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YAAAAAS Its low pressure, it's a cheap date, and it lends itself to awesome conversational opportunities
/r/seduction26/11/19 12:26 AM
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Haha my man it dont matter. I'm just glad you've embraced that "bullet proof" confidence in vulnerability
/r/seduction11/11/19 01:19 PM
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Right and I wanted to specifically touch on that aspect of it. A LOT of men, particularly a large number of those of us on the spectrum, have conversations like that and so I wanted to illustrate a better example of that conversation
/r/seduction11/11/19 12:47 PM
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I've never read the other two but I can attest to Subtle Art. That book is life changing even if your goal isnt necessarily to seduce women. Same author also wrote Models and I fucking love that book.
/r/seduction27/01/19 03:39 PM
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F
/r/seduction31/12/18 02:19 AM
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You can not buy into all the alpha male talk and actually focus on being a good person instead of a needy one like you are here. A truly masculine man does not concern himself with how others see him and you are clearly obsessed with the validation of others namely the women. They pick up on it and it is actual repellant. Develop yourself.
/r/seduction26/11/18 12:53 AM
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My man, I have peaced out on first dates in the middle of the date for less than what you put up with than you did the first date. Have some self respect dude, you are better than a woman who is rude and unpleasant towards you on your first interaction.
/r/seduction25/11/18 10:24 PM
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then do nothing with her and move on. those are your options. Part of this whole thing is learning how to be a better version of yourself. A better version of you wouldnt have this problem. A man who is confident in himself doesnt hold onto feelings and keep it bottled up for a lengthy period of time. He is upfront about his intentions from the moment he meets the girl and teases the girl from a position of confidence in himself. That you're even asking us this question tells me you have a lack …
/r/seduction24/11/18 02:35 AM
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Then flirt with her. Insert some innuendos into conversation. Dont be afraid to kino. Back off if shes not into it.
/r/seduction24/11/18 02:29 AM
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Dont do it dude. Straight up don't, shes your friend and shes been your friend for long enough that your window outta the friend zone is closed. Move on. Shes one of almost 4 billion women in the world. Certainly one of the others, who is just like her, will wanna be with you.
/r/seduction24/11/18 02:25 AM
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Yeup. Tease, tease, tease m'dudes.
/r/seduction19/11/18 01:17 AM
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I'm a big fan of slow buildup to sex, with one or two dates. So completely agree. Yeah it's good for the ego to Fclose on first date or meet or whatever but 1)its so much better when more comfort and rapport is built, 2) shes likely going to be more than ok with seeing you again 3) it will continue to improve with each meet
/r/seduction28/10/18 09:12 PM
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and that's totally ok! If she comes up to you and apologizes then green light m'dude! If that doesn't happen though shes gonna associate you with that bad day. No esta bueño.
/r/seduction12/10/18 01:49 AM
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It would be way different if she wasn't as hostile as she was in the original approach. But she outright told you she doesnt want to talk to you. She didnt want to be approached. She doesnt want you to approach her. If you try to approach her again you risk making a scene. Have some social intelligence. Leave it alone.
/r/seduction12/10/18 01:33 AM
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Wanna seem like a stalker? Because this is how you seem like a stalker.
/r/seduction11/10/18 12:06 PM
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I mean I dont usually open with negs in general. These would be used on kind of a first date basis or maybe in a social group with an HB8 or higher
/r/seduction11/10/18 02:14 AM
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"Haha youre lucky you're cute or I wouldnt put up with your annoying ass" "You act just like my kid sister" "My grandma wears perfume like that!" Some examples
/r/seduction10/10/18 12:17 PM
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Well I asked for PM for exactly this reason. ASD affects everyone differently and I dont wanna go into a whole lot of detail about myself in the comments section just like I'm sure you don't particularly want to either, hence why I asked for a PM conversation.
/r/seduction10/10/18 12:11 PM
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Hey man! Go ahead and shoot me a PM. I would be more than happy to help you out :)
/r/seduction09/10/18 12:04 PM
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If you are under 18 please do not do it. The teacher should not be behaving this way toward you of course but you dont need to be acting that way with her. It could seriously harm your mental well being and it will absolutely jeopardize her career and depending on what state, send her to prison. There are plenty of other females you can chase. Not her dude.
/r/seduction08/10/18 08:50 PM
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Yeah fuck that guy. I'm autistic too but I'm doing better with women than I feel most do. Am I where I need to be? Hell no, I need to work on daygame AA, but I'm getting there.
/r/seduction08/10/18 12:04 PM
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Yes
/r/seduction02/10/18 02:36 PM
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I agree with just about all this. It seems like you're using a combination of or at least drawing inspiration from Mystery and Models
/r/seduction30/09/18 03:09 PM
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Read Models too. Same author, same ideology, but more geared to attraction
/r/seduction29/09/18 03:50 PM
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give them a card?
/r/seduction22/04/18 12:08 AM
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because it makes you dependent on the outcome and you will give too many fucks which means you'll be needy which means you won't be attractive which means you won't get laid
/r/seduction21/04/18 11:46 PM
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Short Answer: yes Long answer: being direct and honest allows you to weed out the people that would be enthusiastic towards you and those that wouldn't be.
/r/seduction19/03/18 04:40 PM
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It means you're reading too much into it
/r/seduction19/03/18 03:36 AM
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Hey Laz! I'm actually one of your subscribers. I love the actual content of what you put out but I do have to agree with OP here. I think your writing would see an improvement if you focused more on the actual content rather than trying so hard to make it engaging for your audience. We've signed up for your emails, and many of us on the newsletter are also your students, so we already feel your content is worthwhile. Mark Twain actually has a worthwhile lesson on writing I think would be helpful…
/r/seduction18/03/18 07:16 PM
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You did good Dude! Seriously you increased her attraction to you by willing to say fuck it and walk away. Atta boy. Some constructive feedback for you. When 'asking' for the phone number next time, simply open up your phone's add a contact page and hand her your phone. I would also recommend asking for Snap usernames as opposed to hard numbers. Works pretty well for me as well. Edit: Read your comments. Disregard middle paragraph you did good
/r/seduction18/03/18 07:04 PM
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Honestly whenever you're meeting a girl in the first place you should be clear about your intentions and you won't wind up in the friend zone in the first place. Best way to ensure this is through kino when talking to the girl.
/r/seduction17/03/18 01:48 PM
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"Lets go downtown Friday to get a drink"
/r/seduction07/02/18 08:25 PM
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Models Mark Manson
/r/seduction21/01/18 03:25 AM
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Same boat dude. Will be following this post but rn I'm surrounding myself with friends and family and brushing up on sidebar stuff
/r/seduction26/12/17 05:06 PM
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Dude, getting girls to like/comfort you would be like plugging an open dam with a Band-aid. Please get help/treatment for your depression.
/r/seduction08/05/16 10:28 PM
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Im almost positive I saw her try to bite the officer right before he took her down.
/r/PussyPassDenied07/04/16 11:15 AM
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Ssssshhhh, just let him have this one
/r/seduction05/01/16 04:30 AM
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"We believe that women lie. The biggest myth out there is that women lie." Hahahaha WHAT?!
/r/PussyPass28/07/14 03:06 PM
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I'm going to throw in a different perspective to add something to the discussion. OP, have you considered that you have a different view on sex then many of the subscribers here? While I'm not dogging on casual sex (which is hella fun), it's not for everyone. Lots and lots of people need some sort of emotional connection to a person before they engage in that stuff and I personally prefer that to casual sex. I'm not saying you're like that OP, but I wouldn't rule it out. Have you posted to /r/se…
/r/seduction11/02/14 07:38 PM
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Actually, I would.
/r/seduction14/08/13 06:42 PM
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