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Can you tell who the influencer is, please?
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/24 01:50 PM
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Where can I see a summary of what changed about the relationship between RPW and RPWi?
/r/RedPillWives15/04/24 12:54 PM
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Thanks again for your input!! Appreciated it at the time but it’s still helpful.
/r/RedPillWives07/10/22 11:15 PM
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Just wanted to come back and thank you for this comment. It is very good and deserves acknowledgement. I started worrying about the same issue again this week and rereading your frankness helped me cool down.
/r/RedPillWives07/10/22 11:13 PM
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I don’t claim to have the most RP approach, but my two cents: I have very intellectual interests and have an edgy/weird/not very feminine sense of humor. I’m feminine in many other ways and don’t have problems attracting men so I’ve decided to just go with it and it filters into my own style of flirty banter. Especially since I’d really like to select for men with the same interests and an equally immature sense of humor, I do not hesitate to banter with them. That’s definitely more my style. Ho…
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/22 01:49 AM
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I hear that. It's difficult, but not impossible to navigate.
/r/RedPillWives13/07/22 01:03 PM
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I didn’t think I would be able to find it, but I did! Here.
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/22 04:16 PM
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I watched a video on how to look more polished: the lady in the video said to pick three things about your look that you never leave the house without. They should be unique to you. It could be... Earrings, signature lipstick and a slick ponytail. Or it could be your eyebrows done, mascara, and a skirt. For me I chose 1. mascara/eyebrows 2. earrings and 3. perfume. I love perfume so even though it doesn't make me look better I enjoy it and it completes my feminine aura, if you will. Choose thing…
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/22 12:57 PM
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good bot
/r/RedPillWives19/06/22 04:47 PM
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That’s literally the point of this subreddit
/r/RedPillWives18/06/22 05:46 PM
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A man took an interest in me last week that has me wanting to jump out of my skin with excitement. It will be about a month before we can spend time in person, and in the mean time I'm desperately trying to keep myself occupied because oops, I'm a little obsessed now. In fact, I'm already afraid I was a little too forward/obvious with my interest. Giggled maybe a little too much at his jokes... Maybe a little too complimentary. He's kind of well known in the circles I run in (niche internet micr…
/r/RedPillWives08/06/22 01:29 PM
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This is more akin to someone buying a product for a short-term solution without being fully informed on what the product is, discovering a great feature of it and calling it a bug. It's more like a long term investment with compound interest. Marriage is supposed to be permanent-- that's the point. The most clear eyed reason I can see to get married is for the purpose of building a permanent life with someone that's more enduring than lust or the butterflies that come with romantic love. Getting…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 07:32 PM
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This is what I've taken away from people who use the term as well. Liking men and masculinity is extremely uncool at the moment. To fit in you're supposed to be bisexual, emasculate men, and call out "toxic" masculine behavior. So, how many of these girls labeled "pickmeishas" are actually trying to put other girls down? Or is it a way for women who've made choices that are generally less attractive to men to take out their envy against women who lean into their femininity, have a pleasant perso…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/21 09:41 PM
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I understand what you're saying, I'm certain that's part of it. There's a general air here though, supported by comments from both genders from what I've seen, of inherent suspicion of the other party when dating. I understand the problems with modern dating and agree with a lot of the diagnoses and the widespread acceptance of misandry on a day-to-day basis makes me sick, yet the mindset you approach dating with has a huge amount to do with your success. Your mindset (one of abundance) can also…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 03:42 PM
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I just posted a comment so maybe I’m not a lurker now but... 23f single, I would consider myself redpill, but not in the sense of rigidly following any ideology put forth by the subreddits— any of them. I do enjoy Rollo and other people from the manoshpere’s work, but only call myself red-pilled in the sense that a lot of the core axioms are clearly true: There’s a difference between men and women and the way we naturally relate to each other is heavily obscured by current popular narrative. I c…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 10:21 PM
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I don’t know, the purpose of dating is to get to know someone you’re curious about, so I wouldn’t expect anyone to be certain about me right off the bat. If he isn’t interested enough to initiate seeing me then I take that as an answer in itself, because it is. This is where abundance mindset for women works swimmingly. If he’s not interested enough to pursue me then I will allow him to fall away. I just think of it as though he’s doing me a favor by making room in my life for other eligible bac…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 10:00 PM
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Thanks for the reply. I think you framed what I'm asking correctly. I want to be able to set boundaries without challenging his frame. So Rollo would say that a woman compromising her boundaries for a man makes her a unicorn? I can't see how it's a good sign if a girl starts compromising boundaries with a man before she's had a chance to vet him. Like you said, in my experience capitulating on those things will make him less likely to see me as LTR material. It's the difference between choosing …
/r/RedPillWives13/01/21 05:56 PM
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There's a great post on the wiki about psychological femininity.
/r/RedPillWives12/01/21 12:38 AM
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Pardon me as I probably haven't done my due diligence with reading on this sub, but I'm really curious what you mean here: I responded rationally. That’s another thing I’ve experienced on this sub. Men here don’t know what that word means. Or what “logic” means. Was wondering if you could elaborate. How do you see this differently? Is it to say that to act rationally is to act in accordance with your emotions? Or, how do you see it? If you feel like explaining, that is. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 06:15 PM
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I've been known to like older guys, but that's like... 7 or 8 years older than me, max.
/r/RedPillWomen29/09/20 12:50 PM
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I thought Alien was spicy and woody. Here's the Fragrantica page for it. I definitely like both jasmine and amber a lot so that's probably why I liked it. Noir just had a little bit of a deeper scent to it. Like the autumn version of Viva La Juicy. Not good at describing scents, hopefully that's somewhat helpful. Youtubers, Jeremy Fragrance has some "top 10 list" videos.
/r/RedPillWomen14/09/20 06:26 PM
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BF loves perfume and requested I wear it more, so I went down the rabbit hole. I would recommend you check out some fragrance Youtubers or Fragrantica.com for reviews on fragrances before buying. Reason being that if you're going to splurge on a perfume then you probably want to make sure it lasts, and not all of them do. I love Alien, but ended up not purchasing it because I wanted something a little less ubiquitous (a lot of people wear those top 2 Mugler fragrances.) I got a full size bottle …
/r/RedPillWomen14/09/20 05:57 PM
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Weirdly, I have a hard time even finding cleavagey tops recently.
/r/RedPillWomen31/08/20 06:25 PM
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I never actually have. I've only read fascinating womanhood and then some summaries of Laura Doyle's work, but maybe it's time to pick it up!
/r/RedPillWives10/08/20 12:25 PM
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I feel like the answer depends on your own values and is difficult for people on the internet to answer for you. Personally, I'm very convicted that law does not equal morality. I believe in decriminalization of most drugs and don't find selling weed or mushrooms to be bad at all. Shrooms will probably be legalized or decriminalized in the next few years in California. It wouldn't bother me if my man sold some weed or something, as long as he takes the utmost caution not to get caught and has ot…
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/20 02:00 PM
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ITT: Would you or would you not marry Scott Adams
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/20 04:22 PM
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Where do you see it being pushed outside of Christian culture, other than fundamentalist Mormons and Muslims? I see polyamory being pushed, yes, but in my experience it seems like polygyny is still very much taboo.
/r/RedPillWives06/07/20 05:24 PM
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I don't understand how it's possible that women supposedly would prefer sharing one man with multiple women. Why would a woman want to devote her life to giving children to a man who's going to split his resources up to other women's children? How is that a good deal for her? I looked at some research around polygamy a while ago (here's one such study) that showed that women in polygamous marriages have "lower self esteem, less life satisfaction, less marital satisfaction and more mental health …
/r/RedPillWives29/06/20 10:06 PM
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I was trying to think of a specific example and couldn't, funny enough. I've mostly noticed that if I offer too much information or input on decisions, such as when we should leave to do a thing, when and what we should eat, or what we should do while there that he will start to be irritated or shut down. Another example is if we're doing something and I want more information about what the plan is, but he either doesn't have a plan (says we'll figure it out then or in a little bit) or gets kind…
/r/RedPillWives08/06/20 08:06 PM
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I'm a right wing libertarian red-pill gal in tech! I did a data analytics bootcamp myself and started my first job in the field this year. I certainly run into lots of conversations where it's a assumed that everyone has the same (progressive) politics, especially in the networking that goes on around bootcamps. But, I work in software/startups, where there are a lot of people that don't necessarily think like that. Lefties are a lot more vocal than conservatives, so I think a lot of non-leftist…
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/20 08:11 PM
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I think whatever you can be truly passionate about can be feminine. I like powerlifting, bodybuilding, tech, and brazilian jiu jitsu. Femininity is not superficial.
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/20 12:25 AM
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I love Helena and Adrienne! Their approaches are slightly different and would probably not be endorsed by RPW, but I've found a lot of their information on how to act with men really useful.
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/20 12:17 AM
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I'm 22F, some of the people I look up to are visionary entrepreneurs and thinkers who are willing to go against the grain or popular opinion to accomplish something that makes the world a better place. Naval Ravikant, Peter Thiel, and others like them.
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/20 12:49 AM
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No added sugar this month. Focus on the gym, getting myself into a job that I enjoy and helps me feel secure/fulfills my basic needs (so I can be more confident in myself in my search for a life partner.) I want to improve my character and interpersonal skills, too. Will try to improve my habit of reading and journaling to improve myself. After the job part is achieved, I want to throw myself into new activities to enrich myself and meet new people. I've lived in the same city for almost two yea…
/r/RedPillWives31/12/19 10:41 PM
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I'm working on this currently, too, so I'll blather on about some of the things that I've found helpful, and you might too. Honestly, it's tough, and it probably won't come easy, but it's worth it. For me, the inability to be alone-- having trouble meditating, needing constant stimulation, is due to being unhappy with myself. As I'm getting more comfortable in my skin, and continuing to practice self-awareness, being alone is more enjoyable. Try writing and journaling. For some structure, I woul…
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/19 05:12 PM
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Read the wiki!
/r/RedPillWomen06/08/19 11:14 AM
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Conor McGregor and his girlfriend Dee Devlin's relationship is amazing to me. She supported and believed in him while he trained, long before he was successful in MMA. She stuck by him for years and worked her butt off, and then once he made it he took her out of work and she supports him full time now.
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/19 11:40 AM
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I really appreciate your perspective on this. I think of myself very much as an individualist so appreciate you taking the time to point out how all of the RP advice can fit into your life without completely changing yourself/who you are in the process. I've tried to overcompensate to figure out how things "generally" are because my knee jerk reaction is that annoying "*but not ALL [blank]!*" But now having put some work into accepting that, I guess there's an important distinction between imagi…
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/19 03:42 PM
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Amazing. I'm going to put Whisper's Law on my wrist so I don't forget.
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/19 07:27 PM
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Perhaps it's just difficult to go "all in" without losing yourself when your sense of self is not as strong. I wonder, though, do they really have to be distinct? After all, a good sales person understands that you need to have skin in the game to win big. Ideally, a good sale isn't just half-good. Both parties should come out ahead because of it. Which I suppose is why "I demand you marry me because I want you to" doesn't work, but showing your value in a positive sense does. How do you go all …
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/19 05:34 PM
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Lots of good answers here so far. :)
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/19 04:08 PM
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Simple =/= obvious in my case. I approach life with a How To Win Friends and Influence People kind of mindset. If you want something, you need to understand what the people who will give it to you actually want and give them that. It's obviously totally individual, but there are usually some rules about what makes people like you and want to spend time with you, and the way to get that is never through acting entitled about it. I've made mistakes like this in the past and the difference that can…
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/19 04:02 PM
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I like this perspective. It gives some of the specifics I was looking for. Things like how much I can cook for him and do things for him without coming across in a bad light was tripping me up. I'm a little bit aspy so I need help with these things. Thanks!
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/19 03:52 PM
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Lol, I don't want a man who doesn't advocate for his own needs. If he's not Christian or otherwise religious I don't think a man with abundance mindset would have any reason to tolerate that from a woman.
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/19 11:52 AM
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That's really sensible. I'm still new to incorporating all these things into my actions. It's working well so far, but I already did discuss it with him and I'm wondering how that might effect the relationship. So far I've kept it to a more abstract level and avoided talking about how I'm using those tactics on him, lol. Maybe that's where the line is.
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/19 03:42 AM
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This is off topic from the OP, but what's been your experience discussing red pill topics with your husband? My man and I (he's into the manosphere) talked about it before I got into RP myself. Now that I've gone down the rabbit hole myself I see that it's pretty much always advised against. I love talking philosophy and I'm earnestly interested in the truth, so it's really difficult to bite my tongue because I want to share ideas with him! What do you think?
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/19 02:51 AM
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