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9

Its not about logic, that is to provoke an emotional response.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/04/20 04:15 PM
1

Can you share more on this, maybe books recommendation? I'm struggling with some mental problems and what you said sounded very relatable.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/20 12:06 PM
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This is such a bullshit talk, I'm tired of people saying they are 24/7 improvement mode or banging sluts, as if no one kills a bit of time to get some stress relief. We guys have insane sex drive, specially when we are young. What is the issue with 10 minutes jacking off to some random porn video?
/r/TheRedPill29/03/20 11:59 AM
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You can have a LTR with a good girl without oneitis and with abundance mentality. Then if one doesn't work, move on without getting depressed or wanting to hang your neck.
/r/askTRP28/03/20 09:08 PM
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Whenever my plate tries to argue with me, I default to mockery. She even said she doesn't know when I'm being serious. But what for? I used to discuss topics with my ex gf like with my male friends, all serious and trying to be accurate and logical. It was pointless. And all that seriousness helped nothing in creating sexual tension. Now, I always joke. It might have some truth in it but that is left for them to figure it out.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/20 07:21 AM
3

Guys dealing with years without sex and bitches complaining about a month with no dick.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/03/20 12:56 AM
2

No, you are too concerned that you have an obligation to give the reciprocity you imagine that you should give. It doesn't work that way and part of that is a blue pill way of thinking. I mean, you wanna commit to this woman but do you even know what you want in a relationship? If you care for her, no need to be a cold stone. But put yourself first and ask if that is what you want instead of concerning about reciprocating enough. It's basically implying to her "this is what I can give to you, ar…
/r/askTRP23/03/20 01:56 AM
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Maybe that is an early effect of unplugging. We all build these idealized concepts of what love should be - to be one, to unite, to complete. Then we realize the realities of relationships between man and woman and everything we build so far crumbles. I'm going through something similar right now. It seems though that if you are that concerned with "feelings" you are still attached to some blue pill idealism. So you should take Rollo's advice, even if you are over 30, and continue to fool around…
/r/askTRP23/03/20 01:42 AM
1

Even if you think the it's ridiculous, what is your concept of love?
/r/askTRP23/03/20 12:04 AM
2

Genuine question: do you think it's masculine for a man to think he is a king when no one sees him that way?
/r/TheRedPill22/03/20 03:39 AM
3

Can you point out who we are trying to censor?
/r/TheRedPill15/03/20 06:03 AM
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Really unfortunate, as this feminist nonsense screws the sexual market and fuels the incel rethoric. There is already massive anxiety to approach a girl and now guys are just giving up. But what they don't understand is learning seduction is fundamental to be someone in the real world. Once you understand human nature, you can navigate these social situations, go after what you want and protect yourself. 'We are built for socialization. Without it, you are already dead.
/r/seduction14/03/20 03:45 AM
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Hypergamy and brach swinging are two different concepts.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/20 07:30 PM
12

Nobody is complaining that she is honest, its just woman being open about their hypergamy is still a rare sight.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/20 07:29 PM
9

Competing against females is pointless.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/20 11:47 PM
2

I feel the same too. Getting back to college brought a friend or two but nothing like it was 10 years ago.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/20 06:51 AM
1

This is nothing new to be honest, its just a bit shocking for the mainstream media now because of how much feminized it has become. Felix owns the biggest channel on YouTube and nothing better to gain those million views than surf on controversy. Personally I think he is probably closer to a purple pill guy, a bit of a beta and it's not much relevant to us here. You can see girls being slut online, call it for what it is and still believe in equalitarism, not to mention he married pretty young. …
/r/TheRedPill10/03/20 06:18 AM
3

I guess this downvotes are a reflection of the amount of teenagers lurking here.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/20 06:06 AM
4

You can talk a lot of bullshit to fill up the conversation without revealing much about yourself.
/r/askTRP10/03/20 01:19 AM
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Since he was talking about woman's body and what makes men aroused, anyone would assume the intent was for sex. That's why I fully agree with what you are saying.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/20 05:02 PM
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Not true, otherwise Alfa Fucks/Beta Bucks wouldn't be a thing. Like this woman for example, she is all about money for him.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/03/20 02:28 AM
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Classic nerd trope.
/r/askTRP06/03/20 03:48 AM
1

You said it best.
/r/seduction05/03/20 03:04 PM
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No, it explains the reason for the ego boost but not why low smv girls seem to have more.
/r/askTRP04/03/20 02:53 PM
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This doesn't answer OP's question though.
/r/askTRP04/03/20 03:27 AM
2

Ironically how there is a bunch of nice guys in the comments there.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/03/20 02:06 AM
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The first thing is the "cold approaching" methods (largely suggested by PUAs) are not supposed to be outcome-dependent. Any good teacher will tell you that it's mostly a numbers game. The focus on hot girls is pretty obvious: a lot of guys are stuck in having polite conversation with random people but can't break that wall and evolve the chat into seduction and date. Your topic sounds a bit like one of those Neil Strauss tests for really awkward and socially underdeveloped guys, like talking to …
/r/TheRedPill02/03/20 09:04 PM
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I don't really know why some guys put up with this for money. One my relatives married a post wall rich woman while I know he had much better in the past. It's like, why have this money if you can't bring hotties to your life?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/03/20 02:38 PM
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I said nothing about stalking girl's profiles, that's why I had an emphasis on use it consciously. If anything, your social media profile should be a storefront for your lifestyle. Before you call me a simp, look at high value guys on Instagram posting just a few pics on vacations, partying with girls and doing cool shit. That's when you will have girls DM you rathen than the other way around. And before you say it, I also think it should serve as an additional tool rather than a crutch or excus…
/r/TheRedPill02/03/20 02:27 PM
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As the rich continue to get richer and the poor get poorer, so will grow the divide between incels and slayers The way I read this quote sounded like that's what you were implying.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/20 02:19 PM
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Goddamn I hate bunny and cat filters
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/03/20 02:21 PM
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A few months ago I matched with a cute 19yo who was still breastfeeding, she even wanted to bring the baby to the date. When I suggested it wasn't a good idea, she got mad. These woman have 0 self awareness.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/03/20 02:17 PM
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Although it seems obvious to think only the rich are slaying, we have acknowledge the sexual marketplace within the sexual marketplace. For example, I live in a third-world country and guys from the ghettos are slaying just as much as the playboys. They aren't rich but their style is pretty popular among middle-class woman who likes twerking at parties and being treated like bitches.
/r/TheRedPill29/02/20 03:52 AM
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Yeah, my point was that getting laid that much is what gave you this confidence boost. I usually feel this too after getting laid, less anxiety around woman.
/r/TheRedPill29/02/20 03:43 AM
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I hardly doubt that online dating validation does anything for approach anxiety. It surely had 0 effect on me and acted like a big crutch. If you feel less AA its more likely due self confidence from having a fit body.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/20 11:40 PM
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That's bad advice, specially if you are young. It's exactly the fact that social media is feminine that guys should use it consciously to boost their SMV. I know guys that post cool shit they are doing with other people and have girls hit their DM. Woman spend a lot of time on this shit, it's foolish to not use it in your advantage.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/20 04:00 PM
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But that's what you said on the first sentence.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/20 03:55 PM
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How are you struggling financely if you are hiring escorts?
/r/TheRedPill28/02/20 05:38 AM
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Depends on what you are using for the back-end but there are plenty libraries for that. It's good for minimizing requests and having more flexible API. Plus, tech nerds will love it.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/20 05:38 PM
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The vast majority of men are going to prefer a fit, attractive woman in her thirties that knows how to use her body over a 19-year-old girl that only looks pretty because she's still young Where did you get that from? there is not a man in the US that didn't find J. Lo and Shakira sexy and alluring, regardless of the fact that they both hit the Wall decades ago The only people I see praising old pop-stars are woman and gay men. it is possible for women to act seductively and create more attracti…
/r/TheRedPill26/02/20 04:27 AM
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Well, take what they say with a grain of salt. If you take a look at their Handbook, there is a section about demanding men to treat them like a queen or "highly invest on the girl" from the start (with money and quality dates). And all around there are advice to withhold sex until the guy has "proven himself". It just looks like the "strategies" of this sub are for post-wall woman settling for a beta provider, which is highly contradictory, because it's supposed to be a way to get high SMV guys…
/r/TheRedPill26/02/20 04:07 AM
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Make it compatible with GraphQL. It's trending technology.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/20 03:43 AM
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Good point.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/20 03:42 AM
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I'm not very keen on seeing others adopting the "redpill" because they often distort it to things that are not really counter-culture or just represent another side of the same coin. Besides that, I also hope that the alternative forums take off since the meat of this community, the guys who needs help, still are here.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/20 09:20 PM
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Woman are insufferable with this nonsense talk on astrology, they do think they have no control over their life. Its no surprise you often hear them saying "it's just happened".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/02/20 05:33 AM
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I know a guy who is having more success on Tinder than me because of his photos abroad and with expensive cars. In terms of looks and conversation I'm way better, but not enough to surpass his money.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/02/20 05:26 AM
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Awesome how suddenly she is "cured"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/02/20 09:40 PM
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A stronger guy is more capable and and even though it may not be his genetic default, I think her instinct associate it with children more capable of surviving. They don't care about the journey and neither if it's "fake".
/r/askTRP19/02/20 02:48 PM
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I think you should ought to leave earlier when she started to throw that. You are there to seek help and treating a patient like that is dangerous and unprofessional. Something similar happened to me too. When I mentioned about PUA to my old therapist, first thing that came out of her mind was some news about a guy who was charged on sexual assault. She couldn't even remember the name but had the guts to discourage me without even trying to understand why I would consider PUA in the first place.…
/r/askTRP19/02/20 04:00 AM
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You can fake it at first to tear down the first wall but it's your goal to internalize the red pill and make it who you are. But a lot of PUA's end up just doing what Neil Strauss called "social robots", which leads to misery.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/20 02:38 PM
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IDK why this is so hard to do nowadays The internet changed everything.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/20 02:33 PM
1

Why not challenge and test your plates then? See if they are worthy of more than one night lay. See if they aren't gonna create trouble before meeting and after sex.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/20 02:40 PM
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27yo with a house That's pretty rare these days. Most guys that I know at that age doesn't even have a car, unless their dad are rich and give them one.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/02/20 03:22 PM
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What is the problem of going after IGs?
/r/askTRP28/01/20 05:01 AM
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get some kind of monetization That could be through Patreon or something like that. TRP content is not ad-friendly.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/20 04:36 AM
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Demonetisation is the least of the problems.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/20 10:57 PM
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Bad idea. Put it on Bitchute.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/20 10:56 PM
1

It seems that you missed heavily on how TRP isn't about moralizing and there is a couple of problems what you are saying. First I would like for you to provide any source saying the Enlightenment has any of this dichotomy of good and evil. Second, are you trying to shame anyone for wanting to hump as many bitches as possible?
/r/TheRedPill18/01/20 03:59 PM
1

Unwanted by who? Because this sounds like every girl that rejects him will consider him a creep.
/r/askTRP01/01/20 04:15 PM
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In my experience, first 5-6 months are usually pretty good. Then a bit of familiarity starts to sink in, if you see each other pretty regularly. I don't know the reason behind it but it's a consistent pattern. If you start having multiple plates, maybe something similar will happen.
/r/askTRP28/12/19 05:00 AM
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Sweetheart, you're the goods, I love your beautiful soft eyes, the way you knit sweaters, the way you're capable of utilizing Microsoft Excel This is just gold.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/19 03:48 PM
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Virgins and inexperienced girls seem appealing from the outside but you really do have to be willing to engage more and put up with more childish bullshit if I'm honest. On the plus side, it's way easier to keep your frame that way. The probably is much higher to you leave her than the other way around. So it's more like picking your poison.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/19 03:39 PM
3

From time to time we have some woman coming out of nowhere spewing the usual shaming tactics.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/19 03:36 PM
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OP isn't saying about numbers but overall experience and stories. And you also doesn't need to be overt, she will know by the way you treat her, specially in bed.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/19 03:33 PM
1

Weird because I only kept reading because of the writing style. I really like when an author explains things in minor details and takes himself seriously. It's very different from the way some guys in the manosphere write, as if they were your close "bro" friends and flexing all around, they sound dishonest and like they are trying to sell you something. But hey, take what you find useful and move along with it.
/r/askTRP25/12/19 03:49 AM
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As a matter of fact, woman doesn't wanna see and doesn't care for "the effort" or "the struggle". Weather something was easy or harder to obtain, to her, it matters very little. She only cares about the results, if you get things done and how that will affect her. That's why some guys try to convince their woman they have value by overtly stating on how much they did to give her whatever, be material things or something more personal. Of course that, as a man, the objective is not really to work…
/r/TheRedPill24/12/19 01:01 AM
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I would suck your cock Girl's cocks?
/r/seduction24/12/19 12:49 AM
3

This resonates well. The guys that annoyed me in high school were the ones doing well socially and even achieved better things than me in life.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/19 08:23 PM
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I see the men here upset about dating and finding a good woman That's natural when you realize things doesn't work like what society taught you, it's what we call "the anger phase". I started to respect them again and fall in love with them all over again, I read that book the art of seduction as well and started to realize what I was doing wrong in dating. Well, good for you then. If you think that's enough for your dating life, keep going. But this book is about seducer's archetypes and TRP is…
/r/TheRedPill08/12/19 06:50 PM
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You're just spouting a bunch of random issues in society without making any case. Our goal isn't to "fix" the world. If you want to keep commenting here, try to at least understand what this sub is all about. Everything is on the sidebar.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/19 12:49 PM
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This is a chick who found TRP somehow, just go to her profile and read funny rants like that.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/19 12:34 PM
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I don't consider The Game to be a pickup book but rather a novel. It's mostly good for beginners to familiarize with the PickUp history, have some fun and be inspired.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/19 12:28 PM
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alot of angry people here on reddit. I hope it's not on this sub.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/19 08:23 PM
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You know this place gets shit from both sides. SJW and Trads both hate the truths the red pill brings. How do you adjust the political compass in a reality like that?
/r/TheRedPill05/12/19 03:26 AM
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Any guy who is with an aging women for the emotional support of having an LTR and isn’t planning to have children anytime soon does not subscribe to the philosophy of this sub. There isn't any rules saying you should only have an LTR for the purpose of having children. You can have LTR with multiple woman too. If you are having one for the purpose of emotional support then yes, you're being a needy beta and going against the sub but that's not the sole reason for having one. Maybe you like this …
/r/TheRedPill05/12/19 03:18 AM
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You have to acknowledge that TRP is not against LTR and spinning plates is an advice to build abundance. Be monogamous if you will but have options in case it doesn't work out.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/19 12:27 PM
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Alright, so I found this 2 years ago. Nothing on the sidebar suggests anything about politics. Many old members said its apolitical. It just looks like you are making shit up.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/19 05:22 AM
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A mass of incels and mgtows on the internet making a fuzz doesn't reflect the experience the majority is having. It's the same with sjw types: they are loud but not that many.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/19 05:17 AM
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Everything you mentioned is when you act politically on the subject. It could have a political impact if loads of men applied the red pill, which doesn't seem to be the case. But when you are a single guy acting without care for the future of society or if the current sexual market is unstable, is it political?
/r/TheRedPill04/12/19 05:12 AM
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Yeah, I'm gonna take your advice and let them make the first move after these occasional hook ups.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/19 04:35 AM
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The trick with social circle game is that it needs to be the sort of hook up that "just happened" Actually I totally agree with you on that but things always seems to go wrong for some reason. Just to give you an example, I started a bachelor degree early this year and went to a freshmen party to hang out and meet people. There was this girl that we sort chatted a bit and then it came to a moment when we got closer, the tension built up and we started making out. We were both drunk of course but…
/r/TheRedPill02/12/19 09:45 PM
2

Where is the idea that Gen Z is more aware coming from? Guys seems more affeminate and blue pilled than ever.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/19 07:42 AM
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Social circle game sucks not because of the player reputation but rather because you have to see the girl again and interact with her. This goes way back in high school when I showed interest in a girl in my class just to be rejected, face the mockery and the awkwardness that comes along with. Even to this day I had bad experience with girls in college or somewhat in a circle of friends. It's gonna take some real change in my life to consider taking chances on girls in my routine again.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/19 07:27 AM
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There is no magic solution, you will feel bad regardless. But the pain decreases with repetition and you will face a lot of them if you just wanna play the field. Don't take it personal, honestly. Girls are flaky, unreliable and god knows what's on their minds at the moment. Just be creative, try new forms of Game, continue improving yourself. Sooner of later some girl will reject you like that and you will completely forget her the next day.
/r/askTRP01/12/19 02:58 AM
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Chances are pretty low if you are hot and have some average job.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/19 02:42 AM
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This is quite hyperbolic. We know that sexual harassment is a tool used to get something from guys with resources, no matter how attractive they are. It's also used to shun away betas that are bothering them, like in the workplace. I have no idea where Tim is getting these studies from and he can't even post the link in the description.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/19 02:40 AM
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Just saw this on the seduction subreddit.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/19 02:31 AM
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transformed himself into enough of a normie to assimilate This is what I did and continue to do so. From time to time I still do things that people find weird or nonsensical. Probably most guys at TRP are doing this as well.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/19 02:20 AM
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I'm finding hard to believe in the "revenge of nerds" trope over time. Many bullied cerebral guys at high school get depressed, escape into games and anime and never have any sort of fulfillment in life. The more socially outgoing, despite not being that savvy, go out and grab opportunities. I wish the media would stop selling out this fantasy but they wanna keep making those guys buy Marvel toys.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/19 01:21 AM
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My favorite part of the show. In a sense Bojack help me with a pretty shitty moment in my life. I used to watch the episodes on the weekends alone in my room while drunk.
/r/seduction30/11/19 11:04 PM
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Reproduction is about chances of survival, there's nothing superficial about that.
/r/seduction30/11/19 06:40 PM
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You just explained your thought process lol
/r/seduction29/11/19 04:04 AM
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Of course you don't think about that straight away, you don't even know you're being approached!
/r/seduction29/11/19 02:39 AM
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Pretty much someone who is deeply insecure and desperate for validation. Like, I know this is a comedy tv series (hence her absurd narcissism and self confidence, despite never had watched it) but, in real life, a player would know to not fall for this demeanor facade because this is just a massive shit test to filter out the guys who don't get it.
/r/seduction29/11/19 02:35 AM
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How would you know?
/r/seduction28/11/19 08:02 PM
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This is one of a few materials on carrer I've seen on TRP. Some guys on the manosphere like Aaron Clark have Bachelor Pad Economics. Its that our community is focussed towards male sexual strategy, although having job counts as a way to be independent and it helps with woman.
/r/askTRP28/11/19 05:50 PM
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I think that's not how this works, the whole unpluggging I mean. Let the process happen, let him take the fall and be cucked until he realizes something is very wrong. Let his dream be crushed by the sheer reality of things. Then be there for him, like what you are doing right now. I know you're eager for him to see the truth but the thing is, his mind should be searching for answers in the first place. Wait for him to ask for help, be careful to not shove RP theory on him. Then steadily introdu…
/r/TheRedPill27/11/19 04:42 AM
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Thanks, I'll look on to it!
/r/TheRedPill26/11/19 01:12 PM
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Any books on how to stay motivated to do things and build a good routine? I have a lot of plans and dreams but I feel demotivated all the time to do anything of worth.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/19 01:39 AM
2

A lot of guys over in asktrp shit on nightgame With good reason. The competition is insanely high if you don't have much to offer physically, girls have much stronger shields and there is few room for conversation. I still don't get how Mystery used to build that whole circus just to get laid, maybe his party weren't like the ones I usually go to. At least in the day you can lead her through conversation and deliver value. You have plenty of room to apply all the techniques, even kino depending …
/r/TheRedPill22/11/19 02:25 AM
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Adam failed a shit test Thats pretty clever. Its funny that, as an atheist, I came to appreciate the Bible more because of those insights, on how these stories teach the truth of human nature.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/19 07:51 AM
2

Thanks man. I'm a bit stubborn though.
/r/askTRP20/11/19 04:25 PM
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But I'm already setting up dates with other girls, always nice to have one more.
/r/askTRP20/11/19 04:21 PM
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That's pretty cool. This is one of the reasons I learned to not get angry at girls doing this kind of shit. Sometimes we think we are getting back at them by avenging our egos but in the end of the day we just wanna get laid regardless. Hate fuck is also good.
/r/askTRP20/11/19 04:19 PM
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Thanks, just did that. Let's see how that goes.
/r/askTRP20/11/19 04:16 PM
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I know this sounds like good revenge but I might miss on some opportunity.
/r/askTRP20/11/19 04:14 PM
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Seems like this relationship is already over, since she is so desperate to meet this guy. Must have been her past alpha lover. OP probably isn't spinning other plates so better start now.
/r/askTRP20/11/19 04:06 PM
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There's nothing "toxic" about his thinking, its just not realistic. And what is this talk on "moral character"? The guy just wants to get laid.
/r/askTRP18/11/19 09:56 PM
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Maybe you're coming off as real desperate for the threesome. I have seeings bi girls complaining about being "fetishized", so you need to show interest in her first. I tell you this: fuck the hot bi chick a couple times, then casually introduce a conversation about fetishes. She will probably reveal an interest in doing threesome (all bi chicks do, even straight ones). You should also have another plate ready and then its just logistics to make the three of you meet. Good luck man.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/19 11:32 PM
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The sentence "it just happened" is something I`ve heard from woman over and over again.
/r/askTRP14/11/19 08:21 PM
3

Tell that to a virgin.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/19 08:08 PM
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Lazyness and depression. Had to find a obscure sub in the internet to make me get back to gym. Thats why the blue pill is so dangerous, it sets you in a path of total destruction.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/19 08:07 PM
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that women have no problem being single where as men are more desperate than ever? Actually no and it largely depends on her age. The young ones are more relaxed being single because they can get sex and attention on demand. And from who? From men. It's not that they "don't need a man", it's that their pool of option is much larger while young.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/19 03:35 PM
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do all these unpleasant things now and one day you'll get your reward That's not even how self-improvement works. The struggle never stops, the rewards comes along the way and there is no end goal, you stop when you are dead. What's so delusional about that?
/r/TheRedPill07/11/19 08:14 PM
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turns out just being a friendly dude and getting bitches near alcohol is enough to get laid at our age. Oh geez, I wonder why things didn't worked out like this back then...
/r/TheRedPill07/11/19 07:30 PM
2

No, culture and woman dictate that masculinity is defined by arbitrary rules that benefits them. What they usually do is exploit our desire to be attractive to many females to get what their want. For example, many betas believe that they would get sex by agreeing with a woman and listen to their problems.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/19 07:19 PM
3

Everyone pays taxes and the votes of the majority are pretty much irrelevant after the election.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/19 06:01 AM
1

This is subjective but if you want to make people laugh, it's basically trial and error.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/19 02:11 AM
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It really takes a good chunk of brainwashing to make a narrative against something so common. Guys who are good at storytelling and humor are generally surrounded by woman and we see that since high school.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/19 02:10 AM
3

If you have been here long enough you might have crossed at the term "LARPing". What you are describing is basically that.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/19 04:12 AM
5

Just be careful to not cling on drinking for approaching girls. It's a very tempting strategy that I used myself around your age a lot but incredible frustrating after hooking up with low quality woman and handling girls during the day. Enjoy the moment of success, I think that every small step is worth it.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/19 02:58 PM
7

It's pretty easy to catch yourself with thoughts like "oh, she only likes me as a friend", "these signals ain't true, it's just my imagination" and then you lose some good opportunities. It's basically fear of rejection. Listen to your gut instincts, guys.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/19 03:58 AM
88

This is an issue of brand, not website technology.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/19 03:55 PM
3

JP waited until his dream girl hit the wall to marry her. Just look it up.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/19 01:40 AM
3

That explains how we got to the way we are, having to go out of mainstream platforms to express our opinions. The censorship is supported by the large population, it's not enterprise conspiracy.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/19 01:29 AM
4

This one is good too. [F] I’m so glad that this century is getting something right for the women folk. We are raising women who don’t hang around for validation and half truths from men like you anymore. We are raising women who don’t struggle to be good enough for you. They call us sassy, outspoken, sexually liberated, bitter feminist but it doesn’t matter because we are breaking these societal conditionings our mothers and other women before them had to endure to get and keep men. Yes, we stil…
/r/TheRedPill01/10/19 01:09 AM
3

To me this sounds like basic negging theory.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/19 01:07 AM
14

It was a bit weird asktrp wasn't put into quarantine too.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/19 12:06 AM
2

Due to recent controversies towards Patreon, I think you should look forward to other ways to monetize, just in case.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/19 11:33 PM
28

Did they said anything about asktrp?
/r/TheRedPill30/09/19 11:15 PM
5

I think that your logic doesn't seem to work because of how hypergamy choose a guy to mate. A guy feels intimidated by the hot model because he perceives her as having higher value than him, alongside with the fact that he would be the one having to approach and all that. But since he feels he isn't worthy, he will fuck up his Game and that won't work out. But what happens in the inverse scenario? Remember that Adonis would still need to approach them (because the girl won't do it anyway) and of…
/r/TheRedPill26/09/19 07:01 PM
2

What's the minimum legal age for drinking where you live?
/r/askTRP22/09/19 05:35 AM
0

Why is it more poor decision making that yourself ? Whatever your passion it doesn't have to be engraved on your skin. It is your decision. Not universal. Because I put more thought into it and yes, it's my decision. No, it doesn't have to be engraved on my skin. But four years has passed and I still like it. Plus it does raises your SMV, as several girls have picked my arm to ask what it means. Like OP said, it's a very masculine trait. I'm not saying she is retarded for having them but it does…
/r/TheRedPill21/09/19 09:52 PM
2

To me tattoos was always something that should have meaning, hence the fact I took a long time to get one that could reflect something about my passions in life. Then this week I met a chick with a lot of tattoos in her arm. After asking why she was getting those tattoos, she responded "dunno, I just like them, they are pretty". That's exactly what you said about poor decision making. People who do stuff like that on impulse often regret it later, specially for something so life changing as pain…
/r/TheRedPill20/09/19 04:19 PM
1

if i dont have a place to take her home Always go for a motel in cases of emergency. Good luck brother
/r/TheRedPill18/09/19 11:55 PM
1

There is a lot of buff even roided dudes that have near no action I would assume that's because they got no game, because I also saw the opposite for the same type of guys. They key about lifting is not that you will get pussy guaranteed, but you will improve the chances of getting results. If your face is shit and plastic surgery is out of reach, better to be fit than fat regardless.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/19 05:50 PM
4

"hey, will you wax for me every month, full brazilian" True, I never see hairy girls around here.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/19 03:57 AM
2

Betas take anything they can get, even a clingy girl would do.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/19 03:35 AM
2

And they can't? Even without surgery they would be far better off than most guys and would definitely attract some female eyes. People are just too lazy to put in the effort.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/19 03:27 AM
1

beep boop shut down from being socialy over stimulated I really didn't understand what that means.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/19 03:18 PM
1

Well, yeah. Because that's what men does. Once upon a time a feminist thought "if guys can be with multiple woman, why can't I?". And she managed to convince an entire society that it was a good idea, though she forgot the most important part: woman and men are different. And that's how you get to the current shitshow.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/19 06:26 AM
2

Why people put the burden on guys trying to make their best on the sexual market? We have to fight for it and if they are successful is because woman allows it.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/19 06:23 AM
2

Wisdom got lost to the point you had social conventions that worked but nobody knew why. That's how I see most conservatives defending their principles on holding on for sex and marriage - they just have to use God as fail safe to justify their actions but they have no rationale behind that. How do you expect to convince people with such weak arguments?
/r/TheRedPill12/09/19 06:18 AM
1

If that works for you, great. But I take issue with labeling the other methods as "not RP" or "pedestalizing". In both ways OP mentioned you already show you aren't afraid of her, you keep the frame in the conversation and state your intentions. First thing, being direct on a cold approach is the boldest move a guy can make, no one does this, so I really don't see why that would be "pedestalizing" at all. And I hate the term "beating around the bush" because that's not what indirect is. There is…
/r/TheRedPill11/09/19 05:58 AM
3

Gotta love those subjective "advices" that doesn't help anything in the real world. I talk about her. Feeding her narcissistic ego I wonder. Maybe pedestalizing a little too much too?
/r/TheRedPill11/09/19 04:46 AM
1

Nobody is being "blind", didn't you read his last paragraph? fighting social media is not a battle any of us are going to win We just gotta deal with it the best way we can.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/19 05:37 AM
3

I really don't see how that will be any different than what we currently have. People have been dating through Facebook before Tinder. There is a sea of dating apps on the market already, plenty of choices for any woman to optimize their hypergamy needs. There is no "datecalypse".
/r/TheRedPill09/09/19 05:31 AM
1

Now whether this is true or not matters less than all the butthurt responses. It's like OP has said something overtly offensive on a feminist sub. What's up with all the panties on fire here?
/r/TheRedPill09/09/19 05:17 AM
5

Lived at home so no pull location I know that the best way is to have your own place but a motel works fine too.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/19 04:54 AM
2

If you are already giving less attention and she is not responding, she is probably not that interested anymore. I would suggest you wait and go spin your other plates in the meantime. Show you don't tolerate shitty behavior by moving to your other options.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/19 04:50 AM
5

This movie is a great example on how a man should deal with the rules of society.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/19 06:26 AM
5

Well I read it like three or four times and yeah there was some conflict but I mean, she is still up to sex. In my experience, whenever I became needy, the girl would start making demands and requiring less and less attention from me. Fucking anywhere (dirty toilets, dark corners) stopped being an option. After she moved to another city, it was impossible to have a good conversation with her. So yeah, in my experience, the biggest proof a girl likes you is when she removes barriers for sex to ha…
/r/TheRedPill01/09/19 03:45 AM
3

I don't understand. If she started perceiving you as a low value, how come she are still inviting you to meet at some bar's toilet to get a quick fuck?
/r/TheRedPill31/08/19 03:36 AM
3

Feminism is the woman's version of the blue pill.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/19 07:58 PM
6

He is searching for post-wall woman, what do you expect?
/r/TheRedPill22/08/19 06:20 PM
3

That is a perfect explanation.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/19 04:24 AM
5

Black guys from the hood are usually seen as big, dangerous and can get shit done, so it probably triggers that part of female brain looking for strong genetics and fearlessness to protect them. These guys have gangs (aka social proof), provide fun parties and drugs, so I believe that they are much more fun than the usual businessman. But of course, they are awful providers. Then the girls look out for guys like you for the long term relationship. Classic AF/BB.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/19 08:50 PM
5

This is some good insight. In my experience, there was a lot of girls that I kissed at parties, gave me their MSN (back in the day), only to ghost me the day after. It's all fine and dandy when you are naive teenagers but this shit gets old with time, you should be in the field to close business.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/19 04:13 AM
6

Nothing. I wouldn't have listened, and neither will that guy. Well, don't you wanna be the guy who says "I told you so"?
/r/TheRedPill07/08/19 12:27 PM
1

I wonder if going out with her is a good idea since you put politics into the table. It's gonna be harder to maintain frame and deal with shit tests once she starts discussing these topics on your date. Like you said, it's a subject that dries pussy and will probably be a waste of your time.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/19 06:23 AM
2

This sounds like a good idea considering how many subgroups are formed into this community, with different approaches to politics, relationships, lifting and so on.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/19 04:37 AM
1

Yeah, most of these are true. Like, I don't try to compete with other guys and focus on doing the exercise at pace to feel the muscles contracting. Thanks for the help.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/19 01:16 PM
1

Sorry, that was kind of a joke based on my interpretation of his words in the interview.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/19 01:06 PM
2

He says it's problematic for a government and him to decide what people are allowed to say but he makes constant assumption on what is "bad", "good" and what "Reddit can and can't have". I'm allowing free speech but only on things I think it's ok. - Steve Huffman
/r/TheRedPill01/08/19 12:56 AM
2

Can you elaborate on the Tribe feature?
/r/TheRedPill01/08/19 12:47 AM
1

Also I would focus more on hypertrophy and gaining muscle mass than strength when lifting. I focused only on strength training for too long and while I could move a lot of weight for my size, I didn't have the definition and mass to show for it. Wasted years of training. I'd rather be weaker strength wise with muscles than strong without muscles. How do you make sure your exercises at the gym will prioritize gaining muscle mass? I'm exercising for 6 months by now, always had very skinny figure a…
/r/TheRedPill31/07/19 02:33 AM
6

A helpful way to deal with regret is to see them as necessary steps to your growth. I thank my blue pilled and coward past self for making me deal better with girls today.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/19 11:37 PM
6

Same rules apply. The thing with woman is they won't be attracted to you because of that. Having similar tastes and interestes makes a little easier since you can bring her along with your hobbies and have more stuff to talk about, so take that as a bonus.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/19 05:27 AM
2

I really don't know how some guys are friends with woman. Do they all have secret sexual desires towards them? Because it was just like that with me: I either wanted to fuck them or we already did and kept in touch for some reason.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/19 05:20 AM
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when you establish this level of trust with women, they will open up to you... telling you about their past exploits, what women REALLY talk about, and just how freaky they really are sexually. 99% of the time when this happened I was just being their beta friend, no attraction whatsoever. And even with the outliers that I was fucking, it was something I didn't wanted to hear anyway because it's disgusting. It mostly served to confirm they were pump and dump material. So, how is that positive?
/r/TheRedPill09/07/19 01:07 PM
1

So you need balance. Yes, you said it yourself. I don't know why people instantly assume that these things are mutually exclusive, being an interesting persona and be committed to your goals. Maybe you are thinking on one of those guys that just can't make an exception to have fun, like eating a burger with friends even though he is on a diet to lose weight.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/19 03:17 AM
3

Guys doing it from the superior position want to maintain chicks in their soft harem while continuing to fuck around. That's just spinning plates and while I do see the point from The Red Quest, that's just not the reality of most guys. These "poly" relationships are a way for the woman to get security from her beta boyfriend while screening the market for alpha guys, so it's a win-win for her, both sides of hypergamy satisfied in one take. They make the guy rationalize something about love, pul…
/r/TheRedPill02/07/19 04:38 AM
1

Highest level of SMV is achieved as not giving a fuck, being childish and do not care fo consequences and still manage to make it. And how do you even expect someone to make it without effort? Again, you guys are missing the point, thinking that having discipline and committing to your goals is somehow being the Jesus boy who never swears, always dress right and is on church every Sunday. That's not what OP was talking about. He was pointing out things that could get in the way of your goals. Fo…
/r/TheRedPill02/07/19 04:04 AM
0

It's just a cool way to say dudes should fuck, girls shouldn't. Like people said, it's an analogy for a much larger concept. And yet, you don't seem to hold a counter-argument, nor does anyone else.
/r/askTRP27/06/19 07:21 PM
3

Is leftist ideology synonymous with increased profitability or is it go woke get broke? Neither, there is a middle ground. Movies and TV Series have been very profitable going woke, along with most if not all woman products advertisements. You don't see hot woman bringing men a beer on TV anymore. And some more examples. However, you cited some cases where it failed. So it largely depends on your audience.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/19 03:57 PM
2

I'm convinced the main driver is money. Corporations use ideology and social movements as a shield. People are vastly different, but since women and the LGTBT crowd are big consumers, they make men accept their values and sell the same products to a broader audience. I bet it's way more complex than this, just trying to be straightforward as possible.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/19 03:49 PM
1

Seems like you are new here, so let me get straight to the point with you: if online dating isn't working, maybe it's time that to learn Game. You know, approaching girls in real life. When you are face to face with a girl, there are no buffers, no bullshit. She can see all your physical qualities and flaws straight away. She can sense your presence, the way you act and talk, etc. That's all the requirements that you will eventually have to do present to her because you will eventually meet her …
/r/TheRedPill26/06/19 04:12 PM
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If you have a problem in some area that is limiting your SMV, then deal with it. But these long lists of "don'ts" are not at all what RP is about. But that's exactly the point of OP's post, nobody is making a bible of what to do and what not to do. These are advices so guys won't sabotage themselves, because more often then not they do and the patterns are very common. And nobody said discipline is something to go brag on woman but they do reflect on your SMV.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/19 01:38 AM
1

Where do you live? Thankfully nobody repressed me for denying gays... yet.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/19 09:00 PM
1

Hopping on an Xbox party, actually conversing and hearing each others voices, working together and competing as a team provides us with a rewarding dose of male camaraderie, and it would be difficult for you to convince me otherwise. Are those people even your IRL friends? Can you have fun with them outside? Speaking from personal experience, the dynamic is very different and switching from one environment to another can be pretty awkward.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/19 08:18 PM
2

They socially isolate you. It's true. There was a time in my teen/early adult years when all I could talk about was my last accomplishments in the current game I was playing. Meanwhile, the cool dudes from school and college had interesting stories to tell and that left me hanging there, wondering how to be interesting. Turns out that cool stories comes from stuff you do on your life that is out of the ordinary, paying attention to your surroundings and also make a spin on the fact to turn them …
/r/TheRedPill19/06/19 07:55 PM
10

What a disappointing scene, two grown up men sizing up their dicks live. No actual discussion, just throwing insults at each other, something that even kindergartens could do. You know, I have been here for almost two years and maybe it's time to take a break from this sub and these people. Let TRP prove to be the real deal by my actions rather than other people's words.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/19 04:26 AM
5

I have a little disagreement with this, because you are thinking of influencers like Roosh, Roissy or even Rollo as a vacuum of ideas but forget they had become role models for newer TRPs. So when they change or do something disappointing, the followers get confused and these kind of stories affects them.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/19 04:36 PM
1

I had the same impression they were going along with Antony just because he got the means to reach a larger audience. Pretty much politics, you make concessions to reach your objectives, sometimes even shaking hands with the enemy. It doesn't sound like a blue pill fantasy if you know what are you getting into and the possible consequences.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/19 03:00 PM
4

I understand what you are saying but it really sounds like we are arguing semantics here. We are also entering on a very blurred area on what people consider validation-seeking and pedestrianizing woman, that seems to be a topic of high contempt between guys in the manosphere. But if that works for you, there is no point in convincing otherwise.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/19 06:13 PM
5

But if you aren't running game, how do you expect to get laid? You wait for the chicks to come are you?
/r/TheRedPill06/06/19 04:38 PM
3

Why can't someone be MGTOW and a PUA? Do they have to stop getting laid to be the first?
/r/TheRedPill06/06/19 01:20 PM
1

The whole point of lifting is to build another core aspect of your person i.e strength and health. It's about building confidence too.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/19 04:57 AM
1

If newbies can't understand why lifting is TRP 101 and that real change takes time, nothing else will help them. Given the fact they are very young adults, it's most likely they will fuck up a lot before reconsidering the points here.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/19 04:53 AM
7

What is toxicity? I hear that pretty often from people who wanna impose their morals on you, as a means of control. Plus, the anger phase is a pretty normal part of the process, because it's when you realize that you have been deceived for long enough.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/19 06:43 PM
38

Like Rollo says, a woman has the prerogative of changing her mind and everyone will defend it. Well, not to mention the big shit test he failed.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/19 07:52 AM
113

One day I stopped to think if feminism will ever stop, if one day they will say "Well, that's it! All the goals in the checklist are fulfilled, our work is done!" But then you realise that everyday some new idea, something new to fight for appears. First it was the right to vote and work. Now we are talking about entertainment, male spaces, woman in power, etc. It's just like the wife who is never happy, keep making demands and the obedient beta husband who obeys every request, only to wonder wh…
/r/TheRedPill19/05/19 07:40 AM
2

It's called frame and if you keep it, their words won't bother you. In fact, cases like this is are a rare occurrence and make up for fun stories to tell your buddies.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/19 11:57 PM
1

Because, like most people, they don't wanna or don't believe in putting in the effort to make the change. I mean, there's a lot of reasons. Some believe in the blue pill fantasy lies, some don't have power of will, some think they can buy genuine desire, some get accommodated and so on. So for the blue pilled guy invested in these kind of relationship, breaking free from the comfort zone is quite scary and literally millions of men lock themselves into marriages and exclusive LTR just so they ca…
/r/askTRP05/05/19 05:30 AM
7

Well, isn't a bit obvious? You see a physically attractive girl and that triggers your sexuality and desire to mate. And then a cute girl, who looks fragile and weak, triggers your protective instinct. But I bet you can find girls who fits both categories.
/r/askTRP05/05/19 05:22 AM
8

I give credit to Rollo for a lot of reasons: consistent body of work, having the patience to respond the same questions over and over and being objective, as opposed to click-baity marketing that most Youtube channels and blogs resort to.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/19 12:42 PM
2

I believe that was David DeAngelo who used to say that attraction isn't a choice, so yes, I have some attraction for her. That's why the situation bothered me, no matter how much I try to rationalize it. Just one more reason to spin plates.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/19 11:12 AM
1

People will fight tooth and nails to dismiss what you have to say, so why bother? It took me a long time to understand these concepts, do you think my parents will get it with just a peep talk?
/r/TheRedPill24/04/19 05:44 AM
7

When I finally decided to start lifting, my thought was "what do I have to lose?". My life wasn't working as a skinnyfat guy anyways, might as well get fit and see what happens.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/19 01:53 AM
1

he always asked me if I wanted to have sex Well, that's his first mistake: you don't ask, you just act. Imagine going to a girl and be like "you wanna have sex? can I put you into bed?" But I can understand his frustration, because I dated a virgin before and she kept me teasing for 3 or 4 months before she gave in. Imagine hearing a lots of "no" or "not right know" when your dick is hard as a rock, with have a semi naked with just her panties on. How would you feel? Can you imagine? Then you br…
/r/TheRedPill17/04/19 04:32 PM
1

I guess that I need to learn how to enjoy the process. The only problem is sometimes the anger is way too much and I used break stuff in my house or being rude to undeserving people.
/r/askTRP15/04/19 03:52 AM
3

i had to actively seek people out with my interests. That's what I'm trying to do at 27yo. Thanks again, maybe that's what is really holding me back from enjoying these moments.
/r/askTRP14/04/19 05:29 PM
2

Thanks, I'll listen to it. But when people say "get out of your own head", I really don't know how to do that because I'm very introverted and that's a personality trait.
/r/askTRP14/04/19 05:07 PM
2

I wasn't sad because of not scoring chicks, couldn't have fun with anyone either.
/r/askTRP14/04/19 05:06 PM
3

It's okay man. It's pretty common for man to take a woman's word literally and get this same frustration of wondering why it's not working out between you and her, despite doing everything she told you to do (or not). That's part of why we are here anyways, to understand woman's nature and knowing how to deal with these situations.
/r/askTRP14/04/19 04:41 PM
12

You may wanna take another look at the sidebar. A woman will never tell you what you should do, they expect you to "just get it". That's a way for them to filter out the betas.
/r/askTRP14/04/19 04:17 PM
2

This was spot on. I'm not on TRP to go after every trashier girl I could get on. It's too about pride, self-respect and personal standards. It's about the girls that will really gonna add value to my life, that will put real effort to meet and spend their time with me.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/19 03:10 AM
2

Is there such a thing as "webcam warrior"? Because most of these "experts" are throwing out clickbait videos on Youtube, trying to manufacture outrage from men and give shallow, baseless advice.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/19 04:44 AM
9

Yeah, I feel like this is more like a shift in generation. Why go to an event when you can swipe ideal matches from your couch?
/r/TheRedPill09/04/19 04:38 AM
9

I'm dying to share it with unawakened friends, but we all know how that'll turn out... Want a tip? If your friends have a slight sense of judgment on women and aren't afraid to be non-PC, just throw some bits of RP knowledge in the middle of conversations. You would be surprised on how many people agree with several statements but might refuse if you deliver entire articles about it. It's like giving diluted medicine. ​
/r/TheRedPill03/04/19 04:14 AM
1

I think this is a coping mechanism to avoid the anxiety that comes with approaching. Can't speak for everyone but I used to to think like this for a while. There's no limit to how many excuses a man will find to not approach.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/19 03:29 AM
1

I'm 27 and seeing lots of girls around my age or younger getting pregnant with some guy and raising kids alone. Some of them get fat but those who still look hot doesn't seem to have a problem in getting a guy to date. I believe the plan is shifting to some sort of cuckoldry.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/19 01:55 PM
5

You see your girlfriend 2-4 times a week, go out for food or drinks or a fun activity, then go home and have sex. Why can't you do that with a plate? I kept non-committal short relationships for few months doing exact this. After a few months, she probably starts to try to exert some power over you, has less sex, tries to insist that you do various things for her, tries to get you to move in together, and so on. And not only that will eventually happen, it usually takes less than a year. Meanwhi…
/r/TheRedPill26/03/19 04:40 AM
115

This is the mind of a bluepill guy who still believes in open communication, that he should disclose and hand it over every bit of private information to her.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/19 07:20 PM
2

Elder game is one of the most fascinating concepts I have learned, Roosh is really the king for coming up with such an idea. Funny enough, I tried it with a girl at a bus stop and all of a sudden she told me several things about herself. You may find some woman who will look at you with disgust but most of them will try to be nice at least.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/19 05:08 AM
2

The narrative is what matters, they don't care the end result is gonna be the same. The intention of the author is more important than what he says or does! In fact, I disagree with this, since they take identity before intention. Therefore, everyone would be pro-consent app if a woman was the author. ​
/r/TheRedPill19/03/19 02:27 AM
1

It makes sense because it's so common for woman to do charity and brag about it.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/19 04:45 AM
1

You could be more succinct instead of splitting this into a multiple part story. I wanna read your mistakes and what you learned, not every minute detail is important.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/19 04:30 AM
3

I can't watch this, the ugliest woman are the most entitled.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/19 04:51 AM
1

I don't like the approach of telling random girls you find them cute, you are qualifying yourself to them for free instead of showing value. And in today's culture, it's possible they interpret that as sexual harassment.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/19 04:42 AM
2

I really don't understand, getting to the point of picking up chicks with ease must be a really liberating experience. All my life I spent pursuing many passions such as computer programming, art, music and sports. But woman was always a lagging factor because the lack of intimacy gets me deeply depressed. Like, real depression, not just episodes of sadness, to the point were you can't get nothing done and lose the will to even cry. I googled for years to find anything remotely like TRP, jumping…
/r/TheRedPill07/03/19 08:03 AM
13

Truth to that, why OP is talking about watching TV? The minimum someone can do is using the internet to be informed, living in a bubble doesn't help either.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/19 05:38 AM
1

But should we believe in a woman's words about feminism? Who is her? What if she has a hidden agenda? Aren't we just believing her because she says what we wanna hear?
/r/TheRedPill27/02/19 05:27 AM
1

Most of the internet will advise to shave but I know it isn't that easy. I had a long hair and really liked the rockstar style and now this happens. You can try minoxidil, which doesn't hold consequences. There are surgery but they are expensive and risky. At best, try lifting and and creating a style that fits your new look. I think girls will overlook your face if you have a hot body, instead of looking like a cancer patient. Lifting is one of the best advices from this sub and the easiest to …
/r/askTRP24/02/19 02:30 AM
7

Best of luck on your journey.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/19 05:45 PM
1

You are taking me as someone else. I never said about being entitled to anything.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/19 02:34 PM
1

We don't agree how society works, not nature. That's the system. If anyone here denies biology, I have no idea what he is doing hanging around. An outcry that you don't live in the age where there was a woman for every man No everyone here wants to rewind the clock but there are rational reasons for wishing that. The rest of your post is basically projecting.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/19 12:52 PM
1

It doesn't start with wishful thinking but what a whole society teaches you since birth. Why do you think it takes a trauma to bring men here? And even then, a lot them keep fumbling in the dark, hopelessly looking for an answer. Don't you remind of Agent Smith, who keeps trying to get people back into the Matrix? It's a powerful force and everyone contributes to keep you plugged in. If it takes a huge amount of effort for the red pill initiate, imagine the power a lone guy will need to snap out…
/r/TheRedPill23/02/19 03:54 AM
1

I don't believe you really understand the full concept of hypergamy and AWALT for that matter.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/19 03:37 AM
1

Does anyone really believe woman will want to listen to Roosh, the infamous "PUA rapist" or any advice to control hypergamy for that matter?
/r/TheRedPill23/02/19 03:28 AM
1

Well, I have a degree in IT, so getting a coding job to develop apps is fine. the future of your culture might depend upon it What you mean? ​
/r/askTRP21/02/19 04:37 AM
1

Hooked up with an average black girl with decent body. Pretty innocent, inexperienced and possible a virgin, given she was raised in a farm in a very conservative family. Found her on a Tinder match and she showed all dolled up in her first date, big earrings and heels. Gave me lots of passionate kisses in the middle of the plaza, it was great. Tried to bring her to an hotel since day one, but she kept dodging. Finally I get her to take a bus and meet me at my city. I was a tourist guide for a d…
/r/askTRP21/02/19 03:59 AM
1

Well, I’ll save someone else the trouble and point out than even though your degree is “free”, it’s probably useless. That's up for debate, really. Yeah, it's public university, paid by the government with our taxes. And while you can learn anything on the internet nowadays, academia gives you direction to study and is usually the starting point for networking, which leads to opportunity for jobs. And it's visual arts, not liberal arts as most people like to rally against. But back on the subjec…
/r/askTRP21/02/19 03:40 AM
4

Were you married already when the first whim of bullshit happened? Because I get when men tries to get along with a shitty marriage, divorce is a disaster.
/r/askTRP21/02/19 03:21 AM
3

What's the problem in peeking into the bucket if it's gonna cost just a few minutes? Because that's how I feel about TRP in general: you could all be just keyboard warriors but what do you have to lose by applying the knowledge anyway?
/r/TheRedPill17/02/19 04:54 PM
1

Like I said, show the concepts but don't talk about the community. Don't say it's "from the red pill". This is something I'm even doing myself, testing the concepts among friends in a very subtle way and in small doses. First rule of fight club, remember?
/r/TheRedPill17/02/19 03:08 AM
4

I like to see women's reaction to the questions but I hate the "in the red pill community" introduction. Why the fuck these guys have to say were it came from? I don't want angry woman rallying against the community because of some retard youtuber.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/19 01:56 AM
5

Well, time to watch some classic movies.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/19 01:48 PM
10

I fell the same way, can't help but being a bit of a boyfriend in the moment. And they do reciprocate, like making lunch together or taking a bath. It's like you are having a honey moon. To be completely honest, having short honey moons with several plates for the rest of the life sounds like a really good plan.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/19 02:59 AM
3

How do you demote a LTR to plate? Serious question, I think the girl would rather have you break up with her. My last LTR didn't accepted being a fuck buddy.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/19 07:07 PM
3

They already do. That's why we separate the bathroom and dorms between genders. That's why the government have to police men from treating a woman with disrespect.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/19 06:56 PM
1

Elon Musk is the living proof that money doesn't make you alpha. I admire his smarts but holy shit, he's desperate for affection.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/19 06:38 PM
20

You can tell someone has no care for their belongings and are a bit fucked up in the head when they bust a new expensive phone every couple of months.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/19 03:16 AM
1

Are you delusional? You just confirmed the need of having someone telling you what to do. And that your way is the right way too. Like I said, there's millions of self help gurus out there.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 07:27 PM
1

Yeah you're really don't wanna argue this logically. You just came here to preach.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 07:01 PM
0

If you expecting Rollo to be a leader or a guru, you are probably looking at the wrong way. And that's for anyone who are looking for that too. I see him the same way I see scientists, as someone who cracked some "universe mystery" and laid out for us to understand. Amazon is already filled with cooked-up recipes for life and there's always some self-help book reaching the Top 10 best sellers of the year. Remember The Secret? And besides, aren't we supposed to be our own leaders?
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 04:33 PM
1

I'm subscribed to the sub and with a verified email.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 03:55 AM
9

About the quarantine, this just happened the other day. If you use the official app, any community on quarantine is being fully blocked. Notice how there's no option to continue like in the website. This doesn't happen with other clients though.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/19 11:15 PM
6

I used to listen to music about depression and feeling sorry for myself. When you adopt the right mindset, some music will start to feel unberable to listen to.
/r/askTRP11/02/19 03:10 PM
5

I think he saw an opportunity to collaborate with people who has the means to promote his work. At least his message didn't changed.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/19 03:22 PM
6

One sound advice I found on some PUA site was to set up a date ASAP. It's even better if you get her phone or whatever messaging app contact, tinder is not reliable and girls often complain about it. If she is interested, she will agree right away. Some may be a little resistant and may require you to invest a couple of minutes of chatting. But that's it. Many guys think you should "get to know each other online" first and that's a huge waste of time. I don't even rely on text game anymore, neve…
/r/TheRedPill27/01/19 01:04 PM
2

Thanks man.
/r/askTRP27/01/19 12:34 PM
1

That's interesting. But what about trying to entertain the rest of the group and the possible cockblockers, so they don't get jealous?
/r/askTRP27/01/19 06:04 AM
2

This is a tricky situation, she could have matched you for funsies or she could actually be interested. A good way to know is to ask her to grab some drinks. Hopefully you both will loosen up and them you can see her true intentions.
/r/askTRP27/01/19 04:40 AM
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The "crabs in a barrel" analogy is true and we tend to feel morally obligated to stick with friends that don't want to be better. Worst of all is when they are the only guys that have that interesting nerdy talk. And you need to change your thoughts on books. If there is some 2019 resolution for me it would be to spend less time with games and more with good reading. Good luck to you bro.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/19 06:16 AM
1

I have read this before here, that you don't need to have fun all the time. Okay, I can live with that. But where do you draw the line between real work and pleasure time? How much pleasure should you be having? Can you have pleasure in your work? Or enjoyment and pleasure are two different concepts? Real, honest question.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/19 01:38 AM
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I've seen this a lot. Gay guys and woman are great partners in crime.
/r/askTRP16/01/19 08:36 PM
2

It's way worse than that. She is dragging him into drama and he might even get into trouble with another guy.
/r/askTRP13/01/19 05:47 AM
3

That's a really good strategy for older men, might keep this in the back of my mind.
/r/askTRP13/01/19 05:21 AM
3

Do they usually get tested without complaint? And do you mention to them about your vasectomy? I'm genuinely curious, have been thinking about getting one for a long time.
/r/askTRP13/01/19 05:09 AM
2

Serial monogamy still get girls pregnant.
/r/askTRP13/01/19 05:02 AM
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If the chick is hot you will cum regardless. There are also some condoms that are thinner and provide better sensitivity. And using condoms is pretty much like choosing your clothes, gotta see which one fits best. Of course skin to skin contact will always fell better but we must work with what we got for now.
/r/askTRP13/01/19 05:01 AM
1

I used to have this girlfriend who was really paranoid about pregnancy. So, after the sex, I would fill the condom with water to see if it didn't tear. Do the same: use a condom, empty it afterwards and throw it into the trash.
/r/askTRP13/01/19 04:51 AM
2

Radical ideas like this are gonna find a whole lot of resistance, but you know how blue pilled conservatives can be.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/19 02:08 PM
19

No, it's a combined effort. Many researchers who study femininity also work on masculinity: Several contributors to the guidelines for girls and women have also contributed to the new guidelines for boys and men. Do you think these researchers are male only? Men don't have a say about femininity in our society. ​
/r/TheRedPill09/01/19 04:15 AM
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I live in South America and fear that we don't have anything like TRP here. The trends in the USA, sooner of later, gets here and reading about this feels more like predicting the future. It's unavoidable, in one of two years the local media will be talking about this. Then bloggers, then social media, then activists.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/19 04:12 AM
7

What confuses me on this "woman attraction is singular" statement is how come some go to make up with dozen of men in a party, for example. Is this some sort of modern trend?
/r/TheRedPill08/01/19 01:54 PM
4

Read the sidebar.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/19 04:04 AM
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The real reason why Peterson thinks this is a fine situation is because the same happened to him, except he continues to be married. His wife was a childhood friend who denied a relationship with him in the beginning. She only accepted him in her epiphany phase. Simply put, don't take advice from him about intersexual dynamics.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/19 04:01 AM
4

I always see musicians build a nice social circle and girls always comes along. If you start playing in bars, you can pick up some chicks after the show.
/r/askTRP20/12/18 11:20 AM
1

I get what you mean, though people may think that falling in love is the same as developing some oneitis.
/r/askTRP19/12/18 08:55 PM
1

Describe for me what it means to fall in love. Plus you said "TRP will be there if you change your mind."
/r/askTRP19/12/18 08:42 PM
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This is a pretty bad advice, you're asking the guy to take a leap into the blue pill world and get hurt. His problem is not love but purpose. Or maybe he is feeling he should fell something else because everyone does. There is a way to enjoy girls without turning into a chick flick drama. TRP is not some nihilistic path to bang girls.
/r/askTRP19/12/18 08:32 PM
6

I'm already befriending cucks :)
/r/TheRedPill16/12/18 03:49 PM
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Agreed. This part says it all about OP's mindset: he is afraid of leaving a dead and sexless LTR because he thinks he won't have sex anymore. And honestly, it happens to most guys. For example, it took me three months to convince myself that I needed to leave a GF that didn't wanted to have sex because of some personal paranoia. So OP, leave her. It seems that there isn't much to invest on this anyway. You will get sex, given that you approach and continue to take care of yourself.
/r/askTRP15/12/18 01:21 PM
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He was being ironic, I think.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/18 05:09 AM
2

The stranger being me, of course, the guy who's gaming her.
/r/askTRP25/11/18 10:06 AM
2

But what are the odds of the girl ditching her friends to go someplace else with a stranger?
/r/askTRP25/11/18 02:18 AM
0

I find OP's approach rather radical. You don't really need to commit virtual suicide in order to have a mentality shift, unless you are so addicted that you can't help yourself. For the most part, people question you a lot why you are not on social media and others might think you have 0 zero friends, which can hurt your SMV with woman. There is some strategies you can adopt to not waste time on these platforms, specially since looking at other people's posts leads to depression. Plus, it can he…
/r/TheRedPill23/11/18 01:33 PM
1

Are they really your friends? How is that they influence you decisions? Because one thing is to have friends that let you down and constantly criticize your decisions. Another is to have friends that disagree with you, which doesn't justify you slacking off on you goals.
/r/askTRP14/11/18 03:12 AM
1

Truth be told, I wanted to believe my reality was the reality of the majority. But a few years in college proved me wrong. At some point, everyone seemed to be evolving, getting a nice girlfriend, enjoying kisses at crazy parties and so on. Most of these guys were at my frat house, some were fat, weird, ugly but overall they had a good time with everything their early 20s has to offer. They graduated and life worked out for them. For me, it was a train wreck of chasing bottom of the bar girls th…
/r/TheRedPill14/11/18 02:36 AM
1

Any chance in trying again, maybe inviting to a more casual date in a bar or something?
/r/askTRP12/11/18 04:08 AM
1

Did you tried texting her the day after? Because the only time this ever worked for me was with a past gf who was checking me out before we meet at a club. In all the other occasions, they were completely cold, even if they were passionately making out with me the whole night. By the way, you come as desperate by doing this. Wait at least a couple of days, maybe even a week or two.
/r/askTRP12/11/18 04:05 AM
1

One aspect of Roosh's books that I found to be particularly interesting was the elderly chat. It's basically throwing baits so the person gets more interested on your story. However, it's not some magical words you throw to amaze other people but rather tell life experiences in a engaging way. So traveling, investing your time in good hobbies and getting into unique situations makes you come up with subjects to talk to on the fly, because they are things that you actually lived. In other words, …
/r/askTRP11/11/18 10:50 PM
1

Man, this one is hard. I'll try to give a quick background: Met her on Tinder and despite her short messages, she even helped me schedule a date. Said and done, a few days later we were kissing on a public bench. Since she lives in a city nearby and I don't have a car, I gave up because couldn't think in a way to escalate to sex. Had no game and didn't knew about TRP. Earlier this year, she sent me text while drunk saying she wanted to kiss in the middle of the morning. I tried to schedule anoth…
/r/askTRP11/11/18 07:02 PM
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I've tried reading Mistery, Style and even Gambler and they indeed have mechanized tactics that will probably make you look weird. Try reading Roosh's Bang and Day Bang. He presents simple rules and basic framework that is easy to remember and malleable enough for you to adapt at any situation. Plus, his writing is really engaging and funny.
/r/askTRP11/11/18 01:53 PM
1

Nah, I do. I've also realized that the most charismatic people are tested all the time but they know how to handle the situation. But only after reading about shit tests.
/r/askTRP08/10/18 04:30 PM
2

My parents had that attitude too, saying to just ignore them. It was the most useless advice, because the entire class ended up making open jokes about me. I still don't know how I swallowed all of that but it's affecting my present self in the form of low tolerance for frustration, leading to explosions of anger, feelings of revenge and murder fantasy. The truth is, I don't see any of them in literal years. They moved on to other cities, probably close to get married, who knows. I will keep lif…
/r/askTRP08/10/18 04:25 PM
5

The description of The Player is really ironic. The guy nailed her and her best friend apparently, but he is the stupid one for some reason.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/18 03:51 AM
3

This reminds me of an occasion with a fuck buddy. When we started stripping off our clothes, she said "take it easy, it's been a long time". Then I just smiled and thought "oh, you have no idea what a long time means".
/r/TheRedPill18/08/18 03:32 AM
6

There are a few reasons why you would find straight girls on a gay bar/party. They were invited by their male gay friends. In their mind, it's a night of fun without having guys hitting on them. Thus it makes easier if you wanna game there, because there is almost no competition. They are not really straight. In current days, it's pretty easy to find girls claiming to be bisexual, but most doesn't take things too far with other woman. So this is an opportunity for them to experiment. I still rem…
/r/TheRedPill29/07/18 04:46 PM
2

This article hits close too home because I couldn't believe that so many girls younger than me, at their early 20+, was believing in astrology. I always thought that was stuff for old hags but, there they were, parroting things about sign compatibility for romance and friendship. So much for a more "rational" generation. I also wondered what is the good strategy in these kind of situations. My attempts to rationalize and argue over this topic with woman always led to dry pussy, because I couldn'…
/r/TheRedPill08/07/18 11:08 PM
2

Thanks sir! I have been lifting everyday after founding about TRP.
/r/askTRP28/06/18 08:19 PM
1

correcting incorrect understandings I have of social conditions helps me manage my anxiety How do you do that? Like, I think you're right. It's that every woman I'm friend with have complained about such minor things like receiving compliments from stranger dudes, even at parties. Kinda got stuck in my head. All I want is do what these guys do on these PUA videos: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q-Sehh-yD-c
/r/askTRP28/06/18 08:18 PM
1

Thanks! It's probably my mind creating excuses anyway. And my friends didn't helped much either when I discussed with them about talking to girls on street.
/r/askTRP28/06/18 08:10 PM
1

Something similar happened with a particular girl a few times, some months after our non-stop casual fuck. It's goddamn confusing. She used to tease, then say she "got to wake up early" and eventually give up and fuck me. But only after insisting, which is something I really hate. After reading this post, it kinda made sense about the dissonance of having the brain say "no" and the body say "yes". Great job on this one. At least she gave you a clear "yes" in the end, so she has nothing against y…
/r/TheRedPill26/06/18 12:49 AM
1

Doesn't seem to bad if it's working for him.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/18 06:30 AM
2

A friend told me the other day that in his class at university, pretty much all of his post-graduating colleagues were dating someone they met through Tinder. They are mostly in their late 20s or early 30s. It kept me wondering if that phenomena has to do with the media and feminism scaring away men from trying to approaching woman in their day to day activities, in fear of sexual assault accusation. Like, I am a bit fearful. And also feels like people are getting too soon on online dating. I al…
/r/TheRedPill06/06/18 06:01 AM
3

With the paradigm of women shifting towards being more independent they have a different idea of what a marriage should be What do they think a marriage should be then? Women are rejecting marriage because they've shifted from hypergamy Am I on the right sub?
/r/TheRedPill05/06/18 11:13 PM
0

They look for emotionally unavailable guys to sleep with, because just like me they don't want some fucking psycho calling/texting/stalking them. And here is where it gets interesting: they openly admit that they are gonna get back to the clinger guys for marriage. I mean, this article screams hypergamy.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/18 04:56 PM
2

Some guy linked this article in a forum and it has many concepts that I found relatable to TRP, as a guy in the beginnings to understand the sexual strategy woman employ. There is also some strange idea about sexually unrestricted woman knowing better to differentiate the alpha fucks from the beta bucks. And no wonder, I guess that if you ride enough cock, you kinda become an expert in knowing which turns you on the most. But of course, what's your guys opinions on this?
/r/TheRedPill04/06/18 10:25 PM
5

It really seems that Bill Burr is the most reasonable of comedians.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/18 07:18 PM
4

Your comment has absolutely no sense and you will need more proofs of what you are talking about.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/18 10:36 PM
1

Social skills. Understanding body language and having a silver tongue is my goal for life. I'm still that "weird guy".
/r/TheRedPill05/05/18 08:12 PM
2

Fell for the "polygamy" meme in a relationship. Thought I was gonna profit from having a girlfriend and multiple dates but no, she clearly had the upper had. I think all woman do, that is what make polygamy so imbalanced for men, specially if you are an AFC.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/18 08:07 PM
3

It's a good plan but I have literally no money. It's already time to stop draining the earnings from my hard working parents.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/18 03:41 PM
2

How long would you have to spend in the boring environment before you finish your degree If the test go well at the end of this year, I will be in a another city starting a new college degree by January. It's just that a whole year is a long time to stay in this situation, leaving me unsure if the sacrifice is being worth it. There are so many parts of my life that needs improvement. A pure test of resolve.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/18 03:37 PM
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Long story short, I moved back to my parent's house 2 years ago, at age of 24, to have time to study for a dream career. In my country, you have to take a national exam (that happens once a year) to be qualified for public college education. Being all these years here in a dead city with no friends, no money has taken a tool. I feel like a monk, away from society, doing my study routines and only leaving the house to go to the gym. But then I started to be concerned about my age. Should I move t…
/r/TheRedPill25/04/18 11:32 PM
1

I did read some theory stuff but wanted something to help me approach, build confidence and have at least some opening ready to start conversations. I need to act because I don't know how to flirt with woman on several occasions. I'm already going to the gym, studying everyday, working on my self-esteem. There's this problem on getting too comfortable on the field of ideas and not doing anything about it.
/r/askTRP03/04/18 04:44 AM
1

But what do you mean? Are those books good? What does the TRP mean by "Game"?
/r/askTRP02/04/18 03:23 PM
1

No need to worry, honestly. Not gonna say that I completely understood, maybe because as you said, it takes a lot of reading, discussions and experience. It's also the fact that I hate to delve into long discussions on forum, the format doesn't work for me. Just wanted to be straight to the point. Also, I haven't been here too long too. I'm in my late 20s, came here a few months ago during my so long journey in searching a solution for my old woman problem (and social relations in general). Stay…
/r/TheRedPill10/03/18 04:48 AM
1

Well, it wasn't meant to disagree with you, really. I kinda went to some shit too and still very angry at them. Betrayal, lies, abuse, childish behavior and many more... It's just the way you drew the analogies, it gave an impression that you still struggle with that. Wish you the best on swallowing the pill.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/18 03:25 PM
1

Oh, I get it now. Thank you.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/18 03:19 PM
1

So, I sent one article about Alpha fucks/Beta bucks to a very close and old friend of mine to analyze and give his thoughts. He said that this makes no sense since today's woman is present in the workforce, so why would they need a guy to provide? Couldn't answer that question and was in hope that some of you could help me explain that one.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/18 11:17 PM
4

I don't think your anger phase is over yet
/r/TheRedPill08/03/18 05:53 PM
3

I don't know if the authors of these articles doesn't understand or are ill intended, but could easily bet on the latter. They bash TRP, but what else do they have to offer? It makes my blood boil. Because after years failing without guidance and being close to killing myself, this is a light of hope. Before that, everybody else was expecting me to "just get it".
/r/TheRedPill19/02/18 07:34 PM
1

What's "safe" between quotations? Well, considering that no person is truly safe from ill intentioned people. My question was if conservative-leaning would be less prone to create false accusations or shaming male behaviours. And even though I mentioned a past LTR in the post, it was supposed to be dating in general. It's no disgrace though. Learn to be heavily observant of your own happiness and of how much your relationship is adding or removing from it. And learn to not hesitate to end it too…
/r/askTRP16/12/17 02:26 AM
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