davidralph Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
92	Could we make a list of comfort zone challenges?		davidralph	/r/seduction	26/11/13 03:10 PM
1	This quote speaks words of wisdom and may clear up some inner game issues for some people		davidralph	/r/seduction	08/05/13 07:54 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	“You’re future girlfriend is gonna love you.” Am I basically screwed? I'm backing you up man. People giving more shits about that than what you're saying.	/r/seduction	22/10/17 07:06 PM
3	“You’re future girlfriend is gonna love you.” Am I basically screwed? Downvoted for signing off with your name. Jesus people need to get their priorities straight.	/r/seduction	22/10/17 04:05 PM
4	Is it normal that I always get a confidence boost when I compare myself to other guys? Whether it's normal or not, it's not healthy. You're building a habit of comparison that is still rooted in insecurity, evident when you said: If I see another good looking guy who I might feel threatened by.. This doesn't signal over-confidence or delusion, it signals a coping mechanism you may have used in the past to make you feel better about your shortcomings. This is not to say you aren't necessarily better looking or in better shape than these other guys but to continue to grow, you need …	/r/seduction	21/02/16 12:29 AM
16	Why didn't you superlike me? How did they reply?	/r/seduction	24/12/15 05:09 PM
1	The paradoxical nature of confidence [4 min read] These are the musings of a person finished with selfish goals. The fact that he mentions his kids signals, to me, that he is now focused on what he can do for others. Admirable and meaningful for sure. But selfish goals can still have meaning and purpose and not conflict with being content with oneself. Being happy with yourself means being happy with the journey you are on, not being happy with the person you could be.	/r/seduction	05/04/15 05:35 PM
7	Understanding the importance of sex-appeal in seduction and how to acquire it. Every interaction benefits you. Including this one. Stop it with the pessimism.	/r/seduction	08/06/14 07:55 PM
2	A fun game to improve conversation skills I bought a word of the day calendar to try this sort of thing	/r/seduction	21/02/14 09:36 PM
2	A framework into seduction and self help: what it is, what it can do and some dangers. I worry that this won't get the attention it deserves.	/r/seduction	08/02/14 07:08 PM
3	What is a good resource for finding why women are not attracted to me? It doesn't matter why they aren't attracted to you! The only opinion that matters is your own so if you think there's something you could improve on then do it. But do it for yourself and not because some girl isn't attracted to you.	/r/seduction	28/01/14 06:05 PM
1	Being different but remaining genuine? My friend and I are having a debate on this. If you're not good at something then don't do it That is a terrible mantra. Lose this ideal immediately if you want to succeed in anything. I mean that would make us all fake for having gone to school to learn and develop in the first place. You remain genuine as long as the goal is something you want. The difficult and uncomfortable bit is how you get there. This is where you can either make excuses at each hurdle by saying things like "it's not really me" or you can show some desire and willpo…	/r/seduction	13/12/13 09:24 AM
1	Drastically REDUCE flakes with these 2 Simple ideas I don't rate this guy at all. His 2 simple ideas are 1) Don't have shit conversation 2) Don't send long txts. No advice, just some arrogant guy demotivating his viewers.	/r/seduction	28/11/13 08:46 PM
16	How do you talk smoothly? If you're in a rush to find something to say you're gonna be in a rush to say it. So chill. Slow down. You're not in any hurry. I find the best conversation is all about them. Ask open ended questions and let them do the talking. It's also a good idea to try and stop falling back onto "um"s and "errr"s too often. One of my pet hates is when I'm talking to someone and they fill a sentence with more "like"s and "um"s than actual story. Don't be that guy.	/r/seduction	24/11/13 12:10 AM
2	LMR: Looking for an explanation for why this happens I'd say you're both right but fighting for 2 different outcomes. If OP wants a one night stand then there are ways he could go about getting laid but if he's after something more serious for himself then this girl's desires match his so whats the point in messing with that??	/r/seduction	23/11/13 11:10 PM
2	[xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 11/8/13 In that case how do you exercise frame control?	/r/seduction	08/11/13 08:34 PM
1	[xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 11/8/13 Damn. I was hoping you'd suggest yoga or something. You're saying that a strong frame can be developed though? It isn't something that you either have or you don't?	/r/seduction	08/11/13 07:40 PM
2	[xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 11/8/13 What's a good method of maintaining frame?	/r/seduction	08/11/13 06:52 PM
83	Good way to respond to compliments? "Thank you"	/r/seduction	07/11/13 11:28 AM
15	What's the alpha way to respond to an insult? Look. Pause. Carry on whatever you were doing.	/r/seduction	03/11/13 08:42 PM
10	How to react in front of D bag My reaction would be confusion. He's lowering his own value and giving you the perfect opportunity to be the bigger man. The best strategy would probably to say nothing but when someone is being overly critical or incredibly arrogant I'd give a puzzled look like 'who invited this guy?'.	/r/seduction	01/11/13 12:45 AM
2	Perpetual nervous stomach Sounds like you're in the midst of tackling your fear man. Anxiety is still there and won't leave just because you made your first 5 approaches. Keep approaching until it becomes second nature and you'll start to relax.	/r/seduction	28/10/13 05:32 PM
1	The Sex God Method: Inner Game of Sex Yeah I get it. It makes sense to me that if people had full confidence in their ability at having great sex then the rest would fall into place far more easily. You'd want to share that ability for mindblowing sex with all the beautiful women you can.	/r/seduction	19/10/13 10:32 PM
1	The Sex God Method: Inner Game of Sex what are those "other subs"?	/r/seduction	19/10/13 10:19 PM
2	The fickleness of the game sometimes makes me sick to my stomach. I want to make true connections with women, but I'm having a hard time. Make authenticity your goal. I still think this subreddit is a metaphor for self-improvement really. Focus on improving yourself in the areas you think that you're weakest means that the goal isn't a casual fuck, a relationship or whatever people want out of 'Game'. The goal becomes authenticity and being the best 'you' you can be. That's when real and meaningful relationships grow. Vulnerability is key.	/r/seduction	13/10/13 08:10 AM
1	Anxiety about closing leads to crappy conversation You need to focus on her. Her eyes, her hair and, most importantly, what she is saying. You'll get nowhere focusing on yourself because you'll be trying to control too much. Take a step back from the situation and when you feel more comfortable that is when you escalate. One step at a time. If it is the instant anxiety that hits when you think about making a move, then that is when you have to make the fight or flight choice. Make the 'flight' choice so unbearable that fighting is your only opti…	/r/seduction	12/10/13 10:29 AM
1	Read Models, but not have a question. Could I get that pdf too please?	/r/seduction	07/10/13 07:27 AM
1	This quote speaks words of wisdom and may clear up some inner game issues for some people For the curious, it's from Season 1 Episode 3 of Bored To Death	/r/seduction	08/05/13 07:54 PM