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amazing post!!! it's funny I've actually been thinking a lot recently about how one of the most important qualities in a HVM is calmness and stability, this is masculine energy that wants to take away your stress and seeks to be of utmost helpfulness in stressful situations. male and female emotional "labor" is different: women encourage men to open up, men stabilize and soothe women when they are emotional/frightened/stressed. LVW men with feminine energy always make stressful situations about …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 02:45 PM
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ahh thank you so much! I only discovered FDS about a year ago, still so much to learn <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 09:56 PM
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i would also add the pickme who convinces herself she likes or doesnt mind being a pickme. "I'm not looking for anything serious anyway", "I don't even know if I like him that much either", "I don't care that I need to put in work into this loser guy"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 10:49 PM
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I've literally never understood this attachment theory stuff. In my experience, your attachment style is entirely dependent on your partner and the relationship you have with them. In a relationship where I felt insecure in my partner's love for me I was anxious attachment, constantly craving validation, worrying nonstop, reading into things, causing fights, etc. I wondered if this was how I'd always act in relationships. Turns out no! Now, in a relationship with an HVM whose love I do not doubt…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 03:17 PM
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ohmygod yeah the whole "if you're not a perfect 10 you don't deserve a man whose over the moon for you" is so real and perpetuated in so many cultures. makes me so happy to hear you are getting what you deserve now :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 04:37 PM
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i think another way of putting it is "in love with you" vs. "loves you". in a good relationship I think there should be a level of the man thinking his girl is the best thing since sliced bread. otherwise the man likely won't put in the effort necessary. that's what I mean by obsession, they think you are amazing and like gush over how in love with you they are, not just in the honeymoon phase or as love bombing but they genuinely can't contain their adoration and admiration for you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 04:36 PM
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at my college it was the cultural norm to be in a serious relationship by junior/senior year. very few of those relationships ended up lasting. people get into relationships that are wrong for them because they don't want to be alone and have someone to take to date functions. however, it is really hard to date someone for years and break up even if you know they're wrong for you; you get attached to proximity with people. if you can, avoid dating in college if you can
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 01:58 AM
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I was told this growing up all the time, by family members, teachers, and coaches. It always felt wrong and unnatural for me to be someone who I wasn't, so I didn't listen. I'm so happy I stuck to what I felt was right. You will not attract the right HVM if you pretend to be someone you're not. I've actually found it to be a giant plus now that I'm older that men know exactly what they're getting themselves into when they meet me, so the beta LVM weed themselves out on their own
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 05:56 AM
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