| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 432 | This made me throw up in my mouth just a little | FDS RESCUE MISSION | daisyv83 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/22 02:00 AM |
| 64 | lolo_daninja on TikTok | PICKME CULTURE | daisyv83 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/21 07:45 PM |
| 1 | They will haunt you even from the grave. | MALE DEPRAVITY | daisyv83 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/21 01:50 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 20 | Old men and their entitlement to young women (specifically their wombs) are poisoning the dating market for professional women in their twenties.I definitely had men waste my time who were never serious about me. I’m in my 40s now and men my age have no interest in dating me. They want women in their 20s so they can have kids and I’m simply not saying a guy in his 50s and 60s, although even they too are seeking women in their 30s. Ladies, do not ever let a man waste your time! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/22 10:45 AM |
| 33 | What’s the most idiotic thing a LVM has ever told you to avoid accountability?My LV ex took a trip to another country. We visited a few places and one day we went walking around the town for a few hours. When we were ready to go back to the hotel, he pulled out his phone to call an Uber. I was right next to him the entire time, but as he was calling, I stepped away maybe a foot or two to look into a store front that was literally right next to where we were on the sidewalk. A car drove by and the front seat passenger leaned out the window of the car and tried to grab his … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/22 03:03 AM |
| 270 | This made me throw up in my mouth just a littleLet’s talk about the fact that he’s known to go on drinking binges and this is his FIFTH marriage. I feel bad for her to even have to live with and have sex with him 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/22 02:14 AM |
| 24 | not supposed to represent feminism on a feminist subreddit... what?And you know he will! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/21 01:42 AM |
| 92 | lolo_daninja on TikTokLadies- please. It’s, 2022. For the love of all things Holy, please don’t do this! Look at that smirk on his face?! Ugh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/21 07:46 PM |
| 32 | My experience leaving an emotionally abusive lvmThey try to guilt you with the — “why are you going through my phone?” I’m telling women everywhere — if you have even the slightest suspicion, and even when you don’t, go ahead and LOOK! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/21 10:44 PM |
| 80 | You should NEVER give ugly men a chanceI do-sign this 100% and have saved this post for future reference!! As someone who dated someone I didn’t find attractive for the same reasons, let me tell you, big mistake! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/21 07:15 PM |
| 68 | There's a "promaledatingstrategy" to contradict FDS. Men really don't know how to act when women have had enough.I want my 45 seconds back | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/21 05:25 PM |
| 11 | Divorce Him. It's not a woman's job to be your secretary and don't even let him start with the "babe where is my/have you seen my..." Men don't do this for us and it's exhausting to manage their lives for them. Run.I want to upvote this x1000. My ex told me I was smothering him and literally I taught him how to pay his bills online. I sh-t you not, he would go to check cashing places to pay his utility bills! I, of course, was firmly in my pickmeisha phase and felt good about helping his with everything. I so wish I could take those days back! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/21 01:06 AM |
| 4 | He cheated on her and she's still with him. She now finds out he spends money on porn.Every. Single. Time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 12:58 AM |
| 2 | SAFETY TIP: IF A MAN ASKS YOU FOR HELPExactly! You didn’t know this when you first climbed into the car? What was your plan? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 07:50 PM |
| 11 | SAFETY TIP: IF A MAN ASKS YOU FOR HELPExactly. He knew he was in a wheel chair before he went to the laundromat. What’s your plan of action if you go and it’s empty? And if not employ, is the Plan to harass and guilt other patrons into helping you? Sir, please. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 06:50 PM |
| 5 | SAFETY TIP: IF A MAN ASKS YOU FOR HELPWell said! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 06:48 PM |
| 21 | SAFETY TIP: IF A MAN ASKS YOU FOR HELPI was in grad school and headed to the library early one morning to study for exams. It was about 7am so early and no one really out and about as yet — and it was a weekend too. There driving out of the parking lot was a white van. He stopped the van and asked me if I knew where to find a particular building. The campus is big with the undergraduate campus and other schools and I only knew where my grad program was housed so I said I couldn’t help. He then asked me if I’d mind going around to th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 04:50 PM |
| 97 | NVM narcissist ex resorts to literal mail after 6 months no contactOmg. My ex is like that. Valentine’s Day would pass with zero effort, but after a fight and I was ignoring him—- oh flower delivery and chocolates etc. I just wanted to throw it all out the window. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/21 04:54 AM |
| 36 | Reading this makes me both sad and mad at the same time!!!A guy I dated for a while (big mistake), told me he’d never dated an older woman before. I am almost exactly a year older that he is. Lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/20 10:36 AM |
| 19 | You never truly know a man until you tell him “no”That’s so interesting. Would love to hear more about this and how you explained your relationship to the new guy. I’m dating a guy now, but I think things are on the rocks because I’m friends with an ex. Mind you, this is someone I dated 11 or so years ago and we dated for 4 months. But we’re really close and the new guy thinks it’s inappropriate. I don’t want to lose new guy but don’t want to just cut ties with my ex turned best friend. New guy has me doubting if being friends with him was a go… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 03:21 PM |
| 39 | History book displays photograph of a 22yo man and his 9yo child bride and calls it “cultural relativity” instead of child rape and enslavement.My heart breaks for this little girl and all others around the world that are being subjected to this. We have to speak out and never be silenced! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/20 12:57 PM |
| 17 | Well he’s not wrong about thatTHIS! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/20 10:43 AM |
| 3 | What stupid things did y'all do for a man?I know. I must’ve been desperate for some affection and notice. But that’s what low self esteem gets you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 03:46 PM |
| 16 | What stupid things did y'all do for a man?Omg! I love this post and I don’t even know where to start with the pickmeisha things I’ve done! Took him back after he cheated on my WITH MY ROOMMATE Being a side chick to my ex - After he broke up with me and started seeing someone else, I still kept sleeping with him thinking that what he had was so special that he just couldn’t quit me even after dating someone else. I kept hoping he’d break up with her to come back to me and never did. Bought expensive gifts (never got anything even close i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 12:29 PM |
| 4 | Advice for working on self esteemLove this! 💕Saving it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 02:01 PM |
| 21 | When a man says a woman is high maintenance, what does he really mean?Boom! spot on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/20 09:09 PM |
| 16 | General Population Opinions on FDS👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 12:18 PM |
| 2 | Forever GF (31F) of 10 years is dumped and discarded mercilessly. BF (31M) takes to Reddit to complain about how she won't leave his apartment quickly enough. Daily reminder that this is a typical end to a forever GF situationship and daily reminder to take ZERO shit from men.Pretty much! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/20 06:33 AM |
| 6 | What else should be in the FDS Handbook?Can we get a useful booklist started? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 11:37 PM |
| 5 | Forever GF (31F) of 10 years is dumped and discarded mercilessly. BF (31M) takes to Reddit to complain about how she won't leave his apartment quickly enough. Daily reminder that this is a typical end to a forever GF situationship and daily reminder to take ZERO shit from men.If you’d actually read through both posts, perhaps the first thing you would’ve noted is that he said in one that he paid for two months and in the other he said 6 months. Sounds like someone wants sympathy where there is none. She needs an attorney If she wants the apartment. What I think she wants is closure and is using the apartment at leverage to get him to talk to her. After 10 years, I sympathize. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 11:26 PM |
| 25 | Forever GF (31F) of 10 years is dumped and discarded mercilessly. BF (31M) takes to Reddit to complain about how she won't leave his apartment quickly enough. Daily reminder that this is a typical end to a forever GF situationship and daily reminder to take ZERO shit from men.This guy is full of sh*t. One post says he’s paid for 2 months and the other says 6. I don’t even know if I buy the whole story. Sounds fishy. If it’s an apartment she wants, she should get an understanding of her full rights. 10 years may be enough to establish common law rights. I’m sure she spent the better half of that time cooking and cleaning and taking care of him, all while he’s telling her why he’s not ready for marriage and she keeps hanging on, as evidenced by her texts to explain wha… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 11:19 PM |
| 2 | Fact: it's unnatural for men to not chase. The hypothalamus region associated with sexual pursuit is 2.5x larger in men than women.I got one yesterday and it made my day! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/20 10:28 AM |
| 29 | My first time seeing #TweetLikeAPickMeThat’s ok! You’re not that person anymore. When you know better, you do better! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/20 09:59 AM |
| 25 | Twitter is LVM prisonEven the men who make minimum wage swears women are trying to scam them out of their money. It’s beyond ridiculous. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/20 10:31 PM |
| 131 | If He Has to Be Dragged, Leave Him BehindI want to upvote this by x100! If he’s not interested or motivated enough to be an active participant in your life and future, he’s just not that into you and it will backfire at a later date! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/20 10:16 PM |
| 4 | FDS Rules for Black GirlsYour screen name alone is very telling. Carry on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/20 06:59 PM |
| 10 | FDS Rules for Black GirlsWhat’s up with dudes not reading the bios?! I swear I get dudes who are everything BUT what I want! It’s amazing to me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/20 01:23 PM |
| 9 | As requested: a medical professional explains why you should not be having anal sex.Ahhhhh. He is super fine. I approve this message! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/20 01:18 PM |
| 28 | As requested: a medical professional explains why you should not be having anal sex.I AM SCREAMING!! I F*CKING LOVE THIS SUB!! My Soul Sistas!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/20 01:02 PM |
| 12 | FDS Rules for Black GirlsI am all for this post! I think we should be careful about denigrating black men I know HVM who are black who dote on and love their wives. I also know lots of black LVM who are products of their society and who were taught / socialized to hate themselves and black women and I only feel pity for them. And at risk of being downvoted, the reality is that I’ve also met enough black women who also have that mindset as only date outside their race and who also have a craving for mixed kids. I think i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/20 12:51 PM |
| 94 | In response to MGTOW being quarantinedHere here! This sub is needed and appreciated. I’m trying to find a husband and someone who’ll be a good father to my children and this is the ONLY sub I’ve come across that is no holds barred when it comes to advice on maintaining standards. Why would anyone be threatened by advice to maintain standards? For all the men who disapprove, would they give different advice to their sisters or their own daughters? Give me a break! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/20 12:39 PM |
| 2 | The men in my city are trash so I hired an elite matchmaking service to set me up with men in better cities #levelupbitchesSo true. And then when they get to late 40s, they want to date a girl that’s 25 because they’ve decided it’s time for them to have kids. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/20 10:04 PM |
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