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Yep it wasnt until I had photos that scored over 9 on photo feeler that i started to see success
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 05:57 PM
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I think a certain level of neurodivetgence can lead to a looksmaxing type of rabbit hole. Which can be quite effective if not going over board with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 09:43 PM
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Yep exactly otherwise simps would be drowning in puss lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 08:41 PM
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Depends on the girl, gotta try your best to read her but its tough because its only your 1st time meeting so you don't reslly know what her basline behaviors are. Some girls a kiss is the same as holding hands, but for other girls its a pretty big deal
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 10:33 PM
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Number 4 creates such an interesting dynamic, and im constantly going back and forth about what is too much and what is not enough when im on dates. Went through a phase where I decided i was going to initiate a kiss at the end of 1st dates no matter how it went. A suprising amount would kiss me back even when they werent interested in ever meeting again. (I found out after) And for number 9, I honestly prefer just getting ghosted at this point as opposed to the generic texts girls will send aft…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 04:52 PM
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For real, for people under 30 I wonder what % of hookups occur via online? Id guess like 85%.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 10:33 PM
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This is true mostly but the fun part is 10% ish of girls react super negatively when you touch them in a flirty manner 20 minutes into a 1st date and is a bit of a mindfuck
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 11:37 AM
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Its pretty rare, but usually a type of situation where she's DTF and you just happen to be the best option at the right time so everything happens in an accelerated timeline.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 11:19 AM
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If she's is swiping on dating apps you arent even on her radar until youve had sex. She still views you in the lens of some stranger I matched with on hinge, some girls will even hold this opinion of you after the deed. Basically they can and will drop you on a whim sometimes for no reason at all just a better option is giving her attention. I dont know how accurate this is but from my experience with a bunch of 1st dates myself via OLD, it feels like women will build a version of you in their h…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 09:07 PM
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Yes a few times. The thing is women are masters at framing their body in an attractive manner, and often times the slightly chubby girl actually looks much bigger when the tight clothes and underwear aren't squeezing everything into place. The feeling I get is basically just some ick
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 05:04 PM
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Well im sorry to hear you and the gals have to swipe left so much then.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 05:05 PM
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You realize the filter you're screening men through is a gay one, of course its gonna be filled with low effort sexual profiles. And id imagine they have a decent amount of sucess with those profiles. I think any person with a bad profile will either give up after a month or two of nothing, or attempt to upgrade the profile at that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 04:41 PM
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Yes the increased metabolism is because of testosterone, but its still calorie in vs out, so for a women to be skinny she simply needs to eat less than she naturally burns. You also have the option of training the same way men do where you progressively add weight to various lifts over time to build muscle while also eating more than you naturally burn. So the equivilant amount of effort would literally be building muscle in a similar manner not just being skinny.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 08:17 PM
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Any type of class will have way more women, but the general weight room always seems like 75% guys, overall though you can look up gym membership rates by demograpic and its pretty much 50/50. This post is the ultimate anecdote
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 08:06 PM
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While the idea works in theory unfortuantely once a certain % of people started multi dating on the apps most the people you actually end up meeting on apps are doing it so you feel at a disadvantage and adapt to the meta. In a perfect society where everyone cooroperates putting all your eggs in one basket would probably result in more long term partnerships. But when people begin to manipulate the market for their own personal gain they lower the market value as a whole albeit while getting a s…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 10:30 PM
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Honestly the frequency is a huge component, at least for me and I'd sumise most guys are like this but unless you are actively looking for signs she is interested in you they are subtle enough to miss easily. Combine this with how infrequent it happens and you slowly stop paying attention to signs of interest due to nothing being thrown your way.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 09:44 PM
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For most guys the primary discerning factor for picking a type is who actually likes him back.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 05:58 PM
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Assuming both men are single then yeah definitely, most blue pill guys dont know how to get into a casual fwb type of relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 03:24 PM
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Honestly you'd be even more rare past 30, maybe not gonna be able to compete with girls in their mid 20's but plenty of men in the older 30's will jump on a skinny childless woman no matter the age.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 08:28 PM
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~4.5%
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 03:16 PM
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All you have to do as a woman is not be overweight / have kids and you are a unicorn 🤠🦄
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 03:12 PM
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These people watching antidotes never prove anything, every time ive gotten to know a couple where the woman appears superior looks wise the guy is always bringing something else to the table not readily observable, usually the guy has top 10% charisma but it could be anything else, its literally always something.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 02:57 PM
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Women speed run dating apps, they will keep it up until about late july when they will either give up and delete them or enter a new relationship if one of the hot guys are willing to commit.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 02:51 PM
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So true, if you have 3 you simply don't have time to look for new girls
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 05:27 PM
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I think your situation where everything is so out in the open is rare. What usually happens is girls just bang the hottest guy they can while they look for a serious monogamous relationship, and while it may not be explicitly discussed she probably presumes hes casually doing the same with other girls. I think most guys should try to get something set up like this at least once in their life, but the truth is after its been established it can feel tedious to maintain relations because if you ign…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 05:15 PM
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With the dropping testosterone levels I think most guys probably prefer monogamy at this point. But the main reason is because unless you are a very top tier type of guy the effort it takes to find a casual partner of acceptable attractiveness is higher than maintaining a relationship with a women youve already attracted.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 01:02 PM
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The best thing a guy can do on a dating app is to show off his strong physique, the match difference is night and day.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 12:18 PM
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Well you just publicly declared you are female so not sure why wouldnt respond to a survey lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 06:03 PM
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You're still 15 , start working out and youll have another growth spurt
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 05:54 PM
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Younger generation is taller, you been around a college recently? Legit feels like most people are 2 to 3 inches taller than the average population
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 05:29 PM
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I feel like most the stats are within a few % of general reddit demographics outside of such a large United States representation here. And funny enough the male - female ratio looks just like it does on tinder. Edit: also damn, a shocking number of asain people in here. Considering such a large number of people are from the west where asians are a pretty big minority % of population wise I wonder why they are dispoportionately represented.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 05:17 PM
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Its called adderall lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 10:17 PM
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I think a lot guys went out and tried "game" and came to similar conclusions as yourself. If shes attracted to you and in the mood for a hookup the only thing you really have to do is not talk her out of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 02:07 PM
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Whatever helps you sleep at night pal
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 03:33 PM
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They are adjacent activitys Relationships are just sex + love bombing
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 12:30 PM
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The most nuanced opinions will come from people who have been in a LTR and in the hookup scene within the past few years. Older posters have some amusing antidotes from 10+ years ago but it all just feels so irrelevant when they havent dated in YEARS.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 12:19 PM
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You seem to treat confidence like an enlighted mental state you can ascend to. When all confidence is relative to the activity at hand. I personally like this definition "a feeling of self-assurance arising from one's appreciation of one's own abilities or qualities". Its not something youre gonna wake up with one day and have for the rest of your life either, true confidence comes from years of honing in on a skill and maintaining it through regular practice. There may be days you feel like an …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 01:01 PM
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Also happens just as much from going too fast. 3rd bowl of porridge my man.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 10:30 PM
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You just have to lower your standards, if you are truly average then youd end up with mostly below average women which usually means they are fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 10:19 PM
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No spark is just the generic copy pasta girls on dating apps use at this point when they want you to stop texting them. Ive received them before after multiple nights of banging more than likely they got a few more matches burning a hole in their pocket.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 03:50 PM
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Dating apps were originally made as someones solution to modern dating and they worked quite well and were fun during the original conception. But then the company IPO'd and thousands of people hold shares of the stock. Now if the CEO doesnt make money the stockholders fire them, so the sole function of the app is now to return investments to stock holders and if they dont someone will come in who will. And anytime a new app comes up that looks promising MTCH group buys them up. The goverment ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 01:05 PM
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The thing is that the body fat % when abs start to show is just about the same time a persons face will get noticeably leaner and more angular. On top of that if you build a strong posterior chain your posture will standout and 100% alter the vibe of interactions. The girls that like gym bros is more of a niche if anything but you can improve all around attractiveness while dipping into a niche at the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 12:52 PM
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I mean the app is just a conduit to meet people. If you meet and then decide to sleep with someone who is shitty to you then you cant blame the app you could have met that person anywhere. And trust me way more women ghost then the other way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 10:51 PM
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How so? If some one is clearly rude in a text convo on the app and you report them it gets reviewed. I know bumble is super strict about reports.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 10:40 PM
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Im sure it happens periodically, however the report system is pretty strict and doesnt take many of them to get banned. So if a person is habitually being rude they will get banned rather quickly. The main reason for the disparity is because women use it in phases where as men will leave their account up year round and view it as a type of passive income dating essentially. This means at any given time the ratio is between 1:2 & 1:3 guys to girls on there. However over the course of the year the…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 10:31 PM
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Not just taboo it gives women the ick and once that happens it over. Honestly its a narrow line guys have to walk on and its easy to go too far in either direction. I Asked an attractive girl why she was still on the dating app we were conversing on the other day. To paraphrase she said, guys either just want to sleep with her or they like her too much early on and creep her out. I told her that she is basically goldilocks and was promptly blocked lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 02:52 PM
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Yep, no matter what there are always bigger fish and when most romantic interactions ends in failure you become grateful and apprecitive of people actually reciprocating interest. Most men arent straight simping, just grateful when someone is actually interested in them and take what presents itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 02:05 PM
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Yeah sure in principal. Most people panning for gold come home empty handed though. Also being a millionaire puts you in such uniquely small sub category of the dating market and trying to unionize that tribe of high test indepenant males will be impossible. At the end of the day though most men dont have the luxury to vet so brutaly because they know their dating pool will dry up sooner than later.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 01:32 PM
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And anywhere with a heavily skewed male to female ratio is bad because the women are going to have their guards up and is going to have multiple guys interested in her so yay competetion and hyperagmy ensue. It sucks because "join social groups" is like commandment 1 of the blue pill but the reality is if the gender ratio of whatever place you are at is worse then online dating [roughly 33% men vs 66%women] you are better off just swiping.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 05:34 PM
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Pretty even mix of young women dating up in age a few years and undefinied situationships where women interpret this as not single compared to the guys who do not because they have a similar arangement with a few different women. These issues actually converge when you look at the population pyramid and now see that the west is below a replacement birth rate. That means there are more men 2-4 years older than the young women then there are men her age. And each year up in the age bracket she goe…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 05:03 PM
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My guy what you just described is exactly what im advocating for. What you decide to do with the skills you worked to acquire is up to the beholder, you dont have to rack up the bodies. Most men honestly don't have the will power to stop after escalation and id say neither do you considering you are getting blown out by them 😂. Side note, would you be ok with your future virgin wife blowing a handful of dudes before you met but saving vaginal stuff for you? She would also act holier than thou fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 12:16 PM
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Again its not about the sex, but I can see that the act of sex is the main hangup for you since you keep bringing it back to that. Its the ability to make a girl become initially attracted, making her fall for you, and getting her aroused. If you cant do that then you wont have any options for a monogamous relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 07:36 PM
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Ok i guess I just whole heartedly disagree with confidence as a personality trait. I think you're confusing social confindence as general confindence which would come with successfully socializing throughout your childhood. I tend to think the Big 5 model for personality is the most accurate way to sort and no where in there in confindence. And its not the ability to have casual sex its about the abilty to seduce your potential future partner when the oppurtunity arises, for most guys anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 07:06 PM
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Pick any activity or hobby in your life that you consider yourself proficent in, where do you think the confidence to consider yourself proficent in that activity came from? Would you have considered yourself proficent the 1st time you participated in said activity? I think you are percieving confidence as a personality trait when that would really only be the case for dark triad men. For most people it depends what the activity is! So if ive never sucssfully seduced a women it would be delusion…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 05:27 PM
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Where do you think the "confidence" that women love come from? Its something built over time through successful and unsuccesful sexual interactions so its natural to build up a decent number as a guy during your journey. Confidence is relative to the specific activity or social situation with only a minimal amount or carry over. So if sexual confidence is selected for as desirable hopefully you can see the dichotomy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 04:07 PM
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I personally believe femininity and masculinity should balance out within a relationship. Most girls are are gonna bring more feminine traits to the table so its just gonna be a pretty big limiting factor in your dating pool if you need to find someone with all those traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 05:44 PM
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I think most guys probably downplay their struggles to women they know because lets face it if they are actually struggling im sure they have the thought in the back of their head of getting together with the female acquaintance or friend who is curious enough to ask about their dating life. Most women will go through different phases of pursuing love, sometimes even taking a break and putting it to the side completely. But they probably cant fathom actively looking and having no one or almost n…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 08:29 PM
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Its almost impossible to time a market crash
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 04:31 PM
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Adin Ross, Logan paul, Hasan Piker All top of their industry
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 01:38 AM
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Its not a bubble or small subculture its mainstream Internet culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 12:40 AM
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Their peers are some of the biggest influencers, and who do they influence primarily? young kids. These teenage kids literally worship these e celebs and they are constantly doing collabs with onlyfans models, older people dont see it and have their opinions set in stone the younger generation has a way more liberal view of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 12:35 AM
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Internet culture in general is accepting of onlyfans girls, they have conpletely intermingled with the podcast/ YouTube/ ig influencer space and are seen as respected content creators by all their peers.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 12:20 AM
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Should be within a week from the day you moved your communication off the dating app. Ideally a date should be loosely agreed to within the dating app conversation and the reason they are giving you their number is to plan the logistics of the date.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 12:09 AM
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The thing is there are plenty of real people on here, but there is also a large group of folks who could be described as chronically online. The people chronically online, well are always online so your chance of interacting with this group of people is much higher than finding yourself with some one who periodically browses reddit and rarely bothers to reply. So the women in question here probably arent a real women but they could be!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 09:09 PM
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Useless to even think about, tinder is hyperlocal and this forum is global. Youre not gonna get any useful benchmarks.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 04:10 PM
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Personally I think the threshold theory as you stated isn't quite true because while I agree there is a mininum threshold, but within the area that you are refering to "maybe" there is a large divergence. This category ranges from "probably not" to "very likely" imo, and while its not 100% a sure thing either way, a man in the former category will have a lot more of an uphill battle trying to secure a relationship as opposed to the guy who she is very physically attractived to in the very likely…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 11:35 PM
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The number is irrelevant, and Id never ask first. But a lot of time the type of women who sleeps around has a large ego when interacting with guys and talks alot. And if you listen her speak there are plenty of little tells you can pick up on. The reason this is of note is the same reason it would be good to know if your new love interest is a fuck boy or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 01:30 PM
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Glad you found sucess, most folks dont realize men only begin to dabble in the red pill after years of an unsuccessful blue pilled dating life. In reality though getting a top 10% physique will do far more than any other piece of information or advice you could consume unless you are super autistic lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 01:10 PM
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Agreed. Imo a big contributing factor is that most people ideally would want to purchase a house before they start having kids. But the reality is that the real estate market is so hard to get into right now if you are buying your 1st piece of property because you cant just sell your current house for capital, you have nothing. Id guess it depends greatly on the area but probably only the top 10%-30% of earners could comfortably get a downpayment and mortage payment. So really most guys dont mak…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 12:14 AM
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Thanks red
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 05:17 PM
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The subtleties of Nonverbal / body languange communication is completely individualistic. Therefore you need to determine a baseline of neutral behavior for whomever you are observing. Then with any deviance from the baseline you can make an educated guess. Only thing pretty universal is open / closed off signaling, which in the context of flirting it would be best to use your time elsewhere if her body language is closed off .
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 06:03 PM
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We'll keep the noise down Mr. Trump, sorry about that sir.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 11:04 PM
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The stats OP posted say otherwise, not sure where you are getting your info from. And jusy to clarfiy both statements you have made so far, women spend their whole life habitually dating men their own age but as soon as they reach late 20's only then do they date up in age a few years. All im saying is that they prefer to date up a few years their entire life, not just in their late 20's. In turn leaving a large chunk of college aged men empty handed. Not here to argue the morality of it but tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 07:32 PM
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And late teen girls are primarily dating early 20s men Early 20s women are dating mid 20s men Mid 20s women are dating late 20s men And like you said late 20's women get with men in their early 30's College age men are largely left behind and thats the main group of people voicing their complaint about this online.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 06:55 PM
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Keep your head up king!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 04:56 PM
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Im drawing my conclusions from the data. Youre simply stating how you feel about young men. No matter the gender most single people are going to say they don't want a relationship and are happy single, its simply a way to preserve their ego. And people who have truly had the revelation that they prefer singledom have reached that point after years and years of dating experience. Not something people just entering the dating stage of their life genuinely think.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 04:05 PM
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People trying to rationalize it saying "obviously the late 20's women are dating early 30's men!" Which is true for the most part but extrapolate that across all ages and what happens is 18-22 year old men being invisible to their female peers. That just happens to be the most formative period of a young mans dating life and where a lot of male bitterness and resentment for the opposite sex forms.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 02:16 PM
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They dont deserve anything thats just what is going on. But like I said earlier its not the same amount of "good" matches its the same percentage. Lets do an example together. Well assume 5% of matches are good ones with 95% being bad. A women has a profile up for a day and she get 20 matches. 19 of them are going to be bad to her for whatever reasons she has, but after doing a little vetting she gets a good match. A man has a profile up for a day and he will get 0-2 matches. His messages get ig…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 12:29 PM
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In the realm of online dating you either swipe your thumb left or right. Which means YOU are in control of who gets to interact with you. All interactions require an equal time investment though by both parties, im not denying humans dont screw eachother over in interpersonal communications with men being more likely to do so. With that in mind the reason it seems like time is being wasted is because you have access to so many interactions many of which are bound to be bad. But what you dont see…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 08:49 PM
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True I suppose but Imagine spending significant amounts of time and energy cacthing bad matches As opposed to matches lining up in a queue and trying to win you over
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 12:08 PM
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Once I pass up your 400k karma ill consider it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 11:47 PM
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The initial match means nothing now, you just get moved into a smaller pool of guys before the next elimination round starts 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 11:21 PM
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Really depends who you ask ? Just looked up some CDC stats and saw from 2016 40% of men are obese and 35% of women. And if you are truly obese no matter the gender you should focus on that before dating 100% So that would be the portion i guess truly crossed off. But the average person who is actively trying to date is usually skinny fat which is what the bmi chart defines as overweight. In reality this person isnt that unhealthy and could become healthy weight in less than 6 months. Id say most…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 11:15 PM
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"A mans experience resembles building a niche small bussiness from the ground up"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 10:53 PM
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An average woman would be just that average. I think biggest difference in body standards would be skinny fat people. A guy who is skinny fat would probably be considered a 3/10 where as a skinny fat girl could easily be a 6/10 with good beauty routine.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 10:29 PM
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Agreed life isnt fair but the goal post have been moved so far with your argument that your comparing an edge case women who has been raped to an average man.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 09:55 PM
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What is an individual person supposed to do though about inflation though?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 09:53 PM
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Hard compared to what though? The average girl? Im sure it is rough seeing all your friends get guys with 0 effort but I can assure you if you are getting 2 matches a day on dating apps youre running laps around average males .
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 08:52 PM
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Hahah what obviously some one who has been raped deserves more sympathy then an awkward boy. She could hypothetically be wifey material I suppose, but statistcally girls and boys who were abused sexually as a kid have a high chance of being hyper sexual later in life. I guess I would have a more thorough vetting process in the dating stage given the circumstancial trauma, but no not disqualified or totally ignored by any means. My point is your parents, environment, and genetics are the reason y…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 08:41 PM
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Getting fit for a guy is about building muscle and getting to 15% body fat which yes testosterone helps with. If you ask any man with a naturally impressive physique he will tell you it takes 3-5 years. Getting fit for a girl is pure weight loss and could be done with through a restrictive diet, now there are some girls that do go above and beyond and incorporate muscle building into it they then in return partner up with the top guys at your local gym.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 07:57 PM
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Every enters the market at different ages, and its not like you have any real autonomy for the situation you have ended up in as a 15 year old boy. Its not that you have no skills they are just inferior to the competetion and the ability to improve upon is up to you once you are out of the nest. And I personally dont think I am ill qualified but after certain streches of rejection that feeling can begin to creep into the back of your head. More of a death by a thousand cuts then a baseline belie…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 07:44 PM
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Sooner than later youd get flagged as a bot/ spam and not get any matches. Maybe in 2014 that would have worked.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 06:44 PM
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I primarily use hinge so only 8 likes a day! But id argue its impossible to form a real connection via texting, it requires meeting, bonding and mutual attraction which can really only happen in person. OLD is a tool used sort through suitors and set up dates or hookups if thats your game. Then once you agree to meet you can form a connection. The frustrastion comes from putting in effort towards good convos and barely getting better results than if you were to behave like a sex pest. So A lot o…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 06:41 PM
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Exactly women are there mainly as a source of entertainment and dont put in any effort. You should try to make a profile for your bf and and try to engage in good convos youd find the effort you put it is rarely reciprocated. It does work though, periodically with a lot of rejection inbetween.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 06:04 PM
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Glad some people agree, this isnt some spun up fictional tale its truly how it feels from my personal perspective and others as well apparently
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 05:52 PM
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Not sure what platform you are referencing but I know on IG you can stop dms and only get notified that you have a message request and not have to look at the details of the message. Sorry to say but I really dont feel bad that your getting too many pings from the apps you choose to use. And this was about OLD apps and how it feels to be on the other end of matching with someone swimming in options as opposed to cold pick up techniques from strangers which yeah would be a little anoyying I guess…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 05:33 PM
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Its good to have hard boundries like that to vet people with early on when you have an abundance of options
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 05:13 PM
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I honestly empathize with crippled or disabled women trying to date. However most ugly woman are just overweight and the amount of time it would take to build an attractive apperance would realistically be 6 months to a year unless they had let themselves go over a long period of time. Where as a man would need 3-5 years to get to a similar level of attractiveness and get a lot less results relatively to his woman counterpart. A man needs to go above and beyond and women just needs to not let he…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 05:11 PM
3

Wouldn't know thats a burden only the privlaged carry
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 04:59 PM
0

Everyones inboxes get spammed with bots and scammers, if its overwhelming simply go private and dont accept dms from those who do not follow you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 04:56 PM
3

Yeah definitely more of an OLD critique then anything else, and all those points you made would 100% be valid reasons for ending an interaction with a guy. Personally when I am interested enough to meet I plan a bevarage date so its in public and as safe as possible. Even then the amount of flakes add up to the point of venting about it online 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 04:47 PM
6

Youre missing the forest for the trees here
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 04:23 PM
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Did you even read the post? I never mentioned sex and spoke clearly in terms of getting dates. And women dont using dating apps because they are getting a fulfilling dating lifes without them or just not in the dating mood at the moment. And OLD is extremely disheartening as an unattractive man or incel if you wanna name call them, spoken from my experience as a young man. The fact that you think its their best friend shows how off base you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 04:20 PM
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This was written not to be a perfect 1 to 1 metaphor but to be thought provoking. If you really need it though, men arent the items on amazon they are the 3rd party sellers using amazon to sell their items. Most wont be succesful on there with how many others are selling similar products only the cream rises to the top.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 04:09 PM
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Yeah 100% i didnt get too into that as it was becoming long winded of a post, but in the title I used the word Niche on purpose.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 03:46 PM
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Yeah sure you get a little bit of spam but mostly just items in your shopping cart sending your reminders to check out.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 03:43 PM
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Yeah it becomes an incel perspective when you take all the points to the logical extreme and turn them into blanket statements. This is simply my perspective and im certainly not Incel despite posting on PPD. But to say you don't need to improve as a man and that you have equal amount of choice compared to your female counterpart is disengenious and not an accurate portrayal of the current state of affairs.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 03:42 PM
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This is more so an online dating metaphor, So if by screwed you mean that you simply have to ignore someones messages then yeah i guess you are right.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 03:30 PM
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What is harder in your estimation finding a clean dildo or becoming a clean dildo and having to convice everyone that youre not covered in shit even though you clearly aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 03:25 PM
1

It scales, young men arent too discerning. But as you realize how much work youve put in to get higher quality women you stop going after the low hanging fruit.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 03:20 PM
5

Planning on doing a Harry Potter themed one next
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 03:15 PM
1

Working out over the course of a few years will make your face more angular and masculine
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 10:02 PM
1

Upward curves seem like consensus lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 07:55 PM
3

Yeah makes sense if you other avenues for meeting guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 08:50 PM
3

Definitely factors into it, I think most young people today probably lean more towards introversion including myself which is why ideally id like a woman to acknowledge my presense before walking up to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 08:46 PM
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This is what I presumed and makes sense. I just hate the Idea of going to places with the goal of meeting woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 08:39 PM
1

Some girls will flake from tinder as a sort of shit test, I'll usually send out a text 30-60 minutes before the agreed time we made and say let me know when your leaving. If they don't reply, hard next. If they give some excuse, I wait way later into the night to reply and tell them in some form that I was expecting them to flake. Which is true because so many of them do flake. Depending on their reply you can gauge if it's worth trying to schedule another date, also if you can bring it up in co…
/r/askTRP29/01/18 10:19 PM
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What do you mean by don't bite the bait immediately?
/r/askTRP24/01/18 09:49 PM
1

The part about denying intimacy, what exactly did you learn about that?
/r/TheRedPill23/01/18 04:08 PM
1

Thanks for the advice
/r/askTRP13/11/17 07:10 PM
1

I didn't go cold, I just stopped flirting with her. Spoke to her like I would have spoken to anyone else about the boring conversation topics she brought up. I didn't have any expectations either, I was flirting with her and wanted to kiss her so I went for it. It's honestly her loss and I'm not going to try to pretend to be her friend so that I might get pussy in the future, now that is what I would do of I were thirsty for pussy.
/r/askTRP13/11/17 06:58 PM
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If she was so offended why would she initiate a hug and mention hanging out in the future before she left? The threat also came 5 days later so the timing is weird. Honestly if a guy and a girl are hanging out 1 on 1 what is so shady about going for a kiss?
/r/askTRP13/11/17 05:08 PM
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I didn't get butthurt at all, my game was clearly off as I didn't build enough comfort, but instead of caring about it I just nexted in my mind as soon as she said she had to go since it would be easier to start over on a new girl. Also the entire interaction was about 90 minutes so hardly a 5 minute thing of quick escalation. I am just wondering why she would tell her cousin to threaten me 5 days later after I had already left her alone.
/r/askTRP13/11/17 04:39 PM
1

The only other noticeable thing is a couch and that you can tell it's indoors. It basically looks like I took this picture only for tinder which I did, but I'm now realizing from the feedback that this is probably the problem. which is what your getting with the small details being wrong. Thanks for the reply
/r/TheRedPill06/09/17 11:18 PM
1

Word, how do you know if there is going to a photographer there
/r/TheRedPill06/09/17 05:04 PM
1

That is probably my problem, it's kinda just me shirtless not doing anything I took it using a timer on my phone. I'm not really sure how to acquire a natural shirtless pic other than hire someone for a photo shoot.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/17 04:35 PM
1

Yeah I read that guide which is where I got the idea from, my execution is just off I think. And are you asking to post the photo i'm using so that you can judge it?
/r/TheRedPill06/09/17 03:50 PM
1

Thats the thing, I do have a clearly noticeable 6pack. I have a naturally high metabolism so after 3 months of working out it looks legit even I'm not ripped by any means I have very lean muscle and low body fat %.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/17 03:32 PM
1

Recently took a shirtless chad picture for my tinder profile. And am a little underwhelmed with the results, I am getting a few more matches than I was but the increase is barely noticeable. Does anyone have a good example of a shirtless picture that gets lots of matches, or an explanation of what makes a good shirtless picture.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/17 03:02 PM
1

Why do some women decide to get into relationships with BB providers in their prime (early 20's) ? Why wouldn't they just keep the guy as an orbiter, like what is their reasoning for allowing a lower value guy to fuck them occasionally and go exclusive with them? I know they will dump him as soon a guy with high smv comes into her life, but the temporary pit stop with BB is confusing for me.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/17 03:02 PM
1

like if she were to open up to me about her depression or a traumatic experience she had. Not randomly disqualifying myself.
/r/askTRP14/08/17 08:25 PM
1

hm yeah I like that. Definitely need to build trust over time, and not do it unprompted especially early on.
/r/askTRP14/08/17 08:19 PM
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