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In terms of commitment she should make the first move
/r/seduction28/10/22 03:27 AM
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While it gets your foot in the door easily, your personality/inner game dictates the rest
/r/seduction18/05/22 11:50 PM
2

Do both You’re almost expecting her to be with you, and that’s wrong
/r/seduction17/05/22 04:16 AM
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Regardless of the subject, humans accelerate and progress at different paces Just find another Boot Camp to go to and keep working on it. Perhaps PUA is not necessarily your strongest trait, i’m sure there are areas in life that you’re also strong in right? So it could be natural that it takes longer for PUA/seduction
/r/seduction04/04/22 03:41 PM
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You didn’t let them chase.
/r/seduction22/03/22 06:23 AM
1

Just say no
/r/seduction26/01/22 10:48 PM
1

Its checkmate. You dont
/r/seduction13/12/21 09:41 AM
2

Sexual innuendo should’ve been escalated via verbal and light touch prior to bringing them home or else that you are kinda wasting your time. The build up is more important than the actual actions at home. Once you’re at home, ask for consent and flip the switch to become a beast and then the rest will come naturally assuming you have set it up correctly so just focus on the set up.
/r/seduction13/12/21 09:14 AM
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U will most likely not get her, so drop any expectations. once u let go of ur expectations, just say hi, make small talk and find out her sched, then determine a date she is free in ur head, and ask her to go to a spot that ur interested in (casual and light, not an amusement park lol) Thats it Then ur in first date/text follow up. Make a new post after u close this
/r/seduction28/10/21 06:42 AM
1

That's good, I didn't understand your situation! Best of luck.
/r/seduction08/01/20 07:29 AM
1

Find the job first Find friends outside of the workplace Then find colleagues who share similar interests and you can network off of The girl should be at your backburning, running in parallel out of all of this. If anything, you should not be focusing on asking girls out but rather finding a job
/r/seduction08/01/20 04:12 AM
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i used to put a lot of thought into text but at this pt i havn't had the time to do so, due to work and friend/social circle commitments. its easier to find more girls that are willing to spend time with you that like you for who you are. when you find many that are like this, you have a plate to choose from. women can sense desperation, lack of options, or fake timed texts. ​ just send it when you're convenient or feel comfortable with it. but after that, just move on. there's nothing more you …
/r/seduction08/01/20 03:33 AM
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it's a shit test also, maybe the in-person number-close didn't develop strong enough rapport. ​ simply say "ok cool" and move onto the next. if she wants something, she'll reach out. dont worry about it.
/r/seduction08/01/20 03:16 AM
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it's just weird, you displayed no intention or interest. you tried to be funny but you weren't. this is fine and part of the process, keep grinding as i'm guessing you need to socialize more to be comfortable and know how to make a good joke/banter you dont bring up age bc it's a disadvantage to you. strictly speaking from an outergame p.o.v., just let her bring up the age question if she needs to. otherwise, why give yourself a disadvantage? when she asks for your age, come up with a witty resp…
/r/seduction08/01/20 03:14 AM
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if you think it's a waste of time, leverage your social group and cold approaches. if you don't have a social group, build one. if your cold approaches aren't closing, work on those. don't get burnt out and enjoy the process. come back to online dating when you feel like it.
/r/seduction03/01/20 03:59 AM
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no it is not.
/r/seduction03/01/20 03:20 AM
2

Why come here to seek advice but be so unreceptive to the advice given?
/r/seduction04/06/17 08:29 PM
1

That sounds pretty solid. Thank-you for the insight.
/r/seduction07/05/15 07:08 PM
1

I see, does anyone know the proper way of setting boundaries? For example, I'm in an argument with my girlfriend and this time it's for sure her wrong. She's admitted that she's wrong hasn't made it up for me, on top of that afterwards she's decided to say that she did nothing wrong. I know this is a big red flag that she's wishy washy. Therefore, I haven't contacted her since and I'm just waiting for her to make the first move. But at this point I feel like our relationship is going to end if I…
/r/seduction06/05/15 05:01 PM
1

how did you deal with arguments, who's right who's wrong, and extending your patience and setting boundaries?
/r/seduction06/05/15 12:51 AM
3

Are you still continuing that 3 yr relationship? Was/is it stable now?
/r/seduction04/05/15 04:16 PM
1

I can't wait to hear the story, looking forward to it. Let me know when you've posted it.
/r/seduction22/11/14 04:58 AM
1

I agree, I'm ashamed to even call it a first date it was so "slow" (no kino or much scene change). I'm glad I didn't answer any of her shit tests though, I just said 'not telling/answering' whenever she asked something that would potentially label me (label me as in, she doesn't like this particular type guy). Can I still escalate kino then? On the next time I see her, or no matter what I do, this is already a failed set?
/r/seduction14/09/14 02:42 PM
1

Yea I agree, I was just getting back into it too. I told her I'd go out with her if she'd buy me a coffee. And then she tells me who said I'd go out with you and I said, I never said I'd go out with you (or something along the lines). Then eventually after some banter I said, "are you one of those girls from china that cares alot about income?"
/r/seduction14/09/14 02:39 PM
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It is derived from the word kinesthetics.
/r/seduction06/09/14 05:10 PM
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I kinda disagree with the last one. I feel like getting mentor or a coach would be better. Then again you could say that the coach/boot camp is forcing you to be in the field. But the same could be said for gyming/lifting. While the spotter will be with you in the gym; a spotter will be able to force you to push your boundaries and achieve what your original goal was for the workout session.
/r/seduction06/09/14 05:08 PM
1

Great article. Key point: it's not she's not interested in you. It's the fact that if something magical were to happen and there was date 2, 3, or 4, or a relationship, there'd be no romance.
/r/seduction16/08/14 03:36 AM
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Today, OP was a cool guy.
/r/seduction07/08/14 01:36 AM
5

Interesting point, could the people who downvoted please explain why they dont necessarily agree with this one? Edit: checked back guy got upvoted alot
/r/seduction05/08/14 09:11 PM
1

This is great advice, I'll spend more time to get to know her and really connect before I rush things. Regarding contacting her.. do you think I should wait or give her a call tmw?
/r/seduction30/07/14 09:09 AM
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Right now, I'm so tempted to call her tmw and apologize, but not sure if that would make it worse.. I just get this feeling she won't make the first contact because on date 2 she specifically said she would never ask first again cause Im the man (in a playful manner when I was joking about how she texted me so quickly for day 2 the next day).
/r/seduction30/07/14 05:58 AM
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thanks my day 1 went really well (k-close), but i have no idea how i should do my day 2 due to logistics issues. - legal curfew 11pm - live with parents since im back from college - she lives with her parents cause she's 18/19 so no men allowed upstairs (only basement bedroom) should i attempt to switch scene to her basement? seems kinda rude just inviting myself in there, especially since it's her (family's) house
/r/seduction29/07/14 04:50 AM
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BRO QUICK, did you pay for day 1 coffee shop? Im about to go on my first "online-meet" date (even though i dont see how this might different from a regular date but i guess ill find out sunday night).
/r/seduction27/07/14 05:58 AM
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If you were alpha you wouldn't feel the need to validate yourself towards /u/fuckoffmightbe2kind . You have already left a great opinion (whether it is right/wrong it generated great discussion) and I welcome you to leave more in future posts. Whether or not this community is getting more redpill is up to you, me, and everyone else because we're all part of it.
/r/seduction26/07/14 02:57 AM
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just wanted to clarify, she said word for word: "i could tell via the far-away look you had in your eyes you had an agenda" ? Just curious
/r/seduction23/07/14 09:20 PM
3

oh.. it would make sense that its 'in asia' since the women there only date 6 figure incomers
/r/seduction14/07/14 12:16 AM
2

deliver story
/r/seduction09/07/14 02:46 PM
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thought it was a permanent work place, yah go nuts
/r/seduction09/07/14 12:43 AM
2

you know what else is frowned upon? gaming a coworker. 2 places gaming is off limits: 1. work 2. gym (unless you're going there to game and not workout, then pls gtfo the machines)
/r/seduction09/07/14 12:31 AM
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agreed as much as you want to boost ur confidence or fix ur AA, this is a seriously dangerous way of doing it because it can go to sexual assault. just try something else
/r/seduction02/07/14 04:54 PM
1

say "I love balls" ranging from high to low, this is a technique done by RSDtyler['s roomate]
/r/seduction24/06/14 04:17 PM
2

people love to talk about themselves. your target should open themselves up naturally if you present yourself without a wall of mystery (not saying mystery is bad, but for ex you can tell them your life goals or some hobbies or fun experiences)
/r/seduction08/06/14 07:43 AM
1

Thanks for the insight! What are some things a guy should have in his bedroom or bathroom that would be great when women come over?
/r/seduction03/06/14 10:57 PM
2

regarding quickest lay, maybe its because as women get older they're open to getting to business quicker and kinky shit cause they must have already experienced it all, just a thought
/r/seduction02/06/14 04:28 AM
0

inspiring post
/r/seduction01/06/14 11:52 PM
1

Well written post.
/r/seduction21/05/14 05:22 PM
1

Good point, but I also find it interesting out RSD Tyler likes to make sure you don't show that you're outcome dependent when focusing on your end goal!
/r/seduction14/05/14 11:19 PM
1

OP needs to do a follow up, will OP deliver? :D
/r/seduction14/05/14 11:17 PM
1

In a way I feel like they're only asking for the number because of the dog, but at the same time I feel like it's partially because they feel like the dog owner has a sense of responsibility.
/r/seduction16/04/14 12:57 AM
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No but its oriented towards males, theres a subreddit for female pickup advice. Its like Naruto (a japanese manga) is a shonen (targeted to males) but its not women dont read or watch it. I was just curious since i never knew women liked reading FRs no need to put you guard up like that
/r/seduction07/04/14 03:42 PM
1

Other than the hate post from Carbone, waiting for /u/IwantIT_all to tell us update. Did this turn into relationship or was it one night?
/r/seduction07/04/14 06:39 AM
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Off topic and curious but are you on this subreddit to gain insight and catch hints from men?
/r/seduction07/04/14 06:37 AM
0

In the spirit of this whole discussion/post's theme, no I'm not joking. I'm referring to the most basic primal instinct of mankind. It's simple, the man seek's out a healthy female to mate, and the female desires a strong alpha male who can protect her young and also create (give genes) offspring that are strong alpha males as well. If female doesn't want any children at all that complete destroys the whole point of mating then (in the most basic primal sense). Adoption does not exist in the mos…
/r/seduction05/04/14 11:22 PM
0

Then after your reading the first sentence of your comment and keeping with the theme of the post, the male would not be attracted to you in the first place. You wouldn't need to worry and the male wouldn't need to worry. You don't need to qualify yourself to this post in the first place. It's simply due to the fact that the male won't be able to produce offspring with you so nothing (no attraction) would happen once he finds out you dont have a desire to create offspring.
/r/seduction05/04/14 07:13 PM
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I feel like for guys, the gym should be a no zone, because they should look at gym as an area to get away from it all and to focus on their workout, not to go their and sarge/approach. If you are fit and take working out seriously, you should realize you should only go to the gym for working out and nothing else. That being said, as you're leaving and if the person is leaving as well, then go nuts. But never interrupt your workout just to have a conversation with someone.
/r/seduction02/04/14 09:24 PM
1

Seems more like a fkn love story than a FR. Good job OP. ;)
/r/seduction27/03/14 01:51 PM
1

I dont think this will work out in the long run, kino not applied or shown in FR, other than the astronaut line the whole day you guys were just.. talking.. Maybe im missing something, let me know how the next few dates go
/r/seduction14/03/14 06:08 PM
1

Well I never looked into it cause I tried to stay away from it since I like indirect alot more (personal preference). But I should give it a shot.
/r/seduction11/03/14 12:16 AM
1

Kind of interesting how his method he wants you to hit on the target first instead of approaching the friends first. Whereas, Mystery always suggested to Style to open a 2 or 3 set with the other friends first, and then finally hit on the target in "The Game". Perhaps it's a different generation? RSD Julien does make a good point.
/r/seduction10/03/14 04:45 AM
2

so she just put up a shit test.. that's what i thought. But yeah seriously, 0-class (quoting /u/thetinguy) when she handed him the check.
/r/seduction09/03/14 04:21 AM
7

So many better out there. Soooo many.
/r/seduction09/03/14 04:17 AM
6

I would not have LTRs with these type of women, it's just their personality that I'm not into.
/r/seduction09/03/14 04:14 AM
1

Well it's good that you made her pay, cause (unless i read the post wrong) she actually striaghtfwd expected you to pay cause you were the man, which is pretty dick move by her imo
/r/seduction09/03/14 04:13 AM
1

Definitely know that feel bro. She was definitely jealous. Instead of leaving, she chose to stay close to your bubble.
/r/seduction04/03/14 08:09 PM
1

wait what? so the random annoying girl moved next to you to listen on your convo? but didn't say anything? how's that bad other than her being a creep? she kept her mouth shut maybe i just read this wrong
/r/seduction04/03/14 12:26 AM
2

OP deliver the full convo pls
/r/seduction23/02/14 05:55 PM
2

Will OP deliver the whole convo?! Edit: And how did you even reply to that while still maintaining your frame?
/r/seduction23/02/14 08:01 AM
1

Wow, I ended up watching the rest of the guy's videos lol
/r/seduction22/02/14 07:43 PM
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"Send messages that don't need to be responded to. You want to make an investment that you don't have to keep up with. You don't want to be chained to your phone. If you're like one of the categories above, stop wanting to be chained to your phone. It's pathetic." I disagree completely with this one. First of all I find this to contradict some of your above points/theme. Why text her at all if you dont expect an answer? What is the point? You just said you dont want playful banter. And I agree, …
/r/seduction13/01/14 07:08 AM
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