This is it guys, I think I've figured it out.

MrDownhillRacer · 2022-02-05T23:12:55+00:00

A girl I'm currently seeing, on our second date, she asks me how my dating life is going and what recent dates have been like.

I could tell that this was her subtle way of fishing for if I was seeing a bunch of girls, or if she was the only one at the time.

I just replied with something cocky and silly, like, "you mean, out of the dates I've been on today?"

She got a kick out of that joke. I think I told her that out of the eleven dates I had been on that day, she was one of the better ones. She also made a joke about going on a bunch of dates that day.

Then I told her that to truly assess where she ranks, I'd have to see how good a kisser she is.

She asks, "how was that?" I tell her I'll think about it and get back to her.

Of course, at that time, I wasn't really seeing anybody else (well, there was one other girl who was kinda up in the air and with whom I wasn't really sure where I stood, so it was pretty much just this one). So, the bit I did performed the function of making her laugh, of creating the perception that I'm in demand, and of creating this air of mystery, because of course, I never really answered her question, and she didn't find out if I'm seeing others or if she's the only one.

I also never talk about my history in general. I never tell girls that I was a late bloomer who never went on a single date until age 22 or 23. I just figure, if I act like I know what I'm doing and have experience, they'll assume I do, to. And I never really ask them about exes or previous relationships (though I'm always open to listening if they volunteer such info themselves), because then there would probably be the expectation that I reciprocate with similar information, and I don't really want to reveal my lack of history.

Sup3rHD · 2022-02-05T21:20:22+00:00

Why u did say to her that u never had a gf?
She lost interest cause she understood that she was the only girl you were talking to.

Silver-Variation8903 · 2022-02-05T22:08:00+00:00

Girls want guys who either have or had lots of girls.

Just lie..

byteseed · 2022-02-06T09:23:35+00:00

For the future. Never, in any situation, tell a woman how many partners you used to have in the past. Let her draw the picture, use her imagination to fill the gaps. If she asks, turn it into a joke, like: “I had one girlfriend, but in each country I travel. So they will not meet each other.” Or answer with some impossible number, like 999.

On the other hand, for long term relationships, avoid woman with many experiences in the past. It is not a rule, but women who went through a lot of breakups tend to be less likely to commit.

modidlee · 2022-02-06T02:27:02+00:00

Always, and I mean always, cultivate an image that you have access to multiple women. Even if the girl you’re currently talking to gets mad about it just say “oh well I wouldn’t talk to other women if I could find one that fulfilled all my needs.”

Bin2Good · 2022-02-06T00:39:21+00:00

Lie, cheat, steal. Learn in that order, this is the way.

mjornir · 2022-02-06T18:24:17+00:00

I think I got something figured out too today. If you’re nervous about asking out one girl, start thinking about a different girl right beforehand and distract yourself

Important-Quote9544 · 2022-02-06T23:18:50+00:00

wtf is abundance mindset, you either high value or you not simple. If you were bumping on social media with tons of followers this wouldnt be a problem she would be replying so quick with interest

Title	This is it guys, I think I've figured it out.
Author	dametime223
Upvotes	67
Comments	24
Date	February 5, 2022 9:10 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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