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| 2 | Men, would you rather treat a women like a queen or like 💩?Grammar Nazi totally misses the point whoosh 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 03:16 AM |
| 2 | How would you design an online dating app to make it a good experience for both men and women?It’s an experience chosen by the user. Do you want ghosting, situationships, heartbreak and hookups? Go download Tinder, Hinge or Bumble… There’s reality dating while online and then there’s online dating. We agree to the terms and conditions. A cool down period sounds genius. The idea of only one match at a time would force people to take relationships more seriously. It’s a user experience I would prefer. Sadly, these applications are here to create profit and maximize engagement. How do peopl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 04:33 PM |
| – | Women do get rejected by menNo self respecting man Your simps don’t count ‘cause not even the rest of the dating pool wants anything to do with them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/23 07:03 PM |
| – | Women do get rejected by menNot at all. If she’s kinky and fucks well, I’m going to consider being in a serious monogamous relationship with her. That’s how I’ve always dated women and that’s how I’m with my current fiancé. Prior to my significant other I would get either lucky or rejected left and right by women assuming that I only wanted casual sex. Jokes on all my past matches. I’m now almost 4 years deep with the same woman. Genuine attraction starts with casual sex. If you’re too stupid to see that by now you obvious… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/23 05:32 PM |
| 2 | Women do get rejected by menNothing bitter about it. I don’t give a shit about the broken hearted or rejected women when some men can’t even get a hug. Lack of intimacy and human connection equals insanity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/23 05:23 PM |
| 1 | Seems to me dating could be extremely simple if people were just to do thisIf my current girlfriend had made me wait any longer than two dates, I’d have been talking to other women and putting her on the backburner. We’ve been together for four years now. Waiting two months would have been awful advice and a guaranteed way for both of us to have stayed lonely, single and unfulfilled. Let’s try to be realistic in the year 2023, okay? No self respecting man gives a shit enough to wait that long unless he’s just time traveled from an anachronistic period by his horse-draw… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/23 12:06 AM |
| – | Is it ethical to use AI face recognition to filter out women on dating apps?Except women always do this for safety reasons. Men should be doing this explicitly with even harsher judgement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/23 12:01 AM |
| 4 | What would you say are the chances of being falsely accused of sexual harassment by a woman?I knew a chick this nice introverted dude dated that had her girlfriends peer pressure her into accusing him of r@pe when he’d no longer supply their coke habit. With zero evidence and only her words against his, he was later expelled from the high school he attended. Being too timid to defend himself and never wanting any conflict is why his reputation was pretty much permanently damaged. No trial or anything. Just an admitted rumor that she was too late apologizing for. False allegations are w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/23 02:12 AM |
| 2 | On single men wearing wedding bandsHow do you know whether they’re in an open marriage or not? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/23 04:18 PM |
| 5 | Young, attractive women don't completely hate the attention they get. If they hated it there wouldn't be a billion dollar industry focusing on making them look as young as possibleLots of dermatologists would disagree. Hygiene is for self. Enhancements are for attention. Horrible equivalency but kudos for effort. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/23 03:57 AM |
| 11 | Young, attractive women don't completely hate the attention they get. If they hated it there wouldn't be a billion dollar industry focusing on making them look as young as possibleAnd at least 1.6 million women in denial that they’re doing it for themselves in a sub that maximizes their bronzer exposure, lol. I’m not exactly sure how you got 4.5 million women but who’s counting? 😅 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/23 03:55 AM |
| 1 | What makes “Passport Bros” so predatory if impoverished or poor women are the ones targeting high income earning men from all around the world?Not all women but some western women definitely get irked to know that a beta male is getting laid. I assume that Republican policies have created this collective vindictiveness. Such women would be ecstatic to legally enforce laws that control men’s ability to have sex. They’d absolutely love to make sure that undesirable men (perhaps all men) died as virgins. This is also why they scoff at prostitution. “Girl, you deserve better!” “If he doesn’t get MY pussy wet then he’s obviously a soy boy…” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/23 06:07 PM |
| 2 | What makes “Passport Bros” so predatory if impoverished or poor women are the ones targeting high income earning men from all around the world?Fat women hate themselves enough so that men don’t have to. That’s probably funnier. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/23 05:54 PM |
| 1 | What makes “Passport Bros” so predatory if impoverished or poor women are the ones targeting high income earning men from all around the world?Who said I’m justifying predatory behavior? Why can’t there be mutual attraction? Or are you seriously implying that fathers from foreign countries want their daughters marrying passport bros? Again, this post is for anyone shaming men that don’t date domestically. Those western women assume that the dating market has rejected the men that seek romance elsewhere. “Passport Bros” is something western women have created to use as a blanket term for any man interested in a different culture from hi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/23 04:52 AM |
| 1 | What makes “Passport Bros” so predatory if impoverished or poor women are the ones targeting high income earning men from all around the world?Thank you! Finally some common sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/23 04:34 AM |
| 5 | What makes “Passport Bros” so predatory if impoverished or poor women are the ones targeting high income earning men from all around the world?This post is in hopes of getting passport bro shamers to see their own hypocrisy. Usually those same women are the first to demand a six figure earning man while rejecting every nice guy around them. They can easily be lumped in with the Red Pillers, the neckbeard trolls and the Andrew Tater Tots. You know? The crowd throwing around the soy boy/beta male rhetoric. I’ll always asterisk the terms because anyone that uses them is cringe as fuck. If you’re in agreement that there’s no moral qualms w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/23 04:12 AM |
| 1 | What makes “Passport Bros” so predatory if impoverished or poor women are the ones targeting high income earning men from all around the world?I have an American girlfriend so you’re asking the wrong guy. This post is in hopes of getting passport bro shamers to see their own hypocrisy. Usually those women are the first to demand a six figure earning man while rejecting every beta male around them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/23 04:09 AM |
| 1 | What makes “Passport Bros” so predatory if impoverished or poor women are the ones targeting high income earning men from all around the world?You’re not providing any type of epiphany. There’s an extreme example on each side of the fence, I promise. Because the example you just put forth is unethical by every moral person’s standards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/23 04:01 AM |
| 3 | What makes “Passport Bros” so predatory if impoverished or poor women are the ones targeting high income earning men from all around the world?Christopher Wallace aka Biggie Smalls was ugly as fuck, but still got women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/23 03:53 AM |
| 5 | What makes “Passport Bros” so predatory if impoverished or poor women are the ones targeting high income earning men from all around the world?Your whole interpretation is contaminated with jaded bitterness. My girlfriend is from the United States and I’d have dated her regardless of country origin. But I guess that would make me a loser and a r$*#rd rejected by the western market had I found her in Guatemala, huh? Well, that’s according to YOU. So yeah, that doesn’t even translate logically unless you want to self identify as the new ambassador of Female Dating Strategy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/23 03:48 AM |
| 1 | What makes “Passport Bros” so predatory if impoverished or poor women are the ones targeting high income earning men from all around the world?Maybe the pussy boys you talk to. My tactics have always been to find someone hotter, funnier, more compatible. There’s always better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/23 02:54 AM |
| 1 | What makes “Passport Bros” so predatory if impoverished or poor women are the ones targeting high income earning men from all around the world?He’s not a man if he’s crying over being manipulated for his wallet. More often than not it’s the woman crying over having been interacted with for being a romantic prospect rather than for being a genuine friend. I see more women butthurt over terminated friendships than men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/23 02:46 AM |
| 0 | Women get resentful from splitting half the costs with their partnersThese women are not clueless- just playing dumb. They know exactly how to pull a doctor. They know exactly what it takes to pull a rich one too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 03:26 PM |
| -1 | Women would be straight up miserable if their partner refused to have sex with them, yet because it usually happens the other way around they find excuses that sex is not importantGirlfriends that put out deserve trips to Spain. Girlfriends that do not put out deserve low effort McDonald’s dates. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/23 02:42 PM |
| – | Is it a good strategy for men to not befriend women at work to prevent problems?Nobody needs to prove that you’re just a b*tch because you make it blatantly clear. So yeah, I said it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/23 04:33 PM |
| 4 | Is it a good strategy for men to not befriend women at work to prevent problems?What an oblivious bully! 🤣 This whole thread is entertaining, lol 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/23 07:26 AM |
| 3 | Is it a good strategy for men to not befriend women at work to prevent problems?Dippin’ in the company ink is never a good idea no matter how “well” it’s going. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/23 07:20 AM |
| 18 | Can porn and masturbation discourage men from getting sex?Saddest part is how women don’t give a shit about men’s suicide rate, depression or lack of intimacy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/23 10:49 PM |
| 1 | If nothing is fair, and nobody is owed anything, its best for men to act in their own interest to get laid.In this day and age? Hawaii is on fire and AI is going to destroy humanity. It’s the end of the world. Plus, there’s too much capitalism and not enough leisure time. Men ain’t got all day to chat- if any woman thinks we do, she’s delusional. My girlfriend was DTF from the get go so I provided an extravagant first date. If she’s considerate of my time I’m going to reciprocate ten fold. Fast forward three years and now we’re saving up to travel Europe. Men need to swallow their pride and be explic… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/23 05:23 AM |
| 1 | So how exactly do men "deceive" women into sex?Men should begin every introduction with “Are you down to fuck?” and see which woman doesn’t find him repulsive. That’s how I’m with the woman of my dreams. It may have cost me plenty of dignity some humiliation and a bit of my reputation but it has proven to be totally worth it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/23 01:37 PM |
| 2 | If nothing is fair, and nobody is owed anything, its best for men to act in their own interest to get laid.Men should begin every introduction with “Are you down to fuck?” and see which woman doesn’t find him repulsive. That’s how I’m with the woman of my dreams. It may have cost me plenty of dignity some humiliation and a bit of my reputation but it has proven to be totally worth it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/23 01:35 PM |
| -1 | So how exactly do men "deceive" women into sex?She probably sucks at sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/23 12:16 PM |
| 1 | MEN DESERVE BETTER FILTER OPTIONSThat’s exactly what’s happening. As more premium features become integrated, only the top 20% of women are receiving the majority of the matches. This is currently creating a mass exodus of frustrated women on dating apps. Ladies are having to juggle between multiple platforms like OKCupid, Bumble and Hinge just to find any romance. What used to be an endless showering of validation from Chads is now a drip-drop of low quality simps that are counting their pennies to afford that Tinder Gold. Wha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/23 02:15 AM |
| 2 | “Overwhelmed with messages” is NOT an excuse for women’s awful online dating behaviourWhat would happen if women were given a match limit? What would happen if women were shadowbanned for a whole week anytime their profile got unmatched but was reported for “ghosting” the same way women report men for sexually explicit introductions? Would this change the dating dynamic at all? Facial scans already exist to thwart off bots and scammers but how about a body type verification system for overweight, average, fit or curvy? Sure there’d be a ton more butthurt men but wouldn’t there al… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/23 03:45 PM |
| 1 | MEN DESERVE BETTER FILTER OPTIONSMy post stated from the very beginning that I don’t have any complaints over women’s height preferences. My girlfriend is also triple D cup and sees no issue with me adoring her breasts. And by all means, yes! Have your opinion! But the majority of men will always subconsciously stand by their programmed biology. So unfortunately, you won’t ever change that. Lastly, if you don’t want a big chest then go get yourself a mammoplasty. You’ll feel less objectified. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/23 03:21 PM |
| 2 | MEN DESERVE BETTER FILTER OPTIONSThere’s also a lot of radically extreme feminists and uneducated children poking around this sub. Sometimes I can’t tell the difference. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/23 07:43 AM |
| 2 | MEN DESERVE BETTER FILTER OPTIONSI was confused considering my post was very thorough. Then again, some people will always refuse to use basic comprehension or they may simply lack it altogether. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/23 07:37 AM |
| 1 | MEN DESERVE BETTER FILTER OPTIONSMy girlfriend is very appreciative that I am attracted to her physical features. I’m not at all ashamed admitting to having automatically blocked any woman online that had smaller than a double D cup bust either. That’s the only strategic filter system I used which eventually led me to my current girlfriend of three years. She’s well aware of why I initially matched with her. We both joke often that I’d have met her much sooner if there weren’t such a lack of preference options on online dating … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/23 07:30 AM |
| 1 | MEN DESERVE BETTER FILTER OPTIONSKinda seems like you didn’t even bother to thoroughly read the original post. So as desperately as you wanna imagine my “anger” or my “internalized misogyny”, your interpretation is the exact reason why I began the post stating that “I have zero complaints” and that I already have a girlfriend. If you had any ability to see passed your own narrow sighted assumptions then you might also notice the lack of filtering preferences for men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/23 03:42 AM |
| 2 | MEN DESERVE BETTER FILTER OPTIONSThank you. Because that’s exactly what would happen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/23 05:50 PM |
| 1 | MEN DESERVE BETTER FILTER OPTIONSI’m glad we agree on quite a bit- except for your last paragraph: “None of them because women would completely quit OLD. Many of us already have. We are tired of the online and in-person stalking, graphic threats of rape and bodily harm, and being called horrible names because we simply don't want to spread our legs for someone…” I guess that’s my point, that MANY women would simply choose not to participate in online dating if that were the case, but that SOME women will continue to participate… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/23 05:39 PM |
| 1 | MEN DESERVE BETTER FILTER OPTIONSMen would receive much less matches but I do believe there would be much less ghosting as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/23 05:23 PM |
| 1 | MEN DESERVE BETTER FILTER OPTIONSApps are already down that trajectory with paid features. Everybody is coming at me like I didn’t already mention that I have a girlfriend! 😅 The point of this post is to address the problem with limited preferences. I’d have been in my current relationship a lot sooner, provided these apps offered more filters. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/23 05:19 PM |
| 6 | MEN DESERVE BETTER FILTER OPTIONSLOL, true that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/23 09:11 AM |
| 0 | MEN DESERVE BETTER FILTER OPTIONSI think dating apps and social media are to women what virtual girlfriends and pornography are to men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/23 09:09 AM |
| 0 | MEN DESERVE BETTER FILTER OPTIONSThe League and seeking.com are quite popular. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/23 09:07 AM |
| -3 | MEN DESERVE BETTER FILTER OPTIONSFor sure MOST women would choose not to participate but I do believe that SOME women WOULD actually choose to participate. Not all women are modest but not all women are promiscuous either. The League exists for a reason as does seeking.com They won’t be as commercial as POF, OKC, Tinder or Bumble but they will provide a platform to satisfy people’s most superficial preferences. You’d be surprised at how often shallowness and vulgarity get rewarded. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/23 09:04 AM |
| 6 | Average guys in relationships are subject to a different set of rules than attractive onesThe more attractive the woman I’m with, the more tolerance I have for her bullshit. Not consciously, but in retrospect, I’ve discovered that my limited patience has been for the more average looking women in my past. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/23 08:06 PM |
| 2 | Is promiscuity all that bad? What if a woman has only been promiscuous with other women?Body count is only important to document whenever an individual is being reckless. But aside from safety reasons, I’m not sure why it’s such a big deal for most guys these days. Personally, I prefer a woman that is very sexually experienced. As long as she’s healthy why should anybody give a fuck? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/23 12:56 AM |
| 1 | is it wrong to want a feminine woman ?GROW UP. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/23 12:50 AM |
| 1 | In most "predatory" relationships, the actual predator is the womanI’m curious to hear your interpretation on what men are paying for when they host their date to a lovely evening. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/23 12:42 AM |
| 1 | In most "predatory" relationships, the actual predator is the womanYou contradicted yourself using onlyfans and strip clubs as examples. Mutually consensual adult entertainment is not the equivalency to chicanery and deception. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/23 11:55 PM |
| 1 | In most "predatory" relationships, the actual predator is the womanFalse equivalency? Yet here you are with your chargeback scammer bullshit. You obviously don’t live in reality if you think a man can be successful keeping his “financial worth a secret forever”. Despite the fact that women’s biology gravitates towards security and resources. The same women that criticize “passport bros” for preying on third world women are the same women that seek out men with the annual income of $100k+. There’s definitely a difference between having a financial advantage and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 09:44 AM |
| – | In most "predatory" relationships, the actual predator is the womanUnfortunately our society doesn’t operate in the puritanical fantasy world you’ve created in your mind. Don’t be naive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/23 07:36 PM |
| 7 | In most "predatory" relationships, the actual predator is the womanYou literally said absolutely nothing. You don’t even provide any counter examples. OP made excellent points in regards to a man’s wallet. Don’t cast your reel is no different than telling a woman that she should dress conservatively if she doesn’t want any harassment. I’m just curious why people love to normalize the financial manipulation of men before ever admitting that women can be predatory too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/23 07:33 PM |
| 1 | CMV : I’m starting to see the effect of dating app filters translate into the real worldPredictable 🙄 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/23 09:58 AM |
| -1 | CMV : I’m starting to see the effect of dating app filters translate into the real worldVague language will get you vague selection. Not wise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/23 10:45 PM |
| 3 | CMV : I’m starting to see the effect of dating app filters translate into the real worldShame language has already been addressed within my response but my girlfriend would completely disagree. What’s weird is telling people that their effective approach towards dating is a failing strategy when clearly it’s proven successful for me. Especially if you’re still single. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/23 10:30 PM |
| 9 | CMV : I’m starting to see the effect of dating app filters translate into the real worldIt’s funny how men’s preferences get conflated with misogyny once we’re vocal about what we want. I simply taught myself to stop considering women that have smaller than double d cups as romantic prospects (for me specifically). This behavior is no different from superficial women that will rule me out for being below 6 feet. I’m not going to cry about it 😂 I’m going to play by their exact same rules. Does this also make me superficial? Absolutely! But I’m 5’10” as well so naturally, the first l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/23 10:19 PM |
| 1 | Women are entitled to make men wait for sex, but men are entitled to rule her out because of itWomen filter those men out of their dating pool, this is true. But smart men shouldn’t allow such women within their dating pool to begin with. If she isn’t sexually invested in you from the get go fellas, cut your losses… NEXT! Never let those women convince you otherwise. They are more than likely full of shit. The immediate spark is how perfectly happy wives fuck up their marriages, how innocent ladies throw away their virginity or how first dates find their perfect partner. Intuitive mutual … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/23 04:57 AM |
| – | What dating advice would you give to women?Worst advice ever and the most certain recipe for a side fling to develop. Your puritanical approach to dating is old fashioned and definitely the best way to ensure that your prospect exercises all their options while keeping you at the bottom of their interests before ever considering anything serious. So yes, this list sounds very stupid. I’m so tired of people like you promoting a losing strategy that is no longer relevant within the context of our modern world. The saddest part is that stru… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/23 12:24 AM |
| 1 | Women are entitled to make men wait for sex, but men are entitled to rule her out because of itIt’s people like you that can’t fathom how men with our rationale could ever be in a relationship. Wrong, wrong and wrong again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/23 01:12 PM |
| 1 | Women are entitled to make men wait for sex, but men are entitled to rule her out because of itTry to wrap your head around the context and it won’t hurt your brain so much. Failure to see an alternative perspective from your own might actually mean that you’re really dumb. Think about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/23 12:44 AM |
| 1 | Women are entitled to make men wait for sex, but men are entitled to rule her out because of itAnd you’re here complaining about every man that doesn’t endure the filter test. What really upsets you is that both men and women are perfectly capable of having successful relationships after sexual encounters upon the first date. But you just sound bitter, pumped and dumped because it never worked out for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/23 12:39 AM |
| 1 | Women are entitled to make men wait for sex, but men are entitled to rule her out because of itWe don’t believe in marriage or having kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 07:10 PM |
| 1 | Women are entitled to make men wait for sex, but men are entitled to rule her out because of itI DO want equality of preferences which is why I actively advocate for it. Check my previous post if you don’t believe me. And just because some men believe in a lower body count for an adequate partner doesn’t mean a separate category of some men that actually value sexual experience can’t exist. Let me clarify that the amount of successful first impression sexual encounters I’ve had isn’t something I’m bragging about. However, having a partner that I love IS absolutely worth bragging about. Ba… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 07:08 PM |
| 2 | Women are entitled to make men wait for sex, but men are entitled to rule her out because of itYou completely disregarded the second half of my argument just to conflate “denying intimacy” with entitlement. That’s not at all what I said. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 04:41 PM |
| 0 | Women are entitled to make men wait for sex, but men are entitled to rule her out because of itWell, I’ve been in a beautiful relationship for the past 3 years so it’s obviously been successful for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 03:33 PM |
| 1 | Women are entitled to make men wait for sex, but men are entitled to rule her out because of itMy current girlfriend and I became intimate the day we met. Nobody is complaining. I’m simply asking a question: If we can be successful in our relationship, why do you keep peddling a losing tactic to struggling men and women? For any complaint here, it’s that you’re totally lying by encouraging people to waste their time with each other. Traditional dating strategies are no longer effective. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 02:38 PM |
| -2 | Women are entitled to make men wait for sex, but men are entitled to rule her out because of itWhy can’t both meet each other halfway if chemistry is so important? Why can’t she wait? This is why the vetting process should be long and thorough before ever meeting in person. Don’t waste each other’s time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 02:28 PM |
| 3 | Women are entitled to make men wait for sex, but men are entitled to rule her out because of itFirst impressions are deceptive which is why there needs to be a thorough vetting process prior to meeting in person. Imagine denying intimacy with a potentially perfect match (a soul mate) that might be more sex driven due to having not been laid for the past 6 months… just to commit to the secretly abusive fella that’s not as sex driven due to having smashed multiple women the very same week you’re first introduced. Very inefficient filtering system and not logical at all. Women make this mist… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 02:25 PM |
| 0 | Women are entitled to make men wait for sex, but men are entitled to rule her out because of itNobody is telling women to sleep with complete strangers. Who in their right mind looking for a genuine relationship actually does that? There’s a vetting process before any in person introduction. That’s via texts, phone calls, FaceTime, social media, memes exchange, etc. Don’t be stupid. 🤡 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 01:52 PM |
| – | Women are entitled to make men wait for sex, but men are entitled to rule her out because of itNah, you just make yourself seem like an illiterate jackass to the context of the post by repeating what was already stated, as if you’re providing some sort of an epiphany. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 01:48 PM |
| 0 | Women are entitled to make men wait for sex, but men are entitled to rule her out because of itI’m not bragging, I’m simply stating what’s been a successful strategy for someone that’s currently in a fulfilling relationship like me: I’ve never agreed to attending a date unless there’s sex involved which we’ve mutually agreed upon in advance. All my first dates have ended with sex but not all my first dates have equated to long term fulfilling relationships. I have found that sex on the first date tends to lead to more honest relationships, less confusion and deeper intimacy. Cautious wome… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 01:41 PM |
| -8 | Women are entitled to make men wait for sex, but men are entitled to rule her out because of itAbsolutely not. I don’t know who brainwashed you with that logic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 01:25 PM |
| -9 | Women are entitled to make men wait for sex, but men are entitled to rule her out because of itThank you, Captain Obvious for reiterating the point that OP had clearly presented. You really think you did something there, huh? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 01:19 PM |
| 0 | Women constantly assert that men have inflated self images, yet it is abundantly clear that most men are desperate and have zero standards. Women, on the other hand, consistently feel entitled to men way out of their league and think they are models when they are completely average looking.Cherry-picked bullshit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 02:37 AM |
| 17 | The dating market isn't fair and isn't meant to be fair, so we should give young men a break“don’t know what this dude’s issue is” and there it is- lack of empathy perpetuating the toxic cycle. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/23 08:49 AM |
| 3 | As a woman, you can afford to be lazy and uninteresting and you'll still find someone to provide and take care of you.Why is the typical go to assessment “never actually spoken to a woman” exchanged whenever hearing something you don’t like? You’re not convincing ANYONE. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/23 02:31 PM |
| – | ONLINE DATING ENCOURAGES A SHALLOW WORLDI clearly exaggerated “withdrawal from being a gentleman and flirtatious” as what constitutes an asshole. But if you read between the lines of my actual text, you’ll see that it’s you who is conflating indifference with sexual entitlement. Just the same as when some women get upset over men ending friendships after they’ve had their advances rejected. Consent isn’t exclusive to sex- it’s applicable to friendship too. Lastly, I’m currently in a long term serious relationship speaking from experie… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/23 02:06 AM |
| 3 | Why don't low quality women just lower your standards comparable to where you actually are?People with unrealistically high standards deserve no love/romance and nothing else but the bitter fringe of being alone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/23 10:23 AM |
| 9 | Men are showing emotional maturity and skill by leaving friendships with women after expressing unrequited sexual interestYou’ve completely missed the point of the post just to shoehorn in your own irrelevant criticisms. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/23 04:33 PM |
| 1 | How many people on this sub actually want casual sex?To jump to conclusions that that it promotes porn addiction and misogyny is asinine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/23 11:03 AM |
| 0 | Most of the posters on this sub prove that women only exist to men if they are a 6/10 +I’m a little above average height, lanky but still athletic. I’m well put together, fashionable, I work hard and I just have a strong preference for hygienic , not overweight, not narcissistic and of course, sexually available is what equals attractive for me. My standards are LOW and still no luck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/23 04:52 AM |
| 1 | Are 'outdated' preferences towards men also misandristic, while the same towards women are deemed misogynistic?"I have a strong preference to date women with big natural breasts. DD+ I do respect all women so how could I possibly be misogynistic? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/23 02:52 PM |
| 6 | CMV : women genuinely want attention and affection from their man, and attention and affection genuinely causes attraction towards that man to dropAnd I know that’s a load of BS. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/23 10:48 AM |
| 2 | women are not self-aware on how badly they treat menIt’s disrespectful that men have no reproductive rights after busting a nut to have any financial abortion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/22 04:29 AM |
| 5 | Their is no incentive to date as a manSo then please explain what incentives men would actually have for dating? If you’re going to disagree with the post, then at least provide some logic and reasoning. What does dating add to a man’s life? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/22 10:23 AM |
| 1 | The most shocking thing about the Red Pill, as a woman, is that Men need a Red Pill and that what is *generally* attractive to women isn't reasonably obviousI completely disagree so please explain because it seems as though you just don’t like the truth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/22 10:24 PM |
| 3 | The most shocking thing about the Red Pill, as a woman, is that Men need a Red Pill and that what is *generally* attractive to women isn't reasonably obviousThis post is sharing the truth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/22 05:51 PM |
| 3 | Men are more honest and faithful than women.Wives don’t even need to create a profile to cheat on their husbands. I find it very funny that you’d generalize both sexes by the number of users on ashleymadison, lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/22 07:12 AM |
| 0 | Sexless marriage is a form of abuse.I 100% agree that a sexless marriage is a form of abuse. Marriage is a job and duty that each party commits to. If you think withholding sex has no effect on a man’s mind, please do not hesitate to thoroughly read through this man’s experience. Having a sexless marriage would truly be a nightmare. I’m so happy that I still have my freedom and independence. If anything, file for divorce. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/22 06:48 AM |
| 2 | Could you be with a man who paid for sex with women in the past?I’m not spending a dime unless I know I’m getting laid. I’m not a misogynist because I respect women and it’s all consensual. Plus, they are very appreciative of my full transparency. I tend to be more romantic and enthusiastic knowing my time is well spent. The night ends with mutual climax and satisfaction as anticipated. Casual dating tends to be a mess of mind games, ghosting and a high probability for loss of funds without reward. I’ve never paid for sex but I don’t see it any different fro… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/22 06:41 AM |
| 5 | CMV: Men have to get their abundance mentality on the same level of women.Men can go mentally ill due to lack of sex (intimacy, human connection). Some commit suicide. Absolute isolation is the male experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/22 05:27 PM |
| 1 | Is it considered a female privilege that almost all women have access to live out all of their fetishes/sexual fantasies in real time with only the slightest of efforts?Because you’re illiterate. OP’s post clearly states “she would have to screen people, get to know them” ending with “we know, Reddit”- so yes, everyone is well aware of the risks from online dating which is not the emphasis of this thread. The concern has already been addressed. So rather than play dumb about being a Captain Obvious, try and contribute something relevant to the discussion. My problem is with trigger happy fembots that skim through reads to turn them around and vent about irrelev… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/22 07:29 PM |
| 1 | Never Having Unprotected Sex (unless married)Wow. If a woman made me wait 2+ months, I’d still be having sex with other women on the side. Sounds like a disaster situation waiting to be cheated on. Whatever makes you comfortable. Consent is very important but so is a man’s time. If I were him I would consent to breaking it off with you and find fulfillment elsewhere. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/22 04:44 PM |
| 1 | Is it considered a female privilege that almost all women have access to live out all of their fetishes/sexual fantasies in real time with only the slightest of efforts?WE KNOW REDDIT. For fucks sake, actually READ. The concern was already addressed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/22 04:31 PM |
| 1 | Marry A Virgin But it Turns Out You’re Not CompatibleWho said any of that? Are you delusional? That’s not even in the original post nor in my response. You’re either a troll, illiterate or both. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 06:49 AM |
| 1 | Marry A Virgin But it Turns Out You’re Not CompatibleYou really just read whatever you wanted and didn’t even digest the context smh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 04:38 AM |
| 4 | Is "the wall" something that really happens to women and affects them more than men?Just face it. A woman pulled over in her 30’s is getting that ticket versus a woman pulled over after her 21st birthday. The wall is certainly very really but the exaggerated aspect of it is certainly some sort of revenge fantasy, I guess. Personally, I prefer women past 35. But that’s just my preference. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/22 12:31 AM |
| 1 | Men: how many of you are willing to risk getting married?She will. They always do. This man thinks he won the lottery. But there’s a sucker born every second 😂 You will get divorced. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/22 01:54 PM |
| 2 | Would you wait to have sex until a relationship is formed?Seems like you simply skimmed over my initial statement- But had you actually read it you’d have clearly seen that I put emphasis on men seeking emotional connections. Rather than responding with your feelings, read thoroughly before you open your mouth and assume anyone that doesn’t kiss a woman’s ass is a misogynist.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/22 11:11 PM |
| 2 | Would you wait to have sex until a relationship is formed?What alternative strategy do you propose?? since being conservative with letting strangers control my wallet is so appalling to you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/22 09:07 PM |
| 1 | Would you wait to have sex until a relationship is formed?The time a man focuses on most women is the time he could be working overtime for his vacation. Instead, a man compromises his standards whenever he shows extra attention and kindness towards any woman that isn’t already fucking him. For men, dating is all about making wise financial investments. But I love how some women gaslight us into believing that men are the gatekeepers to officiating relationships. Actually, intimacy is the officiator. Most of us are NOT “pump and dump” kind of fellows- … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/22 01:28 PM |
| 1 | Study about female pair bonding?That’s a pretty bird brained response if you can’t figure out that all humans are still just animals… 😅 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/22 07:00 PM |
| 9 | Height statistics from Bumble; Is this your exp in OLDSounds like that person is bitter but I certainly appreciate your attempt to connect with aggressive-pride-458 on your similar experiences. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/22 05:57 AM |
| 1 | Men - what makes you a catch and why should a woman give you a chance?You mean the ones YOU have decided to meet up with. Take some accountability and change your taste in men and maybe also quit matching with every “ho” you meet on dating apps. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/22 03:00 AM |
| 1 | Women here love to say that their privilege is limited to casual sex, but access to relationships and casual sex are two sides of the same coinAll I know is that I immediately put in serious relationship amount of effort for a woman after sex. It’s difficult to find any motivation beforehand unless she’s got a really cool personality. But even so, I’m still not trying to waste my time with friendship on a woman that’s not interested in me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/22 07:02 AM |
| 2 | Women CONSTANTLY reiterate the axiom that “the standards for men are at an all time low” and that “the bar is on the floor. ” This is not only total bullshit, but an enormous slap in the face to the vast majority of males who are good people, many of whom are attractive and successful.All the men they want simply do NOT want them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/22 06:25 PM |
| 34 | Women have said they make "relationship material" men wait for sex because they care about them and they didn't care about the other guys or see a future with the other guys. What's the logic?That’s a bullshit rebuttal. Sex is absolutely used as leverage in relationships from both sexes.. But if she’s making you wait, it’s also because that’s all she has to offer, unfortunately. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/22 04:13 PM |
| 5 | I don’t want to have relationships, I just want to hook up with a girl.Don’t listen to a woman’s advice on this. She will only bullshit you. | /r/seduction | 10/05/22 12:15 PM |
| 3 | Girls not wearing make-up should be normalised.I try not to give too much attention to women that wear makeup. In fact, I only seriously pursue relationships with a woman if she’s all natural. You can call it “shallow” but I call it “preference”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/22 02:29 PM |
| 1 | would you be in a relationship with someone if sex is off the tableThen you’re not mature enough to handle a relationship nor do you even deserve one. Sex is intimacy and to deny achieving that also puts a stop to genuine romantic connection. That’s not even an opinion- it’s a fact. I feel sporty for whomever has to date you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/22 03:26 PM |
| 1 | FDS Users Are Mostly Low Social StatusI don’t know if you’re a real doctor but it’s common sense that the women on FDS are low in the dumps. That’s quite obvious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/22 12:46 PM |
| 1 | [FIELD REPORT] I pulled a pornstar in 15 minutes.Does his confidence make you feel insecure? I’m curious. “Creepy” is an odd word to choose considering his prospect was 100% receptive to the interaction. | /r/seduction | 26/04/22 09:06 AM |
| 1 | Women are invariably drawn to men who are taken and become way more attracted to a guy upon discovering he is spoken for. Most men are completely turned off when they learn a woman has a boyfriend or is married, which shows women are far more shallow than men who base their attraction on looks.I don’t know what reality you live in where ALL MEN are scumbags incapable of being righteous. Your response reveals more about you than OP. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/22 12:11 AM |
| 1 | Most women withhold sex because they are afraid they don’t offer anything elseIt’s 2022. If I want sex on demand, I’m not wasting my time with dating if there’s Pornhub for a quick wank... The problem is that women think it’s still the 80’s, 90’s and 00’s when men would ghost sex partners because it USED to be a numbers game. With all the hypergamy and overwhelming variety that dating apps offer women, men are now just looking for a quality woman to simply spend time with. Quantity is just a bad deal for both parties all around. Sex withholding is pure manipulation and it… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/22 08:32 PM |
| 16 | What are some examples of female privilege?Opinions aren’t based in fact and until you’ve got actual data to back up such a ridiculous claim that the VAST MAJORITY of men are rapists, I’m just going to assume you’re an uneducated misandrist, because that’s MY opinion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/22 09:43 PM |
| 15 | What are some examples of female privilege?Your logic implies that EVERY man available within the dating pool has intentions to rape you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/22 09:23 PM |
| 2 | can men and women be friends without attraction?Sounds like you didn’t read or simply you don’t know how to read. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/22 12:41 PM |
| 2 | “Ive had my fun, now where’s my fairytale ending?!” Top comments all sugar coated lies “you’ve got plenty of time, don’t worry!”“Everyone wants a fling.. but not me” Every woman with that logic will literally remain single forever. No Chad or alpha is coming to a fuck-less date. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 20/03/22 02:14 PM |
| 6 | How do you think advanced Sex dolls will affect relationships?You’ve really given serious thought to this 😅 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/22 02:26 AM |
| 6 | How do you think advanced Sex dolls will affect relationships?This will inevitably produce two separate communities. One community in favor of sexbot relationships whereas the other community will prefer traditional relationships. Everyone gets what they want and rejection is little to none. However naturally, an opposition likely arises that can only be explained by conservatism and jealousy. The matter is much less binary than people assume because it will be integrated into society and as normalized as online dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/22 09:51 PM |
| 7 | Men are hypergamous too, but with looksMost men find a “sexual woman” to be hot. I’ll even overlook her flaws if she’s a “sexual woman”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/22 11:31 AM |
| 1 | Both the Redpill and FDS seem to be primarily Low Socioeconomic Status inidividualsFDS is short for Fuglies Done Searching. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/22 11:28 AM |
| 7 | Straight women who have had (or hope to have) "hookups" or "one night stands" or whatever, what made you do it? Or, what would make you do it? What attracts/attracted you to that person?You’ve totally contradicted yourself. You’ve also made it crystal clear that this question is not directed towards you. Any statement you provide is useless information to actually answering OP’s initial question. You’re simply here muddying the waters with your input due to the fact that YOU’RE NOT the target audience being asked. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/22 05:47 PM |
| 2 | Curiosity Post: What famous people do you find sexually attractive?Kate Beckinsale - Monica Bellucci - Megan Thee Stallion - Christina Hendricks - Sharon Lee | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/22 02:36 PM |
| 12 | Is the gist of the argument of most male posters here "women should BECOME attracted to the average man"Too many fucking Disney movies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 10:22 AM |
| 0 | Shaming single men for relying on porn is bad and cruelIf she doesn’t “give up the goods” on the first date then there won’t be a second. Men are allowed to have preferences too, especially when deciding on a potentially life altering commitment through a relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/22 08:14 AM |
| 6 | RedPilled men: What qualities in a woman would it take for you to agree in good faith to an exclusive relationship with a girl.If he’s making a commitment then he gets to set his conditions in a relationship. And believe it or not but men are allowed to have preferences without it being misogynistic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/22 10:29 PM |
| 1 | RedPilled men: What qualities in a woman would it take for you to agree in good faith to an exclusive relationship with a girl.She’s got to be a nymphomaniac that allows me exclusive sexual access. Plus, she’s got to be brutally honest. Those are two of the easiest requests to fulfill and I’d be willing to provide the world for her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/22 10:24 PM |
| 3 | Girl on the left cooks, cleans, loves and respects you and is loyal...girl on right fucks your brains out daily but can't cook or clean and is a huge cheating risk, who you choosing?Whether there’s a picture or not, I’m going with the nympho. So even if you just swapped their personalities, I will still choose the one that fucks my brains out daily but can’t cook or clean and is a huge cheating risk. Why? Because sexual access to men is scarce or otherwise completely nonexistent. Her consent is all I need if she wants me to easily fall in love with her. I believe if a woman truly respects me as a man, she’ll recognize that my mental sanity is directly related to me being se… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/21 01:31 PM |
| 4 | If all you want is sex, you will looseThe best relationships begin through casual sex. In fact, I won’t go on a date unless I’ve gotten confirmation that I will be getting laid by the end of the evening. It’s pure communication, consent and transparency. Chivalry will come naturally because I know I won’t be wasting my time. I’m also more likely to prioritize her climax over my own. Men’s minds are biologically wired for sex in ways that some women just refuse to understand. I personally enjoy a woman that DOES understand and is wil… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/21 02:36 PM |
| 2 | How to spot an FDS kween on dating apps.Or only cleavage pics. Dead give away. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 20/08/21 12:57 AM |
| 3 | Man overhears his girlfriend admit to a promiscuous past with hot guys, and realizes he's the safe guy.I really want to believe you’re telling the truth but I know I never will. And yes the bitter hating is strong but definitely not “all women”, that’s very extreme. Just the ones that deserve it. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 08/08/21 04:42 AM |
| 1 | reasonable requests.. any takers?Can’t get pregnant? Say less! 😍 | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 30/07/21 03:32 AM |
| 7 | Put up with my crap... Fly for free!Men aren’t entitled to sex. Fine. I 100% respect consent. But women aren’t entitled to a gentleman either and they should 100% understand that. Modern day dating IS transactional- PERIOD. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 23/07/21 06:53 AM |
| 2 | If you were a catch, you wouldn’t have to announce you’re a catch. At least she posts all her red flagsFemale Dating Strategy probably got her all gassed up 😂 Literal monsters on that subreddit, lol | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 03/07/21 04:55 AM |
| 35 | Cheaters birthday cake.Correct me if I’m wrong but does that indeed say trifling bitch? | /r/PussyPassDenied | 20/05/21 06:15 AM |
| 2 | Any takers looking to multiply their stresses and responsibilities?🧒🧒🧒That’s all she wants though is to be told she DESERVES the world. If there’s anyone willing to validate her fabricated reality (you know the one she’s been constructing in her mind since the very first Disney movie she ever watched). The one that promised her a Prince Charming and a castle if she waits long enough 😂 | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 08/05/21 08:45 PM |
| 2 | Be polite or have regretsI NEED AUDIO!!! 😬 | /r/PussyPassDenied | 07/05/21 03:38 AM |
| 99 | Maybe if I cry next time I get pulled over I’ll get a free passEasy, she was fucking the cop 🤓 | /r/PussyPassDenied | 20/04/21 06:40 AM |
| 2 | Maybe if I cry next time I get pulled over I’ll get a free passShe’s a fucking sociopath to bank off of someone else’s empathy for her. That’s how men get cucked, robbed and broken. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 20/04/21 06:36 AM |
| 2 | Hispanic-American single mom looking for a 6foot tall, white, blue or green-eyed, country boy to take care another man's offspring and buy a whole bunch of land in Texas to settle down on. Any takers?“I like white boys” Translation: “I’ve been indoctrinated by the mainstream media into believing that anual income is determined by ethnicity and that success comes in the form of ‘Caucasian’. I’m also broke and hoping to ride on your coattails to secure that acreage!” I give her five more years before she’s another swamp monster settling down with the first Peter Griffin desperate enough to comply to her demands. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 29/03/21 09:13 AM |
| 7 | Imagine if he was taking pictures of her...She’s totally oblivious. Where is the consent? 🧐 | /r/PussyPassDenied | 13/03/21 03:47 AM |
| 12 | A true pussypassdenied momentCriticism is not misogyny. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 17/01/21 10:50 AM |
| 19 | It’s not Porn, it’s fun.Sexbots are coming. We’ve just got to be patient. But this patience is wearing thin.... especially during a pandemic. Fuck this dating scene... | /r/PussyPassDenied | 10/01/21 12:18 AM |
| 9 | Looking for male perspectiveWell, what makes you a good catch for a wife? What are your skills for employment? Ask yourself these questions because it sounds like he’s well off and you’re just along for the ride? Correct me if I’m wrong. But from reading what you wrote this situation doesn’t seem complicated at all. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/10/20 08:14 AM |
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