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I had enough stimulation to be ok
/r/seduction30/03/14 04:40 AM
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Psychical addition != psychological addiction
/r/seduction30/03/14 04:19 AM
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I mean, you're not me, and you didn't go through my experiences (if you did, congrats on the foursome). I can tell you it was controlling me, and not the other way around. I can tell you the habit was well-formed. I can tell you it was seriously holding me back and I couldn't say no to it, ever. I can tell you it no longer became fun, it just became the norm. I can tell you my life was fucked up and I was miserable and anxious and paranoid and I couldn't stop until I got help. It might make me s…
/r/seduction30/03/14 04:01 AM
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Thanks man. I went to the bathroom halfway through and did a little celebratory dance :)
/r/seduction30/03/14 03:15 AM
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I agree. As I said, I want to get into this state with no crutches. Obviously this experience has boosted my confidence tenfold.
/r/seduction30/03/14 03:14 AM
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Yep, exactly. I was becoming addicted to weed. I had to stop that shit. The other stuff, it was fun, I don't have a problem. Weed had to go. I become a moron when drunk. My friend in the story above was a rolling fool with 0 game. Don't be him. Be me. The girls weren't on much beyond booze, which was nice. This wouldn't feel like much of an accomplishment if everyone was rolling face or whatever. Still feels alright, I guess :)
/r/seduction30/03/14 03:12 AM
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how'd you get into the mindset?
/r/seduction20/08/12 03:12 PM
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Okay, so as a skinny guy myself, which role models did you use?
/r/seduction20/08/12 03:01 PM
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They call it the "caveman" technique? Right? It just takes a lot of self-control not to re-initiate.
/r/seduction20/08/12 02:59 PM
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That's right, ladies. Saying "yes" really is that easy. I don't mean to be cynical, and I do appreciate the style of your post and how you used the techniques to game the opposite sex, but, honestly, if you're remotely attractive (and, even if you're not, makeup/fashion/hair), confidence only speeds the process.
/r/seduction08/01/11 04:11 PM
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Two dogs
/r/seduction07/11/10 04:41 AM
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Sorry, pretty sure Mystery defined that as a neg in The Game, then again that's so dated that, you're right, they've become re-defined as disqualifiers. But, let's get over the tightness of the early game and focus on failing with the LMR. Is this done? I have her number, I wouldn't mind seeing her again, she even said we should hang out when she's not so tired from work, but yeah. I'd like to keep this option open. Thanks for your tips.
/r/seduction12/10/10 10:20 PM
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There's a fine line between creepy and flirty and that line is confidence.
/r/seduction12/10/10 01:04 PM
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Dude I got over a breakup recently too, the best part is it allows you to change yourself in a lot of ways, because you realize you've got more time for yourself. I don't think you're overweight, then against you're not posting pics of your gut. You can hook up with 10s, it just takes practice. Learn your routines, but most importantly, work on your inner game. Realize you're not doing this to make her jealous, you're doing it to better yourself and to realize that it's better to devote the hour…
/r/seduction12/10/10 04:13 AM
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Jesus man, you sound exactly like me, in a good way. Where are you, I've been looking for a wing I can relate to
/r/seduction12/10/10 03:19 AM
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No, you can cross your legs two ways, one is "open" to her. Say she's on your left, your right leg goes over your left, and you lean in. To close, cross the leg closer to her away from her. Does wonders. Gtg now, there's a different girl waiting.
/r/seduction11/10/10 04:48 AM
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I did that!
/r/seduction11/10/10 04:47 AM
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Yeah, definitely LMR, and I did that, just didn't wait for the re initiation. Stupid. shouldn't have fapped
/r/seduction10/10/10 08:05 PM
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Awesome, thank you very much. I just got this and Mystery's Book of Routines.
/r/seduction10/10/10 03:49 PM
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I just wish there was a website with full routines instead of snippets.
/r/seduction04/10/10 12:25 PM
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I have serious trouble transitioning, really solid openers but yeah I too don't know what to talk about after getting their opinion on that thing.
/r/seduction04/10/10 02:57 AM
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Jenga!
/r/seduction03/10/10 07:10 AM
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I sometime lose sight of what it's all about...having fun. Thanks for bringing me back down to Earth.
/r/seduction03/10/10 07:10 AM
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Well he's already struck out twice, you tell me
/r/seduction03/10/10 07:08 AM
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Don't be defensive about it, I told you what the solution is. Everyone's told you what the solution is.
/r/seduction01/10/10 01:28 PM
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Hey good news I had a similar situation a few weeks ago. My gf had just broken up with me so this girl came to visit me. I wanted something to happen but wasn't too sure, and figured, if anything, she'd be a great pivot at the clubs (she wasn't). I asked my female friends about it, they put it pretty simply. "Is she sleeping in your bed? How far away is she coming from? If this girl is coming to visit you, and she plans to sleep in your bed, she doesn't want nothing to happen."
/r/seduction01/10/10 01:20 PM
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I loved the first reply: it's cuz your response was gay as ****. she is pondering whether you are pounding some dudes ass right now. just never talk to her again, for your sake..
/r/seduction01/10/10 01:16 PM
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It's what you signed up for, right? Sex with a bunch of beautiful women. Try orchestrating a threesome
/r/seduction01/10/10 01:15 PM
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As usual, pick up the game, pick up magic bullets or the mystery method, honestly what I did was start there, read around a bit more, realize that mystery and style were the best schools for my kind of personality, and stuck with what worked for me.
/r/seduction01/10/10 11:17 AM
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Be sure to wear something that prevents public displays of erection.
/r/seduction01/10/10 04:28 AM
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Well, when a plate gets boring, switch it out for another plate.
/r/seduction01/10/10 04:28 AM
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"It sounds like you love her. Try to get her back! She really sounds like she's the one for you!!" Sigh.
/r/seduction01/10/10 04:27 AM
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I hate to say it, but it just sounds like you're too beta. I know the whole beta/alpha thing is a bit overplayed, but to be honest, it's really how we are wired. Have you read any material?
/r/seduction01/10/10 04:26 AM
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Yeah, all the times I "got lucky" before I learned any openers, routines...all natural game, from just being confident or having a good night. But then I learned about game and realized a lot of the shit I did was part of the game. For instance, I'd take girls from the dancefloor to the VIP area, and then makeout with them there, because VIP was a DHV. I just did it because it was more private. And I'd always get girls clamoring over me when my school's battle of the bands rolled through, becaus…
/r/seduction01/10/10 04:24 AM
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Find a new HB, come on buddy this is seddit not one-girl-it Thermo homework is pretty tough, though.
/r/seduction01/10/10 04:19 AM
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Texting is fucking great, you can think about what you say so much more. You really want to deal with having to think on your feet that hard when you're trying to work on calibrating to the situation, not to mention if you're not using routines? Texting might lack the "personal" touch, but if you're having trouble getting girls to go on dates with you, then, no offense, you don't have the personal touch to begin with.
/r/seduction01/10/10 04:18 AM
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Jesus, oneitis much? Find someone else, hey if the new one's cute this girl'll feel used toy syndrome and want you back. Honestly, seddit shouldn't be for posts like this, I don't mean to bash you because I'm guilty of also asking for advice here, but it's different when she's turned you down for dates twice. But you need someone to say it to you: she doesn't like you. Cure your oneitis by fucking 5 new girls. Problem. Solved.
/r/seduction01/10/10 04:15 AM
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Just remember, there's a fine line between flirty and creepy.
/r/seduction01/10/10 04:12 AM
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If she pulls the LJBF, Ross Jeffries had a classic line, if you're this kind of person it might work for you. "I will do nothing of the sort...friends don't put friends into boxes like that. But I can promise you that I will do nothing...until you are ready." Always less about what you say and more about how you say it.
/r/seduction01/10/10 04:11 AM
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Seddit seddit seddit come on help this man out I started using the Dog/rappers opinion opener need an opinion my friend lisa just got two dogs a tiny chihuahua and a huge lab she wants to name them after two rappers I need some ideas, she wants me to call her back I just started using this, but it's worked on 3/3 sets, I'm having issues transitioning but this opener's worked really well.
/r/seduction01/10/10 04:10 AM
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Read his username.
/r/seduction23/09/10 12:39 PM
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Would you accept candy from a stranger? I'd rather use a tried and true opinion opener, even if there's the danger of them hearing it before.
/r/seduction21/09/10 10:45 PM
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I assume you're a tiny wuss then.
/r/seduction21/09/10 10:38 PM
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Honestly I think the best path to take is to use her as a pivot for the first night or two. If a girl is willing to take a bus out here and sleep in my bed, it's almost all a question of playing my cards right. And if I take her out, show my social proof and have her help me pick up other girls by essentially having her flirt with me and me pretending to ignore her...that will make her jealous. So, good pivot strategy with a 9?
/r/seduction21/09/10 12:40 PM
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Like "oh I really like x restaurant" "I found it to be a tacky"? It's not a question of how I voice it, I just don't know what's too far and what's not enough. I seek the happy medium, the playful insult. Like, one time I was on a subway, and this girl was carrying a Vonnegut book, so I chatted her up about it. She said she didn't like Cat's Cradle, and I went a bit too far and alienated her by going "How HOW do you not like that TOME of modern literature?" I made it seem like there was somethin…
/r/seduction21/09/10 12:37 PM
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How do you tease her without insulting her taste? Like, what did you guys say?
/r/seduction21/09/10 05:21 AM
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3 more to go!
/r/seduction21/09/10 05:07 AM
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How many?
/r/seduction21/09/10 04:32 AM
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What stage of pickup are you in? AFC, RAFC, APUA? Do you know openers, how are you starting conversations? Mystery had a good quote, "the first three seconds buy the you next ten seconds that buy you the next 30 seconds that buy you the next 3 minutes that buy you the next ten." You've got to stay on your feet. And no, you should think about things. In fact, you should know your openers so well that you can think about stuff while you're reciting your opener. Make observations about the people i…
/r/seduction21/09/10 04:32 AM
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You know what they say? "Intelligent, good-looking, mentally stable...pick two."
/r/seduction21/09/10 04:25 AM
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I got stuck on calling someone and trying to talk to them, every number I called didn't work or ended up with no one picking up.
/r/seduction21/09/10 04:25 AM
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When you ask "how" do you mean, what aspects do we look at beyond looks (personally it's mostly looks), or what
/r/seduction21/09/10 04:23 AM
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Oneitis, move on. Have you fucked a girl since you guys broke up? No? Do it. Yes? Then fuck 5 more.
/r/seduction21/09/10 04:09 AM
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But my question is, I like a band, I go to their show, they happen to be playing a concert. I'm going for the band, but I'd like to meet new people since I assume they've got good taste in music.
/r/seduction21/09/10 04:08 AM
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Multithread your conversations. It's a mildly advanced technique. Say you do a psychic DHV like the "choose a number" routine, halfway though, switch and go "what do you have going for you beyond a pretty face? beauty is common" then when she's done with that, say "good. And 3."
/r/seduction20/09/10 06:25 PM
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Does the person you act like when you go on dates match the person you are on your profile? If you're not congruent across communication mediums, then girls will feel disappointed that you weren't who you seemed to be. Either allow more of that online, semi-anon confidence to seep into your real life, or change your profile to make it more you, thus resulting in more honest dates.
/r/seduction20/09/10 12:37 PM
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You're in college. Go join a club.
/r/seduction19/09/10 11:18 PM
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Find out about what she likes, then ask her "oh, tell me more about [thing you like]"
/r/seduction19/09/10 10:00 PM
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Minus the Bear, Caribou, The Glitch Mob, Of Montreal (if you're feeling a bit gay), Crystal Castles, Weezer, RX Bandits, The Samuel Jackson Five
/r/seduction19/09/10 09:40 PM
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