Short back story. I moved to a new city and met a girl. Started to game her but when I said we should go on a date I was met by "I actually am talking to another guy right now but would still like to be friends". I decided that was fine, since I was new to the area and could use a bigger social circle.

Over the next week I focused on myself. Finally stopped trying to fit in with popular style and found a style that worked for me. Got a fresh cut from an expensive place (50$ for a men's cut) but the barber gave me step by step instructions how to do my hair which I have never got before.

Fast forward to Thursday, the city does free museum entry on the first Thursday of every month. I wanted to go so I invited the girl out with me. She came and we went to a museum I was passionate about so I was having the time of my life. After that we decide to go to a bar and have a few drinks. I decide to go in for a bit of kino, because why not, and this is where the fun starts. About two drinks in she goes to the bathroom and I am sitting at the table alone. A guy approaches me and points to his friend and says "hey this is rude if you're with someone but that you should go talk to that girl over there, I will wing for you man" and he fist bumps me and walks away. Of course I glance at the girl he was talking about and we lock eyes....

My friend then returns from the bathroom. When I get back I told her about the stranger offering to wing for me, and this appearently was the trigger for her. She glances over at the girl the guy offered to wing for and immediately changes posture. She faces me and starts putting her hand on my leg, shortly after she says we should go to another bar. I agree and we leave... We go to another bar and get one more drink, I continue to escalate and she says she should go home. I offer to drive her using the excuse that I live in the city so it's easy for me to do it instead of her getting an Uber. To preface this next part I am not huge into PDA so generally wait until I get away from people to escalate past kino. As we are walking back to my car I start to panic since I know I have about 3 blocks to close or I lose my chance. As we are walking down the street pick a spot grab her by the arm and go for the kiss... It works perfectly and right after she says "hey it's kinda late why don't I just spend the night at your place and you can drive me home in the morning".