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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 10 | Men can't admit they can't pleasure women and that's why we replace themor a McChicken sandwich (yep) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/22 12:36 PM |
| 177 | the comments on this video i can’t😭 how do boys think a date in kfc is “making an effort”"You're not even all that, no wonder he took you to KFC" So you agree it's low quality for a first date? Got em | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/21 12:06 PM |
| 59 | Lovely bit of standard shaming by TikTok Pickminique 🙄Damn, her content reeks of internalized misogyny. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/21 04:29 PM |
| 25 | Girl, just no. And of course he’s turning 40 and she’s early 20s!!! Nooooo.Girl, you're just too precious to him that he wants to keep you as his little secret. Just you + him. Nobody else. People can't ruin what they don't know. /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/21 08:58 AM |
| 32 | Thanks FDS.🚩 Stonewalling and using 🚩 the Silent Treatment to punish you for not behaving like he wants you to | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/21 05:13 AM |
| 124 | Do not become friends with your LVM/situationship once it’s over!!We've all seen this side of men, huh? When you take away the possiblity of sex and their mask just falls off. Such an ugly sight. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/21 12:36 PM |
| 204 | Seen in the wild on a 'listicle' about why older men date young women. Also included gems like "women my age are so bitter" "younger women need the guidance and nurturing of an older man" 🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮Lmao at 'guidance' and 'nurturing'. So, basically they date younger women they can father in a way but also be able to fuck them. How disgusting is that? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/21 09:59 AM |
| 340 | The popular saying "Sex is like pizza, even if it's bad it's pretty good" is proof that men just do not see the world the same way as women.Yes, this! That's because they're almost always guaranteed an orgasm while our worst case scenario is getting raped or killed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/21 02:49 PM |
| 69 | He Who Does Not Wash His Ass has nothing of value to say to you.Welp, there goes my breakfast 😫🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/21 12:20 AM |
| 1 | The wall is real. For men. Exhibit #7777 😉✌🏽😌🖐🏽 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 11:32 PM |
| 5 | The wall is real. For men. Exhibit #7777 😉Well "we", as in anyone with a common sense, knows aging is natural. "We", as in it is a common humor theme here in FDS to take one of the terms used in the manosphere against women and spin it around on them. Since they can't handle even a fraction of what women put up with everyday, they go batshit and it's so funny when they do because they can't even see the irony of it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 11:18 PM |
| 5 | The wall is real. For men. Exhibit #7777 😉Like I said, I'm trolling. It's not that deep. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 03:06 PM |
| 44 | The wall is real. For men. Exhibit #7777 😉We really don't buy into that concept and know that aging is a natural thing. This is just one of those posts where we spin the narrative on scrotes and use their vocabulary against them. It's fun, it triggers the predditors, yay engagement! 😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 01:14 PM |
| 362 | The wall is real. For men. Exhibit #7777 😉Redditcels aparently didn't know male actors wear makeup, too and blame it on that. Sure thing, scroteyyy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 06:04 AM |
| 270 | The wall is real. For men. Exhibit #7777 😉He looks like he would match with a 20-year old on a dating app while being 51. Oh wait, he did. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 05:49 AM |
| 69 | The wall is real. For men. Exhibit #7777 😉Lmaooo. No one caught the reference I inserted in the title yet, tho ☹️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 05:46 AM |
| 246 | The wall is real. For men. Exhibit #7777 😉I mean, pictured above are men with makeup artists, assistants, money and all that, so just imagineee the average scrote. Delusioooon. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 05:35 AM |
| 566 | The wall is real. For men. Exhibit #7777 😉But I thought "Women peak at 18 while men peak at 50"??? /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 05:30 AM |
| 27 | The wall is real. For men. Exhibit #7777 😉in the photo, yes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 05:22 AM |
| 50 | I'm sick of people thinking sex is a need. It's not. It's a want and a privilegetf when a guy uses Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs to prove he is entitled to sex while forgetting it is only one of the theories of behavioral motivation | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/21 02:13 PM |
| 6 | Céline from Before Sunrise exposing liberal feminism back in 1994tbf I did like this movie for the script more than the plot | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/21 12:32 PM |
| 15 | Céline from Before Sunrise exposing liberal feminism back in 1994And then she proceeds to sleep with him in some park lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/21 12:24 PM |
| 10 | A Totally Innocent Not At All Sexual in Any Way Papaya Eating Contest at 5:10Oh my sweet summer child.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 11:52 AM |
| 39 | Happy Mother’s Day FDS!Happy Mother's Day to p_ckmes who are raising manchild scr_tes 😂😭 edit: asterisk lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/21 04:46 AM |
| 72 | Pickme Poodle 🐩🥴 goes on walkies!! 🐶😩💦They're so deep in denial that they get sooo defensive instead of acknowledging how half-assed they're being treated in the relationship and actually wants better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 12:58 AM |
| 3 | “I just had my time completely wasted by a LVM douchebag, but OMG it was awesome!!” 🤦♀️Nope, we don't give them pointers. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 12:38 AM |
| 6 | Hotties for you!Yep, we deserve both! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 12:14 AM |
| 11 | What’s the most embarrassing pick-me thing you’ve ever done?!??? 🙋🏻♀️🙋🏾♀️🙋🏽♀️🙋🏿♀️🙋🏼♀️I was the one-of-the-boys type with a shitload of internalized misogyny. I'm really sorry, you guys 😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 12:05 AM |
| 31 | Just for fun: how many males are on your block list?"What is this men you speak of?" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 12:00 AM |
| 112 | Keep putting yourself first, queens!Like how a certain sex of a certain species are mad they can't come on this sub and force their golden inputs down our throats (like they don't already do that literally everywhere else) Die mad, scrotes. ✌🏽😁 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/21 06:34 AM |
| 12 | Don’t tell your friends about him too soonWoah, I'm on the flip side of this. Even pre-FDS, I saw how terrible at choosing men most women in my family and friends are. My reasoning was this, if they meet a guy I'm dating before I get the chance to assess him myself, their terrible judgment might cloud mine then I'd just settle for 'meh, he's okay enough' you know? Which is pretty much the opposite of my dating goal | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/21 05:51 AM |
| 62 | “Never give him second chances, we men are fully aware of our actions”Block and delete! You can do this! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 04:17 AM |
| 79 | Why women hate porn: it harms and objectifies women. 🤡 Why men hate porn: 🤡I stopped at could of been | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 04:11 AM |
| 10 | it starts when we are kidsYounger me was very bubbly and likes to skip around the neighborhood when running errands or just because. A couple of middle-aged women told me to stop doing it because it might affect my child-bearing abilities, they mentioned ovaries dropping or something??? Which is incredibly inaccurate wtf?! Anyway, I got so confused and frankly so weirded out that they'd say that to a 10 year old girl.. but yeah, I stopped doing it. Makes me so mad now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/21 03:35 AM |
| 4 | This is a thing on IG/TikTok now. I hope she gets picked!Is this the same person who cleaned her tinder date's shoes? If a guy shows up on a date in muddy af shoes, and your first reaction is 'Wow, those shoes are perfect for cleaning. Just the right amount of dirty and stinky. Thanks, also can you film me cleaning it?" Like???!?! Does she think she's Monica and she's gonna find her Chandler that way or something idk but– 🤮🤮🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/21 03:15 AM |
| 373 | Stop normalizing men’s immaturitymen: "Women are too emotional" but also men: mantrums , testerical fits and too distracted by an exposed strip of flesh to do work or school | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/21 12:11 AM |
| 662 | Stop normalizing men’s immaturityTf when they claim they're intellectually superior but also, "He just didn't know what he did was awful and hurt you, you have to cOmMuNiCaTe in plain, simple terms" They really just pick whatever narrative benefits them at the moment. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/21 11:37 PM |
| 112 | This will never not be funny.Ah, the ol' word salad 🥗 The only type of salad that drains you instead of filling you up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/21 05:45 PM |
| 119 | You might be an FDSer if...Having way higher standards and cringing at other people who glorify the bare minimum ("My bf flushes the toilet everytime and never hits me when we fight. I feel so lucky!" 🤮😬) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/21 02:32 PM |
| 13 | I hate Adam Sandler’s films.I used to like it, too but.. try considering it from this perspective. https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/ifkm1n/romantic_movies_that_are_fds_horror_movies/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 04:21 PM |
| 27 | Seriously, what IS IT with the 20 something girls?! No need for “freaking out” or being scared and “terrified” you'll “never find love”. Those types of posts make me fear for the next generations...This mentality is exactly how I got myself involved with a narcissistic piece of shit. Also how I ended up finding FDS. While desperately trying to crawl out of that hole. Very dangerous. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 03:55 PM |
| 3 | Mood for lifeEyyyy congrats on the flair and welcome to the sub! 💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 04:04 AM |
| 8 | This is the type of obtuse mentality that I'm referring to when I say "men are committed to misunderstanding us"Your username rang true once again, yasss | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 02:14 AM |
| 181 | This one goes out to the male lurkers who've told a woman she's "too much""I'm no longer shrinking myself to be digestible. Y'all can choke." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 12:52 AM |
| 27 | Die mad, scrotes 😂Ohh one of the most common arguments made by reddit men who got barred from commenting here is that "Your sub is about 'dating strategies', you should listen to male opinion since you're trying to win us, right? Right?" WRONG! So wrong omfg 🤭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 06:21 AM |
| 14 | Found this on Facebook...If anyone says this to me in person, as like, a genuine advice, I'd just laugh in their face until I tear up 🤣🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 05:34 PM |
| 3 | Pick me propaganda! This “advice” is clearly targeted towards women because 99% of men are going to get off regardless. Don’t excuse sexually incompetent men that don’t make an effort you off, there’s already way too many of those. Thank you. ☺️✨Right? What else could make sex "fun" Surely not watching some guy's weird cumming face. Shit's not a good sight lmaooo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 04:26 PM |
| 16 | This is why we need spaces like FDS, where men cannot insert their biased opinionsHAHAHA a scrote really tried to reply, thereby proving my point even more... but then got blocked (chef's kiss) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 03:26 PM |
| 7 | Pick me propaganda! This “advice” is clearly targeted towards women because 99% of men are going to get off regardless. Don’t excuse sexually incompetent men that don’t make an effort you off, there’s already way too many of those. Thank you. ☺️✨This is why internal monologues should be kept internal , Andie 😬 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 12:46 PM |
| 36 | This is why we need spaces like FDS, where men cannot insert their biased opinionsLiterally everywhere else on the internet, any post about women's wants/standards/preferences are flooded with comments by men saying, "Well us guys wants..." Unprompted, unwanted whataboutism. That kind of shit just doesn't exist in FDS, I love it here! (Shoutout to the mods xx~) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 12:38 PM |
| 98 | ANOTHER SLUG UPDATE and honestly, this one is much worse. He was clearly exploiting her mental illnesses for his own personal amusement. One of the most disgusting, depraved, and truly evil things I've ever seen.the edit I– 💀💀💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 11:24 PM |
| 25 | I finally broke up with my abuser — thank you allBeen through something similar. From the age gap, emotional manipulation, even down to the being kept like some dirty little secret. There is light at the end of this tunnel, I promise. Sending you all my love 💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 03:04 AM |
| 9 | Don't complain, Don't explain -Kate MossAh, yes. My go-to is "welp 🤷🏻♀️" just before dipping out hahahaha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/21 07:47 AM |
| 12 | Just had this DM'd to me. LVM can be found with degrees too.So he ugly lmaooo. Why are they so transparent? Classic r / niceguys | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/21 03:26 PM |
| 9 | Never build a man upThat punchline hit me like a truck 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 01:55 PM |
| 9 | WHO is teaching us? Maybe the sky high rates of rape and murder? The abuse women receive on a daily basis? Nah, #notallmen! But please don't dress like that to the party.We need not be "taught" when most of us experienced it firsthand. wtf | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/21 03:29 AM |
| 68 | It is essential that we understand why men think the way they do: men and women are raised with completely different mindsets. This passage from WDHDT opened my mind a lot to the societal conditioning of men's mindsetsI'll be damned if I raise a kid and he turns out an LVM/NVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/21 07:24 PM |
| 3 | Everyday I thank the universe for my FDS lenses.Because she's "cool" 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 04:16 PM |
| 12 | Everyday I thank the universe for my FDS lenses.Exactly! We don't hand out participation awards for grown men. This isn't kindergarten. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 12:11 PM |
| 37 | So many young girls develop eating disorders due to sexual harassment from young boys. Little boys are not innocent.Yes to all of this! My curves developed earlier than most and was told I have the body for porn.. at 14!!! by one of my classmates nonetheless. They made that seem like some compliment. I also responded by wearing baggy clothes and be as tomboyish as possible. Only now in my 20's am I able to feel secure enough to wear dresses and other "more feminine" clothes. It feels like I was robbed of my girlhood. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 09:43 AM |
| 36 | LVM/NVM just want a mommy with benefitsSpot on! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/21 05:47 AM |
| 7 | "He's leaving her anyway, I don't mind. Should I give it a try and ignore that I'm an active participant in cheating?"Sooo close especially in those last few sentences. Scarcity mindset, maybe? 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/21 08:15 AM |
| 57 | "He's leaving her anyway, I don't mind. Should I give it a try and ignore that I'm an active participant in cheating?"This! When I read "Thoughts?" this is exactly what I was thinking. They don't really want advice, they just want validation for their already-made decision. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/21 08:11 AM |
| 51 | I just got flashbacks of a bearded man on a "date", talking about his beard for 45 minutes, while stroking his beard... also why do they make that facial expression?Nah, I'm not letting that touch my face (or any part of my body) considering how much I spend on skincare products. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 05:10 PM |
| 2 | Anon is a sweaty neck beard that has never been to JapanIf you make him cite his sources, I bet he has nothing but 9gag articles, memes and anime. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 04:55 AM |
| 93 | Let’s be clear: your standards are not negotiable!Some guy almost successfully gaslighted me into thinking what I'm looking for in a relationship is too much/unrealistic. Thankful for finding FDS and quickly learning I was asking for the ✨bare minimum✨ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/20 12:34 AM |
| 16 | They really will say anything to us, won’t they?Damn, where's my free award when I need it 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 07:49 AM |
| 3 | I feel like this easily could have been me if not for FDS omg, just why!!It made me feel the same and I am 21/23, FDS tingz 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/20 03:25 AM |
| 1 | We need to go above and beyond for ourselvesThis is a mantra that helped me escape an unhealthy connection. "I deserve better. I can do better than this." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/20 01:28 AM |
| 12 | Do male strangers act like you should mother them?I agree! Walking fast while looking straight ahead with your "think murder" face is a priceless tool | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 03:28 AM |
| 54 | LVM play devil's advocate like this and really think they did something. Anyways...Don't threaten me with a good time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 08:15 AM |
| 3 | "I'm a broke loser so I stole these flowers for you." 🤮I see this in teenage couples a lot, too. Romanticizing "young love/puppy love" when it's really just mostly relying on your parents' hard-earned money (school allowance) to eat chicken nuggets on a "date" and make out in the parking lot. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 04:11 AM |
| 6 | No means NO! Even in a relationship!Right? I just wanna drag that loser by the collar and fling him into the Pacific Ocean. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 04:01 AM |
| 146 | No means NO! Even in a relationship!"How do I make my bf understand I'm a living, breathing human and not a fleshlight." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 03:55 PM |
| 40 | "I'm a broke loser so I stole these flowers for you." 🤮If you're broke, you have no business tryna date anyone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 03:51 PM |
| 1 | Me before FDS 🤡🤡🤡But.. but–I'm sure there's hidden gold somewhere inside this bucket marked Red Flags which is also overflowing with red flags!! Don't tell me to just dump it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 05:15 AM |
| 108 | Don’t explain yourselves. It only gives them ammunition. JUST BLOCK AND DELETE. (Context in comments)It's always the "Hope you get your shit sorted/together" line that pisses me off. Projection much? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 03:08 PM |
| 6 | This, seriously.Take this poor merchant's gold, maam 🏅⛏️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 03:20 AM |
| 5 | Why settle for someone who could potentially be a prince when there are ones who already are?It is! My own mother once had a sit-down with me because she "talked" to the neighborhood boys and they reportedly said that I'm "chill and all but had too much attitude they can't handle." I was so confused! Like, I thought she's supposed to be on my side???? After finding FDS, I've since learned that my mom had soooo many pickme/coolgirl/one-of-the-boys traits. My father's an LVM, unsurprisingly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 09:01 AM |
| 40 | Why settle for someone who could potentially be a prince when there are ones who already are?Also, you can def be your own happily ever after (sans prince charming) 👑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 02:58 PM |
| 39 | “I hate gold diggers! Women who take advantage of men! EQuALity” things LVM sayThere's no gold to "dig" Jeff, sit your ass down. 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/20 04:25 AM |
| 49 | No words. (Reposted with names marked out)The other day we were shoes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 04:34 AM |
| 4 | Scrote from ELEVEN years ago just rang my bell unannounced to "reconnect" 🤮Narcissists just loooove ruining holidays, don't they? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 03:38 AM |
| 78 | The Rise of The PickMeisha has really ruined society!FWB culture exists so technically, 0$. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 04:37 AM |
| 199 | If you could go back and give your 23-year old self dating advice, what would it be ?These are things I wish my 23-year old self knew. Online LDRs are a joke. Age gap relationships... just no. Hookup culture isn't "women empowerment." Don't date down physical appearance-wise because they'll end up treating you like you're the ugly one. Google "covert narcissism" and "trauma bonding" Keep your standards high. (Don't ever budge. For anyone. Ever) I could go on but I'm sure other members here have plenty more useful tips for you. Keep safe. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 02:23 PM |
| 40 | The Dictionary of ScrotesMen who claim to be "visual" must not own a mirror because THAT would be a terrifying vision. Their greasy but also somehow dusty ass reflection, that is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/20 06:12 PM |
| 62 | The Dictionary of Scrotes"You're mature for your age." - I'm a predator who preys on impressionable young women because nobody my age will touch me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/20 06:10 PM |
| 3 | Pickmesha getting triggered on behalf of men because a girl said men shouldn't be praised for doing the bare minimum as parents as if it's a super hero achievement.Yep. Said too much but didn't help the case at all. Her argument is literally non-existent: Next 🛎️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/20 06:06 PM |
| 18 | No more free labour for menBLOCK👏🏽 AND👏🏽 DELETE👏🏽 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/20 05:58 PM |
| 3 | HE SPAT ON HER DOG... why do scrotes think they can 1) talk to someone who isn’t open to talking and 2) harass an animalHaven't even clicked play and I'm already seething. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/20 02:39 PM |
| 126 | How SONS are treated VS How DAUGHTERS are treated. "Ready" = well in their 30s probablyKinda ruined what was supposed to be a cute, funny toon about animals. It's just that I recently went on a rant about how almost every male in my family is a no-good LVM/NVM. My aunts are STILL doing it to their sons. It's gotten to the level of: My darling baby golden child I'll do your laundry and even fight your wife for you. Horrifying. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/20 05:53 PM |
| 42 | Day in the life of dating a D1 football player - OH MY GOD"Day in the life of being a single mom to an overgrown manchild." There, fixed it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/20 11:26 AM |
| 68 | Just saw this- literally proving we are responsible for changing men’s (poor) grooming habits?girl I– 💀💀💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/20 11:11 AM |
| 38 | out in the wild...couldn’t be me 🤮🤮Translation: I'm a 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/20 06:12 AM |
| 15 | To the left, to the leftFuck, that last sentence caused a brief tightness in my chest. 😔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/20 01:02 PM |
| 22 | Singles who are satisfied with their friends are less likely to desire a relationship partnerWhen you already have a solid network of family and/or friends, it also helps you not settle for anything less in a relationship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/20 09:37 AM |
| 17 | Been in this type of relationship before, doesn’t end well.Triangulation. Any basic manipulator has this in their arsenal. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/20 12:30 PM |
| 15 | People who hate this sub never read the full bio or the comments on most posts and it shows!!!Welcome home ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/20 06:58 AM |
| 127 | The Value of Block and DeleteYES. Always had this rule not to remain friends with an ex (being civil is different from being friends) Broke this rule once, wouldn't recommend it. Compromised my self respect and made me feel shitty. Still ended up cutting them off. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/20 06:51 PM |
| 78 | Isn't this quite hypocritical of him?, I mean just listen to his music 🙄Using a naked wax figure of Taylor Swift in his music video was literally revenge porn. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/20 05:34 PM |
| 13 | Applies to generic white malesCan confirm: "Hey Jenny (not rlly my name), my exotic beauty" This, from a white guy I was talking to for months already. I just replied, "welp" (pre-FDS) out of disappointment. Should've just blocked. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/20 05:18 PM |
| 34 | “It doesn’t matter if he cheats as long as you know he loves you” - a friend of a friend. Can she be saved?Does any woman really believe that? Sounds like a cope | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/20 10:58 PM |
| 4 | Remember, YOU ARE A QUEEN! Treat yourself like one! 👑LVM be like, "You are my sunshine" and then give you nothing but dark clouds | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 05:28 PM |
| 14 | Finally leveling up!That part about FDS being the strong female role model we never had growing up, I felt that very much. Hugs to you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/20 03:16 PM |
| 5 | Women never orgasmed throughout history, but now that they can they will. Why buy the cow when a single tool can fix your problem without dealing with a whole ass dudeJoey really went full scrote and publicly announced he has never gotten a woman off and has a small peen. Oof | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/20 01:03 PM |
| 2 | LVM behaviours displayed on 1st dateOh my god, this! So much this! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/20 05:44 AM |
| 2 | The Intellectual Manipulator, Mr. Machiavellli (per request ;)Aaahh it's here! saves post | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/20 02:40 PM |
| 7 | Abuse isn't romanticabout #7, that wrist-grab move in Korean Drama where the male lead grabs the woman's wrist to either stop her in her tracks or drag her away from a situation. This one Asian guy I was seeing tried that on me once and it's NOT romantic or cute at all. That shit hurts, too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/20 02:38 AM |
| 3 | How do you avoid intelligent LVM?Please do ❤️ I would love to read more about this. Last guy I talked to turned out to be the covert narc type. They're so hard to detect. Plus, breaking the trauma bond took months! Then I remembered him highly recommending this one Machiavelli book. That was the missing clue. Total NVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/20 02:25 AM |
| 16 | Gas me up to drop this manOh man, this guy is just a bunch of red flags stacked together to look like a human. Tinder Love Bombing Mirroring Triangulation Zero Empathy BDSM All this and you haven't even met. BLOCK & DELETE. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 05:43 AM |
| 3 | Ladies, if you need some pointers on how to spot red flags: DING DING DING WE HAVE A WINNER🚩🚩🚩What the ladies above (or below?) said lol Also if you hear the words, "You're mature for your age" run, sis. Dating way older guys also ages you. Trust me, I've been there. Vet carefully and ruthlessly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 09:28 PM |
| 17 | Ladies, if you need some pointers on how to spot red flags: DING DING DING WE HAVE A WINNER🚩🚩🚩Sad thing was that it didn't immediately register to me as a sign to run. I've also had to learn through FDS how our age gap was a huge red flag. Live and learn, I guess. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 12:35 PM |
| 102 | Ladies, if you need some pointers on how to spot red flags: DING DING DING WE HAVE A WINNER🚩🚩🚩Me: "I'm gonna cut my hair short." Him: "What, how short?" Me: "I'm not asking for permission." Him: "But.. you know long hair is a thing for me." Me: "Sounds like a YOU problem" actual conversation I had with a 31 year old man. I was 23. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 09:52 AM |
| 120 | If they didn't do it for themselves, they're not going to do it for you.We take them as already HVM, or not at all. This isn't Build-a-Boi | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 01:14 PM |
| 5 | LibFem Twitter is at it again. WTF is “Sexual Mutual Aid”? Notice how quickly the Incels jumped into the fray to spin this idea into a way to punish women who won’t have sex with them🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️Today on internet posts that make you go, "What the actual fuck?!" out loud, not just the usual deep disappointed sigh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 07:24 AM |
| 3 | Easiest way to get to know how shitty a man is?I've seen this pattern, too! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 05:23 PM |
| 100 | Adult man has a sad because even the literal child that he’s been screwing knows that he sucks in bed.Imagine admitting to the internet that you suck in bed and still having the audacity to shift the blame. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 03:22 PM |
| 93 | I screamed lmaooThis happened to me earlier this year, but also exactly how I found FDS. Ehhh silver lining? 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 02:54 PM |
| 3 | "Let them slide once, and they'll start figure skating"All the details in this paragraph resonate with me, I'm not even kidding. They operate in very similar patterns. Anyway, we're on the other side now. Cheers, Queen 🥂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 04:25 PM |
| 2 | Do my eyes deceive me? Is this even something worth entertaining???I love how the flair answers the title | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 12:32 PM |
| 2 | Do my eyes deceive me? Is this even something worth entertaining???Ah, the chronic The One That Got Away-itis | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 09:26 AM |
| 49 | It bothers me so much that most men see sex as something humiliating and degrading done to women and that they see woman as an submissive sex object, just body parts to use. And this is why i hate porn so much... It basically traumatized me and ruined sex for me forever.I grew up overhearing married women in my family talking about sex this way. As something done to them by their husbands. As an adult I just realized, wow they must be having god awful sex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 11:27 AM |
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