if her judgment/decision making would be better than mine. As for a friend... idk what I would think either. I’d either probably wonder why she didn’t value herself enough to not involv… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/20 09:27 PM |
| 2 | How do you stop feeling ashamed of your party/wild girl past?That’s a great point! Accepting certain things and forgiving myself is always been a challenge. I don’t want to ever act like that again or put myself in that environment. A big part of it was that I just went to low value bars/clubs | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/20 09:21 PM |
| 2 | How do you stop feeling ashamed of your party/wild girl past?Awww thank you, I love this. I feel like reclaiming a healthy, wild side is exactly what I need and probably what will help me get over this. Thanks again! This helps a lot! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/20 09:19 PM |
| 1 | How do you stop feeling ashamed of your party/wild girl past?I wouldn’t say that’s necessarily what I’m ashamed about. I guess public displays of it is what embarrasses me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/20 09:17 PM |
| 19 | It’s so refreshing when a guy is nice and there’s no dramaGah I just wanna cry from happiness knowing a man like this exists. That just sounds like a dream 💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/20 09:15 PM |
| 53 | Oh yes, man is making a joke at his laboring wife’s expense and posting it for internet likes. Yeah so hilarious. 🙄It’s not even funny either. This is just nasty | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/20 09:13 PM |
| 71 | Jeffery Epstein was once Cosmo’s “Bachelor of the Month”. If you need anymore evidence that magazine absolutely hates women and gives terrible to outright traumatizing sex and relationship advice to women (and girls) here it is.This didn’t age well 😬 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/20 05:47 PM |
| 24 | Forgot my makeup bag at my boyfriend’s place and I get this response. We’ve been dating for 4 months. Definitely ended things with him. *shrug*Ok, this is just insane like wtf... is it an ocd thing?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/20 03:33 PM |
| 93 | Cher drops an FDS truth bomb about the absolute non-necessity of men. Pickmeisha Journalist: WhY aRe u So MeAn AnD biTTer? Cher: I adore men, but sis I’m rich 💅I love this. Constantly told my ex this when he would be manipulative and hit me with “ill help you take care of your student loans” no thanks... I don’t need your help 💅🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/20 06:13 PM |
| 8 | How do you stop feeling guilty about getting used by LVM?This has been hard for me to learn. Idk about you all but I can be really hard on myself over the smallest things. Then I get stuck in this cycle of ruminating | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/20 04:44 PM |
| 20 | FDS First Date TipsPeople may get mad at my advice but I have pretty bad anxiety and this stuff is hard for me. What helps me with dates is having a drink or 2. You don’t wanna get drunk but maybe a little buzzed. It helps take the edge off and I feel more confident. Then by the 3rd date, I feel comfortable and don’t need a drink! Don’t look at it as a date. Imagine how you’d feel if the person wasn’t that great and the date has already happened. My saving grace was “well at least I got to eat dinner... see a movi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/20 01:54 PM |
| 102 | This bus is too loud! Wish I had understood this soonerWow. My ex constantly had nightmares that I was always dating/having sex with other guys. Now I get it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/20 11:26 PM |
| 2 | PSA: Guys who start checking out of dating & texting want everything to come easy and want to prove that they CAN do the LEAST amount of effort, and you’ll still be thereI wish I knew this then. I always convinced myself that dating apps were just an evolution of the dating world. Everyone has a phone, so EveRYoNe uses it... 🤦🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/20 08:39 PM |
| 2 | The 3 times I made the 'first move,' and why I'll never do it againIf I was given the opportunity, I’d totally take it lol. Idk what he was thinking. His brain was either so fried from getting high all the time or he was just dumb. Idk why but this reminds me of I love Lucy! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/20 08:26 PM |
| 6 | You guys, I'm laughing... this man got a WHOLE ASS LIST OF REQUIREMENTS. This isn't a dating profile, this is a job description.I feel like most of it has to be a joke, right? This just can’t be real because of how extreme it seems You said it best in #3. It honestly makes me sad that a man would treat a woman that way because that’s a quality that is at the top of my list. I want someone I can talk to and be open with! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 06:07 PM |
| 3 | You guys, I'm laughing... this man got a WHOLE ASS LIST OF REQUIREMENTS. This isn't a dating profile, this is a job description.Ok, now I am legitimately honored. I used to get a thrill from calling these low values out like this. Please keep us updated!! 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 06:05 PM |
| 30 | You guys, I'm laughing... this man got a WHOLE ASS LIST OF REQUIREMENTS. This isn't a dating profile, this is a job description.“Hi, it would be my honor to split the cost on a 10 bedroom house with you!!! We need enough rooms to hold your ego” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 05:52 PM |
| 5 | In need of some support/advice for wishy washy new guy...Girl, we are the same person! Please just drop him and leave it alone. You will be glad you did. Last year, I matched with a guy I crushed on in college four years ago, who didn’t know I existed, so my feelings were already there which is probably why I let him get away with so much. Anyway, he would take anywhere from 3 hours to a few DAYS to text back after a while and I tried to justify that it was ok!! I didn’t want him to think I was crazy, so I tried to be the cool girl and let him know th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 04:44 PM |
| 8 | In need of some support/advice for wishy washy new guy...When guys are confusing like this, it never works out. I was exactly like you. Told myself I wouldnt fall for any games but would see what was out there and would shamelessly download dating apps. I’d stick to my guns for awhile but once I caught a hint of feelings it was game over. It was like the guy’s radar went off and he’d begin checking out. Confusing, right? When a guy wants you, he stays consistent and you aren’t confused. It’s hard to separate yourself from the situation when you want t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 12:50 PM |
| 35 | "It took me HOURS to put up some signs in a video game 😩" Girls, how would you react for this type of proposal?You read my mind! How in the hell and why did this take HOURS?! It’s not even at the very least decorative or personalized!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 12:39 PM |
| 3 | DON’T BE BORING.... Proceeds to be the most basic fuckboy imaginableWhen I had dating apps, it made me mad when I saw this on EVERY profile and was an immediate swipe left. I love the Office but seeing this on 1000 profiles made me resent it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/20 11:34 PM |
| 7 | The 3 times I made the 'first move,' and why I'll never do it againI hate opening up this old wound because it still bothers me even though it was such a long time ago. So, my senior prom was coming up and I really wanted to have a date but no one had asked me yet. There was a junior in one of my classes who I had a crush on but knew was a player. We talked all the time and I thought he was into me. I decided that I was going to ask him in class while we watched a movie if he wanted to go to prom with me and I was so nervous. Leading up to the class, I told all… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/20 03:45 PM |
| 4 | How to stop seeking male validation when single?This is exactly what I want and desire. I actually love my job and hobbies which I haven’t been able to say truthfully in years. Maybe part of it is being done with college too I do have some pickme friends and I hate how crazy she gets over guys who play her when I see right through them. She has a high standard from an outsider point of view but not for herself. That can be hard sometimes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/20 01:41 PM |
| 9 | How to stop seeking male validation when single?Wow, this is freaking awesome and exactly what I needed. I definitely need to start trying this. Maybe it’s just an excuse but sometimes this feeling almost feels out of my control. I feel like I can’t help but want to attract men when I really wish I didn’t care what they thought. Thanks for your comment! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/20 01:38 PM |
| 3 | Can we please talk about this nonsense? I’m trying to understand what’s going on here?This. She hasn’t had a #1 song since summertime sadness I’m pretty sure. I love Lana, but this ig post was totally uncalled for. She’s frustrated that she’s works so hard and it hasn’t paid off. I.e.; no Grammy, no #1, and even less than perfect reviews. I hope she doesn’t stop music after this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/20 12:04 AM |
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