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| 2 | What should I say to an older woman when she said she worried that I am too young?That just means I can get it up and I can go multiple rounds | /r/seduction | 22/08/24 07:47 AM |
| 7 | Was Dating a more even playing field before apps and social media?No, dating is a far more even playing field now. Think about how much free information you can get off Reddit and YouTube. It was much harder to find good information 20 years ago. Dating apps are tools that allow you to attract women you otherwise wouldn't meet if you put in the effort. It was actually a lot of work for me, but apps are a net positive at this point. You don't have to use apps if you don't want to though. | /r/seduction | 29/07/24 09:08 PM |
| 2 | Do you wait for signs to approach?No, just approach | /r/seduction | 11/05/24 07:09 PM |
| 15 | Do girls ever go alone to night clubs?False, me and my buddy ran a train on a cute blonde chick who was out by herself once. I see attractive women out by themselves every now and then, and they're usually DTF. Sometimes they go out by themselves just so they can be as slutty as they want without being judged by their friends. | /r/seduction | 27/04/24 04:18 PM |
| 3 | How to pull specific girlsDon't act a certain way to attract certain women. Be yourself and approach all women the same. Be the same sexy mother fucker 24 hours a day 7 days a week. | /r/seduction | 27/04/24 01:18 PM |
| 1 | Coworker adviceI asked for their snap You fucked up. Always get the number. Asked out said sure but asked if she could get a rain check right before. I said sure and kept texting her like nothing happened. A few days later I messaged her my cell and she text me. So she flaked on you. Never let women have a rain check. Move on if they don't reschedule right after they cancel. This woman is using you for attention. | /r/seduction | 27/04/24 12:42 PM |
| 18 | Do girls ever go alone to night clubs?A pair or group of women could also have nefarious intentions. It's way more likely for a woman to go out by herself because she's really horny, but none of her friends could go out with her that night. | /r/seduction | 27/04/24 12:30 PM |
| 111 | Do girls ever go alone to night clubs?Yes, women go out alone when they want to fuck. Always talk to those women first when you're out by yourself. | /r/seduction | 27/04/24 08:27 AM |
| 1 | Is “Daygame by Todd V” still available?Where do you find torrents these days? Pirate Bay? | /r/seduction | 26/04/24 11:49 AM |
| 1 | How many dates you should wait before sleeping with a guy?I'm just giving her the female game plan. Use him for as much as you can get out of him without sex then throw him away. That's what op wants. | /r/seduction | 25/04/24 10:16 PM |
| 3 | How many dates you should wait before sleeping with a guy?And everything goes to sex, I'm really afraid to get hurt after sleeping with him cause I know that he likes playing mental games, chasing and after sleeping with him he can lose interest. You aren't sexually attracted to him. You can keep him around for emotional support and more dates if you want, but it won't work out in the long run. | /r/seduction | 25/04/24 09:28 PM |
| 4 | What’s your Body count?33M mine is 18 | /r/seduction | 22/04/24 02:24 PM |
| 0 | First night out in JapanFalse equivalency, it is not the same dynamic and you know this. I would be thrilled, a woman might very well be mortified. Furthermore, your perception, especially of other people and their feelings, is not always "truth." It's not the same dynamic for you because you put women on a pedestal. A girl would be terrified if you approached like OP because you would come off as creepy and unsure of yourself. You know you aren't attractive, so you couldn't pull it off. And it doesn't matter if your p… | /r/seduction | 16/04/24 02:35 PM |
| 9 | First night out in JapanApproaching is an expression of interest. Are you really saying that you'd get offended if a hot girl approached you and said she noticed you checking her out? That doesn't make any sense. Psychoanalyzing a man telling a woman the truth is wild. Your approach is an acknowledgment of interest in her. Telling her you noticed her checking you out is an acknowledgment that you both know she's interested in you. It gets her to think, "Yeah, this guy is kind of hot." You're both on even ground. It's t… | /r/seduction | 16/04/24 01:38 AM |
| 15 | First night out in JapanStating a fact isn't awkward or conceited. If a woman is checking you out, she wants you to notice that she likes you. Acknowledging that she likes you more than you like her puts you in a position of power. It also shows that you're confident. | /r/seduction | 16/04/24 12:17 AM |
| 14 | First night out in JapanNonsense, telling a woman you know that she's attracted to you is one of the best things you can do. | /r/seduction | 15/04/24 04:44 PM |
| 1 | How to behave with a guy player?One day he asked for my number and said we could go somewhere. What was my surprise when next meeting he continued to openly flirt with me, but never texted. So he got your number, then lied to your face about going out. That's a major red flag. You could ask him why he hasn't asked you out when he said you and him could "go somewhere" if you want. You're probably better off moving on though. This guy is playing games. | /r/seduction | 12/04/24 12:50 AM |
| 1 | How are people filming the infield videos that are currently popular on Tiktok?That’s kind of creepy. | /r/seduction | 28/03/24 05:51 AM |
| 3 | Social gameSay hi to everyone you walk past. It’s good practice for approaching women. It also helps you overcome fear of rejection. You’ll realize that it doesn’t matter when the majority of the people you say hi to ignore you. Eventually you’ll get better at it and more people will respond to your greetings. Approaching women will come more naturally. | /r/seduction | 27/03/24 01:08 PM |
| 2 | How Can i deal with her past relationship trauma?Mentioning trauma in the first few days is a big red flag. She either sees you as a shoulder to cry on, or she’ll use her trauma as an excuse to disrespect you. Trauma can also lead to mental instability, which is dangerous. | /r/seduction | 24/03/24 11:54 AM |
| 11 | Is this cuck mentality holding me back from sex w women?I’m kind of the same. I don’t have a cuckolding fetish, but I am into femdom and all sorts of crazy shit. I can still have regular sex with women though. And every woman I have sex with can be replaced. Whatever you’re into doesn’t have to stop you from getting women. | /r/seduction | 22/03/24 09:48 PM |
| 9 | Where the hell do I go to meet people or go on dates now?Being sober is never creepier than being drunk. I have a medical condition so I can’t drink anyways. I’m not going to let that stop me from going out on the weekends. | /r/seduction | 18/03/24 11:06 PM |
| 3 | Where the hell do I go to meet people or go on dates now?I’m not good at dance floor game but the goal is to dance with women if I’m dancing. Sometimes I will dance by myself if I feel like it though. If there are women to talk to at the bar I go to the bar and approach them. If there aren’t any women to approach I go to a different bar. You don’t need alcohol to do this. | /r/seduction | 18/03/24 06:24 PM |
| 7 | Where the hell do I go to meet people or go on dates now?I leave if there isn’t anyone to talk to. Otherwise I approach women, dance, and drink water. I also leave the bartender a tip. | /r/seduction | 18/03/24 05:58 PM |
| 16 | Where the hell do I go to meet people or go on dates now?You can go to bars without drinking alcohol | /r/seduction | 18/03/24 05:44 PM |
| -6 | How do I get the freak side out of a Muslim girl?Flirt with her in a sexual way that gets her turned on. The hijab will come off if her pussy gets wet. Edit: this is something really advanced that I might not be able to accomplish myself. I’m just saying how it can happen. | /r/seduction | 15/03/24 07:52 PM |
| 255 | Girl thinks all I want is sex. Can I turn this around or should I give up.She knows you want more than sex. She just doesn’t want to have sex with you. | /r/seduction | 14/03/24 04:49 PM |
| 1 | How do you guys balance dating with work/school/gym?I use apps and go out to meet girls as much as I can based on the schedule I set for myself. Work, familial obligations, and the time I set aside for hobbies take precedence, but otherwise I like to go out and talk to women a lot. I also try to approach attractive women in my day to day life. Like at the grocery store or while I’m riding my bike. I go out every weekend, and go to happy hour, concerts, and events when I can. | /r/seduction | 11/03/24 01:52 PM |
| 5 | Best way to approach instagram game?Because he’s afraid to make a move. He isn’t really obsessing over her, he’s obsessing over his own fears. He won’t get over it until he grows balls and approaches more women. | /r/seduction | 09/03/24 01:46 PM |
| 6 | Best way to approach instagram game?Following on Instagram is better than nothing, but you’re better off approaching her if you can. Sliding into her dms because you were too afraid to make a move in person looks weak. That should be the last resort if you won’t see her again. | /r/seduction | 09/03/24 01:40 PM |
| 1 | French or Spanish classes for maximum baddies?That tongue clicking language. It makes your tongue game stronger. | /r/seduction | 08/03/24 11:22 PM |
| 2 | Answers to the "What do you do for a living ?" questionGive a vague description of what you do then change the subject. | /r/seduction | 06/03/24 02:00 PM |
| 1 | Question for Women: In your observation/experience, what are the common traits of men who get casually laid very frequently and easily?I’ve seen that guy in action. I had a short fat m friend who stunned me with how good he was at getting laid. He was way ahead of me even though I’m 6’1, in shape, and good looking with a god-like voice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/24 08:20 PM |
| 1 | Instagram DM AdviceAsk her out instead of saying you’d like to get to know her better. Set up a date, time, and location. FaceTime on Instagram counts as a location. You don’t have to build much rapport if your Instagram showcases your lifestyle. | /r/seduction | 05/03/24 05:38 PM |
| -1 | In dating, as a man, it's demanded that you be confident and socially skilled. Meanwhile, women are allowed to be as neurotic and anti-social as they pleaseThat’s cute, here’s the data: Among single men ages 18 to 70+, the national survey released last December found 95 percent are in favor of a woman initiating the first kiss and also asking for a guy’s phone number. But only 29 percent of women actually initiate the first kiss and 13 percent of women ask for a man’s number. https://www.cbsnews.com/amp/news/survey-of-singles-in-america-match-com-helen-fisher/ You need to get off YouTube, go outside, and talk to women. I promise it’s not nearly as … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/24 03:29 PM |
| -1 | In dating, as a man, it's demanded that you be confident and socially skilled. Meanwhile, women are allowed to be as neurotic and anti-social as they pleaseBS, I’ve had sex with women minutes after approaching them. I had to make the first move even though they were clearly sexually attracted to me. I’ve also been approached by women. Sometimes they were even direct enough to say they just wanted sex. But the majority of women wait for men to make the first move. Especially socially awkward women, which is what I was talking about before you went on this tangent about women as a whole. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/24 02:40 PM |
| 0 | In dating, as a man, it's demanded that you be confident and socially skilled. Meanwhile, women are allowed to be as neurotic and anti-social as they pleaseSocially awkward women have to sit around and wait for the right men to approach them. Confident men choose to approach whichever women they want. Women don’t necessarily have it easier, they just play a different game. Stop complaining and develop your social skills. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/24 12:32 PM |
| 1 | Question for Women: In your observation/experience, what are the common traits of men who get casually laid very frequently and easily?Men need to stop asking women for advice on how to get laid. They aren’t going to give you genuine advice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/24 12:25 PM |
| 17 | Morally conflicted when it comes to seducing innocent/shy girlsYep, you’re either the guy women have fun with, or the guy women settle down with when the fun is over. | /r/seduction | 04/03/24 05:25 PM |
| 29 | Morally conflicted when it comes to seducing innocent/shy girlsThose women like sex too. You aren’t using a woman who consents to casual sex since she also benefits from the sex. Most traditional girls secretly want to have fun, but it takes game to hook up with them. | /r/seduction | 04/03/24 05:12 PM |
| 7 | If a girl sees you more than once, do you still do the approach or is it done?No, posting about it on Reddit instead of actually doing it makes you seem creepy. | /r/seduction | 03/03/24 09:52 PM |
| 22 | If a girl sees you more than once, do you still do the approach or is it done?Sure, what’s the worse that can happen? | /r/seduction | 03/03/24 09:36 PM |
| 11 | Do you lose 'social value' if you are seen by yourself?You aren’t Drake. Random people aren’t paying attention to you. Don’t worry about being seen alone. | /r/seduction | 29/02/24 10:21 PM |
| 2 | alcohol and datingYou should tackle your internal issues and stop projecting them on people who don’t use alcohol as a crutch to enjoy sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/24 10:59 PM |
| 2 | alcohol and datingSo you need alcohol as a crutch | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/24 02:04 PM |
| -1 | alcohol and datingWe can agree to disagree. Depending on alcohol to get laid is a bad idea | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/24 11:37 PM |
| -2 | alcohol and datingI’d argue that you’re too drunk to consent of you need alcohol to consent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/24 11:32 PM |
| -1 | alcohol and datingMen: be the 20% who don’t need it. Don’t have sex with women who are so drunk that they’ll forget consenting or regret it in the morning. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/24 11:28 PM |
| -2 | alcohol and datingAlcohol is not required for casual sex. You should not be having casual sex if you need alcohol to make it happen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/24 10:49 PM |
| 1 | alcohol and datingThat’s what it takes for the average guy to approach a woman | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/24 10:47 PM |
| 1 | Do most women underestimate their sexual bargaining power in modern times?No, I think a proper business contract comes with penalties for breaking it which disincentivizes cheating and divorce. Marriage laws incentivize divorce if your spouse makes more money than you. Half of all marriages end in the divorce. The infidelity rate is at least 20%, and those are just the people willing to admit it. Clearly the disincentives aren’t enough. I’m not anti-marriage. I’m just saying that you have to choose a woman who’s really into you if you do get married. Most men don’t pu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/24 05:19 PM |
| 1 | Do most women underestimate their sexual bargaining power in modern times?And you think a business arrangement makes the desire for sex with attractive people go away? Do you think the 25-50% of people in sexless marriages magically become asexual and stop wanting sex with anyone? No, they just don’t want sex with their current partner. Let’s reverse the genders. Married men fantasize about women hotter than their wives all the time. They talk about it with their friends, and many cheat. Women are the same way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/24 04:31 PM |
| 1 | Do most women underestimate their sexual bargaining power in modern times?Define incel | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/24 03:22 PM |
| 2 | Do most women underestimate their sexual bargaining power in modern times?Usually women settle for men they’re mildly attracted to, instead of the very attractive men they can’t lock down. Eventually that mild attraction fades away. Why do you think half of all marriages end in divorce? Why do you think 25-50% of marriages are sexless? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/24 03:21 PM |
| 2 | Do most women underestimate their sexual bargaining power in modern times?An intense feeling of deep affection | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/24 02:53 PM |
| 2 | Do most women underestimate their sexual bargaining power in modern times?Acknowledging that women like sex with attractive men is not an incel fantasy. I don’t fuck married women, but one once approached me for sex while I was walking down the street. She told me she loved her husband but he couldn’t get it up. I could go on and on about partnered women who wanted to cheat with me if you want. Women are in sex-less marriages for a reason. It’s because they settled for men they aren’t sexually attracted to. Many of them cheat with men they are attracted to. Men end up… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/24 02:49 PM |
| 1 | Do most women underestimate their sexual bargaining power in modern times?Most marriages are women just settling. The guys they actually want sex with don’t want commitment since they have options. Most women do love the men they settle with, but they still want to have sex with more attractive men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/24 01:12 PM |
| 7 | Do most women underestimate their sexual bargaining power in modern times?In the old days, women were more successful in locking down men because men knew they couldn't get sex from them unless they married them, and that was the price. So a lot more marriages happened in the past as a result. This is technically not true. Look up shotgun marriages. A lot of people would have sex outside of marriage then get married if pregnancy happened. However today women are fine giving guys sex casually, so they cannot lock the guys down so much, if the guys are getting it for fr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/24 01:09 PM |
| 1 | Is it reasonable to expect monogamyMonogamy wasn’t the norm until a thousand or two years ago. It isn’t even the norm now. Most people try to sleep around while they’re single. Monogamy means having one partner for your entire life. That’s in no way natural for humans. Our version of monogamy was created to control female sexuality, and ensure that the largest number of men have access to women. That benefits society in many ways, but it’s not natural. It worked before contraception. Now people can have consequence free sex outsi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/24 12:31 PM |
| 0 | how many men watch porn?Submissive men do based on your definition of loyal. Other men are going to watch porn no matter what. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/24 03:01 AM |
| 0 | how many men watch porn?It’s your only option | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/24 02:39 AM |
| 6 | how many men watch porn?It means you lock his cock in a chastity cage. He’s only allowed to use it when you let him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/24 02:29 AM |
| 7 | how many men watch porn?Find a man willing to wear a chastity belt for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/24 02:19 AM |
| 2 | Did my first 100 approachesSame, I was borderline black pill when I found ARC. He completely changed my life. He deserves way more recognition. | /r/seduction | 26/02/24 09:20 PM |
| 2 | Did my first 100 approachesRip ARC | /r/seduction | 26/02/24 09:07 PM |
| 2 | Manosphere contradictionsThe red pill is contradictory because it clings to the puritanical view of female sexuality. Most of the women who say they only have sex in committed relationships have had casual sex. It’s easy for women to make sexually unappealing men wait for sex. It’s hard for women to turn down sex when they’re horny. Then they also have to make themselves wait for sex. All that talk about safety and emotional investment go out the window when a guy gets her hot and bothered. Then she has to pretend it ne… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/24 07:02 PM |
| – | Being afraid to ask women personal questions is betaAsking a woman’s body count is pointless. Usually they just lie so they don’t get slut shamed. Fixating over body count shows that you don’t understand female sexuality. Women naturally crave sex. They just need sexually attractive men to enjoy it with. Chad makes the pussy get wet, so women have sex with him. But Chad has options, so women can’t lock him down. Body count guys are generally not sexually attractive. It’s easy for women to make them wait for sex since they don’t turn women on. You… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/24 06:08 PM |
| 1 | Relationships are not 50/50They can if they know how to attract women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/24 05:52 PM |
| -1 | Relationships are not 50/50Relationships work better when there’s a leader and a follower. 50/50 relationships lead to arguments and power struggles. With that said, both men and women can lead a relationship. The idea that the man always has to be head of the household needs to be re-evaluated. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/24 05:51 PM |
| -4 | Why are girls blocking me after number close?It’s not creepy, it’s flirtatious. That was the only good text OP sent. | /r/seduction | 26/02/24 05:47 PM |
| 7 | Why are girls blocking me after number close?Texting her that you were going to sleep was pointless. She doesn’t care. The next text was flirtatious which is why she responded in the morning. Don’t just say you’re going to set something up, actually do it. Tell her to meet you somewhere and propose a time. If the time doesn’t work ask when she’s free. I think you lost your momentum when you failed to do that. Then you double texted her instead of waiting for her to respond. If she never responds, move on. Don’t double text like that. It’s … | /r/seduction | 26/02/24 05:17 PM |
| 4 | Why are girls blocking me after number close?How do you know they blocked your number? How do you keep figuring that out if they are? | /r/seduction | 26/02/24 02:13 PM |
| – | The decline of the James Bond franchise shows how traditional masculine values are quickly fading into the background.The decline of 007 is due to lower quality movies. Casino Royale is a great movie to this day. The following Bond movies? Not so much. Didn’t the most recent film flop because it tried to replace Bond with a woman? If what you said were true, John Wick wouldn’t be so popular. Masculine values are fading in Hollywood, but the public still likes to see strong masculine men on screen. That’s why Hollywood is struggling right now. The decline of the MCU (aka the M-She-U) illustrates this. The Avenge… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/24 11:03 AM |
| 2 | Do most women really prefer to use online dating and social media as the means to select potential men over being approached in real life?Yes, women still like to be approached. Approaching is often your only option. Let’s say you notice an attractive woman standing in line at Starbucks. If you don’t approach, you’ll never see her again. You won’t get a chance to message her on a dating app later. Either you shoot your shot when you have the chance, or you don’t. So it doesn’t matter what the women under this post think. Approaching IRL is your only choice when you see an attractive woman IRL. You’re missing opportunities when you… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/24 05:52 PM |
| – | Why is it easier for women than men to get laid?She was desperate for a dick as good as mine. Women go through great lengths for satisfying sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/24 07:10 AM |
| 1 | ApproachingTheir perception is only right if you have great game. Otherwise, your lack of game warps the woman’s perception of you. Women’s perception about men who don’t have game is usually inaccurate | /r/seduction | 25/02/24 07:08 AM |
| 5 | "more young men struggle because young women are content with staying single" -- except women are actually less single.Fwb situations are not committed relationships. They’re casual sex arrangements. You’re single if you only have fwbs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/24 09:50 PM |
| – | Why is it easier for women than men to get laid?I had an fwb fly from Michigan to Florida on her own dime for sex. No woman would be willing to do that if getting laid was that easy for them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/24 09:12 PM |
| 6 | "more young men struggle because young women are content with staying single" -- except women are actually less single.I agree that women don’t need relationships to get their needs met. Beta males will have no choice but to improve since fewer women are settling for them. Average males worship Hollywood soyboys, not Andrew Tate. Andrew Tate is out of jail and it doesn’t look like he’ll be convicted. Debating women about Andrew Tate is a waste of time. You can have the last word. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/24 07:23 PM |
| 6 | "more young men struggle because young women are content with staying single" -- except women are actually less single.That’s why I go by my definition. It’s just a word. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/24 07:18 PM |
| 1 | Why don't you young guys just get your passports?Enjoy jacking off bro | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/24 05:19 PM |
| 0 | "more young men struggle because young women are content with staying single" -- except women are actually less single.I couldn’t care less what it means to the woman. It means single to me. I just hand out my number and tell them to hit me up when their situation doesn’t work out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/24 05:01 PM |
| 4 | "more young men struggle because young women are content with staying single" -- except women are actually less single.Men don’t need to be platonic friends with women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/24 04:50 PM |
| 6 | "more young men struggle because young women are content with staying single" -- except women are actually less single.There’s always been a shortage of attractive men. Nothing has changed in that regard. More men are slowly learning to how be more attractive thanks to the internet. Say what you want about Andrew Tate, but he does teach men to do things that make them more attractive. A lot of these red pill influencers blame women for too many of society’s problems. That makes no sense, since men are the ones in charge. But outside of the constant complaining about women, there is good information out there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/24 04:50 PM |
| 9 | "more young men struggle because young women are content with staying single" -- except women are actually less single.Feminists can only destroy men’s spaces if men let them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/24 04:44 PM |
| 5 | ApproachingHitting rock bottom doesn’t address the root cause. OP’s root cause is that he’s afraid of rejection. You can give him all the advice in the world, but the only real solution is to stop overthinking and just approach. | /r/seduction | 24/02/24 04:06 PM |
| 27 | "more young men struggle because young women are content with staying single" -- except women are actually less single.Women’s definition of single isn’t always accurate. Some women will say they aren’t single when they’re just “seeing someone”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/24 04:03 PM |
| 1 | ApproachingMost women will be happy that you approached, whether they reject you or not. Some will be rude, but you can’t let that impact you. Also remember that women aren’t rejecting you, they’re rejecting their perception of you at the time. | /r/seduction | 24/02/24 03:44 PM |
| -2 | ApproachingYou don’t have to be like the women you want to attract them. It’s better to be yourself. | /r/seduction | 24/02/24 03:42 PM |
| 0 | ApproachingNot really you just have to approach | /r/seduction | 24/02/24 03:40 PM |
| 5 | What makes something “feminine”? What makes something “masculine”?Masculine: Strong, assertive, consistent, calm Feminine: Nurturing, empathetic, soft, perceptive Those are the core masculine and feminine traits. I believe that most men need those traits in order to succeed in the dating market. Men especially need to be assertive and consistent to achieve success in life. A man with some feminine traits is not less masculine than a man with none. The same goes for women. I don’t think assertive women are less feminine than passive women. I personally have a s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/24 03:36 PM |
| -6 | Q4W what is the root cause of men's dating complaints?Stop expecting women to pity you. They have their own issues to deal with. Put the work in and get your dating life together if you’re struggling with women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/24 12:07 AM |
| – | My Personal View On Why The Sexual Double Standard ExistsYa’ll really need to stop speaking like you’re Charles Darwin studying a pack of apes when you come up with the stuff. The sexual double standard exists because men wanted to control women’s sexuality, and ration women to the largest number of men possible. A lot more men would die alone if women weren’t forced into monogamous relationships for sex. They’d be fucking chads instead. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/24 10:49 PM |
| 12 | Q4W what is the root cause of men's dating complaints?Most women do sleep around a bit. Just not with the men who are complaining. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/24 10:23 PM |
| 1 | What is your guys' favorite cologne?Pineapple vintage intense. I’ve gotten dozens of compliments of it | /r/seduction | 23/02/24 10:12 PM |
| 1 | how do I seduce a girl when I meet up with her irl after months of online textingCall her and talk about what you’re going to do to her when you meet. | /r/seduction | 23/02/24 10:07 PM |
| 1 | My dick game is top notch but my verbal game is lacking. Any recommendations?Get an Audiobook called The Possibility of Sex by Alan Roger Currie | /r/seduction | 23/02/24 09:52 PM |
| 1 | When men call women “illogical,” do they genuinely believe she is literally not following a rationale?Well, yeah, someone who doesn't feel any affection for their child, wouldn't have to put that aside in such a scenario. Then what’s the motive? What’s going through this hypothetical killer’s mind during the murder? That's not all murders, there are plenty of premeditated murders. Also, the reason most people aren't murderers isn't because they don't experience strong emotions, but exactly because they experience them. True, but premeditated murders are often emotional in nature. You have to giv… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/24 08:46 PM |
| 1 | When men call women “illogical,” do they genuinely believe she is literally not following a rationale?Where are you getting the idea that you have to set your emotions aside to murder your own son? Most murders are committed during heat of the moment, emotional outbursts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/24 07:22 PM |
| 1 | When men call women “illogical,” do they genuinely believe she is literally not following a rationale?I think that a man who can kill people with his bare hands needs more emotional control than a woman who can’t do the same. Logic is reasoning conducted or assessed according to strict principles of validity. The word emotion is absent from the definition of logic. Some decisions, like sending soldiers into battle, do force you to set your emotions aside. You can consider emotions in your decision making, but if your own emotions override your reasoning, you’re not thinking logically. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/24 06:52 PM |
| 2 | Why don't you young guys just get your passports?You can see that I’m right-leaning if you look at my profile. I have awful social anxiety myself. I suspect that I may be on the spectrum, but I will never get tested or call myself autistic. I have a long way to go, but I’ve overcome my social anxiety to an extent and learned how to attract women. The vast majority of men can do the same. If you’re on the spectrum put yourself in social situations anyways. Social skills are skills, you can improve them if you work hard enough. If you’re religio… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/24 05:39 PM |
| – | I’m sick of women saying “tHe bAr iS sO LoW” and that all you have to do is take a shower and text back. How can there be an honest debate here when they tell bold faced lies like this?80% of men can barely approach women IRL. They have no idea how to talk to women and turn them on. They think taking a shower, getting dressed, paying their taxes, and being a nice guy makes them entitled to women. They blame women for their problems instead of looking in the mirror. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/24 05:20 PM |
| – | I’m sick of women saying “tHe bAr iS sO LoW” and that all you have to do is take a shower and text back. How can there be an honest debate here when they tell bold faced lies like this?Low body count... I mean every woman starts at 0 unless she's raped. Women are biologically programmed to have sex. The idea that women are even capable of maintaining their virginity until you swoop by is delusional. It’s natural for women to have sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/24 05:16 PM |
| – | I’m sick of women saying “tHe bAr iS sO LoW” and that all you have to do is take a shower and text back. How can there be an honest debate here when they tell bold faced lies like this?The bar really is low for men. The 80/20 rule doesn’t exist because women are naturally attracted to the top 20% of men. It exists because the bottom 80% of men do the bare minimum at best. With that said, women don’t know how to become that top 20% man; so they do give poor advice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/24 05:13 PM |
| 3 | When men call women “illogical,” do they genuinely believe she is literally not following a rationale?Men are not angrier than women. Men are just far more dangerous while angry, so men’s anger stands out more. Men who lose control of their emotions literally kill people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/24 04:54 PM |
| -1 | When men call women “illogical,” do they genuinely believe she is literally not following a rationale?Of course emotions impact men’s decision making. However, men are more likely to suppress their emotions. Thus, men are less likely to make decisions out of emotion instead of logic. I acknowledged that emotions are important and that men are sometimes too logical, emotionless, and uptight. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/24 04:43 PM |
| 8 | Western women and shaming gold-diggersThey were young, middle class, white girls who wanted to have fun. He hooked me up with a fwb who was the internet sales manager at a local car dealership. She knew nothing about me the first time we fucked. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/24 03:45 PM |
| -5 | When men call women “illogical,” do they genuinely believe she is literally not following a rationale?Women are more outwardly emotional than men. Emotions can cloud your judgement. I’m sure you’ve made at least one poor decision out of fear or anger. Making decisions based on emotions is not rational or logical. I won’t say that women are irrational, but they are less rational than men on average. Men are more likely to set their emotions aside when making decisions. The problem is that men can be too cold and logical at times. That’s why men try to formulize dating into looks, money, status, 6… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/24 03:36 PM |
| 14 | Western women and shaming gold-diggersThis is complete nonsense. Women date losers all the time. I used to hang out with a homeless felon who brought women to my house all the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/24 02:58 PM |
| 16 | Western women and shaming gold-diggersThere’s no shame in using a passport bro for his money and his passport. I might do the same thing if I were a poor woman stuck in the slums of Brazil. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/24 02:57 PM |
| 3 | Why don't you young guys just get your passports?You don’t need status to attract women. You don’t have status anyways. Women are approaching you for money and your passport, not your status. They’re approaching you because you’ll either pay them for sex, fund their lifestyle, or even fly them out of the slums. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/24 02:55 PM |
| 5 | Why don't you young guys just get your passports?Of course a 1st world passport is interesting to 3rd world women. Foreign accents are also attractive to women. But a lot of the women who approach you are prostitutes. Others just want you for your passport. That’s fine if you know what you’re doing, but your inability to attract women in your own country is a huge warning sign. You don’t know how to build true attraction. The odds of you being used by a foreign woman who isn’t that attracted to you are high. They’ll feign interest if they thin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/24 02:03 PM |
| 1 | Why don't you young guys just get your passports?I follow Mr Locario on YouTube. He’s a very good dating coach. I also suggest reading a book called “Mode One” and getting an audiobook called “The Possibility of Sex”. Both were written by Alan Roger Currie (RIP). You have to find a mentor who resonates with you though. I suggest avoiding mentors who constantly complain about female nature, or say that you need to be tall and rich to get women. Rollo Tomassi and Fresh & Fit are examples of that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/24 01:53 PM |
| 1 | Most men are struggling to find their equivalent, which is why TRP has not only spilled over into the mainstream but become common senseNo, I use female sexual nature to my advantage. People like you complain about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/24 01:47 PM |
| 3 | Why don't you young guys just get your passports?So you just read the title. I admit that I haven’t gotten around to getting my passport even though I should. But that’s not because I have to travel the world. I’d rather invest my money now. I’ll travel when I want to. The OP isn’t traveling because he wants to. He’s traveling because he thinks he has to. He thinks he has to because he doesn’t think he’s good enough to meet women in his home country. That reeks of desperation and makes him unattractive. OP thinks 10s in 3rd world countries are… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/24 01:45 PM |
| 5 | Why don't you young guys just get your passports?Traveling to a foreign country is way more effort and expense than traveling to your local cafe for a date. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/24 01:01 PM |
| 9 | Why don't you young guys just get your passports?It really seems to be the only way today for average men to get some action. Plenty of guys are already doing it and having the time of their lives why most of you are siting around complaining or waiting for your turn. Average men can get some action by simply dressing well, grooming, approaching women, learning how to communicate with women, and learning how to build sexual tension. Once an average man learns those things, he’s no longer average. If you are at least average here in the west, y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/24 12:58 PM |
| – | Would you rather date a reformed sex worker with a body count of 80 or a regular women with a body count of 80?I’d rather date the party girl since she probably holds a regular job. She doesn’t have porn floating on the internet either. I’m not concerned with body count though. She just has to be clean and practice safe sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/24 02:27 AM |
| 1 | Men are more likely to support their partners in the event of a job loss. Why don't women do the same?Because these men chose women who weren’t attracted enough to stand by them when times got tough. The simple solution is to replace her. But I believe that most women are capable of weathering the storm with a man they truly desire. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/24 01:11 AM |
| 1 | Is it even possible to "fix" the issues around dating apps?I use dating apps but I don’t take them that seriously. Most of my success comes from approaching women IRL. But I lose nothing from messaging a few women on dating apps in my free time, so why not? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/24 10:24 PM |
| 8 | Do relationships where a woman is with a man for his money have really dead bedrooms?I never said women couldn’t have sex with men they’re not attracted to. I said they won’t want to. So the sex will be lackluster like you said. Eventually it becomes more of a chore and the woman just makes up excuses to avoid sex, and cheats in many cases. Money cannot maintain a fulfilling sex life in any relationship. It can create an illusion of one, but eventually the lack of sexual attraction leads to a dead bedroom. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/24 09:54 PM |
| 3 | Most men are struggling to find their equivalent, which is why TRP has not only spilled over into the mainstream but become common senseWhat do you mean by TRP? If you mean bitching and moaning about women’s standards and body counts, then that won’t help men. Men struggle to attract women because they don’t know how to be attractive and they’re afraid to approach women. TRP helps with that a little bit, but it’s way too focused on demonizing female nature to truly help. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/24 08:47 PM |
| 17 | Do relationships where a woman is with a man for his money have really dead bedrooms?Women aren’t sexually attracted to money. They’re sexually attracted to men who know how to turn them on. If a woman is with you for your money, she isn’t that attracted to you. If she isn’t that attracted to you, she won’t want to have sex with you. So yes, relationships where a woman is with a man for his money have dead bedrooms. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/24 08:40 PM |
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