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dazhealy2/r/seduction06/01/19 04:47 PM
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I'm slightly jealous, my parents half-heartedly considered calling me Valentino (supposed to be due on Feb 14) but went with something else. I've wondered woud my relationships with women be different if they had called me that, if the "pressure" of living up to the name would changed how I interact with women; like a sort of self-fulfilling prophecy, or whether I'd still be in the same place.
/r/seduction07/01/19 12:16 AM
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If she knew he harboured feelings beyond friendship and did nothing to address that dynamic then she shares a small amount of the responsibility in my eyes.
/r/seduction23/10/17 11:28 AM
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I went through this with my best friend at 17. We're still good friends today because I kept no contact and figured out that I was a nice guy. Don't talk to her, just say you need your space and that if you can still be friends at the end you'll of course get back on to her. There is no hope of being more than friends. Forget it completely. You've gotten to this point by being hopeful even when you had nothing to be hopeful for, for your own sake let her go.
/r/seduction23/10/17 11:22 AM
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I'd like the answer to this question myself. I've been bartending on/off for a couple years and I've definitely had instances where girls were EOI's etc. but in all the places I've worked I've never been given shifts where I can just casually chat away. There's always another customer that needs a drink, a tray of glasses to clean, a counter to wipe. I can't just ignore my work to chat up some hot girl.
/r/seduction19/10/17 02:14 PM
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I asked the internet what the best way to start a conversation with you was. They said to say "Hey"
/r/seduction14/10/17 01:40 PM
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Actually eye contact does help build attraction. The longer a couple on a date make eye contact, the more likely they are to kiss on a date.
/r/seduction13/09/17 10:36 AM
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This reeks of desperation man.
/r/seduction01/07/17 03:06 PM
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While I haven't given up alcohol I do take extended breaks every year or so for my own sake. Going can be difficult, but it's simply a matter of getting into the right frame of mind. I come from a country that LOVES its alcohol, and some friends have been belligerent into trying to get me to have a drink. Hopefully, the fact that you're attending meetings should shut them up pretty quick. If they don't stop I'd recommend dropping them as friends. The great thing about alcohol in social situation…
/r/seduction17/06/17 10:25 PM
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Your first and only mistake (bar maybe smoking weed beforehand, 4/20blazeit and being disorganised) was picking a movie as a first date. In theory, movies are great - you have something to talk about afterwards. In reality, it's an hour and a half of not being able to flirt, limited kino opportunities (the arm around the shoulder is a BIG, awkward move initially unless you've already made out), and not looking directly at each other (v. important for building attraction). It also doesn't paint y…
/r/seduction14/06/17 03:31 AM
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Dance in a club or dance like the tango? The former is rhythm and not giving a shit what you look like, the latter is classes.
/r/seduction25/05/17 10:07 PM
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I've been using Tinder on and off for a while now, I'm slowly coming to the realisation it's awful. It's hard for me to say, but I'd say 1 date in 50 matches isn't terrible. I remember doing the maths a few months ago based on figures released by tinder and on average you get like 1.7/8 matches per 100 swipes (obv some people do a lot better). So if you're consistently getting 2 matches a day you're above average.
/r/seduction19/03/17 11:56 PM
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For the initial titration yes, I found it very difficult to connect with any emotion, whether I was just goofing off between class with friends or talking to people. That passed after about 3 months though.
/r/seduction21/02/17 06:40 PM
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Methylphenidate Hydrochloride (Ritalin/Concerta) Makes a massive difference to my everyday social interactions in general, not just in seduction. Far easier to converse with people and think clearly, far easier to "live in the moment" and remain focused on a girl/conversation without drifting off into my own head and missing things, I'm more co-ordinated physically, easier to control what I'm eating so obvious health benefits (compulsive eater w/ anxiety), easier to maintain eye contact, I could…
/r/seduction21/02/17 05:17 PM
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Exactly!
/r/seduction28/08/16 08:28 AM
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For the record I'm diagnosed adult ADHD, anxiety, and social anxiety. All of which are related to poor social issues. Eye contact is definitely one of the easiest things to get used to, despite the awkwardness I feel when looking new people in the eye. Some things I've found that help: Holding eye contact with strangers in the street: Simply maintain their eye contact until they glance away, then continue on as usual. I remember another redditor who used this same advice saying that he wore sung…
/r/seduction27/08/16 11:36 AM
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if it's stupid and it works, it ain't stupid!
/r/seduction26/08/16 12:58 PM
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MDMA makes me the person I want to be, that's why I only do it rarely now. Being the person I want to be is going to take a lot more effort than just dropping a bomb.
/r/seduction23/08/16 11:22 AM
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What are you quoting? Or are you trying to imply that you can only have meaningful relationships and great sex if you live in a city.
/r/seduction20/08/16 10:57 AM
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If you care enough about picking up chicks to frequent here, you need to live in a city even if it's small. Or you could live the life you want to live, moving because you want to chase tail sounds really desperate in my mind.
/r/seduction19/08/16 08:50 AM
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How do you know what you look like when you're smiling? Are you posing in photographs and think it looks fake? Do you look at yourself in the mirror? Have you seen candid photos of yourself, does your smile look real in them? The trick to having a genuine smile is in the eyes. That's what makes a forced smile so obvious, even though your face is pulling your mouth into the right shape, your eyes remain in their original shape. Fortunately, you can train yourself to have a genuine smile even when…
/r/seduction16/08/16 09:18 AM
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I'm in a very similar situation, and I'm far from an expert here, so I won't offer much in the way of advice. What I will say is you need to ask that girl out, or else find other girls. Your post reeks of "oneitis", and if I was to guess I'd say your post was prompted by something you saw between your co-workers recently. You're jealous and looking for someone to tell you what to do. If you browse here at all, you already know what you have to do. Either grab the opportunity with your co-worker,…
/r/seduction13/08/16 10:51 AM
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I disdain people who claim violence is never acceptable. Violence is often a justifiable and proper response. I don't disagree with anything else you said to OP, this wasn't a situation where violence was warranted. He should just have disengaged, but to claim that violence is never acceptable is a childish attitude that shows ignorance of how the real world works.
/r/seduction05/08/16 08:51 AM
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This sub isn't about pick-up or seduction (per se). It's about helping you be the best man you can be in through self-improvement, pickup is just your reward for attaining that sense of self. Challenging yourself, going outside your comfort zone, will make you less insecure.
/r/seduction26/02/16 08:31 AM
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Then they would just be challenges you've faced and overcome. Still a valid place to show vulnerability from, your just showing vulnerability AND growth. I don't know what your motivation to deal with your insecuities is, I'm working in mine because they limit me. Not because I feel pressure from my peers to change. If peer pressure is whats driving you then I wouldn't say thats very confident at all
/r/seduction26/02/16 08:27 AM
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Be secure in your insecurities. We all have our failings and weaknesses, the important thing is to demonstrate that these are failings you have overcome (or are working on), and that you aren't afraid of what others might think of them or you. That's inner game to me.
/r/seduction26/02/16 04:50 AM
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I'm not the tallest (6ft), but what I've noticed is that smallest girls tend to go for the stockier dudes (guys who lift, not fatties). Guess it's to compensate for feeling so physically unsafe when your petite or something.
/r/seduction05/02/16 02:43 PM
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Relax, losing your virginity is not as big a deal as it's made out to be. You might come too early, you might not come at all, you might be driving her wild, you might be driving her to distraction. Relax, enjoy it, and be as receptive to your partner as you can be. If she's more experienced she might take the lead a small bit, communicate, talk, make her feel appreciated and all will be well.
/r/seduction20/01/16 03:01 PM
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Pick-up girls who aren't catholic. I live in a very catholic country, if you're waiting for marriage though, your seen as weird. Also long-term sexual compatability is way too important an aspect of a relationship to ignore until after the marriage.
/r/seduction20/01/16 02:39 PM
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I like your attitude.
/r/seduction10/01/16 02:33 PM
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Trying to create a play list for that exact reason. Love this song, the lyrics are a bit strange but it's pretty damn sexy. Toes by Glass Animals
/r/seduction07/01/16 04:23 PM
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If you wouldn't bring her to your place, why would you stick your dick in her?
/r/seduction05/01/16 03:08 PM
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OP answered in more detail to another comment below.
/r/seduction15/12/15 10:54 PM
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I'm not a fire-fighter, nor do I have any idea if I'm right, but I imagine his 100+ weeks involve a significant amount of being "on call", at the station. Not really down-time, but he's probably not busting ass all the time either.
/r/seduction15/12/15 05:50 PM
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Don't tell him, tell the mods.
/r/seduction07/12/15 07:51 AM
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Which is solved by getting better pics. I used to be huge, and I didnt get many messages. I've lost a lot of weight the past year, and now I have some good pictures and I do better. It's pretty simple.
/r/seduction07/12/15 07:50 AM
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Depends what you mean by similar content. /u/Mensrights offers a lot of perspective on male sociological issues, and really opened my eyes to the failings of feminism. While it's not as misogynistically toxic as the red pill, it does attract a lot of the same type. I usually found that outright misogyny was quickly downvoted. I left because it was otherwise toxic and bleak. /r/Menslib is a feminist subreddit for men to discuss their issues. /r/OneY is a place to discuss mens issues. /r/MGTOW is …
/r/seduction01/12/15 05:33 PM
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The biggest issue would be the different sex rives and expectations each partner has on the other. Yes this can be how frequently each you have sex, but it could be dealing with a whole heap of other sexual issues as well from kinks, to preferences, to fears. Of course they can be discussed before marriage, but it's hard to have an honest discussion about something you're both clueless about. For example, how would you react if your partner pulled away from you distraught at your touch, because …
/r/seduction08/11/15 11:34 AM
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The same advice as anyone else here get's read, practice, report. I know you probably won't be swayed on this, but sexual compatability with your future partner is just as important as mental and spiritual compatability. It's far too risky, and far too important an aspect of a relationship to ignore until you're already married in my opinion. But it's your life at the end of the day!
/r/seduction06/11/15 09:54 AM
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I've only been browsing here a short time, but even I've noticed a sharp decline in post quality. /r/askseddit is vastly under used, most beginner questions seem to go here now. This greatly impacts on the quality of posts we get too, which is why there's so many "Should I ask her out?" type questions (Gentlemen, I'm a beginner at best, but the answer is obviously going to be a resounding YES). Finally there are vastly different levels of respect found among the commenters here. Most commenters …
/r/seduction23/10/15 10:38 AM
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