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I was 121 lbs (am 5'9") after graduating high school virgin etc. Went to the gym, got to 140lbs (arguably still skinny but I am lucky enough to look pretty muscular at that weight). Suddenly women started complimenting me on my body, touching me in clubs etc. Can only imagine what happens to actual shredded people lmao. Off the back of that attention I developed some confidence, took a shirtless photo and one good headshot for Tinder and Bumble and haven't looked back since.
/r/askTRP29/04/21 03:20 PM
14

What's the point then
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 09:09 PM
4

Cannot agree more. After waking up to being stared at and her immediately saying, "I thought about killing you last night." I am a little more cautious these days. Stay safe out there brothers.
/r/askTRP28/01/21 11:49 AM
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Yeah man, even that should be an indicator: Her fallback is her parents and it wouldn't be embarrassing because she is 19. I'm 27 and moving back with my parents would be a fucking nightmare.
/r/askTRP28/01/21 05:45 AM
3

Dont worry bro being a streamer can be a career. However your GF is 19 why the fuck would she respect your career. She just finished school last year and doesnt comprehend risking so much to do what you love and/or donating half your day to slave away for someone you hate just to support yourself. Date a woman who is a bit older
/r/askTRP28/01/21 05:41 AM
7

Absolutely it is harder to get laid off a day date. I intentionally do first dates as mid morning coffee dates so I can screen women. Then second date is usually something at night and that often ends up at someone's house.
/r/askTRP28/01/21 05:36 AM
3

You're overthinking this sir.
/r/askTRP24/01/21 10:23 AM
0

Because women like it.
/r/askTRP21/01/21 11:57 AM
11

You have kids because you acknowledge you will get fucked by the system but you want kids anyway
/r/askTRP21/01/21 06:20 AM
4

Model two is made up of smaller model 1s that are context dependent
/r/TheRedPill13/01/21 10:38 AM
3

Holding frame is not enough. Don makes zero effort to actually fix his emotional problems. A red pilled man will improve over time. That means facing things that scare you and make you weak.
/r/askTRP12/01/21 05:25 PM
23

Nah, all those men are emotional wrecks. Hardly red pill.
/r/askTRP12/01/21 07:04 AM
2

There aren't any red pilled incels dafuq they are literally different pills.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 03:40 PM
140

Why do you tolerate these double standards
/r/askTRP04/01/21 07:02 AM
4

How did you find out about this OP
/r/askTRP29/12/20 09:48 AM
1

It doesn't have to be expensive it just has to be meaningful to her. Just reminice about something you guys did together and get a little gift to commemorate that. Or don't do that and piss her off
/r/askTRP27/12/20 07:30 AM
1

Tell him what you told us. Show him TRP.
/r/askTRP27/12/20 07:18 AM
12

I hope you don't join and try safer ways of getting status. Sadly gangs become popular when men cannot feasibly ascend status hierarchies in society so they reach for a status "quick-fix".
/r/askTRP26/12/20 09:47 PM
9

Don't act like you are marrying Tinder chicks please man get a grip. Smash and dash it is the way.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/20 10:46 PM
5

You don't seem shredded, successful or cool though
/r/askTRP24/12/20 10:36 PM
1

Height matters but you still wanna smash so what the fuck are you doing. Go get shredded, successful and cool.
/r/askTRP24/12/20 10:02 PM
6

What backwards place do you live in where this is a thing. Just dump her and move on. Focus in making youself better so you don't get cucked in the future.
/r/askTRP14/12/20 10:02 PM
8

At least you found out now and not 8 years down the line with a mortgage and 2 kids.
/r/askTRP13/12/20 07:18 AM
6

Firstly if you could lose your job permanently because of getting a disease during a pandemic then your workplace is the issue. Secondly, your GF doesn't give a fuck about your job. Maybe she's right I dont know. But it is clear you two don't have the same views about the pandemic or your relationship.
/r/askTRP13/11/20 05:15 AM
1

Explain more
/r/askTRP07/11/20 07:08 AM
12

Depends what you are there for. Either way the usual shit test things apply. Dont get sucked into pissing contests with the boyfriend.
/r/askTRP07/11/20 07:07 AM
8

Invite her out for coffee, walk, activity whatever. It doesnt have to be a club. Sometimes being straightforward works, sometimes it doesnt.
/r/askTRP27/10/20 09:22 PM
2

I've had the same thing happen to me last month. I just focussed in my hobbies and work. Stay strong bro.
/r/askTRP19/10/20 10:04 AM
3

Then dont smash. There is other stuff to focus on in your life.
/r/askTRP19/10/20 09:23 AM
11

That the red pill is as much an inward realisation of truth as it is an outward one.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/20 09:48 PM
20

It is worth the read you should give it a go.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/20 07:46 PM
2

Look I dont know how often she brings it up and how the conversation is flowing when she does but you have to seem natural no matter what you do. I think ignoring it and acting unfazed is a safer option for you
/r/askTRP21/07/20 09:43 PM
2

Yeah it is not good because you can neither change nor be ignorant of her past. This behaviour upsets you so you need to show her that you won't tolerate but simultaneously hold your frame. One strategy is keep ignoring it when she brings it up like it doesn't even register with you and eventually she will get bored and find something else to tedt you with that perhaps doesn't trigger you as much. Another strategy is next time she brings it up, engage her on it. Ask her what they did that she li…
/r/askTRP21/07/20 09:35 PM
2

It's just shit test. But more pressing is the reaso it makes you lose attraction to her? Is it knowingbshe was with other men before or that she is telling you about it?
/r/askTRP21/07/20 09:24 PM
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Firstly you accept that you are not a robot and you will feel like shit for a while when you see her because you still long for her to accept and choose you (even though she clearly has not). It is normal, so chill. Then, meet more women. There are billions of them so just start doing it. You don't have to plate them all, just talk to and meet them. Finally, if you find yourself lurking on her social media etc. Just block her. Do what you need to do to help you move on and understand that there …
/r/askTRP21/07/20 09:18 PM
8

Tell her what you told us. If she doesn't want that then let her go.
/r/askTRP21/07/20 09:13 PM
-1

Exactly wtf patient zero superspreader over here.
/r/askTRP05/07/20 02:47 PM
3

Yeah
/r/askTRP28/06/20 10:10 PM
28

Well it seems you are not exclusively dating her.
/r/askTRP28/06/20 09:22 AM
7

This is the real answer. Take responsibility for the situation. Be proactive. That includes lifting, training but also PLANNING.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/20 03:41 PM
2

Go to university. Do whatever the fuck bachelor degree you want because it is more about understanding yourself in those three years. Just whatever you do pick majors that keep your options open and get a good GPA. Then go to grad school for something useful that can make you money and makes you happy. Anything tech-related or engineering-related will make you money but if you aren't that type of person you'll be sad. Something finance or business-related will mean a highly competitive job marke…
/r/askTRP24/06/20 08:40 AM
4

During my massive beta days of 2014 to 2017: Self-deprecating jokes (as all of my jokes). Not making a move on women I liked. Serial oneitus whenever a women showed interest. Feeling unattractive but not making any effort to improve myself. Wasting time playing games instead of meeting people and growing myself.
/r/askTRP24/06/20 08:35 AM
2

Got a 50kg barbell and dumbbell pack on special for around $80. My country went into lockdown a week later. Value.
/r/askTRP24/06/20 08:29 AM
1

I get where you are coming from. I'm a big extrovert so I just end up in conversations with random people at parties. But we are all different. So look at it from this perspective: If another high SMV guy wanted to be friends with you, where do you think he would approach you? Where would you feel okay for that to happen? Where wouldn't you feel okay? What would he say to make you not think he is weird? On another note, perhaps having a network or friends group only of high SMV friends isn't the…
/r/askTRP23/06/20 06:50 PM
8

What do you have to gain from revealing it? Not much in my opinion.
/r/askTRP23/06/20 05:56 PM
1

You cant control every action of other people. Similarly if a women is going to cheat on you. No matter how high your SMV etc. Some other dude will pitch up with similar SMV and she'll swing. But yes it could be and often is partly your fault. Low SMV behaviour like clingyness, being passive etc. doesnt make you look like the alpha she wants you to be in her life. This makes it more likely she'll be looking elsewhere. So to what extent can we blame women for cheating? It depends.
/r/askTRP23/06/20 05:55 PM
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I agree with everything here and would add that purpose has a masculine element to it. Men need and crave purpose and responsibility. You need to foster the love of purpose and responsibility in yourself in your 20s. To do so: SET GOALS. Know what you want to achieve in 1, 3 and 6 months and 1, 2 and 5 years. You may not have all the details but setting goals and going through them in your mind will help you prioritize. TRACK YOUR PROGRESS. This works for any goal. You need to know how far you h…
/r/askTRP23/06/20 05:52 PM
1

The same way you would make new friends. Just go out, do stuff that you like and meet people organically. Then just put more effort into connecting with the high SMV ones.
/r/askTRP23/06/20 05:46 PM
3

Truth fucking hurts. Well said.
/r/askTRP22/06/20 08:55 AM
1

Here you go. https://www.payscale.com/data/gender-pay-gap It is a long read but from the source: "In fact, when men and women with the same employment characteristics do similar jobs, women earn $0.98 for every dollar earned by an equivalent man. In other words, a woman who is doing the same job as a man, with the exact same qualifications as a man is still paid two percent less for no attributable reason."
/r/askTRP20/06/20 02:07 PM
1

If you want to. Then do it. But if you want to keep sleeping with other women then I hope your negotiation skills are on point.
/r/askTRP20/06/20 08:09 AM
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When we look at the gender wage gap without controlling for job type etc. The gap is around 20 cents per dollar. This is the one that gets quoted everywhere by people who dont understand stats. That's all jobs done by women vs all jobs done by men. That factors in that women spend more time doing non job things like childcare, dont pursue high paying careers like STEM and dont get promoted for whatever reasons. The real gender wage gap is around 2 to 3 cents per dollar. That is when we control f…
/r/askTRP20/06/20 08:04 AM
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Never had that at all
/r/askTRP15/06/20 01:22 PM
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They recognize that you exist. Anyone on that dad bod train is deluded. Women touch you more, especially shoulders, chest, arms. If they feel your abs through your shirt they WILL make a scene, honestly it embarrassing sometimes In public you will catch women looking at you or at your body. You will feel like a piece of meat. Other men will start asking you for advice on working out. Women will ask you if you work out (code for I like your body). If you ever go to the beach in a group, be ready …
/r/askTRP15/06/20 09:35 AM
13

You will never solve your problems unless you accept what has happened between you and her. And then you need to understand that you will never get over her unless you take responsibility for your life. Figure out your problems, figure out what you can solve and in what order to get yourself to the gym, a better haircut, more focus on your career and a better mindset about the possibilities in a world with 4 billion women. This chick wasn't even that hot.
/r/askTRP15/06/20 09:29 AM
1

Re-evaluate your goals regularly bro. If you don't understand and remind yourself WHY you are doing something you can get caught up in the daily tasks and lose the great feeling that comes with moving towards your goals.
/r/askTRP15/06/20 09:26 AM
25

She's been jumping on other men while she's with you too
/r/askTRP15/05/20 08:06 AM
1

You are a man and you aren't too emotional. Many men go through situations like yours and come out on top. You think you'll never find someone as hot/smart/fun etc. as her. You've trained yourself to believe she's the only one out there for you. If you are going to be in a LTR it should be with someone who respects you. This woman does not respect you and just from reading your story my gut feel is that she is 100% fucking other dudes behind your back. There are 4 billion women in the world. It …
/r/askTRP15/05/20 08:05 AM
1

Just say thanks for the compliment
/r/askTRP12/04/20 01:34 PM
4

The first thing to understand is that people who have high perceived value and a strong frame don't neg. They don't have to. So whomever is negging you has at least something they would probably crumble to if you had to jab them with some true evil. I think best option is to respond with a lighthearted jab that makes it seem like you either cant be bothered about the subject of the neg versus what is really important to you. However, if you respond with a more serious neg or insult directed at t…
/r/askTRP12/04/20 08:29 AM
1

No idea why I had to scroll so far down this thread for this comment. The whole point of the red pill is understanding the truth of the world around you. So why when this truth is shown to you you shy away from it or get angry? Embrace it and make the changes in your own life to deal with it.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/20 05:59 AM
53

I go straight to gym
/r/askTRP12/02/20 06:08 AM
1

What is an HB
/r/askTRP15/01/20 06:53 AM
5

Yeah I've seen "Beta Male Revolution" tossed around this sub but I want some evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 07:04 AM
8

Selfish and hypocritical, but realistic. Their rationale is that if they are a high value women (beautiful, successful etc.), many men would want to date them. And they are right about that. So they can demand that their man pay for their meals, wait until commitment before sex etc. Doesnt make it right or sound good, it is just the reality of how men and women date. There are so many men that would jump at the opportunity to sniff a moderately attractive women's bath water that legitimately att…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 06:47 AM
1

Basically this
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 06:43 AM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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