My ex asked for a divorce a year ago. When I suspected her of cheating I moved out and told her to get her shit together to move out since she allegedly didn’t want the house. A year later and she has not held down a job or even begun to pack. The mortgage is in my name and I can’t afford to pay both it and my rent she has a medical condition so I was still giving her access to certain accounts for emergencies. New Year’s Eve was supposed to be her move out date instead she’s informed me she won’t get a job or move out until the divorce is finalized? I understandably I feel lost my shit at this since even a week before it was all “oh I’ve got a rent house lined up” she’s so full of shit it should be coming out of her ears. Finally she tried to blame me for the divorce?! I wasn’t the one who lied about getting a hotel for the weekend and I wasn’t the one who asked for a damn divorce that was you!!