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He’s probably just shy and doesn’t know how to behave. Nerdy types need obvious signs. The hand holding should have been enough though but I’m sure he’s just timid. You may have to take the lead here if you really like him. Just offer to hang out with him and do fun things and see what happens.
/r/seduction18/07/18 07:41 PM
316

"Good, because I'm not having sex with you."
/r/seduction01/09/17 01:40 PM
1

You're just a fuck boi. Girls are finally getting it, and sometimes they just wanna fuck too. If you're genuinely interested don't bang them first.
/r/seduction07/08/16 07:09 PM
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I grew facial hair, grew my hair long, and started working out. I'm 35 and could still pass for 25, but it helps.
/r/seduction02/08/16 03:55 PM
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"I'm so gay let me introduce you to my boyfriend sometime. He's bi so I'm sure he'd love a 3some".
/r/seduction31/07/16 03:01 PM
1

In my opinion she said what she said because she wasn't sure, you made a good situation out of it, but if it was me I would have cut and run. I personally don't need more friends right now but maybe you could benefit from one. Sounds like you weren't dating her to hook up, you were validly dating her to see if a relationship could come of it. Good thing is, if you remain friends yet there's still a spark, then you could have a really great relationship down the road.
/r/seduction28/05/16 09:50 PM
9

"Hey I had a great time, let's do this again, call me".
/r/seduction14/05/16 03:48 PM
0

I think a level of experience conversation should be had, but specific numbers are irrelevant. I apologize for misinterpreting your comment but my point being is that a number itself shouldn't mean anything.
/r/seduction11/01/16 04:34 PM
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If you have an std I can see being honest. If you're just dating someone it isn't their business what your sexual history is. But if they have an std it's an obligation. Just because you only have a handful doesn't mean you're better than someone else and don't deserve an explanation of ones own promiscuity.
/r/seduction10/01/16 11:45 PM
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Standard cold approach method is say something about her outfit or find something else relevant to her situation to talk to her about. If she's walking down the street might be a bit more difficult to do. You could be more subtle with your compliment as well because all you really need is an ice breaker.
/r/seduction06/01/16 07:35 PM
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Don't compliment them. Every dude compliments them, girls with attitudes compliment them to be fake. It's just boring and redundant. Show them through action. Be yourself, be fun, engage them, show affection, escalate kino, make eye contact, flirt.
/r/seduction06/01/16 06:55 PM
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I wouldn't feel bad. It's entirely possible you weren't attracted to her personality. I get so bored if a girl can't match me intellectually. Or, she just seems so basic with no unique ideas or interests or views. It's enough to make any girl make me go soft. I suppose that's different if you're just trying to bang, but I can't help that even for just sex either.
/r/seduction11/12/15 08:54 PM
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This isn't some random girl, we are all in the same social group, so it would easily be known if anything happens. I agree with many of you and just play hands off. A girl that needs that validation isn't attractive to me anyway.
/r/seduction19/05/14 09:55 PM
0

I've heard many think Eye contact with a stranger is often seen as creepy or impolite. You're not engaging them on any social level so it can be very intimidating. Might be different if you catch a girl checking you out however.
/r/seduction19/05/14 06:06 PM
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I think you're just young, and you know right now there's more to experience. When you get older you more easily can define the unique things you see in a girl that has value, and then fucking them doesn't have impact on how you feel. At least, this is my own experience.
/r/seduction15/05/14 04:05 PM
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You're 15. Don't take it personally, but people your age haven't had a chance to really develop their sense of self all that well yet. You're probably going to have to either shoulder the convo yourself, or find a girl that is willing to talk with you on equal terms. She's probably shy, and I think once you get to interact with her in person, and you do stuff together, you'll have much more to say. The consensus that I see in /r/seduction is that texts are to be used to setup dates, you can't bu…
/r/seduction19/01/14 11:43 PM
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How old are you and the girls you're being setup with? A conversation is a 2 way street. If all you wanna do is bang, then find a good time to meet up with the girl, lay down some physical contact (see sidebar about Kino), make her laugh, find something fun to do together and escalate back to your place. I'm banging a few girls right now, and one I met from the internet, and the other was a girl a guy friend set me up with. Both of them are more than willing to keep a conversation going or to st…
/r/seduction19/01/14 11:21 PM
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I just don't date girls that don't have anything to say about themselves or whats going on in their lives. They're just not interesting enough for me.
/r/seduction19/01/14 11:07 PM
5

Girls love it. They are totally not expecting it, and I think it works in person better than over text. Deliver it totally deadpan, with a serious look, pause, and then smile, and you're gold.
/r/seduction20/08/13 12:47 PM
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I try to be non-sensical and funny, or overtly sweet and sappy. Sugar-lumps, Waffle-cake, honeycrunch, Salad-bowl, little miss crumble cake, chesty mc tatas, boner face...
/r/seduction20/08/13 06:16 AM
1

Add eye contact, and a genuine reaction filled with gratefulness.
/r/seduction22/07/13 11:23 PM
1

I don't think you had any IOI's from the hipster girl, (that you mentioned), and I think her back turn thing was to some random guy to try and misdirect your attention to her because maybe she wasn't interested. But that's just my 2c. If you wanted to score, you should have gone for red dress, but you were setting your sights high, I understand. ;) It's hard to pick out a target and not follow through.
/r/seduction27/03/13 04:16 AM
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Oh my god I'm literally crying/laughing after reading this thread, but its all so true.
/r/seduction19/02/13 01:43 AM
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While I applaud your efforts here, I agree with everyone else, and run.
/r/seduction06/01/13 09:44 PM
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I think he's saying it's no different than meat at a butcher. He's choosing the one that looks the best to him so he can get the best meat for his dollar. Nothing more.
/r/seduction21/11/12 06:40 PM
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If anything I think this makes it easier to weed out bad women. Any woman who is going to let attention from other men distract her from something good, isnt worth it to begin with. If you're on a date with her and shes distracted, thats a red flag. If she's constantly going on about shit that she heard about on facebook, or she seems uninterested or unfocused on you, then thats a red flag. I've met plenty of women who have their shit together in that respect, but also meeting MORE women who don…
/r/seduction30/10/12 09:03 PM
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If this girl was very young, you probably fucked up. If this girl was something like an HB9 this might have worked, and her "not talking to you" message was just another shit test and you could have broken it another way and pressed on.
/r/seduction20/10/12 09:52 PM
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I hate to say it but I am finding that the trick to all of this is finding a woman that treats her attention to you just as much as you treat your attention to her. I'm finding many girls are being very vague and non-committal, and so it burns you out so much to put effort into "being that guy" toward a girl and getting shit back. I'm not even saying be prince charming, I mean, be that guy that sets up the date, tells her where to be, and what time, makes all the moves, engages her in witty conv…
/r/seduction06/10/12 02:07 AM
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Hey, maybe he just wanted a friend. What's wrong with being his friend?
/r/seduction30/09/12 04:31 PM
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He says that she "accidentally" bumped into him, it was probably on purpose. I've been noticing this more that girls will do shit to get close to you, and then leave it up to you to make the move. She thinks she's high value, and busted out all her tricks. OP played her like a fiddle. Bitch or not, OP got laid. The more you realize her actions are all "bitch shields and shit tests" the more you understand how normal it is, and how to counter them.
/r/seduction25/09/12 09:28 PM
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woops sorry man, thanks for pointing me in the right direction.
/r/seduction20/09/12 03:30 PM
1

Buy the car for you not for the women. If you are a car enthusiast, and its something you're passionate about, then I think you should express that passion. But the same goes for anything you own, if you enjoy it then its ok to express interest. Never do it expecting to get laid.
/r/seduction26/07/12 03:25 AM
14

"Nah I just stayed at a holiday inn express."
/r/seduction03/05/12 11:45 PM
1

If you exist simply to want to enjoy to experience life, then that's great, I applaud that. You at least know that is what you want to do, and that's what I'm talking about. It is about knowing yourself that is important, not what you do.
/r/seduction29/01/12 06:51 PM
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I understand what you mean completely. I see how it might have been easy to missunderstand what I meant. I didn't necessarily mean material goals and superficial passions, just SOMETHING to bring their life meaning. I'm talking about complete deadbeats that when asked why they get up in the morning they'd say something like "I dont know." or some other rediculous thought. I see what you mean about women who expect you to have a job that's going somewhere, or financial stability and family orient…
/r/seduction29/01/12 04:19 PM
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Most women that I've heard of who a lot of guys called, "Cold and Unapproachable" were just very secure in themselves and very sure of what they wanted. After talking with a few of them, they simply told me they didn't have time for a man who really didn't know themselves very well, or who felt very ambiguous about things or themselves in general. They had no goals, no passions, nothing to "bring to the table" to speak. I notice that a lot of men are intimidated by these women, (and also men) wh…
/r/seduction28/01/12 07:51 PM
0

"Cause if I was a nice guy, you wouldn't be talking to me right now." This could either be said with a dead serious stare, followed by a complete relaxation of the face and a chuckle, or said with a half chuckle.
/r/seduction27/01/12 04:56 AM
3

"Keep calm, and neg on."
/r/seduction29/11/11 03:21 AM
5

Stop being an afc and develop more tension. Wait longer before you kiss her, you need more give and take.
/r/seduction19/06/11 04:26 AM
2

I say feel her out, relationship does not mean she doesn't want to fuck.
/r/seduction19/06/11 04:24 AM
1

Eye contact, slight smile, eyebrows raised a lil, "I know."
/r/seduction11/04/11 11:20 PM
2

I understand how you feel. I think its oneitis for sure. I thought about it more and you definitely didn't waste any effort. You have gained priceless experience here. I was never the one to feel it appropriate to break up 2 people, if it happens it happens. It sounds like maybe shes just not happy as she could be with you. Whatever happens, I think you are in a win win situation. You've got this great experience under your belt. Good luck. :)
/r/seduction24/03/11 04:29 PM
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I'm sorry dude, I think you should F close, and look for a single girl. You have got some great experience under your belt with her, that extra .5 can get you a single girl that will probably end up more loyal than this one. I think even that she'd be fine with fucking you, thats a lot of effort just to give up.
/r/seduction24/03/11 01:59 AM
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