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| 2 | TOO reaffirming?I see it, relationships are about give and take. And clearly, he is getting a great deal from reaffirming. But I think it would be TOO much reaffirmation if you feel that effort is not reciprocated. What does he do to show his appreciation for you? If the difference is great, then there needs to be some reconstruction or there is bound to be some resentment that will eventually unfold. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/11/13 02:14 AM |
| 6 | Feeling uncomfortableI think what you are seeing here with your friend is something that women seem to do, even I: whenever someone gets complimented, especially by their looks, they feel bad about themselves. Especially with the fact that she is looking for a boyfriend. In her mind, she is losing. She sees you as competition, in a sense. I feel that way all the time. I hate going out to bars and hanging out with groups with some of my prettier friends. It makes me feel inadequate, receiving no attention while they … | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/09/13 04:55 AM |
| 1 | RPW's thoughts on a particular version of feminism?This pretty much is exactly what I wanted to say, but written eloquently. You are free to do whatever you want. But all actions have consequences, both intended and unintended. That is what feminism doesn't tell people. You can't do whatever you want and expect other people not to say or think anything. | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/09/13 02:39 PM |
| 1 | Is this normal?Umbilicaljane, you are inspiring. When I got into cooking, my sister got me a book called "How to cook everything: the basics" by Mark Bittman. It was super helpful because it does what the title says. But what i found interesting that some of the recipies in the book appeared somewhat flawed, so it forced me to look up recipies online and see how other people are making the same thing. Which helps. Now, I feel like i have a really good idea intuition about cooking. For example, I was looking at… | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/09/13 04:28 AM |
| 4 | Serious question: Do you women really exist? What age are you?And yes, we exist. It's just a really hard pill to swallow. Even for women. When I first heard about this stuff, I was livid. But after awhile and letting things sink in, I finally understood. And in the case of these people "not existing in real life", sometimes I think it is juts of confirmation bias. You see all of the people who don't believe it, because that's what everyone expects. But we exist. | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/09/13 03:10 AM |
| 3 | Would you date or marry a man that had a vasectomy?I think I am the only one that does not take the whole vasectomy thing over at TRP seriously. I just think that the reasons for it is completely over the top. If you did it, then thats fine, I couldn't care less. I guess it bothers me personally, because it seems like when they do it, they are doing it because deep down, they do not trust women vs. normal people who do because they don't want kids. | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/08/13 07:50 PM |
| 2 | Q: On mother-child abuse and gender (anecdotal phenomenom)I think it has much more to do with socioeconomic status. If you have a person, man or woman, who was a single parent, they have to do more for providing for children. this would include things such as working long and inconvenient hours, possibly for little pay. And of course, dealing with this stress of this sort of work, they are more likely to deal with to take things out onto their children, having little room for letting kids be kids. Hence, the violent behavior. When you talk about women … | /r/TheRedPill | 28/08/13 05:01 PM |
| 7 | Besides drug addiction, how do pimps convince women to be part of his "stable" ?Also, keeping her away from friends. And moving her from city to city so she does not make connections and ties to new people. | /r/askTRP | 27/08/13 09:10 PM |
| 1 | Housewives are the New Battered WivesI know. That why I said I'm probably being to sensitive. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/08/13 06:27 PM |
| 4 | Housewives are the New Battered WivesArbeit Macht Frei: Work will set you free. If anyone doesn't know, these were the signs that were ironically posted in Nazi concentration camps. No matter how hard they worked, they were never going to be free, the only thing there was death. I'm not sure how I feel about that, splayed across the top. As if comparing women working with everything that sign meant. Maybe I am being too sensitive, but that seems wrong to me. But I get the point of it all. Working and trying to do it all will not ma… | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/08/13 06:12 PM |
| 1 | "Ridiculously Bad Advice from the 1950's"??? There are some pretty good advice in here...Surprisingly, my dad was the one who cooked in my house, not my mom. He just really enjoyed doing it. I should have took him up and watched him cook when he offered when I was a kid. Now I have to learn everything by myself, and cookbooks. I wish i was so skilled that I don't even need recipes at all. We all need good teachers. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/08/13 11:27 PM |
| 4 | "Ridiculously Bad Advice from the 1950's"??? There are some pretty good advice in here...I'm sorry about the bum link guys... http://glo.msn.com/relationships/relationship-advice-from-the-1950s-9533.gallery | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/08/13 11:25 PM |
| 6 | What do women feel once they swallow the Red Pill?I guess the first reaction is anger. But mostly it was fear. Fear that I have the good years of my life were wasted eing oblivious. I've been overweight my entire life. Hair short and not caring about any of it. I always wanted to be married and have children and the window is starting to close. Now its the case of fixing all the things wrong so I can have those things It's going to take work. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/07/13 09:05 PM |
| -1 | Bill O'Reilly hits the problem with the black community on the head.Go Falcons! | /r/TheRedPill | 25/07/13 11:32 PM |
| 3 | frivolous postI can knit, crochet and sew. It's very therapeutic. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/07/13 05:35 PM |
| 4 | Salmon Bake - If your man likes Salmon, cook this for him tonight!also, check out /r/Cooking. It has some really good stuff there! | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/07/13 11:15 PM |
| 3 | Are there "beta" qualities that are positively valued?I definitely think so. I have been learning a lot and thinking about redpill truth and whatnot. I have learned that if a guy does not have any show some "beta traits", I won't see anything coming happening with us. I want a relationship where I will feel safe and secure on some level. And with some "asshole alpha traits" will not make me feel secure. Being involved with that kind of alpha is not fun. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/07/13 07:58 PM |
| 2 | What do ya'll think of this post from TRP? "Is there anything more pathetic than an unmarried woman over 30?"a lot of good women What? Haha. You're cute. No I'm not saying lie to them, because it's not too hard to see when a guy is not truly attached to a woman if that's what you are looking for. I'm just saying that men and women are different in what they want. Men mostly want passion. In the long-run, women want commitment. Think about it, you have your "soft harems" as you guys call it. How long do women stay in these arrangements? 3 months before she wises up? That's why they are considered soft. … | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/07/13 02:32 PM |
| 0 | What do ya'll think of this post from TRP? "Is there anything more pathetic than an unmarried woman over 30?"Remember, marriage and co-habitation are apart of the female mating strategy.While seen as "beta" a lot of good women will not get involved without the idea of some sort of commitment. | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/07/13 12:33 PM |
| 2 | What do ya'll think of this post from TRP? "Is there anything more pathetic than an unmarried woman over 30?"This is what I am talking about when I say take what you read with a grain of salt. As an onlooker and a woman who is not "redpill", this is very offensive. But I have come to realize that a lot of what the redpill is about is a place where certain men can come to rant and let out there frustrations. And of course, the meaner and more controversial it is, the more certain people will gravitate towards it and enjoy it. And will increase popularity. Everything that zioncontroller writes is that wa… | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/07/13 06:56 PM |
| 3 | Chicken Hummus Wraps - Homemade potato chips - Tomato Mozzarella SaladI like this. I really do hope that this becomes a think. Sharing recipes and such. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/07/13 06:52 PM |
| 1 | So, am I just old, or what?I have no idea. but he's 24 if that counts for anything. | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/07/13 12:35 AM |
| 2 | So, am I just old, or what?I don't know about girls. But I know a guy who extremely popular with women. His count is at least 60 :/ So I guess it happens. | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/07/13 12:09 AM |
| 1 | It is a constant never-ending processThis is so true. And no, changing will be hard. You will feel uncomfortable, silly and different. If it is uncomfortable, you are doing something right. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/07/13 04:12 PM |
| 2 | Do you find a man being well endowed effects the amount of respect or attraction you have towards him?No. If anything, I think it gives guys an ego boost like "she will be lucky that I want to sleep with her" sort of an attitude. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/07/13 12:51 AM |
| 2 | Saw a thread on r/theredpill, and it got me thinking about certain alpha males that are not appropriate to date. Can you give your opinion on this?We didn't fuck, btw. And I had no idea that he was a model until he added me on facebook the next day. But I did learn my lesson. Thanks though. I realize that I was stupid. | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/07/13 04:42 PM |
| 1 | Saw a thread on r/theredpill, and it got me thinking about certain alpha males that are not appropriate to date. Can you give your opinion on this?Oh, I'm learning. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/07/13 09:39 PM |
| 1 | Saw a thread on r/theredpill, and it got me thinking about certain alpha males that are not appropriate to date. Can you give your opinion on this?Hahaha! Now I feel like I have to do some damage control. It wasn't literally at the party. It was a house party that was out in a very rural area/country. We chatted for a bit and I was really into it. And for the most part, I wanted to talk with him by myself. Every time we were alone for a couple of minutes, people joined us. We left the house and went for a walk outside and talked. We took a seat away from all the roads and houses in a field/forest type thing and made out and it did get real… | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/07/13 06:57 PM |
| 4 | Let's see the rule "Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks" in real lifeI don't know about that. I think that what it comes down to is women finding a balance between alpha and beta traits. For some reason, when I see some alphas, they are "purely" so: sleeping with tons of women and they feel like they don't need relationships since they are getting the sex that they need. I don't see what's wrong. Red pill says "men want sex and women want commitment". How is it wrong knowing that the guy that a woman is attracted to won't give her the commitment she desires (spea… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/07/13 04:19 AM |
| 1 | What are the steps to becoming a redpill woman?This, and the fact that we are judged on some things that we are not able to change.And we hate to have flaws pointed out. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/07/13 01:08 AM |
| 8 | What are the steps to becoming a redpill woman?Let's see. I have learned not to be overly offended about the stuff I read on the red pill. That is a major one. Under all of the anger, etc., there are some really useful things. I cannot be upset over the double standards that exist. I just have to work on myself. A lot of it has to do with looks. Definitely working out and eating better is one of the things I started to do. I have realized that aging is inevitable. And I cannot stop it, I can help lessen the blow. I have been working on my sk… | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/07/13 05:48 PM |
| 2 | Network of enlightened Women - positive site for good modern feminine womenAnd here's the question that I want to ask: why do we have to bring politics into this? Is it not possible to be liberal or moderate and be redpill as well? | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/06/13 09:16 PM |
| 2 | Hair - The Long and Short of It (Femininity Field Report)Beautiful. I have learned my lesson. I have always kept my hair short and now I'm in the process of growing it out. I never really had a problem with it until it finally sank in that femininity is strongly connected to hair. I'm getting hair extensions put in soon. As I see it, fake hair is better than no hair. Call it apart of my self-improvement strategy. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/06/13 07:15 PM |
| 4 | Married to a black woman. Receiving a lot of resistance since taking the red pill.Okay. I'm going to come to you as another black woman. The issue here has nothing really to do with the dynamics of "male/female" relationships, but it has to do with the fact that she's black. I understand exactly where she is coming from. You have to realize that family is a big part of black culture. And yes, family reunions are a big deal for African Americans. I know that you going to this family reunion will mean a lot to her. If you do not go, you realize that you put your foot down, but … | /r/TheRedPill | 12/06/13 11:55 PM |
| 0 | "I feel like you're only allowed to be vulnerable up to a small point if you want to be with a women, and that vulnerability is preferably expressed via anger." (x-post /r/OneY)Don't be too disappointed. I posted it up because I wanted opinions, not because I wanted to debate/saying it's completely true. I just happened to stumble on the article today. As I read what actually said, the terms "vulnerable" are used in different contexts here. Remember, I don't know everything and I'm learning. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/05/13 01:34 AM |
| -1 | "I feel like you're only allowed to be vulnerable up to a small point if you want to be with a women, and that vulnerability is preferably expressed via anger." (x-post /r/OneY)I read this article yesterday. What do you guys think? http://postmasculine.com/vulnerability-and-manipulative-women | /r/TheRedPill | 28/05/13 04:43 PM |
| 4 | [science] Dove's viral video gets it wrong: You Are Less Beautiful Than You Thinkthe referenced paper [PDF] Thanks! That's all I really wanted: was to read the study and be informed. Look, I'm learning something new already. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/05/13 06:46 PM |
| -1 | [science] Dove's viral video gets it wrong: You Are Less Beautiful Than You ThinkWhat I think: the article used the word "people". To be honest, this article is does not go into detail about who their demographic is. Is it men and women? Is there more men than women? How old are they? While the dove campaign only exclusively was women, even though it was a small sample. Before we start up, I think that this article does not have any credibility by giving no detail on who their sample is. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/05/13 04:56 PM |
| 1 | A little something for those of you who have the feeling that women are no good and can't be trusted.By whom? | /r/TheRedPill | 14/05/13 12:20 AM |
| 1 | An askmen thread that talks about sexual attraction and the emotional repercussions that come from it. I just really want your opinion on it.See here's the thing: it doesn't say how big or small she is: now, what if she were normal-sized and her boyfriend like's petite women. Can we keep this objective? Rather than it being a case of finding all the things that she is doing wrong. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/05/13 12:33 AM |
| 7 | Kill yourselvesDude, you can't even troll decently. Give up. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/04/13 01:29 AM |
| 1 | I'm unsure what to think of this subreddit.Yes, I've read it. And it is actually really helpful. "look at the things you should be doing ladies!" | /r/TheRedPill | 28/03/13 11:53 PM |
| 1 | I'm unsure what to think of this subreddit.I don't get what the issue is. As a woman who comes here to learn, I would love to have someone tell me what I'm doing wrong so I can get a guy. Just as seddit exists just so men can get a girl of high quality. I would think that you guys would be in support of this. Here's a way where women (that you can potentially date) can go to improve themselves so they can be a good girlfriend, wife and will take care of your kids. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/03/13 01:25 PM |
| 3 | The Most Red Pill Break Up I've HadBut here's the thing. Who casually dates someone over the span of months? | /r/TheRedPill | 25/03/13 01:53 AM |
| 2 | Red pill applicable to women as well?This is perfect. When reading this stuff I found a lot of different things. http://www.therulesrevisited.com/ http://www.hookingupsmart.com/ Basically, "game for women" is making sure that you stay good looking. I guess love is "unconditional" if you actively try to stay attractive. And making sure to "stay a woman" by participating in traditional gender roles with your partner. And of course, read some other blogs that focus on the red pill. It sort of gives you an idea of what men want. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/03/13 11:59 AM |
| 2 | Red Pill Debate SeriesYou know what, I think that this would be fun! I think I want to debate. I post here a couple of times, just to try to get a grasp of this. I do have a couple questions that I want to ask and yeah, can I participate? Just as it is all fair and all name calling and derogatory terms that are used to sway emotions (slut, whore, cock-carousel, pussy-beta male, fat-bitch, feminazi, etc) will not be used. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/02/13 02:13 PM |
| 1 | Red pill debate: Don't fall for reverse pedastalizationI think you missed the point of what I was trying to say. But I'm going to say something unpopular as well. And I'll take downvotes as they come. Whatever. But it's not really trying to redefine what is attractive. It's more about the idea "if we look at what the media is trying to say what is beautiful, 90% of the female population will fail. We can try to fit this standard to the best of your ability, but don't beat yourself up when you fail meet the standard". | /r/TheRedPill | 02/02/13 06:01 PM |
| 0 | Red pill debate: Don't fall for reverse pedastalizationWhat if she's forever overweight? | /r/TheRedPill | 01/02/13 09:52 PM |
| 4 | Red pill debate: Don't fall for reverse pedastalizationHere's my theory, so to speak. When it comes the manosphere or whatever the correct term is, the term women is synonymous with attractive women. We must realize that unattractive women exist as well. Attractive women have to weed out people constantly while unattractive people tend to be a bit more romantic and forgiving because she cannot afford to act any other way. In short, totally agree with OP. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/02/13 07:18 PM |
| -3 | How Women Turn Men Into Pickup Artists « The Private ManThis has absolutely nothing to do with the fact that she's a woman. She's just a bitch/asshole. | /r/askTRP | 24/01/13 02:29 AM |
| 1 | I keep hearing about how 80% of women sleep with 20% of men. I finally tracked down the the original study. It's called the Pareto principle.But here's the issue. The thing is, women are not the only ones getting bigger. Men are also getting bigger as well. What I wonder if what theredpill states the idea that women are these obese people who want male models and won't go for anything less. I think women know the individuals who are out of their leagues, as do men. But I'm rambling. What I'm saying is, men who take care of their bodies should expect women who takes care of his body, or have some traits that make up for it. If men can… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/01/13 01:33 AM |
| 3 | I keep hearing about how 80% of women sleep with 20% of men. I finally tracked down the the original study. It's called the Pareto principle.And when I read the study, there are some explicit limitations of the study that the researchers stated. The summary even states: I. The numbers do not support the popular “cock carousel” meme, which says that most women ride the carousel with impunity through their 20s, then seek a sexually inexperienced male, i.e. chump, to settle down with. Rather, the data supports the idea that the numbers of promiscuous men and women are similar, though there are more promiscuous men than women. Most likel… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/13 05:44 AM |
| -1 | How Black America Has Predicted Our FutureBut here's the think though. Yes, there are some horrible things that go on within black culture AS A WHOLE but there are some very good aspects of it which no one ever seems to take notice: strong sense of community, strong family bonds, etc. Please let's not forget them. And it's also the idea that no one looks at what the statements do. It makes it appear that this is normal. And if there is someone who doesn't fit into those stereotypes, then something is wrong with them, further marginalizi… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/01/13 10:28 PM |
| -3 | How Black America Has Predicted Our FutureThis article. I don't think I have read an article that was full of stereotypes. I don't appreciate this article simply because of this. We can make anything look bad when when we take all of the negative aspects of it and put it into an article. Just remember, just because a person is black does not mean that they fit into this archetype. It's articles like this that perpetuate this stereotype. And effectively marginalizes those individuals that do not fit into this stereotype. In which there a… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/01/13 09:19 PM |
| 1 | This is too painful to read...Somebody asked askwomen about The Solomon Group pdf..Read "Not sure if the red pill is for you?" on the sidebar. They are interesting stories that you can relate to. Especially the second one :) | /r/TheRedPill | 02/01/13 11:54 PM |
| 1 | A mother's letter to today's women (x-post from /r/mensrightsHon, I'm not trying to ruffle feathers. I'm just looking for a conversation. If raising your children isn't the single most important "priority" in your life, For God's sake, DON'T HAVE ANY KIDS! Motherhood is not a "career." It is not a "hobby," a "lifestyle", or an "experience" designed to enrich YOU. It is YOUR contribution to the future, if you choose to make that contribution. Children are human beings, not accessories. This is exactly what I'm stating. It seems that this is a common idea t… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/12/12 01:20 AM |
| 1 | A mother's letter to today's women (x-post from /r/mensrightsNot crying. It's just a statement and an explanation. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/12/12 10:53 PM |
| 2 | A mother's letter to today's women (x-post from /r/mensrightsLook, you're using euphemisms: "having fun, experience life"...um, you mean sex? NO! I think that's this thing that is a common theme. Just because a woman doesn't want to get married/be in a relationship does not mean she's sleeping with every "alpha male" she can come in contact with. When I say have fun and experience life, I mean, she's giving up a lot being in a relationship. For example, what if she wants to travel cross country to help hurricane victims? Do you think her husband/boyfriend… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/12/12 10:18 PM |
| 2 | A mother's letter to today's women (x-post from /r/mensrightsOH MY LORD! The light just went off. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/12/12 03:03 PM |
| 1 | A mother's letter to today's women (x-post from /r/mensrightsMy question is why is it so terrible for a woman to experience life, have fun and gaining a sense of stability and wait to get married until her late twenties? Why is it when she does this, it appears that she's wants a "beta provider", just because she chooses to do this? And even that phrase "riding the cock carousel" get's on my nerves. Why is this horrible? Why not let a girl have fun and extend childhood or experience things before getting married and settling down? The more I read, the mor… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/12/12 03:39 AM |
| 2 | Ethnicity and Female Self-EntitlementThis was an interesting documentary. I'm watching it now. Can we have a healthy discussion? I don't understand. This entire thing. What does it mean when men say that there is a sense of self-entitlement? To be perfectly honest, it's making things unbalanced. We talk about biology and the difference between men and women. Men being the dominant partner, who's strong, the provider and the head. While the woman is the submissive partner, care-giver and her worth is primarily based on looks. Thinki… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/12 01:12 AM |
| 2 | A lot of guys in pick up need therapy, and not pick up.Really... You're an interesting fellow, but that's not what it's about: therapy is helping the patient help themselves, possibly making your think about things you would not have come up with by yourself. No, they are not gonna be buddy-buddy with you, but they do help. | /r/seduction | 12/11/12 04:13 AM |
| 1 | HonestThis is the first that I've heard about people wanting to increase alimony and child support. With alimony, I thought once you get married again, your ex doesn't have to pay alimony. I don't want think that women are that conniving, trying to get 2 sets of income. And "child support" is usually set for the child. Most people forget about that point. Let's hope that she decides to spend the money on her child and not for her shopping habits. You do bring up some pretty good points too. Makes me t… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/11/12 09:40 PM |
| 1 | HonestTrue, but here's something else. Think about all of the other things that she can lose from leaving her husband: income being cut in half, Having to take care of children; And what if the job she has doesn't keep up with the lifestyle that she's used to? What if she is a part of a religion that looks down on divorce, like Catholicism? And this applies to both male and female. I understand that people are sexual beings, but we also have brains that keeps us from pouncing on anything that looks se… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/11/12 08:47 PM |
| 2 | HonestHere's another idea. Marriage sucks, I realize that. But when it comes to marriage, I believe things can go from "passion" and just a sense of commitment to each other. Love could go away, yes and that's when divorce happens, but for intact marriages, it is a less passionate form of love. Almost like an intense friendship. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/11/12 08:14 PM |
| 2 | What are the most equivalent /r/seduction subreddits for women?Saddest thing. There is not one that exists that is commonly posted on. :/ There's /r/ladyseddit and /r/fPUA, but they are dead. | /r/seduction | 01/11/12 08:06 PM |
| 0 | I'm going to try and break every limiting belief about your looks there is. Let's do this.Well, if we are going to be negative about it, why not admit failure and lower your standards? Seriously, just because she's not a 10 doesn't make her worth less. | /r/seduction | 28/10/12 10:09 PM |
| 10 | A touching story of a womans fight with breast cancer. Yet I had some trouble getting past the subtle misandric nature of the writer. It is just so deeply inbedded.I'm a woman. I think he did plenty enough and his wife is lucky to have him. If anything, her critiques brought in a sense of realness and definitely some playfulness. | /r/MensRights | 10/10/12 09:18 PM |
| 1 | "Women demand equal treatment, not entitlements" School Newspaper Article on 77 cent wage gap myth.GO FALCONS! | /r/MensRights | 09/10/12 01:27 AM |
| 1 | 27 year old virgin, finally broke through. here is my storyYou're right. I guess I need to work on myself more. I've had experience with men who'd lie/didn't state intentions just to sleep with me. It made me feel like they didn't respect me. I guess I'm just grown cynical and too wary of men. | /r/seduction | 04/09/12 07:48 PM |
| 1 | 27 year old virgin, finally broke through. here is my storyYou and me both. It makes me sad, knowing that there are men out there, who simply give you the time of day, just because they feel that you are easy, or worth less effort than someone who's pretty. It's stuff like this that makes me not want to trust men half the time... | /r/seduction | 04/09/12 06:35 PM |
| 2 | Suggestion: male/female icon flair.Sorry. I'm going to have to disagree on this one. Though I feel like this place is great, but I don't think that women would post, showing that they are women. I suppose that, people are less willing to listen to a woman on this subreddit. | /r/seduction | 22/08/12 02:15 PM |
| 3 | Success vs PotentialI guess here's my 2 cents. I believe that when it comes to seddit, the people who participate and not necessarily trying to be "the best", but simply to improve themselves. Even though he may have the best looks or the best social skills, he can put forth an effort to try. Be the best you YOU can be, so to speak. | /r/seduction | 20/08/12 12:19 AM |
| 0 | Why so much hate for r/seduction?What I meant to say, it kind of implies it, or rather, that's what someone else can pick up his words as. You are talking about his behaviors from his POV, while we're talking about our POV. I hope that makes sense... | /r/seduction | 01/08/12 08:33 PM |
| 0 | Why so much hate for r/seduction?Sorry, but I think i'm going to jump in here. I don't feel that calling him sexist really solves anything. It's just that when a woman states" We, generally do not want to be called females because we feel it is degrading, or ever derogatory" continues to use it, it was just a form of disrespect. It's kind of like saying "i don't care if it's offensive, I'm gonna keep using it." And no I'm not calling him sexist, but on this one, he's participating in actions that could lead someone to believe t… | /r/seduction | 01/08/12 08:12 PM |
| 1 | Men of Reddit, what type of women are you most attracted to?Here's my question. More than half of everyone is saying "physically fit". Does that mean a person who works out 3 or 4 times a week? or does it mean, doesn't work out on a regular basis, but not overweight? | /r/seduction | 27/07/12 12:45 AM |
| 1 | [FR] SD Comic-Con. Insta-Date with Power GirlGod, I loved reading this! You seemed so fun and energetic. And of course it was very detailed. Dialogue and such. People need to write FR similar to yours. | /r/seduction | 17/07/12 03:02 PM |
| 2 | HOW TO ATTRACT WOMEN: 4 Effective Ways to Turn On a WomanWonder why women aren't too receptive of r/seddit? | /r/seduction | 05/07/12 03:41 AM |
| 3 | 21 y/o girl here who is EXTREMELY intimidated by men. Please help me get over this!There are a quite a few of us here. More than you think ;) | /r/seduction | 02/07/12 03:17 AM |
| 2 | Short, fat and 0 confidence should I even be here?Also, you're "size" can be attributed to how much you weigh. I've read that people who think they are abnormally small are so simply because of their weight. | /r/seduction | 23/06/12 01:08 AM |
| 2 | PSA for the Mr. Nice Guy out thereI think I really like you. | /r/seduction | 14/06/12 04:32 AM |
| 1 | PSA for the Mr. Nice Guy out thereThis is the stuff that I am talking about that doesn't make sense to me. HERE IT IS! Reading this stuff, you are making sure that you have the upperhand in the relationship or friendship or whatever you want to call it. You don't have confidence, you are just really good at faking it and that's what I think that it boils down to. Faking confidence is not the same as having real confidence. This is the stuff that makes some people, especially women, hate seddit. Half of the behavior that you part… | /r/seduction | 14/06/12 04:27 AM |
| 1 | Shit Tests: From a Women's PerspectiveFor some reason, that statement doesn't sit well with me. Why is it bad to want to feel comfortable with a person and like them? I think that it goes with what are you looking for: if you want a one-night stand, then it doesn't matter if your partner is comfortable with you. But in a relationship or dating purposes, it would be great to be with someone you're comfortable with... Thanks for answering my questions! Great insite! | /r/seduction | 13/06/12 11:48 PM |
| 1 | Shit Tests: From a Women's PerspectiveThank you for this! It was very thorough and helped shed some light. When I used the term relationship, I didn't mean romantic relationship, normal relationships we have with everyday people: friends, bosses, strangers, etc. I feel that in each of these relationships, someone is "dominate"/"passive". Maybe I'm just reading into things a little too far. Like, that statement "if she is going to be late, don't show up at all and tell her that I'm gonna do x with my friends". When reading that, I fe… | /r/seduction | 13/06/12 11:44 PM |
| 1 | Shit Tests: From a Women's PerspectiveWhat do you mean? | /r/seduction | 13/06/12 04:07 AM |
| 2 | Shit Tests: From a Women's PerspectiveI know that this will be downvoted severely because it simply goes against everything that is taught here. But here it goes: There was a comment, that was deleted in which someone did not appreciate the word "click", thinking that the word is a default term when someone is just not interested. We cannot say a person does not like you simply because you seemed "weak". While it may be true in some cases, it may not be for ALL the cases. Attraction is a strange thing. Having a strong personality do… | /r/seduction | 13/06/12 03:18 AM |
| 2 | Shit Tests: From a Women's PerspectiveOn some level, I maybe a bit too logical about it... But at the same time, the whole idea of the "shit test" seems like an excuse. Like, "this person didn't like me simply because I appeared weak, and not because I we just didn't click, on a personal level" But thanks for shedding some light on this. | /r/seduction | 13/06/12 02:04 AM |
| 5 | Shit Tests: From a Women's PerspectiveI'm glad you through out that example. This happened to me once. I was running really late for a date, and he waited for me. I never really thought "this guy is a passive loser that I can walk all over". In fact, I was happy that he stayed and I thought that he was a great guy. This is just my case. It couldve been something else. Like, it possibly could've been another reason why she never called back. You know? | /r/seduction | 13/06/12 01:59 AM |
| 1 | Shit Tests: From a Women's PerspectiveThank you for the warm welcome :) But here's what I'm thinking. Yes, I feel like we all judge people unconsciously, but at the same time, it's not just something that just men have to worry about. Everyone has to worry about it. The more I think about it, I feel like this whole "shit test" and "alpha and beta" stuff is just making sure that one person has the power in the relationship; making sure that they have the upper hand in the relationship. | /r/seduction | 13/06/12 01:28 AM |
| 2 | Shit Tests: From a Women's PerspectiveProbably a 4 or a 5... but why does this have to do with anything??? | /r/seduction | 13/06/12 01:23 AM |
| 2 | Women reading this: What attracted you to this subreddit?How would I describe... the transition between college and after college life was rough. Sometimes, I feel lonely and have been looking to meet new people. but I have always have been, on some level, afraid to do so. I've been working on myself, and put forth and effort and try new things and work on myself. I've put myself in new situations, such as dating, etc. Reading these stories inspire me, so to speak. | /r/seduction | 12/06/12 04:10 AM |
| 3 | Women reading this: What attracted you to this subreddit?Honestly, I feel that it has made me a bit more self-aware of the things. I can't say that it has "worked" for me, but at least now I'm putting in something of an effort. | /r/seduction | 12/06/12 02:50 AM |
| 4 | Women reading this: What attracted you to this subreddit?Recommendation from a friend. Not really to "seduce" but to become a better me :) | /r/seduction | 12/06/12 02:35 AM |
| 9 | I'm a girl and I'm on to you!It's interesting. I'm a woman to and I lurk and read some stuff. It's pretty interesting too and you can learn real-life stuff. Sorry I misjudged, now I know better. | /r/seduction | 08/06/12 02:10 AM |
| 1 | Female here. I'm looking for advice from the gentlemen of seddit. Rejection advice?Thank you. You've given me quite a bit to mull over. | /r/seduction | 21/04/12 01:28 AM |
| 2 | Female here. I'm looking for advice from the gentlemen of seddit. Rejection advice?I was told that too. And was told to probably get rid of it, considering that people can be too critical online and are waaayyy to selective. I find myself doing it sometimes. lol. | /r/seduction | 21/04/12 01:01 AM |
| 2 | Female here. I'm looking for advice from the gentlemen of seddit. Rejection advice?And as depressing as that sounds, I think you may be on to something. I guess I'm just too optimistic and feel that everyone there is looking for relationships and not just a quick lay. Thank you for the honesty. | /r/seduction | 21/04/12 12:59 AM |
| 1 | Female here. I'm looking for advice from the gentlemen of seddit. Rejection advice?Thank you. You are absolutely right. I guess I was too involved, when it was only one date. I think it's because I don't take rejection all to well and don't connect well with others really. | /r/seduction | 21/04/12 12:22 AM |
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