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FDS MEMEScupittycakes/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 07:45 AM
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FDS MEMEScupittycakes/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 10:43 PM
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QUEEN SH*Tcupittycakes/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 09:55 AM
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FDS MEMEScupittycakes/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 03:28 PM
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REMINDER 👑cupittycakes/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 06:56 AM
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FDS HUMORcupittycakes/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 12:55 PM
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FDS MEMEScupittycakes/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 12:40 AM
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FDS HUMORcupittycakes/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 03:50 AM
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SCROTES MADcupittycakes/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 11:16 AM
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SHOWER THOUGHTcupittycakes/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 01:29 AM
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PICKME CULTUREcupittycakes/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 04:12 PM
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MOOD FOR LIFEcupittycakes/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 08:47 AM
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ROAST-A-SCROTEcupittycakes/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 04:08 AM
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MOOD FOR LIFEcupittycakes/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 01:26 AM
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FDS MOVIES & TVcupittycakes/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 10:15 AM
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PORN SICK, LIMP DICKcupittycakes/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/20 10:38 PM
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cupittycakes/r/askFDS01/03/22 05:21 AM
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FDS HUMORcupittycakes/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 11:47 AM
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ROAST-A-SCROTEcupittycakes/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 08:36 AM
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MOOD FOR LIFEcupittycakes/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 05:54 AM
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COUCH CREATUREScupittycakes/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 05:22 PM
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QUEEN SH*Tcupittycakes/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 04:03 PM
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QUEEN SH*Tcupittycakes/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 09:33 AM
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cupittycakes/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/20 10:37 PM
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FIELD REPORT cupittycakes/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/20 10:38 PM
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SEEKING ADVICEcupittycakes/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 11:20 PM
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STAY WOKEcupittycakes/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 01:11 AM
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ROAST-A-SCROTEcupittycakes/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 08:27 AM
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MALE DEPRAVITYcupittycakes/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 08:57 PM
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REDDIT HATES WOMENcupittycakes/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 10:04 PM
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QUEEN SH*Tcupittycakes/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 09:28 AM
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QUEEN SH*Tcupittycakes/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 09:28 AM
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QUEEN SH*Tcupittycakes/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 09:28 AM
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I thought about trying contacting through the website but didn't bother yet... Sounds like it won't work anyway...
/r/askFDS04/03/22 09:31 AM
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I see this has happened to quite a few ladies. Idk how much this is actually helping the FDS community when it is in fact harming legit women bc mods are not reimplementing real members Maybe more mods need to be recruited so that there are enough to help with something like this
/r/askFDS04/03/22 09:31 AM
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I mean at this point I will make a second account, but that is truly a hassle and isn't any safer for me. I stay anonymous under this account so I never needed another one. I just don't see myself scrolling on two separate accounts
/r/askFDS04/03/22 09:28 AM
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To add, I do not follow that sub, it was just a random thread that came up on the frontpage bc it got popular
/r/askFDS01/03/22 05:22 AM
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Ok but the first and last ones made my brain explode🤯 First one: wanting so young BUT STILL BE SAYING THE LADY WOULD HAVE TO PAY $400 MONTH, WTF WTF Last one: he is morbidly obese with those requirements
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 05:37 PM
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BINGO literally first thought after I finished reading about her trash circumstance
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 12:45 PM
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"of course"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 01:44 AM
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What I don't like is how it's like "the left is pro pedophilia, the right is the sane side" Uh no, fck that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 01:09 AM
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... the pink slime in their bathtubs/showers... Like how bruh? You see that, I know you do. Even if you don't big clean, scrubbing it quickly with a wash cloth while showering takes it away
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 11:04 PM
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And I guarantee this isn't a normal cotton towel or whatever, it's one of those moisture wicking towels specifically for hair. Did his parents have special moisture wicking towels? Probably not And WHY would his parents be paying attention to her after the shower!? And WHY would they care how she takes care of herself!? And WHHHHYYY is he so insecure about all of this over a towel!? Sheesh. What an idiotic jerk
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 06:20 AM
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That's a big wall of text. Paragraphs are easier to read if you think about it in the future. Thank you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 09:34 PM
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And the fact that he practically begged her to do it bc of how he abused her, but the why is not as well known as the what
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/21 01:16 AM
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Well put. Some of the commenters I wanted to ask what they did to feel sexy, or if they ever cared to feel sexy... But I didn't want to come off as rude. Just some of the replies read like women should never want to feel sexy bc sexiness was invented for/by men... baffles me a little... especially since this is a sub for women who want to successfully partner with men Like of course don't degrade self, but.... yea it feels neo-puritanist...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/21 12:49 AM
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I think it's great. Women still want to feel sexy or free or have fun, whatever their reason And we can talk about being "sexy" means doing so for the male gaze... But not always. At the end of the day, we are women, who want men... And who occasionally want to feel sexy for themselves or for men, usually both. Like I've always thought the song and video of Beyonce's "Dance for You" is so sexy/goals Like she's singing and dancing for her man and feeling appreciative and good for what he does for…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/21 03:45 PM
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No they don't, instead they claim it doesn't happen/made up/faked for clout
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/21 02:10 PM
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And if they did, what kind of husband stays friends with anyone that would say that about their wife, red flags everywhere
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/21 06:12 PM
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It's kinda awful that when I'm fully willing to extend my whole hearted friendship (and nothing more, nothing sexual) I have learned that majority of men do not want more friends I've had guys straight up want to date me, but when I explained I need a friendship, tell me they don't need more friends.... Like fuck you dude, you want to date me but can't even bother trying to be my friend? GTFO miss me with that. This has happened too many times to count So I've learned a sly dance of never fully …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 06:01 PM
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Lol so if you wanted him to be faithful and monogamous then you're... Sex negative!?😂😂😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 04:14 PM
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Doesn't surprise me. Women leave tinder bc we don't want the hookups... So those hookup men follow women to the relationship app to ruin it too! Oh I've encountered them there, but you can still report their profiles at least, idk if hinge actually does anything though
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 06:51 PM
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When I travel back to my hometown, everyone on hinge is the exact same neckbeard. It's because any actual hot or decent guy with a good job does not need to be OLD when he can just go out and pick up ladies easy bc... Like I said, most all the dudes look the SAME (it ain't great) and have less successful jobs Luckily where I live now is full of high paying careers and attractive men I feel bad for ya girl, that your area is low on options bc it feels so dead end. Seriously, move to a better area…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 06:21 PM
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Hinge is suppose to be for looking for relationships only Of course take that with a grain of salt bc many guys still try to coffee/drinks meet, but I've had many men start with asking to take me on a proper dinner date. I feel like it is different from tinder bc I have really met men who seem to be looking for a relationship as opposed to hookup... But still met the hookup dudes too, just not a much... But tinder is basically ONLY for hookup And the plus side is you can report someone if they t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 06:15 PM
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I use my best pictures and angles but never a filter. I've seen women guilty of it too but NO ONE should EVER use a filter in their dating profile
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 06:04 PM
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And why they hate FDS soooo much. If all women would implore these standards... Well many many more people would be single and celibate😆😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 06:01 PM
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This is miniscule in comparison... But I was getting on the bus as one male was getting off- I could tell he was arguing with someone else on the bus and last thing I heard him say before the doors closed was something like "you're lucky I didn't pull my gun out and shoot you".... I looked at the people around me like "that guy really talking about shooting on a bus full of people!?" And others told me the argument got pretty scary/intense before the bus driver told him to get off And another ti…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 08:23 AM
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When I was ~13 or 14 I put an ad on our local "craigslist type" of paper A creepy man called and said he had a 13 year old son who needed a baby sitter, if I could stay the night with him, trying to escalate into creeper things But I hung up pretty quickly bc it sounded all too familiar to the same creepy man with a 13 year old son that had harassed my oldest sister 3 years prior when she had put the same ad in the paper, and she had told me about it I wish we had of thought to contact the polic…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/21 06:54 AM
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Once in my highschool years, a bf wrote me a nice letter... Found out by the time we graduated that it was from a monologue of a movie with my name in the title😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/21 07:21 AM
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Just call HOA and make a noise complaint. You don't even have to specify it's sex noises, just that your neighbors are very loud, screaming, yelling, moaning, after hours You may have to make numerous complaints before they issue a warning to the neighbors but they should eventually inform them to quiet down
/r/askFDS29/10/21 07:19 PM
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Crown w/ KING.... bc bet there is an ex of his out there with the matching QUEEN and crown 😆😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 11:15 PM
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I wonder if it's because the parents are more focused on their own sexual satisfaction rather than focusing on raising the children
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 03:57 AM
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It's a comment from a previous video but lately TT has been botching those up and doesn't always show the text
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 07:42 PM
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At my university, psych withdrawal was something you initiated thru CAPS, but it basically gives you time off and let's you come back when your ready CAPS stands for Counseling And Psychological Services, so that would be first to find if your school has that, if not, talk to your advisor on what to do. I'm assuming you may have missed classes and assignments bc of this? Remember that life never ends and it will never be too late for you to recover and get back in school regardless of what happe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 03:26 AM
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Does your school have a psychological withdrawal program? Please go talk to CAPS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 01:11 AM
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And how do they miss the point of women feeling vengeful against oppression for the violence, control, and hatred put upon us since the beginning of time?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 07:04 PM
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Girl, sounds good to me, I'm thinking about taking this approach, good ass advice 😌 I have an anxious attachment style and have a really hard time letting go/blocking... But questions sounds like it will make things real obvious What works for you, works And f*** Reddit 'rules' we can use emojis here 🤡🤡🤡
/r/askFDS05/09/21 11:09 PM
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Honestly I'm doing the teeny bopper game... It's not healthy to have crushes on real life ppl you know... But it's safer to "crush" on someone you'll not meet... Bc you can safely exercise your fantasies without any pressure or hurt from the man And his tiktok isn't overly sexual but definitely quenches a thirst that I'm not comfortable drinking from any other man in my life so freely at the current He's soooo hoooot🥵
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 08:21 AM
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I honestly think it's to make the father stay/feel connected/care... But it doesn't always work...
/r/askFDS10/05/21 04:52 AM
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Lol what!? I mean I can guess what they are saying... something about trying real hard to be oppressed?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 09:06 AM
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"I pray it becomes clearer" 😂😂 Me too girlie, me too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 08:57 AM
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Facts facts facts! Btw, happy cake day! 🎂🎉
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 08:54 AM
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You can catch that perfectly groomed beard and know he does, but here's proof🤭😻 https://vm.tiktok.com/ZMebaVjPq/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 08:51 AM
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I don't know if I can handle this🌡️🌶️🥵
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 07:58 AM
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If it helps, it's his last name and idk if he's ever been in the service but it could be bc of that or pride in his family name At least it's not his first name, which is Thoran and very cute... But would be more cringe to tat your own first name😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 07:52 AM
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Wow, this reinforcement from a mod helped assure me these were not fds ideals I really felt that I was seeing the 'toxic' part of this sub that we hear other redditors say about us here Everyone has opinions of course, but still, it did feel like 'incel' type vibes Thanks for the fun idea and for being a great mod🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 04:03 AM
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Not you trying to shame me for my sexuality. It is not pickme at all to be attracted to attractive men. The "hot guy day" is not about picking hvms, it's about eye candy. Because women are allowed to like sexy men. No more dad bod brainwash talk and such I didn't post this for 'the men' I posted this in spirit of the new "hot guy day" we are going to implement. I understand not everyone here is straight, and that's great, but the handbook, the whole baseline for why this sub was started, is navi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 03:30 AM
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I don't think it can be considered the level of creepiness that men do. Groups of men have gang raped women... Groups of women do not gang rape men So the inherent danger isn't even there, the oppression isn't there, therefore it can't be sexist or creepy or scary But as a woman's only space, about dating men, we have men on our minds, therefore it is still very much a woman's space... And it will be only one designated day, so not all over. I don't like seeing some post that come up here that h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 01:59 AM
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I think it will make their "male hate sub" arguments less because, unfortunately, we very much like men. So I like the idea of a day to just show out... Plus we do not like dad bods- which I think is where the idea actually came from. And I don't worship men, but I am very much still respectfully lustful. This guy's tiktoks hasn't shown me anything misogynistic and I like watching him to be reminded of the beauty of men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 01:46 AM
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This is true... He can't comment here so instead he messaged... And now you gave him his very own post...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 01:41 AM
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Dad rapes babysitter. Can't be pedo daddy's fault. Stupid whore child babysitter seducing pedo daddy /S
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 01:40 AM
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I like frisky Friday! It's cute!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 01:02 AM
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I can't tell you his many times I've had a guy try to get close to me and I'm like "Nah, I'm actually interested in a friendship" Then I'll get hit with something like "I don't need anymore friends" Uummm... Ok f***wad... You absolutely don't want my friendship but expect me instead to open up my actual body and the most intimate part of my soul to you!? And no, I don't want guys becoming my friend with end goal to sleep with me... But I'll never sleep with someone who doesn't form a bond with m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 08:41 PM
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Split down the the middle, so sh*t girl, I think it was😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 09:48 AM
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Hilarious, yes! I actually like it too bc hopefully a woman will read it and be like, "what she says was fact... Let me check out this FDS..." It is how most of us found our way here...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 12:57 AM
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I remember one guy I was smitten by his profile already. Tall, hot, smart, PhD in my field of study, activist. Like chef's kiss Bro asked me out for drinks... "Oh, thank you for the offer but I don't do drink dates" Him: then asks me out for a coffee date "Oh, thank you for the offer but I don't do coffee dates as first dates" Him: "I'd love to meet you, what is a date that you'd like?" So this dude couldn't possibly think of another first date idea beyond drinks or coffee... 🤦 So I tell him din…
/r/askFDS29/04/21 11:19 PM
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The dude sounds like he only wanted to f*** you and nothing more. You dodged a bullet!!
/r/askFDS28/04/21 11:02 PM
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It mostly looks like he's mad bc he doesn't want to put ANY effort into catching his next f*** buddy So he's so offended she suggested another cafe bc it NEEDS TO BE THE ONE THEY CAN WALK TO HIS PLACE FROM AND HAVE SEX WHAT A B**** FOR NOT MAKING IT AS EASY AS POSSIBLE FOR HIS D*** /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 09:15 PM
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We be chattin' 😎
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 05:11 PM
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I wish she would have said what part of the brain, I can't remember it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 02:46 PM
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"started keeping score of domestic duties." Admits he fell short and calls it little sh*t... But he is just flabbergasted at his wife's disconnection from him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 10:46 AM
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The link isn't going anywhere?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 10:16 AM
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Exactly! And then these are just the things he brought himself to admit out loud to her and 2 other ppl... There were worse things that he did but didn't tell her... He killed that snail and that's the main reason it was so funny to him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 03:16 AM
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I just saw on Twitter, a white redneck looking man calling a black woman "Karen" bc she was in agreeance with Biden's take on gun control I saw on TikTok someone calling a white women a Karen bc she was packing up her dinner togo and moved out of frame when a group of black people started a flash dance Both of these were used in a way to call the woman a b*tch when she was doing literally nothing wrong We should not embrace this, and I agree with the other commenter saying the problem is using a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 07:38 PM
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I understand why/how it was coined, but that's not what it is anymore- and boys/men and ppl of all races love to use it more than anyone now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 03:48 PM
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It's the new way to call women b!tches
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 03:14 PM
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Some absolute quack wrote that "sex is not about your pleasure" UM EXCUSE ME WHAT def stand up for your pleasure Idk try having soft music or a fan on in the background, put on pillow over your face to block out any distractions, wear t-shirt, just whatever you feel most comfortable Just don't have sex unless you cum If you have sex, make him start slow with that too, until you're ready for a faster pace Every man I've had sex with, and basically every time I've had sex, I always always have to …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 01:57 PM
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Men don't leave unless they have another one on the line
/r/askFDS08/04/21 01:04 PM
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Even if you're not sure he has another girl, that shouldn't matter bc you need to get over him His reaction of getting ANGRY at your crying is extreme, like dude sounds like he would end up being abusive bc anger is not a normal reaction to your drunk crying gf who wanted to cuddle. He doesn't meet your needs So just tell yourself that he does have another girl And I think I remember reading you are in therapy? Tell your therapist about these ruminating thoughts, be open to medication bc it coul…
/r/askFDS08/04/21 12:59 PM
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Tell yourself he has another girl, everytime you think about him just repeat that over and over. Stop thinking about him, but if you can't- remember he has another girl Dude ain't dropping easy sex unless he has another one on the line That's why he doesn't want to talk, he has nothing to resolve He doesn't think twice about you Also repeat that in your head when he comes to your mind (bc he really is not thinking about you) These are two mantras that helped me when my fiance of a 6 year relatio…
/r/askFDS08/04/21 12:31 PM
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Oh, also, he already has another girl
/r/askFDS08/04/21 12:25 PM
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It really is crazy how quickly they detach, like a f***ing light switch
/r/askFDS08/04/21 12:23 PM
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Some guys will just start acting like sh*t in a relationship so that the girl will end it
/r/askFDS08/04/21 12:16 PM
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Yea this is how I basically answer Like "yea of course, it's a basic life skill! What's your favorite dish to make?" So that way, we both have an opportunity to talk about what we like to cook or even if we like to
/r/askFDS07/04/21 08:34 AM
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I've seen many redditors be like "I don't have to clean. If I'm comfortable with my level of cleanliness- it's on her if she wants it cleaner. It's her problem, not mine" ... something along those lines That's such an awful way to look at it It's not like most women have OCD, but cleanliness is A+....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 01:15 AM
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I love this advice 🤭😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 04:39 AM
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I am by no means close to conservative... BUT I finally agreed with one of the conservative policies I heard about Can't remember which state, but they passed a law or are in the stages to passing a law that prohibits selling phones and tablets that have access to any of the porn sites I'm sure ppl can buy out of state phones and of course this is flawed... and the phone companies are fighting against it But like, how else do we stop children and teens having free access to endless amounts of po…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 09:17 PM
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Haha, ok, here is the one of her doing a meeting about the cell battery! https://vm.tiktok.com/ZMePYvWyC/ She is using the sound from another guy tiktokker, but I swear these sounds are made for her!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 09:02 PM
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There is a tik tok user who does skits of a "toxica" meeting- they are hilarious. Like "all men lie, always be suspicious, they are cheating, only allow so much phone time, never let him go out with a full charged battery" just being hilarious... Anyway, your comment made me think of the skits bc she always ends it with " remember ladies, we are not the same" 🤔😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 07:23 PM
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And it's not true men attempt to end their life more than women, it's that's men often do it with a more fatal means- such as guns or hangings when women more commonly go with pills or slitting wrists Women are 3x more likely to actually attempt suicide, but again, men's attempts are more fatal and severe. This does not mean they are suffering more than women It's all grim AF, but it's a really weak argument for men's rights, especially when 87.3% of guys who say that are just parroting and don'…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 04:16 PM
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Imagine if men really did get hit with a 6pm curfew so women can walk home safely (Besides them being pissed 🤣) you would probably see the 'not all men' of the men making sure women were protected from the psychos, like being more proactive about it The men who hurt women would be eliminated from the streets with harsher/longer prison sentences or straight beatings from other men bc they would be angry at those men whose actions are taking their freedoms away. Like men would set up tree stands a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 10:17 AM
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And then her* friend recording it in the back is giggling and says something like: "this bish been this crazy since middle school"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 10:11 AM
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Oh fun! I love funny ppls😍😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 06:14 AM
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WOOOOOOW I appreciate the conversation he THINKS he is trying to have... But to speak so absolutely like he knows the minds and emotions of all women and to categorize them so absolutely like that... is... it's... I- I can't ...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 06:11 AM
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That is the most annoying thing about this, he was 'obsessed' but can't articulate they WHY of wanting a child- or at least won't tell reddit... I'm glad he made this post to open an eye to this sh*t but I still hates him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 05:44 AM
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I've seen men, IRL men, say that a woman is broken if by 32 she is not married, a mother, or at least divorced- something like that. Sooo.... 'something must be wrong with her' if she is not tied to a man in some way... WTF!? Other ppl do not define who you are, men do not define you I instantly hated the fat neckbeard who said it to me in casual conversation, I had to actively walk away and calm myself down. My date at the time thought it was hilarious but luckily he didn't say any dumb sh*t
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 09:36 PM
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This could be harmful to your children It's sounds awful, but a good rule of thumb is to avoid the unfortunate and unlucky My own father became obsessive over my 'best friend' (who was a 'stray' and an expert on emotional manipulation) and placed himself in between us and chose his obsession for her over his (non existent) love for me Imagine the emotional fuckery that caused me Anyway, it sounds like a sweet thing to do but remember your children always come first
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 09:29 PM
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And if the porn actress doesn't sign off on consent after, even if it actually really did get rapey and went past her boundaries or hurt her, then she doesn't get paid... The actresses should still get paid regardless if they say their truth that it became rape- then maybe directors would be needingly strict on how the scene will go... and the actors who crossed boundaries would be ostracized or prosecuted... This is what I've read from former porn stars, so... I'm guessing they know how it goes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 11:04 PM
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There was a question asking reddit the most disturbing movie they can only watch once and never again... Some commenter replied they hated rape scenes in any movie It led to many commenters agreeing and whatnot... But they made an edit to their comment (I wonder if they were brigaded in messages by ppl shouting 'kinkshaming' or something) stating they can watch rape porn all day and it's great... Uumm... So 'artistic rape' that is portrayed as real is horrible to you... But then rape is okay if …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 09:05 PM
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I have never seen an 'alpha' actually refer to himself or think of himself as an 'alpha' They don't need that validation, bc they validate themselves through their actions
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 02:23 AM
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Swearing just sounds low class and it doesn't sound good in the professional world Cursing here and there, sure ... But barely having a vocabulary outside of cursing is... Well... Trashy Try to cut out the sailor language and you'll notice how crass it sounds when others do it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 05:34 PM
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These are huge red flags Sounds like he is a narcissist and thinks he is the most important person in the world... All from these major red flags
/r/askFDS27/02/21 02:46 AM
4

What do they use pepe for?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 04:46 PM
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Because there are not enough women in power yet
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 04:18 AM
3

Why was it removed?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 04:13 AM
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And even the difference in how much violence in environments in men's vs women's prisons I watched 90 days in and in one jail the guys were all like WE MUST STAY SEGREGATED OR I'LL BEAT YOUR A** BC YOU'LL DIE IN PRISON WHEN YOU GO IF YOU DON'T STICK WITH YOUR RACE... vs the women's jail didn't give a damn about segregating and mostly all were 'friends'/socialized There was a guy who didn't agree with segregating and literally got attacked because of it Like, wtf, WHY!? I don't think women genera…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 04:09 AM
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I've had too many reddit scrotes argue with me on that, like it's all they have Basic human decency is not subjective
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 10:42 PM
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Dear lorty I'm so scared for you entering the dating scene when you are this naive to need to ask if this vile and manipulative behavior is a red flag You should report his account to that dating site bc of all of this Don't ever answer sexual questions for a man, you don't have to, he doesn't have a right to know about your past like that... Especially one who isn't dating you He was using you for free sexting, he was jerking off to your conversation I'm so sorry that happened to you But please…
/r/askFDS22/02/21 08:23 PM
2

Hey, a campy fun 'feministish' movie is 'Me You Madness' I found it really funny and fun Her life is so damn decadent minus the psychopath stuff😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 12:37 PM
3

What was the original ending? Is anyone able to post what original ending vs current ending was with spoiler black out?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 12:36 PM
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A jealous friend is not a friend I say dump her completely, but if you can't do that, start treating her like an acquaintance, don't spend much time with her or tell her about your personal life... Keep your distance I dealt with a jealous friend before and it took far too long and far too many times of forgiving her before I finally cut her off from me completely, but I did not walk away unscathed because she caused deep, painful, and permanent problems in my life As for the guy, keep vetting h…
/r/askFDS21/02/21 05:21 PM
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I am a firm believer in all you said, out of sight, out of mind BUT I did get tipsy one night and slipped up, the 1 in a million thing happened though and it made me feel better... I discovered his gf (the one he's been with every since "us" and is his wife or will be one day... I just classify them as married already bc why not?, I'll never know one way or another, I'll never "creep" again) Is an ANTI MASKER AND TRUMPER I DIED bc it was so funny/such a relief that she was literally a complete i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 10:24 AM
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Yea... Guys are physically different from women... What as jerk My highschool swim team had male and female, the fastest girl on the team broke records, then broke her own records, and was always coming in first... But her record breaking time was what basically all the boys could do, even the new freshmen Her husband is trash for feeling threatened and then diminishing her time/goals It's not as big of an accomplishment for him to cover the time she did, f***ing loser
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 12:01 AM
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What did this post violate to be removed?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 12:31 PM
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Oh, and in comparison to the women, men are more likely to first receive WARNINGS F*** the patriarchy for real!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 11:17 AM
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90-94% of these teacher pedophiles are men compared to women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 09:18 AM
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As a teen, my sis tried setting me up with someone she worked with... I was so appalled at how unattractive he was that I NEVER let her even try suggesting setting me up with someone ever again... I saw what she thought I deserved Fast forward 15 years and she is a MARRIED woman, who tries to suggest setting me up with a cop who was heavily hitting on her at her work... She's horrible, no I don't want ugly and no I don't want trash who disrespects you and your marriage... And who wanted you firs…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 05:10 PM
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Why are you posting about a NVM here? If this post ended with "and then I told him to kick rocks" then it would be fine But your like "he watches porn, triangulates me, gaslights me, and will go to a strip club even though I don't like it 😭😭😭" This isn't an FDS quality post Do better for yourself girl
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 09:21 AM
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Yes yes yes You did too much, gave too much of yourself to a lvm who does not care about you
/r/askFDS12/02/21 01:04 AM
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You ideally shouldn't be sleeping with anyone after the third date like that (and that's advice for women without a sexually traumatic past) Texting/phone calls for months do not count, guys love doing that bc it's such low low effort This man was not your boyfriend, you didn't need to disclose anything Wait until your dating and in love before you have sex with the next guy, might be awhile but we have TOYS HONEY- invest in some amazing ones and still don't disclose your trauma, ever You're not…
/r/askFDS12/02/21 12:55 AM
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Exactly this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 11:07 AM
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I knew a woman who did this, not married, he was abusive basically the entire relationship, and guess what- she's raising a child (with a different last name than hers) all alone with the father NO WHERE in site She finally ended it when he started abusing the child... she doesn't go for child support because she doesn't want the child ever alone with him or negatively influenced by him again (the few years he was in the child's life was like he literally tried teaching the kid how to be a sh*t …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 11:06 AM
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I can't help it sometimes though... I'll be up in my insomnia and then want to have the last word because I know it's what they want... Lol, petty sure, but it makes me laugh and helps me get sleepy We all know that one sub where rewards can be obtained for doing dumb things... and how everytime there is confrontation between a man and woman, there are the misogynists who "hudurdur EqUaL RiGhTs EqUaL LeFtS" so sometimes I'll call out the misogyny (and queue the downvotes)... The other day there …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 10:50 AM
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TOO MANY MEN
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 10:35 AM
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"emotions are brain vomit" Ok bruh, you just let the world know you are mentally handicapped with incredibly low emotional IQ
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 11:43 PM
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I've seen some truly cringe stuff that ariana was groomed to do by her pedophilic director from whatever show she was on as a minor... Like licking/sucking her toes.... Ick
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 11:07 PM
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Bahahaha, when I used to serve I would ask if separate or same check AT THE VERY BEGINNING just to make it easier on me/quicker for them 😆😆😆 I would love to have a server do that on every date so you can know to leave before even ordering!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 10:56 PM
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Lol my ex would leave water all over the sink like y'all are talking about and I'd go in after him and make a comment like "you're so messy" He'd be like "no that's not messy, I cleaned the sink" as I used the hand towel to dry it up... But my sink stays clean so at least he cleaned after himself but didn't think the puddles were a problem
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 08:45 PM
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If it's on hinge I report them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 09:47 AM
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And all she asked for was A PIZZA AT HIS PLACE.... Don't ever be that naive and easy girl but my god he didn't even want to spend $20 to feed himself and you combined
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 07:47 AM
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And it's coping for their wee brains Rather than "I liked her but have must not held her interest or attraction" after a date where he gets no sexs or no second date, it's a cope to say "oh that greedy b**** used me"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 07:40 AM
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That is exactly what will happen Imagine if this AH sent it to a man/the boss, would he still find it as funny or unprofessional AF
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 08:05 PM
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http://chng.it/J226v68Gnr If this post is not allowed, please do remove Mods But I came across this mother's tiktok and she is fighting for her son so hard She is at about 91k signatures as of today and maybe we can come together as a sisterhood and add more signatures to reach the goal to make the state act and arrest this pedophile I couldn't think of another subreddit I follow to post this as where it would be allowed/received better than this one Thanks ladies Edit: more story from her other…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 09:00 PM
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Ok I did a little Google and I believe it was Tamy Lyn and there were some update articles about her this summer (also should be in an update "where are they now" 600life episode eventually) The articles stated she was doing good and had dumped the cheating husband but still co-parenting/friendly with him.... And she might have a new man? Pretty sure this was her though Don't know if it was Portland though
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 03:38 AM
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It's been a couple years and I didn't watch the show consistently so I'm not sure about who it was I do remember her doing good in spite of the man leaving, I agree and hope she is well
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 05:34 PM
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I remember watching an episode of my600lblife and the woman's bf or whatever he was left her during her journey (for another woman) She moved closer to the doctor on her own and continued her progress. I guess the other woman didn't put up with the NVM and he came back to her... But he convinced her to move away from the doctor/back to where they originally lived... I watched this before I started learning about specific types of abuse on fds... But I just knew something was off about that man..…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 02:10 PM
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I know there are skin barrier lotions and I'm wondering if you have tried one acceptable for face? It could be worth a Google 🤷‍♀️ Maybe you could put spot treatment on first, let it dry, then put the skin barrier cream on after
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 01:59 PM
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Keep the conversations under 5 mins too, if he wants more FaceTime he can email you a gift card for door dash or Uber eats and y'all can have dinner over zoom together
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 03:54 AM
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Right!!! And if I'm meeting someone for the first time- I want to be dolled up to the nines- beat face, nails, toes & hair did, heels, fit on point... And I sure AF ain't doing that for WALKING or coffee or GD Chili's even Men come correct or don't come at all... I'm bringing my best and I need you to do the same Thanks, appreciate
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 03:49 AM
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No Do not chase this man Do not explain to him how he should treat women If he WANTED to, he WOULD HAVE... but HE DIDN'T Besides, that's on him for not confirming with you the date. If a man wants to take you out but doesn't confirm the day of- then block and delete is the right move.... Not only did he not confirm but he blew you off Save your dignity If you chase this man, you will end up with a broken heart whether it be 2 months or 7 years from now. SAVE YOURSELF NOW You don't want a forgetf…
/r/askFDS19/01/21 12:57 AM
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Can you gift her the book of "why does he do that?" And tell her it's because she has had her first taste of abuse and you don't want it to continue because you love her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 08:57 PM
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I would have been out that his normal first date is coffee and a walk F*** that laziness If some people agree that they like to keep first dates low-key or quick- you can have lunch at a nice spot just as quick
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 08:40 PM
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This happened to me once but I'm guessing the guy was actually Russian because he was asking me in Russian(I assumed after the fact), but I was tipsy and COULD NOT figure out what he was saying, I was just like "huh, what?" over and over until a few of his friends came over and spoke to me in English, but even though I didn't speak Russian they were all insistent I was Russian I was very confused and didn't know this was an actual "thing" Weird🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 07:44 PM
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This! My last bf I found myself faking it in the beginning- I have no idea why I did this, I just did!! I think bc I wasn't emotionally connected to him enough yet and kinda knew the big O was futile without that- but sex was still fun and hot and felt nice So cue to me getting more comfortable/attached to him and I completely stopped faking. He did take notice and was like "it seems harder to make you cum now" 🤭 but I played dumb and just started telling him what I liked and such... It worked, …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 12:30 PM
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Don't egg the car, you are better than that and it could get you in legal trouble, plus it's not worth your energy It's wonderful you have finally taken this step, stick to your decision, he will try to crawl back- don't let him Glad you're here
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 11:59 AM
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Not the hike or beach stroll as beginning dates, those are low effort things a couple can do to pass the time together- not with a man who should be trying to impress you
/r/askFDS15/01/21 11:04 AM
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Him getting mad and not caring is a glaring red flag Sooo... Is this a situationship? Are you still having dates with other men or do you want to exclusively see him? You said how many months? If he hasn't asked you to be exclusive after a few months, this man is not interested in you and does not want to be exclusive Also, first red flag out the gate is if a guy follows a lot of women on insta, like next all that
/r/askFDS14/01/21 06:17 PM
27

JFC that's an insane burden to put on you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 06:15 PM
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I had to explain this to my cousin bc her actual parents didn't care (bc they had an even wider age gap and thought they shouldn't judge) She was 15, he was 19- he took her virginity (this they didn't know and she told me in confidence but I encouraged her to share with her mother and opened up her mother to being open to communicate her children's sex lives so they weren't out here navigating it alone... So she and her mother did eventually talk and share) I'd have love to taken legal avenues a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 06:14 PM
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I'm the girl in the middle! Haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 07:42 AM
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And here I come being a little preachy but this is some word for word stuff straight from posts I've read on FDS.... Here goes: Neither of you are in a good place for a relationship. You both need to work on yourself before you're able to commit energy to someone else. And girl, you are technically still in a relationship so it's a bit messy all over And try so so hard to never tell any man about your problems in the future ever again- not unless y'all are already partners or strictly friends- b…
/r/askFDS13/01/21 12:24 AM
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Lol the three ladies in the video taking no chances 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 03:31 PM
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Wooooooooooooooooooowww Girl... I'm glad you woke tf up!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 03:02 PM
4

F***ING CRINGE
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 02:49 PM
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Ug, that's awful Thank goodness it's only a botox procedure... But damnit women, you can have normal faces, YOU DON'T HAVE TO SMILE
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 02:48 PM
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I remember as a server I was saying "I'm sorry" about something or another and that two dudes/customers taught me to stop saying I'm sorry and start framing it as "I apologize" bc they said I wasn't sorry (ie, like don't insult myself saying I'm sorry bc I was not a sorry person) and apologize is better bc it gets my point across without insulting myself Lol I never looked backed and "I apologize" just hits so much different!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 02:32 PM
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I remember seeing a news story years ago about a man who was no longer dating, because he was saying he put in too much effort and felt like women weren't returning the effort/making him feel special... And he was your typical below average on the attractiveness scale, bald, scrawny but fat, white guy with glasses No one said "MGYOW" or anything but I imagine this news story was catching onto that "new trend" And I was so confused like "you ugly bruh, why is this a story, no one cares, lol BYE, …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 01:58 PM
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Spot on observation my lady
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 01:20 PM
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And fecal bacteria FECAL BACTERIA
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 08:40 PM
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HOLY GD MF S***!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 01:05 AM
3

Here for some some some knowledge too... Once I feel love its almost game over for me; good question
/r/askFDS09/01/21 11:38 AM
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Wow. He could of still ended the relationship with you but been a good father. Trash trash trash and he was just trying to place the blame on you and make you hurt
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 04:15 AM
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They can try but I'm a smart lady and know wtf looks good Taps temple with index finger
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 03:57 AM
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I was having a chat with an ex's best mate about how said ex and I never talked through any of our problems. If there was a problem we'd be mad, ignore it or each other and just brush over it. He said that sounded ideal... I was like NO IT ISN'T BECAUSE THAT LITERALLY IS WHAT LED TO THE BREAK UP! refusal to communicate so problems got consecutively worse and worse
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 05:35 PM
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TBH it sounds like he got offended you expect him to pay on dates and is trying to pull you into a convo about feminism to justify yourself or to justify why you should SpLiT ThE ChECk You don't have to justify yourself Don't explain it to him It's not GD rocket science that the man needs to pay for the date, you're not the one who needs to educate him on how to treat a woman properly if he doesn't like it or agree then you two are not a match. Next, bye, kick rocks Plus don't lay out no f***ing…
/r/askFDS06/01/21 05:15 PM
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And then these young dudes out here trying to make it the norm for girls to pay on dates... FOR WHAT!?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 06:50 AM
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I would say if he isn't trying to make more time to see/talk with you then he isn't largely interested Have you been able to tell him how you liked the secret Santa gifts? That would be nice just as coworker to coworker But again, don't chase him or initiate a date, he needs to do that if he is interested, but friendly chats whenever you get a chance is fine- just don't invest in him as more than a friendly co-worker as he may not be interested if he never ask you on date and you don't want to w…
/r/askFDS04/01/21 09:37 AM
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I hope more women can give some better advice, I am best at pointing you to the handbook to get a gist of the idea of when you'll even be wanting to talk about sex, don't let anyone you go on dates with push that topic too soon And definitely do not have to share with a man your virginity status ever if you don't want to, but do not give up that information too soon anyway, especially not before you even want to sleep with him Make sure he can please you through foreplay before ever having sex, …
/r/askFDS04/01/21 08:56 AM
7

Very pretty boi
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 08:08 AM
31

Yea, this awful person is probably treating his dying wife horribly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 02:08 AM
50

Babies, animals, and the elderly get raped... Wonder what "hot scale" he would rank them at Thats literally a rapist speaking
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 10:35 PM
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And she doesn't have to enjoy the date and she doesn't have to stay and she can block him if she wishes What the issue dude? why you complaining to the internet about it? you both did what you wanted, worked out the way it worked out Instead of figuring out how he can avoid this future problem, he goes to internet for attentions he couldn't force from her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 10:32 PM
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We're not suppose to link other subs here, add spaces so it doesn't link
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 10:30 PM
40

Even more positions are open for play, like... If it a shortie it gonna be poppin' out too much 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 01:37 AM
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Ooooh, I can see that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 03:04 AM
13

Spaghetti in a bucket for the win!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 09:49 AM
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We're not mind readers!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 09:34 AM
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How about block and delete? You've told him how you feel and have already tried to be nice, you don't owe him any further explanations or communication. This guy is toxic AF and is only going to get worse- cut all contact asap If he continues to harass you at work or school or whatever is forcing you to be around him, restraining order, school counselor, principal, HR at work, your boss, save all threatening and harassing text So what if he contacts your ex, your ex is dead to you- block and del…
/r/askFDS27/12/20 08:58 AM
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There were some scandinavian dudes streaming on rpan and said they were viking, a few asked what that meant and their answer was basically it means they are edgy/don't follow the Joneses... Mmmmmmk
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 05:38 AM
28

This woman hates herself
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 10:41 PM
38

GIB ME COMPEMINTS!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 10:35 PM
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Girl! Missionary with a fit man with nice arms/shoulders/abs/legs/butt is where it's at!!! Like the best, I don't generally orgasm in any other position, I like the hottie right on top and close where I can nibble on his neck/shoulder and rub all over his body 🤭 Get away from the obese men! I mean being fit can't be the only criteria to get with you, but it should at least be on the list- your body is missing out on so much pleasure otherwise and then like- what's the point?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 07:19 PM
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There is definitely a lot of difference, I've never been with an obese man but even the ones who lean on the out of shape side are so much lazier/no stamina compared to the fit guys in bed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 09:34 AM
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It's really the most selfish of selfishness and depraved of depravity and evilest of evil to rape your own f---ing children... To rape any child obviously, BUT YOUR OWN F---ING BLOOD who you basically created into this world to be for YOUR GROSS SICK D
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 11:47 PM
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No it is not considered lying, no you do not have to be fully open with anyone but yourself You've only been seeing this guy a short time, but even if he becomes your husband- still stands that your life is your life If he ever pressures you into talking about it, all you have to say is "that is private information that is for me only and we will not be discussing it" if he keeps pushing then he doesn't respect you or your boundaries and you need to dump him quick But this dude already sounds li…
/r/askFDS21/12/20 07:23 PM
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No, no one is owed any information about you that you aren't comfortable expressing It's also high-key a great skill to learn to keep things to yourself more often than not
/r/askFDS21/12/20 06:59 PM
10

Hahaha 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 02:21 AM
39

And why did he pursue/continue this relationship after he realized he couldn't manipulate her in the bedroom?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 08:46 PM
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Holy sh*t you have a good point And seriously, banning the word VIRGIN!? in one sense I get it because virgin should absolutely not be used as an insult, especially for children ... but it's also supporting that virgin is an insult...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 08:28 PM
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If her sister is so concerned, she should adopted that baby The OP is obligated just as much as the sister is (which is zero obligated) Except it's a bit more f***ed for the OP because her husband cheated on her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 04:47 PM
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I could barely read this because of all the GD audacity She was willing to sacrifice herself and go through AAAAALLLLL THAT BS if only he could of lifted a finger F*** everyone trying to guilt trip that woman, I hope she thrives in years to come
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 04:29 AM
862

"have you seen men?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 04:19 AM
6

Also, no he did not have a crush on her and was too shy to talk to her- this is just another pickup line
/r/askFDS17/12/20 10:59 PM
15

Watching season 4 with an FDS mindset made me love this show even mooooore!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 02:13 AM
39

Facts
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 02:05 AM
10

I feel like this dude just took the leftovers from a family dinner, he didn't even cook this himself
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 12:27 PM
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And his last two reasons were all "give men the compliments/make them feel good! Even if rejected!" We don't exist to solely make males feel better about themselves
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 12:08 PM
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Notice how she left out the man's age She's 19, they've been close for four years... So grooming And the physical touch love language thing- such gross manipulation
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 02:29 PM
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Pictures with kids/babies Blatant sign of poor taste/idiocracy to put children on your dating profile
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 02:10 PM
34

I got banned for telling a woman she doesn't HAVE to have her boyfriend's wishful 3 children if that was her nightmare And the same dumb reason/short communication/muted
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 03:30 PM
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Not to mention porn is shit for women, there is no good porn made for us It's like searching for leprechaun's gold to find a fun porn with the woman's orgasm in mind only and no f***ing bj's I👏 don't 👏 want 👏 to 👏see👏a male 👏 getting 👏 his 👏d👏 sucked I read another fds member make a post or comment about this a little while back and it's so horribly true Like search for feminist porn and you will get articles about feminist porn... But like search something, literally almost any other word +porn…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 03:27 PM
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But also they define every form of feminism in their "about" or whatever, so they say they do accept our style of feminism- but quickly ban, I think auto-ban any fds member And yes, the crazy blocking of all fds members was the huge red burning flag that it was a sub modded by men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 03:19 PM
16

There was a woman in the news (precovid) who got in the car with a male who did this. He killed her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 02:41 PM
17

Yea, he could be renting a room for those few months waiting for his credit, it's not your problem anymore You may have to file through the court for an eviction notice
/r/askFDS11/12/20 06:28 PM
23

I've searched for plastic surgery results before online, such as for a tummy tuck.... So all the male plastic surgeons just had the patients full on naked bodies in before and after photos (no face of course) It was only two plastic surgeons who used black bars over the breast and vagina (if were no undies), a woman and an olderish man... FFS And it's wasn't for breast augmentation results, so seeing nipples absolutely did not matter for checking out the results.... they just didn't see a proble…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 08:54 AM
45

I meeeeaaannn... face tattoos... Let the trash take itself out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 10:11 AM
25

They banned you because you are a fds, same thing happened to me. It's definitely men running that sub, or pickmes from hell
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 05:37 AM
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There was a local 13 year old who got kidnapped from her drive waiting for her ride to school, body was found, it shook the community 😭 Some man willing to take a whole young life because his dick mattered more... I don't think he has been find but of course it was a man
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 06:42 PM
58

He ruined her whole social development because he taught her to be that way
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 06:37 PM
2

I almost almost started with my real number but was like oh wait that's my old number then gave him the google voice number, haha Edit: (bc I didn't take his number but said he could take mine) But yea he threw out red flags all over the place from the jump Like too much of a scrote to even know how to be friends with a neighbor
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 03:34 PM
7

Lol I was gonna write about it but I knew it was a longer message already, but yea he usually asked whenever he had seen me with groceries before and I always said no, but this time he was getting in his car to go to work so he didn't ask that time But had the time to ask me on a date and take my number 🤦
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 03:14 PM
29

Ooo ooo, I have a recent neighbor story I felt right off I didn't like the idea because, well neighbor, too close into my privacy, but I bored and these are apartments, won't be here forever and at the very least could find a new buddy So I'm carrying in groceries one day, he stops and chats for a min, says he'd like to take me on a date, would I like his number (wtf, this must be a red flag that from the jump guys want you to do the work by taking their number and reaching out to them) He ends …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 02:53 PM
5

It feels good/refreshing to see a level headed man when there are so many scrotes on reddit who think the opposite
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 02:40 PM
16

I am still annoyed about PH 'flirting'with Oreo on twitter and Oreo acknowledged it and replied back It was something like PH talking about the oreo cookie cream and Oreo replied back about taking it to the DMs Like that was PH trying to make themselves more mainstream and using the Oreo brand to do it I've never emailed a company about their PR or image, but I did on that one, made me mad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 02:13 PM
36

I've read that when you dream about someone trying to murder you, it's usually because that person has hurt you deeply in awake life Rings true because after every hurtful breakup, I've had scary murder dreams about them- hence why I researched into the topic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 01:30 PM
2

Oh neat! I recently got an Xbox 360 hand me down so I'm gonna add this to the list of future games to get, I love rpgs!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 01:24 PM
8

Ooo loves her!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/20 05:22 AM
7

Exactly, it doesn't even sound like he has done anything to make you like him, no effort, no date... but expects your emotions already? He will drain and take so much from you without ever giving back if you don't do a quick block and delete
/r/askFDS06/12/20 05:17 AM
27

This. If you're a decent, attractive guy- takes barely anything to find a nice lady who WANTS to be your gf and commit... But... Like, well we all know ladies, the bar is in hell and most guys aren't into relationships these days- much harder to find a nice man to WANT to commit to you He's right, D is abundant for us, it's forced on us even ... But we don't want endless trash D forever, we want love, effort, and commitment
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 07:32 AM
24

JFC
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 02:55 AM
12

Why is all this easier said than done!? 😭😭😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 02:52 AM
47

"I never felt included by feminism, WAAAAAAAAAAAA😭😭😭"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 08:15 PM
191

Yea, he IS going to abandon her and his child and is setting the stage for it to be her fault... "She pushed me away"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 03:59 PM
71

Just watched this... He even had a tangent about his wife having to ask for good d and he said ok, 1 day a month.... Like wtf is funny about that? Nothing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 03:18 AM
36

Not to mention he likely has hidden cameras in her bedroom and bathroom
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 10:26 PM
20

Tove lo has a song that cracks me up so much and I feel it: "Hey girl, why you're judging me? When your, your guy is turning fifty three I like 'em young, I like 'em young I don't know what really gets you more Is it that my guy is gonna live out yours? I like 'em young, I like 'em young" https://youtu.be/hbhsm6VJ8GY
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 10:12 PM
5

I had to go to play store and update my messaging app bc it was last updated on the 2nd
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 01:52 PM
36

How did it this take this long when we've been harassed with d pics since picture messaging existed!?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 05:32 PM
-1

A walk ... no, that's not ever acceptable as a date at any age I'm still not thrilled that he thinks a "coffee date" is cool either- maybe he should ask her what she would prefer, or ask her what place she likes, like ask her A or B But yea, they young and this is a first date ever for both of them so standards are a little different than us adults- but lunch is not big pressure and he is acting like it is... Like they eat lunch everyday at school... What's his issue with it?
/r/askFDS17/11/20 11:32 PM
63

I'm thinking this is a 16-17 year old? A lot of woke ladies at that age but a lot are also still being killed by crushes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 01:20 AM
195

Listen to what he is telling you- he told you to leave, so leave Don't put up with this treatment, you deserve more
/r/askFDS16/11/20 09:59 PM
112

He did use you and that makes him worthless trash, not you. You are not worthless, he makes this world a worse place- he is a shame to humanity
/r/askFDS16/11/20 07:48 PM
24

Those types of men don't like women get to make their own choices
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 07:45 PM
36

I met a stranger out at a bar, cool conversation, flirty. He ends up showing me nude pics of his gf .... like... she was hot and I think it was in a proposition type way... But, not his ex... His literal gf who he spoke highly of- just showing her nudes to a stranger he met in a bar...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 03:20 PM
27

And honestly, how do we know if they stole such lovely words from the women in their lives or not? Men did not shape this world alone, but they sure steal a lot from women while pretending they did
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 03:00 PM
12

F*** your so called friends if they expect you to ASK A MAN OUT FROM TWITTER in a day or less Gross
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 01:14 PM
63

He's mad he didn't get to trap her. He resents the child because he thought it would make her stick around.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 01:02 PM
30

What stops him from being a father if they divorce? He will only be a father stipulated he gets access to the mother's pussy and labor? Too many men like this And he'll tell everyone "the mother has kept my children away from me"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 08:54 PM
18

giggles maniacally
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 08:45 PM
43

Idk if he doesn't check in within 48 hours, even if the date is set well in advance, then there is no date. I don't check in, they want the date to happen, they will pursue
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 08:17 PM
4

Awesome, thanks girl!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 10:17 PM
10

What's a good drug store kind of price eyelash kit for a beginner? I'm good at makeup but never bothered with falsies, but I'm interested in enhancing my lashes/ trying them out... What kind do you use? Maybe I'll upgrade if I get into them I've toned down my day makeup to "natural" and falsies seem like a great "natural" addition 😁 any suggestions?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 10:08 PM
5

Lol me too, after I finished 🤮🤮🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 06:34 PM
3

Lol weeeellllll... The FDA I think does allow certain amount of.... say rat poo in PB bc of the difficulty to ensure there is none... So we do be still eating that 🤭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 05:13 PM
2

This is better for r/femalelevelupstrategy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 06:38 PM
0

Do not get to know a man over text/FaceTime/phone If he wants to get to know you, he will take you out on dates at least weekly, all other communication is kept short
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 06:24 PM
5

Start doing the same to him about any males he talks to, just non stop, even men of his family He might laugh at first or call you crazy, but if you question his sexuality every time he has even a 1 second interaction with another male... maybe he can feel as annoyed as you Vindictive? Sure. But he needs to learn a lesson bc he too much of an asshat to listen/care to your feelings Better yet, divorce him! 😉 That way you don't have to learn him anything
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 11:11 AM
3

It's incredibly disrespectful... It would be different if a friend asked or even just let you know the bf would be there- but to not mention it at all, when it was specifically a "catch up with each other because we haven't seen each other/went out for fun in AGES" is so damn rude hope you dropped that friend all together
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 11:05 AM
10

Are you me? GEEEEZ this is how it happened for me too And you're 💯 about toxic ppl having different faces... I still have a lot of anger at my family for not letting me burn the bridge completely or even "defending" her bc she plays the pitiful act pretty well Edit: and I feel so validated reading another commenter saying how narcs will intercept your relationships and try to put themselves in between it... That exactly happened
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 02:37 PM
13

I had a friend who planned for me to come home from college and go hit the town, we hadn't went out in forever so it was gonna be cool For some reason she meets up with me with her new boyfriend, I already thought that was inappropriate and disrespectful to me bc they had been "dating" all of a couple weeks and she wants to bring him along on our first time out in ages, without ever mentioning it to me? He was trash from minute one, hit on me, in front of her, insinuating a threesome, and I let …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 02:30 PM
22

So I've noticed with a couple guys I've dated... The whole place seems clean and tidy... except the shower/tub and one guy even the sink... like the pink mildew and I'm just like 🤮 clean your washing basins dudes!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 02:01 PM
15

It doesn't sound like he cares at all about"working" on his house... the progress you mentioned is such bs for a whole year! And he has a bang maid, lucky guy As the other commenter said- there is absolutely no reason to be with him if you two won't have a future together He may be nice, Which is great, he realizes he needs to be nice to his bang maid... But dear god there is better out there for you
/r/askFDS11/10/20 07:27 AM
5

You shouldn't guide him in any way, if he wants to put in work he will Maybe you don't have to block and delete after Wednesday if you want to give him another week, I am not sure I would personally, but slow down communication, don't let him have much time, maybe a short phonecall, like you can tell him you're out of town and busy with friends, he should get the hint that you're not going to be a pen pal, he either wants to meet you or not I don't like texting with guys bc I don't want them to …
/r/askFDS09/10/20 12:18 AM
8

Maybe in this case, only give him until Wednesday late evening to plan a proper date since he stated he had intentions, if not by then, block and delete Never accept a weekend date after Wednesday evening. You're a busy lady who isn't going to be ready at the drop of a dime
/r/askFDS08/10/20 11:58 PM
60

Reminder, don't share trauma with men You're only a month in and talked about your ex preying on you? Not good. Small mistake but luckily you let himself see himself out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 11:15 AM
25

Or if this is the kind of relationship she'd hope for her future daughter
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 10:23 AM
1

I only agree to a zoom date if it's a dinner zoom date and they cashapp me so I can order dinner... How many times has this happened? None, ha!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 11:41 AM
25

Takotsubo cardiomyopathy (broken-heart syndrome)... Although this is mostly seen exclusively in older women, heartbreak can very well be traumatic I was straight ghosted after a 6 year relationship... It was very much a trauma to me Although it did change me for the better in the end... And I would never place my past trauma on any future person because they don't deserve that but mostly because I took the time and work to heal from it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 06:18 AM
16

This! I get annoyed when guys are like "ew, girls who use filters" ... Uummm wtf, every celebrity since photoshop has existed do the exact same thing and you drool all over them!!! And as if your beards and hats and 10 year old photos aren't just as bad as some of these face altering filters!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 04:39 AM
14

Please report them so hinge will kick them off
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 03:41 AM
7

Also, never ever be comfortable with your husband or SO hanging out alone with another woman, whether she your best friend or not Do not let your "best friends" get "close" to your husband or let her push herself deep into your life. Have healthy boundaries Your SO should be nice and polite to your friends, but remain on "acquaintance" lvl
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 12:45 AM
35

Someone just send her a quick link to here for her to check out for when she might feel things aren't working out in her dating life
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 12:27 AM
14

Looks like she got picked, lucky lil thing /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 12:24 AM
2

Possibly any kind of Google review or the like you can share the dangerousness of this woman?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 04:28 AM
14

Lol to be fair, a lot of those post do look like people in depression cleaning up their spaces... so self improvement is hopeful! although I glanced on one of a guy "showing off" his gaming pc and it was nasty af, sooo... he was proud of it 🤢 couldn't even be bothered to empty the trash bc he was proud of his wittle gaming nest
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 12:24 AM
49

I know... how he thinks cooking is a sign of being feminine... Like... Wtf- that's shameful to men to say it isn't a natural trait to feed themselves good meals
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 09:49 PM
4

Mantra's helped me move past an old relationship before, something like "He doesn't think twice about you" Congratulations on keeping the NC, it's best for both of you, but everyone deals with emotions at their own pace and 5 months can still be a fresh wound Sooo cliche, but time will be your best friend on him fading from your mind... now who knows how much time is variable, but you're doing your best Think of it like how some people get intense physical injuries-it may take them months or yea…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 08:45 PM
41

Girl, "simps" don't exist. It's a word that was made up by incels who hated seeing other men be normal, good people If you ever hear anyone actually using that word, challenge them on it and educate them. Teens might be trying to normalize this word and think it's funny to make fun of another man for being nice, but they are just outing themselves as incels- it goes hand in hand
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 09:37 PM
2

Yea I'm American and in no way recognized his name, now when ppl said "guy from black panther", I was like, "oh okay"- learned the name because of his passing Sienna has been in so many things and I've heard her name far more Neither should of had to take a pay cut, the studio thought he was worth that much, so they should of taken pocket cuts themselves and put her at that pay status instead But it was more like, "oh, ok Chadwick, you want to make this woman feel equal huh? Well we will take it…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 04:59 PM
25

Knowing the state of humanity... I'd say that this is why many men deny unequal pay exists or will not talk salary/act like it's taboo... Bc they know very well it could mean a "pay cut" for them and... money over everything, am'I'right!?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 04:52 PM
3

Stare them down or even right through them really and then shooooouuuullllder cheeeeck It's mainly only happened on my crowded college campus sidewalks (precovid) that I can really remember it happening or could have been something I didn't notice before but I'm not originally from a town with crowded any thing really. I did go off in a social setting once bc I walked between a group of ppl talking and the guy was like "Um, you say excuse me" and I couldn't handle it... Bc I didn't have to excus…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 04:12 AM
18

The gel will stick to his face and lowers your risk of backsplash/spray or choking on it as well
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 03:36 AM
29

Yea bc he sure AF don't own a vacuum if he can't even afford a comfy chair
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 03:18 AM
16

You ladies have to remember that these asshats are either teenagers or legit women haters/abusers/incels Literally who don't brush their teeth twice a day, never seen a vitamin in their life, are mean to their Mama's, and don't even know how to wash their own balls and ass Now imagine micro-penises, incredibly overweight, smelly, long toenails and fingernails, busted feet, leave brown steaks in their saggy underwear-that they don't wash for weeks, and greasy or thinning or no hair If someone lik…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 03:12 AM
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You know how we've seen post of "pickme profiles" (usually shared on tinder subreddit or something) and we are like, this gotta me a man trolling, nah sis, help her Now I'm thinking it's just fellow queens doing an experiment
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 11:31 PM
2

The big 2-1!! Happy birthday queen!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 10:31 PM
3

Happy early birthday beautiful!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 10:29 PM
1

Happy belated birthday lovely!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 10:29 PM
1

Happy birthday gorgeous!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 10:28 PM
3

Yea I don't think it's wired in their brains, and if it is-they need medication I'm not 💯 sure but I've heard many stories about pedophiles having been molested themselves as children, so they are essentially taught this behavior It may be a molestation they have suppressed and don't remember so don't knock CBT bc it can help people learn to fire their synopsis different
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 05:58 PM
1

And I've heard about also using medication treatment similar to what is used for schizophrenia And those medications are generally not healthy long-term and don't have the greatest side effects... So of course he would admit he was sick but I doubt any man would take these medications with therapy to prevent themselves from hurting children bc men aren't even willing to take BC medications I don't think it's healthy to act out these perversions with other adults, because it reinforces the sickne…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 05:51 PM
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And I bet not once in all his trying to get rid of that pedophilia did he go to therapy for it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 11:12 PM
3

And the scum spend money on reddit to support other scum comments Women are generally not spending money on reddit BECAUSE it supports the cess pool behavior and could give 2 f***s about karma points
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 10:19 PM
6

One guy was trying to make fun of her by saying she had stringy hair... when in the title she stated she had just got out of shower so her hair was obviously wet. I called him out and called him a dip shit bc he couldn't read, then he made sure to u/ tag me saying I was a dip shit I was like, yes, good scrote, better to make fun of me than a damn teenager, granted he could have been a teen himself but f*** off with that immature BS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 10:16 PM
12

Ideally we are seeing with men for 3-4 months while getting to know him. His chance of spending time with you is at least one date a week, that's like 12-16 dates babe, and you're doing this while also dating multiple men If he doesn't want to get to know you and put in the time and effort, then he isn't a hvm So you never go to his place or have him at your place until you are ready to sleep with him Any guy pushing this "3 date rule" is in actuality lv and is only looking to sleep with you whi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 09:41 PM
6

He wholly wanted to walk out on his marriage and family... He fully expected it... So be wanted it... And she probably begged him to stay Next post will be with her new pregnant sister wife and their big happy family
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 08:49 PM
5

Uug, and here I am supporting abortion over BC bc of what it does to your body... might as well not even say this bc it's about to not be an option 😭😭 GEEEEZ we are f***ed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 07:57 PM
6

Abortions are great, saved me from having a loser/ child molesters baby, and I've never went on bc because I refuse to do that to my body, just got better at using other bc options But if your perspective is you feel it will hurt you, examine why and determine which choice is better for you I feel you may of had an abortion when you didn't really WANT to, but more to save a future child from hurt, and thankfully that was your legal right But if the idea of an abortion doesn't ting you in any way…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 07:53 PM
9

And because no longer is "wife and mother" the only option for our lives to go
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 07:41 PM
7

In the states I can't tell you how many stories I've heard of teenage girls being actually raped on camera, yet the school seemed to brand them the slut and shamed them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 07:24 PM
29

Last night on most popular live reddit stream, you know how it shows up as you scroll, was a teenage girl playing the ukulele and singing folk songs- amazing lovely melodic voice... And can you guess what were some of the comments during the steam? Yes you can bc you already know... Everything from "how old are you (constant new ppl coming in and asking how old she was), I need to know how old she is so I can know if it's ok to fantasize or not (I asked TF DOES IT MATTER HOW OLD SHE IS, YOU NEVE…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 06:11 PM
1

And put a lock on your phone, you're out now and hopefully never in the situation again, but always have a lock on your phone even in case you lose it in public or something like that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 04:00 AM
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Could of been some of that PUA game he was trying to play, can't remember what is called but I've read about it in here where they cancel plans on you or something to ignite a reaction or desire or just to test you or something?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 01:11 AM
2

I get this, I had that insecurity as a teenager that they were ultimately making fun of me... especially if a friend came over like "my friend thinks you're cute".... but that's how most teenage boys did it Never once was it an actual situation where they were making fun of me... I feel as though it's rare for actual decent humans to do that to one another as adults. I hope it is anyway. If any adult ever is asking someone out or feigning interest just to humiliate another person, there is somet…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 07:36 PM
2

Reading your post I was trying to think up a fake insecurity, I've landed on the perfect one!! Haha thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 05:55 PM
46

Yet how many men are out there wanting a woman for her body? The pussy isn't a charity baby 😉
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 05:10 PM
78

And he face pretty too 🤭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 02:56 AM
3

A lot more women need to learn about their ovulation cycles (a period app helps with this) and still always pull out (that is if you're on bc to skip condoms with your partner-i mean otherwise condoms always of course) And always have a box or 2 of Levonorgestrel (the morning after pill) in their med cabinet (you can get the off brand so cheap off Amazon or Walmart.com now) If all that fails, pay close attention to your cycle bc there is an abortion pill you can take within the first 8 weeks of …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 02:28 AM
2

A year is plenty of time to know if you want to marry someone or not. Some of us are younger and not looking for marriage, but some of us are looking for marriage and OP has said she would like a proposal. If you want marriage, then you should only be dating someone for an entire year if they want marriage too, and if they aren't proposing around that one year mark, then he wants a forever gf and you have already wasted a year of your life
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 01:55 AM
7

I've read a few comments throughout reddit that French men are some of the worst and entitled scrotes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 12:49 AM
22

Yea, not only is he horrendously ugly as she stated, but also has an IQ less than 50, so f***ing ignorant He knows you are blocking him and he has to create new emails just to stalker contact you, yet still thinks you want to spend immense amount of time traveling with him MORON! JC the audacity is strong with this delusional one
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 12:39 AM
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I think the falls under "see something say something" It might not have brought forth a solution but I feel a call to the police station should have been made "Hello officer, yes, I'm at the gym and overheard someone admitting to committing sexual assault and planning on doing it again tonight" And then go to the gym operator/whoever is working and tell them what happened so that they can give the identity to the police in case the police show up after the person leaves At the very least, I feel…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 03:51 PM
9

This woman ignored numerous red flags, I'm sure of it. He didn't do a 180 on her as soon as he got what he wanted (an incubator), she just didn't realize that all his previous red flags were directing her to what was to come. The fact that they never had a conversation about SAHM and the finances is proof enough she ignored a lot. That's why we have a dating strategy, to cipher this s*** out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 03:32 PM
22

I've watched crime shows that were in the UK and it seems like they had CCTV on every block, like just following the criminal or the missing girl from camera to camera So in that case, it wouldn't be bad... I think your bf's reasons against are a liiiiiiittle to paranoid
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 05:20 AM
4

Everyone don't reply to this guy and just report him. He will get his account banned from reddit entirely for mass harassment if we all report He is obsessed with us and desperately wants us to talk to him Do not give him what he wants
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 01:22 AM
7

If marriage is your goal, don't ever give a man exclusivity without a ring, but especially without a title if the ring feels too extreme. I'm at the point in life where if I'm dating it's with the goal of a husband, but I've been in the dating for a bf stage before. It just depends on how long you think it's acceptable to be a gf before a fiance. Keep going on other dates and vetting other men. He will either want to make a claim for you or not be bothered you're still looking for someone who wa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 11:49 PM
26

I caught a whole brand new set of tires for $170 that I'm sure should have been ~80 a tire Went home and told my dad and he was blown away at how cheap I got them... so he went to same place hoping to catch a deal... Poor guy, he did not but I bet the blonde boy at the counter didn't catch a vibe for him like he did me 😻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 10:09 PM
0

I highly doubt many of us read this long ass wall of text without a single paragraph...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 09:19 PM
13

He's obsessed with us
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 08:55 PM
30

They absolutely don't exist. We have a hard enough time trying to stop men from RAPING us. Dick is abundant and even forced on us. Lol, involuntarily celibate my ass🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 08:54 PM
7

She did not read the handbook. It's obvious. The first mistake was staying on the phone all night... Like why are you giving this stranger this much of your time and letting him get to know you without him even being respectful enough to ask you on a date? The dates are where he gets to know you... You wasted your time and energy and you need to read the handbook
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 08:36 PM
27

"never taken a vitamin in his life" "doesn't brush his teeth twice a day" "probably mean to his mama" 🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 08:28 PM
7

If a man helped me out like this and I was attracted to him and he asked for my number, he gets the number... If I wasn't feeling it I would politely say no thank you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 07:55 PM
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Thank you for explaining what this post was about and what it was in response to. I was confused at first
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 07:50 PM
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Some women absolutely do this. I know two personally and one is a manipulative narcissist herself. Of course she had a baby to benefit her, to desperately try to lock in the abusive man that was never going to love her or commit (who had 4 kids already he didn't care about or care for and who has absolutely no communication with the fifth one after she finally finally finally tired of the abuse) and to ignite extra pity from anyone she could. Pity from others is her whole motif and what better w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 07:17 PM
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Scrotey meth head You know his teeth are just as f***ed as his mind
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 05:04 PM
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Don't forget "I'm sorry you're responding this way"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 01:32 AM
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It sounds like she is doing it for the affection/connection bc it definitely isn't for those not existent Os... She remembers how icky it really was until the craving for being desired/affection creeps back up 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 12:24 AM
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Holy sh*t This has me shook I don't believe I've ever dated a guy whose done it in this way but it could be I just wasn't aware Like my longest lasting relationship it got to me that he never told me I was beautiful, unless prompted... I can count the number of endearing compliments that the man gave me on 4 fingers... And that's in the totality of our 6 year relationship. He would tell me I was beautiful, but it was if I had made mention of the lack of the compliment first ... 4 fucking complim…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 11:27 PM
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Pro tip: save more money by forgoing the bed all together bro. Make yourself a nest! The chicks love the nest
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 08:58 PM
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A winery is not a good/solid first date. A first date should not revolve around drinking. Unless there were dinner options? But a winery sounds like wine and cheese only? But you didn't say dinner at the winery so idk A "wine at the beach" is not a good date. I understand why you agreed bc it was covid times and he offered a picnic... But also he could have drugged the food he brought, if he did, and you'd be an easier rape victim. I never even thought about this before until responding to this …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 06:06 PM
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I was in the sauna once at the gym Me, 2 other guys, a young teen girl, and an older man-grey hair, wrinkled kind of old The old man and the young girl knew each other and we having conversation... in the creepiest way possible Sitting close, skin to skin, hunched over (like so he could maximum be in her space without actually being in top of her), and giggling. I was so gd creeped out and wished I would have berated him and reported him for that behavior The other two guys and I were all like g…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 05:04 PM
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Omgomgomg this is why Republicans are so prolife, bc you are denying them a future consumer, not to mention the money you have to invest bf that future consumer can independently consume... All their other policies are so anti human that there is no way in hell they care about life in reality It all comes down to the monies So they should just call themselves "proconsumers"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 02:57 PM
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I read something on reddit about the poor treatment of women in gaming communities... Poor performing males lash out at the women bc they hate themselves, like you said. They will respect the higher performing men bc it's what they are trying to be (and can see themselves in them), but then they see a woman doing better than them and are filled with rage bc it makes them more self aware of their inadequacies... And they have learned from somewhere that they are better than women... So instead of…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 02:43 PM
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Lol simple, ask to take the girl on a date and you'll learn if a bot shows up!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 01:40 PM
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When men ask me this (usually OLD) I'm like "yes of course, can't you!? It's a basic life skill" It's like asking "you know how to shower?" Of course we know soooome of them out there actually can't Don't cook for a man ladies!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 01:34 PM
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Ok cool, so hopefully it helped ladies learn that if the asshat has the check in hand and ask that question, then the answer is "sounds good!" But when you walk out you get a headache/stomachache/not feel well/on other hand I'm actually pretty exhausted/have to wake up early/have to go home and let my dog out/got an emergency text/ you're a loser who just thought he bought my pussy with chicken alfredo so I'mma go, block and delete Geeeeeez
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 12:57 PM
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Lol yes and we call them pickmes 🤭🤣 But regardless if you're looking for marriage or monogamy or not, this sub is what all women need bc you can tailor the advice to your own life and needs... Just don't come arguing and trying to denounce or discuss the handbook!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 01:19 AM
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I don't know how to make a link to only my comment and I'm afraid to link the post bc I think it's against the rules? But you my girl 😻 no worries though, I got like 700 upvotes today for other comments so I'm not stressing losing a few for speaking on the truth!! Plus all it takes is a dope meme post in here to gain a thousand or so ☺️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 12:14 AM
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Imagine thinking your girl child would be "entitled" if she expected to be valued and invested in to weed out the hundreds of guys that are going to try to f*** her throughout her life
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 09:06 PM
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Lol y'all I commented on that thread about the toxicity of it and so far I'm at -9 votes and an old man and a lesbian telling me women are not to be prized
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 07:28 PM
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It's also in your genetics to how much/visible cellulite you have They out here wanting us to hate our bodies and our genetics
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 07:12 PM
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So who else thinks this dude is already sleeping with patty or will be soon?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 06:56 PM
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I know I know, it helps to be reminded But again, this girl did not read the handbook and I couldn't handle this subreddit anymore if it became the sexual assault support group instead of rules of the handbook, I would leave and be disappointed that my one reddit space without men turned into something... else I don't want to see more post like this here so I voiced an opinion that I know is hard to swallow; I didn't report it as she did need everyone's kind words even though it is a misplaced u…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 05:12 PM
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Read the damn handbook You went to his place to see the view... 🙄🙄🙄 His attack was absolutely not your fault and you deserve better... but you made a really ridiculous decision to go to his place for A VIEW. This does not mean you deserved the assault but we are here to do better for ourselves than deal with dangerous men like this I do have sympathy for you but this angers me for some reason for how... naive it all was. At 24 and a law student nonetheless Please contact your campus mental healt…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 02:53 PM
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I had an early 20something young lady knock on my door around 11 pm. It was cold out, she was shaking. This was at my uncle's house so I told him I was going to open the door for a young girl we didn't know (ya know, in case it was an ambush and he could be to his gun bf they could be to him- it was a door with a window so I didn't see anyone/cars in the drive behind her) Turns out this poor lady met up with her ex bc he needed closure, to talk about things. He beat her, while driving, stopped i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 11:48 AM
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This was a teenager girl, correct? Every since I saw that I think about her every single time I'm walking to my car. It is obvious I am looking around and checking my surroundings the entire time I walk to my car. So damn tragic, she went to buy her bf a bday present, her parents were expecting her home after the quick trip to target No matter what ladies, never let them take you to a second location. I can't imagine how scary it is to be threatened to be killed if you run or scream but an attem…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 11:31 AM
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Right, but it's completely unnecessary in a solo, outside profile photo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 08:59 AM
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Was grocery shopping the other day, some dude walks by "hello, how is your day", both wearing mask I respond "great thank you" and continue browsing the steaks (was picking out the best to cook for Dad and I that night!) He walks off and gets a phone call, thought he was talking to me still so I turned and looked but realized he wasn't and went about my shopping Sooo.... I get out to my car and am loading groceries in the trunk, have taken my mask off by now of course This same dude drives up be…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 07:57 AM
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Also, off topic but.... How ugly must he be to have a profile picture with a mask on? 🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 07:31 AM
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I think she hates herself and everything she does/says is for the clout/admiration of white men And she thinks this outlook will also make her famous, which it has
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 07:36 PM
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Church!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 04:11 AM
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"I hate lazy dumb women" Aka: "I hate women" Aka, this scrote hates all women and hopefully doesn't find someone dumb enough to deal with this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 06:13 PM
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There are scrubs lurking here that downvote every single post and comment, everyday, all the time. F***ing prime examples of LOSERS 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 05:43 PM
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Omg losing your sexual soulmate is a bitch of a bitch to get over/past You will!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 09:59 PM
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You really put a lot in this post 😂🤣🤣 Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 09:58 PM
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What sub is it? You can type it without linking it Add spaces or don't use the r/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 05:43 PM
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Damn. This post was hard for me Y'all ladies and the dreadful experiences/talk of rape... Like especially the drunk/wasted kind Bringing up memories of my past rapes that I usually keep stuffed away I'm an idiot but also f*** those dudes 😞 Too personal and painful to actually share, but feeling connected to you ladies bc we be going through some things group hug
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 09:26 AM
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Yea that happened
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 05:53 AM
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Porn sickness
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 09:34 AM
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Lol oh 'the days' I don't even have the energy for that rn!! Haha Plus y'all made me realize a few on my rotation were not deserving of the rotation 😉
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 11:05 PM
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This so true, keeps my situationship on his toes 🤭 Lol I mean I softly exit if you getting lazy!😝
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 11:02 PM
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Lol this is hopeful, my gfs tried to remind me of all his negative qualities after he left "He's still going to be boring to the next girl!" Hope so, I hope he didn't take/learn about the extroverted/fun part of me!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 11:00 PM
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My mind exploded multiple times, thank you. She said so much!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 07:34 PM
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I had an ex who I pulled a knife on. I didn't point it at him, stood behind the counter/island 15 ft away from him, didn't threaten to kill him. I pulled the knife out to stop him from slamming my head on the ground and choking me again, so he wouldn't dare come near me and touch me again... Bc yes I would have cut his ass if he did We were both drunk af and heated. Not typical behavior for either of us... He went and told everyone, evvvveryone, that the reason we broke up is bc I pulled a knife…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 05:29 PM
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I use to have those same kind of reoccurring dreams about an ex. He wasn't abusive and I didn't fear him, but I was in intense agony about the breakup. It literally took me years to not hurt anymore. I read about when you have dreams of someone chasing you, trying to kill you, it's that your mind is tormented over that person somehow, that they are causing you great emotional pain So, being years later, I wonder if you've been thinking about him lately? It definitely could be ptsd like others ha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 04:54 AM
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With mobile, I can't see what they say, any way to post the text up?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 08:35 PM
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I think it was a music video of his? And he is a rapper who made diss raps about Eminem to catch some clout/fame for it... Ems first albums are controversial and dangerous for women, but I feel like I can look at him and appreciate the art bc he seems like a good dude/dad, plus he came out in my middle school days and that sh*t hit me hard- so I be an original Stan I don't think Em could be the same Em, had so much success, if he came out now doing all the sh*t he did back then.... What I rememb…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 10:26 AM
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Who knows how abusive he is? she may have kept it a secret bc she knew he would explode in anger or 'put his foot down' and 'told her no'
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 07:29 AM
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Honestly though, her heart belongs to him after 3~4 months of dating? Sure, ok, that's not toxic or anything
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 04:38 AM
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Whoever can afford the best lawyer has the best chance at custody
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 04:15 AM
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Wow, I didn't know they sent sh*t messages like this, wtf!?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 12:55 AM
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Bahahaha, your number one is hilarious and I never thought about it, the extra gorgeous guys, never thought about it that way but they really are a waste of time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 11:35 PM
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On what dating app?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 09:22 PM
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My whole view on media, especially the things I watch, has changed I can't stand most male created things now, or things that star mostly men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 05:29 AM
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a lurking scrote who reported as trolling, most likely
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 06:54 PM
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"Breast" even conveys more 'power n beauty' than 'tits' Uuug, JFC, probably a porn sick dude
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 04:11 AM
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Oh honey no, why do you want to wait for a man to get sober? Let it go, he will never get sober for you. You leaving is the best thing you can do for him, but more importantly, for yourself. He said it best, if you're unhappy then just f*** off and that is EXACTLY what you should do Block and delete!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 03:52 AM
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Oh he would no doubt be the type to get jealous over a baby
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 11:06 PM
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Yea, it's because he was JEALOUS and wanted to shame her/make her feel bad any way he could
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 11:03 PM
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And the girl has confirmed he raped her on three separate occasions
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 10:30 PM
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Like what is he even talking about with Google? Does that mean he put nudes she gave him out on the internet?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 07:28 PM
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Not to mention this asshat called you "dramatic, extraneous" and basically irrational F*** him And see, your paragraph didn't teach him anything and only gave him to opportunity to insult you/devalue your feelings, he didn't deserve the explanation
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 06:31 AM
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Right? And no man sticks around when they find it mentally exhausting. He wouldn't think twice about ending it if roles were reversed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 05:26 AM
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So you know we see at least 50% guys have their "love language= physical touch" Big eyeroll So I put my love language was receiving gifts Only short men or unattractive men would like me Took off the receiving gifts last week, now my options are full of tall gorgeous men Ug. Big eyeroll.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 01:43 AM
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A guy I knew from highschool is in med school, he gets back in touch with me. We become snap friends Eventually every time we chat, he talks about how horny he is or some sh*t like that... I tell him to stop, I do not appreciate the sexual harassment and our friendship will end He knows my med school goals and proceeds to tell me I'll never be a good doctor bc I don't understand what he is talking about is basic biology... Riiiiiiiiight mf, like you're also going around telling all your male acq…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 12:44 AM
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What's the first one say? It's just a joke?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 12:30 AM
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"watch tv"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 02:54 AM
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Do not give him your whole life story, especially share none of your past trauma. Don't talk about exes or sex Have a nice time girl!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 04:02 PM
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At least you were still a virgin after dumping him 🙈 There was nothing inside of you but good on you for giving him a try!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 03:45 PM
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How you gonna be mad at 'rn', but not at 'wtf'? Hahaha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 03:09 PM
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That hip sashay 🤭😄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 05:10 AM
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Omgosh, that's wild. It could be why I have such a 'negative attraction' to beards! Bc I love a head of thick hair and all of my 'important men' throughout life have also been relatively not very furry But also I really like kissing and big beards are... Not fun for makeout... I mean plus... call me a germaphobe about it... but I've heard about the feces beard studies 🤮 we can't even trust 50% of men to wash their hands... Ya know!?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 12:35 AM
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Omgosh, that's wild. It could be why I have such a 'negative attraction' to beards! Bc I love a head of thick hair and all of my 'important men' throughout life have also been relatively not very furry But also I really like kissing and big beards are... Not fun for makeout... I mean plus... call me a germaphobe about it... but I've heard about the feces beard studies 🤮 we can't even trust 50% of men to wash their hands... Ya know!?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 12:35 AM
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That's interesting! Hadn't read up on that. Makes sense bc we see so many more men in their 20s/30s losing their hair in comparison to women I kinda always thought that more testosterone would equate to a more volatile temperament, but that may be when it's excess... But lacking in it could make a man overcompensate with anger bc he feels insecure I will admit though, that I am too driven by looks/attraction and I realize I probably skip over good guys bc of it. It's just hard with OLD. In real …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 12:21 AM
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What do you mean that they are fairer? I've never really met a HV bald man but maybe that's because I just leave them to the women who are into it. (Will give bald guys chance though, but will never ever date a big beard) Did date a hot bald firefighter once, but he wasn't exactly HV for dating This guy's whole profile was trash, more pictures of his kids than of him. But every word in his "what I'm looking for" is all red flags so that's the screenshot I chose.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 11:51 PM
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The assumption is wrong then 😝 Call me picky but I like guys in their 30s to have a full head of hair Thick/big beards are always a nogo for me, too much camouflage (strong chins are where it's at) and unsanitary, not to mention an overcompensation bc they can't grow it on their head
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 11:32 PM
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Listen to people when they tell you who they are. He's telling all possible matches he wants a Netflix and chill and that he won't take you out anywhere. Might be some's dream date, but it's not mine, red flag. If this doesn't qualify for "couch creature", what exactly does? If we don't get to call out a couch creature profile, why is there a flair for it? Edit: and I'm on a phone so I am pretty sure I cropped his photo so no one could possibly identify the person. Plz tell me if it's not croppe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 07:07 PM
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I labeled it couch creatures bc his things are just soooo boring. I'm super over boring men And wanting a woman to watch television with? That IS low effort, he might as well say "Netflix and chill"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 05:52 PM
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This reminds me a little of 2 children I use to babysit... Ages 7, the little girl was taller by ~2" They were comparing heights one day, little boy just KNEW he was taller than her and telling her she was wrong. The even stood close to compare heights and he kept raising his hand higher than his head/height to "show" her how he was taller His mother and I were standing there watching them and laughing but finally told him to stop gaslighting her, he was the shorter one She was a single mom and …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 04:38 PM
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Yea what's EK?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 04:28 PM
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I think I may go this route too... Bc any guy who has ever asked me that question has never progressed to a date. They usually make it to "unmatch" pretty early in the convos, should just go ahead and unmatch My answer is always "chemistry basically"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 02:06 PM
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Bahahaha, those pickle bites make it hilarious 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 01:15 PM
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Once had a weird convo with a guy... Me: "Well, not all women can or do actually squirt, and it's not cum like you think it is" Him: "Yes they can" Me: 🤔🤨😐😐😐 He was dead serious on his knowledge that yes, in fact, all women squirt... and I just know it was from his "porn knowledge" and not actually experiencing women. This was in a party setting so I just went off to socialize somewhere else and didn't feel the need to continue that convo. SMH
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 01:00 PM
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I also messaged you for the link 🙂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 09:50 AM
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And it's no longer HIS home, it is just as much the daughter's home now too because she was forced there!!! This mom is TRASH
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 01:57 PM
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Reddit "men" especially 🤭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 07:58 AM
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F*** that family of yours. I'm sorry girl, they sound like straight trash ppl outcasting you like that 😢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 02:35 PM
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Sounds like you shared far too much of your past trauma with him. Hope he doesn't use it against you in the future, but definitely congrats on the good feelings now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 11:48 AM
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Omg. Delusional doesn't even begin to describe... That mess of a person
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 03:40 PM
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This exactly. And don't use your real number, get a Google voice number ASAP and use that for any and all potential male communication I get annoyed with too many questions and too much talking on a dating app actually... You see my cute pictures, you want to get to know me or not? Ask me on a date then bruh Like I'm not sharing my number until after a date, no reason we can't use the app messaging
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 09:00 AM
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I love that one of us lead you here Keep up the outreach ladies!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 08:41 AM
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How will I know "how to please my man"? How will I know "how to learn to kiss"? How will I know "how to do the spin technique"? I remembering being like 17 and my girls and I absolutely DYING LAUGHING at some sh*t about the spin technique we read in cosmo... I still don't understand TF how to do it, what it is or even for, and what the point would even be for me to ever actually care... We were all 17 year old virgins but absolutely knew we were not going to be acrobating in the bedroom for any …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 07:40 AM
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Uuuuggg I know reddit is predominantly male... but most of them just ruin every single subreddit "Muh dick" jokes in various forms are always the top comments Or even just stupid jokes that go on and on and on and on and on with hundreds of users, where I try to scroll past and find actually engaging comments... So f***ing ANNOYING!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 05:44 AM
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Like one of the first rules is never cook for a man!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 05:17 AM
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Nah, hikes as first dates are low effort as hell... and dangerous Maybe a video chat date where he cashapps ya so you can order out from your fav place and he orders from his place, and y'all have "dinner" together Will any guy do this? Probably not 🙈 I don't know what kinds of activities are open in your state, but anything fun where y'all can keep a mask on
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 05:08 AM
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The show is really about working through and dealing with different aspects of different sexual assault. Some scenes straight up show rape. Well at least one in particular shows a full forced rape and the others are more flashbacks of a rape (iirc) Rape scenes always make me uncomfortable/sick, but this didn't feel like too much for me, or triggered me in an overwhelming way. To me, this show felt emotional and empowering. I feel it was written for rape survivors... And the last episode does an …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 01:30 PM
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No one with a hairline past their ears is in their prime 😂😂🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 08:00 AM
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That beard is f***ing disgusting🤢🤢🤮🤮🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 02:04 AM
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With the birth control or Plan B options out there (and all the way cheaper off brand alternatives you can literally order to your door and have it as a back up sitting on your shelf) ... and abortion options... Like... I don't really buy the "didn't plan for a child" these days Edit: in most states in the US
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 11:48 PM
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Oh yea! That movie is good too! Definitely liked it better than the older Kevin Bacon one
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 10:07 PM
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That was so wild. Definitely a horrible idea to just show up like that, but damn he was straight cold/evil
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 10:05 PM
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Lol noooo, keep watching... He really really become lvm, real bad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 01:48 PM
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TW: topics of rape Binge watching it... Good feminist vibes Sometimes I just want to watch something real, emotional, and that I can connect with This does that It's great, check it out ladies
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 10:19 AM
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Honestly A fake/nice smile and "no thank you have a nice day" (one quick sentence, loudly and clearly, no eye contact) and keep walking or look the other way I've never had a man get angry or continue after this I can be polite as long as they come polite and not rude/gross
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 04:25 AM
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I'll check it out Just watched first episode of "I may destroy you" rn... Feels like I'm going to be hooked and it's going to be an emotional ride...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 03:45 AM
2

Amazingly thorough and wonderful advice!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 03:37 AM
2

You need to go to the court house and get an eviction notice. In my state you can't just kick someone out without one, no matter they pay or not
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 03:30 AM
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"if anyone could kiss a loser, it's you" 🙈🙈🙈
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 03:25 AM
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Girl, I asked my "situationship" ( lol, I know, I know ladies, but it's what I'm into rn and I'm not committed to anyone ever again until there is a ring) to pick me up from the airport same day, no notice. I originally wasn't going to ask him bc I was flown out to see another man and felt it would be a little unfair to him... didn't even tell him that "I'm at the beach" meant I was at a beach a few states away bc why explain myself anyway? But after thinking about it while in the layover airpor…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 03:03 AM
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I feel taxis are safer bc they have to call in and talk to the dispatcher/dispatcher knows where they are going and how long it should take/they have to call and tell them you're dropped off or any change of destination. They have to fill out applications and are actually vetted for the job. I've twice had to take really expensive taxi rides while being stranded by bad friend/s somewhere far away. Didn't even think about Uber bc I knew I was too drunk and barely stayed awake during the long ride…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 02:55 AM
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Idk, I went to a concert of hers 5 years ago and she talked on some wonderfully motivating feminist ideals, just lifting up women in the audience and like "focus on yourself ladies" kind of thing Disappointed in her tbh F*** dating a man who has ever served time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 01:38 AM
5

It's wonderful you took this step girl! We'll be thinking about you and your safety ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 01:32 AM
45

Advocated to ban ladies nights at bars... 😅😂🤣🤣 Those were literally invented to convince ladies to pllllllzzzz come hang out at this sausage-fest...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 01:29 AM
9

Well sometimes I will dm them our subreddit and be like, come hear some truth Idk, if some ladies want to try to give advice, go for it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 01:07 AM
14

I've googled like the biggest d I could find and have sent that back before
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 01:04 AM
20

And she had two 😂🤣🤣 She won't stay with him forever I think... But its like she asked for all this too...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 10:54 AM
15

[bad bitch enabled]
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 08:46 AM
13

Omg, hahaha, this it exactly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 01:22 AM
23

😆😅😂🤣🤣🤣😂😂😆😆 This pretty good. You didn't even shame him, just presented evidence...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 10:38 PM
14

I agree, I posted I didn't like that you showed her face, especially bc she is so young. But you say she posted on this post in another sub, so I'm assuming she was ok with her face on reddit like this? Young women, highschool girls, are hard on pickme culture. I have a teen niece who thinks she's really doing something reposting snaps like "ion care you got no monies, I ride or die" or whatever stupid sh*t is out there like that. I've had some talks with her and I notice she isn't posting mess …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 10:33 PM
29

So he cheating with Dave or is this story even real? Did someone make it up to karma farm or something? Or he conveniently found a long hair dude? Some dude dmed me the link to the "update" and it just smells like bullsh*t either way! Regardless, if real, he gaslighted his WIFE to...uumm... not hurt his FRIEND'S feelings!? That couple is just living in a sewage tank
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 10:20 PM
2

Recent as in it was in People magazine's snap story yesterday, but they are quoting her from an interview she did in 2015
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 09:34 PM
49

So I match on Hinge today, cute guy... His first message: "Fuck 🔥" Instantly unmatch... Like your first word to me is a literal curse word?! SMH.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 07:53 AM
1

It's just a little "short film" but the way she kindly listens to everything he says and then lays into him is so funny 🤭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 07:33 PM
2

We're watching the same water and glasses video?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 10:58 PM
107

Oh he cheating
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 09:51 PM
6

Stop accepting these low value first dates... A walk!? Not picnic? Geeeez ...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 06:16 PM
19

Y'all can report guys for that. I also report guys who state they have no children but then post up pictures of toddlers/babies on their profile. Like sir, did you ask the parents permission to put their very young child on a dating app?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 07:37 AM
2

It is some bullsh*t that we have to have a social media to be invited. I got rid of all my social media, still have insta but not one picture up... Dumping social media has been part of my level up journey I know we got men trying to get accepted but... It sounds like reddit only ladies are getting shut out I'm gonna try with my reddit account, how I apply? Edit: idk what I was talking about, applied with my reddit only, got code 😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 08:15 PM
1

Eeeeeee!!! I had a shar pei for 15 years ❤️❤️ they are the cutest and stinkiest wrinkled things 🤭 a mix will probably help it not have skin and ear issues, hopefully
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 06:28 PM
3

Sounds like he was trying to neg you and wanted to get you talking about gym hookups
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 12:00 PM
3

And something about she is re-recording her music so she will have the rights to it and not some misogynist, bully, scrote. And didn't she give money to help Kesha with a lawyer? Omgosh and listen/watch the video to her new song "the man" (I think that's the title) It's true fds anthem material
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 11:58 AM
7

And these are the type of men who you find complaining "life no fair! Men no more control! Where men rights!?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 10:40 AM
12

You gave him satisfaction by getting to speak to you like that. It definitely would have bugged him more for you to just cold block bf any of that. I'll do a reddit debate sometimes with clueless woman-haters, bc I'm anonymous AF here But not with dudes from dating apps, too personal
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 10:00 AM
2

But seduction for minors sexting? Nah, that's like illegal territory You're not asking how to get a gf or how to get a girl to go on a date, you're literally asking for SEXTING tips. I'm not sure many sane adults even think of sexting as seduction anyway? And that could be your issue right there, that girls can sense your insincerity in talking with them? There are all kinds of creeps on the internet who would probably love to tell you in detail what to sext, and be whacking the whole time talki…
/r/seduction12/07/20 06:30 AM
3

I don't think anyone is interested in helping a minor exploit another minor. My advice, Be a good guy and not a creep please.
/r/seduction12/07/20 06:19 AM
4

"I don't want what you had. I WANT TO BE YOU" 🔥🔥🔥
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 12:42 AM
13

We gotta try to not do things that makes us seem like a hate group. We don't have to shame them to dissect a dating profile
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 09:59 PM
38

I watched something once (can't remember the program) about a man who was refusing to date anymore bc women were not putting in effort for him and he was tired of [being a man] having to chase/put in effort. Face palm🤦 He was legitimately an ugly man as well... GTFOH! Like yes, he was saving women from getting hit on any longer by his repulsive self... But he was so in denial about why he had REALLY stopped dating
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 09:23 PM
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Take her on dates and respect her as a woman you are interested in and not as an object to get your d*** wet
/r/seduction11/07/20 09:14 PM
7

Anyone else a little annoyed that the male Starbucks barista got 87k in donations for refusing to serve a lady with no mask... But this literal queen who flipped on this racist and took a big stand for the victims received half that!!? I didn't donate either way bc my budget is tiiight... But damn the double standards🤦 Money is money though and I'm glad they were both rewarded
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 08:15 PM
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Every guy on hinge that has asked to "hangout" over "drinks" They just get unmatched. I asked the last one "oh, you don't do dates?" He explained that drinks was the first date and dinner would be the second if we hit it off... No response from me, just insta-unmatch Bruh, you want me to get all gorgeoused up for you, for some drinks that I can make at home!? Naaaah.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 07:51 PM
39

This is why a mandatory draft for women could NEVER work. Just offering up young ladies to be raped, yea, no thanks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 09:07 PM
1

And a walk could be a picnic with a HVM. I mean, simple as takeout and asking what you'd like when he picks it up before meeting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 08:06 PM
7

Lol, what?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 07:50 PM
17

Towels, showers, generally super horny during that time, seems to ease back pain. But either way, if a guy was angry you were skipping sex for those days, NEXT!! I find it odd that you, a woman, finds her own periods gross though... 🤷
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 06:42 PM
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I have broken up with every bf who will not have sex with my on my period. (It's only been one, haha, but the rule still stands) Like, you can't handle biology and the human condition? F***ing BYYYYEEEE
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 06:34 PM
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It's so good too, he thought he had just ruined his Olympic chances... Or really that SHE had ruined them. And he told her she ran too slow and ran off ahead. Her coach told her to slow down bc she said she HAD to finish the race even if it was on her hands and knees (at this point, she knew she was doing it for all women) They catch up to the bf eventually and he is walking, I think begs her/them to walk with him like "I can get it back" and she runs on, he says something like "I can't believe …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 03:59 PM
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I had posted first about men physically attacking her, but then reread the article and was like, ooo no, just the official.... She said many of the actual runners were like, "oh, a woman!" And thumbs up and seemed excited But the fact that it was the man in power, and the reporters with power who really antagonized her speaks volumes about the patriarchy, and how men in power were actively outraged at women succeeding The runners were probably cool because they were all generally supportive of e…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 03:44 PM
9

Oh no, you just read it incorrectly, or I typed it confusingly 5 years after her run, 1972 women were allowed Meaning IN 1972, women were accepted It took me too many deleted post and repost to try to get it right 🙈
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 03:24 PM
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The race official, who had jumped off a truck, trying to rip her numbers off. The guy in shorts is her coach (I believe) trying to get him off Hey boyfriend body slams that guy, and he flies like 4 feet 🤣😂 but bf later got mad at her for it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 09:59 AM
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https://kathrineswitzer.com/1967-boston-marathon-the-real-story/ It was a race official who attacked her and the reporters who were aggressive/misogynic Edit: sorry, it took me a few tries to make this post, I don't do post too often 🙈
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 09:55 AM
2

https://kathrineswitzer.com/1967-boston-marathon-the-real-story/ It was a race official who attacked her and the reporters who were aggressive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 09:47 AM
3

Absolutely a minority in positions of power in ALL career fields
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 05:37 PM
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Omg. The audacity. He thinks he is hotter than that beautiful queen Shave your beard dude, let us really see what's up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 05:12 PM
15

Bahahaha, omg, perfect response
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 03:47 PM
32

I dated a guy for 4 years and would let him know I was angry and to go to the bathroom anytime he farted in front of me, we lived together But I managed to never do it around him. If someone has such issues as constant gas, they are not healthy and need to look at their eating habits and maybe go see a doctor
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 03:45 PM
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I've taken what I've learned from this sub and taught it to my teenage niece, such as : do not crush on/chase boys who do not like you!!! You're wasting your energy, time, and heart. Then I saw her make a snap about she's not wasting her time on guys who don't like her back ❤️❤️❤️ How can this kind of advice be considered hate!?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 10:38 PM
34

The audacity. Can't even count up how many times, when I was a server, men flirted continuously and left their numbers. 90% of the time it was ~10% tippers... I mean, appreciate the tip, thank you, but this is not a me actually calling you kind of tip hun.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 08:30 PM
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Geeeeezus. Imagine if they didn't show up for work, we'd be able to take over the country so quick, and improve everything of course!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 02:16 PM
3

asking advice on how to be a predator... Wow. Keep working on yourself so that you become established enough to have the confidence to find an age appropriate women
/r/seduction29/06/20 09:53 AM
91

Went out to a Mexican restaurant, yummy! Turns out he was racist and not ashamed of it... I can't remember the remarks he made, they were low-key but I was still incredibly annoyed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 09:41 AM
21

This man is not into you. Would be a waste of your energy to try to change that. Only show interest in the men that show interest in you first
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 07:12 AM
7

I told my sister that when I graduate and become financially stable that I was going to have a lovely engagement and wedding. An engagement and wedding to me, myself, and I. Her response: confusion why wouldn't you just save that money for when you really find someone? My response: 😆😅😂🤣🤣🤣 I deserve a special day and fuss about me, regardless if there is a man involved.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 05:07 AM
2

I am proud of you. You have the strength to do this. I hope you find peace and happiness sooner than later. I know this is a difficult journey.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 12:52 PM
1

Hahaha, oooooh ok, I was thinking they were more recent You're right, getting caught at second is not nearly as questionable as the ones behind her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 12:48 PM
3

Plz in future post, break long messages into paragraphs.😭😭😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 01:12 AM
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Bc they want to show everyone "LOOK I DO HAS HAIR" also ugly AF men think it helps hide their ugly face I don't understand women who think big beards are hawt. Ew! That beard better have impeccable hygiene!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 12:21 AM
8

I question how hv she actually is to get with a man with that many loose children
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 12:07 AM
11

Get 'em!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 10:31 AM
29

You are showing your daughters how to be treated by a man. That should scare you enough to make the plans to safely leave. To know that they will grow up and find men just like their daddy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 10:10 AM
28

Have at least some ppl opened her eyes to this on that thread?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 08:44 AM
7

CHURCH!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 11:04 PM
47

I feel like he thinks he is so funny that the kids have probably already heard it many many times
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 08:55 AM
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I've literally had a man say this is logical and sanitary. And he tried to mansplain that it was unnecessary to touch his dick when he peed.... 🤦 I didn't have the energy to argue how that was impossible. And still nasty as hell. At the very least... What about all the guys who DO touch their dick and then touch the urinal handle, the door handle, everything outside of the bathroom? Do you trust those men always have perfectly clean and sanitary dicks? I mean, even worse- this was a 300k salary …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/20 12:34 PM
3

Can we tell him to eat dick in hell? Or can you just tell him you need a ridiculous amount of money? No... I guess it is best to stay unbothered and not let him in on your energy...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 04:55 PM
18

Absolutely a problem. Do you want to spend the next 60 years sexless? No? Then leave, now. He is 28... And already no libido!? Pornsick maybe?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 06:35 PM
9

This is a man trolling. Keeps describing the BIL's wife in detail, like it had anything to do with the situation at all. And they claim they "heard" this BIL pissing.... Heard it? Heard the pee hit the cloth underwear on the floor... ? How loud could that have been? And who burst in the bathroom when they hear their BIL peeing!?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 06:11 PM
1

No one is ripping on the fact that he is a teacher? I came to the comments for it. It's definitely on this list of careers to pass on, just like military, law enforcement, eh, there were others too but can't remember rn
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 06:08 AM
1

Oooh, sorry girl, was thinking you were in OP situation where she literally tracked the woman down But sh*t if they seek you out, let the truth flooooow
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 01:01 AM
3

You start by repeating the word NO over and over again as your mantra...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 01:27 PM
6

Too scared to not give your number? Geezus girl. Stop the man-pleasing this instant. You don't have to be rude, a polite NO THANK YOU would have worked. Even lie about a non-existent boyfriend. Please never ever in your whole life ever do anything for someone again because you are too scared to not to
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 01:25 PM
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RIP to your mental health if you plan to follow who he dates and "save" them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 12:56 PM
8

What a wall of text. I could maybe read this if paragraphs had been tried?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 12:53 PM
10

I'm ashamed of the lady who gives this guy a shot... She needs us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 11:27 AM
2

Lol I mean... Clubs just aren't for you 🙈
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 11:25 AM
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Lol I didn't know we were suppose to counter that dumb low ball effort with a manipulative "but you come here" Hahaha, it's almost too genius but there would definitely be the guys like "OK!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 11:16 AM
8

Don't know how to use what?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 05:26 AM
15

Shut up Trevor and open this jar. Shut up Jason and go jiz in a cup. Shut up Todd and go unclog the toilet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 04:27 AM
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Girl, glad you are a Queen and swerved this nasty old man. But you are spot on about men basically hating you once they know they can't have you. I've gone by the advice to "never let them know they can't have you; let them think they can/will" of course, not if it becomes assault or abuse... But by literally never crushing their penis dreams you end up with many men doing things for you all the time... Or at least being nice to you 🙈 if they gonna be so gross, I gotta play these mind games But …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 09:48 AM
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Do not let this man waste about minute of your youth. You know he is trash. Dump him. He will then be free to date said actress 😂🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 09:40 AM
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It seems to fit this sub bc this is a sub about "female dating" ... Unfortunately this LVM chat is a common occurrence amongst the online dating world. Reminds me I'm not in solidarity anytime a conversation like this falls in my lap, reminds me why/how to avoid/maneuver online dating, and gives me a little chuckle bc lvm are so tired/played out/always using the same dumba** reasons to try to get their dick wet I'm bi and you're right, we don't have to see these types of skeevy messages when onl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 09:27 PM
1

It sounds like this man isn't concerned with her feelings and I think that's taking social distancing too far. We are suppose to avoid large groups of people... But going to see your boyfriend, especially when both of you are not around high risk people is ok. The roommates may be around high risk ppl but it wasn't mentioned. This may go on for 2 months or longer, I would not be ok if my guy didn't want to see me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/20 02:24 PM
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I had a dumb LVF exfriend who decided to go and get preggers by her physically abusive LVM, all while living in his dad's flea infested basement with his 4 other children he already couldn't take care of... Never married him, gave the kid his last name... Of course the abuse didn't stop and the kid got some of it too, also while being taught to curse, spit on, and punch people... (I literally cannot imagine allowing the father of my child to teach her to say f*ck... My rage would devour the man,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/20 07:06 AM
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Lol he ask her on a shit date. Gets mad she treats it like a shit date. (Or even she's trying to make it worth it or feel safe drinking with a stranger the first date) Class up dude, damn 🤦 Any HVM that has asked me for drinks has always generously invited friends/sisters along if they call during or if he knows I'm with them before the date. A little off topic but I've always found it so incredibly sh*tty/trashy if a rando guy in a bar/club offers to buy a girl a drink but does not offer to buy…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 10:12 PM
8

Hahaha I use to do this to my crushes/boys I flirted with in highschool, right on the hand or forearm 😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 12:05 AM
3

Reads like a man probably wrote the email. Mansplain and divert/ignore
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 08:51 PM
2

Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 02:04 PM
12

Gonna try to link the post this is referring to... But this was a response to a disapproving email sent to Oreo's website about flirting with Pornhub on Twitter
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/20 10:40 PM
10

Smol suggestion for ease of post... You could make an edit to your post including the story... Instead of commenting multiple times to girls wanting to know the story to just search for it... ??? And c'mon girl... a post is useless when it's this vague to begin with 🤦
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/20 11:55 AM
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There was a clip posted here a few days ago with what The Rules authors would have answered: never accept a weekend date after Wednesday. If he suddenly gets spontaneous-out-of-the-blue tickets, well then he should of already had a date planned with you to start, the new tickets would just be an added bonus to make the already planned date better. He didn't have anything planned with you, he isn't interested enough in you to waste that time and Uber money girl! Then again, because you're a bored…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 10:47 AM
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Yea but worse I think bc that original Reddit was closed for the violence/horror I'm guessing? I never saw it but have heard of it in here 🙂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 02:51 AM
15

Men going their own way. Toxic masculinity galore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 02:34 AM
10

Nah girl, you still got plenty of youth left, but I know the feeling. I always have and think I always will have men wanting to f*** me. We keep saying it here, dick will always be abundant. If it helps I'm in my 30s, in University getting a bachelor's degree finally, so I really did ride the youth train. No shortage of 24 and up (younger is generally too damn young, whole complete new generation young, can't entertain that) men trying to come at me. Idk, we'll see how it goes through menopause …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 02:26 AM
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I had a bf of 6 years break up with me by moving everything out while I was at work and actively avoided any form of contact I tried to make. It was ruthless and it hurt but our relationship had reached a highly toxic level, so after healing I know it was needed... Anyway anyway... What I'm saying is, he deep down somewhere knows this day is coming and you don't owe him any explanation. They out here ghosting us like a half decade not sh*t... So... Move the stuff out while he gone and do it as q…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 01:54 AM
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Haha, true, my BS detector is pretty strong and if I miss that and they were being mean... I mean oh well, I got no f***s to give to that neg energy! I once had a lady compliment me "I like your outfit. Is it last season?" I just laughed... "Thanks girl! Nah it's new, I just got it on clearance at Target!! 😁😉" ... And kept on walking Lol, I mean it was an upscale club and my clearance Target item probably very likely was "last season" ... But like I still looked good, felt good, and let that kin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 01:30 AM
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LoL yOuR sIlLy. 🙏 HeLp Me AnD tElL mE wHaT yOu LiKe AbOuT yOuRsElf!? 😝😜🤪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 12:42 AM
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Agree!! I always get more amped up from lady compliments rather than men compliments. They feel more genuine (she doesn't crave my attention, actually being nice) and women usually pay attention to the details more so it's like "aaaaw, she noticed and loved it!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 11:52 PM
13

Your parents are absolutely right in this case. Seems like they have good advice 😉
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 05:15 PM
3

This was one of R Kelly's tactics his poor wife talked about him doing to her and it working well When he became abusive she would think about and remember the vulnerable man she fell in love with
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 01:45 PM
1

I was stating that it isn't right, not saying you said it was. Like it or not, both statements are valid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 06:38 AM
1

Caused unnecessary drama. 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 06:31 AM
1

Good thing I didn't quote you on it 😉
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 05:58 AM
3

This attitude absolutely has to change in the workplace. Protecting the company is calling out abusers because professionalism is required.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 04:32 AM
2

I feel this is a much better way to say it... Like telling someone to just never masturbate... I'm thinking... TF? BUT expressing that idea as a step to get through the porn aversion... Feels better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 01:18 AM
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Hey, my little PSA, my University pharmacy store sells a morning after pill for $11, its not name brand plan b, but $11!!! The public can shop at our student store, so maybe some of you ladies may have a university/college near by who stocks it cheap as well? Edit: learned we can also get it for this price or lower on Amazon!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 04:05 PM
6

You're missing the point. FDS is trying to remind females that dinner does not in any way obligate you to anything but DINNER
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 09:28 AM
2

Additionally, this is a hilarious date fail and thank you for sharing!! Walk out on these tools!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 03:35 PM
4

So far I've only successfully dated one Republican. But it was because he was a law school grad who went into politics and was poignant with his words, educated in his discussions. It wasn't just "what about the emails!?" Lol And he made an honest effort to hear my views as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 03:32 PM
3

I've never wanted roommates more than now! 😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 02:54 PM
30

Lol, it was literally the hat honestly for me. This idiot out here letting us know he is aggressive and low-class off the bat!.... Haha someone posted "what did the poor fridge do to you" and I just thought, "idk- I didn't want to mention the hat!" I'm in the Bible belt (these gems lurk everywhere) but still, it does take a real a**hole to actually wear this hat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 01:45 PM
7

Lol no clue, I did not even bother looking at other pics after the shock of this one and his bio description. Going through tinder after becoming FDS is really hilarious but also sad 🤭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 01:39 PM
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Lol! I've seen a few profiles after just swiping a little that have mentioned something like this against dogs! At least he is putting it out there for sane women to go ahead and pass pass pass!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 05:00 AM
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Lol well, squirting is majority urine so I would say they (the ladies at least) are in fact pissing 🤭🤣😂 And TBH I have before, not porn star style but it was splashing and very wet 🙈 it was when a new SO used his hands vigorously and just hit some spot that felt very warm and amazing and your body just let's go.... And after that guy I've found a few times where other boyfriends have stumbled upon that angle or spot or whatever 🤭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 08:39 PM
5

It was free but not in your time frame! Lol just like these lvms not going out of their way at all
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 06:44 PM
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With not paying for transportation, are we suppose to drive to meet them or they come pick us up? Which is better? Like for a first date situation. I'd guess he should pick me up but I'm so confused by now 🙈
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 06:38 PM
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The same thing happened to me after a 6-year relationship.... And she was already living with him at the 3-month past mark. Adds comfort to hear this is just icky dude behavior. They can move on quickly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 12:48 PM
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As a whole, Black people have told us to stop saying African-American and simply say black. It's PC now and what is preferred 🙂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 09:20 PM
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