csmedo1994 Archive

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2	Preparing myself for the inevitable, seeking advice I feel you about the employment. My business of 13 yrs went under nearly 2 yrs ago. I’m over 50 and haven’t worked for anyone else since 2011; so no real references or easy link back to my former career. Have you considered a training only or educational path? I first went into a major depression. We were already divorced, but I lost custody of my daughter. Took me awhile to shake off my mental issues, but still never got a job offer. I recently got accepted into a hospital run RN program. It’s …	/r/Divorce_Men	25/06/26 12:44 AM
2	Women have way too much power in today's society. Yes, every word, every syllable, every sound, every thought, every idea, every suggestion… Or, or wait for it, if you had reading comprehension of written English , I simply take “less” stock in what she says in a respectful and agreeable manner. As I literally wrote in my post and also praised my mother for her numerous contributions in my life. You can interpret what I clearly wrote however you want. I stated very clearly my thoughts. You have preconceived notions of who I am and what I think,…	/r/MensRights	21/06/26 04:32 PM
1	Women have way too much power in today's society. It’s depends on their level positivity or negativity they add to your life. Believe it or not, my mother is an incredibly positive influence in my life and everyone she meets for that matter. She is not only a rare exception, but I’ve learned as I get older she is not always worth listening to. She almost always has good intentions (first off, that’s a rarity in anyone, much less a woman), I find that her opinions are less appropriate to my situation. So, I nod and take it in, but increasingly I…	/r/MensRights	21/06/26 01:33 PM
1	Women have way too much power in today's society. You’re only partially correct on the physiological differences between the genders. This incomplete answer addresses why women make incorrect assumptions on this topic. It’s not just the cycling of hormones, it’s the sheer volume and peak of men’s hormone of testosterone—the same hormone that women possess, but in far less quantity. If women are given testosterone artificially via injection or otherwise, female sex drive (and aggression) spikes massively with that higher testosterone level. On a…	/r/MensRights	21/06/26 12:46 PM
3	Women have way too much power in today's society. Gentlemen (this is a men’s sub, right?) I present to you the solipsistic nature of women. Read the few answers and it’s self evident to those that don’t suffer from the phenomenon. Other poster: the coercion into sex tangent, the false assumption that post partum is even the cause of most sexual deserts in marriage is a) a straw man b) one that I didn’t even make, but is just assumed as causal by the other poster. I’m not going to roped into a being yet another Bad Guy in Marriage (TM) for an ar…	/r/MensRights	21/06/26 11:07 AM
3	Women have way too much power in today's society. I really don’t care what you asked. Go ask some other man to do your bidding. Google is free. I was referring to a similar, but not exactly the same case of domestic violence studies; plus, I wasn’t the OP. See if the OP answers the demands of a women nosing her way into a men’s sub.	/r/MensRights	21/06/26 10:51 AM
1	I’m 38M, want to get married, but the modern dating market feels completely impossible. Here is why. Agreed. Have you considered dating/marriage cross culturally or in foreign locations?	/r/MensRights	19/06/26 08:08 PM
17	Women have way too much power in today's society. Ahh, you don't like what I say, so you attempt to silence me? I'm just fine by the way. My psyche is great. Interesting that you made no attempt whatsoever to counter, add to or improve the dialogue, but went straight to silence what you don't like. I'll stay online as I please.	/r/MensRights	19/06/26 07:58 PM
17	Women have way too much power in today's society. Yes. Absolutely. What makes it a given that society should cater its actions that women's lives are easier? How would you feel about the opposite assumption? Things are just fine, so long as it benefits you?	/r/MensRights	19/06/26 07:51 PM
10	Women have way too much power in today's society. Per a simple google search, males drives 30-40% more miles on US highways, so this isn't the flex you think it is.	/r/MensRights	19/06/26 07:49 PM
6	Women have way too much power in today's society. It seems you think that as long as you aspire to higher standards everyone else will too. It’s like the French Resistance vs the Germans in occupied France or perhaps the Viet Cong in Vietnam. They served the enemy coffee and croissants in cafes by day, and blew them up by night. Not realizing someone is at war with you doesn’t make them any less dangerous to you. Also, not engaging in a battle doesn’t mean you won’t get hit in the crossfire. You seem like the latter. It’s nice and naive and eas…	/r/MensRights	19/06/26 04:09 PM
10	Women have way too much power in today's society. Everything you wrote is pure idealist fantasy. And the group of people who are doing their best to make that as far from reality is the American feminist. Believe me, most men would love to live how you described. Most men still are attempting to live as you describe, foolishly I may add. It’s foolish when the legal system is designed and implemented to demolish the efforts of men toward the idealistic vision you describe. If you are a minority of women who aspire your vision, and society fails …	/r/MensRights	19/06/26 03:54 PM
5	Women have way too much power in today's society. The irony of your response is massive..YOU see news reports…YOU assume that is the reality, all because YOU feel that way. Read the definition of solipsism again. 50,000 US men are currently in prison for rape; but YOU read a few news headlines so that all that’s happening. Tommy McKay is one of the British resources from England citing massive fall allegations during divorce proceedings. He’s not the researcher I was talking about, though. There are more.	/r/MensRights	19/06/26 03:36 PM
4	Women have way too much power in today's society. I have a degree in psychology. I’m well aware of post partum depression. Are you aware of a time when a man isn’t in the mood to get up and go to work? Are you aware of a time when a husband isn’t in the mood to do a honey do list…. And the list goes on…	/r/MensRights	19/06/26 03:17 PM
1	Got served divorce papers, wife only wants one thing If the 401k is minimal, don’t spend legal time(money) pursuing it. Some general advice about the dog. I’m not a lawyer, but I did spend 5 yrs and $200k divorcing, so I have quite education on these things. Generally speaking in law, possession is 9/10s of the law. You have the dog, she choose to leave it behind. Could she try to get back legally? Yes, anything is possible but it all costs money to pursue in court. It sounds like she doesn’t have much money either, so if you stand your ground wit…	/r/Divorce_Men	19/06/26 03:23 AM
1	Got served divorce papers, wife only wants one thing Pro tip: always email a lawyer first, then call only if necessary. That’s for after you hire one formerly. You can usually get a free consult before hiring a lawyer. It’s usually an hour and they get the gist of your case and you can ask some questions for free but generally get to know how they work and if you think they can be trusted.	/r/Divorce_Men	19/06/26 03:14 AM
9	Women have way too much power in today's society. Imagine treating the same concerns of women as equally “victimization” Thank you for a perfect demonstration of how men’s concerns are simply swatted away as insignificant and even unworthy of conversation by larger society.	/r/MensRights	19/06/26 03:07 AM
3	Women have way too much power in today's society. But, that’s precisely what’s happened. They demand a seat at the table but then demand that table to be slanted to make up for their shortcomings. A jobs physical demands, for example, of police, military and firefighters. If a male firefighter is required to drag a 200lb body 20 yds, why wouldn’t a female firefighter be expected to do the same, etc, etc.	/r/MensRights	19/06/26 03:04 AM
7	Women have way too much power in today's society. So, if someone doesn’t have a house, why haven’t you bought them one? If someone is hungry, why haven’t you feed them? And how dare you have an opinion until you individually solve their problems. See how that works? Google the definition of solipsism.	/r/MensRights	19/06/26 02:57 AM
6	Women have way too much power in today's society. There is a similar study pertaining to false allegations that occur during divorce proceedings. It’s made by a female from England I believe. She found that nearly 80% of accusations were demonstrably false, and likely higher but couldn’t 100% rule out or the abuse was two sided. She was able to replicate her results across several countries. I don’t have her name, possibly Catherine something, google it. She was canceled because by academic feminist simply because she told the real truth.	/r/MensRights	19/06/26 02:39 AM
12	Women have way too much power in today's society. Sorry, that’s delusional. The roads you drive and the car you drive are made by 90% men; the design of that car is nearly 100% men. The toilet you shit in? Installed by a male plumber. Same with the electric. In fact, nearly everything in your house was 90% designed and installed by men, with the possible exception of your curtains. Go to a construction job site. Have you even been to one? Probably not. Do women contractors exist like the ones you see on your woke HGTV shows? Sure. They still ma…	/r/MensRights	19/06/26 02:34 AM
10	Women have way too much power in today's society. These are good answers, especially #1. Why will this help? It will revolutionize the marriage and dating market. The vast majority of modern marriages are prison sentences for the man. The female is either actively denying sex or will soon do so. Think I’m wrong or you’re the exception? Just wait. The tipping point is 2 kids and or 10 yrs of marriage. At that point the majority of marriages have become sexual deserts. Not 100% of marriages are this way, but the vast majority are, say approximate…	/r/MensRights	19/06/26 02:18 AM
4	Soon to be ex wife cohabitating before divorce final The courts must at the very least monitor this situation, by law in most situations. It’s not ok for her to have any person over 18 share a home overnight, at least not without court visibility. His name, age, social and possibly his criminal background check can be demanded. If the check reveals any issues, you can petition the court for his removal.	/r/Divorce_Men	18/06/26 02:08 PM
2	Men in long term marriages, what holds you back to leave your wife? While I don’t believe lawyers would advise this, wives don’t need the recommendation; they already know. This isn’t necessarily a reason to not proceed with a divorce, but you must plan for this possibility, it’s very likely. Time your divorce and plan to leave the residence, but make sure your lawyer asserts you retain full equity rights. I don’t have solid data of the frequency of this accusation, but there’s ample evidence (academic research) that proves such DV accusations are largely false,…	/r/Divorce_Men	14/06/26 08:14 PM
6	Men in long term marriages, what holds you back to leave your wife? While it’s laudable you sacrificed during your marriage, Men must understand that women are simply not built that way. Women will not be there for better or worse, not for any significant period of time. Women don’t marry for better or worse, they marry for “better get what I want”. You are obligated to fulfill that desire, but the reciprocal is not true for you, much less you even have the audacity to ask for your desires. Further, what a wife wants will change like the weather. If all parties …	/r/Divorce_Men	14/06/26 08:02 PM
11	Men in long term marriages, what holds you back to leave your wife? Pretty obvious. If you have kids you will likely lose them. A house, likely lose it. Women risk almost nothing in divorce or marriage. Not so for men.	/r/Divorce_Men	14/06/26 07:45 PM
1	What is the occupation of your STBXW or Ex-Wife? You know they have anonymous tip lines for this, right? If the shoe was reversed, you know she would.	/r/Divorce_Men	05/06/26 03:00 AM
3	What is the occupation of your STBXW or Ex-Wife? A specialty physician who recently inherited $1m from her family. Easy to see why I paid over $250k illegal fees and eventually lost custody of my daughter.	/r/Divorce_Men	05/06/26 02:57 AM
3	Lawyer is asking me to pay half the mortgage Yeah, it’s a double edged sword. In my case it cost me over $200k in a 5 yr window. My income was lower significantly, so she was able to bleed me dry through legal fees and prolonged court battles. I probably should have represented myself at some point. If you two are roughly equal, or you have higher income, it’s good idea to lawyer up.	/r/Divorce_Men	28/05/26 01:38 AM
14	How to not hate women? The fact that it’s banned tells you everything. Mere words that women find offensive have been outlawed. Sad thing is, they actually think that if the sub goes away, the thoughts behind it go away.	/r/MensRights	21/05/26 11:44 PM
14	I’m a mom and witnessing the way the world treats my 11yo son vs. my daughter changed me forever. Girls currently outnumber boys at all universities in the United States. Google it. More girls than boys graduate from HS, college. More women are currently enrolled in medical school, law school and many stem programs. This didn’t happen by chance. It was a methodical strategy driven by preferential treatment for women enrollment over accepting men into these programs. When does this “historically” underrepresentation catch up with the modern day real world environment?	/r/MensRights	20/05/26 12:53 AM
5	When do you guys take off your ring? Sold mine within 6 months of her requesting a divorce. Got $194 for it. Conversely, I paid $24k for her wedding ring. Pretty sure she sold that for a nice sum. It was an epiphany for me how unbalanced a marriage is.	/r/Divorce_Men	19/05/26 03:21 AM
245	I’m a mom and witnessing the way the world treats my 11yo son vs. my daughter changed me forever. Christina Hoff Sommers wrote a good book on this very subject, The War Against Boys. Great read, you may find it helpful. She’s written some great articles as well. A few more books out there, one by a woman pediatrician, but I haven’t read them and cant vouch for it.	/r/MensRights	18/05/26 11:09 PM
8	Well boys I gave it my all in the divorce subreddit today 😂 Women got ahold of it. Anytime women become a majority of an entity or hold power they destroy that entity. I’ve spent my lifetime working in female dominated fields. They are a poisonous cancer to all things.	/r/Divorce_Men	15/05/26 03:45 AM
2	Senator John Fetterman says Democrats are becoming anti-men and warns of a male voter exodus Bro, the selective service draft registration of men only has been in continuous operation since 1975, and intermittently before that since 1940. How do you twist that into a republican issue? Democrats have had not just numerous presidents but controlled Congress many times, to include a super majority recently under Obama. You are completely captive to your own bias if you think this is a Republican only issue.	/r/MensRights	12/05/26 05:33 PM
1	Senator John Fetterman says Democrats are becoming anti-men and warns of a male voter exodus I can’t find one word in print or verbal from any Democrat politician even hinting at abolishing the selective service for men. Ever. How do you make that a partisan issue? Libertarians are on the record for that, but it shows your mind is awfully biased to support a 2 party system on an issue that has 100% bipartisan support from R’s & D’s.	/r/MensRights	12/05/26 05:25 PM
1	All my problems in my life comes from a woman. Hence why I said it’s harder to do than to say. You call it a natural reaction, perhaps that’s correct. But she knows that too before she did whatever she did to evoke that response. Reactions can be trained to respond to stimuli , and without being robotic also. It takes work. Begin that work now as a young man. Or, according to your words it looks like you l’ll just be a victim. You choose.	/r/MensRights	02/05/26 06:06 PM
5	All my problems in my life comes from a woman. You need to reframe your title and your entire mindset: All my problems come from how I react to the women in my life. Take responsibility and change your actions towards women. There’s no doubt women have likely played a major detrimental role in men’s lives. Learn to understand woman and respond accordingly. Easy to say, harder to do. Are women manipulative? Yes, across the board to some degree. It’s their nature. Petting an alligator, then complaining about getting bitten is on you, not the a…	/r/MensRights	02/05/26 05:25 PM
4	Difference in Women vs Men After Divorce Totally biased article. Woman are worse off financially bc they are worse off with earning power before thy get divorced.	/r/Divorce_Men	25/04/26 10:15 PM
9	Are women not worried about men giving up on them? Your first paragraph is an entirely incorrect premise. It’s not that it’s biological gender tendencies OR social programming. It’s both. You’ve fallen into the false premise that it’s an either/ or situation. In fact, that is literally never the case. As a self professed leftist, your ideology skews towards the power of the social side. A right leaning would skew towards biology; neither is correct. Myself, as a right leaning person with a social science background, I skewed towards the power of…	/r/MensRights	23/04/26 03:45 PM
3	First parenting discussion after separation turned into a mess. Need honest advice No. Not reasonable at all. Not even a little bit. Why in the world would you think no sleep overs for you are OK?? FYI, overnights are how they calculate child support. What she’s proposing is backing you into an arrangement of seeing your kids, but as if she has sole custody. You would owe her a ridiculous amount of child support. She didn’t arrive at that proposal by accident. Don’t be duped. 50/50. Exactly. Nothing more, nothing less.	/r/Divorce_Men	21/04/26 07:30 PM
3	20 Years, 5 Kids, Jewish Orthodox . At What Point Is Divorce Actually the Right Call? First point, up front: Marriage is not for Men. Marriage in modern western civilization is for women primarily and to a lesser extent, the kids. So, yes, in this context, what your experiencing is commonplace. Mind you, its bad, but it's a typical experience in which females dominate the marriage and family sphere. Think about it, from day one, you bent down on one knee to beg her for her presence in your life and sacrificed thousands if not tens of thousands for a ring to show the world your sa…	/r/Divorce_Men	16/04/26 06:12 PM
1	What hope is there in any LTR after Divorce revelations? Consider yourself lucky that it ended before you had kids together. Typically the woman wants children, but has no interest in a husband, at least not after said children arrive. Usually the typical plan is to raise the kids as she sees fit, but without you present and still on your dime.	/r/Divorce_Men	11/04/26 08:57 PM
2	Dixie Chicks song where they plot to murder the husband of friend. What songs (or other cultural media) do you know where the protagonist of the plot is a man killing a woman? Where that is the topic, the foil is always the man and the woman is the innocent victim. These are not the same.	/r/MensRights	31/03/26 08:54 PM
5	Unsolicited rant from ex Ok, then limit all conversation to the kids. Technically as adults, unless you have some sort of decree demanding that cooperation you have no obligation. You don’t even have to be mad or bitter about it. Just don’t communicate. It’s a choice to communicate outside mandated topics related to the children. It’s also a choice to be bitter. Choose to be better, make her the past. If her words are having any impact on you she still controls you. And clearly you not focused on you new life.	/r/Divorce_Men	29/03/26 01:07 AM
6	Unsolicited rant from ex Unless you have kids together there is no reason to speak to her. Ever. Sounds harsh, but what could you gain by speaking to her? You’re not getting back together, so the best way to move on is to make a clean break.	/r/Divorce_Men	29/03/26 01:03 AM
8	Being single after divorce has made...question You situation sounds amazing similar to mine, with a difference of maybe a year in timing. My situation was bizarre to say the least, as my then wife had the affair with a leader of the church. Then, the church covered it up and even had a "Christian" lawyer threaten me in writing to sue me. The kicker is that the guy running the Divorce Care group in church. was the one who orchestrated the cover up because it was his best buddy cheating with my wife. Needless to say, I don't go near church aga…	/r/Divorce_Men	23/03/26 08:04 PM
44	I'm terrified of how easily a false accusation can destroy a man's life. Until there is a criminal penalty that approaches the gravity of the accusation, nothing will change. Let that sink in.	/r/MensRights	23/03/26 04:32 AM
8	Guide to Vengeance Brother, we can understand your anger, but not approve your actions. Note that some of your actions are flat out illegal. You will pay the price for that crime, not her. Also, psychologically you will pay the price for your bitterness as well. Expecting your bitterness to hurt her is like you drinking poison and expecting it to harm her. Remember this: Bitterness is a choice. We’ve all made that choice certain days, like today you have chosen bitterness. It’s understandable, but it’s not a place…	/r/Divorce_Men	22/03/26 05:27 PM
4	Maybe Divorce Made Me a Chauvinist Great point. Their tendencies were always present, it just wasn’t broadcast for all to see on social media.	/r/Divorce_Men	18/03/26 11:49 PM
34	Is the world becoming anti-men? So, 75% of homelessness in America is men. Yet, the conversation is always about the 25% of homeless women. Don’t believe me? Look for a men’s homeless shelter. They don’t exist; never seen one in my life, but I can find 3 women’s shelter in a short drive, despite men being the overwhelming homeless numbers. Same could be said for suicide. It’s exponentially worse for men. Men are overwhelmingly the gender that dies in war and the only one that can get drafted. Never believe the lies you are bei…	/r/MensRights	17/03/26 10:12 PM
2	Today’s days old when I found out she’s dating again. There's a cluster of traits it seems here that are common among women. The makeup thing is about appearances to external society and little to do with the inner circle of her life. To whatever degree, you gave her a social standing and that is most important biologically to women. Further as someone pointed out, her commitment was always to the feelings you gave her, not actually you. I wish someone had explained these things to me when I was a younger man.	/r/Divorce_Men	16/03/26 08:46 PM
1	Best next steps? Really depends on who wants to continue living at the house, big factor. You didn't say it, but are you either the only breadwinner or the majority income breadwinner? She will likely take 1/2 your retirement pay, 1/2 the equity of the house, etc. That's why who will live there is an essential question. If you move out, she owes you 50% of the equity for the house. The one remaining will have to pay the departing spouse their 50% of the equity. You can do that via a new loan, tapping retirement,…	/r/Divorce_Men	16/03/26 08:34 PM
10	Man defends woman, ends up in the hospital. Why doesn't this make headlines? I personally know 2 men, very masculine ones, their wife tried to stab them same happened police attempted to arrest them. One had surgery bc she tried to poke his eye out. Women are definitely more violent than society believes.	/r/MensRights	10/03/26 04:56 PM
15	My wife Brother, meaningless sex isn’t cheating? It’s literally the definition of cheating. Do you hear yourself? You have allowed your wife to rob you of your own basic human dignity and pride. You can and will continue life without her, but you must recover your own identity and dignity.	/r/Divorce_Men	10/03/26 04:16 PM
3	This is a post from divorced women page… you can’t make this shit up. I will never marry again I think the Red flag is modern American women. Not a trait, but the entirety of modern women. 1 million likes/comments on social media will applaud her, not a single one will make her think this is an impulsive irresponsible decision. Nothing in her writing makes it appear as if she had the slightest concern for him or the importance of keeping a bow on her end. Absolutely no societal obligations on women, but conversely men still have societal obligations externally and in their own psyche.	/r/Divorce_Men	09/03/26 11:24 PM
1	The Lie that Men are always physically stronger than Women. The article you linked doesn’t mention a thing about what you claim, it’s brain sizes and differences only. Upper body strength is massively different in avg men vs avg women. Leg strength is not as high, but still greater in men. I can say from experience in the military in a unit with a high percentage of women, it’s not even close in upper body. How do I know? We did push ups several times a week and formally tested 1-2 times/ year. Most could hardly do any whatsoever, just terrible form. I c…	/r/MensRights	06/03/26 12:57 AM
1	The Lie that Men are always physically stronger than Women. Complete BS	/r/MensRights	05/03/26 03:51 PM
2	Why do some women genuiely believes that "men can't struggle, because women struggle more"? Bingo. Add in intersectionality and you get all men are bad, but conversely the opposite is as it applies to women. Strange how they can’t see the hole in that logic.	/r/MensRights	04/03/26 01:37 AM
2	Why do some women genuiely believes that "men can't struggle, because women struggle more"? Oh, its definitely a cake and eat it too situation. But, try as they might, women can't really escape those millenium long proclivities. Women simply aren't attracted to a beta male. Period. They may in fact marry a beta for his providing skills, but they are infinitely more attracted to alpha bad boy types; hence why they often stray for a more "macho" man. Once upon a time, those male archetypes weren't that distinct, ie the alpha was the provider via his physical prowess. from the male standp…	/r/MensRights	03/03/26 09:16 PM
3	Why do some women genuiely believes that "men can't struggle, because women struggle more"? You are correct. But, I am realizing that we go astray by even entertaining the thoughts and words of women and likewise why a man should ever vocalize his troubles in female company? Very few situations would a woman care, empathize and definitely not help solve the situation. Good chance they will make it worse and piss you off in the process. Once upon a time, across millennia mind you, men simply solved problems and slayed wolves. The women were simply the beneficiaries and grateful for it. …	/r/MensRights	03/03/26 05:19 PM
2	Why do some women genuiely believes that "men can't struggle, because women struggle more"? You are scraping at the surface of an issue that is much deeper and biologically based. In broad brush strokes, the female of the species must have men take on most problems, struggle and prevail against them so that they can have and care for the offspring of the species. It’s that simple. Every thing you mention is just the societal underpinnings of innate biological imperatives. Where we get caught up in is judgements whether is it fair or proper. If you whittle down the macro to the micro, i…	/r/MensRights	03/03/26 05:05 PM
4	Why do some women genuiely believes that "men can't struggle, because women struggle more"? There are societal programing as well as evolutionary reasons why men’s struggles are downplayed; both by women and by men themselves. I don’t like it, I’m just saying it’s commonplace. I’ll steal from another poster that said something quite poetic: (great quote, whomever said it here) My wife and daughter would rather see me die on my white horse than see me fall off of it Meaning, men are expected to slay metaphorical or real dragons, and show strength while doing it. If you examine your stru…	/r/MensRights	03/03/26 04:48 PM
2	It didn't take too long for a Journo to overtly revert back to the "Women Always Have It Worse" talking point It’s so unironic that a female takes a perspective as if she is the center, originator or director of an issue. Actual suicides and death becomes less important than how we talk about it. The conversation is derailed and ultimately rerouted toward her as the center of attention, sympathy and focus. Language becomes more important than the deed; language is a sphere which women excel and prefer. I think you’ll find far less men lurking in women’s subs looking to manipulate the conversation. In ev…	/r/MensRights	01/03/26 08:32 PM
2	It didn't take too long for a Journo to overtly revert back to the "Women Always Have It Worse" talking point Every single state—all 50- require a background check when buying a handgun at least. Full stop. Hand guns are the overwhelming choice for suicides.	/r/MensRights	01/03/26 08:08 PM
1	STBEW asked if I was hooking up with anyone This is a hard, terrible situation no matter how you look at it. I will say-while it’s natural to do so—expecting validation will never happen and you are setting yourself up for a more difficult time. The sooner you realize that and bring closure to your old life the better you will be. Admittedly, it’s tremendously hard to do that. I don’t have any answers. We, the betrayed, all want some sort of gotcha validation or vindication of us and downfall of the betrayer. It will almost never happen t…	/r/Divorce_Men	01/03/26 06:38 PM
1	STBEW asked if I was hooking up with anyone In my particular case, I had to get 2 separate rooms when I went on vacations w my new girlfriend and my child. It was ridiculous.	/r/Divorce_Men	01/03/26 06:31 PM
2	STBEW asked if I was hooking up with anyone I would highly doubt it. It may have a moral standard for yourself and your peer group-church, friends etc. Legally, adultery has almost no meaning, and would really have no meaning unless the divorce is contested by one party. States vary, but in mine it is only one of literally 17 factors with no greater weight than the other 16. My lawyer told me I’d have to catch her in the act and only then it may have a slight impact the settlement numbers possibly, varying by judge from small impact to no…	/r/Divorce_Men	01/03/26 03:42 AM
1	The men's rights movement, likewise, isn't about criticism for the sake of criticism. I think this discussion is just semantics and hypotheticals that are not relevant to men’s everyday struggles. In real life, if someone bothers you or attacks you, you have choices. If someone tries to hit you physically, you can’t evade forever. If people are merely miserable and annoying, you would not likely stay in close contact or relationship with them. Being verbally or physically aggressive would be stooping to their level. My advice is to remove yourself from these people (feminists) fr…	/r/MensRights	01/03/26 03:29 AM
4	The Lie that Men are always physically stronger than Women. People don’t usually converse about or set policies etc by the extreme. It’s not that it can’t, but usually isn’t that way. Besides, when women do abuse men they often use weapons. I personally know 2 men that were stabbed by their wife. No charges filed. One of them the police almost arrested the guy. To another point, being abused by a women isn’t always that he’s weaker, he just doesn’t fight back as we are conditioned not to fight. Knew a guy who almost lost his eye bc his wife pushed his fa…	/r/MensRights	01/03/26 02:30 AM
2	The men's rights movement, likewise, isn't about criticism for the sake of criticism. Thought so, just another woman trying to manipulate the direction of a male centered space. As for men needing “us”, no we do not. We need women, but the vast majority of American women are not worthy of building a family together. Woman can and should be imported until such time that the modern American woman is completely shunned as an outcast of a functioning society.	/r/MensRights	01/03/26 01:29 AM
3	The men's rights movement, likewise, isn't about criticism for the sake of criticism. If that makes me a radical, then I wear it like a badge of honor. Differing with you opinion makes me radical? Now, hmmm, where have men encountered such rhetoric? You didn't answer my question directly, but I'll infer that you are, in fact, a woman. You give vague, meandering criticisms that lack the courage to actually say anything meaningful; but, you sure do want to tone down the content here, subtly manipulating the direction to a more malleable, tame and controllable male population. No th…	/r/MensRights	28/02/26 09:14 PM
1	The men's rights movement, likewise, isn't about criticism for the sake of criticism. You know what? Go ahead and criticize us. Seriously, after all, we are MEN. Not one human has ever hesitated to criticize men. You sound like a woman (are you?) Real men just think, act and do in the arena. What you are actually seeking is "consensus", which is massively feminine. Be a freaking man: say what you think, speak your criticisms and opinions, and subject yourself to the responding criticisms. Go ahead. But, take your feminist attempts to corral a movement and shove it.	/r/MensRights	28/02/26 09:00 PM
13	False accuser Caroline Miller (plus DA and cop) hit with federal lawsuit for lying and getting innocent man jailed for 47 days Laws must change. False accusations like this or rape should carry a criminal penalty, not just civil litigation penalties. I think it should equal the crime they falsely accused. Then maybe this largely female based phenomenon would end.	/r/MensRights	26/02/26 08:27 PM
2	Does a woman want a toxic/alpha man up until their first child? Then they want a provider, man due to hormonal changes? I posted above that there is research to support the impact of birth control on relationships. Heard it on radio while driving rather than read it; I’m searching for a link. Someone will likely post it, but would you believe it anyway?	/r/MensRights	25/02/26 02:42 PM
5	Does a woman want a toxic/alpha man up until their first child? Then they want a provider, man due to hormonal changes? You’re on the right track, these 2 categories play a huge role. There was also a recent study that showed the role birth control medications in divorce. I heard it rather than read it, so if anyone has a link that would be great. Basically the study says that while on birth control females are hormonally attracted to one kind of man; then while married they go off birth control and they are biologically no longer attracted to their partners. So, one more way deck is stacked against men.	/r/MensRights	25/02/26 02:39 PM
1	The Damage and Destruction of Divorce This is reason number 1001 why men should never marry. Please stop young men. It’s literally insane why you would get married in an American/western society. The data is there. The information is available that it makes no sense for a man to marry. Even the best potential part of marriage—children & family are not really allowed for men. Children are a trap that women use against you and you will in short order be taken from you anyway. The odds of a successful marriage are slim to none, unless …	/r/Divorce_Men	25/02/26 05:03 AM
1	The Damage and Destruction of Divorce [ Removed by Reddit ]	/r/Divorce_Men	25/02/26 04:47 AM
4	Another tough day... Hate to be cynical, but she likely got cut off from her new man. You are merely her fallback option. Never settle for that, for multiple reasons, one is that she will likely do it again. Take the band aid off.	/r/Divorce_Men	25/02/26 01:20 AM
3	One week since caught her in affair, anyone else wives lose weight on tirzepatide Your story is about zepbound, but it could have been anything. It’s more about the nature of women—they are driven by biological imperatives and concepts like hypergamy. Women are always seeking to level up, compete with the Jones, etc. That nature doesn’t change when they marry. They expect a man to level up and do more. Not your fault per se. And when she leveled up via zepbound she thought she had more tools by which she could level up. Everyone thinks these things just happen, but they were …	/r/Divorce_Men	25/02/26 01:04 AM
3	One week since caught her in affair, anyone else wives lose weight on tirzepatide Sorry to hear but it’s so common. As men we never understood the true nature of women. You were likely always an “option”. Then technology increases her options, she left.	/r/Divorce_Men	25/02/26 12:51 AM
0	One week since caught her in affair, anyone else wives lose weight on tirzepatide Those ratio numbers will help you in the divorce proceedings, but to be honest, the discrepancy in incomes is one reason for the divorce. I’m not trying to knock you down, I’m just saying that’s the nature of women; coming from a man who made good money, but married a woman making exceptional amounts of money. The hypergamy effect is always in play. You were either expected to level up and make more money, or were just a placeholder for her in the first place. What I’m saying sounds cold hearted…	/r/Divorce_Men	25/02/26 12:47 AM
6	Admitting to their benefits would end the game and that’s why the demands continue even after they’ve secured the upper hand. Robotics and AI are heading in that direction. Although initial job losses have been heavier in tech sector, a more male oriented field. I think social answers will reverse the course, not legal ones.	/r/MensRights	24/02/26 10:29 PM
9	One week since caught her in affair, anyone else wives lose weight on tirzepatide Extensive research and marriage counselors experience shows that typically men cheat to STAY married. Ie, the dead bedroom you describe leads to men straying. The opposite is true for women. Women cheat to leave the marriage and typically check out emotionally long before they leave. Also, when they decide to leave they almost never return, it’s a final decision. About 80% of marriages women seek divorce, closer to 90% if she has a college degree. So, why would women even want to get married? Ea…	/r/Divorce_Men	24/02/26 10:02 PM
5	It’s easy to make fun of women for their bad choices in men but honestly I need to accept that my choices in women are utterly AWFUL- led to divorce Young men need to see this and adjust accordingly. Marriage licenses shouldn’t ever be printed again. They say it’s decreasing, but I’m shocked that a single US male under forty has gotten married the last 5 years. It must come to that for the pendulum to swing back to have even a semblance of equality. I think young men should reject American females en masse. They should focus on themselves and their goals. Then, after achieving success should look for a bride from a non western, feminist pois…	/r/Divorce_Men	24/02/26 09:29 PM
12	Even science isn't enough to convince "scientific people" Unfortunately a decent slice of US population does think this way. To your point, not all, but a decent chunk of America this is reality. Also to your point, men need to realize a decent chunk of their surrounding people should be excluded from their personal lives, if only for self preservation.	/r/MensRights	24/02/26 09:09 PM
1	One week since caught her in affair, anyone else wives lose weight on tirzepatide In my case I paid over 22k for hers 15+ yrs ago. Divorce proceedings cost me 250k. She kept the ring. I sold mine for $198. So, what I’m saying is to get that ring off her, even if you have to cut her finger off with it in the middle of the night. Don’t be reasonable, kind or rational. She has no intention of being that way. Buckle up, it’s gonna be a bumpy ride, brother.	/r/Divorce_Men	24/02/26 08:57 PM
9	One week since caught her in affair, anyone else wives lose weight on tirzepatide Men need to seriously reevaluate all their relationships with women. Your experience is not that uncommon. It’s actually common enough that we need to acknowledge that it’s part of their nature. Young men—Listen to me— women do not and cannot love you. They may love you for what you provide them, but not you. They may love how you make them feel, but not you. Women are loyal only to their feelings, but not to you. Those feelings change like the wind. Nevermind the state and legal system is stack…	/r/Divorce_Men	24/02/26 08:52 PM
8	German feminist rapper sings about killing babys because of their gender, gets cheered on for it by their fans (translated via google translate) OP, believe it or not that wasn’t sarcasm like you think. That reply was really that sick and twisted.	/r/MensRights	24/02/26 08:39 PM
9	“Gen Z is having less sex and I know why” Yeah, I mean so old school. It’s not like millennia of human existence it’s been the foundation of society. Why I bet your liberal arts, post modern professor has cooked up some great new, ideas for society.	/r/MensRights	24/02/26 07:40 PM
3	It didn't take too long for a Journo to overtly revert back to the "Women Always Have It Worse" talking point Exactly; and we need to identify them and exclude them from our lives accordingly. They are feminists, be they male cucks or women. We should always associate the word feminist with “toxic”. They’ve had no issue putting that word in front of masculinity for decades.	/r/MensRights	24/02/26 07:34 PM
5	It didn't take too long for a Journo to overtly revert back to the "Women Always Have It Worse" talking point Hmmm. I wonder how the sighted article that downplays men’s actual issues could contribute to men not seeking help. It’s almost like it’s related.	/r/MensRights	24/02/26 07:29 PM
7	It didn't take too long for a Journo to overtly revert back to the "Women Always Have It Worse" talking point Anyone who has worked in healthcare or actually look at suicide data, psychology research it’s well established that women are not usually intending to complete the act of suicide. To naively assume that women simply don’t know that guns are effective stands in opposition to your belief that guns are you”bad”.	/r/MensRights	24/02/26 07:27 PM
4	It didn't take too long for a Journo to overtly revert back to the "Women Always Have It Worse" talking point Always interesting that it’s described as “reproductive” rights, an act necessarily involving both genders, yet men don’t have this right. Never in legal history has a man had the right to impose pregnancy termination if he doesn’t want the child. I’m not pro-abortion at all, but the pretzel logic is flabbergasting. There are documented cases where men have been forced child support for children that aren’t biologically theirs.	/r/MensRights	24/02/26 07:21 PM
3	It didn't take too long for a Journo to overtly revert back to the "Women Always Have It Worse" talking point If we truly understand females nature, their suicide attempts are merely a cry for attention. Men actually are in pain and will follow through. I love how the author plays dumb as if women simply don’t know that guns are more effective means. They know, they want the resultant attention not the actual result.	/r/MensRights	24/02/26 07:11 PM
8	It didn't take too long for a Journo to overtly revert back to the "Women Always Have It Worse" talking point I wonder how they still believe these myths when they get to college? More women are in med school, law school, and college in general and graduate with more degrees. I mean, go to a college campus and open your eyes.	/r/MensRights	24/02/26 07:07 PM
12	Would you allow a male babysitter to babysit your child? If men are so awful, why are you here? There is not one single inch of physical or virtual space wherein women feel they aren’t entitled to not only be there, but to control that space. We should require flair to identify gender on this sub. Mods? On this related issue: if a young male especially or even adult male were molested or mistreated, how would anyone know? You think men vocalize their mistreatment the same degree as women? Not even close. I’ve employed mostly women in a female dominate…	/r/MensRights	24/02/26 06:31 PM
13	Would you allow a male babysitter to babysit your child? Did you notice that murderers of children 2 and under are overwhelmingly more females than males? Nice stat. Probably not since women are so inherently superior. It was probably the male partners fault she had to kill her child.	/r/MensRights	24/02/26 06:00 PM
1	Did divorce change how you see yourself as a man? No. It’s true it may be happening now. That doesn’t mean it has to always continue to happen. That’s a fallacy your mind is negatively influencing you, spiraling down. Recovery isn’t a straight path up. I was very close to where you are. I’ve had 3 terrible yrs in a row, lost my business, bankruptcy, even lost custody of my daughter. The 5 yrs before that weren’t great either, pretty bad. Divorce alone took 5 yrs, 250k legal fees. Life in general and bitterness about it is a daily choice. And, l…	/r/Divorce_Men	24/02/26 04:57 PM
3	Finally Free Similar situation. 5 yr divorce battle(I didn’t fight it) and 250k in legal fees. 3 yrs after the divorce I finally went bankrupt, which cost me 50% custody my daughter. If I had to do it again I should have declared bankruptcy years ago. My attorney even said I should, probably would have hastened the divorce. My pride wouldn’t let me and it cost me. My advice is declare it sooner than later. The longer you wait is just losing more assets and waiting to restart your credit life. Hurts your cred…	/r/Divorce_Men	24/02/26 12:51 AM
2	Did divorce change how you see yourself as a man? Builder, go build yourself a new life. Even if she tore your old life down, it’s up to you to build a new life. I know that’s easier said than done, but it’s starts with trying. And in your mind first as a decision to do so. You don’t have to have it all figured out before you start, but you need to start building again. Wish you the best.	/r/Divorce_Men	23/02/26 10:53 PM
44	“Gen Z is having less sex and I know why” It’s like the author is saying she’s a whore without having to say it. She goes on to praise Roe v Wade and pine for more casual sex. Young men will be the strong ones that hold society together; by still trying to hold the family unit together and they know that. So, the young men wisely abhor young American/western feminists and their garbage ideology.	/r/MensRights	23/02/26 10:13 PM
27	“Gen Z is having less sex and I know why” Good that you did. A few lines later this delusional author opined that bc of MeToo women are more aware of systemic oppression. Uh-huh, sure. These types will never understand that responsible men will never give her ilk a second of our time. She goes on to basically advocate for more casual sex in college. When consent to sex can and will be withdrawn retroactively, does she seriously not understand why things are the way they are?	/r/MensRights	23/02/26 10:05 PM
7	My fiance called me unromantic for wanting a prenup - why is protecting myself controversial? Stick to your guns. If she was really romantic it won’t be about her future ability to take money you earned, sounds like much of it before she came along anyway. That’s totally gaslighting you. Why is that a one way street. If she was both romantic and committed she should not be concerned whatsoever. Yet she is. This should give you pause. Essentially you are her insurance plan, but you aren’t allowed one for you. Utter female double standard bullshit. Also, who cars what your friends think? I…	/r/MensRights	19/02/26 06:28 PM
5	Strange divorce Sorry to hear this bro, but this is just par for the course with women. She was never really committed to you. She was and is always committed to her feelings only. And those feelings change like the seasons. She loved for a season, now that season is over. Her behavior is fairly typical by modern women. Men be advised accordingly.	/r/Divorce_Men	20/01/26 06:05 PM
2	Can the far left be MRAs? The merger is what makes the OP’s point more correct every day. If they believe in intersectionality, men are it part of the patriarchy and said patriarchy is irredeemable. It is to only be hated at all times. It fits why they would reflexively hit the hate button. Gone are the days of rationale democrats if they believe in intersectionality; it creates inevitable pull towards the extreme left and simultaneously pulls towards an extreme orthodoxy that expels any variance of opinion within its ow…	/r/MensRights	18/01/26 04:23 PM
1	Josh Hawley is a problem Lady, you have no idea what you’re talking about. Guess you still haven’t challenged your marine friend either. Or tell him you think you can throw him. I can reliable bench 225lbs which is more than my body weight. I just tore a rotor cuff, I’m over 50 and no where near an elite athlete now or ever. I couldn’t find a female at any of the gyms in my town that could bench 225 once much less rep with it. It’s doubtful you could find any normal gym in America a woman to bench 225, if so they are de…	/r/MensRights	17/01/26 06:34 AM
2	Josh Hawley is a problem Not really about general American weakness, but it may apply here. I agree that situation must be dire indeed for a draft to be called. My point is basically that, the draft is abhorred by not just the civilian population but military leadership. We were literally taught that by my ROTC instructors. We viewed the need for a draft to be an insult to our profession. It would only be necessary if our military faced sure defeat otherwise. Our modern strong military is a product of the failure of the…	/r/MensRights	16/01/26 06:23 PM
1	Josh Hawley is a problem Says the guy experiencing anxiety over selective to the Army veteran. Whatever. It’s mental laziness (and effeminate) to resort insults over the internet. Examine for yourself why you went to that response? Resist the urge to respond emotionally and allow your mind to rise to the challenge of your beliefs. That’s manhood. My premise is that you say you seek equality, but actually wanting “sameness”. An example: I have 2 sons, one likes football, one likes baseball. You would give them both a foo…	/r/MensRights	16/01/26 06:09 PM
3	Josh Hawley is a problem Please explain how you can hold thoughts about individual rights and adhere to identity politics? Seems an oxymoron in itself. Do you believe it’s just a different man flavored version of identity politics?	/r/MensRights	16/01/26 05:54 PM
0	Josh Hawley is a problem Nailed it. Feminism seeping into a men’s chat. On a deeper level, feminism is tied closely with the concept of intersectionality, ie, everything is tied together into a knot, a genuinely feminine pattern of thought. As men we see clear delineation of ideology and its associated groups; we recognize hierarchies and boundaries and can coexist easily. A woman or a male adopting a feminist mindset, will seek consensus and approach life in an All these good, all those Bad mentality. It’s difficult to…	/r/MensRights	16/01/26 05:26 PM
-1	Josh Hawley is a problem Some truth, but I’ll ask this: when was the last time you saw a USR deployability stat? I was non combat arms branch in a very combat arms unit. Some of our units were almost incapacitated by female non deployability. #1 reason was pregnancy; teasing out that variable, females were still far more non deployable than males. Women have a place in our military. It should be in non combat roles, non deployable. The known, and suppressed truth was that women have historically been much less deployabl…	/r/MensRights	16/01/26 05:09 PM
-1	Josh Hawley is a problem I recommend you actually try to pick up and throw that 5’ marine. Go ahead. We’ll wait. Also read up on the 10x female UFC champion that was easily defeated by a male ufc fighter w far less elite record. He toyed with her and was limited by rules on how he could fight back, weighed less than 40 lbs than her. He beat her with barely trying. Or read on how just recently a 600th ranked man under handicapped rules beat the best female tennis player in the world. Your feminine mind is delusional and …	/r/MensRights	16/01/26 04:42 PM
2	Josh Hawley is a problem Yes, that original research was decades ago and your perception is not accurate. Since then there is plenty of research showing that men & women are quite different and those differences remain only further entrenched. Your broad brushed reply is not representative of the full body of research. Yes, differences between men and smaller than thought in say, 1970. Your core belief that men and women are the same is faulty	/r/MensRights	16/01/26 04:36 PM
1	Josh Hawley is a problem A serious recommendation is you read Dr Elaine Aron’s work The Highly Sensitive Person and correlated documentary with Alanis Morrissette called Sensitive, The Untold story. It may help you understand your own psyche rather than trying to undo decades of public policy and society at large. Bottom line is this is a YOU post, not an US men post. I mean that sincerely and wish you the best.	/r/MensRights	16/01/26 04:30 PM
2	Josh Hawley is a problem My Army resume is far shorter than yours, but I agree wholeheartedly.	/r/MensRights	16/01/26 04:17 PM
2	Josh Hawley is a problem Almost everything you have posted is inherently anti-male. You yourself have acknowledged not wanting to actually be male. Perhaps you should examine your own ideology. Feminism has truly damaged the modern male. It seems you’re self proclaimed in that cohort. Why not examine the possibility the the ideas that have shaped your perception of the world could, in fact, be flawed?	/r/MensRights	16/01/26 04:15 PM
2	Josh Hawley is a problem This is more about your personal fears than the actual issue you are putting forth as some hypothetical concern that hasn’t occurred in 5 decades. I hate to sound harsh. But this a men’s chat and unlike women, men should be able to handle the truth. This may sound harsh, but you need to handle your situation, not lobby to change society. As a former officer, we would never want a conscripted soldier such as yourself. Not only is the situation unlikely but huge swaths of military leaders are agai…	/r/MensRights	16/01/26 04:06 PM
4	Josh Hawley is a problem Totally misguided and you read into 100% incorrectly. Men & women are completely different. Full stop. You have construed equality with sameness. Women’s minds work entirely differently than a man’s. That’s verified by science biologically and behaviorally. Our bodies are very different biologically and hormonally. If a women’s testosterone was close to a man’s you may have a case, but it’s not. A man’s is exponentially higher, 12-15x. And that’s just a starting point. We are not close to the sa…	/r/MensRights	16/01/26 03:45 PM
1	Josh Hawley is a problem As a former military officer, I can tell you are misguided. I don’t want women in the military or draft. Screw your concepts of “fairness”. The military is designed to be strong and kill your enemies. Changing standards to fit what women can do has already weakened our military. Besides, the draft is more potential service not actual service; all military leaders despise a conscripted workforce. A basic strength of the American military post Vietnam is that it is an all volunteer workforce. Take…	/r/MensRights	16/01/26 03:32 PM
8	Something I keep noticing about men in the middle of divorce FYI: you married for better or worse: she married for Better Get What I Want. It’s the standard US marriage paradigm of happy wife, happy life. Only suckers fall for it nowadays.	/r/Divorce_Men	09/01/26 02:11 AM
3	Affair with no future but strong attachment — need real advice Correct. We don’t care about your problems. Not one bit. Look in the mirror for the cause and solution to your problems. In the meantime, beat it, GTFOH.	/r/Divorce_Men	02/01/26 03:23 PM
2	I’m done being nice Exactly. This is a bad move. It’s considered “abandonment” legally and you will have a hard time getting it back. Get a good lawyer, stop taking the nice way	/r/Divorce_Men	01/01/26 07:26 PM
11	Need help formulating a response The only response is no response whatsoever. Read up on Gray Rocking. Master that technique.	/r/Divorce_Men	01/01/26 12:24 AM
10	USA: Astronaut reveals depression after an 'avalanche of misogyny' following Blue Origin all-female space flight. OP: Any criticism is labelled misogyny. Is she an astronaut or a PR stunt? Imagine if one had to parallel park. They’d still be in orbit or have a fender bender with an asteroid	/r/MensRights	30/12/25 02:52 PM
0	Wife started calling me "weak" and talking about divorce after I had a rough couple of days this week It’s not difficult logic to know that marriage is a two party system, and if one wants out he likely cant stop her. If you weren’t so damned determined to convince the world you got a cure for divorce, my logic isn’t hard to follow. Next: Do some basic research, like John Gottmans many renowned works on marriage, it’s applicable here in regard to her open contempt towards him. According to this renowned author, contempt is huge factor, almost impossible to overcome. He’s sold millions of books, …	/r/Divorce_Men	22/12/25 07:24 AM
0	Wife started calling me "weak" and talking about divorce after I had a rough couple of days this week But for only 17.95 you too can fix any marriage!! In fact, if you buy today I’ll offer a bonus course to guarantee no divorce! Ever! Please, buddy. I have more respect for actual human lives and families here, not some glib miracle cure from a snake oil salesman. Pawn your courses somewhere else. Moderators? This guys totally soliciting his miracle cure. Pop psychology hack.	/r/Divorce_Men	22/12/25 06:54 AM
1	This existence is profoundly absurd. Only in western society that has let the cancer of feminism proliferate.	/r/Divorce_Men	21/12/25 02:20 AM
2	This existence is profoundly absurd. For all the hardship you endured and the way you feel now, I assure you she does not feel the same way now. She will do just fine. She likely never sacrificed the way you did in the marriage and will not at all in the divorce. What for you was a very real relationship, for her was a convenient relationship that she could leave and replace with ease. Women can replace a man like the can change a dress. One looks pretty on her for one minute, but she could easily just get another. Yes, you have be…	/r/Divorce_Men	21/12/25 02:14 AM
1	Dating apps over 50 (or 40) I saw this as a red flag also. I mean, the inks not even dry. Be still for moment	/r/Divorce_Men	19/12/25 06:38 PM
11	Wife started calling me "weak" and talking about divorce after I had a rough couple of days this week Bullshit. Most women are like this. Not all, but definitely not just a few. You don’t like it, stay off a man’s sub. There’s data to support it, not just my opinion. Women initiate the vast majority of divorce. Women profit from divorce. Women almost always gain majority custody, although it’s finally starting to swing back closer to equal. Women keep the primary residence more often independent of earning. During divorce women not just occasionally falsely accuse their husbands of domestic viol…	/r/Divorce_Men	19/12/25 05:22 PM
2	Wife started calling me "weak" and talking about divorce after I had a rough couple of days this week I feel like some of what you are saying is good advice in a general setting, but likely not applicable to the OP situation. Moreover, this is good advice only in his NEXT relationship. This relationship is over and probably in his best interest to end it. Your naive advice, while good in a general sense, has its limitations. People have limits and so do relationships. There’s a reason why men commit suicide 8x more than women, and many of those men are in relationships just like this one. Does t…	/r/Divorce_Men	19/12/25 04:57 PM
2	Wife started calling me "weak" and talking about divorce after I had a rough couple of days this week Whatever it takes, get your ducks in a row, BEFORE you even mention divorce. Quit second job, or begin diverting income to other accounts or assets. Know this: if she has begun showing “contempt” your marriage is over, research shows this. Marriage counselors call it one of the four horsemen of marriage apocalypse. Begin making plans now.	/r/Divorce_Men	19/12/25 04:28 PM
6	Wife started calling me "weak" and talking about divorce after I had a rough couple of days this week Hate to break it to you, but nearly all women can and will only offer conditional acceptance. Only children and pets are loved unconditionally. Modern marriage is not an equal partnership by any stretch. It’s a one sided beneficial arrangement that has an easy path out for one party, the woman.	/r/Divorce_Men	19/12/25 03:14 PM
13	Wife started calling me "weak" and talking about divorce after I had a rough couple of days this week And they should keep them bottled up, unless they are talking to a man that will not reveal any info to your spouse. Women will probe for weakness not so they can help you. They are trying to determine if they need to leave you for someone else to provide for them and their children.	/r/Divorce_Men	19/12/25 03:10 PM
16	Wife started calling me "weak" and talking about divorce after I had a rough couple of days this week Can’t say whether you should get divorced or not, but her behavior is typical of modern women. Basically, men have been lied to about the nature of women by society and women. You’re experiencing the basic biological survival patterns of women, and it’s doesn’t jibe w what society tells you about women. She’s trying to determine if you can be ensure her survival and her children. It’s evolutionary biology. Hence, women abhor weakness, and you should never show it to your wife, no matter what. Yo…	/r/Divorce_Men	19/12/25 03:06 PM
4	A follow up to my post the other day about walkaway wives. Yes, but men know the inevitable lies and manipulation that will likely happen if we stay. My ex cheated, I eventually left the house, right before the false accusations could start in earnest. It’s a well known established pattern. If I recall research shows that 80% of domestic violence accusations of men are false or fabricated, with the accuser facing zero consequences. Law enforcement knows this, but they have to protect for that 20% real threat.	/r/Divorce_Men	01/12/25 05:51 PM
0	A follow up to my post the other day about walkaway wives. Think about what you wrote. You talk of taking responsibility for your “improvement” as is woman is somehow our teacher or boss that rates our performance. Tell me, how common is that in modern marriages and how often is the reverse true, ie a woman even bothering to improve anything to meet a man’s standards? It’s a one sided game and society has duped men into “Happy wife, happy life” mentality. That phrase is universally recognized, but the male equivalent doesn’t exist and moreover a man’s h…	/r/Divorce_Men	01/12/25 05:42 PM
2	Say goodbye 👋 cheating wife This is the best answer, but clarify signature to file or signature to finalize divorce? In the midst of an affair women sign to file divorce, but oftentimes in the legal process begin to fight it when they realize how lucrative it is, or the affair goes south. If divorce is not final, you must do everything to finalize it, preferable while she is in the arms of another man.	/r/Divorce_Men	17/03/25 01:05 PM
-1	The best financial decision a woman can make in her life is marriage followed by divorce Why don’t we as men simply stop getting married under eyes and enforcement of the government? I would get “married” again in front of my family, church, etc, but never give that power to the state which has habitually made the institution a one sided contract which the state punitively enforces against men. Would be willing be call her wife, get a ring (small one), etc. it would function like a prenup without all the negativity. A prenup assumes obvious mistrust. But, a woman agreeing to a “marr…	/r/Divorce_Men	29/07/24 07:27 PM
3	Is my wife cheating? Brother, you already know the answer. Of course she’s cheating on you with John. It’s hard to face it, but you know deep down. No one deletes texts that often, especially after you already brought up that issue and history. Not possible for her not to be cheating on you.	/r/Divorce_Men	13/07/24 12:22 AM
3	How Much Divorce Has Cost Me Financially Truth. I paid over $250k in legal fees during the 5 yr plus divorce. Still about $10k in fees afterwards over custody. I may still go bankrupt. Young men are stupid if they get married. You have a 50% greater chance of divorce and you are blatantly discriminated against by the legal system.	/r/Divorce_Men	15/01/24 05:04 PM
2	What to do after getting fucked? Can’t quit. Judge is using your earning potential, not actual income. Sorry brother. I lost over quarter million in legal fees. After awhile you do learn to minimize fees, it’s an art, not science. But, always e-mail lawyer versus talk, don’t respond at all to some requests, etc, know the cycle of hearings. For example, if you know she will appeal after the first hearing, only put up a weak, brief defense initially so you can go to the second round stronger. Increase your income, easier said tha…	/r/Divorce_Men	17/10/23 01:18 AM
-1	Why did my wife try to change me? Ahh. So THIS is your idea of adult conversation. Wow. Funny you think snide insults via anonymous chats bother me. Good night.	/r/Divorce_Men	25/09/23 02:10 AM
-1	Why did my wife try to change me? Lol. I’m not crying. Obviously, you can’t handle an adult conversation that isn’t focused on YOU, your thoughts, your feelings. Find another board to infest with your narcissism.	/r/Divorce_Men	25/09/23 01:55 AM
0	Why did my wife try to change me? The “Joke” is your response; in typical female self centered fashion, YOU made it all about YOU. If what you say is true about your actions, can you address my point rather than justify yourself? If you truly do as you say, do you have to ability to look outside your own situation and see that you are truly an anomaly? Does that stroke your feminist ego enough to realize that your actions are not common among married women? When I critique the research you cite, YOU mention what YOU and YOUR mar…	/r/Divorce_Men	25/09/23 01:48 AM
0	Why did my wife try to change me? I’ve read this research as well as had it thrown in my face in couples therapy; then I simply observed my neighborhood and communities families and my own family. I implore you to observe and ask a few questions: How many women (SAHM or working moms) mow their own yards? Or any outside yard work? Trim bushes, weed whacking, rake leaves, etc? Take out the trash? How about car maintenance? Change oil? Repair and maintain lawn movers and other power equipment? Paint the shed? Power wash the siding?…	/r/Divorce_Men	25/09/23 12:25 AM
2	No wife happy life Me too on the not looking directly at her. Can’t explain why I do that. I think it helps me not give in to any kind of reaction. It also sends a message to her that I don’t even care that she exists. It’s not a matter of fear, it’s like a natural posture of I can’t stand the sight of her, but minus any of the emotion or negativity. I guess it the Gray rock that they describe. I don’t really even try it, it’s become natural. Weird that so many of us experience it the same way.	/r/Divorce_Men	02/08/23 12:08 AM
1	Is it a mistake not hiring a lawyer? My brother, take it from a guy who has lost a quarter million in legal fees, pay the $5k. That’s a retainer; if she is truly amicable then the process won’t cost that much in the final bill. Secondly, child support. If you agree to it outside the courts, then she can always change her mind later and file with domestic relations directly with minimal legal costs on her end. CS is capped and greatly diminished with 50/50 custody. Therefore, first step should be to formalize a 50/50 custody stipula…	/r/Divorce_Men	14/07/23 04:29 AM
1	Divorcing Wife Vocabulary Might wanna rethink that. It’s early and misogyny has a lasting appeal.	/r/Divorce_Men	14/07/23 03:09 AM
12	Divorcing Wife Vocabulary I think I correct transaction of I love you but I’m not in love with you is: I’m fucking someone else right now, but I use you for financial support and free child care. It’s so much more than I don’t love you anymore!	/r/Divorce_Men	14/07/23 03:06 AM
2	What's the equal phrase to 'happy wife, happy life' for husbands? First I will rebuild. Will I ever remarry? Unlikely, if I do she won’t be western Anglo woman, that’s for sure.	/r/MensRights	05/07/23 12:36 AM
2	What's the equal phrase to 'happy wife, happy life' for husbands? Microphone 🎙 drop. This. Game, set, match. Nothing more needs to be said. Full disclosure, I’ve actually only lost a 1/4 M $ And counting. But, MGTOW and a time machine? Priceless!	/r/MensRights	05/07/23 12:20 AM
3	Why are most men (and their issues) invisible to women? This is a classic example of female solipsism and the lack of empathy and frankly, objective thinking. Yes, women do work. You obviously do, so why not turn into being about you than the issue being discussed? I’m sure you’re not even cognizant of the self centered nature of your response-that doesn’t fly with “me”. I will probably offend you, that’s not my intent. My intent is to enlighten the sub highlight your perfect example of said female indifference. If you were to answer objectively-with…	/r/MensRights	25/06/23 02:05 AM
3	Even When a man is Hurt He Can't get any Empathy They don’t get it for the reasons you mention; most have no experience in a physically demanding job. But it’s far deeper than that. Men are essentially livestock for their wives and families. We serve as the mules for the family,yard work, labor, fixing things, etc. We are valued purely for what we can do or produce. Women largely get by on looks. They wake up and are attractive to us. They do what they can to enhance or maintain that beauty-many don’t even do that. It’s based on resting, looki…	/r/MensRights	21/06/23 01:50 AM
7	Getting married My wife cheated on me w the founder or the largest Christian charity in our county. How’s that for Christian values? His wife found out before me and told me with proof. The Christian leader was caught. What’d he do? Didn’t stop and said he would better father to my child. I protested to my church and the charity. What did those “Christians” do? They formally covered it up! Even had a “Christian” law firm threaten me with legal action to silence me. All they cared about was their public image. S…	/r/Divorce_Men	27/12/22 04:25 AM
4	child's birthday You absolutely did the right thing. She is looking for cover for her immoral actions. It’s a trap—not now, not ever should you agree. By making everything “normal” it’s like you agree or accept her actions. You have no responsibility to do so. Her actions have consequences. It’s ok to teach your kids that. You’re not the bad guy here;	/r/Divorce_Men	06/10/22 02:04 AM
3	How to cope with divorce and regrets. Ask yourself one thing: do you feel strong, self confident and THEN feel you want her back? Or do you feel weak, needy and lacking self confidence and want to beg her to come back into your life and help you/fix you? You know the right answer yourself. However, it’s likely you’ve been trained or manipulated by her into this pathetic state(pardon my bluntness). The way you feel is not an accident, it’s likely her plan. The Amber Heard female is not nearly as rare as society would have us believe.…	/r/Divorce_Men	18/09/22 04:05 AM