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I don't think it's unrealistic, but it takes a lot of work. You have to break down a lot of the negatives society has built up in her head and redirect natural instincts into something positive. You have to be the catalyst but you have to get her on board and desire change. You have to build an excellent frame for her to think changing for you is worth it. Then you're basically rebuilding her ideas on relationships, gender, love, and whatever else needs work. Not usually popular on reddit, but I…
/r/TheRedPill14/07/14 04:46 PM
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Sounds depressing!
/r/TheRedPill09/06/14 09:48 PM
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I want her to think the statement is less forceful so she works harder, hoping the next time she might inspire more forceful language.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/14 04:57 PM
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She needs to be happy about something you said and be working to make it happen again.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/14 03:59 AM
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A house is nice, yeah, got one too. Going for a refinance meeting on Saturday. We're paying PMI which I don't recommend if avoidable, but we've got some equity now and we can get rid of it.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/14 05:37 AM
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Hey y'all, get married, it's nice!
/r/TheRedPill05/06/14 04:45 AM
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And what I disagree with is the don't let her know you love her. I say you need to change her ideas on what love is. Like your attraction frame you need a love frame.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/14 02:29 AM
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I'm a married TRP subreddit subscriber! A lot is applicable, but married game needs some serious philosophical and practical application evolution around here.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/14 02:25 AM
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What's wrong with being married?
/r/TheRedPill02/06/14 07:45 PM
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Thank you for this!
/r/TheRedPill25/02/14 07:06 PM
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Came here to post this, should have known it was already here! This is like a TRP recruiting manual!
/r/TheRedPill19/02/14 04:20 PM
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Take charge. This is not only sexually, but it always relates back to sexuality. When you do something especially take chargish let her know that you know it turns her on. Get her equating those feelings of desire solely with submitting to YOU. I don't reccomend this unless you want a serious committed relationship. Doing this to a plate would likely give her damage when you drop her.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/14 06:54 AM
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Is focusing on game because it's what you believe women like or prefer not blue pill? What's the difference?
/r/TheRedPill17/02/14 03:28 AM
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They thought they thought too, but they thoughtn't
/r/TheRedPill17/02/14 01:58 AM
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I don't know if I would say my wife was a feminist before, but she has definitely fundamentally changed many views and her outlook on life.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/14 05:30 AM
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I said uprighting a tree that the wind blew down.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/14 10:22 PM
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I got attacke on /r/forwardsfromgrandma for being a "redpiller"
/r/TheRedPill10/02/14 02:25 PM
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I'll usually say, "I need a backrub" and sort of say this or that stressed me out while she does it. I'll say that she really helped, thanks. 60% of the time it works all the time, or whatever, never seen that movie. Give her a concrete thing that "fixes" it. Doesn't solve the problem alltogether, but gives a moment to vent.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/14 08:37 PM
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I'm married, when people say this phrase I laugh. Almost without fail they say, "come on curiusblue, you know it's true, you know she's in charge," etc. Then I laugh again. This is from both women AND men, sadly.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/14 01:18 AM
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Agreed. Which is why we'll be homeschooling!
/r/TheRedPill25/01/14 03:51 PM
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Why is it a contest? Being a doctor is more important than laundry... ok... but doctors need clean clothes too, right? If we want future doctors someone needs to care for the kids, right? If you want to be a lady doctor whatever, go for it, stop crying about women who don't. As they say, the hand that rocks the cradle moves the world, so we'll see who has more influence 40 yeara from now, the spinster doctor or the dutiful mother who had 5 kids and 10 grandkids. By the way, even laundry is more …
/r/TheRedPill25/01/14 02:36 PM
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Yes. Sounds like the guy did first step but has not established the family and their relationship as HIS
/r/TheRedPill25/01/14 01:01 AM
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Ding ding ding. Define her! Define her world! Define new concepts for her. Redefine concepts she already has. Define how you want her to act with you. Define how you want her to act with others. Define love. Define pleasure. Define argument resolution. Defining YOURSELF to her is #1, and make sure that definition is the man in charge. This is how TRP can translate into a successful marriage. Don't be scared of building a family if that is what you want. But you'd better be sure to define that fa…
/r/TheRedPill24/01/14 11:10 PM
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Stupid = not buying their BS
/r/TheRedPill22/01/14 12:34 AM
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So right. Anyone here want a stupid woman??
/r/TheRedPill21/01/14 10:22 PM
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Don't worry about it.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/14 08:49 PM
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Agreed. And make sure she's committed and know what you expect of her before you start having kids
/r/TheRedPill20/01/14 03:51 PM
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Never fap. Life will be better.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/14 03:38 PM
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The divorce rate for those practicing Natural Family Planning according to Church teaching is something like 2% I'm really not worried about divorce. Can it happen? Sure. I could also die in a car accident. Lots of things could happen. I take steps to defend against those things, best I can. I want to get somewhere in my car, so I drive, the fear of the accident does not cripple me. I want a family, so I build one. The fear of divorce does not cripple me either.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/14 06:21 PM
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The ones worth marrying won't like contempt. They might like a certain "alpha"-ness but it's not contempt they'll respond to. They are probably included in those "not attracted to you." However, this is only relevant if you want to get married, but it looks like you don't.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/14 03:24 PM
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When my teacher first taught me how to multiply I might have learned the concept of grouping numbers in sets. At that point did I know how to multiply? Not really. She continued teaching through memorization and reinforcement of the concepts. When I teach my wife a certain concept I'm not done. I'm not done until I can ask her 8 x 4 and she answers 32 without even batting an eye. And then I'm still going to follow up with her and make sure she still remembers. And then I'm going to ask her to sh…
/r/TheRedPill19/01/14 02:50 AM
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I mentioned no other feeling.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/14 10:15 PM
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We've got kids, yeah, 2. One will be 2 quite soon. Of course, yeah, maintaining attraction is important, a certain dominance and teasing like you mentioned etc. When we first met she thought love was a feeling, real deep and unintelligible, unruly. I taught her that to love is to be willing to sacrifice for the good of the loved. Now, she looks at it that way and her world view and behavior is quite different. Do I have to maintain attraction? Sure. That's fun anyway! Have I built a frame better…
/r/TheRedPill18/01/14 04:19 PM
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Feel-good? Honestly, what I'm talking about is a lot harder. I'm talking about shaping a woman and redefining her world view, not some pump-and-dump game. What you're spouting is the feel-goods about living it up sleeping around. I understand that a lot of TRP is focused on geeting it in and getting out. But this thread said it is advice for LTR. Sorry, but it's crap LTR advice.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/14 05:48 AM
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If you asked her out I'd say you. After first date let her ask for a second or third and pay.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/14 12:34 AM
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Teachable, eager to please, cooks.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/14 11:47 PM
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When I said young I meant in age as a cohesive philosophy, not childish. I don't think TRP is yet set in stone and is still being developed. It's not about "balance," just about looking at things as they are. As an example, that next point on what a woman thinks about love. You described it as made up etc. and in my 1st response I conceded that might be the case. What I'm saying is you have the chance to reshape what she thinks about love. If you know what is right and true about it, show her an…
/r/TheRedPill14/01/14 10:59 PM
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A relationship where you lead and she is submissive is good. Selfish is not the right word. Think of a selfish general, even a skilled one, will his men follow him? When he cares only about his own safety in battle? In the end, even with all his skill, he will save himself before them and they know it. What about a general that prioritizes the safety of his men while being a good leader? He might make them do many things they do not want to do (train, stand guard at night watches, stay hidden in…
/r/TheRedPill14/01/14 03:13 PM
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Family by family basis. Raise your children well. Tough, but I think it is the only option.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/14 01:26 AM
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Don't leave her, lead her! You're her husband, head of that family!
/r/TheRedPill11/01/14 07:36 PM
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If a man was complaining about not being equal other men would tell him to shut up.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/14 08:10 PM
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No way. I don't see what's "red pill" or "alpha" about harming or hindering your fertility
/r/TheRedPill09/01/14 04:09 PM
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Lead well
/r/TheRedPill08/01/14 05:42 AM
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I'd say she loves you as long as she feels loved. When you live in the van she feels like you must not love her because you won't get your shit together and take care of her.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/14 07:54 PM
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Lol I love being married. With the right woman and the same goals for marriage nothing is better!
/r/TheRedPill31/12/13 08:56 PM
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A little person that looks like you, loves you, thinks everything you do is AWESOME, will take care of you when you're old, plays with you... it's great!
/r/TheRedPill31/12/13 08:53 PM
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Disagree whole-heartedly. I had tons of success with online dating.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/13 04:17 PM
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Thanks for the responses.. I was expecting something different. As a practicing Catholic there are some issues I have with a lot of TRP philosophy but there is much that I agree with. I think that a home with one father and one mother is best for children, and wanted to see what y'all thought on that. Thanks
/r/TheRedPill09/06/13 04:46 PM
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