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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Sex trafficking isn't the main reason why women are against prostitutionIt’s so obvious here no one has read the feminist critics of prostitution, we’re not against because of whatever bullshit power dynamic you think gives us leverage, we’re against the sexual exploitation and commodification of women and sex. Money doesn’t replace consent. But not surprising how many Reddit coomers advocated for state sanctioned rape. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/21 08:05 PM |
| 13 | Serious question, do any of you not want to get married?I’m anti marriage as an institution as a radical feminist, while maybe our generation is far removed from the original intention of marriage, it’s still based in the sexual and reproductive subjugation of women. I would personally rather not contribute to its existence, but I am in a long term committed relationship. I also don’t want kids. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/21 01:17 PM |
| 4 | If you want to end hookup culture, at what point does that get into uncharted patriarchy territory?There’s different branches of feminism because different feminist groups tackle aspects of liberation in their own way. There is liberal feminism, Marxist feminism, eco feminism, radical feminism, womanism, etc. All of these ARE feminism, whether you agree with it or not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/21 08:59 PM |
| 6 | If you want to end hookup culture, at what point does that get into uncharted patriarchy territory?That’s not how that works 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/21 08:50 PM |
| 3 | If you want to end hookup culture, at what point does that get into uncharted patriarchy territory?There’s a ton of other branches of feminism aside from liberal feminism, lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/21 08:40 PM |
| 3 | Why don't wealthy/powerful men think they're too good for hookers/to pay for sex?Wow so empowering and not exploitative at all | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/21 06:34 PM |
| 28 | As a male that went throug all stages of looks (fat, thin, average, bald, handsome) i can pretty much say blackpill is bullsh#t. Women date with only one thing in mind...They say this then wonder why we would want to empathize with random men. I have empathy for the men in my life because they have proven they actually see as more than an object. Crazy stuff, I know | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/21 02:31 PM |
| 6 | Who here ACTUALLY enjoys giving blowjobs?Omg yes you hit the nail on the head!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/21 02:45 PM |
| 8 | Who here ACTUALLY enjoys giving blowjobs?Personally I enjoy it with my long term bf, It’s never something I’m pressured into, or something that happens every time we have sex, it’s more of whenever I feel like it. I get really into it and enjoy pleasuring my partner and it turns me on a lot. I really wish it wasn’t something men expect from their partners, and of course if it’s porn influenced that’s a no go. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/21 02:43 PM |
| 32 | Are y’all watching Ted Lasso?YES OMG I JUST STARTED IT and I’m already on season 2. I wish more men were like Ted Lasso 🥲 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 03:35 PM |
| 4 | Is it possible to culturally normalize sex work?bold assumption that some of us want to be here | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/21 08:21 PM |
| 7 | Is it possible to culturally normalize sex work?truly pathetic beings | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/21 08:16 PM |
| 8 | What percentage of men are truly open and honest with the women in their lives?Spot on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/21 10:39 PM |
| 23 | Pick me culturehttps://www.newshub.co.nz/home/entertainment/2021/09/whatever-you-say-daddy-megan-fox-says-naked-vmas-dress-was-machine-gun-kelly-s-idea.html 🤕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/21 04:14 PM |
| 165 | Pick me cultureThe worst part about this is MGK “told” her to dress this way and she said “whatever you say d*ddy!”. So it gets worse somehow | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/21 12:08 PM |
| 11 | This is how you know the world is shifting to favor womenThank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 12:21 AM |
| 16 | This is how you know the world is shifting to favor womenWhat’s the show please? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/21 11:40 PM |
| 38 | REMINDER: FDS is NOT WGTOW/OVARIT/FEMCEL etc, We're a Dating Strategy....So You Should, Ya'Know, DATE.I believe I covered this when I said “raising consciousness about beauty standards, sex trade and cultural misogyny are all important because their tied together”. I mean that’s my point. Being anti porn isnt the first thing a regular woman would think about when it comes to dating. When you view dating under a feminist lens as FDS does you notice all these things | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/21 07:08 PM |
| 51 | REMINDER: FDS is NOT WGTOW/OVARIT/FEMCEL etc, We're a Dating Strategy....So You Should, Ya'Know, DATE.Yeah exactly. Beauty standards, colorism, those things shape how men view women and therefore will shape your reality dating them. It’s a good thing to discuss, all these things shape our relationships with men whether we’re aware or not! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/21 07:02 PM |
| 66 | REMINDER: FDS is NOT WGTOW/OVARIT/FEMCEL etc, We're a Dating Strategy....So You Should, Ya'Know, DATE.You didn’t explicitly state that but your post came across as brushing off certain things for the sake of not making FDS political - I’m saying being a woman is political. Our existence is under patriarchy. So naturally FDS will gravitate towards that and most FDS tenets are in line with radical feminism. I’ve been in this sub for almost 2 years and I think it’s better than ever because these two things overlap so much. As for your second point, you get called a swerf online and offline. These t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/21 07:00 PM |
| 51 | REMINDER: FDS is NOT WGTOW/OVARIT/FEMCEL etc, We're a Dating Strategy....So You Should, Ya'Know, DATE.That’s what I thought too. Getting women to think critically about the choices we make isn’t shaming | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/21 06:51 PM |
| 14 | REMINDER: FDS is NOT WGTOW/OVARIT/FEMCEL etc, We're a Dating Strategy....So You Should, Ya'Know, DATE.Where are people posting beauty shaming? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/21 05:35 PM |
| 251 | REMINDER: FDS is NOT WGTOW/OVARIT/FEMCEL etc, We're a Dating Strategy....So You Should, Ya'Know, DATE.This post is kind of odd. There’s a lot of things on this sub that don’t necessarily pertain to dating, like the focus on being anti-porn. A lot of us are also not actively dating, because we’re already in relationships, keeping our blind spots in check. Dating doesn’t exist in a vacuum. The whole dating scene is very obviously impacted by the patriarchy. So raising consciousness among women about beauty standards, the sex trade, cultural misogyny etc are all important because they’re tied toget… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/21 04:14 PM |
| 8 | This is Lilith from the FDS Podcast. I'm deleting my Reddit account because I'm tired of misogyny and harassment on Reddit.Lilith, thank you for everything you have done and will continue to do for women through FDS. Getting off Reddit is the right thing for you, don’t worry about us on here. I wish you all the best 💙💙💙 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/21 06:50 PM |
| 99 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 14 - Dr. Gail Dines & the Queens Rage Against the Porn MachineI’m not op so op feel free to correct me if I’m wrong. But she is essentially saying that the focus on a woman’s individual choice, that anything a woman does is empowering and feminist because she’s choosing it, is why we ended up with liberal feminism (third wave). Feminism is meant to be a collective movement of women making feminist choices, in order to liberate women. Not a movement of individualistic choices that only benefit privileged women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/21 06:44 PM |
| 199 | Is it just me or are many men disgusted by women's bodies?Most porn sick and misogynist men are not attracted to women but to femininity. They think women are naturally inclined to be hairless, made up, and submissive, even tho society literally pressures us to be that way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 08:06 PM |
| 17 | A realization that shouldn't have startled meAnyone slightly moved by this post should check out the 6B4T movement from radical feminists in east Asia (China and South Korea mainly). They propose exactly this, with some extra tenets. Amazing what women can do on a collective scale. It’s possible ladies! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 01:03 PM |
| 6 | Sex Work Twitter makes me feel LESS compassion towards voluntary sex workers 🙄They want to have their cake and eat it too. How do you reconcile with people like that? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/21 03:56 PM |
| 2 | Beauty is like a social exchange. I don’t like it.Yeah it’s really hard! What can I tell you is that the more you start to lessen your use of makeup, the more you will be used to your natural face! It’s really important. Hardest things for me was leaving my facial hair alone, but now I don’t care anymore either. Like I said it’s a journey! I’m here to support everyone in their individual journey, but nothings gonna change if you don’t start taking small steps you know? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 01:37 PM |
| 11 | Beauty is like a social exchange. I don’t like it.This topic makes people the most uncomfortable tbh, because it’s really hard to see your own bias imo. Think about all the media you consume, all the women in power, all celebrity wives (and on and on), the standard is shaving, makeup and heels. All things that harm you, thrive off capitalism, and based off patriarchal ideas of what women should look like. Now within the radfem community there is a point made by woc that what is freeing for white women may not be universally freeing for all wome… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 12:31 AM |
| 66 | I'm so proud of you ladies for sharing and normalizing FDS concepts on tiktok, Instagram, and other social media 😂They also call gender non conforming women pick mes 😭 some girl will be like “yeah I don’t wear makeup” and they’ll be in the comments like “ok pick me I hope he picks you” and it’s like do they even understand what it means 😭😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 03:53 AM |
| 81 | I’ve been seeing an uptick in the posts and comments on here criticizing beauty and performative femininity, here’s some more food for thought :)yeah alt women are held to their own standards, think about hot “big tiddy goth gf” meme, thanks for your insight! brilliant comment | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 12:54 AM |
| 25 | I’ve been seeing an uptick in the posts and comments on here criticizing beauty and performative femininity, here’s some more food for thought :)It’s fine to feel like you made those choices for yourself but radical feminism analyzes women as a sex class and as a class women are the only ones that are pressured to wear makeup, be hairless, wear uncomfortable and harmful clothing and shoes, etc. I think whether you specifically brought up that way or not the influence is there. Think about all the media we consume, all the female celebrities musicians etc, everywhere you look women have painted faces, no hair, thin, high heels, etc, women… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 11:57 PM |
| 55 | I’ve been seeing an uptick in the posts and comments on here criticizing beauty and performative femininity, here’s some more food for thought :)yes to absolutely everything you wrote here I love it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 11:49 PM |
| 29 | I’ve been seeing an uptick in the posts and comments on here criticizing beauty and performative femininity, here’s some more food for thought :)YES!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 11:33 PM |
| 15 | BEAUTY - Do you think it is worth it for women to pursue it?Oh no worries, I know that’s the usual term that’s used! Yes I do know this sub talks about that, and I think as women we can still encourage that, but thru practices that don’t cause us harm, I’ll send you something via dm that explains like “fun femininity” vs “performative/harmful femininity” in a really good way. I personally think being gender non conforming and ascribing to the anti beauty stance of radical feminism will improve the individual woman’s life and send ripples throughout socie… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 11:30 PM |
| 74 | BEAUTY - Do you think it is worth it for women to pursue it?“Pretty privilege” is kind of a nuanced topic, because I think a more accurate term is “gender conformity” privilege. Just cause women conform more to femininity doesn’t mean they’re not subject to abuse and misogyny. Check out escape the corset movements in South Korea and now Brazil, it’s a radical feminist movement to fight against beauty standards. Femininity is a performance, it is gender, and it hurts women whether we conform or not. Beauty isn’t empowering because the source of the power … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 10:53 PM |
| 2 | Red flags that I didn't know were red flags, from my "perfect" "conflict-free" relationshipCame into this thread to see if I related to any of these in my relationship and WHEW, I’m glad I don’t, and I’m sorry you went through that ☹️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/21 05:00 PM |
| 12 | Rejecting your natural form screams “pick me, pick me!”Here’s a list of great quotes from the book, I’ve only read snippets myself https://www.goodreads.com/work/quotes/836516-the-beauty-myth-how-images-of-beauty-are-used-against-women “Femininity” is really just a socially constructed concept. Makeup, shaving, altering our bodies, etc. are not inherent to women. If you grew up in a different more down to earth society without that stuff you would not yearn for it. Why? Because it’s not natural. It’s a tool of oppression. It seeks to keep women weak… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/21 04:41 PM |
| 12 | Rejecting your natural form screams “pick me, pick me!”Everyone should read the beauty myth by Naomi wolf. What op is saying will make a lot more sense :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/21 04:22 PM |
| 4 | Can we talk about Botox and lip fillers and plastic surgery?Totally agree. The “women should do what makes them happy” tends to completely overlook the societal expectations and pressures put on girls and women however, which is why choice feminism falls so flat and hasn’t done shit for women. The things you mentioned are the extreme results of the patriarchal concepts of beauty and femininity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 08:42 PM |
| 2 | Most of the comments are praising him for COmMuniCatINg.This is one of the worst things I’ve ever read lmao. The dehumanizing language, acting like having sex with woman is collecting them like trophies,,, the comments Jesus Christ the bar is in the depths of hell | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 12:43 AM |
| 8 | Are there “degrees to pickmeism?”Bingo!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 11:15 PM |
| 5 | A question to FDS members: why do you think there are women who are against FDS?The same reason some women are anti feminists, against women’s rights, etc. Some of them are ignorant, some are brainwashed, some are misogynists themselves. It’s sad | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 03:32 AM |
| 7 | Hey gurl. I’m an intersectional feminist. I’m also a shaman. 🚨🚨🚨Sums up “leftist” men in a nutshell 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/20 04:52 PM |
| 11 | Where do they get any of this from?Plzzz they are so stupid, no valid criticisms just “female trp lol” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 06:44 PM |
| 3 | Being angry at men is not "counterproductive." It is an essential component of your level-up journey. Properly recognizing abuse and having an appropriate emotional reaction to abuse is essential to the healing process.You worded this so beautifully. Thank you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 01:21 AM |
| 5 | OC: I decided to do a little gender swap on that horrible meme. I’m not a cartoonist but I hope you enjoy it! 🥰Can we post elsewhere and give you credit? This is amazing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/20 01:42 PM |
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