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| 1 | What do women mean by "good dick"?Then why not just say "good lover" instead? good dick refers to the dick lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/25 03:10 AM |
| -2 | What do women mean by "good dick"?Finally an honest answer. Thank you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/25 03:39 PM |
| -1 | What do women mean by "good dick"?Have you actually discussed this in detail with them? Do women discuss this topic with each other a lot? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/25 10:12 AM |
| -5 | What do women mean by "good dick"?But what makes it good? Is it the positions? The way he thrusts? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/25 10:05 AM |
| 5 | What do women mean by "good dick"?What made it really pleasurable specifically? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/25 10:00 AM |
| 6 | Men Can't Be Blamed for Age Gap Relationships Because Women Are the Sexual Selectors and Choosing to Be in Those RelationshipsI remember being 21 and in college. Most people back then would have considered 25 and 21 a significant age gap. That's just how it was. I remember dating a 23 year girl when I was 21, and even that 2 year age gap felt massive to me. She'd already graduated and was out working in the "real world", while I was still stuck living on campus and going to class. Needless to say it didn't work out because we were at different stages in life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/25 03:03 PM |
| 2 | Men are honestly shooting themselves in the foot by dating very young womenWhat did Indonesia ever do to hurt you lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/25 04:51 AM |
| 1 | Women, in your experience how long do men usually last in bed?it can be really hot to have someone so worked up that they lose it almost immediately! But don't you feel disappointed that it's over so soon? Or does whether you finish not affect your enjoyment of sex? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/25 08:09 AM |
| 1 | Women, in your experience how long do men usually last in bed?Really? But isn't it important that you get to finish too? If it's 2 minutes then surely you would feel deprived? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/25 08:09 AM |
| 1 | Women, in your experience how long do men usually last in bed?Were you more impressed with the guys who were able to last 15 minutes? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/25 03:28 PM |
| 0 | Women, in your experience how long do men usually last in bed?Did that make you feel disappointed? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/25 03:28 PM |
| 1 | Women, how do you feel about men who live with their parents?Nice. How old are you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/25 05:59 AM |
| – | Would you rather date an extremely hot woman who posts a lot of provocative photos on social media, or a less attractive woman with zero social media presence?For me there's no minimum or maximum requirement. The hotter the better imo 😅 I think it's because I wasn't attractive in college but had a massive glowup afterwards so now that I'm capable of matching with hot women I just want to get the hottest ones possible to make up for lost experiences. But the nerdy introvert in me knows that these women aren't good for me and that I'd be better off with a less attractive but more wholesome girl. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/25 05:13 PM |
| – | Would you rather date an extremely hot woman who posts a lot of provocative photos on social media, or a less attractive woman with zero social media presence?I'd say 9 vs a 6.5. I've met and hooked up with some of these hot girls irl and yes, some are every bit as vapid IRL if not more than they are online. I've had a lot of chemistry with some of the less attractive ones, but I found it hard to pursue things further with them because I just didn't find them as physically attractive and I know I can pull hotter women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/25 05:09 PM |
| 1 | Women, how do you feel about men who live with their parents?You sound like a real catch, I wish the world had mroe women who think like you :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/25 04:29 PM |
| 1 | Women, how do you feel about men who live with their parents?That's a very sweet story, glad it worked out for you! Just out of curiosity, how did you feel about making 4x the amount as your husband? That's quite a big difference in salary, and at least on this sub the prevailing view is that women wouldn't date someone who makes less than them (I've heard women say this too, not just men). Also, he bought a house quite quickly after you got together. Do you think you would have stuck with him had he not done that? Let's say you were a year into the relat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/25 02:57 AM |
| 1 | Women, how do you feel about men who live with their parents?Which culture are you froim? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/25 02:54 AM |
| 1 | Women, how do you feel about men who live with their parents?Interesting, so in your case it's actually a red flag if he doesn't live with his parents haha | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/25 02:54 AM |
| 1 | Women, how do you feel about men who live with their parents?Didn't know it was the norm in Ireland! I'm only familiar with the UK and it's not common at all there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/25 02:52 AM |
| 2 | Women, how do you feel about men who live with their parents?Tbf I don't think the majority of people who live at home are doing so because they don't want to move out... it's more that they can't afford to in this economy, and even if they could it would be a silly financial decision. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/25 02:51 AM |
| 3 | Women, how do you feel about men who live with their parents?Good to know! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/25 01:40 PM |
| 3 | Women, how do you feel about men who live with their parents?Why is that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/25 08:37 AM |
| 1 | Women, how do you feel about men who live with their parents?I see, is he Asian? How old are you and how do you feel about him living with parents? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/25 04:43 AM |
| 1 | Women, how do you feel about men who live with their parents?So you live at home too? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/25 04:37 AM |
| 2 | 30+ datingIn a weird way, I've found that younger women tend to be more open to hookups with older men. They're clearer about what they want and also won't play as many games as they do with men their age. I think it's because they perceive older men as more experience, and they assume games won't work on them. | /r/seduction | 19/05/25 01:28 PM |
| 1 | 30+ datingAre these people all redditors you've never met by any chance? No one hates age gaps more than reddit lol | /r/seduction | 19/05/25 01:27 PM |
| 4 | Is it easier to get a cougar than a girl in her 20s?80% of the women I know looked better at 25 than 35 lol. Let's not kid ourselves. | /r/seduction | 16/05/25 03:15 AM |
| 9 | Is it easier to get a cougar than a girl in her 20s?Do you have proof of this? It's pretty universally agreed upon that women generally hit their peak physical beauty in their 20s. | /r/seduction | 15/05/25 12:21 PM |
| 2 | Size doesn't matter to women until it's their own partner who's small.6 is bigger than average lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/25 02:37 AM |
| 1 | Size doesn't matter to women until it's their own partner who's small.What makes them pursue him to the ends of the earth? Is he rich? Extremely handsome? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/25 04:47 AM |
| 1 | Size doesn't matter to women until it's their own partner who's small.And how many are less than 5 inches? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/25 04:46 AM |
| -2 | Size doesn't matter to women until it's their own partner who's small.Wait until you actually get with a guy who has one, and then you'll never want to settle for a guy with a beer belly again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/25 04:38 PM |
| 1 | Size doesn't matter to women until it's their own partner who's small.You can get a six pack with exercises too. Vast majority of men still aren't willing to put in the work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/25 12:36 PM |
| 1 | Size doesn't matter to women until it's their own partner who's small.I agree. But once she sees it, size definitely will still matter to her. She might refuse to sleep with someone for being too small, or she might go ahead with it anyway but not enjoy it or put much effort into it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/25 04:23 AM |
| 4 | Size doesn't matter to women until it's their own partner who's small.Did you read the post I linked? The man was apparently great in bed and they had amazing physical chemistry but she's still turned off by his size. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/25 04:20 AM |
| 2 | Men do find women their age physically attractive.Why would they date seniors who are about to graduate and leave them instead of classmates their own age who they'll be able to share the same experiences with? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/25 07:39 AM |
| 2 | Men do find women their age physically attractive.Overall value, yes. But in terms of raw physical attractiveness, men in their 20s are definitely fitter and better looking on average. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/25 12:57 PM |
| 2 | Men do find women their age physically attractive.How so? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/25 02:43 AM |
| 2 | Men do find women their age physically attractive.Maybe the women in their 20s who are hitting on you are doing so because they think you're 30? What happens when you tell them you're 47? Do they get turned off? And where are you even meeting this many women in their 20s? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/25 02:39 AM |
| 1 | Men do find women their age physically attractive.Oh wow so you actually entertained him haha. No judgement at all, sounds kinda hot tbh and I'm sure you were able to teach him a great deal that a younger woman wouldn't be able to. But I can imagine if the genders were reversed you'd be getting a lot more hate for it... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/25 05:29 AM |
| – | Time to settle the dick size debate once and for all using data - women generally prefer bigger dicks until a certain point and the ideal size for most women is larger than average.Have you ever discussed size with him? Is he your first? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/25 03:46 AM |
| 2 | Men do find women their age physically attractive.It does affect you because if you're a man in your 30s then women might think the same about you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/25 03:41 AM |
| 2 | Men do find women their age physically attractive.Did you turn him down? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/25 03:40 AM |
| 10 | Time to settle the dick size debate once and for all using data - women generally prefer bigger dicks until a certain point and the ideal size for most women is larger than average.Also, average can also make women sore the next day if you go hard. It's not just about the size | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/25 04:44 PM |
| 6 | Men do find women their age physically attractive.Isn't that the same for men then? If we're single in our 30s then there's a reason for it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/25 01:13 PM |
| 1 | Men do find women their age physically attractive.Are you European? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/25 05:42 AM |
| 3 | Men do find women their age physically attractive.Fair enough haha. But I'm 29 and I've already seen plenty of 30 something year old women who I think are incredibly hot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/25 05:42 AM |
| 2 | Men do find women their age physically attractive.Do you approve or disapprove of this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/25 05:41 AM |
| 5 | Men do find women their age physically attractive.I'm a catch myself so I'm not worried tbh haha. If anything it'll be a lot easier for me to attract women in my 30s because I take care of my body so I'll probably look better than most other guys my age. Basically the competition will have aged itself out haha | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/25 04:44 AM |
| 1 | Women who claim that size doesn't matter, have you actually experienced a big penis before, or are you just assuming it won't make a difference?So what's your favorite then? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/25 04:17 PM |
| -1 | More women than men watch violent, misogynistic porn. What's the reason?When you're playing a video game, you're usually the one committing the violence against those other characters in the game. It puts you in the POV of the main character and not the bad guys trying to kill you. Men who play video games aren't fantasizing about being killed in real life, because even in the game, when you get killed it means you've lost the game. The objective is to not get killed. When women watch violent porn, it's usually the man committing the violence against the woman in th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/25 12:13 PM |
| 1 | Women who claim that size doesn't matter, have you actually experienced a big penis before, or are you just assuming it won't make a difference?Why narrowish? Don't women prefer girth over length? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/25 03:15 AM |
| 1 | coffee dates not good enough?Why brunch? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/25 02:39 AM |
| 0 | Women who claim that size doesn't matter, have you actually experienced a big penis before, or are you just assuming it won't make a difference?How are you able to squeeze like that? Usually vaginas get wider with arousal but I've never heard of them getting tighter. Are there specific exercises you do to train yourself to do that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/25 04:17 PM |
| -8 | Women who claim that size doesn't matter, have you actually experienced a big penis before, or are you just assuming it won't make a difference?That's kinda my point though. Have you tried 8 inches? if not, you can't say it would kill you (which it literally wouldn't lol otherwise everyone who's tried one would be dead). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/25 03:08 PM |
| 1 | Women who claim that size doesn't matter, have you actually experienced a big penis before, or are you just assuming it won't make a difference?What makes average best? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/25 03:07 PM |
| 0 | Women who claim that size doesn't matter, have you actually experienced a big penis before, or are you just assuming it won't make a difference?But why is it always "it depends on how they use it"? Why can't someone have BOTH size and skill? And wouldn't that be the best of both worlds? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/25 03:05 PM |
| 1 | Women who claim that size doesn't matter, have you actually experienced a big penis before, or are you just assuming it won't make a difference?Good to know | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/25 03:05 PM |
| 5 | Men are the ones who really settleWho wants an 18 year old?? 22-25 year olds are way more attractive imo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/25 03:03 PM |
| 2 | Women who claim that size doesn't matter, have you actually experienced a big penis before, or are you just assuming it won't make a difference?That leads to another issue - how do you know whether they're actually average or if they're above average i.e. 6-6.5 inches? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/25 01:58 PM |
| -4 | Women who claim that size doesn't matter, have you actually experienced a big penis before, or are you just assuming it won't make a difference?What does a big one feel like compared to average? Do you not feel more filled up and does that not feel better? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/25 01:57 PM |
| 0 | Women who claim that size doesn't matter, have you actually experienced a big penis before, or are you just assuming it won't make a difference?What do you mean by doesn't matter? The huge and average one felt exactly the same? Or the huge one felt better/hurt more? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/25 01:56 PM |
| 3 | Women who claim that size doesn't matter, have you actually experienced a big penis before, or are you just assuming it won't make a difference?But that's like saying because in redpill subreddits men are "brutally honest" about only wanting women with hourglass figures and huge boobs, that means that men IRL share those standards. I would argue that what men/women say online and what they actually go for IRL would be completely different. For example men are really turned on by huge boobs when it comes to porn, but imagine dating a woman who looked like that IRL. There'd also be a societal factor of being stared at or judged for dating… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/25 01:55 PM |
| 0 | Women who claim that size doesn't matter, have you actually experienced a big penis before, or are you just assuming it won't make a difference?Is there a certain sweet spot for you that maximizes pleasure while also not being painful? Would it be on the larger size of average? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/25 01:51 PM |
| -2 | Women who claim that size doesn't matter, have you actually experienced a big penis before, or are you just assuming it won't make a difference?yeah this is exactly what I'm asking. How can they know until they've tried? And statistically most of them never will. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/25 01:48 PM |
| 3 | Women who claim that size doesn't matter, have you actually experienced a big penis before, or are you just assuming it won't make a difference?i had a look at female dating strategy and honestly the stuff they say on there is even more toxic than the redpill subreddits lol. They're basically just using men for money/sex and bragging about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/25 01:47 PM |
| -7 | Women who claim that size doesn't matter, have you actually experienced a big penis before, or are you just assuming it won't make a difference?Fair enough. I'm honestly a tall and attractive guy, and this is pretty much the only thing I'm insecure about lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/25 01:45 PM |
| -2 | Women who claim that size doesn't matter, have you actually experienced a big penis before, or are you just assuming it won't make a difference?And did both of those feel worse than an average one? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/25 01:44 PM |
| 2 | Is it true that the most beautiful women aren't on dating apps?Aren't these events just like dating apps but worse? you're forced into a predetermined area where everyone else is single and there for the sole purpose of finding a match (just like dating apps), but unlike the apps, you have a way smaller pool to choose from, and you also have no idea what their ages, occupations, hobbies etc. are. So you end up just having to make forced conversation just to figure out that you aren't compatible and then you have to move on to the next person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/25 01:38 PM |
| 1 | Is it true that the most beautiful women aren't on dating apps?Good to know! Is Thursday similar to TimeLeft? I went to one of those but seemed like it was more for making friends than dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/25 10:04 AM |
| 1 | Is it true that the most beautiful women aren't on dating apps?Isn't that only available in the US? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/25 10:02 AM |
| 2 | Is it true that the most beautiful women aren't on dating apps?Looks are what get your foot in the door. Personality is what makes a guy stay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/25 10:02 AM |
| 4 | Is it true that the most beautiful women aren't on dating apps?That actually supports the opposite argument though - that attractive women DO rely on dating apps. But it's just that they're able to find what they want quickly and get off the apps. Since there's thousands of women getting out of LTRs each day, that means the chance of matching with an attractive woman (provided you're an attractive man) and then getting into a relationship with her is pretty good in this case. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/25 10:02 AM |
| 1 | Why doesn't porn seem to warp womens' perceptions of sex the same way it does for men?Yeah so presumably straight women would watch different porn then | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/25 02:56 PM |
| 1 | Why doesn't porn seem to warp womens' perceptions of sex the same way it does for men?But the target audience is lesbian women, not straight women right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/25 02:47 PM |
| 0 | Why doesn't porn seem to warp womens' perceptions of sex the same way it does for men?I thought it was pretty equal. I've never had a female partner who didn't watch porn. But even so, does that mean the women who do watch porn have unrealistic expectations? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/25 05:13 PM |
| -3 | Why doesn't porn seem to warp womens' perceptions of sex the same way it does for men?If too large = painful, why does porn continue to push this narrative that bigger is better? It's quite harmful and doesn't benefit either men or women. I don't understand the incentive here if it makes men insecure and it also physically hurts women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/25 05:04 PM |
| 3 | Why doesn't porn seem to warp womens' perceptions of sex the same way it does for men?Lilly Phillips is a creator who profits off of mens' porn addiction so I'd argue that isn't exactly a fair comparison. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/25 05:01 PM |
| 4 | Why doesn't porn seem to warp womens' perceptions of sex the same way it does for men?But women do watch porn right? And the porn they watch basically pushes all those harmful stereotypes too, no? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/25 05:00 PM |
| 1 | Why doesn't porn seem to warp womens' perceptions of sex the same way it does for men?Do men's bodies not tell them that porn isn't real when they try to jackhammer a girl without foreplay and it won't go in because she's too dry? lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/25 05:00 PM |
| – | Just because dating apps are the most popular way to meet doesn’t mean you have to use them-Just because Facebook Marketplace, eBay etc. are the most popular way to sell used items, it doesn't mean you have to use them. You should just set up a table on the side of the road and try selling your items to random passersby instead. -Just because Spotify and other streaming services exist doesn't mean you have to use them. You should just get a Walkman and then spend hundreds of dollars on CDs instead because the sound quality is better. - Just because Whatsapp and Facebook Messenger make… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/25 04:14 AM |
| 40 | The reactions to the COVID pandemic prove that women are fragile hypocrites.I feel like this post would have been a lot more relevant if you'd made it 4 years ago lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/25 02:53 AM |
| 2 | Most girls don’t prefer significantly older menEvery single one of my female friends who I've asked has said that they would never date a guy who's younger than them, and that their preference is a guy who's 3-5 years older. I've also met women in their mid 20s who've told me they prefer guys who are in their 30s for a variety of reasons (more mature, better careers, more confident etc.). I've never met a single girl who said she had a preference for younger guys. Yeah, most 20 year old women probably wouldn't date someone in his 50s, but it… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/25 10:16 AM |
| -10 | Women are only against age gap relationships when the man is much less attractive than the woman.A woman seeing younger men (where men often mature slower than women to begin with) as children, is very different from younger women being attracted to older men because he's more mature than men their age. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/25 08:22 AM |
| – | Women are only against age gap relationships when the man is much less attractive than the woman.I genuinely think the Leo thing is just a meme lol. I don't think anyone seriously thinks that there's anything particularly unbelievable about one of the most famous actors in the world sleeping with younger women, or that those younger women would be attracted to him. Also Leo is starting to really show his age. When he becomes truly unattractive, then I suspect more and more women will start to shame him for his dating choices, which will kind of prove my point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/25 08:20 AM |
| – | Is it better for men to peak before or after college?College girls are typically regarded as the most attractive though, so being successful in college is what you want anyways. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/25 10:58 AM |
| 3 | Do women prefer meeting men through dating apps, mutual friends or being cold approached?Why would a bar be 2 if you don't know the guy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/25 03:08 AM |
| 2 | Do women prefer meeting men through dating apps, mutual friends or being cold approached?What makes you think your friends have good judgement? And also, just because someone is a good friend, why would that automatically mean they'd be a good partner? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/25 03:08 AM |
| 2 | Do women prefer meeting men through dating apps, mutual friends or being cold approached?So would you be OK if for example your guy friend just showed you a picture of a guy, you thought he looked cute, and then he gave him your number/Instagram and asked him to contact you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/25 03:07 AM |
| 1 | As a man, I get turned off if a woman displays too much interest early on.She's definitely cute | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/25 08:34 AM |
| 1 | As a man, I get turned off if a woman displays too much interest early on.How do you suggest I meet women then, if not through apps? There's literally no opportunities for me to interact with single women in my daily life, and I'm not about to go prowling the streets like a creep and approaching every attractive girl I see. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/25 12:50 PM |
| 3 | As a man, I get turned off if a woman displays too much interest early on.As a woman yourself, have you ever experienced this personally? Has a man who initially liked you ever ended up rejecting you for being too eager? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/25 12:49 PM |
| 1 | As a man, I get turned off if a woman displays too much interest early on.Wow, that's a very interesting perspective. Since my most recent long term relationship 2 years ago, I definitely have been casually dating a bunch of women and don't have trouble getting dates, but I haven't found anyone worth pursuing a relationship with. My biggest issue is that 100% of the women I meet are from dating apps since I don't have any opportunities to meet women IRL. So a lot of them end up being women who also just want something casual, or are only visiting in town for a few day… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/25 07:10 AM |
| 1 | As a man, I get turned off if a woman displays too much interest early on.I do have pretty high standards, you're right. But shouldn't men be able to attract women in the same attractiveness bracket? So if I'm really top 1%, then I should be attracting the top 1% of women too. Otherwise, who else are those women going for? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/25 05:18 AM |
| 2 | As a man, I get turned off if a woman displays too much interest early on.if that were true I wouldn't still be single 😥 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/25 05:01 AM |
| 2 | As a man, I get turned off if a woman displays too much interest early on.I'm not living in America. The reason I don't think I'm in the top 5% is because even though I have a cool job that pays decently well, it's not like I'm a millionaire or earning 6 figures. I'm also introverted and don't have a huge social circle/status, so I don't ever get invited to clubs or parties or any kinds of events where there's lots of attractive women. And since I work from home most of the time, I don't meet women in my day to day life which makes dating much harder for me. At least … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/25 04:00 AM |
| 2 | As a man, I get turned off if a woman displays too much interest early on.Even before she's gotten to know you properly? Then what makes you think you're special if she gives you so much interest early on? She probably does that to all the other guys she's seeing too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/25 03:52 AM |
| 2 | Why do seemingly wholesome women consume so much toxic anti-male content on social media?Some examples (I just found one reel and then kept scrolling to view similar content): https://www.instagram.com/reel/DGadlimtre1/ https://www.instagram.com/reel/DGajabqokSs/ https://www.instagram.com/reel/DBjxuQNB2w7/ https://www.instagram.com/reel/DE8X-38uqe1/ https://www.instagram.com/reel/DDIAqGvo9hI/ https://www.instagram.com/reel/DB1K4xnKaZU/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/25 01:37 PM |
| 1 | Why do seemingly wholesome women consume so much toxic anti-male content on social media?I usually still pay for her. I always want the woman to offer because it shows sincerity, but I'll still pay regardless. And occasionally I let her pay just to keep things balanced. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/25 01:20 PM |
| 2 | Why do seemingly wholesome women consume so much toxic anti-male content on social media?She's not my girlfriend lol. We aren't even exclusive yet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/25 01:19 PM |
| 1 | Why do seemingly wholesome women consume so much toxic anti-male content on social media?I do pay. She just offers every time, and sometimes I'll let her pay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/25 01:19 PM |
| 4 | Why do seemingly wholesome women consume so much toxic anti-male content on social media?I dated a 19 year old freshman in college when I was a 21 year old senior and ironically I had to break up with her because she was so immature. Idk why people say women mature much faster than men because she was so incredibly immature at 19 even compared to me at 21. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/25 09:38 AM |
| -2 | Why do seemingly wholesome women consume so much toxic anti-male content on social media?I mean I'm going to be 30 soon and honestly I'm not ready to be 30, I feel like I lost so many years to the pandemic lol. 30 seems so old to me so maybe that's why I perceive 28/29 as being much older than 24 (and I guess subconsciously thinking of myself as old is helping me mentally prepare to become 30). My 24 year old guy friends are also so much further behind in terms of career, fitness etc. so I imagine girls are similar. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/25 09:35 AM |
| -5 | Why do seemingly wholesome women consume so much toxic anti-male content on social media?So how big of a gap would it have to be? What if I turn 30 and I date a 24 year old? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/25 05:23 AM |
| 3 | How do women feel about dating reformed players?Ok that's what I meant then. Reformed slut, not player. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/25 04:52 AM |
| 0 | How do I ask a girl if she's down to hook up?True, guess it just feels rude to invite myself over to someone's place, especially for sex | /r/seduction | 05/02/25 04:30 PM |
| 1 | How do I ask a girl if she's down to hook up?Doesn't this entirely depend on her personality and how receptive she is to teasing? I've tried making a couple of flirty jokes but she just reacted with laugh emojis or brushed them aside. Maybe it's because she's attractive so she's tired of getting these sexual comments from every guy she matches with. | /r/seduction | 05/02/25 03:33 PM |
| 1 | How do I ask a girl if she's down to hook up?Doesn't this entirely depend on her personality and how receptive she is to teasing? I've tried making a couple of flirty jokes but she just reacted with laugh emojis or brushed them aside. Maybe it's because she's attractive so she's tired of getting these sexual comments from every guy she matches with. | /r/seduction | 05/02/25 03:33 PM |
| 0 | How do I ask a girl if she's down to hook up?That's my ideal plan, but I'm struggling with how to suggest that we spend time at her hotel. If it were my hotel, it would be pretty easy to invite her back (I've done it multiple times), but if it's her hotel idk, it seems kinda rude to ask someone to go to their place? Even if it's for a movie, saying "Hey do you want to watch a movie at yours?" feels kinda strange. | /r/seduction | 05/02/25 03:31 PM |
| 7 | How do I ask a girl if she's down to hook up?Very good point, thanks! Makes sense, most of the girls I've hooked up with while traveling have just been the result of us meeting for drinks, discovering we had chemistry and then I just asked if they wanted to come back to mine and they said yes without hesitation. | /r/seduction | 05/02/25 03:30 PM |
| 7 | How do I ask a girl if she's down to hook up?How can I invite her to watch a movie at her own hotel though? Seems a bit too forced. Also, isn't Hinge specifically marketed as an app NOT for hookups? | /r/seduction | 05/02/25 12:27 PM |
| 30 | What is the gym equivalent for females?Wouldn't they just assume you're gay? | /r/seduction | 30/01/25 01:40 AM |
| 1 | Are cute,hot and handsome the same for guys, if not how are they different and how they treated by womenSo what's an example of being in the middle and having a good mix of masculine and feminine? A tall guy with soft facial features? A short but ripped guy with huge muscles? Long hair? | /r/seduction | 28/01/25 01:58 PM |
| 1 | Why I think getting a girl's Instagram is better than getting her number.some of the hottest girls i know also have minimal profiles This is the opposite of my experience actually. The hotter the girl, the more followers she has usually, which makes complete sense because men are into attractive women. And usually attractive women know theyre attractive and want to capitalize on it by building a strong social media presence. | /r/seduction | 27/01/25 03:01 AM |
| 4 | In the dating stage - 1 girl is none, 2 is 1, 3 is perfectThen at what point do you actually give up your roster and become exclusive with someone then? There is always a risk that you aren't compatible or that she'll lose interest. But if you continue seeing other people (let's say past the 5th date) and the girl knows this, it's going to be a huge turn off for her and make her stop dating you. At some point you need to both put your egos aside and take the leap together. | /r/seduction | 27/01/25 02:49 AM |
| 3 | Why I think getting a girl's Instagram is better than getting her number.Time apart just means time when you're not physically together going on dates. Watching your IG story doesn't suddenly mean that she's not "apart" from you imo. If anything it just makes her remember you and miss you more since you aren't with her at that moment. | /r/seduction | 25/01/25 04:25 AM |
| 3 | Why I think getting a girl's Instagram is better than getting her number.I disagree. I've seen so many IG reels of girls saying it's a green flag that a man has little to no social media presence. I think women get the ick when a guy has too many followers, or is following too many people. The reason I like IG isn't to show off my follower count, but because we can actually see each others' daily lives when we're posting stories. | /r/seduction | 25/01/25 04:23 AM |
| 2 | Why I think getting a girl's Instagram is better than getting her number.But that's a skill issue then, no? That's like saying cold approach doesn't work because most guys have horrible social skills and come off as creepy. Well, the point is to work on yourself and get better until you become attractive to women. I don't see why that shouldn't apply to your social media game as well. For the record I only have a few hundred followers but I take good pictures and I post stories of myself doing fun or interesting things. I'm also a pretty good musician so I post video… | /r/seduction | 25/01/25 04:22 AM |
| 4 | Why I think getting a girl's Instagram is better than getting her number.Exactly my point! | /r/seduction | 24/01/25 05:36 PM |
| 6 | Why I think getting a girl's Instagram is better than getting her number.I mean yeah you're not wrong, but these aren't arguments to do with IG itself. It would be the same result if a girl gave you a fake number, or never responded to your first text. I'm referring to after you've added each other and are able to interact with each other's profiles. If you're an attractive guy, it's much easier to convey this via Instagram than it is via plain old text. | /r/seduction | 24/01/25 05:27 PM |
| 4 | Why Meeting Women in Real Life Makes You UnstoppableI much prefer dating apps or cold approach compared to social circle tbh... I don't like dating within my friend group. It's awkward and results in a lot of gossip drama, even more so if things don't work out. I'd rather keep my friendships and romantic relationships separate. | /r/seduction | 23/01/25 12:01 PM |
| 14 | Do women actually have as many options from online dating as men think they do?But what's the point of even sexting the out of town guy if then? If a woman has that many options then surely she wouldn't have time to entertain someone from another city? | /r/seduction | 19/01/25 02:36 AM |
| 1 | It's crazy how much of a different texting her less makesHow did you meet your gf though? On dating apps or in person? if you met online then what did you do to stand out from all those other guys who were DMing her? | /r/seduction | 17/01/25 04:58 PM |
| 1 | Do attractive women care about a guy's social media presence?why is it a turnoff though? Do you also not use social media? | /r/seduction | 15/01/25 03:17 AM |
| 2 | Do attractive women care about a guy's social media presence?in what way? | /r/seduction | 15/01/25 03:15 AM |
| 1 | Do attractive women care about a guy's social media presence?Does it matter if I have fewer followers as long as attractive women like my posts then? I only have around 400 followers, but I add a lot of the women I've hooked up with and/or met on dating apps. So most of my photos will have at least 3-4 attractive women consistently liking them. Would this have a similar effect? And also, do women actually look at who likes a guy's posts? Seems like a lot of effort. | /r/seduction | 15/01/25 03:14 AM |
| 1 | Do attractive women care about a guy's social media presence?I think his question is why would those girls even be on dating apps in the first place since they already have so many dating options via Instagram? And even if they were on the apps, they probably wouldn't be taking them seriously and would be using them more as an ego boost or to get more followers? | /r/seduction | 15/01/25 03:13 AM |
| 1 | Do attractive women care about a guy's social media presence?Doesn't that make you seem like a player with is usually a turnoff? | /r/seduction | 15/01/25 03:12 AM |
| 7 | Do attractive women care about a guy's social media presence?I'm not putting them on a pedestal at all. I just think it's a fact that attractive women think differently than unattractive women. For example an attractive woman has thousands of guys telling her she's attractive, so she won't find it that flattering. But for an unattractive woman who never hears that, if I call her attractive it'll make her day. | /r/seduction | 15/01/25 03:11 AM |
| 4 | Do attractive women care about a guy's social media presence?Isn't it bad to give those kinds of compliments and put women on a pedestal? Calling them breathtaking etc. on the first seems a bit desperate no? | /r/seduction | 15/01/25 03:10 AM |
| 12 | Do attractive women care about a guy's social media presence?But typically only influencers would have those lifestyles, either due to wealth or because they have a lot of followers so are invited to such events/experiences. A regular guy with 300 followers is unlikely to have that type of social media aesthetic. and if he did, then he would already be an influencer. | /r/seduction | 15/01/25 03:10 AM |
| 11 | Do attractive women care about a guy's social media presence?Do you tag them in the stories? tbh i would never post a story if I was only on a first date, since we aren't even exclusive, let alone boyfriend/girlfriend. | /r/seduction | 14/01/25 01:56 PM |
| 1 | How to talk about sex in a way turns a woman on?I always thought it was less masculine to ask for permission to kiss. Guess not! | /r/seduction | 12/01/25 07:16 AM |
| 1 | Do women get turned off if you tell them you really like them?Why is it important for a woman to have a male role model? Wouldn't it be more important for her to have female role models (i.e. a good mother and non-promiscuous friends) to emulate? | /r/seduction | 05/01/25 02:42 AM |
| 6 | Do women get turned off if you tell them you really like them?But at what point do you stop playing the courtship game and actually focus on being in a relationship? If it's so true that women enjoy courtship and prefer to chase, then doesn't that mean that as soon as you become bf/gf, they'll get bored and leave? So one should never be in a serious relationship then? Sounds quite grim to me. | /r/seduction | 04/01/25 05:05 AM |
| 12 | Do women get turned off if you tell them you really like them?I like this analogy. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 03/01/25 10:22 AM |
| 0 | A large portion of women are hypocrites when it comes to their dating preferencesWhich was basically what I said in my post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/25 03:25 PM |
| -2 | A large portion of women are hypocrites when it comes to their dating preferencesthat's been my experience as well lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/25 03:21 PM |
| 1 | A large portion of women are hypocrites when it comes to their dating preferencesVery true, can't argue with that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/25 02:35 PM |
| 1 | A large portion of women are hypocrites when it comes to their dating preferencesI've watched quite a few my female friends swipe on dating apps. Anytime they see a guy with abs they'll immediately get excited and then swipe right, especially if he has an attractive face to go along with it. I've never ever seen a girl see a guy with a great physique and go "ew that's gross!" and then swipe left. I don't necessarily have a study, but that's just what I've seen IRL. Also case in point: Luigi Mangione. That single picture of him shirtless has turned him into an internet sensat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/25 02:05 PM |
| 5 | A large portion of women are hypocrites when it comes to their dating preferencesFrom my experience, men are much simpler. When we say we like a nice butt or big boobs or whatever, we mean it. I don't think I've ever seen a guy say "weight doesn't matter" and then turn around and only date 90 lb supermodels. We will say we don't want a woman who's overweight. Men are much more vocal about what we like. But I could be wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/25 02:03 PM |
| 1 | A large portion of women are hypocrites when it comes to their dating preferencesI like it when a woman dresses up and puts make up on. Just like a woman would like it if I dressed up and made an effort to look good on a date. So I would never lie about it and pretend that I prefer women who don't wear makeup. But if there are men out there who say that, then yes they're lying and that is also wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/25 02:01 PM |
| 1 | How do you escalate during a quick coffee date?What kind of women are agreeing to go to a motel with 15 minutes after meeting a complete stranger? I find that extremely hard to believe tbh | /r/seduction | 31/12/24 04:18 PM |
| 2 | How do you escalate during a quick coffee date?This guy biscottis | /r/seduction | 30/12/24 02:09 PM |
| 3 | How do you escalate during a quick coffee date?Who gets off of work at 4?? But yeah good advice thanks | /r/seduction | 30/12/24 08:37 AM |
| 3 | How do you escalate during a quick coffee date?Great advice, thank you! I have one piece of pushback though: don't women always complain about how guys are too horny and will always try to get into their pants on a first date instead of getting to know them first? So wouldn't not making a move show that I'm sexually discipline and am willing to wait? Wouldn't that be more attractive than making a move on the first date since that's what every guy does? | /r/seduction | 30/12/24 08:35 AM |
| -3 | How do you escalate during a quick coffee date?I try and prioritize my family and friends as well as my hobbies during the weekends. But yeah, I guess I'd have to sacrifice some time if I want better dating results. | /r/seduction | 30/12/24 07:35 AM |
| 17 | How do you escalate during a quick coffee date?That's what I try to do too. But I've noticed that my chances of a second date go up dramatically if we kiss on the first date. I guess with no kiss, girls might think I wasn't interested so they lose interest too. | /r/seduction | 30/12/24 04:32 AM |
| 1 | How do you escalate during a quick coffee date?Not so easy on weeknights when I have work early the next day | /r/seduction | 30/12/24 04:31 AM |
| 1 | How do you escalate during a quick coffee date?What if I have somewhere to be after the coffee date? That's usually the case for me. Should I still try to kiss even if I know nothing more will be happening? | /r/seduction | 30/12/24 04:26 AM |
| 6 | How do you escalate during a quick coffee date?Idk. I would find it incredibly awkward to kiss in a coffee shop the middle of the afternoon in broad daylight. Seems like a risky move tbh. | /r/seduction | 30/12/24 04:19 AM |
| 1 | The biggest reason you should quit dating apps is overlooked in todays society.What do you mean a lot of things we used to do are now closed? There's literally no restrictions anymore and places have all opened up. Yes some restaurants and bars closed down because of the pandemic, but others opened to take their place. | /r/seduction | 26/12/24 08:31 AM |
| 5 | How do you guys deal with a girl in your rotation who wants to be exclusive but you don't?Really? Most girls I know are absolutely not OK with the guy they're dating sleeping around, especially if they're in a relationship. | /r/seduction | 16/12/24 12:05 PM |
| 1 | How do I ask out girls that I meet in group/social settings?Should I be direct and say I'm attracted to her, or should I be more subtle? | /r/seduction | 16/12/24 07:00 AM |
| 4 | She invited me to cook together at her place. Should I make a move before or after cooking?What does drinking have to do with it? | /r/seduction | 15/12/24 05:03 AM |
| 1 | How much does a great body help in attracting females?I think that going from completely out of shape to decently lean/toned will get you a massive difference. But anything beyond that is just diminishing returns. And it will get to a point where if you're too muscular women will actually be turned off. So it's all about balance. Basically just don't look like a slob and you'll be OK. | /r/seduction | 29/11/24 10:51 AM |
| 0 | Do different men peak at different ages?What makes a 28 year old better than 24 year old biologically? I'd assume the 24 year old would be fitter, more youthful and generally more attractive, no? | /r/seduction | 28/10/24 05:07 PM |
| 3 | Did meeting girls in real life work better for you than online dating?No. I have a good profile and online dating gets me way better results than cold approach. Also when I match with a girl I know for sure they are at least attracted to me. With cold approach there's no guarantee that the girl is even single, let alone interested and looking for a relationship. It's also easier to find attractive women on dating apps than it is to go to random public spots and try to find girls who I'm attracted to. | /r/seduction | 23/08/24 04:33 AM |
| 1 | Do you ever double text a girl after sliding into her DMs on IG?I tend to agree but this woman's ig is set to private and she doesn't have that many followers. Seems unlikely that she's fishing for followers if she has a private account. | /r/seduction | 11/05/24 11:06 AM |
| 2 | Do you ever double text a girl after sliding into her DMs on IG?Yeah that makes sense. I'm guessing she's heard every pickup line there is, so I'll have to come up with something tailored to her profile. | /r/seduction | 11/05/24 10:40 AM |
| -8 | Do you ever double text a girl after sliding into her DMs on IG?That's great advice, I was thinking of saying something like "are you always this shy?" but that might come of a bit aggressive, so I'll go with replying to her story instead. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 11/05/24 05:21 AM |
| 184 | Do girls ever go alone to night clubs?I've seen girls at night clubs alone before. Ironically no one approached them lol | /r/seduction | 27/04/24 05:42 AM |
| 8 | What's the best way to approach a girl in a group, when the group has both guys and girls?I don't know about them being friendzoned. Some of them were openly making out with the girls lol. It's just that the one I was into didn't seem to be flirting or making out with any of the guys in the group. But she was pretty tightly surrounded and I had no way of getting to her without barging in or making myself look like a creep. | /r/seduction | 13/04/24 06:38 AM |
| 9 | Promised to buy girl a dress, advice on how to keep her on budget?Just tell her your budget? There's no secret trick lol (and any decent girl who isn't a gold digger wouldn't make you spend over $100 on a 2nd date anyways) | /r/seduction | 26/03/24 10:51 AM |
| 46 | 11 Panty-dropping Date IdeasIf you end up 100 feet further than when you started it’s an adventure date. So what if you start in the living room watching a movie but end up upstairs in her bedroom? That should count as an adventure date too then right? | /r/seduction | 09/05/23 02:58 PM |
| 2 | Is making out with people for the first time always so awkward?100%. Takes at least one session to really get comfortable. Don't worry about it! | /r/seduction | 05/12/20 09:52 AM |
| 1 | When You Focus On Self-Improvement, Women Will Chase YouHow would they chase you if you don't actively go meet them? I work out, am very active and have a decent job but I never get the chance to interact with any womenin my daily life. | /r/seduction | 15/11/20 07:08 AM |
| 1 | Girl messages enthusiastically on Instagram but doesn't follow me back?I see. So basically I would stand out against other guys by not being insecure about this and asking "why don't you follow me"? Assuming the other guys are gonna do that | /r/seduction | 28/08/20 02:43 AM |
| 1 | Girl messages enthusiastically on Instagram but doesn't follow me back?That sounds fair. She does get a lot of guys messaging her so it could definitely be a test. Although I don't see why women constantly play these games instead of just being direct. | /r/seduction | 27/08/20 05:28 PM |
| 1 | Girl messages enthusiastically on Instagram but doesn't follow me back?So I should ask for her number during the date itself? Instead of sending her a message on Insta saying hey let's switch to text? | /r/seduction | 27/08/20 03:12 PM |
| 1 | Girl messages enthusiastically on Instagram but doesn't follow me back?Alright, thanks for the reassurance! | /r/seduction | 27/08/20 03:08 PM |
| 1 | Girl messages enthusiastically on Instagram but doesn't follow me back?True, good point. Would you recommend I move things over from Instagram to text? It might be awkward cuz I've already moved from Tinder to Insta, so asking to move again might be weird | /r/seduction | 27/08/20 02:40 PM |
| 1 | Girl messages enthusiastically on Instagram but doesn't follow me back?has controlling people in her life that check her instagram I'm already following her on Instagram though, and she knows I can see her posts and stories. So if she accepted my follow request why wouldn't she want to follow back? doing something dishonest (misleading you because she likes the chase, catfishing, cheating on her controlling bf who stalks her instagram, whatever) She isn't catfishing because she's sent me pics through DMs of her irl. And if she was cheating, how would not following … | /r/seduction | 27/08/20 02:16 PM |
| 1 | Girl messages enthusiastically on Instagram but doesn't follow me back?But isn't it weird that she's down to go out for dinner and drinks but doesn't want to follow me back? I can't see the logic in that. Doesn't she at least want to see what I look like or what I'm doing so she can confirm I'm not a catfish? | /r/seduction | 27/08/20 01:47 PM |
| 2 | Girl messages enthusiastically on Instagram but doesn't follow me back?Wait really? That explains so much. Who came up with that rule? But tbh this is the first girl I've met off Tinder who hasn't followed me back right after I've followed them. Maybe it's because she's a model but I've also matched with girls who have way more followers than her and still followed me back so idk | /r/seduction | 27/08/20 01:24 PM |
| 1 | Girl messages enthusiastically on Instagram but doesn't follow me back?"oh what you are too cool to follow me?" Haha nice, do you think this would work as a message too? Like if I just DMed her that | /r/seduction | 27/08/20 01:23 PM |
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