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Man I read that so wrong, I saw rabbit and thought you meant vibrator.
/r/seduction03/07/20 04:06 AM
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Bathroom is huge in my experience. Scrub the shower, toilet, sinks, counter tops. Empty your trash and add a plastic bag liner (girls notice this one, seriously) arrange your countertop so it’s not cluttered but tells a story. I have some cologne on my counter top, some beard oils, toothbrush and face wash. Basically tells the girl I care about how I smell, take care of my skin and my facial hair and I brush my teeth. Going a little more advanced throw in some clean towels that you don’t use tha…
/r/seduction02/12/19 03:53 AM
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He phrased it poorly but if you’re seeking girls to correct loneliness you are going to have a bad time. The girls come when you make yourself a complete human, trying to make a person fill a void is just unfair to them (I’ve done it trust me it isn’t fun for anyone involved). I was alone all through college it isn’t till the last year or so I am figuring out what I am missing in life and sure enough my interpersonal relationship skills is starting to get better as well.
/r/seduction27/03/18 06:01 AM
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I work 7p-7a and just plan around my day off, if I am feeling up to it I go out in the morning and talk people up at the coffee shop, plenty of people work strange shifts.
/r/seduction14/12/17 09:57 AM
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Find a hobby and stick with it, I do tons of hikes and biking and use those meet ups to find people with similar interests. When I am on the trail if I see another solo hiker I will strike up a conversation, now have a small network of hikers that we do things together. I picked up card magic but have been using that to break the ice at bars and coffee shops. Actually pick up magic it boosted my confidence a bit so far (mind you it was really low to begin with). The first time I wanted to show a…
/r/seduction20/11/17 05:08 PM
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Not sure if there is any basis for this but I always put my “luck” being that when you have 1 girl you become me less desperate to others since you have your main focus making you less needy and thus making you more attractive to others. I just made this up though so I may be wrong.
/r/seduction15/11/17 04:45 AM
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Be careful with what decisions you make while lonely. My last relationship I thought was a good one but I realized after that it was mostly formed because I was afraid of being alone, I knew all the words and actions to keep it going for a year but ultimately everything else felt hollow since it wasn’t genuine. Yeah being in a relationship is nice but focus on yourself and other social experiences and the girls will come eventually. Not sure wheee you are located in the world but if you are in t…
/r/seduction12/11/17 11:17 AM
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Depending on where you are the hiking thing can work. I hike a ton but am out in the pnw where everyone does it. Had plenty of dates where we go get lost in the woods, or talk about our favorite trails.
/r/seduction26/09/17 10:53 PM
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Tons of girls think I am gay, but screw them. I don't need to prove anything to them. Not my fault dressing well makes me feel good, taking care of hair/skin makes me look better, and that gay clubs have the best dancing. I am not trying to impress them, also if the girls think I am gay it makes them lower their guard.
/r/seduction27/02/17 04:06 PM
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Always assume attraction...
/r/seduction12/02/17 10:41 AM
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I just moved cities recently. Make sure to check out meetup.com. I am making a social circle there mostly based upon people with similar interests. Gym is also a good place to meet people. Find out if there is a paper or site that lists local events, in Seattle we have a newspaper called the Stranger. Since I don't know many people I will look what is going on my nights off and then solo go to a show or something.
/r/seduction08/02/17 05:25 AM
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It might! Though body language would probably be a huge part. I was talking to her the next morning and that girl B(eye fucking girl) seemed deflated when girl A sat with me. Added merit to my story.
/r/seduction05/02/17 09:03 PM
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Yeah, lesson learned. The cure for oneitis is not having oneitis it would appear.
/r/seduction05/02/17 07:49 PM
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Defiantly there was luck involved, but as a novice to the game a bit of luck goes miles for learning lessons.
/r/seduction05/02/17 06:35 PM
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While I understand what you mean. I disagree if you're just starting to game. Which this post seems aimed at. You should be willing to go out of your comfort zone and try it at least once. If you have tried to dance and hated it then yeah say no, but if it's new you should enrich yourself. Also with the comment on dancing, if you're gifted and have moves from birth then yeah you can skip out but for night game dancing is an extremely effective way to get used to kino and learning how to game. St…
/r/seduction27/01/17 12:59 AM
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Decide on a style then Google your area. Normally beginner classes are cheap. When I lived in Florida I got a Groupon for salsa that was 17$. Meetup.com often has dance groups that offer lessons. I learned how to do swing in Washington for ~40$.
/r/seduction27/01/17 12:50 AM
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Gonna be interesting for me, I am in a new city with no social circle, so going to solo game the night away. Might end in disaster or might be amazing. Either a cherry on the top of the turd that is 2016 or the best way to start 2017 ever. Win-win
/r/seduction28/12/16 02:18 AM
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I am moving to First Hill, near Virginia Mason.
/r/seduction03/12/16 03:41 AM
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I feel that most people here are like you or were. Hence the reason we joined the group. We all have our shortcomings. Figure most posts with a positive ending will be upvoted. Keep on trucking and improving yourself and eventually your time will come. I will say I am about the same place as you though, where I make connections with people but none seem to be the right kind. Keep practicing but don't stress out too much.
/r/seduction29/11/16 06:07 AM
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Being physically active has many benifits beside looking better. A gym might not be the best for you but I do suggest working out, it will make you feel like a much better person, as it helps boost the amount of seratonin and dopamine in your system. The gym is also a great place to approach, I am currently not in gym because I just moved to a new area and am trying to decide if I want to do CrossFit, Orange Theory, or just get a personal trainer, but I will say that most of my best approaches h…
/r/seduction30/10/16 09:09 PM
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You don't need to call her out on it. Just hit dial and don't say anything. If it rings go "and heres my number" if it doesn't ring take your leave and don't hit add to contacts.
/r/seduction29/07/16 08:16 AM
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Just repeated exposure. I am wrong probably more than I am right, really once you get one claim right then your audience will just tell you information and you can stick to being vague. I got started with the tv shows Penn and Teller Bullshit episode (S1E10) that explained ESP and Psyche.
/r/seduction16/03/16 09:41 PM
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Ah, yeah always get stuffed up on that, thanks for the advice. Opening is fairly easy for me, just hop into a group and pretend like I have always been there. Though escalating from there is definitely my next goal.
/r/seduction16/03/16 04:15 PM
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It's a parlor trick, you attempt to make a statement that is true about a person by observations you make about them. A simple example would be if a girl was wearing cowboy boots you can make a cold read and say that she is a country fan. As you get better at a read you can make more bold statements. Ultimately it's a good way to practice your ability to notice subtle body language. In my example I posted up higher I was talking with a girl and noticed that she allowed other people to drive the …
/r/seduction16/03/16 04:14 PM
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Yeah, I am pretty sure Mark Manson someone posted an email he sent about it. A quick google search found me "Cut out some parts he found unnecessary and changed up the language a little." So basically like college where the old version is good enough if you have it.
/r/seduction16/03/16 10:14 AM
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I am having this trouble. I live in the suburbs so it's hard for me to walk around the streets and game people. I work 3 days a week 12 hour shifts so I have 4 days off to try to maximize my potential. I normally take 3 hours a week to meal prep. And 1-1.5 hours a day to work out. If I sleep 8-9 hours a night I still have over 12 hours I need to fill with stuff to do to improve myself. I just can't find enough to grow with that I take the 12 hours up so I end up spending 4-5 hours a day on relax…
/r/seduction16/03/16 08:32 AM
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I did this a few weeks ago, how do you escalate with it? I walked up to a group of girls at a bar, was able to cold read one as a middle child and I played it off as I was a psychic. The problem was the girl I was trying to escalate with was the one I opened on... Her friends then demanded I told them about their lives until I got tired of the game and excused myself.
/r/seduction16/03/16 08:19 AM
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Awese story. I went through a similar thing a year ago but instead of getting better I backslid which ended with me talking with an ex again only so she could end it two weeks later, when she found another guy. Now I am sitting here trying to start again. I was wondering what did you do in the months you did stuff alone? I keep trying to lose my dependence on people but I can't seem to do anything without a group of people I know. If I try to do stuff alone I end up going back to binging video g…
/r/seduction13/03/16 11:06 AM
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I find tempo is huge. If you feel like you are getting out of sync with her or if she is going faster than you want I normally will bite her lip lower lip or suck on it to reset the tempo.
/r/seduction09/03/16 01:40 PM
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There is bumble. The app has a strange gimmick where the female has to chat first though
/r/seduction07/02/16 05:24 AM
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I didn't even think of that as an option! I panicked since I had never gotten to that point of comfort that quickly with someone before. So do you think there is any chance of fixing that blunder or should I take this as a learning experience and move on?
/r/seduction16/12/15 11:19 PM
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Done it before. Go for it! My best relationship we worked at a place that employeed 10 high school students. Normal rules apply no PDA when at work and don't make it awkward for other people. The managers didn't know we were dating until like 2 months in then suddenly we always worked conflicting schedules.
/r/seduction14/12/15 11:57 AM
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Just got back not too long ago. Game was super easy and huge ego boost. Came back to states and realized that I was playing on easy mode for 2 weeks.
/r/seduction19/10/15 12:13 AM
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Sup
/r/seduction01/10/15 06:38 AM
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I use sky scanner.
/r/seduction21/09/15 12:22 AM
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Yeah same, I am planning a month long trip across Europe. It is for myself to grow, but if I meet a few women then that is a huge bonus.
/r/seduction21/09/15 12:22 AM
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Yeah money sucks. If you play your cards right you don't need to spend a ton of money. Hostels run 20-50$ a night. A flight from a major airport can be about 500-700 round trip(I use an app to find best times to go). Then for food most hostels have a kitchen so I was eating Raman every night. Went to the pub every night but only got 1-2 drinks.. Most European girls I have met don't like when you buy them drinks.
/r/seduction20/09/15 08:19 PM
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Literally sitting in an airport after a 9 day spree in Ireland. I managed to hook up with one girl, make out with two others (would have hooked up with one of them but we had no place to go). This is in contrast to the states where I am on a 6 month dry spell. Hostels are basically large houses of people looking to hook up.... The hook up was with an employee and they literally had a room with a mattress and condoms lol.
/r/seduction20/09/15 05:31 PM
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No problem good luck. I hope you can figure it out. Once you do no matter the choice you will feel better. One last thing is if you do for it physical contact is the best/only way. Traditionally I have always been the best friend but I am now actively working on changing that. If you try to do it through words, either passively saying hey we should date, or making sexual comments most girls will rationalize it as part of your personality. There is no way for her to rationalize you grabbing her b…
/r/seduction25/05/15 12:40 PM
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That being said this is hard and you need to be willing to put forth the effort. I spent weeks going back and forth but now that I know where we both stand on our relationship I feel a huge weight off my shoulders.
/r/seduction25/05/15 08:58 AM
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If you want her as a best friend you need to stop being infactuated with her. I don't want to say that you should do it but I will say that I feel much better now that I lost her. I literally would spend days brooding over ways to get her to think of me as more than a friend, but she always met it with "you're like a brother" and complained how some guy was treating her wrong. Eventually I decided to man up and literally pulled her in and kissed her. That moment felt amazing.... On top of that I…
/r/seduction25/05/15 08:56 AM
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One thing that its important for people to understand is the friend zone is unhealthy for both sides. By allowing it to exist you both have different ideas of your relationship. I was in the same problem in January I was crazy for my best friend but she wanted to be just friends. Ultimately I got tired of wanting and ended up making a move, we ended up making out but she said she couldn't see me in that way. Since then we have drifted apart and no longer talk however I can say with confidence th…
/r/seduction24/05/15 10:16 PM
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This, I have dated 2 people from work and the way you do it is simply by making yourself present when she is working. Make yourself look fun and get her to trust you so you can ask her to get dinner or get some coffee or something. Then just follow normal seddicate. Also be aware that shit can hit the fan easily. One of my relationships was amazing, we dated and broke up gracefully. The other one (Still going through now) we broke up and everyone has a new opinion of me. So it can hit the fan.
/r/seduction12/02/13 01:16 AM
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If you live in the south I recently took someone to the beach at 1 am and stayed there for 4 hours. Best idea ever, I got lucky and we caught some shooting stars. Best part is it was completely free.
/r/seduction18/12/12 07:59 PM
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