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Maleficent_Grab3354/r/Divorce_Men11/11/25 11:49 AM
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Maleficent_Grab3354/r/Divorce_Men13/01/26 12:01 PM
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Maleficent_Grab3354/r/Divorce_Men31/10/25 11:29 AM
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Get Out Now.
/r/Divorce_Men25/03/26 08:27 PM
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Discovery can get very expensive, very fast. Discovery pays if there is actually and for certain some financial gain to be achieved . Fees can rack up super fast. If one is just speculating and searching for something that may not actually be there or even worth the time and money.
/r/Divorce_Men24/03/26 01:44 PM
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It’s about mental peace. And depending on the size of the home, may not have the luxury of creating “man cave space”. Men can easily live with the peace that silence and no-conflict creates. That peace and silence drives women crazy to the point they must create havoc. Like a child they demonstrate their frustration by creating conflict to express their emotions. Best to stay away than try to fight the bias of an unfair system that unfairly sides with women 85-95% of the time; especially when ch…
/r/Divorce_Men22/03/26 04:54 PM
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Sitting in my car right now waiting on gigs just to be out of the house. Started driving UBER and delivering Instacart to just be doing something away from the house. Mainly weekends are the killer for me. If you have kids DO NOT MOVE OUT. Also, read Meditations by Marcus Aurelius, which teaches you how to master and better your inner self through Stoicism.
/r/Divorce_Men22/03/26 04:42 PM
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Good luck with that. I’m a paralegal with 7 years divorce work history. 90% of those changing the original terms of an agreement are wives. Agreements that don’t get signed by both parties within first two weeks of execution will most likely get amended or nullified by the wife in 80% of cases. With Women clients, it is very likely to amend a settlement agreement at least 3x before actual execution.
/r/Divorce_Men13/03/26 03:52 AM
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Think of the many other things in life that are 10x more painful. Yours will begin to add shrink.
/r/Divorce_Men11/03/26 08:55 AM
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Disgusting that one even has to entertain this replayed scenario of obvious corruption. Even given statistics that shows a father provides a better upbringing and living environment for children of divorce. 🤮
/r/Divorce_Men06/03/26 01:25 PM
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Always women who are changing their minds in divorce/custody issues.
/r/Divorce_Men25/02/26 10:24 AM
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It’s kinda like a deadly female virus that lays dormant but probably its hosting phase, as it appears, mid to late 20s. From observation it’s becoming empirically proven its maturation gets triggered somewhere in the 7th to 12th year of marriage, and exacerbated with chid birth and rapidly increases with each newborn event. Symptoms appear: irritability, loss of sexual desire, indecisiveness, aggression, apathy, etc. On some occasions, in its early detection phase it’s shown that therapy sometim…
/r/Divorce_Men24/02/26 09:35 AM
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Ditto here for 22 years. I finally refused to make anymore payments, except the electric bill, to the point “let mortgage default and foreclose”. I’ll live in a tent if I have to before paying another dime towards her money hoarding, freeloading adventure goes any further. She finally took over the payments seeing that I was dead-red serious but with vitriol, evil and revenge filled antics and the absurd belief that such means I now have to move out. Everyday is a new obstacle I have to hurdle o…
/r/Divorce_Men23/02/26 10:55 AM
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Kids in the picture? If not, find a side chick and let her know it. See if she changes and if no reaction then definitely time to divorce. If she does Don’t get trapped into reconciliation and then having kids. You can’t force someone to want to be with you that doesn’t want to. Also Keep in mind marriage for men is a trap.
/r/Divorce_Men19/02/26 10:48 AM
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Been there and just turned off emotions and lived with it til youngest turned 18. Soon as 18 hit, now wife has new found energy but now it’s just to focus on her own well being. In other words I was the convenient husband/slave/provider. The system allows for this because in most scenarios if the wife wants to drain you mentally and financially by subjecting the husband to the system of child support, alimony and not being present in you kids daily lives they most certainly and easily can, and t…
/r/Divorce_Men19/02/26 10:32 AM
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Begging and pleading?? Who would actually admit to something so “simpy” ? Dude, do you really expect any woman to respect a man who is begging? Grow a set dude.
/r/Divorce_Men15/02/26 05:53 PM
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Good thing to know that it’s not just you. Remember also the limit to a women’s power in a marriage comes only from the damage she can inflict by the power of the state government. From day one of marriage the threat of divorce looms over the man who dares breach that contract of not keeping her happy 24/7. In its truest form the real power in a family comes from a man. The man holds together a household by providing and building, and it’s only this government’s laws, an outside force, that give…
/r/Divorce_Men29/01/26 03:15 PM
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Depends on your county. If you’re injecting a discovery phase into the process that could easily push things into couple years. But again, it depends on your county. Six months to me does not seem realistic given the information you gave. Also, remember, the lawyers are in this for the money. The more it drags out the more they make.
/r/Divorce_Men29/01/26 02:19 PM
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Sounds like you need to strengthen your inner self. Also, sounds like you are leaving out other critical details. Why are you allowing her to control you like this? Sounds like at this point would almost be better to just walk away and live in a shelter if push comes to shove.
/r/Divorce_Men14/01/26 08:36 AM
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People DO NOT CHANGE.
/r/Divorce_Men12/01/26 08:12 AM
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Fuck yeah, that’s why I am on my way out. I do 98% of everything in the house to the point, as I have stated very loudly in all honesty and sincerity, I DO NOT NEED [HER] AT ALL to run the house with the kids. ZERO!! With the exception of the monthly $300 cell phone bill, she pays or does Nothing else. No paying mortgage, electric, gas, car notes, insurances, no walking dog, no cleaning after the cat, not putting away dishes, no cleaning, no interesting conversation, no cooking, no sex, NOTHING.…
/r/Divorce_Men07/01/26 09:05 AM
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What’s your opinion on: don’t disclose everything you have. Not hiding it just not listing it on financials. If you think there’s more then you find it.
/r/Divorce_Men01/01/26 08:14 PM
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Do believe it would be better if you didn’t announce your move out but also am somewhat in disagreement with the others comments on whether that’s abandonment. Sounds to me as if you don’t want the house either? Also, what is the definition of moving out ? If your name is still on the title and mortgage you are still technically free to come and go as you please. From what I know, Abandonment is major issue if: 1) there are kids involved and 2) you’ve abandoned the financial responsibility of ma…
/r/Divorce_Men01/01/26 07:50 PM
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Best commentary and advise I’ve read in a while. Also, if dead set on second marriage, prenup prenup prenup should be number one in your vocabulary. Use my 10-second rule: when ask future new wife if she will agree to prenup, if she takes longer than 10 seconds to agree then it’s No-Go.
/r/Divorce_Men01/01/26 02:02 PM
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By the time they understand that you are the provider they won’t give a shit one way or the other. The system is fucked up and marriage for a man is a fucking scam. Court system “Best Interest of the Children” is bullshit mask to cover up the corruption of the child support system that funds judicial pension plans. Unfortunately your ex is setting a horrible example for your kids on how to raise a family run by a single parent using the state’s welfare system. My advise to any guy out there DO N…
/r/Divorce_Men29/12/25 01:56 PM
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As hard and fucked up as this may seem, you have to focus on getting yourself together. You most definitely can climb out. I work in legal and believe it or not there are guys who would trade places with you in a heartbeat for the situations you are in. Ex. Guy locked up for being falsley accused by his ex of molesting his daughters. His lawyer proved hands down children were manipulated but court still ruled against him. Ex brainwashed the older daughter to where she refused to talk to him. End…
/r/Divorce_Men29/12/25 09:13 AM
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Dude. Let her go. Once a woman says she wants out you gotta let her go. Fighting for a woman to go back to after she expresses wanting to leave triggers an innate sense of weakness and desperation on a woman’s part, and masculine trait of attraction is indelibly broken. It’s just the way women are hardwired.
/r/Divorce_Men26/12/25 02:48 PM
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What is the legal definition of moving out? What actually constitutes “moving out”? What If I have to travel for work and come back after couple weeks later and the doors are locked with the claim that I “moved out”? If my name is on the title and mortgage and am still paying at least half the mortgage then I have all right to come and go as I please. It’s been only two years since Maryland changed the law that couples “must” live separate for one year before they are able to file for divorce. T…
/r/Divorce_Men26/12/25 04:54 AM
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Is there actually a specific term for that?
/r/Divorce_Men26/12/25 04:35 AM
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Sounds exactly like I wrote this post. Honestly thought it was just me and feels good to know it is not.
/r/Divorce_Men25/12/25 04:50 AM
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At that point it’s time to call it quits. There is nothing more you can do for her. You will end up being happier in the long run by not killing yourself and sacrificing your own spirit and dignity trying to please her and keep her happy. Too many men learn this the hard way. If you did everything the opposite it would have the same outcome. Do for yourself. I know it stings, but let her go.
/r/Divorce_Men25/12/25 12:59 AM
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Welcome to the male/husband gaslight marriage is fucking bullshit scam club. Will get worse once the kids are In school 8 hours a day and she still claims to be an unhappy stay at home all day with the kids MOM.
/r/Divorce_Men14/12/25 03:45 AM
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In beginning phase of the process of no lawyer divorce with no kids. Main issue is house. Fairly easy so far but can’t trust wife to stay on track with everyone putting misinformation in her head. Paperwork process not as complicated as thought. Especially with the advent of AI, the future of lawyer -less litigation is becoming increasingly a given reality. Been contemplating and planning this for about three years before my youngest turned 18 this past July. Probably the best advice I’ve gotten…
/r/Divorce_Men06/12/25 09:18 AM
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OK not miserable but I’m definitely getting loser vibes. Man up. Sounds weak and defeatist, and like you will remain lonely for a while until you gain a winner, confident attitude. If I, just a random guy, get this through a post, people and especially women in your immediate presence will pick up on this in an instance. Just sayin !
/r/Divorce_Men05/12/25 09:15 AM
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Many women claim they are happy after divorce but truth is they are only happy if they know the ex is unhappy or give the perception of being unhappy because the ex husband is not in another relationship. Women will never be happy because they are confused to what happiness is or means. From day one, the entire marriage is gauged on a happiness barometer. Men spend 80-90% of their time in marriage trying to please and keep wife and kids happy. 80% of divorces are initiated by unhappy women. Righ…
/r/Divorce_Men05/12/25 08:59 AM
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Wow!!! EXACTLY!! It’s like we are playing from the same playbook. WTF! 😳
/r/Divorce_Men28/11/25 06:23 PM
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Sorry you had to find out so late that That’s how women do. https://www.instagram.com/reel/DQRu_DCCdmi/?igsh=MXFmOXdteTc3a2phNw==
/r/Divorce_Men28/11/25 06:19 PM
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Church group?
/r/Divorce_Men28/11/25 06:16 PM
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WAWs are rewarded as heroes by the destructive and demonic feminist movement, and the display their badges proudly.
/r/Divorce_Men28/11/25 04:10 PM
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Few things sounds like to me, and this is just my opinion: Sounds like you are nice guy and most women see nice guys as wimps and find it hard to respect Sounds like she is ready to move on Sounds like to you need to man up and take control and no be afraid to show male traits Sound like you need to find another relationship and let her see some other woman values you Sounds like she has her own money so spousal support is probably not an issue. Just my observation
/r/Divorce_Men19/11/25 12:44 PM
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Negative in the sense that you wanna keep the house. Negative if you are the main breadwinner and/or she is SAHM. Spousal support would be much easier for her to claim. VERY negative if your son is still living there before he turns 18. Unless you can justify why you are out of the house 95% time, I would start to make my presence more frequent until the divorce is final.
/r/Divorce_Men15/11/25 01:44 PM
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Oh yeah and It’s not just you. It appears to me it’s just how the female brain works once they’ve fulfilled that essential part of life that defines their femininity and hormonal desires. Again, through observation (67 years), appears to be a rarity if this isn’t the case, especially nowadays. Also, looks to be getting worse as the feminist movement continues to target men’s masculinity as an evil trait. In the feminist world the flip from sweet and demure to demanding boss bitch is worn as a ba…
/r/Divorce_Men15/11/25 11:51 AM
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DAMN DUDE! You should’ve at least asked your lawyer friend to look at it. You could’ve paid any lawyer 1/16 of your salary to at least look it over for you, would have been a better option. Only way out I see is just don’t pay. Find a new job and try and hide out for as long as you can. I don’t even know you but Hurts to even hear this shit.
/r/Divorce_Men14/11/25 01:57 PM
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Depends how the definition of moving out is defined and interpreted. Technically, until a judge orders that you cannot return to the home you can come and go as you please. Even if you pack a suitcase and leave, your wife cannot change the locks and lock you out as long as your name appears on the title.
/r/Divorce_Men12/11/25 02:01 PM
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Exactly. That is the plan in place. But Even if I filed a complaint yesterday, 10 to 15 months is a long time to wait for final judgment. It’s that interim period that I am referring to. What to do? Once I stop paying it’s wait and see if she will change her tune and become payer. If so, then I don’t have to worry about destroying my credit but if she doesn’t then I must go back to “bill payer”, now on two places, or let it disintegrate. That is my conundrum.
/r/Divorce_Men11/11/25 04:37 PM
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Tell your lawyer you want motion for discovery: subpoenas, interrogatories, etc. Downside: it will be expensive and drag out the final judgment. Sounds like she may know this.
/r/Divorce_Men11/11/25 12:08 PM
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divorce.com may be helpful. My county clerk’s office in Maryland offers divorce info sessions that reveal actually easy a simple divorce process can be. Simple means no kids or property to divide and both sides are in agreement to go separate ways.
/r/Divorce_Men11/11/25 12:03 PM
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Sounds to me like you don’t have anyone already. If it’s a body present you need then get a roommate. Or maybe just have the heart to heart with her that you guys can do your own thing but stay together.
/r/Divorce_Men11/11/25 11:55 AM
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Kinda defeats the purpose of the prenup if you ask me. I biasedly believe prenups are designed to protect the man’s interest in a marriage since, as you n your friend case, the man usually is the breadwinner. When it comes to marriage, my 69 years of experience shows me that Women are conditioned and hard wired to always have their own interests as a priority before the notion of a true partnership. The institution of Marriage, with all its fan fare (diamond ring, elaborate wedding, honeymoon, e…
/r/Divorce_Men07/11/25 02:44 PM
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I thought I explained already that not divorced by stating am looking for affordable counsel. That is the obviously what I am seeking to sell but cannot if both names are on the mortgage. Additionally, from research of family court matters in my county divorce ce proceedings are backed up to about 17-20 months. What to do in meantime with bills and mortgage? The very notion is irking the fuck out of me. It’s like having a non paying tenant occupying a your rental unit.
/r/Divorce_Men31/10/25 03:02 PM
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That’s the other thing. When I try talking to her and tell we need to move out or we need to sell the house, take a wild guess and what that answer is.
/r/Divorce_Men31/10/25 12:09 PM
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