Dancing Guide ?

Woujo · 2017-05-25T21:03:05+00:00

Fuck dancing bro, you need to spend women telling them your incredible story about what it's like to be deaf for your whole life and then getting your hearing back.

Holy shit!! I can't even imagine what that's like!!

Can you tell us?

failatsomething · 2017-05-25T20:58:37+00:00

Take a class, dude. Your local community college will have one for like 9 dollars for a semester where you'll be one of 10 dudes in a 50 person class.

You'll meet women, you'll learn to dance, you'll learn to lead.

dazhealy2 · 2017-05-25T22:07:00+00:00

Dance in a club or dance like the tango?

The former is rhythm and not giving a shit what you look like, the latter is classes.

recyclablebanthas · 2017-05-26T10:52:13+00:00

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...have been deaf most of my life. Over the last 18 months I have received treatment that allows me to hear more than just Bass (lol!) .

First, of course this is awesome. But don't lead with this story. This sort of story is AWESOME if people kind of stumble on it. Like make a side comment about how something is still weird or foreign to you about hearing things others take for granted. Let them uncover why that is. As opposed to just dumping it on them, which will not be as effective. Finding an indirect way to refer to this story, and getting others to dig it up, is WAY better.

Secondly, bass is actually a pretty important part of music, and as the backbone, being able to follow this, is key. Melody, words, etc., this is the extra stuff that you get to play with. Like doing some movement to the words. (If the song says, "get low," actually bring your body down. It's silly, but fun.)

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I am a young man, I am eager to go out and dance. But can someone recommend me how to start ? Just the basics of male movement on the dance floor ?

Forget about calling this "male movement." It's all just dance and the best way to think of it, is as a language. Or each dance as a language. Some of them share vocabulary. And taking classes in any dance, will help.

For club dancing: a hip-hop class will help because the "vocabulary" from such a course will be easily transferable for techno, hip-hop, etc. Especially since hip-hop elements have come to permeate most music in some way, at this point.
For any partner dancing: sign up for a class also.

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For dancing, seeking out a university or college that offers a 1 credit class in dance, is the most cost effective way, as failatsomething said.

Then you get 1-2 classes a week for a few hours, plus you'll have access to the instructor to ask questions during office hours, if you get stuck on something. BEST value for the money, you just need to be able to handle the lump sign needed to sign up.

sergeant_flem · 2017-05-26T15:08:08+00:00

I'd recommend learning some basic salsa and hip hop, it'll get you dancing better both when you're with girls and dancing by yourself.

Better yet I would highly recommend bachata

Freeecheeese · 2017-05-26T16:33:26+00:00

Do you have any friends or same-age family who like to go dancing? Ask them to take you! While you're out, have a look at what other people are doing and try copying their movements if you think it looks cool. Dancing is really about having a good time and enjoying the music, so as long as you're doing that, you're golden.

Title	Dancing Guide ?
Author	themanwhocando
Upvotes	13
Comments	9
Date	May 25, 2017 8:45 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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