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day_dreamzzz_/r/seduction08/11/19 07:37 PM
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I was going say those are some interesting points you made, but then I realised you’re using AI
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 06:30 PM
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I get your probs just being hyperbolic but lol bro doesn’t have to pretend to be GAY.🤣 But in all serious seriousness, I think that’s a good way to go about it, for the most part. A lot of men cry about women being shallow or being hypergamous etc but they refuse to accept the ones who actually might be interested in them for who they are if they’re not attractive enough. And then they go on these RP and looksmaxxing arcs but never actually learn anything but surface stuff about human relationsh…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 05:35 AM
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I’m just curious, what are your standards? (I’m specifically asking about things that don’t relate to physical appearance)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 05:25 AM
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What happens if she doesn’t look good enough? What happens if she did previously, but life happened and affected her appearance? These all knowing men who are always looking out for women’s best interests don’t seem to have any answers for this
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 02:36 PM
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Bro if you don’t call Pearl a pickme… then what/who do you call a pick me?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 02:34 PM
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This should be discussed more. It’s a really stupid take and is an INTENTIONAL misunderstanding of the word cos why don’t guys try to specifically sort for Pick-me women? Then they wouldn’t have any problems in dating and relationships and would be unconcerned about the rest of women. On top of that most of the other women would observe and see it works… unless maybe it doesn’t?🤔 If there was any validity to this idea then why would we need a man to explain it to us as opposed to older women? He…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 02:31 PM
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You’re keep saying things like “where did I say this” “I didn’t say that” etc but the fact is that if you are defending redpill talking points then you need to actually engage with them, admit that’s the wider discussion. If you think it’s good that men know that women tend to like taller, richer, cooler etc then there’s no discussion to be had LITERALLY EVERYONE AGREES WITH YOU. The only disagreement is that redpillers don’t want to control women’s choices in your eyes. You ignored the rest of …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 12:42 PM
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Bro I JUST DID. You don’t have an argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 11:49 AM
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Nah bro. Most of them mean it as literally as can be. I get why you can extend understanding and good faith towards them, but it doesn’t mean we as women can or that you should start blurring things in an effort to create unity or whatever cos that’s basically just dishonest.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 11:46 AM
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I was gonna start explaining the same thing but then realised it’s just gonna be a big old whhhooooossssshhhhh. We gotta save ourselves the energy😆
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 11:42 AM
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I was gonna start explaining the same thing but then realised it’s just gonna be a big old whhhooooossssshhhhh. We gotta save ourselves the energy😆
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 11:42 AM
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Average men just need to have actual standards. Comparing yourselves to the CHADs is not going to get you that, it just breeds resentment. Most of this would be solved by men asking themselves does she like spending time with me if there is no incentive outside of good vibes and deep connections. If the answers is no then move on, you’re better alone than in bad company. Most of you don’t refuse to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 11:40 AM
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Considering how many women get abused, cheated on or assaulted etc I think there’s ALOT more validity in their social critique because they were actually wronged. Women not wanting to date certain men, even if it is the majority of them is not wrongful it’s just inconvenient to you guys. That can be difficult and many women would actually be willing to extend empathy in that regard but the issue is that MOST of the dialogue IS MORALISING women’s choices that are inconvenient to men. If you want …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 11:33 AM
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I don’t understand why men are pretending that they didn’t know women tend to like taller, richer, cooler etc. and that their wholes lives they were lied to. This is bullshit. It’s the same way women are dreadfully aware from an early age of the fact that men go for hotter and/or younger women. The people telling you to be kind, thoughtful etc did so because if you don’t have these things then Yh you need to make up for it in other ways. They didn’t/shouldn’t have told you that you can game the …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 11:17 AM
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He’s not going to engage lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 02:57 PM
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Something similar, a woman made a video explaining men should give a compliment in passing and just move onto the next topic of conversation. I think it’s good, it’s like I noticed this, and thought you should know, anyways what were we talking about? It’s a better vibe feels less intense, no ones gonna feel like their under a spotlight, but they’ll still feel noticed.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 07:39 AM
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I think he’s totally wrong, I think a lot women who like gay male romance or boy love etc (who I think are more often straight) like the romance and sexuality but there is a certain aspect of dominance/predation that is removed. And where there is domination (like in kink) maybe when consuming BL or gay media there’s more of a feeling that they are both willing participants and not that this is how the script has to go. Not sure that makes sense?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 05:04 AM
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Bro aren’t you lowkey admitting that everyone on this sub is only here not because they have any genuine insights but because they are LOsERs???
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 04:35 AM
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Dude really thinks the only reason he’s ugly is cos women have their own bank accounts🤣🤣🤣 He gave a bunch of disconnected anecdotes and figures (with zero sources) to try back his claim. He EVEN already knows the answer ( that women literally had no choice in the past), but chose to refute it because that narrative is inconvenient. And most impressively, he has concocted up the idea that higher birth rates in the past ( during times where there was no birth control, high infant mortality and lit…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 02:06 PM
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Most of men’s problems are actually caused by other men, which none of them will ever admit so they spend their time trying to discuss things, gain sympathy, attention or labour/support from women. Male programs face pushback? So what every major program faces pushback but people unite and stay COMMITTED to their causes whether it’s women, POCs, LGBTQ+ etc. One of the reasons that women, POC etc programs succeed is because charitable engagement (FREE LABOUR) is done by these groups OVERWHELMINGL…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 01:54 PM
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I wholeheartedly agree I’m waiting to see all the passionate engagement with this topic from lots of male Redditors to prove you wrong 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 03:36 AM
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Wtf are you talking about? I said that it is possible to be attracted to someone and really like them while making the conscious choice to not jump into bed with them. There are many good reasons to do this, even if it’s difficult and you’re horny. You’ve distorted everything I said, and I can’t understand you
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 07:55 PM
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I’m generalising most of the redpill stances, so the i guess I just assumed
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 07:50 PM
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Brotha, your acting like the advice that basically equates “just do what you wanna do” is something that women need to be educated on. Captain obvious
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 07:49 PM
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Ok, I’d largely agree, but you didn’t answer the question. Would you advise women to sleep with a quickly just to prove attraction or that they like him? It seems the answer is no.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 02:06 PM
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I don’t understand how any of you men can possibly agree with this but also want a woman who had a low body or is a virgin. If a woman has ever encounter a good looking man then she’d automatically sleep with them, inspite of all the reasons that delaying sex may bea good idea. You guys would be totally screwed by your own worldview. Under your worldview a woman’s value is reduced by taking on sexual partners, but you think a woman should be quick to sabotage herself by irreversibly reducing her…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 11:37 AM
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Maybe they are willing to do things with the attractive guys not actually because of their looks but because those guys may be less neurotic about sex/relationships and dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 05:46 PM
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Yh cos they are willing to date them, sleep with them but try to shame them. Just leave those women alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 07:33 AM
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Can you elaborate what you meant by “coordinate her friends for the move” if I understand correctly you were willing to assist in helping her move house but only by contributing orders and direction? I would probably find that enfuriating, not cos you don’t want to do physical labour for me but cos why would I let myself be bossed about by someone AND have to act grateful afterwards like you bestowed your grace upon me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 07:30 AM
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Which is why they lie and why the comment above yours is horseshit
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 05:22 AM
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Dude it’s ALWAYS been that way. Social media didn’t do anything, it just made this more apparent. Watch the show Mad Men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 07:10 AM
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Not gonna lie, with the way some men treat women they date( ie. Paid for the bill so expects something in return, involuntary intoxication, abusive relationships etc) and being a horny celibate woman. I honestly think it may signal a degree of honesty and humility. I would never myself (religious reasons), and I definitely don’t want that in a partner but if everything else is going really well I think I’d try see if I can accept it. I can’t say I’m totally open to it but I also can’t say it’s a…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 07:43 AM
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But you just admitted he touched you, he didn’t try to go straight in there
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 01:04 PM
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Why do women need to address this? If men were to collectively raise their standards then women would respond to that. I don’t get why men keep defending themselves for having low standards (likely cos of scarcity mindset). You guys KNOWINGLY pick low hanging fruit women then later cry that they taste weird or are spoilt. A lot of women choose poorly cos of not seeing through deceptions (even when they may be obvious) but you guys know exactly what you’re getting from the start. You’re better si…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 12:10 PM
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To be fair, (I know I’m reaching but hear me out) very tall and well built men may not know why certain things can make a woman uncomfortable cause he only sees things from his perspective and realistically very few people could ever be a threat to him. That doesn’t mean he isn’t empathetic tho, just that he wouldn’t notice certain things until he’s spent a lot of time with a woman or had her spell things out.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 12:41 PM
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Yh…and??? That doesn’t change anything cos non virgin men and virgin men a like want premarital sex. Unless a man is willing to wait TIL marriage he shouldn’t be taken seriously if this the opinion he has.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 01:08 PM
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I don’t think you’re properly listening. The praise women get for being virgins is hollow at best. Overwhelmingly men talk your praises and simultaneously try to pressure you or even trick you into premarital sex. And then they rinse and repeat. Men really have so little ability to see outside of themselves that they cannot fathom even the basic consequences of this idea. If a woman has one relationship single that doesn’t work out then she’s “damaged goods” and condemned to single or treated as…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 01:05 PM
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The problem is that most men would never wait til marriage if they actually do meet a virgin woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 06:50 AM
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Even if nothing comes of it. You should be proud of yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 11:57 PM
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I get he may not anymore and that you can’t prove it in the past but even “hear say” accounts can be used as supporting evidence if something there or ever is an investigation
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 01:02 AM
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Maybe you still can. He may still be doing it. It is rape. I get going to file a report is a hassle but honestly it may actually help someone without you even knowing
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 10:30 AM
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I think you should report that to the police
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 12:40 AM
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If he ain’t asking for the time or directions, then Yh something is up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 02:25 PM
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Do you guys watched Stefan molyneux? He talks about homeschooling and raising your children to see through mainstream culture.
/r/MGTOW218/03/21 02:23 PM
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All forms of investment are risky. Women tend to be less risk averse than men and more prone to negative emotions (which one would experience immediately after taking a massive risk) so for the most part that explains it. I don’t really understand why this is to be criticised or why you say women don’t want to build etc. It’s good that the same people that give birth, breast feed and do most childminding avoid risks and priorise security even if that may leave them behind in some areas.
/r/MGTOW205/02/21 06:16 PM
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Ok but then it has nothing to do with criminality it’s just a halo effect based on physical attractiveness
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/20 09:36 AM
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A lot of people are basically replying “nice guys finish last”. I think that people are missing the point. If you take away the abusive, violent or criminal behaviours what do these men have left that going for them. They make the women that duck them see them as powerful and make them covet their attention. There are ways to do this without picking broken girls, beating or abusing them, engaging in criminality etc. I’ve met guys who weren’t particularly attractive or masculine but were whores a…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/20 07:14 PM
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I don’t know what a fuck tone sounds like?
/r/seduction06/06/20 09:27 AM
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I see no reason why can’t you do both?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/20 07:12 AM
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Pick-me girl = I’m not like all the other girls girl = I’m the cool girl Has nothing to do with being a slut or not (although slut-shaming is often used by them) They shit on girls making generalised statements to try elevate themselves “I don’t know why guys go for girls like her? They should pick me, im not like the other girls, I’m the cool girl”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 06:52 AM
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Enjoying challenge and hard work isn’t a marker for being interesting it shows your industrial and proactive. While it is often negative to be the opposite of these things (i.e. lazy or passive) it doesn’t make you boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 06:44 AM
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The lesson here is don’t take/ send nudes. It’s pretty simple. Giving someone nudes is like passing them a loaded gun and then being upset when you get shot. Don’t fucking trust anyone to not show others cos it may happen by accident and then you can’t say they betrayed you but the damage would still be done so JUST DONT DO IT.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 10:30 PM
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Yh so apparently this is something women en masse don’t do. I’m always encouraging my mum to just go out, take a fun class, do dumb fun things just for the sake of enjoying them. etc. I don’t know if it’s cos women don’t naturally assert themselves and their needs or cos to some extent they are conditioned not to but it actually begins before they have kids, like when they are in relationships, they stop doing the things that they enjoy just to keep someone else happy. It’s utterly sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/19 10:35 AM
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Go with your gut, it’s something people don’t do enough, so they often don’t recognise it in the moment But ALWAYS remember in hindsight. GO WITH YOUR GUT PEOPLE.
/r/seduction14/11/19 06:13 AM
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I’m learning that reddit is a labyrinth
/r/seduction08/11/19 11:05 PM
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I see what you’re saying
/r/seduction08/11/19 10:12 PM
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I dont really get why everyone says that women aren't involuntarily celibate because because they choose to not get pumped and dumped. the point is that: male incels= want sex (not with prostitutes) but dont get it female incels= want commited/meaningful relationships (usually where sex is involved) but dont get it ​ why is the female plight generally devalued?
/r/seduction08/11/19 09:51 PM
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I’m invisible to guys. I’m not joking. And I don’t get it cos I’m a bit overweight but I’m not huge and I see girls my size having no problems. The only time I’m approached is by old/middle aged men. I’m 23. And it’s been like that since My late teens. But I spent last year abroad and I actually got a fair bit of male attention, usually from guys slightly older than me so I’m really confused. What’s wrong with me where I live???
/r/seduction28/10/19 11:14 PM
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