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Lifestyledametime223/r/seduction26/01/22 11:00 PM
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Field Reportdametime223/r/seduction08/06/22 09:06 PM
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Fundamentalsdametime223/r/seduction07/04/22 03:06 PM
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Fundamentalsdametime223/r/seduction10/05/22 06:13 PM
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Field Reportdametime223/r/seduction13/03/22 09:54 PM
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Inner Game dametime223/r/seduction10/02/22 06:30 PM
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Conversationdametime223/r/seduction08/05/22 09:59 PM
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Fundamentalsdametime223/r/seduction08/05/22 11:50 AM
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Conversationdametime223/r/seduction25/05/22 08:40 PM
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Conversationdametime223/r/seduction22/01/22 11:10 PM
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Fundamentalsdametime223/r/seduction09/06/22 07:28 PM
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Lifestyledametime223/r/seduction19/03/22 03:37 PM
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dametime223/r/seduction26/06/22 11:53 AM
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Lifestyledametime223/r/seduction21/03/22 09:20 PM
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Yeah, cost of living is cheap compared to the west but salaries are usually lower as well, depends on the job/position/income etc. Western salary in EE is a goal ;)
/r/seduction19/09/23 08:46 PM
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I live in Eastern Europe, studying computer science and can confirm
/r/seduction19/09/23 08:45 PM
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Well done mate. I'm curious, are the girls you slept with from Croatia or tourists like you?
/r/seduction30/08/23 05:18 PM
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Ili Makarska
/r/seduction30/08/23 05:15 PM
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Harder but not impossible. You're coping again. Get to work
/r/seduction16/08/23 01:48 PM
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This guy fucks
/r/seduction15/08/23 03:17 PM
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You must improve your looks, and that's it. Don't blame your race Get in the gym, build muscle and be lean Skincare routine Fashion - style Charisma/social skills - you build it up by approaching and talking to women
/r/seduction13/08/23 05:43 PM
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Using race as an excuse is just a cope, I know plenty of black men picking up girls easily. Take a look at Austin Dunham and FitxFearless on youtube
/r/seduction13/08/23 05:40 PM
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I'm just curious where do you live?
/r/seduction21/08/22 11:19 AM
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Best response on this thread I've seen in a while, def saving this. Thanks man!!
/r/seduction21/08/22 11:18 AM
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Bruh all I cared about on Comic-Con was upcoming Marvel movies hahaha
/r/seduction10/08/22 09:58 PM
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Underrated comment lmaooooo
/r/seduction14/07/22 10:14 PM
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Doing whatever you mentioned is better than doing nothing and having regrets when you come home... trust me
/r/seduction04/07/22 12:37 PM
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You could go and socialize after work and still get a good sleep in the morning before job. Or either go out on weekends, idk if you work during weekends tho.
/r/seduction03/07/22 09:33 PM
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Of course. I have financial goals, fitness goals, travel goals etc. But we're on this sub for fucking hot women Jokes aside, great post OP
/r/seduction03/07/22 12:01 PM
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You should have some balance... For example you can work from 7am to 6pm (by work I mean job, study, gym, classes etc.) and go out at night and meet women. I know a guy who made the most money in his life (period of few months) while having hookups/dates almost every single night of the week. Regarding the dating coaches... the best coach is trial and error. Study theory, take action, apply it, take action, learn from mistakes accordingly, take action. Did I say take action? If you must hire a c…
/r/seduction03/07/22 11:53 AM
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Of course I won't start drinking because of them. I just wondered if it's a thing.
/r/seduction26/06/22 01:26 PM
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This, and make the girl talk about herself.
/r/seduction26/06/22 11:50 AM
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Great post bro. I wonder where do you live and how old are you? In my opinion your location and age could play a big role into picking up girls as well
/r/seduction26/06/22 11:48 AM
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I've read a lot of nonsense these days, from guys asking if a girl lost interest if she took 0.0001 milisecond longer to respond to their messages; or asking if a girl likes them if she held eye contact for 2 seconds, looked up, down, left, right and turned around from them with an 90 degree angle and glanced at them once again. Great post OP, thank you so much! This one deserves a gold, I'd give one if I had it haha
/r/seduction23/06/22 02:54 PM
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The most important thing is to approach. Even if you fail it's okay. As Arnold said once, "You took the first step and you fell, but at least you fell in the right direction"
/r/seduction23/06/22 02:46 PM
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I tried the same thing once, it was crazy as you say. But what else I did - I created a male profile. I picked a Youtuber who was not that famous, he was muscular and very handsome looking. The results were almost as crazy as with a girls profile, a lot of girls messaged first etc. That motivated myself to improve my looks. I'd recommend you do the same
/r/seduction20/06/22 03:19 PM
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Get this man a gold
/r/seduction20/06/22 03:17 PM
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Of course it is... Last week I approached few girls, got rejected every time but I felt 100x better than if I hadn't approached at all, that's the point.
/r/seduction19/06/22 10:40 AM
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If you're not willing to put in some work don't expect women to do so for you... It's not that hard to talk to people and be friendly. You don't have to turn from introvert to extrovert. Sorry if I'm wrong, but I feel like you are too "scared" to talk to girls and you'd rather remain silent than risking to fuck something up.
/r/seduction17/06/22 04:38 PM
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By keeping quiet promises to myself, those that I could break and no one would know. But I didn't. For example, going to the gym and sticking to a routine, passing an exam etc. Basically if you improve yourself you gain confidence.
/r/seduction13/06/22 09:02 PM
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Tell her she can call you Giannis cause you're carrying the Bucks
/r/seduction09/06/22 07:38 PM
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Great man, now don't text her all day everyday for 2 months. Set up a date within 10-20 messages. Don't get to know her over text, do it in person
/r/seduction09/06/22 07:35 PM
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It'll get better when you come to high school
/r/seduction09/06/22 07:33 PM
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Completely sober, I quit drinking alcohol 3 years ago. Btw. my first alcohol I've ever drank was Jack Daniels hahahaha
/r/seduction09/06/22 07:22 PM
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Holy shit, either the girl's been looking older or a guy can't attract girls of his age.
/r/seduction09/06/22 03:48 PM
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How would you act in this situation? I could've been talking longer and not try to close but anyways
/r/seduction09/06/22 02:26 PM
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Hahahaha how old do you think they were?
/r/seduction09/06/22 02:24 PM
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Kid you watch too much movies
/r/seduction07/06/22 01:35 PM
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Bro I have the EXACT SAME ISSUE, how did you fix it? If you can, tell me how you sexualized interactions and made girls feel wanted?
/r/seduction06/06/22 09:49 AM
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What did the other black guy did? How did he act when speaking to that girl? You should analyze his body language, posture, style, looks, what he spoke to her, how confident he was around her etc... and apply it in your own way.
/r/seduction06/06/22 09:46 AM
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You had the ball possession but another team scored the goal
/r/seduction06/06/22 09:40 AM
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Thank you for the response man, it was very eye-opening
/r/seduction02/06/22 09:31 PM
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Man I see you everywhere haha
/r/seduction02/06/22 02:47 PM
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Off topic, but I wanted to note this: Even though you improve yourself everyday ( career, looks, gym, social skills, experiences) don't stop working on yourself when you start getting results with women. Most guys throw their ambitions off when they start getting pussy - I saw this ruin their lives. Even though I go out with girls at night, I am still working/in the gym the next morning.
/r/seduction02/06/22 02:45 PM
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Great job man. Could you tell me how did you become as attractive as possible? Also besides of looks, why do you think girls hit on you that much?
/r/seduction02/06/22 02:38 PM
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sometimes I catch girls giving me looks and I know they find me attractive. But sometimes I am afraid what/how to say something without "ruining" things, hope it makes sense :D
/r/seduction31/05/22 11:39 AM
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I can't remember clearly now but there was one girl who was going through the crowd and she asked me to move so she can pass. She said "Can I pass?". It sounds better in my language (English isn't my native language btw), but I should've said something like "For me you're a total pass". My brain stopped working back then 😅
/r/seduction31/05/22 11:37 AM
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I can't remember clearly now but there was one girl who was going through the crowd and she asked me to move so she can pass. She said "Can I pass?". It sounds better in my language (English isn't my native language btw), but I should've said something like "For me you're a total pass".
/r/seduction31/05/22 11:35 AM
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What the fuck did I just read
/r/seduction30/05/22 09:15 PM
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Exactly that.
/r/seduction26/05/22 01:25 PM
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Appreciate the advice then, glad it worked for you man
/r/seduction23/05/22 03:18 PM
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If you don't know a girl, for the first date it would be better to go for drinks and talk to know each other... save the dinner for 2nd or third after you're more comfortable with her. I'm speaking from my own experience
/r/seduction22/05/22 10:07 PM
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This sub needs more advices like these, I've heard enough of "wOrK oN YoUrSeLf" piece of advice here. Don't get me wrong that advice is great but in my opinion some people get too deep into self-development cycle and they don't improve skills with girls. Also when they improve themselves "well enough" they tend to start meeting girls but the lack of conversational and social skills kills their game. You guys need to work on seduction as much as you work on your business and body. It's a skill on…
/r/seduction22/05/22 09:16 PM
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Dude it's 2022, wake up
/r/seduction20/05/22 09:12 AM
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Why are you going back to your ex?
/r/seduction12/05/22 09:02 AM
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Honestly when I smelled CDNIM earlier this year it smelled like antibacterial cleaner with lemon scent to me. But I just sprayed it on my hand, if I applied it correctly maybe I'd get compliments too.
/r/seduction11/05/22 07:09 AM
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Thank you for detailed answer. 20 minutes flirty chat followed by 40 minutes of deeper chat What exactly could I say for a flirty chat, and what for deeper chat?
/r/seduction10/05/22 09:37 PM
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Thanks man! Appreciate it
/r/seduction09/05/22 09:34 PM
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Off-topic, but I wonder if you girls do ever get rejected? I rejected a girl once because I didn't like her, I felt horrible weeks after.
/r/seduction09/05/22 08:39 PM
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Do you have any examples on how to make it clear that it's a date? I know what you mean but I have no ideas on how to do it
/r/seduction09/05/22 08:35 PM
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Nothing wrong but avoid dinners at first dates.
/r/seduction09/05/22 08:28 PM
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What do you advise to do in order to build it? Post better pictures?
/r/seduction09/05/22 08:47 AM
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You don't get the joke, of course she saw the message. It's 2022, people even shit with the phone in their hands. I was just joking because girls don't know to be direct. I already moved on but wanted to make this post for some reason
/r/seduction09/05/22 08:29 AM
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I guess I'll never cold DM a girl again hahaha, maybe chances are better in person
/r/seduction09/05/22 08:27 AM
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Bro the thing is she isn't an IG model, she has <500 followers like a lot of you guys probably think
/r/seduction09/05/22 08:26 AM
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Me too ;)
/r/seduction08/05/22 10:09 PM
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Alexa, play Hope by XXXTENTACION
/r/seduction08/05/22 10:07 PM
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Instagram
/r/seduction08/05/22 10:05 PM
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Yes, I live off by that. But sometimes I don't get a response after a message or two
/r/seduction08/05/22 01:07 PM
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Hahaha that's awesome man! Btw I bought the 2nd bottle of Zara Seoul, it costs $12 and it is very similar to Paco Rabanne Invictus. It has very nice sillage and projection and it lasts for few hours. It's probably one of my most complimented frags. Crazy to think that such a cheap frag has gotten me more compliments than some other designer frags that I owned lol
/r/seduction08/05/22 11:56 AM
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CDNIM smells like lemon-scented bacticid spray to me lmaooo but I guess it's popular cause it's similar to Creed Aventus (which I hadn't a chance to smell yet).
/r/seduction08/05/22 11:48 AM
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I'd swap Club de nuit with YSL Y eau de parfum tho. Sauvage was my most complimented fragrance ever.
/r/seduction08/05/22 11:35 AM
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Dior Sauvage EDT Dior Sauvage Elixir (the newest one, it lasts forever) Chanel Allure Homme Sport Eau Extreme Acqua Di Gio Profondo/Profumo JPG Ultra Male YSL Y Eau de Parfum And my fav one - Armani Stronger with you absolutely. Can't go wrong with this one fella Also: 3-5 sprays max. One behind each ear, one on the back of the neck, and both sides of neck. The amount of sprays depends on if fragrance is stronger. Don't rub it with wrists, just spray and leave it out there.
/r/seduction08/05/22 11:33 AM
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It's amazing but it doesn't last long as I heard
/r/seduction08/05/22 11:29 AM
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Chris Hemsworth came to my mand as soon as you said Australia lol
/r/seduction22/04/22 04:00 PM
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Congrats man! May I ask you how did you learn to dance? Also how do you usually meet girls in bars?
/r/seduction18/04/22 02:09 PM
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What most guys don't understand about that "work on yourself" advice is that they tend to completely ignore women while building themselves up. In my opinion meeting girls is a skill, and you should work on it in order to get better. I believe that you can improve your body, face, bank account, car, house etc. but that won't directly make yourself better with women. Work on yourself, for yourself. Meet girls for meeting girls.
/r/seduction18/04/22 02:06 PM
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How do I meet girls in loud environment (nightclubs) ? Do I talk to their ear or what haha
/r/seduction18/04/22 02:03 PM
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The best fckn comment I've seen on this thread. Thanks for this man
/r/seduction18/04/22 02:02 PM
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Probably yes, guys tend to be more desperate than girls. Tbh few years ago I rejected a girl because I didn't find her attractive. Now I regret it as it could be a good experience since I was a kissless virgin back then.
/r/seduction17/04/22 08:46 PM
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As Chris Brown said, "these hoes ain't loyal" lmao
/r/seduction17/04/22 11:39 AM
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Great response man! Thanks
/r/seduction17/04/22 11:38 AM
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I usually share it with my friends, but some of them laughed so hard at my failures. But first, take in mind that these friends who laughed are kissless virgin/simp beta male type of dudes. I DM girls on IG more times than I cold approach, and when I got rejected once my friend said "you need to meet them in person, DM'ing them doesn't count". The fun thing is that he never texted a girl to go on a date before. I pointed this out to him and he said "because I don't want to embarass myself". From…
/r/seduction17/04/22 11:22 AM
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Get to the gym and grow a beard if you can. Trust me, you will look badass
/r/seduction17/04/22 11:13 AM
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Tell me you live on Balkan without actually telling me you live on Balkan.. am I right?
/r/seduction17/04/22 11:03 AM
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Actually it happened to my friend and I was with him. It all depends on how good looking of a guy you are
/r/seduction17/04/22 11:02 AM
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Bro is suffering from success
/r/seduction12/04/22 04:30 PM
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I love this. Thanks for reaching out man
/r/seduction07/04/22 08:49 PM
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Learning never stops
/r/seduction07/04/22 08:45 PM
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You won't magically become better with women when you reach some point in your career or fitness. Dating/social skills are a muscle, and you should practice it alongside with improving yourself.
/r/seduction04/04/22 11:09 PM
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Ain't nothing but a peanut!!!!
/r/seduction22/03/22 09:20 PM
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THIS. Guys do really need to work on their social skills alongside with their career, fitness and whatever they mean by "working on themselves".
/r/seduction22/03/22 09:20 PM
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I hope you beat the crap out of both exes man
/r/seduction20/03/22 11:42 AM
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TaySocial, Coach Kyle
/r/seduction17/03/22 10:41 PM
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Man don't watch bunch of videos. Watch few videos and go out and IMPLEMENT what you learned. I watched shit ton of vids before even sliding in girl dms for the first time. You can't fill the lack of experience with watching videos.
/r/seduction17/03/22 10:07 PM
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Can you give me some examples on how to flirt? I could never figure it out so far
/r/seduction17/03/22 09:34 PM
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Thank you so much bro
/r/seduction14/03/22 05:27 PM
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Thank you so much for this!! Give this human being a gold (I don't have one :(
/r/seduction14/03/22 04:02 PM
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I mean sure, there was something to work with there, but what were you actually thinking about doing/saying? I thought about giving her a mean look and saying something like "you'll need to buy me new pants" or something more aggressive like "Now when you got my pants wet imma get yours wet too" but that would be stupid haha Instead, you went from teasing/fun to super serious and negative, then you walked off. That was the issue, not your friends. Unfortunately I can't get the time back but I le…
/r/seduction14/03/22 03:42 PM
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Aaaand now I regret it :')
/r/seduction13/03/22 10:48 PM
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She did, but my friends apologized to her and started simping
/r/seduction13/03/22 10:43 PM
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Just like when you play FIFA and when you're losing you lean forward hahaha
/r/seduction13/03/22 10:36 PM
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My dumb ass brain didn't think that fast hahaha, thank you man
/r/seduction13/03/22 10:31 PM
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Thanks man, needed to hear this
/r/seduction13/03/22 10:31 PM
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Did she sent you a snap or a picture from her camera roll? If it's the first then I have bad news 😂😂
/r/seduction10/03/22 03:58 PM
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So how does she lets her guard down? haha
/r/seduction10/03/22 03:42 PM

Pre-2016 you didn't have to work this hard for table scraps. You could just come up with something. Now...? Yeah good luck. They have too many options. I personally unmatch if they like me back but don't send a message. Man I wish I was few years older just because of that. But that shouldnt be an excuse.
/r/seduction08/03/22 03:49 PM
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Some people here mention mental health issues (probably comparing their life to someone else's) and wasted time scrolling. My advice is use IG in your advantage. Learn something, get motivated etc.
/r/seduction08/03/22 03:44 PM
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Thanks for this man I'll try it as soon as possible
/r/seduction02/03/22 04:53 PM
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My female cousin told me once "If a girl asks you if you're single tell them you're not". I took it for granted back then but as time passed by I realized that was a golden advice.
/r/seduction02/03/22 04:51 PM
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Man from now on I'll act like girls around me don't exist so maybe something happens lmao
/r/seduction02/03/22 04:48 PM
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I saw this on HowToBeast yt channel, don't say you saw it there too hahaha
/r/seduction02/03/22 04:41 PM
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Stop the cap
/r/seduction27/02/22 12:17 PM
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How old are you now?
/r/seduction27/02/22 12:16 PM
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Man I forgot about that dude, I will definitely check him out. Thanks
/r/seduction22/02/22 10:35 PM
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My man girls at age 18-23 are throwing themselves at guys that are older than them. It's probably because they find their peers "childish", and they want a man who has things figured out.
/r/seduction22/02/22 10:29 PM
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I don't understand what Kyle all of you guys are reffering to
/r/seduction22/02/22 10:24 PM
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Good job man
/r/seduction20/02/22 10:55 PM
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Happy for you man. Was she attractive? lol
/r/seduction20/02/22 09:46 PM
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I am G, that's why I am asking haha
/r/seduction20/02/22 09:45 PM
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Congrats man, could you explain how did you meet the girl, how did you pull etc.?
/r/seduction20/02/22 01:29 PM
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As a computer science student this post was demoralizing lmaoo
/r/seduction20/02/22 01:27 PM
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As a computer science student this post was demoralizing lmaoo
/r/seduction20/02/22 01:27 PM
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I completely understand you, but you can improve your looks. Instead of running 5x/week run once a week and hit the gym 3 (or ideally 4) times a week. Idk if you are skinny or obese but lifting and running can do wonders if done consistently over a longer period of time (few months). You mentioned that you're into fashion so that's not a problem. For your face the best you can do to find a haircut that suits you. If you have a beard keep it short and shave it on your neck. Your beard should fini…
/r/seduction17/02/22 03:05 PM
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I always say if you don't put in the work you don't have right to complain, simple as that
/r/seduction16/02/22 11:07 PM
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Do you approach girls, slide in dms, meet them when going out with buddies or just wanting for an opportunity to knock on the door? If you don't put yourself out there you have no right to complain G...
/r/seduction16/02/22 11:06 PM
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My bro stop those negative thoughts. I am in the same situation as you (and average looking) and I try to improve myself everyday. Don't use your situation as an excuse. Hit the gym. Trust me, fitness and working out will change your life for better.. every aspect. Ask your barber a haircut that suits you. Can't miss with a fade cut If you have a beard, keep a stubble. Studies showed that women prefer stubble over clean-shaven and beard. A nice cologne will always get your dick wet before the de…
/r/seduction16/02/22 11:04 PM
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evacuate the city engage all defenses and get this man a gold
/r/seduction16/02/22 10:20 PM
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Great examples man, do you have more of these? haha
/r/seduction15/02/22 10:27 PM
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Your main goal should be to go on a date with a girl. Seal the deal in the first day/two/three of texting w/her
/r/seduction14/02/22 03:37 PM
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Bro by what logic you think that means no? It's a clear yes in my opinion. Don't overthink it and crush it on a date.
/r/seduction12/02/22 04:42 PM
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Couldn't have said better man
/r/seduction10/02/22 10:41 PM
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My friends always say "I don't have money, I won't date now because you need money to buy girl things". I don't know how to respond to this nonsense
/r/seduction10/02/22 06:56 PM
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I don't know how to find wings who understand game and stuff, I think I am the only one who is aware of this sub haha
/r/seduction10/02/22 06:52 PM
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I said that to one of them and he said "I don't want to embarass myself". *facepalm*
/r/seduction10/02/22 06:52 PM
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send boobs n vagene plz
/r/seduction10/02/22 06:34 PM
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I started lifting since 2014 and it was hands down one of the best decisions I've ever made. I don't feel "right" when I am not going in the gym minimum 3x/week.
/r/seduction10/02/22 06:34 PM
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I don't know why but that opened my eyes ngl. Never doing it again
/r/seduction05/02/22 09:23 PM
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How did it go?
/r/seduction05/02/22 09:16 PM
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Now I need to figure out how to ask this question in my native language (Bosnian), this sounds good in English lmao
/r/seduction05/02/22 09:15 PM
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Thanks for sharing, I'm not an OP but I'll remember this just in case haha
/r/seduction31/01/22 10:31 PM
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Dig till she busts fella
/r/seduction27/01/22 04:05 PM
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Just get a nice haircut don’t go cheap on it, and some simple clothes that fit and feel good, stick with black/white/gray colors and build on that with a few colors as accents that shit goes a long way. Hitting the gym helps with energy and feeling good, but clothes make you look good I totally agree with this, but I am a true firm believer that when you're fit and in shape everything looks better on you. That's why some people can wear "anything" and still look good.
/r/seduction27/01/22 04:04 PM
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I am a skinny fat dude, got some muscle mass but belly fat bothers me the most :( Thank you for motivation fella
/r/seduction27/01/22 04:03 PM
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Dig till they busttt
/r/seduction27/01/22 04:00 PM
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BUFFMEUP
/r/seduction27/01/22 04:00 PM
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Head to Miami, or to Columbia if you are able to. A few guys from Florida that I know were in Medellin last year and they got laid like never before.
/r/seduction26/01/22 11:04 PM
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I don't know where you live but I heard Colombian girls are more open and friendly
/r/seduction26/01/22 11:03 PM
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