ctrain6676 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	How to turn Social Weaknesses into Strengths: Outer Game (post by Eloquence)	Outer Game	ctrain6676	/r/seduction	14/10/22 09:36 PM
1	Sparring with the Queen of Sh*ttesters	Escalation & Calibration	ctrain6676	/r/seduction	01/11/22 12:34 AM
1	Beliefs on Attraction	Inner Game	ctrain6676	/r/seduction	17/10/22 05:39 PM
1	The Most Important Part of Inner Game	Inner Game	ctrain6676	/r/seduction	16/10/22 09:54 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
9	When I have it, I dont want it anymore... Do you think you enjoy the race more than the finish line and trophy?	/r/seduction	01/11/22 12:45 AM
1	What are ways that women can increase seduction when they’re not conventionally beautiful? While I'm a man, I find seductresses very interesting, as for that half of the seduction world it is very small and not a whole heck of a lot is known. The most important thing for a woman to seduce a man, without conventional beauty standards on her side from birth or such, is to enhance all the things she can change. That means, most importantly, getting into excellent physical shape. And, second most importantly, showing that off. Where women look more for status, value, and characteristics…	/r/seduction	01/11/22 12:44 AM
1	Should you wait until the girl makes the first move ( CLEAR IOI’s ) in social circles ? Yes. Let me explain. One of the most important things in seduction, especially seduction of someone you know/see regularly, is flipping the hunter-hunted dynamic. In most societies, or at least my own society here in America, it is expected that men chase women, men ask them out, get their numbers, make the moves, etc. And while I still think you should be making moves, escalating, arranging dates (since she wants you to do all that stuff), the most important thing to do is display high value, g…	/r/seduction	01/11/22 12:40 AM
1	What are some hobbies you do that makes you interesting? I'm a writer/author, I go hiking, I knit, I'm a wrestler and boxer... generally I made sure to do all of these not only because they're fun, but they make me a well-rounded person that people generally want to get to know due to that array of different interests not so commonly paired together	/r/seduction	26/10/22 10:34 PM
3	How do I get past my limiting belief of age? Read this affirmation (or a similar one) daily: I am young, in good health, and am in the prime summer stage of my life. Because of this reason I can embark on any journey I wish, I can do anything, and my age does not limit me from the countless possibilities. I still have the majority of my life ahead of me.	/r/seduction	25/10/22 05:47 PM
2	I asked someone out for the first time in my life ! Failure is not rejection. Failure is not trying in the first place. Great job. - Eloquence	/r/seduction	21/10/22 05:53 PM
1	Does ignoring girls work? Yes.	/r/seduction	19/10/22 06:49 PM
2	Toxic/low value behavior I have seen in most men that enter game that you need to be on the lookout for. Absolutely man, couldn't agree more. Any woman could just be walking by having the worst day of her life, but we wouldn't know.	/r/seduction	18/10/22 01:43 AM
1	Toxic/low value behavior I have seen in most men that enter game that you need to be on the lookout for. Yeah - I see a lot of dating advice is always "well, she wasn't your type, NEXT" while completely neglecting the self-reflection that perhaps.. there was something "iffy" about the approach itself. Lot's of guys just think that showing up is enough when in reality.. you need to know how to calibrate after opening, how to keep the interaction going, how to flirt, how to escalate properly etc. I would highly recommend David Dawns free book "The Dating Book for Men" (direct link). I have been follo…	/r/seduction	18/10/22 01:41 AM
6	Eye contact, relaxed and expansive body language are key to projecting masculinity. Despite what modern society says, women respond respect dominant, masculine behavior Thank you so much for this post, there isn't enough written imo about subcommunication. It's the most important thing besides your frame. - Eloquence	/r/seduction	17/10/22 06:17 PM
2	Is there any hope after a woman with initial high interest loses it? Yes, there is hope. Pull out, give her space, and create a little big of mystery around you. On social media post lots of high status posts, like you at parties or having a great time with lots of friends or whatever else. Anything visible, it doesn't necessarily have to be on social media. Don't give her attention, let her know that you are with/see you with other women, particularly high-quality women or those she would be jealous of. Then wait for her to come to you, and when she comes restar…	/r/seduction	17/10/22 06:16 PM
37	Toxic/low value behavior I have seen in most men that enter game that you need to be on the lookout for. Great thoughts, thank you for sharing. Another one I've noticed is general limiting beliefs about himself, to go off of your point on avoiding responsibility. It's like saying he failed because he just wasn't her type instead of reflecting on his open, subcommunication, and other factors. Personal responsibility is a major aspect of all of this and should be one of the top values.	/r/seduction	17/10/22 05:54 PM
3	I say 'hello' then basically let her do all the work. I agree with a lot of what you're saying, but at the same time that's just not seduction. That's just two people who are default attracted to each other getting together. Seduction is an act, and requires doing.	/r/seduction	17/10/22 05:20 PM
1	Why are redditors so against and negative about approaching women? It's just incels pushing their insecurities, don't sweat it. I, and many others, don't view the whole seduction game as a way to get sex, but rather a way to improve holistically in social skills and communication. Sex is a fun outcome, sure, but not the only one. There's a saying in writing that your book is never the final product, but you are. Cheers. - Eloquence	/r/seduction	17/10/22 05:17 PM
-2	After making plans to meetup with a woman, do you continue the conversation or not until the date? Rarely text. Maybe a little thing here or there to show it's still on, but you pushed when you got her number, set up a date, and did all of that work... now you gotta pull. You've got your own life; you're busy doing things from driving fast cars to getting in the next big trade with the executives. You don't have the time, nor does she have the importance, to be communicated with so much in between the times you scheduled to talk to each other. Of course, if this is a genuine romantic interest…	/r/seduction	16/10/22 10:00 PM
0	We so often believe that we’re never good enough for them… when in fact we may actually be too good for them I can't respond to that, because there's always the doubt of each story and of each person's unique situation. Maybe one guy wasn't self-aware enough, or maybe he didn't hold the right subcommunication-- as thats a big one with lots of guys cause they'll focus too much on dhv stories or this or that and not their actual vibe. So while I respect the genuine validity of what you say, as it came from your experience and I don't doubt it, I also know there are plenty of guys who leave our loads of d…	/r/seduction	16/10/22 02:54 PM
0	We so often believe that we’re never good enough for them… when in fact we may actually be too good for them It's not the same in person. On Tinder do you have Chino escalation, or can you talk to them right away with or without their permission, or can you hold their entire attention just by saying something to them? Nope. When you approach someone in person you can do infinitely more seduction than you can on a dating app.	/r/seduction	16/10/22 02:48 PM
5	We so often believe that we’re never good enough for them… when in fact we may actually be too good for them Is that what you tell yourself?	/r/seduction	16/10/22 02:41 PM
5	We so often believe that we’re never good enough for them… when in fact we may actually be too good for them You can create attraction. Do you really think Neil Strauss was drooled over as a short bald guy with glasses?	/r/seduction	16/10/22 02:22 PM
4	We so often believe that we’re never good enough for them… when in fact we may actually be too good for them Contrary to what some folks are saying, it's not about different tastes. But, it's also not about you, per se. Let me expand. Society tells us men that we should take women out to dinner, buy them drinks, buy them flowers, buy them buy them buy them. Be nice. And while that was once the case, that's no longer the case. While feminism has brought great equality in the world, it's also brought a bot of confusion when it comes to the roles men play in attraction. Don't do these. Yes, still be kind …	/r/seduction	16/10/22 02:20 PM
5	Overcome approaching anxiety challenge Sorry, but it does build confidence. It's called exposure therapy, you can look it up. And it's also called self-improvement. It would be a mistake to think self-improvement applies only to hiding behind a profile. What's easier, on your phone swiping, or approaching attractive women in person? Nothing worth doing is ever easy.	/r/seduction	15/10/22 03:33 PM
3	Overcome approaching anxiety challenge It's about what your goal is. If building confidence and eradicating yourself of approach anxiety, which is a pretty damn just goal, then numerous cold approaches is the best thing you can do for yourself. If you just want your fix then dating apps is preferred.	/r/seduction	15/10/22 12:20 PM
1	Overcome approaching anxiety challenge Get a buddy and just do exposure therapy of approaching people, talk about anything, even just say hello. Set a daily and weekly goal for yourself and have your buddy hold you accountable. - Eloquence	/r/seduction	15/10/22 12:19 PM
3	How to go for sex? There's a lot of general things like Demonstrating Value throughout the date, making her Qualify Herself, looking for IOIs (or getting a general mood) before you make any escalating maneuver, but as long as you know she has more time at the end of the date, make indirect-- not direct, as women speak in indirect terms and directness usually turns them off-- moves or suggestions to heading to bed and having sex, ethically and if she seems comfortable, of course. There are a number of ways to do th…	/r/seduction	15/10/22 02:03 AM
5	I see so many girls in college and I just can’t approach them. Any inner gane stuff that will help see "early life" section https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Albert\_Ellis	/r/seduction	14/10/22 10:30 PM
36	I see so many girls in college and I just can’t approach them. Any inner gane stuff that will help You need exposure therapy. Look up Dr. Ellis exposure therapy and read about him. The dude had the worst approach anxiety and so in the damn 1950s he just set goals for himself to talk to women in public until he became a beast at it. Cheers. - Eloquence	/r/seduction	14/10/22 09:39 PM
1	Seduction of 56 y/o mom Should mention another way of playing the expectation would be, as one of my mentors taught me, in fashion. He's a black man, and unfortunately for black men there is the racist assumption of criminality and violence, which is truly terrible but he put this to his advantage: dressing dapper and winging with his Asian-American friend, who played the expectation too by dressing greaser and "bad boy" they made a hell of a duo. Be aware of yourself, your stereotypes, and play it to your advantage by…	/r/seduction	14/10/22 09:26 PM
1	what cold approach lines work well in galleries? totally. Great to hear it's a good place for you! Art galleries is where you find women of high quality minds... keep it up brother!	/r/seduction	14/10/22 07:29 PM
2	what cold approach lines work well in galleries? that's fair, but I'm assuming here that the gallery is a minimal-conversation environment-- most galleries I've been to have that social expectation, but I've been to a couple that also are meant to be talkative. But if it's one of those quiet ones, then, then you breaking that norm and speaking to her-- especially asking a question-- is offputting. I'm not anti-question per se, just that's not the right preframe to enter into. Hell we should probably ask this guy what type of galleries he visit…	/r/seduction	14/10/22 12:56 AM
4	How do you escalate if a woman gives you green lights? At whatever level of stuff that she does, mirror that. But remember: you're a high-value man, you can't stay long, you're busy, and this amuses you. Having that mindset will permeate into all of your movements, subcommunication, etc.	/r/seduction	13/10/22 09:20 PM
2	Long Time Lurker Here Spotted a Reddit Here That Got Me Curious. Can't Find Original Reddit Anymore. Speak from the chest or belly, like a singer, not from the throat or head. That's the lowest tonality you can naturally and comfortably reach Take up space comfortably, not crossing legs, expressive arm gestures, etc Touch others and your surroundings (nothing weird-- this is to build kino and also to show you're comfortable with others, with yourself, with your surroundings, so much to the point where it's implied you have a right and the permission to do this) Basically all this stuff is to …	/r/seduction	13/10/22 09:17 PM
2	what cold approach lines work well in galleries? nah, a question would put them on the defensive-- as if they HAVE to reply to you like you're demanding information from them.	/r/seduction	13/10/22 09:06 PM
2	what cold approach lines work well in galleries? Preframe the situation by saying something smart about the art, because this does 2 things: it demonstrates value through intelligence and it establishes what the conversation will be about, thus keeping the cards in your hands Don't begin with a question-- really important. It puts them on the defensive, like "do I have to answer this question?" you're demanding someone answer you. be like "I know you're not supposed to talk much at the museum, but..." and so by acknowledging that they are more…	/r/seduction	13/10/22 09:05 PM
2	Neil Strauss 30 days challenge to overcome approaching anxiety This is the stylelife challenge, yes?	/r/seduction	13/10/22 06:59 PM