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| 89 | Avoidant attachment style - what's helped me and what I've been doing | STRATEGY | dannh123 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/20 04:11 AM |
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| 10 | Avoidant attachment style - what's helped me and what I've been doingOK then it makes no sense to say you can't pursue a relationship until you've overcome your mental health issues. I wouldn't say that having it under control means you've overcome it. People with anxiety and depression still have bouts of it even if it's well managed. It's also very clear in my post that you need to work through, somewhat manage it and develop some strategies. Interestingly, when I wanted to end things with my current partner because I didn't want to hurt them and because I beli… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/20 06:45 AM |
| 12 | Avoidant attachment style - what's helped me and what I've been doingSo would you say the same thing to someone with an anxious attachment style? ANYONE with any mental health issues can cause others trauma and pain so is that to say someone with for example, bipolar disorder needs to be 100% healed before they pursue a relationship? My issue with your comment is that you are saying that you are not worthy of love until you're healed. You may not be able to be in a relationship with someone with an avoidant attachment style but there are many secures and avoidant… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/20 06:16 AM |
| 8 | Avoidant attachment style - what's helped me and what I've been doingI completely see where you are coming from. I was hurt by someone with an anxious attachment style - he was completely dismissive of my needs and had such a high fear of abandonment that he would become completely depressed if I decided to spend one day with a friend instead of him. He would get upset if I didn't call him one night because I was exhausted or had a migraine. I am also aware that we were NOT a match...he would need someone more secure. What you're describing to me....someone who'd… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/20 06:04 AM |
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