I say 'hello' then basically let her do all the work.

"How do you flirt?"

"I wait for her to start and just flirt back."

"How do you pick up on the dance floor?"

"I just dance by myself until she wants to dance with me."

"How do you know when to escalate kino?"

"I let her do it."

I'm not lying. Women who are attracted to you will absolutely get after it unless they have some severe anxiety issues. They will not tolerate you missing those invitations, but they will absolutely lead.

I don't think yall really have a good grip on being attractive to a woman. There's this weird fixation with following a formula and 'doing kino' and 'push pull' and other weird things. I'm not sure about how much women like when a man holds her hand at a time when she doesn't hate that that's happening but I usually find it's more effective to say and do things that promote your intelligence, financial stability, work ethic, how you relax, what your goals are, what your sense of humour is like, your social competence, your ability to handle yourself physically, your compassion, your values, and about 10 billion other things that isn't some pickup nonsense.

If I keep ticking off boxes on her list, I keep getting more and more attractive to her regardless of if I do kino or flirt at her first. In fact, she will straight up do it at me at every step and into the bedroom.

Now is a good time to convince yourself that I'm lying and none of this is true.