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This post took a lot of guts. It's very vulnerable but not self deprecating for attention. It's good you realize some of your shortcomings now fix them. Read No More Mr. Nice Guy, The book of pook, Models and of course- lift. None of this stuff will help without experience though. Good luck.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/15 06:43 PM
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This girl seems like a time sink. Weeks and just now to physical? She's betifying you now. Making you wait, talking about her LDR (if she really has one). What if we took away the LDR in this scenario? She's now single. Would you be putting up with her actions now? Women are tricky. Be willing to walk away and stop going for table scraps.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/15 07:44 PM
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That was really well thought through. It's hard sometimes to see through the bs if you've been indoctrinated in it for years. What would be your move in this example? What should the husband do? And further - could this have been avoided with marrying her? I'm sure there must've been red flags, you can't hide your past completely and your true nature.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/15 04:23 PM
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"That's when I found out that she doesn't even kiss until the third date. I dug deeper, only to find that she very likely has almost no libido. She doesn't like sex." Women who have low sex drive are women that are not interested in you. Plain and simple. Turn on porn or bring in Brad Pitt and see if their sex drive remains low. I'm not saying that women with values, morals and reservations about sex are not interested, however, I am saying that this sounds like the woman was just not interested…
/r/TheRedPill01/01/15 06:38 PM
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Worth the read. This is so simple yet so brilliant. We are so entrenched in technology we couldn't even see that we were sacrificing our frames. I've deleted all social network apps and will now start using text for logistics only. Thanks for this post.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/14 10:33 PM
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This is good stuff. I've noticed that shit tests are inversely proportional to your smv with guys and girls. The higher your SMV is - the less girls will shit test you and the more mistakes can be made. The opposite is true with guys. The more SMV you have (and the other guy is not your buddy or friend) the more of a threat you are perceived as - If your SMV is low, the guy can write you off but if it's high, the shit testing can become pretty intense initially until you prove yourself. Experien…
/r/TheRedPill15/12/14 10:20 PM
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This is a really negative person. Why are you friends with her? Unless it's a family member, I don't really see the point in wasting your time facilitating a relationship of any kind with this women. Even if you're trying to help her. You can't save/fix people. All women should be cut from your life unless they are family, increase your SMV or a sexual partner. Otherwise you're wasting your time or an orbiter. This women is just weighing you down. (Literally and literally)
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 07:05 PM
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"Girl is disgusted with this behavior and gets back in line for another ticket for the carousel ride" Ya, been there. At the time it made no sense but after reading these subs for months and knowing something wasn't right, it finally started to click as to the why. Good post.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 06:41 PM
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Relevant: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C5-51PfwI3M
/r/TheRedPill25/08/14 05:49 PM
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Wow. That makes so much sense.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 09:31 PM
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This gives me motivation to work out now.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 09:26 PM
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Interesting stuff man, I am a Christian too. I'll stay locked to this post to see if anything else interesting comes from. I've been asking myself the exact same questions lately. How do we be in the world but not of the world?
/r/TheRedPill22/06/14 05:48 AM
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"I didn't think she was that attractive I thought it would be good practice for me." If you're not attracted, don't pursue. Read "Models" by mark manson.
/r/seduction18/06/14 01:51 AM
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This was a fun read, you need to post more often. Gave me a lot of insight into stuff i'm currently dealing with.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/14 07:57 PM
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"they simply want validation, which comes from the majority at hand. And that majority wants to ridicule TRP." This stood out to me. It can be a lonely journey for awhile while you start to understand it and not always see immediate results. Just like working out.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/14 04:09 PM
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Wow. This single thread has completely changed my perception. It's like that "One" thing we all need to hear to make things click. Understood.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/14 04:07 AM
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To further add to this discussion. It's the fact that anything you say, any emotion you feel - whether good or bad is not done to get a rise out of her or make her feel a certain way. You don't say something or filter something because of her, you do as you please. You have nothing to hide. If you're upset, you can say so without expecting sympathy or help, that's just how you're feeling. I think it comes down to motive really - why are you saying this, for her or for you? Vulnerability is the i…
/r/TheRedPill13/05/14 04:57 PM
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Good stuff. The part on vulnerability is especially interesting to me. As guys, we think we should hide our weaknesses or have none. This is not only impossible but will frustrate people around us because they can see and perceive it regardless how much we act the opposite. Vulnerability is interesting to me - it's not purposely showing weakness and being needy/a wuss but it's really just accepting yourself wholly and liking yourself. We don't need validation from strangers or people that don't …
/r/TheRedPill11/05/14 07:56 PM
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These are some good responses. It seems like with LTR you might be stuck with "marriage" status either way. My main point, as infraredpillpusher mentioned, was that we should stay away from any state involvement so we can govern our own outcome, seems like this isn't possible in some states. Really leans heavily on state involvement and then a women centered outcome. I wonder if we'll see a decrease in formal, state marriages as TRP is circulated. I'm disillusioned with the idea of marriage but …
/r/TheRedPill07/05/14 07:59 PM
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I thought it was 7 years living together (dependent on the state laws). My point was- don't get married to the state. Take that away if you don't believe in God.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/14 06:16 PM
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Nice, I needed to hear this. I feel we sometimes get caught up between seduction community and what TRP truly is, it's about being a man- women are merely a bi-product. Seduction is about getting women, but in the end you have a skill that still revolves around women. I definitely came to this thread with the silly goal to get better with women and came away with how to be a man. It's like lifting - if we strive after looks, we probably will get them but there's no measureable goals, no satisfie…
/r/TheRedPill05/05/14 04:37 AM
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This is awesome. Damage control is way harder than starting over. Well done.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/14 03:46 AM
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Cont. Don't marinade the cologne. (True. Instead, try steaming the cologne lightly and serving it with a side of grilled Portobello. Serves 4.) Don't give her something stupid for her birthday or Christmas or Valentine's day. It doesn't have to be expensive, but it has to be meaningful. Jewelry is always nice. (I just want to conjoin the last two sentences. "It doesn't have to be expensive, jewelry is nice." Cubic Zirconium it is. Happy anniversary, baby.) If you think the relationship isn't goi…
/r/TheRedPill27/04/14 09:56 PM
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It sounds like you figured yourself out. Plus I'm guessing you had no intimacy with her, you probably didn't show who you were. I've been in a similar situation out of scarcity mentality rather than out of true affection and attraction. Lasted too long.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/14 03:04 AM
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Hey, what' about facetime or skype? I've been successful with both of those too. In this age of technology, might as well push the envelope. It's a little bit intimidating at first but can be fun and if it's an online person, it gives them an even better feel for you.
/r/seduction21/04/14 04:05 PM
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Powerful stuff man. Sounds like your innocence was stripped from you in that moment. Sometimes it takes an epic letdown or failure before we decide to change ourselves or open ourselves for some constructive criticism. We shouldn't be afraid of failure. Thanks for sharing.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/14 07:07 PM
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As already has been stated - I found that leaving it on is beneficial then I thought about it again and was like...why am I even thinking about this? If you spend more than a second thinking this over, you need to step back and reconsider your priorities. You're getting caught up in the details and not the big picture. Frankly, I just left it whatever setting it was and found that I can choose to read my texts whenever. I assume when people see you've read it and don't respond, it becomes a more…
/r/TheRedPill16/04/14 06:26 PM
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This was really helpful and encouraging, good stuff.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/14 04:01 PM
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Because a prostitute is the easy way out and you'll eventually be met with the emptiness you deserve. Yes, spinning plates is hard up front and takes courage, determination and is the harder path initially. But in the end it changes your mindset, your understanding of women and gives you options. Ive been reading a book called mere Christianity and fundamentally, it's about change. Some ideas that I gleaned from reading it - You probably won't improve yourself if you just pay for it, and lazines…
/r/TheRedPill13/04/14 02:13 PM
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I used to workout to look good and impress girls and to some degrees, that part of my motivation. Drop that. Lose that thought completely. You workout because you want to be a man and be strong, not for women, not for looks but because it's self satisfying and fun to see your numbers go up. Nothing and I mean nothing should be done for the sake of women for self improvement. If you really don't wanna weight lift, then don't, but don't complain or be upset when you're not strong or be jealous of …
/r/TheRedPill13/04/14 04:01 AM
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Yes, it's a good point. I was merey reaffirming your self realized notion. Keep on posting here, you seem to get it.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/14 02:32 PM
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You can't go through life hiding your mistakes. If you're gonna fail, fail gloriously and publicly. Sounds like you weren't being honest to anyone about your shortcomings. According to pook - perfect is boring. So you slipped up? So? Move on- like everyone has said, it wasn't that one weakness that made her move on, girls can see incongruency with our thoughts and actions.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/14 02:10 PM
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This sounds like the premise of anti-dump, good stuff man.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/14 02:04 PM
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That sucks man. Move on. Go lift, be a man, do something for yourself. You got this.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/14 01:55 PM
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