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I'm glad we at least reach understanding. I see from your flair that you yourself are married- wishing you and your spouse a fulfilling and fruitful marriage. Cheers.
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/17 06:51 PM
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Anyway.
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/17 06:28 PM
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Everyone knows cheating can go both ways. That's not the point. My point is that those who took the "forgiving" route end up compromising themselves-which is what I want OP to avoid. I don't need to disprove your points to negate your entire argument. Listen, it's not about weakness. If I were in OPs situation I would be devastated. Something like this would be emotionally crippling for me to deal with. 1) The question about a strong single mother being better than two parents simply doesn't app…
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/17 05:32 PM
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Lol. Bc you have to betray yourself in order to take back someone who betrayed you. It's not hard.
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/17 03:45 PM
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No I understand very well actually. I'm glad you're giving this input tho/you just keep adding to my point. This is the input the husband needs. He doesn't understand the emotional stakes of marriage. He shouldn't be in one.
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/17 02:53 PM
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Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned ¯_(ツ)_/¯
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/17 02:52 PM
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Tell that to the man who cheated. He didn't understand the psychological and emotional difference between a whore and his PREGNANT wife.
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/17 02:28 PM
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As a RPW I believe in spiritual grace, not artificial social grace that can be mastered by any worm and snake. I genuinely believe I was the only commenter putting myself in OPs shoes and genuinely considering her feelings. I personally would give birth to a baby by a stranger that brutally raped me before giving birth to a baby by my husband who betrayed me. I'm serious. If I were ever raped by a stranger I'd give birth to that baby and love it endlessly...but in a situation like this I would n…
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/17 02:02 PM
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that the other person would get to go out and have sex with another person as well. They are still together and working through things.< So now both are pathetic and spineless cheaters. Being "together" isn't automatically a better decision than leaving. Why are you telling OP to commit herself to a lifetime of misery? Do you have any idea what "working through things" looks like in a situation like this? It comes at the cost of OP's soul and core values. What he did was BETRAYAL. HE already end…
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/17 01:29 PM
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I think betraying one's pregnant wife in such a way is worse than abortion. We can disagree there/perhaps you have a lighter view of infidelity. ..but you as a grown man need to be calm and rational enough to express your dissent in a civil manner.
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/17 01:22 PM
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RPW is a much better community than this- to tell a woman to stay with her cheating husband. This is not about "making it work." This isn't about what house to buy or working on communication skills. He broke the marriage contract by sticking his penis in a stripper when his wife was at home pregnant. That's all there is to it. If he loved her he wouldn't have cheated. It's actually very simple OP would betray her own soul and dignity if she stays and will never be happy with this man anymore. T…
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/17 01:18 PM
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OP is going to suffer forever.
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/17 01:13 PM
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It was a dramatization of how heinous this act against OP is. Deep down she will always see her cheating husband's face in her baby. I'm not saying to literally abort the baby, I'm saying that she'd be better off doing that in COMPARISON Because the slow spiritual disintegration she will inevitably experience if she stays will be awful for her and her baby.
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/17 01:12 PM
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I wasn't telling her to actually have an abortion. I'm saying that she'd be better off completely getting rid of him. Your comment is a personal attack. Do not insult the community or its members. Phrase your feelings differently.
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/17 01:07 PM
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Your input is cancerous. Do not tell OP to betray herself by staying.
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/17 06:30 AM
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He wasn't sorry enough to not do it in the first place. These are just crocodile tears. You're better off aborting his baby so he lives with the suffering for the rest of his life. Tell him the baby in YOUR womb died in when he put his d**k in that random woman's womb. Destroy him and then seek peace of your own.
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/17 06:25 AM
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OP there was a decent stretch of time where your husband had the thought "I am going to lose my wife and unborn child if I go through with this decision" and he went ahead and did it anyway. That 7 minutes of carnal, low quality sex was worth more to him than staying faithful to you and your unborn child. Men cheat because they can. Do with that knowledge what you will. You will never be happy if you stay.
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/17 06:23 AM
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No because she has no role. That's the point. She has more than clearly indicated that she wants nothing to do with her husband's political career. She just shows up for the events required to attend. What you're talking about is Michelle Obama- she's the one who embraced the role of FLOTUS as a mother and wife. She always had the welfare of America's/her kids as the focus of her platform. Melania doesn't do anything. She doesn't want to.
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/17 11:29 PM
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Fun thread! I'm 22- I find the basics to be the most important part of my feminine self-image. 1) Regular exercise keeps me trim and helps make sure I look good in most clothing styles. 2) Hair- it's naturally a light brown, but I have it dyed a golden blonde (I used Blake Lively's picture to my stylist when I dyed it). It's tailbone length now which is easy to maintain (light curls/waves), but I do an olive oil+honey+milk hairmask 2x a week to keep my ends healthy. 3) Skincare is more important…
/r/RedPillWomen14/09/17 08:32 PM
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At first I thought this was 15K euros in student debt which is actually quite light, but then I read that it is the result of a gambling addiction... This is very alarming. I admire how hard you're working to be a sensible person but if you were my best friend sitting in front of me over coffee I would be shaking you telling you to GET OUT. He's also not even acknowledging the problem. I worry that everything you do will only be to placate yourself as I don't think anything about him will change…
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/17 03:39 PM
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She gave literally the same comments when she was married to Orlando Bloom and look how that turned out😂. There's much more to keeping a man than her grandma's tips. She's def not RPW material.
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/17 09:10 PM
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Why should I do a minimum wage job when I'm worth $50/hr?< Seriously???????????
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/17 03:54 PM
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He's not a RP man. A RP man wouldn't have gone behind your back. You tremendously lack self esteem if you take him back and you'll never truly be happy together. He destroyed the relationship. Let him suffer alone.
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/17 06:21 PM
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Dude.
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/17 11:53 PM
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And it's not just 'spinsters' trying to have a baby God you're awfully unpleasant.
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/17 11:45 PM
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Copy&paste that and send it to her. If she doesn't change her mind, break up. We're strangers on the internet dude, we can't care about your relationship for you more than you do.
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/17 11:45 PM
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They do it for many reasons. And it doesn't matter why as long as it still helps a family's chances. In any case it sounds like you've made up your mind about it. Why are you consulting RPW?
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/17 11:40 PM
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"For whatever" The main difference in the two is acknowledging that it's not for whatever. One is selfish destruction and betrayal of love/relationship. The other is donating eggs to help an infertile couple have a chance at a family. Typical poison. You haven't expressed any serious plans to date and marry her, have you? You're only saying it now in passing to express some sort of claim over her body/future bc it would look bad for you to do so without saying that you have serious long term pla…
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/17 11:35 PM
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It's "compatible" with dark triad male TRP pick up artists who care not about the women they date/fuck. It is NOT compatible with the values we espouse here at RPW bc we value exclusivity and male-female partnerships that are fair and reciprocal in equal but different ways. Ushering her into a threesome is a sure fire way to get dumped. You deserve to get dumped.
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/17 11:30 PM
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A man I dated (serious LTR, en route to marriage) once brought up a threesome with me.... dumped and deleted 🚮.
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/17 11:27 PM
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You're asking RPW to help you understand why your threesome is breeding jealousy ?
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/17 11:26 PM
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Leave it a poisonous man to liken donating eggs to "cheating with 5 people."😒
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/17 11:23 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/BDSMpersonals/comments/6mnsn3/f4m_early_20s_sub_open_to_older_dominant_male_for/ It's my personals ad (I was curious to see if I could meet the right person online, but haven't been really open to it yet). Not exactly an info- page. But here is a link to some invaluable resources about Submission. It's called the "Library for Kinksters" http://dominantlife.tumblr.com/library
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/17 10:20 PM
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Ah yes I see that It was about a girl who was considering breaking up with her bf bc she does everything and he refuses to ever take leadership and she's since 'fallen out of love with him.'
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/17 09:51 PM
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I mean this in a neutral way--- For a married man of 10 years, you spend A LOT of time on RPW. I'm hoping your wife doesn't think you're too involved with your screen?
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/17 11:12 PM
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Wait FACETUNE? What's that?? Sounds disheartening 😟
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/17 08:24 PM
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Women like you and I are ‘subs’ (take a look at the bottom of my post history to see what I mean). There’s nothing wrong with it, we just have to work extra hard to protect ourselves, our bodies, and our emotions. Onto your comment: I am head over heels mad about a man who is older than me. He will not have a relationship or date me because of logical reasons.< Hard pause. What are these reasons? Was he divorce-raped? Does he not want to bring a new woman around his child? In any case, it only s…
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/17 07:28 PM
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I mean I'm assuming that your grandma is set in her ways and that it would be pretty pointless to try to convince her. Side note: she says after college? Are you in grad school or in undergrad still? Technically grad school is "after college" and not against her rules. But apart from that just explain to your bf that you'll have to play by her rules unfortunately and that your conversations likely won't be scheduled :/ A month honestly isn't that long. You can be pen pals in a way. It'll be over…
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/17 10:23 AM
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I guess I'm confused as to what sort of advice we can possibly give you in this situation because all of it would require helping you go behind your grandma's back/lying. How old are you again? I'm on mobile and sometimes I don't see flairs.
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/17 10:09 AM
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You need more love in your life, you poor thing.
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/17 01:29 AM
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Social media is a neutral concept. It depends entirely on the user. If use of social media feeds one's narcissism and distracts them from real life, it's bad. If use of social media helps one stay connected with world news, new ideas, etc etc.. then it's a good thing. Using social media to allow other people to learn intimate details about your private relationships, it's bad. At some point social media is a test of character. Use it well or don't use it at all.
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/17 01:02 AM
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Okay, welcome. Just keep in mind that it is a women's space :) I recommend reading the sidebar if you haven't already :)
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/17 12:27 AM
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I'm not sure you're a man tbh. Your account is 35min old, why is a RPW comment your very first go-to?
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/17 12:17 AM
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From the sidebar: " take extreme care to always adopt a neutral and non-aggressive tone. Be kind to one another - but understand that sometimes kindness comes in the form of tough love." Zero kindness or TRUE tough love in your post. You're being bitter, combative, and rude for zero reason and it is (keyword) unproductive.
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/17 12:15 AM
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Generally I think this is sweet but in this case I would have insisted on the landlord doing it since it's the landlord's job. I'd feel bad to have my man to do it.
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/17 12:05 AM
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OP first of all, why are you so desperate to be with a man who has kids? You're 25. You might even be closer in age to his kids than to him. He has a COMPLETELY different perspective of what's happening here. The main reason you're so attached is bc he keeps pulling away so it's allowing your hamster to run wild with fanatical and romanticized feelings of devotion. Stop fxxking with men who have kids. Just like men won't wife a girl who is 'soiled' from riding the CC, don't waste your time with …
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/17 12:04 AM
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Learning to say things with tact and sensitivity is the best way to get someone to be truly receptive to it. Otherwise you're just masturbating onto OP's face.
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/17 11:59 PM
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Angel, You need intensive professional therapy above all else. Of course you haven't moved passed it, trauma is not a 'bad breakup' that you get over. You cannot and will not have a healthy or fulfilling relationship ship until you truly make progress.... not for the sake of being a good partner, but for yourself. Because YOU deserve it and YOU require relief and recovery.
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/17 09:12 PM
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GIIIIIRRRLLLL I just read the part where you said you did something sexual before- didn't read it before This is red flag zone for your guy. If he caught you on the phone "just chatting" and asked who he was, a real alpha would get all the details out of you like a professional interrogator. And his take away would be "she's on the phone with a guy who fingered her" and any self-respecting man would dump your ass before you had the chance to explain. If your contact is limited then reduce it eve…
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/17 08:12 PM
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It's less about how much contact and more about the exact type of contact. Some of them might be colleagues that you have to interact with regularly. So it's important to be able to navigate anyway. 'Healthy distance' entails quite a few things- some I knew how to do from the start, others took some trial and error. 1) I always tone down my appearance to a fair degree when around male acquaintances. Sure I love looking cute, but if it's something that would make my SO want to put his hands at my…
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/17 08:09 PM
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🤔🤔🤔 Well I'll be damned
/r/askTRP01/08/17 07:51 PM
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All of my 'guy friends' would fuck me if I let them. I keep them at a healthy distance at all times and though I'm not dating anyone, atm.. I would enforce even stricter boundaries.
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/17 07:42 PM
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"We don't attract what we want, we attract what we are." Unfortunately the world is an ugly place and many people are targeted and used simply bc they're easy to manipulate. Your best starting point for 'vetting' is learning to love yourself and have courage in your own beliefs BEFORE entering a relationship. Only authentic confidence and self-esteem are capable of tossing out the bad kernels. What do you think led you to be someone you consider a 'doormat?'
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/17 07:41 PM
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No but bc the post itself is completely irrelevant to RPW (the post history is supplementary). Sorry again for your tremendous loss.
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/17 10:02 AM
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Sorry for your loss but this doesn't belong here. You posted on RPW bc you knew we'd be more sensitive than over at TRP (which you frequent a lot based on your post history). Your post history talks about the several hundred women you've been with... sorry but RPW exists bc we want to avoid men like that. Post this elsewhere. It's not appropriate here. Condolences to your wife's family.
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/17 09:26 AM
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I hate yoga/Pilates. I used to run 2-4miles 5x a week until I got down to the general weight/frame I wanted. Now I do mostly weights 4x a week with minimal cardio.
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/17 08:05 PM
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Even the loveliest of figures would have a hard time looking good in that outfit. The side boob leotard doesn't sit well on the torso. The fitted jeans are too low-rise to look good bc they'll give anyone a muffin top. Ankle booties with short block heels just look clunky. There's lots of good fitness advice here so keep that in mind along with a wardrobe upgrade. You're 5'7- there's so much out there that would look amazing on you!
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/17 01:08 PM
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Six figures, early 20s, in shape and he STILL can't drop a woman who doesn't respect him 😭😫. You're her bread and butter. Her orbiters are the dessert. She's with you because it's 'good for her' but she craves their sweet validation/likes. That's not a sign of respect. Attention is the root of all evil. Man up-Drop her and ghost her. Let her orbiters comfort her with their "🔥🤤😍" comments under her photos. You CAN find a woman who has 10x her character and is better looking. Edit: your question H…
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/17 12:51 PM
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No high school sweetheart, though. My first kiss/bf was in my first year of college. I'm not looking for "daddies." I'm looking for a LTR, part of which includes submission.
/r/askTRP28/07/17 12:41 AM
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I'll be doing the worshipping :) I'm excited for when I can finally meet him and be all his.
/r/askTRP28/07/17 12:00 AM
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I can send you an autographed photo to frame.
/r/askTRP27/07/17 11:47 PM
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You're still here commenting though so either you haven't been given enough wisdom or you don't actually want to dodge me 🤔.
/r/askTRP27/07/17 11:37 PM
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If it doesn't include you, I certainly will enjoy it. ¯_(ツ)_/¯
/r/askTRP27/07/17 11:30 PM
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Sorry, nope :/ My parents love me and I believe in God's grace and in His wrath. I grew up watching Blue's Clues w/ my dad in the AM before he'd walk me to kindergarten and fix my clips in my hair ¯_(ツ)_/¯ Nothing demented or dysfunctional here, sorry Edit: looks like a good song though.
/r/askTRP27/07/17 11:14 PM
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I thought general RP wisdom was that WOMEN are supposed to be the emotional unstable ones? 🤔
/r/askTRP27/07/17 11:05 PM
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Lol yes sometimes relationships end for various reasons. ...anything else ?
/r/askTRP27/07/17 10:56 PM
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No that's not it. You're just belligerent and combative for no reason. My longest relationship was 2 years long which is pretty normal for someone my age. Thanks for your emotionally charged shitpost, but I'd rather move on.
/r/askTRP27/07/17 10:52 PM
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dumbass If you're interested in providing thoughtful and constructive input, please do so.
/r/askTRP27/07/17 10:50 PM
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You are entering the thread with an already negative and counterproductive attitude. Rather than initially providing me with info about your point (real connection vs faking), you made undercutting and apathetic remarks in a thread for advice. Not going to engage your attitude. Thanks.
/r/askTRP27/07/17 10:48 PM
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I CAN tell the difference.
/r/askTRP27/07/17 10:34 PM
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Thank you, sir 🌸 This is very insightful
/r/askTRP27/07/17 10:33 PM
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Downvoted for not even answering the question. I'm asking more about where to meet. Not about sex strategy.
/r/askTRP27/07/17 10:04 PM
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Can confirm I've done my own little social observations and no matter what I say, they always are so excited and encouraging even if I'm saying the dumbest most shallow thing in the world
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/17 05:05 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/Documentaries/comments/6oemw0/egomania_2007_fascinating_documentary_about/?st=J5DAZMGN&sh=7d37a3dc Just saw this! Looks interesting
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/17 03:28 AM
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"I'm scared he might slip away" Hoe, this is not the Notebook Consider yourself spared. Be glad it turned out how it did.
/r/RedPillWomen20/07/17 08:07 PM
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I think this is only post that actually genuinely gets it. I think those who have crossed paths with a true narcissist share a relation so deep in that regard-- it's completely alien to anyone who hasn't experienced it. Thanks so much!
/r/RedPillWomen20/07/17 08:03 PM
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Who tf showers twice a day? What a waste.
/r/RedPillWomen18/07/17 09:56 PM
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No
/r/RedPillWomen18/07/17 09:25 AM
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M is meters. Mi is miles.
/r/RedPillWomen18/07/17 06:57 AM
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You're right I guess it's more just the initial shock of seeing my suspicions come to light right there in a percentile format... in addition to my already existing screening factor for narcissism bc of the abusive ex. I just need to be even more careful
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/17 10:17 PM
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http://personality-testing.info/tests/SD3/
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/17 10:01 PM
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Sorry wrong link for second one: These are the results of my friend https://imgur.com/a/RZMT0
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/17 09:47 PM
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Perhaps it's different than what you're used to but living in a foreign country means you do have to adapt somewhat if only for the sake of avoiding social isolation. I love love my heels, but work in an area where the women are always in sneakers or birkenstocks. I absolutely hate their footwear, but wearing my preferred attire would make me stand out too much. So I compensate by wearing flats or cute boots with a small heel (or flat boots). If you look too unapproachable, then people will find…
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/17 08:22 PM
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It's going to be very transparent (and a little desperate) to show up to those mostly-male type pubs as a Russian girl in her early 20s in heels and a dress.
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/17 07:44 PM
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No one has the recipe for your life. As long as you have not unhealthily fixated on marrying off asap, then do you and don't worry about those people. By the time you're well into your 30s and married with a family, those same career-girl friends are going to look at your husband hungrily and be that lady who, after a few glasses of wine, starts desperately asking her dinner hosts (you) to pair her up with a man.
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/17 07:26 PM
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Sunscreen and daily moisturizer If you're not doing these two, then no other product will really make an impact.
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/17 07:48 PM
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Gonna throw out a few suggestions, it's quite possible you already do all of these.. but hopefully one will be helpful :) 1) Food is always a good place to start- spoil him regularly with his favorite healthy meals. I'm always kind of critical of a woman who doesn't cook if she has a hardworking husband who loves her. 2) Be realistic about how much you blow/fuck him and how intimate your sex game is- if you think it can improve then improve. 3) Give him space, or at the very least make the day a…
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/17 08:36 AM
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The fact that he's her direct boss is even worse. This is just going to be an awful mess. I'd have suspected a 38 yr old woman to know better but I guess that's why RP exists...
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/17 09:28 PM
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This is so sad to think they're in the late 30s. Sounds like middle school cafeteria dynamics. What's the logical follow-up? They both keep playing games bc that seems to be the only thing connecting them until they have sex, after which it's over. The fact that she saw him again after he stood her up indicates she has really low self-esteem and isn't averse to being played with and disrespected. Tell her she deserves better.
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/17 09:12 PM
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I did :)
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/17 04:52 PM
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No
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/17 04:32 PM
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What's even the point of this post?
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/17 04:32 PM
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Absolutely this.
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/17 09:41 AM
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They're not your friends. Just stop making it a priority to hang out with them. You don't need to ceremonially cut them off, but by not staying in regular contact with them they will be naturally demoted to "acquaintances" without any hard feelings or bridges burned. Good friends WANT to hang out with you. If you can't find them right now, learn to be content alone for a while :)
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/17 09:13 AM
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Arugula balsamic 😍
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/17 08:31 AM
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It's so simple and is quicker than it looks 1/2 onion 1/2 bell pepper Handful of mushrooms Chopped salami of your choosing Handful of olives sliced in half Handful of spinach if you'd like Add all these ingredients to a deep pan w/cooking oil over low heat Create four grooves where you will crack the eggs over Be sure to crack the eggs over shortly after adding the veggies to the pan so that everything cooks evenly. Add salt and pepper. Cover the pan with a lid and let cook for 15 min (checking …
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/17 05:45 PM
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There are women in this thread who support and participate in cheating relationships and in abusive relationships. Many of these comments are choking vibrant communities.
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/17 11:00 PM
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It will happen again
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/17 10:49 PM
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