| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 586 | The time a date wanted me to wait 4 hours | RANT | datthingy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/21 07:46 PM |
| 10 | Yrs ago, when I didn’t want to ghost after 1 date with this super s3xually pushy guy. Glad I didn’t let him pick me up from my house | Story time ☕ | datthingy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/22 04:28 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 105 | Abortion starting to be banned in many states. No exceptions.Yep! Even my 70 yr old nana shakes her head and tells me that women need to collectively abstain in order to see any change. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/22 09:13 PM |
| 178 | Have you ever seen your threads on FDS being shared in other subs?Yeah any viral post on Reddit that mentions a woman usually has some reference to FDS in the controversial comments. They absolutely hate us lmao. They have this idea that we are man hating femcels who can’t get a man so we lash out on this forum. 😐 They are so obsessed with us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/22 05:13 PM |
| 13 | Men talking about ex's physical attributesFirst of all, proud of you for breaking up with him and valuing yourself! It’s definitely ether a tactic to make you insecure or he’s not over his ex. Bad news either way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/22 09:47 PM |
| 2 | Yrs ago, when I didn’t want to ghost after 1 date with this super s3xually pushy guy. Glad I didn’t let him pick me up from my houseHe was super pushy too! And cringe in general. This all started because he saw me on a dating app, we didn’t match so he found me on social media and begged for a date. (Mistake 1) The 1 hr car drive he sang the entire time. Like badly. Not even looking at the road, he would be turned towards me singing Justin Bieber songs really really badly. Completely serious as he did it😭 It was so hard to keep a straight face Then we went back to his place, as he had driven us (idiot me) This was like 4 yea… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/22 10:07 AM |
| 3 | Yrs ago, when I didn’t want to ghost after 1 date with this super s3xually pushy guy. Glad I didn’t let him pick me up from my houseYeah I’m curious if he thought guilt tripping me was going to somehow convince me to go on another date. If I did, I just know it would’ve been x10 messier trying to end things after a second date. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/22 05:05 AM |
| 3 | Yrs ago, when I didn’t want to ghost after 1 date with this super s3xually pushy guy. Glad I didn’t let him pick me up from my houseSeriously. I was a real idiot for allowing myself to be pressured into going back to his place. It could’ve ended a lot worse. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/22 05:03 AM |
| 3 | Yrs ago, when I didn’t want to ghost after 1 date with this super s3xually pushy guy. Glad I didn’t let him pick me up from my houseYeah this was young me. I have no qualms now blocking and deleting. Especially would never give my personal number out ❌ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/22 05:02 AM |
| 5 | Yrs ago, when I didn’t want to ghost after 1 date with this super s3xually pushy guy. Glad I didn’t let him pick me up from my houseHonestly max 2-3 years? I remember getting irritated during our date as he kept bringing it up and using it to infantilize me. I was used to larger age gaps when I 20. (Gross Ik) At the time, he had passed several milestones that I hadn’t yet, new car, his own place without roommates, blue collar job and he made sure I knew it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/22 04:45 AM |
| 116 | Who else make money from all OF except the women involvedMy friend did cam girl stuff for literally 1 week and decided it wasn’t for her. But men collected her videos and proceeded to pretend to be her and sell her content for months after. Somehow, some way, some man is always going to be able to profit off of a woman’s exploitation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/22 10:27 PM |
| 15 | Creating a new feminist theoryHi I just wrote an anti porn paper for a class last semester! You should check out Gale Dines Pornland! It’s a disturbing read but it draws correlations between porn and so many things. It gave me soooo much fuel to write my paper. I had anxiety about choosing this topic as well, and reading that book fueled me with such rage that I busted out an amazing paper in no time. I know it’s scary and it would be easier to choose a topic that wouldn’t ruffle any feathers but… it’s so much more satisfyin… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/22 04:34 PM |
| 94 | Been seeing this guy for a few weeks and he does meet a lot of my requirements however he watches porn, a few times a month he says he can get it to zero if i don't like it, it does make me uncomfortable though. Idk should i still give him a chance or find someone who didn't watch to begin with?For me, it depends why they want to quit porn. Is it to cure their porn onset E.D? They are against the violence perpetuated against women? Or is it solely to satisfy a boundary I’ve created? I can only tolerate dating a man who has reformed because he sees the violent degrading acts as sickening. The other two reasons are not good enough for me to be in a relationship with them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/22 02:34 AM |
| 57 | Be careful ladies and especially young womenYeah the younger I was, the older the guys that were interested in me. I’m still in my early 20s but now the predatory 30 year olds aren’t interested in me because my self confidence has quadrupled. 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/22 01:21 AM |
| 19 | This is likely the darkest 'joke' in the entire sitcom and this guy is laughing about it happening in real life. Beware the man who laughs when women are in danger rather than report it to the police 🚩🚩🚩OP just said it but they are referring to a tv show called It’s Always Sunny In Philadelphia. :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/21 06:43 PM |
| 109 | Whenever I get mixed feelings about a man's actions...Same! I do this a lot , whether it’s a woman’s actions or a mans. I know y’all would not let me live in the comments if I accepted some disrespect so I keep that in mind. ☺️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 05:07 AM |
| 118 | I'm sppeechlessSevere violation of trust and boundaries and she thinks she’s just uncomfortable??? Press charges jesus!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 09:20 PM |
| 135 | The level of mental gymnastics hereYes let’s start cuddling the toilet bowl with their piss drops on it too 🥰 aww tee heeee so cuteee | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 03:44 AM |
| 13 | If you want a revolution, don't appeal to men in the hopes of getting them to see our POV. Instead, open other women's eyes to the stark reality of dating and gender relations.“It is only the oppressed who, by freeing themselves, can free their oppressors. The latter, as an oppressive class, can free neither others nor themselves” -Pedagogy of the Oppressed | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/21 11:07 PM |
| 54 | Just received this message. A request that I not call men scrote 😮💨Okay scrotums lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/21 07:51 PM |
| 48 | What age range do you belong to?Yep I’m gen Z ✌️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/21 06:22 PM |
| 37 | Is she high maintenance tho?My partner gives me gifts/flowers and takes me out every month on our anniversary day. He takes any chance to celebrate being with me 🤷🏻♀️ don’t think that’s a lot to ask for. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/21 05:01 PM |
| 139 | FDS are female incels 🙄Yes I’m an female incel because I don’t want a partner who abuses and uses me 🥲🥲 makes total sense | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/21 01:58 PM |
| 95 | I don't even know how to describe this, why are men the way they areLiterally what the fuck. Makes me never want to be sexual with another man ever again. And I’m in a loving healthy relationship 😭 wtf is wrong with men | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/21 09:14 PM |
| 235 | The time a date wanted me to wait 4 hoursShe actually started dating him a year after haha. I hope she’s enjoying him 🙏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/21 08:02 PM |
| 21 | I pray that one day pick me women will be free from the shackles of male validation.I downvoted that as well without even opening the thread. I just knew it was going to be a circle jerk of the saddest lack of standards and berating women who have standards. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/21 07:05 PM |
| 67 | Once again, Hollywood rewards abusers.The hate for amber heard is absolutely insane I know it’s a he said she said situation but people never treat a male abuser like how amber heard is being treated | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/21 09:38 PM |
| 2 | Just seen on relationshipadvice... guess it's about usLollll yeah as if 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/21 10:38 PM |
| 58 | I need men to stop acting like heightism actually existsI dated several men shorter than me and every single one was insecure and constantly criticized my body. My legs were “too long” and my neck was “ too long”. My body was constantly brought up and ridiculed. When I hunched down to match their height out of insecurity for being “tall” they made fun of me. When I extended to my natural height they would sulk and ignore me for an hour. Apparently I was lying about my height. I wasn’t 5’6 but actually 5’9 because these men were “actually” 5’7 and not… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/21 04:43 PM |
| 84 | Mere MINUTES after a particular toxic male subreddit was banned, scrotes in another male subreddit are planning to infiltrate and brigade FDS 🤡Sounds like being a man hater to me >:(((( /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/21 11:26 PM |
| 22 | Just watched Black Widow.. We should make something better than the Bechdel test to rate movies.I was just talking about this earlier today! I really loved it. They’ve done black widow so dirty throughout all the marvel movies and this was refreshing. The entire series she’s been reduced to a vessel for the other male characters to develop and had 0 personality/goals of her own. She was just walking sex used to further the storyline of the male characters with unrealistic hamfisted romance that felt non genuine and forced. I thought there were a few unnecessary ass shots but my partner sai… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/21 08:33 PM |
| 402 | Dating & Socioeconomic StatusI grew up in poverty so I can’t really date down. These are my experiences which obviously differ vastly from yours. Please do not take offense. This is about the men not the women. I’ve tried to date middle class and men from millionaire families but the men come off extremely privileged. The men look down on the poorer people and thought that their poorness was due to laziness and not systemic oppression. They are selfish and greedy. Always penny pinching while the lower class would buy their … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/21 05:56 PM |
| 18 | How do I meet and make female friends?I was in the same boat. I’m in my early 20s and was homeschooled in high school due to bullying as well. When I entered the work field I was very socially awkward, so I tried to mimic the other girls and gained a lot of fake friends thru that method. So right off the bat, be yourself if you want a meaningful friendship. If you and another woman have mutual interests, just ask her to hang out. For me, a lot of my friendships with people started that way. Oh, coworker wants to try a new blush she … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/21 04:17 PM |
| 68 | This song is catchy as hell, but on a closer inspection, the lyrics seem to make it an lvm anthem (second pic) thoughts?It’s Justin Bieber and that turd kid laroi who famously has a song that states “can’t make a wife out of a hoe” So yes… a LVM anthem | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/21 03:57 PM |
| 13 | ' gOlD DigGeR 'One of my HVM friends is dating a woman whose family is worth millions and he pays all their rent. And he’s happy to. He wants to take care of her and does so. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/21 06:39 PM |
| 16 | It isn’t that bad…I had the arm implant that made me cry every single day. I was so emotionally fragile. It made half of my hair fall out. I’d run my fingers through my hair and each time I’d lose easily 20 strands. I got insane cystic acne that covered every inch of my face. I had thick brown blood discharge every single day for 8 months until I insisted they take it out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/21 08:47 PM |
| 42 | Truly embarrassingThe mental imagery 😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/21 08:39 PM |
| 5 | Big Clit Energy Right Here!She’s all over my fyp on TikTok. Absolutely stunning with a goddess mentality. Love her content ♥️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/21 07:24 PM |
| 10 | And then everyone clapped! Do they seriously spend time and energy roleplaying and making accounts so they make us look bad?? 😂One of the comments was saying basically “this ain’t real fds loves using the word scrote” Even nonsupporters know we wouldn’t do this shit. 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/21 07:19 PM |
| 85 | “Boost your confidence by humiliating yourself and subjecting yourself to constant male rejection.”See this is what we are not gonna do Lmaoo. It really shouldn’t take anymore than a few coy glances to get a man to approach you, if you desire. Prayin for her lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 02:38 AM |
| 21 | Rich AH mad that his GF is still poor after she took a second job.I’m sorry but this reads like some redpill mgtow fantasy. I really doubt this even happened in the first place AND then a man posts this framing it in this perspective. Just seems like a karma grab or something. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/21 04:24 AM |
| 10 | I’m leaving my NVM bf as soon as I get money from the GME squeeze— how do I live a financially safe life? What do I need to know in order not to fall on my face?Commenting to boost this. I also have stock in GME and am curious. Good luck!! You got this 👑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/21 07:56 PM |
| 24 | Not wanting my SO to post photos of us and not wanting to post photos of him- is this okay?How long have you been seeing him? If he’s wanting to post you super early it’s kind of a red flag to me. I understand your hesitations due to your culture and if he’s a HVM he’ll respect that. A man who cheats will cheat regardless if their social media says they are single/taken. We’ve all seen the oblivious gf who is posted everyday by a man who is cheating on her. If you want a compromise maybe he can post stuff insinuating he’s in a relationship without necessarily blasting your face all ov… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/21 09:02 PM |
| 14 | REMINDER: FDS is NOT WGTOW/OVARIT/FEMCEL etc, We're a Dating Strategy....So You Should, Ya'Know, DATE.Really ? I’m subbed to both and I had no idea. 😳 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/21 04:55 PM |
| 2 | Combat the hopelessness feeling?I’m actually going through the same thing right now. I’ve cried a lot the past few days and made it 1000% worse by going through the true crime subreddit and reading all the stories of women/girls being brutalized and murdered. I surround myself by strong women and individually I feel like I’m making a difference for these women in my circle and in myself. I deleted my Instagram and TikTok for a bit to help my mental health because nearly every comment is sexist and misogynistic. I don’t go on t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/21 03:08 AM |
| 65 | If a man sits down next to you on the bus or train, and he's too close and he starts touching you, what do you do? - Aka how Dr Gail Dines finally put into words what I've been feeling.(LONG STORY ABOUT DUDE JERKIN IT ) I went to a bar a few months ago with outdoor seating that you could enter from either the actual bar or an alley. Well me and my girl friend were sitting on a couple chairs next to the alley entrance when a man enters through the alley. He passes by wayyy to close to us and posts up against the fence a few feet away. A group of 4 ladies were sitting next to us and he was staring them down. My friend who is very confrontational sometimes in a bad way whispers i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 02:31 PM |
| 10 | OP drank the LibFem koolaid and posted nudes online... now the same redditors who jerked off are judging 😳🥸What’s the expression, point with one hand and jerk off with the other? Something along those lines. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/21 03:06 PM |
| 22 | Why I will never allow a gun owning man in my homeIs anyone else just so tired and angry of the daily articles about women being brutalized and murdered by men. If it was any other category of people we’d have world wide awareness and groups set up to protest this. But no. 🙃 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/21 03:03 PM |
| 6 | Why are there so many stories of shitty men not respecting women’s’ bodily autonomy?What the fuck and then we have men say we try to trap them with kids | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/21 06:12 PM |
| 18 | I’m pissed. Had to scroll a long way down to find some sanity in this thread. “MeN gEt AbUsEd ToO!” Newsflash, women don’t get taken seriously, either.Reddit is such a misogynistic echo chamber it’s insane. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 07:21 PM |
| 62 | Violence against women is a-ok so long as a dude gets an erection from it!!1! 🤪I got into this exact debate in some TikTok comments the other day. Why do people blast women who participate in “findom” (financial domination) but not men who literally beat, choke, spit, abuse women!!?? Literally whenever you see a woman who is a Dom in findom who gets these willing consenting men to send them money....sometimes even their life savings the comments are just horrific... They slam her saying it’s cruel to take advantage of men who are clearly not in the right head space and she… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/21 12:12 AM |
| 5 | Teenage girl gets "consensually" slapped by her boyfriend. Comments are saying its okayTragic because I reported similar videos on TikTok and they said it didn’t go against any TOS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/21 11:59 AM |
| 16 | So when a person states a boundary that makes them uncomfortable, suddenly they’re controlling and insecure. Porn is cancer.For me it’s not “cheating” or because I’m insecure. It’s because I’ve seen first hand how porn melts a persons mind and they have to keep seeking out sicker and sicker shit to get off to. Or how ED is the highest it’s ever been in men in their 20s because now they can’t get off to real partners. Or the fact that a man with no prior communication or consent thinks it’s okay to slap or spit or choke me because he saw it in a porno. Or let’s talk about the women coerced or trafficked into porn. The… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 02:58 PM |
| 14 | (idk if this was made already!) Shout-out to the mods cause I'm sure they read through a whole lot of bs to shield us from it, so THANK YOU💖I know when I see FDS crossposted on the front page and I run to the FDS thread to see the hate comments and there are none 😇😇👍🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/21 06:39 AM |
| 16 | "Start-up": Good qualities in male TV characterI love Korean dramas so I’ve got to check this out! Kdramas are refreshing compared to the sexed out, violent, American tv shows where women are usually so one dimensional :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/21 05:35 PM |
| 8 | I'm doing my part 👍That sub was just recommended to me too !! 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 07:56 AM |
| 30 | Reminder why kinkmishas are a thingI saw the same version but with a man saying he had a CNC kink . Disgusting 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/20 05:42 PM |
| 6 | I HAVE NO WORDS.His post history indicated he lived at home with his parents. He gets them shipped discreetly so they don’t know and I’m just curious how he disposes of the used diapers without them knowing .....💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 10:01 PM |
| 1 | the way I cackled at this 💀💀💀Took the words right out of my mouth 💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 01:58 AM |
| 11 | Thank you, mods! ♡Thank you mods ! When we went private I was devastated because I thought we were banned. 😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 04:00 AM |
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